1. 后悔是和种耗费精神的情绪，后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误，所以不要后悔

1. Regret is an emotionally exhausting feeling; regret is a loss greater than the actual loss, and a mistake greater than the actual mistake, so do not regret.

2. 谋成于密而败于泄，三军之事莫重于密（明· 揭暄）

2. Success is achieved in secrecy and failure in revelation; the most crucial aspect of military affairs is secrecy (from the Ming Dynasty, by Jie Xuan).

3. 4什么叫快乐？就是掩饰自己的悲伤对每个人微笑。

3.4 What is happiness? It is to smile at everyone while concealing one's own sadness.

4. 太多的秘密和太少的秘密都说明精神的软弱（沃维纳格）

4. Too many secrets and too few secrets indicate spiritual weakness (Wovinaque)

5. 玻璃、陶瓷和名誉都很容易破裂，而且永远无法弥补。

5. Glass, ceramics, and reputation are all easily broken and can never be made whole again.

6. 在秘密地寻欢作乐时，恐惧多于欢欣。古罗马哲学家绪儒斯

6. In the secret pursuit of pleasure, fear outweighs joy. The Roman philosopher, Syrus, said:

7. 眼睛会泄露心中的秘密。乔· 爱略特

7. The eyes can betray the secrets of the heart. Joe E. Elliot

8. 9如果可以和你在一起，我宁愿让天空所有的星光全部损落，因为你的眼睛，是我生命里最亮的光芒。

8. 9 If I could be with you, I would rather have all the stars in the sky fall away, for your eyes are the brightest light in my life.

9. 02付出真心，才会得到真心，却也可能伤得彻底；保持距离，就能保护自己，却也注定永远孤寂。 03通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人，才是真正爱你的人。

9. 02 Only by giving your heart sincerely can you receive sincerity in return, but it may also result in a complete heartbreak; by maintaining a distance, you can protect yourself, but it is also注定 to be eternally lonely. 03 It is usually those who are willing to argue with you that truly love you.

10. 18请你用慈悲心和温和的态度，把你的不满与委屈说出来，别人就容易接受。 19同样的瓶子，你为什么要装毒药呢？同样的心里，你为什么要充满着烦恼呢？ 20得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。

10. 18 Please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and a gentle attitude, as others are more likely to accept them. 19 Why would you fill the same bottle with poison? Why would you fill the same heart with烦恼 (worry or distress)？ 20 We always think the things we can't get are beautiful, because we know so little about them and don't have enough time to be with them.

11. 生活就像烟花，不可能永远挂在天空；只要曾经华丽，就不会浪费生命。

11. Life is like fireworks, it can't stay in the sky forever; as long as it was magnificent, it won't be a waste of life.

12. 采用大自然的步速：她的秘密在于耐心。美国作家爱默生

12. Adopt the pace of nature: her secret lies in patience. American writer Ralph Waldo Emerson

13. 52说话不要有攻击性，不要有杀伤力，不夸已能，不扬人恶，自然能化敌为友。 53诚实的面对你内心的矛盾和污点，不要欺骗你自己。

13. 52 Speak without aggression, without destructive intent, do not boast about your abilities, and do not praise others' wickedness; naturally, you can turn enemies into friends. 53 Be honest with yourself about your inner conflicts and flaws; do not deceive yourself.

14. 40沈默是毁谤最好的答覆。 41对人恭敬，就是在庄严你自己。

14. Silence is the best reply to defamation. 41 Showing respect to others is to dignify yourself.

15. 如果领导下个月再不给我加薪，我就辞职，辞职前再给他送两条中华，抽死他。

15. If the leader doesn't give me a raise next month, I will resign. Before resigning, I will give him two more Zhonghua cigarettes to make him suffer.

16. 24Make hay while the sun shines晒草要趁太阳好。 25Strike while the iro is hot趁热打铁。

16. 24 Make hay while the sun shines - Seize the opportunity while the sun is shining. 25 Strike while the iron is hot - Strike while the iron is hot.

17. 从现在开始，你只许疼我一个人，要宠我，不能骗我，答应我的每一件事都要做到，对我讲得每一句话都要真心，不许欺负我，骂我，要相信我，别人欺负我，你要在第一时间出来帮我，我开心了，你就要陪着我开心，我不开心了，你就要哄我开心，永远都要觉得我是最漂亮的，梦里也要见到我，在你的心里面只有我，就是这样了。

17. From now on, you are only allowed to cherish and take care of me, not to deceive me. You must fulfill every promise you make to me, speak every word to me with sincerity, not to mistreat or curse me. You must believe in me, and if someone bullies me, you should come out to help me as soon as possible. When I am happy, you should be with me to share the joy. When I am not happy, you should comfort me until I am happy again. You should always think that I am the most beautiful, and I should appear in your dreams as well. In your heart, there should be only me. That's it.

18. 最困难的三件：保守秘密，忘掉所受的创伤，充分利用余暇。吉罗

18. The three most difficult things: keeping a secret, forgetting the wounds you have suffered, and making full use of your leisure time. Ji Luo

19. 到了一定年龄，就要学会沉默，每一句话都要有用有重量。喜怒无形，大事淡漠，有自己的底线。

19. At a certain age, one should learn to be silent, and every word should be useful and carry weight. Keep emotions unseen, maintain indifference towards major events, and have one's own bottom line.

20. 42拥有一颗无私的爱心，便拥有了一切。 43来是偶然的，走是必然的。

20. With a selfless heart, one possesses everything. 43 Coming is accidental, while going is inevitable.

21. 让你的不满成为你的秘密，如果让世人知道了，他们会看不起你，而且会增加你的不满。

21. Keep your discontent as your secret, for if the world knows about it, they will look down upon you, and it will also increase your discontent.

22. 命运的转折点从现在开始，最可怕的情况是怀念过去，幻想未来，浪费现在。

22. The turning point of fate begins now; the most可怕 thing is to yearn for the past, to daydream about the future, and to waste the present.

23. 一个女人的生活可以是一个多么巨大的秘密，一个外人根本看不透的秘密啊，社交应酬的雍容、端庄只是一副假面具，能把最狂热放纵的**遮掩得天衣无缝！奥地利作家茨威格

23. A woman's life can be such a huge secret, a secret that an outsider can never see through, a secret that is impenetrable! The elegance and grace of social interactions are just a mask, capable of covering the most passionate and unrestrained behaviors seamlessly! Austrian writer Zweig.

24. 在秘密的道路上要留心隐蔽的敌人。英国历史小说家和诗人司各特

24. Be vigilant of hidden enemies on the secret paths. The British historical novelist and poet Sir Walter Scott

25. 一个人最公开行动也有其秘密的一面。生于波兰的英国小说家约瑟夫· 康拉德

25. Even the most public actions of a person have a secret side. The British novelist Joseph Conrad, born in Poland.

26. 36永远扭曲别人善意的人，无药可救。 37说一句谎话，要编造十句谎话来弥补，何苦呢？ 38白白的过一天，无所事事，就像犯了窃盗罪一样 39广结众缘，就是不要去伤害任何一个人。

26. The one who always twists others' kindness has no cure. 37 It's a waste to fabricate ten lies to make up for one lie, why go through all that trouble? 38 Wasting a day without doing anything is as if one has committed a theft. 39 To cultivate good relationships with everyone is to not harm anyone.

27. All time is no time when it is past光阴一去不复返。

27. All time is no time when it is past; time once gone can never return.

28. 泄露机密的重要动机之一，就是炫耀自己受人信赖（塞· 约翰逊）

28. One of the important motives for leaking secrets is to show off one's own trustworthiness (Say & middot; Johnson).

29. 9曾经以为念念不忘的东西，总有一天会变得面目全非。

29. 9 Once thought to be unforgettable things, one day will become unrecognizable.

30. 眼睛会泄露心中的秘密。乔·爱略特

30. The eyes can betray the secrets of the heart. Joe Eliot.

31. 女人的薪水对老公不是秘密，男人的薪水对老婆，肯定是个秘密。主持过不少知名节目曹启泰

31. A woman's salary is not a secret to her husband, but a man's salary is definitely a secret to his wife. Cao Qitaie has hosted many well-known programs.

32. 秘密是你的囚徒，一旦把它泄露出去，你便成了它的囚徒。英国

32. The secret is your prisoner; once you let it out, you become its prisoner. United Kingdom.

33. 谈话有一种魅力，就像爱情和醇酒，神不知鬼不觉地就能诱使我们说出自己的秘密（塞涅卡）

33. Conversation has a charm, like love and fine wine, that can subtly allure us into revealing our own secrets (Seneca).

34. 如果你想对敌人隐瞒某件事，千万别把这件事向你的朋友透露。伊本·加比洛尔

34. If you want to keep something from your enemies, never disclose it to your friends. — Ibn Gabirol

35. Time tries truth时间检验真理。

35. Time tests truth.

36. 日出东海落西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦。

36. The sun rises in the East and sets in the West, a day of sorrow and a day of joy; when faced with troubles, don't stubbornly pursue the end of the horn, and both the body and the mind will be at ease.

37. 顽强这就是作家技能的秘密。杰克·伦敦

37. Perseverance, that is the secret of the writer's skill. Jack London

38. 生活有自己的起起落落，每个人都应该学会忍受中自己的悲伤。

38. Life has its ups and downs, and everyone should learn to bear their own sadness.

39. Time past cannot be called back again光阴一去不复返。

39. The past cannot be called back again. Time once gone cannot return.

40. 45只要面对现实，你才能超越现实。 46良心是每一个人最公正的审判官，你骗得了别人，却永远骗不了你自己的良心。

40. 45 Only by facing reality can you transcend it. 46 Conscience is each person's most just judge; you may deceive others, but you can never deceive your own conscience.

41. 今天做别人不想做的事，明天做别人做不到的事。

41. Do what others are unwilling to do today, and what others cannot do tomorrow.

42. 在生活中，两件事应该少做：用自己的嘴干扰别人的生活； 用别人的大脑思考自己的生活。

42. In life, there are two things that should be done less: using one's own mouth to interfere with others' lives; using others' minds to think about one's own life.

43. 补救错误与时间无关，主动寻求新的开始永远不会太晚。

43. Remedying errors is unrelated to time; actively seeking a new start is never too late.

44. 去爱你绝对熟悉的某人或某物是不可能的。爱总是被引向那些隐藏着秘密的地方。法国诗人瓦雷里

44. It is impossible to love someone or something you are absolutely familiar with. Love is always drawn to those places that hide secrets. The French poet, Valéry.

45. 照自己的意思去理解自己，不要小看自己，被别人的意见引入歧途。

45. Understand yourself according to your own intentions, do not underrate yourself, and do not be led astray by others' opinions.

46. 当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。 22多一分心力去注意别人，就少一分心力反省自己，你懂吗？ 23憎恨别人对自己是一种很大的损失。

46. When I cry because I have no shoes to wear, I find that there are some people who don't even have feet. Add one more bit of effort to focus on others, and you'll have less effort to reflect on yourself, do you understand? 22 Hatred towards others is a great loss to oneself. 23

47. 参加选美的那些女人，都找不到好男人，因为好男人都结婚了，比如我。

47. The women who participate in beauty contests cannot find good men, because all the good men are already married, like me.

48. 幻想的天性富有永远年轻的秘密。茨威格

48. The innate nature of fantasy holds the secret of eternal youth. Zweig

49. 8不要浪费你的生命在你一定会后悔的地方上。 9你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。

49. 8 Don't waste your life on things you will definitely regret. 9 When you let go, that's when you have no worries.

50. No one can call back yesterday;Yesterday will not be called again昨日不复来。

50. No one can call back yesterday; Yesterday will not be called again.

51. 两个人之间的秘密是上帝的秘密，三个人之间的秘密是大家秘密。法国

51. The secret between two people is God's secret, and the secret between three people is everyone's secret. France

52. 无论你去哪里，无论你将来会遇到什么，请带着阳光的心情离开。

52. Wherever you go and whatever you may encounter in the future, please leave with a sunny disposition.

53. 一个人抱着秘密太寂寞。中国80后作家，畅销小说家郭敬明《最小说》

53. It's too lonely to keep a secret by oneself. Chinese writer and best-selling novelist Guo Jingming of the generation born after 1980, in "Zui Xiaoshuo" (The Most Novel).