1. 小心驶得万年船：做人多留个心眼，每次都是初交，不可全抛一片心。别让小人当枪使，防范主动帮你忙的人，谨防披着朋友外衣的小人。向别人倾吐心事要慎重，不被表面现象迷惑，谨慎二字刻在心头。

1. "Care in navigation brings a boat through a thousand miles": When dealing with people, always be cautious and keep your guard up. Treat every encounter as if it's the first time, and don't pour out all your heart. Don't let a sneak use you as a pawn, and be wary of those who offer help proactively. Be careful when confiding in others, don't be deceived by appearances, and always keep "caution" in mind.

2. 进学不诚则学杂，做事不诚则事败，自谋不诚则欺心而弃己，与人不诚则丧德而增怨

2. If one is not sincere in pursuing learning, their studies will be superficial and disjointed; if one is not sincere in their work, their endeavors will fail; if one is not sincere in self-planning, they will deceive themselves and abandon themselves; and if one is not sincere in dealing with others, they will lose moral integrity and foster resentment.

3. 为人处事学问深，这潭深水，让人畏惧。要有一颗平常心，要心胸宽广，要会说好听话，同时还要学会八面玲珑等等，如若学会文中所言的观点，就会在商场与职场中取得好成绩，消除许多烦恼。

3. Proficiency in dealing with people and matters is profound, and this deep pool of knowledge is daunting. One must maintain a calm and composed heart, have a broadmindedness, be able to speak pleasant words, and at the same time, learn to be versatile in all directions. If one masters the views expressed in the text, they will achieve good results in both the business and professional spheres, and eliminate many troubles.

4. 你要欣堂自己的价值，就得给世界增添价值。-歌德

4. You must appreciate your own value to add value to the world. - Goethe

5. 不要让别人看出你的天真，如果你不懂，就跑远一些；不要评价别人的容貌，因为他不靠你吃饭；不要评价别人的德行，因为你不比他高尚；不要评价别人的家庭，因为那和你无关；不要评价别人的学问，因为世上最不缺的就是学问。

5. Don't let others see your innocence; if you don't understand, move away a little; don't criticize others' appearance, as they don't depend on you for a living; don't judge others' moral character, as you are not necessarily nobler than they are; don't comment on others' families, as it has nothing to do with you; don't critique others' knowledge, because what the world lacks most is not knowledge.

6. 社交的秘诀不在于说实话，而在说实话的同时也不激怒对方。-狄原塑太郎

6. The secret of social interaction is not in telling the truth, but in telling the truth without angering the other person. - Takeshi Hara, Jr.

7. 对事不对人；或对事无情，对人要有情；或做人第一，做事其次。

7. Be objective in dealing with matters, not with people; or be indifferent to matters but show compassion to people; or prioritize being a good person over doing things.

8. 奢侈的必然后果风化的解体，反过来又引起了趣味的腐化。—卢梭

8. The inevitable consequence of luxury is the disintegration of decorum, which in turn leads to the corruption of taste. — Rousseau

9. 和以处众，宽以待下，恕以待人，君子人也。林逋

9. To live in harmony with the multitude, to be lenient towards those below, and to show forgiveness to others—this is the conduct of a gentleman. — Lin Bu

10. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。

10. Life is but a short span of a few decades. Don't leave any regrets behind. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. When it's time to love, go ahead and love without holding back.

11. 入于污泥而不染、不受资产阶级糖衣炮弹的侵蚀，是最难能可贵的品质。—— 周恩来

11. Remaining unsoiled by the mud and不受the侵蚀 of the sugar-coated bullets of the bourgeoisie is the most commendable and valuable quality. —— Zhou Enlai

12. 我们不能把所有的幸福都寄托在别人身上。因为其他人只能有限度地理解和帮助我们。事实上，世界上锦上添花的人总是比雪中送炭的人多。如果你坚强，别人会鼓励你；如果你软弱，很少有人会帮助你——罗兰

12. We cannot depend on others for all our happiness. Because others can only understand and help us to a limited extent. In fact, there are always more people who add flowers to the brocade than those who provide help in a time of need. If you are strong, others will encourage you; if you are weak, few will help you — Roland

13. 有些人因为贪婪，想得到更多的东西，却把现在所有的也失掉了。《伊索寓言》

13. Some people, driven by greed, desire to gain more, but in the process, they lose everything they already have. Aesop's Fables.

14. 由于助人而受亲爱，由于柔和而有魅力，由于温和而为人所偏爱，由于有一切德而受尊重。

14. Loved for helping others, charming for gentleness, favored for kindness, and respected for all virtues.

15. 有一个清醒的头脑比有一个聪明的头脑更重要；有一种良好的习惯比有一种熟练的技巧更实用；有一股青春活力比有一副健全的臂膀更有力；有一身勇气和胆识比有一门知识更强劲。

15. Having a clear mind is more important than having a clever mind; having a good habit is more practical than having a proficient skill; having a youthful vitality is more powerful than having a healthy pair of arms; having courage and bravery is stronger than having knowledge.

16. 鸟有树则栖，树倒则飞；鱼有水则活，水涸则亡；花有春则开，春去则谢；人有信则立，信丧则败。诚信是做人之本！

16. Birds rest in trees, and fly away when the trees fall; fish live in water, and die when the water dries up; flowers bloom in spring, and wither when spring is gone; people stand on their feet with honesty, and fall when honesty is lost. Honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of being a person!

17. 我们有力的道德就是通过奋斗取得物质上的成功；这种道德既适用于国家，也适用于个人。 —— 罗素

17. Our powerful morality is to achieve material success through struggle; this morality applies to both the nation and the individual. —— Russell

18. 行一件好事，心中泰然；行一件歹事，衾影抱愧。神涵光

18. To do a good deed, the heart is at ease; to do an evil deed, the sheets and shadows are filled with guilt. -- Shenhua Guang

19. 做人三要：一要恩怨分明、敢作敢为、敢拼敢搏。二要视野开阔，心胸豁达、心态平和。三要给人欢喜、给人希望、给人信心、给人方便！

19. The three essentials of being a person: First, be clear about恩怨, dare to act, dare to strive, and dare to compete. Second, have an open perspective, a broad-mindedness, and a calm attitude. Third, bring joy to others, give hope, instill confidence, and provide convenience!

20. 世间最好的东西，莫过于有几个头脑和心地都很正直的严正的朋友。-爱因斯坦

20. The best thing in the world is to have a few friends who are both intelligent and upright in heart. - Einstein

21. 反谊，好比一瓶酒，封存的时间越长，价值则越高；而一旦封，还够一个酒。-梁晓声

21. Friendship, like a bottle of wine, becomes more valuable the longer it is stored; once sealed, it's enough for one wine. - Liang Xiaosheng

22. 装饰的华丽可以量示出一个人的富有，优雅可以品示出一个人的趣味，但一个人的健康与在壮则须由另外的标志来识别，只有在一个劳动者的粗布衣服下面，而不是在嬖幸者的穿戴之下，我们才能发现强有力的身躯。-卢梭

22. The splendor of decoration can show a person's wealth, the elegance can show a person's taste, but a person's health and vigor must be identified by other signs. Only under the coarse cloth of a laborer can we discover a strong physique, not under the attire of a favored person. - Rousseau

23. 做事说话不能过分，要体谅别人的感受，凡事都有度，事急必反，和气为贵。

23. In doing things and speaking, one should not overdo it. Be considerate of others' feelings. Everything has its limits, and when things become too urgent, they often turn against us. Good temper is the most valuable.

24. 人们的举止应当象他们的衣服，不可太紧或过于讲究，应当竞舒一点，以便于工作和运动—培根

24. People's demeanor should be like their clothes, neither too tight nor overly meticulous, but rather more relaxed, so as to facilitate work and exercise — Bacon

25. 不要想说什么就说什么，凡事必须三四而行，对人要和气，可是不要过分狎昵。莎士比亚

25. Do not speak without thinking, do everything with caution and considerateness, be polite to others, but do not get too intimate. - Shakespeare

26. 选择朋友一定要谨慎！地道的自私自利，会戴上友谊的假面具，却又设好陷阱来坑你。《克雷洛夫寓言》

26. Choose friends carefully! Genuine selfishness can don the mask of friendship, yet set traps to deceive and harm you. "Krylov's Fables"

27. 42在识别创新思想方面最成功的公司总裁，总是善于同有创新意识的人打交道的，善于倾听他们的意见，包括听来有点古怪的意见。为了获取创新思想，作为公司总裁必须乐于承认和接受由创新思想带来的种种不偷快。-R斯威尼美国管理学家《致未来的总裁们》第33页—斯威尼

27. The most successful company presidents in identifying innovative ideas are always good at dealing with people who have innovative thinking, good at listening to their opinions, including those that may seem a bit strange. To acquire innovative ideas, as a company president, one must be willing to acknowledge and accept the various unpleasantnesses brought by innovative ideas. - R. Swiney, American management expert, "To the Future Presidents," page 33 - Swiney

28. 共产主义不仅表现在田地里和汗水横流的工厂，它也表现在家庭里、饭桌旁，在亲戚之间，在相互的关系上。 —— 马雅可夫斯基

28. Communism is not only manifested in the fields and sweat-soaked factories; it is also evident in the home, around the dining table, among relatives, and in their mutual relationships. —— Mayakovsky

29. 坚持在背后说别人好话，别担心这好话传不到当事人耳朵里。

29. Always say good things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these good things won't reach the ears of the parties involved.

30. 财富是一时的朋友，而朋友才是永久的财富；荣誉是一时的荣耀，做人才是永久的根本；学历是一时的知识，学习才是永久的智慧！

30. Wealth is a temporary friend, but friends are the permanent wealth; honor is a temporary glory, but being a person is the permanent foundation; a degree is a temporary knowledge, but learning is the permanent wisdom!

31. 我们不得不饮食睡眠划览恋爱，也就是说，我们不得不接触生活中最甜蜜的事情，不过我们必须不屈服于这些事物。-居里

31. We cannot help but indulge in eating, drinking, sleeping, and loving, that is, we cannot avoid接触 the sweetest things in life, yet we must not surrender to these things. - Curie

32. 人类被赋予了一种工作，那就是精神的成长。 —— 列夫·托尔斯泰

32. Man has been given a task, that is, the growth of the spirit. — Leo Tolstoy

33. 你要记住，永远要愉快地多给别人，少从别人那里拿取。高尔基

33. Remember, you should always give more to others happily and take less from them. - Gorky

34. 没有运动，生活等于昏睡;没有思考，生活等于盲从;没有节制，生活等于毁灭;没有快乐，生活等于凝固。

34. Without movement, life is like a coma; without thought, life is like blind obedience; without moderation, life is like destruction; without joy, life is like stagnation.

35. 说端话的人所得到的，就只是即使说了真话也没有人相信。-伊索

35. The man who talks too much gets believed when he speaks the truth, too. - Aesop

36. 碰到不顺心的事，不要脸红心跳。压下去再说，睡完觉处理更好些。话说到底分几分，没有定数。只是劝你莫把话说太绝，以免自打嘴巴。

36. When faced with something unpleasant, don't blush and feel embarrassed. Hold it in and deal with it after you've had a good sleep. In the end, how much of it to take seriously is not a fixed number. Just a word of advice: don't say things too harshly, or you might end up slapping your own face.

37. 一个人如果不是真正有道德，就不可能真正有智意。精明和智意是非常不同的两件事。精明的人是精细考虑他自己利益的人；智意的人是精细考虑他人利益的人。-雪莱

37. One cannot truly possess wisdom if one does not have true morality. Cleverness and wisdom are two very different things. A clever person is someone who carefully considers their own interests; a wise person is someone who carefully considers the interests of others. - Shelley

38. 有资格坐轿的人，争着抬轿的很多，你再凑热闹，别人也未必注意你，不妨扶一下旁边那个走得筋疲力尽的人，对于他，每一次帮助都意味着一种人世的温暖。

38. There are many people eager to carry the sedan chair for those who are qualified to ride it. If you join the crowd, others may not even notice you. Why not help the person next to you who is exhausted from walking? To him, each act of help means a warmth of human kindness.

39. 没有清醒的头脑，再快的脚步也会走歪;没有谨慎的步伐，再平的道路也会跌倒。

39. Without a clear head, even the swiftest pace will veer off course; without careful steps, even the flattest path will result in a fall.

40. 真正的美，是美在它本身能显出奕奕的神采。爱好时髦是一种不良的风尚，因为她的容貌是不因她爱好时髦而改变的。卢梭

40. True beauty is the kind that can display its resplendent luster on its own. A fondness for fashion is an ill manner, for her appearance does not change because of her fondness for fashion. Rousseau

41. 做人要地道，好人有好报；做事要踏实，步履才坚实！

41. Be honest in your character, and good people will be rewarded; be steady in your actions, and your steps will be firm!

42. 势不可使尽，福不可享尽，便宜不可占尽，聪明不可用尽。

42. Power should not be used to its fullest, blessings should not be enjoyed to the fullest, benefits should not be taken to the fullest, and wisdom should not be used to the fullest.

43. 乐民之乐者，民亦乐其乐；忧民之忧者，民亦忧其忧。《孟子梁惠王下》

43. Those who take joy in the joy of the people will also find joy in their own joy; those who take sorrow in the sorrow of the people will also find sorrow in their own sorrow. — From Mencius, Chapter 7 of Book 2, King Hui of Liang.

44. 夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非澹泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。《诫子书》

44. The conduct of a gentleman is characterized by tranquility in self-cultivation and frugality in nurturing virtue. Without a serene and tranquil mind, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve great distances. ("Exhortation to My Son")

45. 人，应当像“人”宇，永远向上而又双脚踏地。-佚名

45. Human beings should be like the character '人' (man), always reaching upwards while both feet are firmly on the ground. - Unknown

46. 人给我抚慰，我还他热情；人给我亲切，我还他尊敬；人给我宽容，我还他真诚；人给我自尊，我还他高兴！

46. When people comfort me, I return their warmth; when people show kindness to me, I repay them with respect; when people extend tolerance to me, I give them sincerity; and when people bestow self-esteem upon me, I make them happy!

47. 一个永远不欣赏别人的人，也就是一个永远也不被别人欣赏的人。汪国真

47. A person who never appreciates others will also never be appreciated by others. - Wang Guozhen

48. 君子也做事，甘恶衣粗食，甘苦劳动，斯可无失。

48. A gentleman also handles matters, content with coarse clothing and simple food, willing to endure hardship through labor, thus ensuring no mistakes.

49. 在你过去的生活中，你已经忘记了你伤害了谁，但被你伤害的人永远不会忘记你。他永远不会记住你的优点，而是记住你对他的伤害。·卡耐基

49. In your past life, you may have forgotten who you hurt, but the people you hurt will never forget you. They will never remember your virtues, but rather remember the harm you have caused to them. - Carnegie

50. 受人恩情，作为未来报答的地方，不能多求人也。-曾国藩

50. When receiving favors, one should not ask for too much, as the place for future repayment. - Zeng Guofan

51. 生活的真谛在于创新，生活的理想在于远大，生活的艺术在于选择，生活的步履在于踏实，生活的乐趣在于追求，生活的安乐在于平淡。

51. The essence of life lies in innovation, the ideal of life is grand, the art of life is in choice, the pace of life is in steadiness, the joy of life is in pursuit, and the comfort of life is in simplicity.

52. 对于我来说，生命的意义在于设身处地青别人着想，优他人之优，乐他人之乐。-爱因斯坦

52. To me, the meaning of life is to think of others with empathy, to take joy in the joys of others, and to excel in the excellence of others. - Einstein

53. 理智要比心灵为高，思想要比感情可靠。 —— 高尔基

53. Reason is higher than the heart, thought is more reliable than emotion. —— Gorky

54. 只有在不仅消灭了阶级对立，而且在实际生活中也忘却了这种对立的社会发展阶段上，超越阶级对立和超越这种对立的回忆的、真正人的道德才成为可能。 —— 恩格斯

54. It is only at a stage of societal development where not only class contradictions have been eliminated but also this contradiction has been forgotten in actual life that a truly human morality transcending class contradictions and the memories of such contradictions becomes possible. — Engels

55. 给自己找茬是诊断，给自己找事是磨练，给自己剖析是知己，给自己嘲笑是激励！

55. Finding fault with oneself is diagnosis, creating trouble for oneself is tempering, analyzing oneself is knowing oneself, and ridiculing oneself is motivation!

56. 好听的话谁都爱听，它能给人自豪自尊自信，而赞美正是让人获得心的满足。听到别人的反面意见，背后来的意见，这时要特别注意冷静。与人同行，不要走得太快，不要离得太近，给别人一些进退的空间。

56. Everyone loves to hear sweet words, as they can give people a sense of pride, self-respect, and confidence, and praise is exactly what brings a feeling of heart satisfaction. When you hear others' negative opinions or criticisms, pay special attention to staying calm. When walking together with others, don't walk too fast or too close, and give them some space to move in and out.

57. 天下作伪是最苦恼的事情，老老实实是最愉快的事情。《韬奋文集》

57. The greatest sorrow in the world is to act deceitfully, while the greatest joy is to be honest and straightforward. — From Tao Fen's Collection.

58. 信任少数人，不伤害任何人，爱所有人。莎士比亚

58. Trust a few, harm no one, love all. Shakespeare.

59. 学会授权他人，许多人不肯或不能这样做，因此始终被钉在从属的职位上。授权他人是成功的一半，一个事无巨细，不能将工作授权别人的人，注定会遇到极大的障碍。

59. Learn to delegate tasks to others; many people are unwilling or unable to do so, and as a result, they are always stuck in subordinate positions. Delegating tasks is half the battle for success. A person who is meticulous about every detail and cannot delegate their work is doomed to encounter tremendous obstacles.

60. 名句作为警示自己的句子，希望以上《有关为人处事的名言》内容对您有所帮助，如果还想获取更多名句内容可以点击 为人尽力却寒心的诗句 专题。

60. Famous sayings as sentences to warn myself, hoping the content of "Famous Sayings about Dealing with People" above will be helpful to you. If you want to get more famous sayings, you can click on the special topic "Poems That Break Your Heart Despite Striving Your Best as a Person".

61. 生活是欺骗不了的，一个人要生活得光明磊落。冯雪峰

61. Life cannot be deceived; one must live with integrity. — Feng Xuefeng

62. 大海的浪花靠风吹起，生活的浪花靠人鼓起。做人应积极进取，挑战人生，使人格完美，使真情永恒！

62. The foam of the sea is raised by the wind, and the foam of life is stirred by people. As human beings, we should be proactive and ambitious, challenge life, perfect our character, and make true feelings eternal!

63. 骨宜刚，气宜柔，志宜大，胆宜小，心宜虚，言宜实，慧宜增，福宜惜。做人要以礼义交际，以廉耻律己！

63. The bones should be firm, the qi should be soft, the ambition should be great, the courage should be small, the heart should be empty, the words should be truthful, wisdom should be increased, and blessings should be cherished. In life, one should interact with others based on propriety and righteousness, and govern oneself with modesty and shame!

64. 只有花掉的那部分钱才是真正属于你的财富，你就是家缠万贯，生时舍不得吃、舍不得穿，俩眼一闭，剩下的钱你知道谁花了才怪，冤不冤。还有那些省吃俭用的贪官，好好的高官不做，结果因贪返贫，一分钱没花着还搭上个人财产全部没收，惨不惨。

64. Only the money you spend is truly your wealth. If you're a person who's wealthy but can't bring yourself to enjoy life, not eating or wearing nice clothes, and then you die, who do you think will spend the money left behind? Isn't that a joke? There are also those frugal officials who would rather live on a tight budget; they don't enjoy their high-ranking positions and end up becoming poor again due to their greed. They don't spend a cent, and in the end, all their personal property is confiscated. Isn't that a tragedy?

65. 为别人尽最大的力量，最后就是为自己尽最大的力量。罗斯金

65. Do your utmost for others, and in the end, it is for yourself you will have done the most. - Ruskin

66. 认为艺术家的自由在于他想干什么就干什么，那么是错误的。这是胡作非为者的自由。斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基

66. It is wrong to believe that the freedom of an artist lies in doing whatever he wants. This is the freedom of a mischief-maker. - Stanislavsky

67. 敢于面对困境的人，生命因此坚强;敢于挑战逆境的人，生命因此茁壮。

67. Those who dare to face adversity, their lives become strong; those who dare to challenge the adverse, their lives therefore thrive.

68. 即使你享受幸福，享受荣耀和财富，如果没有人真诚地为你快乐，你怎么能有伟大的幸福呢？与此同时，在逆境中，如果没有人果没有人认为它比你更重，它将不可避免地更难以忍受。-西塞罗

68. Even if you enjoy happiness, glory, and wealth, how can you have great happiness if no one sincerely rejoices for you? At the same time, in adversity, if no one considers it more burdensome than you, it will inevitably be harder to bear. - Ciceron

69. 人的一生应该为自己而活，学会喜欢自己，不要太在意别人怎么看我，也不要太在意别人怎么想我。事实上，别人如何衡量你取决于你如何衡量自己！——席慕蓉

69. A person's life should be lived for oneself, learn to like oneself, and don't pay too much attention to how others perceive me, nor too much attention to how others think of me. In fact, how others measure you depends on how you measure yourself! — Xiemuren

70. 能屈能伸：学会低头，退一步海阔天空，脸皮厚点，把丢脸看成是一种磨炼，别为小事较真。水流不腐，人活不输，做情绪的主人，调整心态。

70. Bend and stretch: Learn to bow your head, take a step back and find the sky vast, be a bit thick-skinned, regard being embarrassed as a form of tempering, and don't argue over trivial matters. Water never decays, and people never lose. Be the master of your emotions, adjust your mindset.

71. 在一个人民的国家中还要有一种推动的枢纽，这就是美德。 —— 孟德斯鸠

71. In a country of the people, there must also be a driving pivot, which is virtue. — Montesquieu

72. 谁若想在困厄时得到援助，就应在平日待人以宽。萨迪

72. He who wishes to receive help in times of adversity should show leniency in dealing with others in ordinary times. — Saadi

73. 花有色、香、味；人有才、情、趣。健康、信仰、物质基础是人生三大支柱。做人须具备三有：有健康、有专长、有平常心！

73. Flowers have color, fragrance, and taste; people have talent, emotion, and interest. Health, faith, and material foundation are the three pillars of life. To be a person, one must possess three qualities: have health, have a specialty, and have a common mind!

74. 对小人一定要忍让，退一步海阔天空，实在不行把属于自己的空间也送给他们。大人需要大度量，不把俗事放在心里，小人鼠肚鸡肠，惹着小人就等与惹了麻烦，天底下顶数小人惹不起。

74. Always be tolerant of small-minded people, take a step back and there will be room for the sea and the sky. If things really can't be helped, even give them the space that belongs to you. Adults need a great measure, not to take mundane matters to heart. Small-minded people are narrow-minded and stingy, and provoking them is akin to inviting trouble. Among all the troubles in the world, the ones that are hardest to deal with are caused by small-minded people.

75. 做事不必与俗同，亦不宜与俗异。做事不必令人喜，亦不可令人憎。对事不对人，对事无情，对人要有情；做人第一，做事其次。

75. It is not necessary to conform to the customs when doing things, nor should one deviate from them. It is not necessary to please everyone in one's actions, nor should one anger them. Be objective with matters, not with people; be emotionless towards matters, but have compassion towards people; being a good person comes first, followed by doing things well.

76. 你可以忘掉失败，但不能忘掉教训;你可以忘掉昨天，但不能忘记历史;你可以忘掉苦难，但不能忘却艰辛;你可以忘掉伤疤，但不能忘却耻辱。

76. You can forget about failure, but you cannot forget the lessons learned; you can forget yesterday, but you cannot forget history; you can forget about suffering, but you cannot forget the hardships; you can forget the scars, but you cannot forget the shame.

77. 憎恨别人就像为了逮住一只耗子而不惜烧毁你自己的房子。但耗子不一定逮到了。

77. Hating others is like burning down your own house to catch a mouse, but the mouse may not necessarily be caught.

78. 就事论事，这是用人的原则；通情达理，这是处世的原则；荣辱与共，这是交友的原则；生死无惧，这是做人的原则。

78. Dealing with matters as they are is the principle of employing people; being reasonable and considerate is the principle of dealing with others; sharing honors and耻辱 is the principle of making friends; not fearing life and death is the principle of being a person.

79. 失去的我们不妨让其失去，因为它可让我们少些惆怅;得到的我们不妨少些满足，因为它可让我们多些清醒。

79. We might as well let go of what we have lost, as it can spare us some melancholy; and we might as well have less satisfaction with what we have gained, as it can bring us more clarity.

80. 要更多去探望处在危难中而不是正在走红的朋友。-开伦

80. Visit friends in trouble more than those who are popular. - Kailun

81. 不患位之不尊，而患德之不崇；不耻禄之不伙，而耻智之不博。 —— 张衡

81. Do not worry about the lack of respect for your position, but worry about the lack of cultivation of your virtue; do not be ashamed of not having a generous salary, but be ashamed of not having a broad knowledge. —— Zhang Heng

82. 一个人不应该与被财富毁了的人交接来往--居里夫人

82. One should not associate with a person who has been destroyed by wealth -- Madame Curie.

83. 请意识到与人共生的重要性，永远怀着感恩的心，以不忘恩负义、不忽视感恩、尊重忠诚的心与人交往。-松下幸之助

83. Be aware of the importance of coexistence with others, always with a heart of gratitude, and interact with people with a spirit of not forgetting gratitude, not neglecting it, and respecting loyalty. - Konosuke Matsushita

84. 放弃该放弃的是无奈，放弃不该放弃的是无能；不放弃该放弃的是无知，不放弃不该放弃的是执着。

84. Giving up what should be given up is resignation, giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, and not giving up what should not be given up is obsession.

85. 可怕的还不是孤独和寂寞，而是你不得不同你不愿意交往的人打交道。何怀宏

85. The可怕 thing is not loneliness and solitude, but rather having to interact with people you do not want to associate with. - He Hua宏