在心跳的律动中，字字彰显人生智慧。

In the rhythm of the heartbeat, every word reveals the wisdom of life.

1. 缘分是幂幂中的安排，不可预知，也不可刻意追求。封面漂亮的书容易吸引人的眼球，但值得品味和珍藏的不多；用心血去写书的人往往没有时间和金钱去做装潢；许多书从形式到内容都枯燥无味，但平淡无奇确实也是人生的一种。

1. Fate is an arrangement in the midst of countless possibilities, unpredictable and not something to be deliberately pursued. Attractive covers can easily catch one's attention, but there are not many books that are both worth savoring and collecting; those who write books with their heart and soul often lack the time and money to decorate them; many books are both dull in form and content, but plainness and ordinariness can indeed be a kind of life.

2. 成功有一条重要的秘诀，那就是忍住一时之气，苦撑到底。在这个竞争激烈的社会，要想出人头地，有所成就，让自己的人生开出美丽之花，就必须忍住那些扎在心头的芒刺，将其化为前进的动力，方能博得成功。忍不是心头的那把刀，而是刀下那颗耐心。一个缺乏耐心的人，永远都不可能成为一名强者。

2. There is an important secret to success, which is to hold back one's anger temporarily and endure to the end. In this highly competitive society, if one wants to stand out, achieve something, and let one's life bloom into beautiful flowers, one must endure the thorns that pierce the heart, transform them into the driving force for progress, and only then can one achieve success. Patience is not the knife in one's heart, but the patience under the knife. A person without patience can never become a strong one.

3. 当面对别人狡辩的时候，你不需着急，也不用生气，只需学着对方的方法，把他的球踢回去就行了。

3. When faced with someone who is cunningly arguing, there's no need to rush or get angry. Just learn their methods and kick their ball back to them.

4. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

4. Time will slowly settle, and some people will gradually fade in your heart. Learn to let go, as your happiness requires your own fulfillment.

5. 比你强的人是不会嘲笑你的，那都是比你弱的人才会干的事，目的是把你变得跟他们一样弱。张开大嘴四处嚷嚷只是人的本能，闭上嘴巴用心思考才需要人的智慧。

5. People who are stronger than you will not mock you; that's something only those weaker than you would do, with the intention of making you as weak as them. Shouting loudly with one's mouth wide open is merely an instinct of humans, while closing one's mouth and thinking with one's mind requires human wisdom.

6. 是谁规定了灰姑娘必须被王子拯救？没有问过灰姑娘愿不愿意，也没有人问过她爱不爱王子，好像只要她的脚合适的穿上了水晶鞋，就理该感激涕零的跟王子回宫，然后永远在幸福中诚惶诚恐。

6. Who decided that Cinderella had to be saved by the prince? No one asked Cinderella if she wanted to be saved, nor did anyone inquire about her feelings for the prince. It seemed as if, as long as her foot fit the glass slipper, she should be grateful and weep with joy as she followed the prince back to the palace, and then live in eternal happiness with trembling fear.

7. 泡网的时间长了，偶尔也想泡一杯清茶混迹在这个喧嚣尘世中的我真的太浮躁，偶尔也需要打个坐冥想一下真实和虚幻的区别。

7. After spending too much time in the online world, I sometimes want to brew a cup of pure tea and immerse myself in this bustling world. I am truly restless, and occasionally, I need to sit down and meditate on the difference between reality and illusion.

8. 做自己喜欢的事，哪怕别人都笑你傻，你也完全可以全身心地去做，只要你喜欢，只要做这件事会让你快乐!只有你的快乐才是你该在乎的;别怕别人说什么，除了帮你快乐的话，你都可以不听。这样你的心就简单了，事就简单了，你的快乐就多了。

8. Do what you like, even if others laugh at you for being silly, you can still do it wholeheartedly as long as you enjoy it and it brings you joy! Only your happiness is what you should care about; don't be afraid of what others say, you can ignore all but the words that bring you joy. In this way, your heart becomes simpler, your life becomes simpler, and your happiness increases.

9. 孤单是你想约朋友逛街，结果发现朋友已经约了别的朋友，于是他对你说抱歉。孤单是你再也不会为一个人的生日而费尽心机地去挑礼物。孤单是你再不会因为书里的情节和自己的故事相似而大哭一场。孤单是我站在这条经线，而你站在那一条经线，我和你之间隔了几点几个时差。

9. Loneliness is when you want to invite friends to go shopping, only to find out that your friends have already made plans with others, and they apologize to you. Loneliness is when you no longer go to great lengths to pick out gifts for someone's birthday alone. Loneliness is when you no longer cry your eyes out because the plot in a book resembles your own story. Loneliness is me standing at this longitude, while you stand at that longitude, and the distance between us is several points and several time zones.

10. 那是我们越来越迷茫的道路，踏在我们前途未卜的未来，我还在想着你曾经对我说过的话，视线慢慢覆盖了那些曾经，飞鸟开始慢慢歌唱，潮水慢慢漫过了忧伤，没有出声，到了终场。

10. That is the path that grows increasingly confusing, treading on an uncertain future ahead of us. I am still thinking of the words you once said to me. My gaze slowly covers those past memories, the flying birds begin to sing softly, the tide slowly surges over the sorrow, without a sound, until the end.

11. 在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。

11. In the world of love, no one is at fault against anyone, but rather it's about who doesn't know how to cherish whom.

12. 不要因为寂寞爱错人，更不要因为爱错人而寂寞一生，尝试信任才能得到幸福。缘分是本书，翻的不经意会错过，读的太认真会泪流。

12. Do not love the wrong person because of loneliness, and even more so, do not let a wrong love lead to a lifetime of loneliness. Try to trust to find happiness. Fate is a book; if you flip through it carelessly, you might miss the pages; if you read it too seriously, you might shed tears.

13. 有些事以温暖而美好的姿态定格，停留在我的记忆。

13. Some things are frozen in my memory in a warm and beautiful manner.

14. 孤单是手机里的电话号码越来越多，每天接的电话越来越多，每天发的短信越来越多。可是当你突然看到一片曾经在梦里反复出现的葵花花田，你兴奋地拍照，大声地呐喊，可是过后却不知道要把拍好的照片传给手机里的谁，那一瞬间你突然明白，一路走到现在，一直没有人站在你身边，陪你看风景。

14. The loneliness comes from the increasing number of phone numbers in your phone, more calls you receive every day, and more text messages you send. Yet, when you suddenly see a sunflower field that has appeared repeatedly in your dreams, you excitedly take photos and shout out loud. But afterward, you don't know who in your phone to send the photos to. In that moment, you suddenly realize that all this time, no one has been standing by your side to accompany you in appreciating the scenery.

15. 如果回忆像钢铁般坚硬，那么我是该微笑还是哭泣，如果钢铁像记忆般腐蚀，那这里是欢城还是废墟？

15. If memories are as hard as steel, should I smile or cry? And if steel is as corroded as memory, is this a joyous city or ruins?

16. 两个人在一起久了，就象左手和右手，即使不再相爱也会选择相守，因为放弃这么多年的时光需要很大的勇气。也许生命中会出现你爱的人，但那终归是过客，你还是会牵着你的左手或者右手一直走下去，幸福真的和爱情无关。

16. After being together for a long time, two people are like left and right hands. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to stay together, because it takes a great deal of courage to give up all those years. Perhaps there will be someone you love in your life, but they will ultimately be a passerby. You will still hold onto your left or right hand and continue to walk together, for happiness really has nothing to do with love.

17. 有些人，有些事，该忘就忘了吧，人家从没把你放心里过。你又何必自作多情。

17. Some people, some things, forget them if you must, as they never had you in their hearts. Why do you need to be so overly romantic about it?

18. 悲哀是真的，泪是假的，没有什么可执着；一百年前，你不认识我，我不认识你；背影是真的，人是假的，本没有因果；一百年后，没有你，也没有我。

18. Sadness is real, tears are fake, there is nothing to cling to; a hundred years ago, you didn't know me, I didn't know you; the back is real, the person is fake, there was never a cause and effect; a hundred years from now, there will be neither you nor me.

19. 不要抱怨，也不要沮丧;生活的曲线球因为一个原因而抛出，那就是沿着指向你的方向运行。任何事情的发生，也许很严重，你可能没法马上觉察，没法马上弄个明白。但是想想曾经的经历，你会发现，它最终会让你走进一个更好的地方，遇到一个心悦的人，保持一个良好的心境，或处于一个良好境况。微笑面对吧，让大家都知道，你比昨天更强大，一定会的。

19. Do not complain or be despondent; the curveballs of life are thrown for a reason, that is, to run in the direction toward you. Any event that occurs, perhaps serious, may not be immediately noticeable to you, may not be immediately understood. But think about your past experiences, and you will find that it will ultimately lead you to a better place, meet someone you are delighted with, maintain a good state of mind, or be in a favorable situation. Smile and face it, so that everyone knows that you are stronger than yesterday, you will be.

20. 无论怎样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没人爱，就越是要爱自己。

20. In any case, a person's pretext for falling into decadence is never worthy of forgiveness. The more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself.

21. 放不下就不要放下，忘不了就先记着吧，总有一天你会发现，在念念不忘中，已经遗忘。

21. If you can't let go, don't force yourself to do so; if you can't forget, then keep it in mind for now. Someday, you'll find that in the constant remembering, what you thought you couldn't forget has already slipped away.

22. 爱默生说过：偏见常常扼杀很有希望的幼苗。为了避免自己被扼杀，只要看准了，就要充满自信，敢于坚持走自己的路。

22. Emerson once said: Prejudice often kills promising seedlings. To avoid being crushed, one must be confident and dare to persist on one's own path once the direction is clear.

23. 没有那么多的惊天动地，活好每一天，守住每一天的好心情，远离每一次的坏情绪，让一颗心充实，丰盈，快乐，温柔。真的，最好的人生意义，莫过于此。

23. Without all the earth-shattering events, live well every day, hold onto each day's good mood, stay away from every bad emotion, and let your heart be filled, enriched, joyful, and gentle. Truly, the best meaning of life is nothing more than this.

24. 今时今日我已经没有那样再爱一个人的能力了。我只有心脏骤停，却无力回应。当时年少不经事，现在两个人都早已不能回头。

24. Nowadays, I no longer have the ability to love someone as deeply as I used to. I have a heart that stops abruptly, but no power to respond. Back then, I was young and naive, and now, both of us can no longer turn back.

25. 马克思他老人家说错了，应该说：无产者只有先解放自己，才能解放全人类。

25. Mr. Marx was wrong. It should be said: The proletariat must first liberate itself before it can liberate all of humanity.

26. 很多时候，你不说，我也不说，就这样，说着说着就变了，想着想着就算了。

26. Many times, you don't say anything, and neither do I, and just like that, as we keep talking, things change; as we keep thinking, we just let it be.

27. ❾人际关系本质是价值交换，别高估感情，也别低估利益，清醒才能长久。

27. The essence of interpersonal relationships is value exchange; don't overestimate emotions, nor undervalue interests; being清醒 (clear-headed) is the key to long-term relationships.

28. 人的一生就是一个渐行、渐悟、学会放弃，放弃某种追求，放弃某份情感，或许是难与痛并存。可在青春年华悄然流逝的今天，我们早已没有了选择的权力。世上美好的事物千千万万，我们不可能尽纳怀中。不属于自己的，不必奢求，无法得到的，更不必去强求!

28. A person's life is a journey of gradual progress, enlightenment, and learning to let go. Letting go of certain pursuits, certain feelings, may be accompanied by both difficulty and pain. However, in today's era when youth quietly slips away, we have long lost the power to choose. There are countless beautiful things in the world, and it is impossible for us to embrace them all. Things that do not belong to us are not worth longing for, and things that we cannot obtain are even less worth striving for!

29. 之所以有不同类型的“有的人”，是因为他（她）进入你视线的时间和环境不同。只有在适当的时间和适当的环境下进入你视线的人才能进入你的内心。

29. The reason there are different types of "some people" is that they enter your field of vision at different times and in different environments. Only those who enter your field of vision at the right time and in the right environment can enter your heart.

30. ❸孤独是人生的常态，热闹是偶然的馈赠，学会与自己相处，才是必修课。

30. ⑧ Solitude is the norm of life, and bustle is an occasional gift. Learning to be at peace with oneself is the essential course.

31. 能够说出的委屈便不算委屈，能够抢走的爱人便不算爱人。

31. The hurt that can be expressed is not truly hurt, and the love that can be stolen is not true love.

32. ❹努力不一定有结果，但放弃一定没有，可若方向错了，停下也是一种前进。

32. ❹ Efforts do not always guarantee results, but giving up certainly does not. However, if the direction is wrong, stopping can also be a form of progress.

33. 忘不掉的，不能忘的，就让它在心里占据一个位置，而不是全部。

33. What cannot be forgotten, what must not be forgotten, let it occupy a place in your heart, but not the whole of it.

34. 如果可以和你在一起，我宁愿让天空所有的星光全部损落，因为你的眼睛，是我生命里最亮的光芒。

34. If I could be with you, I would rather see all the stars in the sky fall away, for your eyes are the brightest light in my life.

35. 痛过之后就不会觉得痛了，有的只会是一颗冷漠的心。

35. After the pain, one does not feel it anymore; all that remains is a cold heart.

36. 得不到，就永不会患得患失，不需追索美好的背面，不必顾及爱情泯逝。一个人的天堂，也没什么不好。

36. Not getting it means you will never suffer from gains and losses. There is no need to seek the dark side of the good, or to care about the fading of love. A person's heaven is nothing to be disliked.

37. 有的人你看了一辈子却忽视了一辈子，有的人你只看了一眼却影响了你的一生，有的人热情的为你而快乐却被你冷落，有的人让你拥有短暂的快乐却得到你思绪的连锁，有的人一相情愿了N年却被你拒绝了N年，有的人一个无心的表情却成了永恒的思念，这就是人生。

37. There are some people you have watched your whole life but ignored all your life, some people you have only seen once but they have influenced your whole life, some people are happy for you with their enthusiasm but are neglected by you, some people bring you momentary joy but entangle your thoughts, some people have been in love for N years but have been rejected by you for N years, and some people's unintentional expressions become eternal memories. This is life.

38. 应该珍惜的不仅是对方，还有自己的感情。对不珍惜你的人，不需要由他（她）说对不起，你要主动说“对不起”（潜台词：拜拜！）

38. Not only should one cherish the feelings of the other person, but also one's own feelings. For those who do not cherish your feelings, you don't need them to apologize; you should主动 say "Sorry" (subtext: Goodbye!).

39. 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

39. Regardless of the situation, one's excuse for falling into decline is always unworthy of forgiveness. The more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself.

40. 欣赏与深思 经典语录出自雨露经典语录网：

40. Appreciation and Deep Reflection - Classic quotes from the Yu Lu Classic Quotes Website:

41. 哭或者笑都是真情的流露。但对于大多数人来说，笑比哭好。

41. Crying or laughing is an expression of true emotions. But for most people, laughter is better than crying.

42. 不低头，在强大的势力面前不卑不亢，这样就会赢得别人的敬重。

42. Do not bow down; remain dignified and composed in the face of powerful forces, and you will earn others' respect.

43. 一部分。做好现在你能做的，然后，一切都会好的。我们都将孤独地长大，不要害怕。

43. A part. Do what you can now, and then, everything will be fine. We will all grow up alone, don't be afraid.

44. 平凡是荒原，孕育着崛起，只要你鹤岗开拓;平凡是泥土，孕育着收获，只要你肯耕耘;平凡是细流，孕育着深邃，只要你肯积累。面对挫折时要格外坚强，不为外界的诱惑而丢失自我，不为一时的挫折否定自己，时时客观冷静地评价自己，每每乐观中肯定地赞赏自己，让自己坚强。

44. The ordinary is a desert, brimming with the potential for rise, as long as you venture into Hegang; the ordinary is earth, fertile for harvest, as long as you are willing to cultivate; the ordinary is a tiny stream, nurturing depth, as long as you are willing to accumulate. When faced with setbacks, be particularly strong, do not lose yourself to external allurements, do not negate yourself due to temporary setbacks, always evaluate yourself objectively and calmly, repeatedly affirm yourself with optimism, and let yourself be strong.

45. 你可以选择爱我或者不爱我，而我只能选择爱你或者更加爱你。

45. You can choose to love me or not love me, but I can only choose to love you or love you even more.

46. 别把你的女人不当回事，总有一天，会有另外一个男人过来，感激你不懂得她的好。

46. Don't take your woman for granted; one day, another man will come along and be grateful that you didn't appreciate her worth.

47. 永远不要忽视关心你的人，总有一天，你会意识到在你忙着收集鹅卵石时，却丢失了一颗钻石。

47. Never ignore those who care for you, for one day you will realize that while you were busy picking up pebbles, you had lost a diamond.

48. 不说出委屈就只能委屈自己，不放走不爱你的人就得不到爱你的人。

48. Not speaking out one's grievances only leads to self-inflicted suffering, and not letting go of someone who doesn't love you means you won't receive love from someone who does.

49. 后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪，后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误，所以不要后悔。

49. Regret is an emotionally draining emotion, regret is a greater loss than the loss itself, and a greater mistake than the mistake. Therefore, do not regret.

50. 爱情就是一场赌局，赢了，厮守一生，白头到老。输了，全盘皆输，那比朋友更近的人，就是熟悉的陌生人。

50. Love is a game of chance. If you win, you will cherish each other for a lifetime, growing old together. If you lose, everything is lost. The person who was closer than a friend, becomes a familiar stranger.

51. 没有什么会永远，也没有什么会很久，找个借口，谁都可以先走。

51. Nothing lasts forever, nothing endures long, find an excuse, anyone can leave first.

52. 悲哀和眼泪都是真的，区别只是内在和外在，无形和有形。

52. Sadness and tears are both real; the difference lies in the inner and outer, the intangible and the tangible.

53. ❽理想是星辰，现实是泥土，既要抬头望天，也要低头走路。

53. Ideals are stars, reality is earth, one must look up to the sky while also bending down to walk on the ground.

54. ❷选择了方向，就别总回头，路是自己走出来的，不是选出来的。

54. ❷ Once a direction is chosen, don't keep looking back. The path is one that you walk yourself, not one that you choose.

55. ❻遗憾是人生的补丁，不是缺陷，缝得多了，灵魂反而更坚韧。

55. ③ Regret is a patch in life, not a flaw; the more it is stitched, the stronger the soul becomes.

56. “执子之手，与子谐老”。当初是誓言，后来是责任，再后来是习惯。

56. "Hold your hand, and grow old together." Initially, it was a vow, then a responsibility, and later on, a habit.

57. ❺真实不一定讨喜，但讨喜往往不真实，活得清醒，比活得体面更珍贵。

57. ❺ Reality is not always likable, but likability is often not real. Living with clarity is more valuable than living with dignity.

58. ❼别用别人的标准丈量自己的人生，自洽，比合群更重要。

58. Do not measure your life by someone else's standards. Being self-consistent is more important than fitting in with the crowd.

59. 女人会记得让她笑的男人，男人会记得让他哭的女人，可是女人总是留在让她哭的男人身边，男人却留在让他笑的女人身边。

59. A woman will remember the man who made her laugh, and a man will remember the woman who made him cry, but a woman always stays with the man who makes her cry, while a man stays with the woman who makes him laugh.