不被期许，也能成例外人生！

Unexpected and yet able to create an exceptional life!

1. 红发，是内心桀骜不驯的象征，残月鬼镰，是他背弃了过去，选择为爱入魔的证明。只是因为，青梅竹马的一个羁绊，和那个如樱草花凋零的女子互相扶持，一起看风景，肩并肩参加战斗，就再也不能一个人孤单地走在这世界上。

1. Red hair symbolizes an untamed and rebellious soul, while the crescent moon ghost sickle is a testament to his renunciation of the past and his choice to be possessed by love. It is just that, due to a bond with his childhood friend, and supporting that woman whose beauty fades like cherry blossom petals, watching the scenery together, fighting side by side, he can no longer walk alone in this world.

2. 做人，最重要的是要时刻持续善良的本质，你善良，世界才宽阔，他人才宽容。要有济人之心，物质有厚薄，精神无囿限；要有赞人之口，好言令冬暖，恶语使夏寒；要有纯净之眼，你看简单了，众生并不复杂；要有助人之手，少些锦上添花，多点雪中送炭；要有忍人之胸，你接纳多少，就能得到多少。

2. In life, the most important thing is to consistently maintain the essence of kindness. You are kind, and the world becomes broad; others become tolerant. You should have a heart to help others; material things may vary in richness, but spirit has no limitations. You should have a mouth to praise others; kind words can make a cold winter warm, and harsh words can make a hot summer cold. You should have pure eyes; if you see things simply, all beings are not complicated. You should have hands to help others; less of adding flowers to the brocade, more of sending coals in the snow. You should have a forgiving heart; the more you accept, the more you will receive.

3. 什么是嫁得好？嫁得好并不是嫁富豪，而是嫁给一个能给你安全感的男人。 住在别墅里天天流泪的，你进的不是天堂而是地狱。 真正嫁得好的女人，是住在单元房里却被老公哄的像只傻鸟。 爱你一时，宠你一世，骗你一辈子！其实，只有过来人才知道，日子过得好，真的不是有多少钱，而是无忧无虑无烦恼。 总有人在你切水果时秒杀一道难题；总有人在你发射愤怒小鸟时记一个单词；总有人在你d。 喝下一口谷粒多，对自己说：向上吧，少年，为中国，多鼓励！

3. What does it mean to marry well? Marrying well is not about marrying a rich man, but rather marrying a man who can give you a sense of security. If you are living in a villa and crying every day, you are not in heaven but in hell. A truly well-married woman is someone who lives in a small apartment but is pampered by her husband like a silly bird. He may love you for a moment, spoil you for a lifetime, and deceive you for the rest of your life! In reality, only those who have experienced it know that living a good life is not about how much money you have, but about being carefree and without worries. There is always someone who solves a difficult problem while you are slicing fruit; there is always someone who learns a new word while you are launching angry birds; there is always someone who... Take a sip of a grain-rich drink and say to yourself: Rise up, youth, for China, be more encouraging!

4. 时间最重要的`是效率；人生最重要的是健康；生命最重要的是成长！学习就是学成功人的思维模式，学成功人的行为习惯。

4. The most important aspect of time is efficiency; the most important thing in life is health; and the most important thing in life is growth! Learning is about acquiring the thinking patterns of successful people and learning the behavioral habits of successful people.

5. 眸问月，记否？一纸的墨香，以往清晰了谁的双眸？一帘的碎片，又模糊了谁的视线？一场美丽的邂逅，竟然画不出一个美丽的圆，为何，爱是如此单薄如此清浅？闭合双眸，轻声喟叹。任由花瓣零落枝头，柳丝轻扬，碎了满地的忧伤。

5. Do you remember, gazing at the moon with eyes? The fragrance of ink on a sheet, did it clarify the eyes of whom in the past? The fragments of a curtain, blurred whose vision again? A beautiful encounter, yet it couldn't draw a beautiful circle. Why, is love so thin and shallow? Closing my eyes, I softly sigh. As the petals fall from the branches, the willow twigs sway lightly, scattering the sadness all over the ground.

6. 颓废了的纯洁，也是世上所有的颓废中性质最恶劣的颓废。

6. The decadence of purity is also the most degenerate form of decadence in the world.

7. 一个明智的人能善于抓住机遇，把它变成美好的未来。

7. A wise person is able to seize opportunities and turn them into a beautiful future.

8. ❸那些没落在我身上的期待，都成了我自由生长的养分。

8. The expectations that fell upon me all became the nourishment for my free growth.

9. 这几天总是被一些类似的题目吸引，比如不被设限的人生，不被定义的人生等等。其实在自己心里，这都是幌子，人生不可能完全自由，会有例外，但大多数都在预料之中，虽然攀登的高度无法准确标定，但是范围基本上被框定。

9. In recent days, I have been constantly drawn to similar topics, such as the life without limitations, the life without definitions, and so on. In fact, in my heart, these are all illusions. Life cannot be completely free, there will be exceptions, but most of them are predictable. Although the height of the climb cannot be accurately measured, the scope is basically defined.

10. 做人要留有余地，不可把事情做绝。 人生在世，万不可一条路走到黑，认死理，而应在发展的过程中充分认识、冷静判断各种可能发生的事情，并采取圆融变通的方法随机应变，以便有足够的条件和回旋的余地，采取机变的应付措施。 在人生的旅途中，每一个人都曾迷惑和彷徨，人生在世无常，一切得失源于个人所求所悟，勿需在意，或盲目追随大流，否则将是人云亦云，不知其所以然，或似懂非懂，反失了本心本意。 人生是一场苦旅，我们一边感受，一边修行。

10. In life, one should leave room for flexibility and not push things to extremes. In the course of life, one must never take a single path to the end, stubbornly adhering to one's principles, but rather fully recognize and calmly judge various possible events during the process of development, and adopt a flexible and adaptable approach to change with the circumstances, in order to have enough conditions and room for maneuver to take timely and flexible measures. In the journey of life, everyone has been confused and uncertain at some point. Life is unpredictable, and all gains and losses come from one's own pursuits and insights. There is no need to worry about them, or blindly follow the crowd. Otherwise, one might just repeat others' words without understanding the reasons, or be half-hearted in understanding, thereby losing one's original intention. Life is a journey filled with hardship; we experience it while cultivating ourselves.

11. 真正的恋爱不是一时好感，而是显着知道没功效，还想要僵持下去的激动。真正的恋爱是，我知道碰着你不轻易，错过了会很痛惜。

11. True love is not a fleeting liking, but an intense excitement of knowing that it may not lead to anything, yet still wanting to persist. True love is knowing that it's not easy to encounter you, and that the pain of missing out would be immense.

12. 要体谅，不要把别人的承诺当真，不然你会很失望；

12. Be understanding, don't take others' promises seriously, otherwise you will be very disappointed.

13. 相爱而不能相见的人有千百种虚幻而真实的东西用来骗走离愁别恨。

13. There are thousands of illusions and truths used to deceive the sorrow and parting grievances of those who love but cannot see each other.

14. ❼ 没被寄予厚望的人，反而能肆无忌惮地奔向热爱。

14. The people who were not held high expectations could go wild towards their passions.

15. ❾ 不被期待的人生，才更有资格活出无人复刻的模样。

15. It is the life that is not expected that is more qualified to live out a unique and unreplicated form.

16. 据说，每一个门卫大叔都是一个哲学家，因为他们常会问你三个问题，你从哪里来？你要做什么？你到哪里去？

16. It is said that every doormaster is a philosopher, because they often ask you three questions: Where do you come from? What do you want to do? Where are you going to?

17. 在我眼里你始终就像一个天使，那么干净又洁白的一张纸。

17. In my eyes, you have always been like an angel, a clean and pure sheet of paper.

18. 人们对美好生活的向往，就是我们的奋斗目标。

18. The yearning of people for a better life is our goal in struggle.

19. 你有你的生活，他有他的生活，就像各自独立的一条腿，搭在一起才能走得更远。用自己的时间去依附别人，当有一天他们枯萎了，你也将变得一文不值。

19. You have your own life, and he has his own life, just like each of you is an independent leg; it's only when they are put together that you can walk further. To rely on others with your own time is to become utterly valueless when they wither away one day.

20. 原来，奶茶是可以买一送一的，火锅要两个人吃才最有意思，生日要两个人一起过才最幸福；原来，女孩子的脚冬天是凉的，手也是；原来，人的心那么窄，只够住进一个女孩子，原来，"我爱你"是那么容易就能说出口的话，原来，这个世界这么美好。

20. It turns out that bubble tea can be bought one and get one free; hotpot is most enjoyable when shared between two people; celebrating birthdays together is the most blissful; it turns out that girls' feet are cold in winter, and so are their hands; it turns out that the human heart is so narrow, it can only accommodate one girl; it turns out that "I love you" is a phrase that can be easily said; it turns out that this world is so beautiful.

21. 入乡随俗，何为俗？俗即为新，生长，生活，生命里的习俗称为心，即随俗就要随心，成功也如此，心不去随俗成功之心，怎么能成功呢？

21. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. What is this "custom"? Custom is the new, the growing, the living, and the habitual practices in life are called the heart. That is, to follow custom is to follow one's heart. Success is the same; how can one succeed if one's heart does not follow the custom of success?

22. 我相信女人的一生，也要靠某种梦想的鼓励生活下去，这种梦想有时伤害她，有时将她的生活弄到不可收拾的地步。却仍旧是她内心的支柱。成长的过程本身就不是完美的，它包括在表达和体会纯真感情时最初的造作。要慢慢等你所经历的生活，来帮你洗去它的铅华。

22. I believe that throughout a woman's life, she also needs the encouragement of some kind of dream to live on, a dream that sometimes injures her and sometimes makes her life a mess. Yet it still serves as her inner支柱. The process of growing up itself is not perfect, it includes the initial awkwardness in expressing and experiencing genuine emotions. You should slowly wait for the life you have experienced to help wash off its veneer.

23. 练得身形似鹤形，千株松下两函经。我来问道无余说，云在青天水在瓶。

23. My body shaped like a crane, under a thousand pine trees, I have two scrolls of classics. When I come to ask the way, there are no more words to say, the clouds are in the blue sky and the water is in the bottle.

24. 对自己好点，因为一辈子不长；对身边的人好点，因为下辈子不一定能够遇见。

24. Treat yourself well, because life is not long; be kind to those around you, because there is no guarantee you will meet them in the next life.

25. 我不知道，原来时隔多年后我会再想起你，仍会哭的红了眼圈。我以为，早已把你忘记，把你从我心上抹去。可是不管时间过去多少，你总会留在自己心里的某个位置，别人替代不了。

25. I didn't know that after so many years, I would still remember you and cry until my eyes were red. I thought I had long forgotten you and erased you from my heart. But no matter how much time passes, you always stay in some corner of your own heart, unreplaceable by others.

26. 我只能送你到这里了，剩下的路你要自己走，不要回头。——宫崎骏

26. I can only take you this far, the rest of the way you must go on your own, don't look back. — Hayao Miyazaki

27. 我想过了，以后还是把你放身边带着，我心疼了。——顾漫《微微一笑很倾城》

27. I've thought it over, and I think I'll keep you close to me from now on. I just can't bear to see you in pain. — Gu Man, "A Smiling Face with a Shy Smile"

28. 总是挂在嘴上的人生，就是你的人生，人总是很容易被自己说出的话所催眠。

28. The life that you constantly talk about is your life; people are often easily hypnotized by their own words.

29. 我身边有个经常说照顾我一辈子的人，但她既不是我男朋友也不是我蓝颜，他是我最好的朋友。

29. There's someone around me who often says they will take care of me for a lifetime, but she is neither my boyfriend nor my blue-haired guy. He is my best friend.

30. 应对各方泼来的冷水，它反而更加热气腾腾，这才是改革家的品格；表面上石一般坚强，但一遇一点水，就粉身碎骨，这就是口头革命派自诩的坚强。

30. In the face of cold water thrown by all sides, it becomes even more boiling hot, which is the character of a reformer; appearing as hard as stone on the surface, but upon encountering a little water, it shatters into pieces, this is what the so-called revolutionaries who speak with their mouths but do not act claim as their strength.

31. 距离之所以可怕，因为根本不知道对方是把你想念，还是把你忘记。世上最欣慰的事，可能就是重逢了曾经走失的自己。时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。

31. The fear of distance lies in the fact that you never know if the other person is missing you or has forgotten you. Perhaps the most comforting thing in the world is to meet the lost self again. Time is always a spectator; all processes and outcomes need to be borne by ourselves.

32. ❿我不是谁的备选，是自己人生里唯一的主角。

32. I am not anyone's backup; I am the only main character in my own life story.

33. 我有一副身体，但我并非自己的身体。我可以看见并感觉到我的身体，然而凡是可以被看见以及被感觉到的，并不是真正的观者。我的身体也许疲惫或兴奋，生病或健康、沉重或轻松、也可能焦虑或平静，但这与内在的真我全然无关。我有一副身体，但我并非自己的身体。

33. I have a body, but I am not my own body. I can see and feel my body, but what can be seen and felt is not the true observer. My body may be tired or excited, sick or healthy, heavy or light, or perhaps anxious or calm, but this has nothing to do with the true self within. I have a body, but I am not my own body.

34. 回顾她生活中所采取的积极的选择和行动，这课给大家指引方向，教大家如何进行自我激励。

34. Looking back at the positive choices and actions she has taken in her life, this lesson provides guidance to everyone and teaches how to motivate oneself.

35. ❺不被期待又怎样，我的光芒从来不需要谁来盖章。

35. So what if it wasn't expected? My light never needed anyone's seal of approval.

36. 头破血流又任何，至少臣妾争取过，比后悔好的多。

36. Even if I bled from my head and nothing, at least I have tried, which is better than regretting.

37. 你要吃热的饭和菜。你要一觉睡下去没有梦就直接醒来。你要天天手都暖暖的。你要把领口捱紧。你要穿干净的羊毛袜子。你要被人照顾得好好的。如果没有人来照顾你，那你就这样好好照顾自己吧。

37. You should eat hot meals and dishes. You should fall asleep and wake up without any dreams. You should have warm hands every day. You should button up your collar tightly. You should wear clean woolen socks. You should be well taken care of. If no one comes to take care of you, then take good care of yourself like this.

38. ❶不被期待的小孩，也能长出冲破偏见的翅膀。

38. ❶ A child not expected can also grow wings to break through prejudice.

39. 洞悉他人的内心世界是主宰自己生活规律的法宝；但是，让别人洞悉你的内心世界却会成为别人影响你生活规律的武器。

39. Understanding others' inner world is the key to mastering one's own life rhythm; however, allowing others to understand your inner world can become a weapon for them to influence your life rhythm.

40. 你花那么多时间，去认识无关痛痒的朋友； 还不如花点时间，认识自己。

40. You spend so much time getting to know trivial friends; it would be better to spend some time getting to know yourself.

41. 有一种爱，叫不再打扰，有一种情叫"你若安好，便是晴天"。

41. There is a kind of love called "not to disturb," and a kind of affection that goes, "If you are well, then it is a sunny day."

42. 有些东西和人只能远远的观看，一但拥有就失去了原本珍贵。

42. Some things and people can only be watched from a distance; once possessed, they lose their original value.

43. 人要有勇气去尝试自己不擅长甚至有挫败感的事情，并要不断的为打鸡血来保持热情。或许你不会以此为生，但一辈子做一次看看试试也会是珍贵的体验，以了解和理解这万千世界的不同与不易。

43. People should have the courage to try things they are not good at or even feel defeated by, and continuously seek motivation to maintain enthusiasm. Perhaps this may not be your livelihood, but giving it a try once in your lifetime can also be a precious experience to understand and appreciate the diversity and challenges of this vast world.