透过繁华，静谧以明志。

Through the bustling, serenity manifests resolve.

1. 最大的事，是世事；最重的情，是人情。洞明世事，便可大事化小；练达人情，方能举重若轻。

1. The greatest matter is the affairs of the world, and the heaviest sentiment is human affection. To understand the world's affairs clearly, one can turn the great into the small; and to master human sentiments, one can lift the heavy as if it were light.

2. 庄严别人，便是庄严自己。恭敬他者，就是恭敬自家。

2. To dignify others is to dignify oneself. To respect others is to respect oneself.

3. 28我们要认识自己，不断审视自己，这是我们一生中要努力追寻地目标。哪一种事情适合自己干？应该做什么，不应该做什么？有了一个坚定的目标，并付诸行动，成功指日可待。

3. 28 We need to understand ourselves, constantly examine ourselves, which is a goal we should strive for throughout our lives. What kind of things are suitable for us to do? What should we do, and what should we not do? With a firm goal and taking action, success is just around the corner.

4. 16改变不了世界，那就试着改变自己，世界万事万物都处于一个系统中。

4. One cannot change the world with 16, so try to change yourself instead. Everything in the world is part of a system.

5. 43如果我早该看透一切，那么你是不是会一直爱我。

5. If I should have seen through everything earlier, would you have loved me all the time?

6. 3时间能让人看透人心，看清自私，看清一切原本就错误的决定。

6. Time can reveal the depths of one's heart, expose selfishness, and make clear all the originally wrong decisions.

7. 曾经的热血一腔，终撂荒。心中的一团正气，仍须养。前者或许短，后者千年长。

7. Once full of enthusiasm, now left to waste. The pure spirit within still needs nurturing. The former may be short-lived, but the latter can span a thousand years.

8. 49不知感恩的人，就是蛇，把你的恩情，转身就忘。用得上你时，对你点头哈腰；用不上你时，对你冷冷冰冰。

8. 49 The ungrateful person is like a serpent, forgetting your kindness as soon as it turns its back. When they need you, they bow and scrape before you; when they don't need you, they treat you coldly.

9. 35看淡，是人生的第三境界。凡事超然物外，凡事看淡，这是大智慧。能够将功名利禄置身度外，将世间的所有看淡，人生经过沉淀和历练之后，或许才能到达这一境界。看淡，或金钱，或名利，都抛之度外。这是何等气度，何等境界。人生短短数十载，自我价值的实现和幸福的归属感，超然物外。看淡，是人生的第三境界。

9. 35. Detaching oneself from the pursuit of fame and fortune is the third level of life's wisdom. To transcend all material things, to take everything lightly, this is great wisdom. One who can set aside the pursuit of power, wealth, and fame, who can take lightly all that the world has to offer, perhaps only after life has been refined and experienced, can reach this level. To take things lightly, whether it be money or fame, is to put them all aside. What a magnanimous demeanor, what a level of accomplishment. Life is but a short span of several decades, the realization of self-worth and the sense of belonging to happiness transcend all material things. To take things lightly is the third level of life's wisdom.

10. 2有的时候你竭尽全力的付出，因为没有把委屈和怨言藏好，最后你拼尽所有做的事在别人眼里也不值得一提，呵呵，几岁的女孩在别人的帮忙下自己花钱自己装修，每一天楼来回跑N遍，天知道我有多累多无助，最后换来你不就装个修么，我用了将近年的时间才看透你看透人心，你让我知道了什么是绝望，干的漂亮，从今以后我只为自己而活，你们这些人此时此刻在我心里什么都不是，我没有勇气离开，我对未来没有计划，我想你主动离开会是最好的结局，随时滚出我的世界。

10.2 Sometimes, despite your utmost efforts, because you didn't hide your grievances and complaints well, the things you do with all your might are considered trivial in others' eyes. Haha, a girl of a few years old, with others' help, spends her own money to decorate her own place, running up and down the building N times a day. No one knows how tired and helpless I am. In the end, all you've done is a bit of decoration. It took me nearly a year to see through you and see through people's hearts. You've taught me what despair is. Well done. From now on, I will only live for myself. None of you matter to me at this moment. I don't have the courage to leave, and I have no plans for the future. I think it would be the best outcome if you leave on your own initiative. Get out of my world anytime you want.

11. 29所到之处，都萦绕着一缕清新的薄荷味道，令人就此沉沦。

11. At every place the 29th arrived, a refreshing mint scent lingered, drawing people into a deep infatuation.

12. 23我所认为最深沉的爱，莫过于分开以后，我将自我，活成了你的样貌。

12. 23 The deepest love I believe in is the one where, after parting, I have lived myself into the likeness of you.

13. 32如果曾经说的那些承诺已不属于我，沉默只是代表一种自责。

13. If the promises that were once made no longer belong to me, silence only represents a sense of guilt.

14. 37紧紧的抱着你嘴里对你说着再见但是双手却迟迟不肯放开。

14. 37紧紧地抱着你，嘴里说着再见，但双手却迟迟不肯放开.

15. 天地之间只有一样东西——善变。万事万物只有一个名字——无常。

15. Between heaven and earth, there is only one thing — changeability. All things and beings have only one name — impermanence.

16. 22遇到一件事，如果你——喜欢它，那么享受它；不喜欢，那么避开它；避不开，那么改变它；改不了，那么理解它；理解不下，那么处理它；难以处理，那么就放下它。其实，人最难的是“放下”。放下了，就释然了。

16. When you encounter a situation, if you like it, enjoy it; if you don't, avoid it; if you can't avoid it, change it; if you can't change it, understand it; if you can't understand it, deal with it; if it's hard to deal with, let it go. In fact, the hardest thing for a person to do is "letting go." Once you let it go, you will feel at ease.

17. 23一个人要赢得另一个人很容易，那就是学会着吃亏。孩子，这个世界上没有人喜欢爱占便宜的人，但所有人都喜欢爱吃亏的人。你想着吃亏的时候，就会赢得别人；那个懂得以更大的吃亏方式来回报你的人，是你赢得的朋友。

17. It's easy for one person to win another's favor, that is, by learning to be accommodating. Child, in this world, no one likes a person who always seeks personal gain, but everyone likes a person who is willing to make sacrifices. When you think of being accommodating, you will win others' favor; the person who understands how to repay you with even greater accommodation is the friend you have won.

18. 9厌倦了那些人冷漠的神情，看透了那些人虚伪的嘴脸。

18. 9 Tired of the indifferent expressions of those people, I've seen through the fake masks of those individuals.

19. 36时间，能看透人心，看清整个世界。慢慢的，一切都会沉淀，一切都会安静，一切也都会过去。渐渐的，时间就是距离，时间就是无奈，时间更是无法预约的结局。拥有的，舍不得的，在乎的，乃至刻骨铭心的，其实都交给了时间。时间，只是一个说明，一种证明，一次生命的旅行。

19. In 36 hours, one can see through people's hearts and understand the entire world. Slowly, everything will settle, everything will be quiet, and everything will pass. Gradually, time becomes distance, time becomes helplessness, and time is an appointment that cannot be made. What one has, what one is reluctant to let go of, what one cares about, and even what is etched in one's memory, are all entrusted to time. Time is just an explanation, a proof, and a journey of life.

20. 32清澈不在远方，而在心底，只有心是清澈的，才能看透世间万物。

20. The clarity is not far away, it is in the heart. Only a clear heart can see through all things in the world.

21. 18真想回到过去，抛开那些人言可畏的东西不顾一切的回到过去……人常说，时间是好东西，能够看透人心！但是看透人心之后，是多么的心凉和绝望。

21. 18 really wish to return to the past, disregarding those terrifying things and returning to the past with all one's might... People often say that time is a good thing, capable of seeing through people's hearts! But after seeing through people's hearts, how chilling and desperate it becomes.

22. 13看透了一切，便学会无言地伤痛，无声地落泪。

22. 13 Once everything is seen through, one learns to hurt silently and to weep without a sound.

23. 50女人，看透一切，努力成为一个完美的人才是最重要的。

23. 50 women, seeing through everything, striving to become a perfect person is the most important.

24. 23时间，验证了人心；金钱，见证了人性；交往，懂得了真的，明白了假的。没有过不去的经历，只有走不出的自己。人生，没必要总是怨自己，努力了、珍惜了、问心无愧就好！

24. At 23 o'clock, it verified the hearts of people; money witnessed the nature of humanity; through interactions, we understand the truth and comprehend the false. There are no experiences that cannot be overcome, only oneself that one cannot escape. Life does not require that one always blame oneself; if you have tried hard, cherished, and have no regrets in your heart, that is enough!

25. 10对你而言，他是你没有归宿放逐。任你看遍世间纷扰，看透凡尘情爱，含泪期盼，却只为他渐行渐远的身影转身回望的一刻。

25. To you, he is the exile without a destination you have no place to belong. No matter how much you witness the turmoil of the world, see through the passions of the mundane, and yearn with tears, it is only for the moment when you turn back and watch his increasingly distant figure.

26. 有一种畅快叫有仇报仇，有一种活该叫自作自受。

26. There is a kind of satisfaction in getting revenge on one's enemies, and there is a kind of justice called "reap what one has sown."

27. 14我总想把你看的很清楚，可到头来却是看透你而自己选择离去。

27. 14 I always wanted to see you clearly, but in the end, it was seeing through you that led me to choose to leave.

28. 28真爱就像幽灵，人人都谈论它，可却从未有人真正见过它。

28. True love is like a ghost; everyone talks about it, but no one has ever truly seen it.

29. 25遇到你之前，我以为爱是惊天动地，爱是轰轰烈烈抵死缠绵；我以为爱是荡气回肠，爱是热血沸腾幸福满满；我以为爱是窒息疯狂，爱是炙热的火炭。婚姻生活牵手走过酸甜苦辣温馨与艰难，我开始懂得——爱是经得起平淡的流年。

29. Before meeting you, I thought love was earth-shattering, a passionate and relentless embrace; I thought love was soul-stirring, a boiling hot, happiness-filled passion; I thought love was suffocating madness, a scorching ember. Walking through the ups and downs of married life, with its sweetness, sourness, bitterness, spiciness, warmth, and difficulties, I began to understand — love is enduring through the mundane years.

30. 38芳华弹指一挥间，唯愿心不老………时间是个好东西，一天天看透人心，一天天带走坏的东西，留下的都是美好的回忆！

30. The fleeting years of youth slip away with a mere flick of the finger, may only our hearts remain young... Time is a good thing, day by day it reveals the hearts of men, day by day it takes away the bad, leaving behind only beautiful memories!

31. 44人人都说我傻 只是她们不知道 我不是傻只是习惯了沉默与付出。

31. Everyone says I'm foolish, but they don't know that I'm not foolish; I'm just accustomed to silence and giving.

32. 22你不要一向不满人家，你就应一向检讨自己才对。不满人家，是苦了你自己。

32. 22 Do not always be dissatisfied with others; instead, you should always examine yourself. Being dissatisfied with others only brings suffering to yourself.

33. 22“我们老得太快，却聪明得太迟。”不要等到风景都看透，再去感思。

33. 22 "We age too quickly, but become wise too late." Don't wait until all the scenery is seen through to start reflecting on it.

34. 人旁边那个，便是不真；病里面那个，才是智深。

34. The one next to the person is not genuine; the one within the illness is the one with profound wisdom.

35. 19我们常常感叹世风日下，世态炎凉，愤懑不已。却不小心活着活着，自己也慢慢活成那种人。我们也常感叹人心难测，慢慢的为了自保，自己也变得深不可测。

35. 19 We often sigh over the degeneration of society and the coldness of human nature, feeling indignant. Yet, without realizing it, as we go on living, we gradually become the very people we used to complain about. We also often say that people's hearts are hard to fathom, and gradually, in order to protect ourselves, we ourselves become unfathomable.

36. 48每个人都拥有一次生命，没有谁的生命比别人的更尊贵，也没有谁的生命比别人的更卑贱。问题在于并不是每个人都懂得生命的意义，懂得珍惜自己的生命。珍惜生命的人，懂得好好活着，生命对于他来说是恩赐；畏惧生命的人，撑着不死，生命对于他们来说反而成了负担。

36. 48 Every person has only one life, and no one's life is more noble or more despicable than another's. The issue is that not everyone understands the meaning of life or values their own life. Those who cherish life know how to live well, and for them, life is a gift; those who fear life merely endure, and for them, life becomes a burden instead.

37. 40以为看透所有，以为沉默，却不知，都只是一种自慰的想法。

37. At 40, one thinks one has seen through everything, one thinks silence is the answer, yet one does not realize that it's all just a form of self-comforting thought.

38. 42朋友就是在看透了你一切缺点之后还要和你在一起的人。

38. 42 A friend is someone who stays with you even after seeing all your flaws.

39. 你看这“假”字，边上总站着个人；你看这“痴”字，被病包了一身。

39. Look at the character "假" (fake), there's always a person standing beside it; look at the character "痴" (foolish), it's wrapped in illness all over.

40. 4日久不必须生情，但必定见人心。有时候也怕，时间会说出真话。

40. It's not necessary to develop affection over a long period, but it will definitely reveal people's hearts. Sometimes I also fear that time will reveal the truth.

41. 3单身久了再碰到喜欢的人，突然害怕也会笑着摇摇头说算了。

41. 3 After being single for a long time and encountering someone you like, you suddenly become afraid and end up smiling while shaking your head and saying it's okay.

42. 做事不要太过，做人不要太绝。天道忌满，地道慈悲；人悖天地，定受其毁。

42. Do not overdo things, and do not be too extreme in your conduct. The heavens and the earth abhor excess; benevolence is the way of the earth. If one goes against the ways of heaven and earth, they are sure to suffer their wrath.

43. 9人生首先需要的是望远镜，看远，再就是显微镜，看细，接下来是放大镜，看透，其次是太阳镜，看淡。

43. What humans first need is a telescope to look far, followed by a microscope to look closely, then a magnifying glass to look through, and next are sunglasses to look at things with a light heart.

44. 那最娇艳的，都历过风霜。那最青郁的，都经了风雨。

44. The most resplendent have all withstood the vicissitudes of life. The most verdant have all endured the storms and rains.

45. 36难受过，痛苦过，直到最后失去所有，才看透。

45. I have suffered and endured pain, until I finally lost everything, only then did I see through it.

46. 1放下一切，心就现前；放下一切，才能见到事实真相。

46. 1 Let go of everything, and the mind is present; let go of everything, and you can see the true nature of facts.

47. 非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远，用现代话来说：“不把眼前的名利看得轻淡就不会有明确的志向，不能平静安详全神贯注地学习就不能实现远大的目标”。

47. "Without detachment, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve great things. In modern terms, this means: 'If one does not view the fame and fortune at hand lightly, one will not have a clear aspiration. If one cannot study calmly, attentively, and focused, one will not be able to realize grandiose goals.'"

48. ❽独处不是寂寞，而是与自己的深度和解。

48. Solitude is not loneliness, but a deep reconciliation with oneself.

49. 6芳华弹指一挥间，唯愿心不老………时间是个好东西，一天天看透人心，一天天带走坏的东西，留下的都是美好的回忆！

49. The flowers of youth are gone in a blink of an eye, I only wish my heart remains young... Time is a good thing, it peels away at the essence of people's hearts day by day, and takes away the bad, leaving behind only beautiful memories!

50. 37马不停蹄的错过，轻而易举的辜负，不知不觉的陌路。

50. 37 Missed opportunities without a break, easily betrayed, and unknowingly becoming strangers.

51. 34时间真的是个好东西，他能让你看透人心，看清事实，只是希望这一切不要来的太晚，一切似乎真如那些人所说：过程不重要，结果才是导向！你的真心跟辛苦付出他们是永远不会在乎的！所以，要学会不要太那么认真去对待某些事……致自己。

51. 34 Time really is a good thing; it can allow you to see through people's hearts and see the truth. I just hope that all of this doesn't come too late, and everything seems to be true as those people say: it's not the process that matters, it's the result that counts! They will never care about your sincerity or your hard work! So, learn not to take certain things too seriously... To myself.

52. 淡泊”是一种古老的道家思想，老子就曾说“恬淡为上，胜而不美”。后世一直继承赞赏这种“心神恬适”的意境，如白居易在《问秋光》一诗中，“身心转恬泰，烟景弥淡泊”。他反映了作者心无杂念，凝神安适，不限于眼前得失的那种长远而宽阔的境界。“非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远”。

52. "Moderation" is an ancient Taoist thought, as Laozi once said, "Indifference is the highest, and victory is not beautiful." Later generations have inherited and praised this "state of tranquil and comfortable mind," as seen in Bai Juyi's poem "Inquire about the Autumn Light," where he writes, "The body and mind become tranquil and serene, and the scenery becomes more indifferent." This reflects the author's state of mind with no杂 thoughts, focused and at ease, not confined to the immediate gains and losses. "Without moderation, one cannot clarify one's ambitions; without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant."

53. 13人生没有花常开，有甜有苦有无奈，人生如潮水，总有潮涨潮落之时，如天上之月，有盈也有亏，人生的精彩不仅仅在于获得成功时的欢呼雀跃，也在于失败时对于未来成功的憧憬，和再次整装出发的勇气，生活中，聚聚散散总难免，一切能随缘，顺其自然最好，相聚相拥时好好把握，好好珍惜，分开离去时，潇洒微笑说珍重。

53. Life is not always as sweet as a blooming flower; it has its sweetness, bitterness, and helplessness. Life is like the ebb and flow of the tides, there are always times of high tide and low tide, just like the moon in the sky, which has both its full and waning phases. The splendor of life is not only in the joy and excitement of achieving success but also in the aspiration for future success during failure, and the courage to start anew. In life, gatherings and separations are inevitable; everything should go with the flow, and it's best to embrace nature's course. When we are together and embrace each other, hold on and cherish those moments. When it's time to part and leave, smile carefree and say "take care."