1. 很多人诠释勇敢的时候往往是董存瑞炸碉堡之类的。和平年代，火柴都不让带上飞机，我们很难指望出现了考验人生死于一线的勇敢。

1. Many people interpret bravery as the kind of courage demonstrated by Dong Cunrui when he blew up a fortress. In times of peace, matches are not even allowed on airplanes, so it's hard for us to expect a situation that would test one's life-and-death bravery on the front lines.

2. 人类最可悲的是什么，我们每一个人都在用生命想要去论证，我跟别人不同。可是恰恰是这种想要论证和别人不同的心态，最tm相同。

2. What is the most tragic thing about humans? We all try to use our lives to prove that we are different from others. However, it is precisely this desire to prove our difference that is the most f*cking similar.

3. 09 越善良的人，越需要聪明。越聪明的人，越有能力善良。

3.09 The kinder a person is, the more intelligent they need to be. The more intelligent a person is, the more capable they are of being kind.

4. 婚姻生活都是柴米油盐。婚姻生活不会有那么多的情情爱爱，都是各种的小毛小病，各种的柴米油盐的小事情。所以每一个人的婚姻生活一定会发生争吵，一定会有许多的矛盾，没有哪两个人可以说，他们可以一直相爱到永远，永远不发生任何的争吵。也没有任何两个人可以说，他们对对方永远都是像最初那样，没有任何的异心，毕竟这些都不是不可能的。所以婚姻到背后，两个人都会成为彼此的亲人，正是对亲人的这一份责任，所以才将自己的婚姻生活进行下去。

4. Marriage life is all about daily chores and mundane matters. There isn't much romance or love involved; it's filled with various trivial issues, small irritations, and everyday routines of cooking and cleaning. Therefore, it is inevitable for every marriage to have arguments and conflicts. No two people can claim that they will always love each other forever without any disagreements. Nor can any two people assert that they will always treat each other as they did at the beginning, with no ulterior motives, for these are not impossible to occur. So, as marriage progresses, both partners become each other's family. It is this sense of responsibility towards family that compels them to continue their marital life.

5. 有时候不是我们天生容易遇渣男，是彼此价值观不吻合，互相碾压，把对方都弄成了渣。

5. Sometimes it's not that we are naturally prone to meet bad guys, but rather that our values don't align with each other, and we end up mutually trampling each other, turning both of us into trash.

6. 你没有爱了，需要陪伴，养条狗啊。

6. You no longer have love, you need companionship, get a dog.

7. 不是在乎谁对谁错，只是在乎你还爱我吗。

7. It's not about who is right or wrong, it's just about whether you still love me.

8. 人是要靠能力生存的，不能靠怜悯生存。

8. People must rely on their abilities to survive, not on compassion.

9. 祝你们每个睡不着的晚上，都是为生活琐事烦恼，不是为生命流逝痛苦。

9. May every sleepless night of yours be troubled by trivial matters of life, not by the pain of the passing of time.

10. 这暴露了他们男人，尤其是资深男人一个最险恶的心理，就是既希望你赚钱养家，还敢希望你貌美如花。发现了吗，如果你想通过拼事业的方式拼到男人，你要干两份工作，领一只鸡的钱，提供的却是双拼的服务。

10. This exposes the most sinister psychological trait of some men, especially senior men, who not only expect you to earn money to support the family but also dare to hope that you look beautiful as a flower. Did you notice? If you want to win over a man through your career pursuits, you have to do two jobs, earn the money of one chicken, and provide double the services.

11. 你是天空中的一片云，偶尔投影在我的波心，可是长生不老会带来什么？你是天空中的一片云，老投影在老子的波心，都形成了我的心理阴影。

11. You are a cloud in the sky, occasionally casting a shadow on the core of my waves, but what does immortality bring? You are a cloud in the sky, always casting a shadow on the core of my waves, all of which have formed my psychological shadow.

12. 自由之代价使自由更高贵。 ——马薇薇

12. The price of freedom makes freedom more noble. ——Ma Weivivi

13. 很多时候我们知道做很多事不好，但是为什么我们不去改变？因为我们太舒服了，我们懒得去改变。 ——肖骁

13. Many times we know that doing many things is not good, but why don't we change? Because we are too comfortable, and we are too lazy to change. —— Xiao Xiao

14. 当你在拒绝外界的歧视的时候，你也在拒绝外界的帮助。 ——马薇薇

14. When you refuse discrimination from the outside world, you are also refusing help from the outside world. ——Ma Wewei

15. 1要自由的人，其实要担最大的责任，选别人少走的路的人，要背负最沉重的枷锁，从来就没有不需要重力的飞行。

15.1 For a free person, in fact, it means to bear the greatest responsibility; for those who choose the road less traveled by others, they have to carry the heaviest shackles. There has never been any flight that does not require gravity.

16. 01 手段不够硬，身段就要软。

16.01 If the means are not strong, one must be flexible.

17. 07 人类 历史 步步前行，沾满血腥。没有霹雳手段，怎怀菩萨心肠。

17.07 Human history has been advancing step by step, soaked in blood. Without the thunderous means, how can one have the compassion of the Bodhisattva's heart?

18. 3当你在拒绝外界的歧视的时候，你也在拒绝外界的帮助

18. 3 When you reject discrimination from the outside world, you are also rejecting help from the outside world.

19. 当你看到美女内心小鹿乱撞的时候，那些禽兽已经乱撞过小鹿很多次了。

19. When you're overwhelmed with excitement at the sight of a beautiful woman, those beasts have already chased the deer many times over.

20. 想看生殖，看繁衍，去看动物世界啊！

20. Want to see reproduction and proliferation? Go check out the animal kingdom!

21. 只要不伤害别人，没有什么捷径是值得抨击的。

21. As long as it does not harm others, there is no shortcut that is worth criticizing.

22. 单，所以我残缺，所以我在人世间如狗般寻觅，我嗅嗅这里，我嗅嗅那里，我在闻那种独属于我的味道。我被这个人赶出去，不要紧，我被那个人踢走，也不要紧。我流浪在这孤独的尘世，正如所说的，真爱如狗，这个标准不可改，单身如狗，直到找到另外一个和我嗅味相投的狗，我们相逢，最后，我们由狗修炼成人，获得自由。

22. Alone, hence I am incomplete, and so in this world, I wander like a dog, sniffing here and there, seeking that unique scent that belongs only to me. It matters not if I am chased away by this person, nor if I am kicked out by that one. I roam this lonely world, as it is said, true love is like a dog, this standard cannot be changed. Being single is like a dog, until I find another dog whose scent resonates with mine, and we meet. Finally, we evolve from dogs to humans, gaining freedom.

23. 一般的男人爱要面子,不会当着别人的面哭的!但是一个深爱着她的男人,会为自己心爱的她而流泪的。如果有个男人为你哭，那必定是你伤了他的心，深深地伤了他的心，让他不顾男人的尊严，在你面前不经意地流下了眼泪。

23. Generally, men love to preserve their dignity and would not cry in front of others! However, a man deeply in love with her would shed tears for his beloved. If a man cries for you, it must be that you have deeply hurt his heart, making him disregard a man's dignity and shed tears inadvertently in front of you.

24. 你男朋友出个轨，回来跟你说我觉得你应该接受，因为这是我们人类自然而然的状态，哎呀，我控制不住自然而然的给了你一巴掌。

24. Your boyfriend cheated on you and then came back to tell you that I think you should accept it because this is a natural state for humans, oh my, I couldn't help but naturally slap you in the face.

25. 你不允许我在办公室谈恋爱，那我出了办公室你也不要和我谈工作，这才是真的公私分明。 ——邱晨

25. You don't allow me to date in the office, then when I'm outside the office, don't talk to me about work either; that's truly separating personal from professional. — Qiu Chen

26. 要自由的人，其实要担最大的责任，选别人少走的路的人，要背负最沉重的枷锁，从来就没有不需要抵抗重力的飞翔。

26. The ones who seek freedom actually bear the greatest responsibility; those who choose the path less taken carry the heaviest shackles. There has never been a flight that does not resist gravity.

27. 14婚姻生活不像你想象的那么完满。要么最爱吹牛x的童话里，只写到王子和公主幸福的生活在一起，他为什么不写那些生活的细节只写幸福本身？因为生活、幸福很多时候是充满一些小磨难的，你得忽视它。不要看地上的那些裂缝，不要看它的细纹，不要看有没有尘，你得大步走过去。

27. 14 Marital life is not as perfect as you imagine. Either in the most boastful fairy tales, they only describe the happy life of the prince and princess together, why don't they write about the details of their lives but only about happiness itself? Because life, happiness, is often filled with small hardships, and you have to ignore them. Don't look at the cracks on the ground, don't look at its fine lines, don't look at whether there is dust, you just have to stride right over them.

28. 都说女人是男人身上的一根肋骨，你跟你的器官讲隐私！

28. They say a woman is a rib taken from a man, but you're discussing privacy with your own organ!

29. 自卑不是来自你的缺点，而来自你没有足以对抗的优点。

29. Inferiority complex does not come from your shortcomings, but from the lack of enough strengths to counter them.

30. 9第五季，我终于可以好好地崩溃了。今天是我最后的致辞，接下来我要去开我的红酒了

30. Season 5, at last, I can collapse properly. Today is my last speech, and next, I'm going to open my bottle of wine.

31. 04 我们宁愿拿着那些遥远在天边的人，当自己的偶像和榜样；却不愿学习尊敬和欣赏，那些我们身边取得进步和成就的人，这是我们真正的问题所在。

31. 04 We would rather hold those distant figures in the horizon as our idols and role models; yet we are unwilling to learn to respect and appreciate the people around us who have made progress and achieved success, which is where our true problem lies.

32. 曾经的两情相悦海誓山盟转瞬都是空。

32. The once heartfelt promises and solemn oaths of mutual affection have all turned to nothingness in an instant.

33. 自由之所以是奢望，是因为，你割舍不了其他欲望。

33. The reason why freedom is a luxury is because you cannot give up other desires.

34. 10生活是一个巨大的绞肉机，你们这些小鲜肉，最后都会被绞成肉末

34. Life is a gigantic meat grinder, and you young folks will eventually all be ground into mince.

35. 前两天看《奇葩说》的时候，马薇薇说了这样一句话：爱情是一个家园，当我们在一起的时候，都可以不那么好 。

35. A couple of days ago, while watching "The Odd One Out," Ma Weiwei said this: "Love is a home, where we can be not so good when we are together."

36. 八卦有罪，罪在不仅浪费你自己的生命，更企图消费别人的生命。今天你八卦了吗？今天又过去了一天。脑子里装满了别人的你啊，不要老盯着别人奔跑时的造型，因为，人生的路正在你自己的脚下。

36.八卦 is guilty, guilty not only for wasting your own life but also for attempting to consume others' lives. Have you been gossiping today? Another day has passed. Your mind is filled with images of others, don't keep staring at the styles others have when they're running because, the path of life is right beneath your own feet.

37. 因为再可怕再孤独，都没有被人催着进入一段你还没有准备好的婚姻更可怕。

37. No matter how terrifying and lonely it is, it's nothing compared to being rushed into a marriage that you're not ready for.

38. 别人是夜深忽梦少年事，唯梦闲人不梦君，而你是夜深忽梦少年事，全是闲人没有君。

38. While others in the deep of the night suddenly dream of youthful pastimes, only dreaming of idle people and not of you, but you, in the deep of the night suddenly dream of youthful pastimes, and all are idle people without you.

39. 没有任何成功是不付出就得到的。而当大家都愿意付出的时候，没有哪一种付出比另外一种付出更低贱。

39. No success is achieved without effort. And when everyone is willing to make an effort, no form of effort is inherently more despicable than another.

40. 火车出轨，问题要么出在火车头，要么在婚姻这个轨道，不在外面的风景。 ——胡渐彪

40. The train derails, the problem lies either in the locomotive or on the track of marriage, not in the scenery outside. ——Hu Jiantiao

41. 一旦无穷就容易放肆，而一旦加个期限，你就会学会克制。 ——陈铭

41. Once it becomes endless, it's easy to be indulgent, but once you set a deadline, you will learn to control yourself. ——Chen Ming

42. 我们中国人讲，我活了这一生。死的时候要过桥的时候，要喝掉一碗孟婆汤。前尘皆忘，再入轮回。我才遇到了你，你何必让我醒过来。三生纠葛，几多痛楚。你一句爱，不足以使我不堕轮回。

42. As the Chinese say, I have lived my life. When the time comes to cross the bridge to the afterlife, I must drink a bowl of the soup of forgetting. All past life is forgotten, and I am to enter the cycle of rebirth. It's only just that I met you, why must you make me wake up? Three lives intertwined, so much suffering. Your one word of love is not enough to keep me from falling into the cycle of rebirth.

43. 2恐惧风险，就不应该追求成功。如果志在山野，就不要追求庙堂之高。如果追求庙堂之高，就不要在乎权术险恶。

43.2 If one fears risks, one should not seek success. If one's ambition lies in the mountains and fields, then one should not seek the lofty halls. And if one seeks the lofty halls, one should not be concerned about the treacherous nature of power and cunning.

44. 03 幸福感的一个标准，是可不可以常常保持对不喜欢的事，说“不要”。

44. 03 A standard of happiness is whether you can often say "no" to things you don't like.

45. 6你直白地指出别人的缺点的时候，意味着你认可他的优点。

45. 6 When you point out someone's shortcomings directly, it means you acknowledge their strengths.

46. 前尘皆忘，再入轮回，我才遇到了你。三生纠葛，几多痛楚，你一句爱，不足以使我不堕轮回。

46. I met you only after forgetting all past lives and re-entering the cycle of rebirth. Through three lives entangled, there has been much pain. Your one word of love is not enough to keep me from falling into the cycle of rebirth.

47. 如果你跟周围所有的人在一起都觉得在将就，围绕着你的都是苍蝇，这时候你有没有怀疑自己是一坨屎。 ——颜如晶

47. If you feel like you're making do with everyone around you, and all you see are flies surrounding you, have you ever suspected that you might be a pile of shit yourself? —— Yan Rujing

48. 人间三情（亲情，友情，爱情），无一不傻。 ——马薇薇

48. The three human emotions (filial piety, friendship, and love) are all foolish. ——Ma Weivivi

49. 他们是一个人，他独自的灵魂是完整的。

49. They are one; his solitary soul is whole.

50. 要自由的人，其实要担最大的责任，选别人少走的路的人，要背负最沉重的枷锁，从来就没有不需要重力的飞行。 ——马薇薇

50. The people who seek freedom actually bear the greatest responsibility; those who choose the path less traveled bear the heaviest shackles. There has never been any flight that does not require gravity. ——Ma Wewei

51. 我经常奇怪这个鬼鬼祟祟的人间，喜欢温柔婉约地泼人脏水以示为人高洁，却不肯明刀明枪地干上一场。

51. I often wonder about this stealthy and cunning world, where people prefer to throw mud at others in a gentle and delicate manner to show their own purity, yet they are unwilling to engage in a straightforward battle.

52. 傲慢到极处，带着漫不经心的谦卑，平衡成了一种平等。

52. At the extreme of pride, accompanied by casual humility, balance becomes an equality.

53. 屎壳郎的人生就是：仰望星空，低头滚粪。

53. The life of a dung beetle is: look up at the stars and bow down to roll dung.

54. 我们人一生都会交很多朋友，而缔结我们友谊的要素，在与对方的的优点，而不在于对方毫无缺点。

54. Throughout our lives, we will make many friends, and the elements that bind our friendships are the virtues of the other person, not the absence of their flaws.

55. 所以不要对婚姻生活报太大的希望，毕竟每个人到最后，谁不是在苦苦支撑。

55. So don't have too high expectations for married life, after all, isn't everyone struggling to get by in the end?

56. 要独立，要自强，同时还要做好妻子，好妈妈，我怎么这么闲啊我！

56. To be independent and self-reliant, and at the same time, to be a good wife and a good mother, how can I be so idle, I wonder!

57. 这是一个什么都缺，唯独不缺梦想的年代。

57. This is an era where everything is lacking, except for dreams.

58. 你可以一天整成范冰冰，但你不能一天读成林徽因。 ——姜思达

58. You can become Fan Bingbing in a day, but you can't become Lin Huiyin in a day. ——Jiang Sida

59. 选择我爱的人是给自己制造伤口，选择爱我的人是给自己一副盔甲。 ——蔡康永

59. Choosing the one I love wounds myself, choosing the one who loves me equips myself with armor. ——Raymond Chen

60. 虚伪是强者对弱者的爱，是坏人对好人最后的致敬。

60. Hypocrisy is the love of the strong for the weak, and the last tribute of the wicked to the good.

61. 那些撒娇弄痴的日子，我都得花着精力对男人进行深入持久的表扬：你工作优秀才华横溢不知道为什么我控制不住被你的幽默逗笑了呢？男权社会，男人的尊严遍布全身，随口一戳，就是G点；当然，随口一错，也是痛点。

61. The days of acting childishly and coquettishly, I have to spend energy on giving men in-depth and persistent praise: You're excellent at your work and full of talent, and for some reason, I can't help but be amused by your humor? In a patriarchal society, a man's dignity is all over his body, and a casual jab can hit a G-spot; of course, a casual mistake can also be a sore point.

62. 男人哭了代表是真的爱这个人。哭是一个人内心世界的缘故，它代表着很多的理由和内涵，哭会体现出一个人心里的柔弱和无奈，有时也会体现出一个人不坚强的表现，如果一个人内心承受不住突如其来的打击，无法忍受一些痛苦和悲伤。

62. A man's tears signify that he truly loves this person. Crying is a manifestation of one's inner world, representing many reasons and connotations. It shows a person's inner vulnerability and helplessness, and sometimes it also reveals a person's lack of strength. If someone's heart cannot bear the sudden blows, they may not be able to endure certain pain and sadness.

63. 爱情是一个巨大的游乐场，我哭过，我笑过，我在里面无所收获。可是转回头，我看当年的相片，我美过。?>

63. Love is a vast playground where I've cried and laughed, and from which I've gained nothing. But looking back, I see that I was beautiful in those days. ?>

64. 对待婚姻要谨慎。你面对社会再多催促的压力，你回到家觉得再害怕，你觉得再紧张，你觉得我年纪大了再没人要都不要紧。

64. Be cautious about marriage. No matter how much pressure you face from society, how scared you feel at home, or how tense you feel, and no matter how you think that at my age, if no one wants to marry me, it's all right.

65. 他是我无聊的宅女生活里一只叽叽喳喳的喜鹊，他们说他报喜，而我，只是不能接受，某天早上推开窗户，他没在等我。

65. He was a chattering magpie in my无聊, indoor girl life. They say he brings good news, but to me, I just can't accept it. One morning, when I opened the window, he wasn't waiting for me.

66. 05 随着时间的流逝，我们终究会原谅，那些曾经伤害过我们的人。但更多时候，那不是原谅，那是算了。

66. 05 As time passes, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us. But more often than not, that's not forgiveness; it's just letting it go.

67. 7有时不是我们天生容易遇渣男，是彼此的价值观不吻合，互相碾压，把对方弄成了渣。

67. 7 Sometimes it's not that we are naturally prone to meet渣男, but rather that our values don't align with each other, we mutually crush each other, and turn each other into渣.

68. 选别人少走的路的人，要背负最沉重的枷锁。

68. Those who choose the road less traveled bear the heaviest chains.

69. 恐惧风险，就不应该追求成功。如果志在山野，就不要追求庙堂之高。如果追求庙堂之高，就不要在乎权术险恶。 ——马薇薇

69. If you are afraid of risks, you shouldn't strive for success. If your ambition is in the mountains and wilds, don't chase the lofty positions in the temples. And if you chase the lofty positions in the temples, don't worry about the cunning and treacherous politics. ——Ma Weiwie

70. 恋爱是什么，是浪漫，浪漫是什么，不仅是情不知所起一往而深，更是情不知何时而起一往而深。

70. What is love? It is romance. What is romance? It is not only that one is deeply in love without knowing where it came from, but also that one is deeply in love without knowing when it began.

71. 得不到的永远在骚动，得到的永远骚不动。 ——花希

71. What can't be obtained is always restless, and what has been obtained is always still. —— Huaxi

72. 16其购买一个名牌，何不让自己成为一个名牌，小确幸不如大欢喜。

72. Why not make yourself a brand, too, by buying a famous brand? Little joys are not as satisfying as great happiness.

73. 我们天生容易遇渣男，是彼此价值观不吻合，互相碾压，把对方都弄成了渣。

73. We are naturally prone to encounter bad boys, as our values do not align with each other, we crush each other, turning both into渣 (scum).

74. 但是在正能量的阳光下，有一个角落是你们覆盖不到的，这种人叫单身狗。单身狗中有一种极品犬，叫注孤生。份子钱的存在，是这个世界对他们的打劫。他们永远只有付出，蓦然回首发现没有回报，送出去的份子钱，不仅伤了我的情，还伤了我的钱。

74. But under the positive sunlight, there is a corner that you all cannot reach, and such people are called "bachelor dogs." Among the bachelor dogs, there is a type of top-grade dog called "the destined bachelor." The existence of wedding gift money is like the world looting them. They always only give, only to suddenly realize that there is no return. The wedding gift money they sent out not only hurt my feelings but also my money.

75. 一个人值得骄傲，不是因为他吃苦，不是因为他自我实现，而是因为最后他吃的苦能让其他人不再吃苦。

75. A person is worthy of pride not because he endures hardship, not because he achieves self-realization, but because the hardship he endures ultimately allows others to no longer suffer.

76. 你可以去跟别人搞暧昧，你甚至也可以出轨，一个男人最起码的责任感是做到，不让人发现。

76. You can be flirtatious with others, and you can even cheat on your partner, but at the very least, a man's responsibility is to ensure that it is not discovered.

77. 世界上有一个我，世界上有一个你，我们把彼此都打破，加了水，加了泥和在一起，重塑一个我，重塑一个你，从此你泥中有我，我泥中有了你。

77. There is a me in the world, and there is a you in the world. We break each other apart, add water, add mud, and mix together, reshaping into a new me and a new you. From then on, in your mud, there is me, and in my mud, there is you.