成年的路上，清醒前行，心向光明。

On the path to adulthood, walk with clarity and let your heart be filled with light.

1. ❶后来才懂，真正的温柔，是经历了混乱之后，内心的有序与笃定。

1. ❶ It was only later that I realized that true gentleness is the order and certainty of the heart after experiencing chaos.

2. ❼最好的状态是：七分清醒，两分糊涂，还有一分，留给无用的浪漫。

2. The best state is: three parts清醒 (awake), two parts 糊涂 (confused), and one part for the useless romance.

3. ❷我慢慢放过了那个“必须被所有人喜欢”的自己。

3. ❷ I gradually let go of the version of myself that "must be liked by everyone."

4. ❺不必在所有人的世界里寻找自己的座位。

4. ❺ It is not necessary to find a seat for oneself in the world of everyone.

5. ❸把所有“我本可以”，都换成“我现在就做”。

5. Replace all "I could have" with "I am doing now."

6. ❾成长就是：把哭声调成静音，把委屈换成动力，然后平静地，把事做成。

6. Growth means: turn the crying into silence, replace the grievances with motivation, and then calmly, get things done.

7. ❹情绪的屋檐不大，只够遮风挡雨，不够堆放杂物。定期清理，是成年人的自觉。

7. The eaves of emotions are not very spacious, just enough to shelter from wind and rain, not enough to pile up杂物. Regular cleaning is a conscious act of adults.

8. ❿世界喧嚣，我选择在自己的节奏里，静音前行。

8. In a world full of noise, I choose to walk silently in my own rhythm.

9. ❽与其在别人的剧本里跑龙套，不如在自己的生活里当主角，哪怕观众不多。

9. It's better to be the lead character in your own life than a supporting actor in someone else's script, even if there aren't many spectators.