1. 女人是用耳朵恋爱的，而你们男人如果会产生爱情的话，却是用眼睛来恋爱。

1. Women fall in love with their ears, while men, if they are to fall in love, do so with their eyes.

2. 买适合自己的衣服、饰物。适合你的就是最好的，所以不必羡慕别人的行头。

2. Buy clothes and accessories that suit you. What suits you is the best, so there's no need to envy others' attire.

3. 尽量做个优雅的女子。千万别做作，因为，做作的女人，不仅女人讨厌，男人更讨厌。

3. Try to be an elegant woman. Never be overly dramatic, because, overly dramatic women are not only disliked by women, but also by men.

4. 浪费时间是所有支出中最奢侈及最昂贵的。富兰克林

4. Wasting time is the most luxurious and expensive of all expenditures. - Franklin

5. 命运有点女人的气质，你越向她求爱，她就离你越远。

5. Fate has a certain feminine charm; the more you pursue her in love, the farther she seems to move away from you.

6. 有多少爱可以重新开始，有多少人值得等待，为什么如此执着，为什么受伤不知道放弃。

6. How much love can there be to restart, how many people are worth waiting for, why are we so obsessed, why do we hurt and not know when to give up.

7. 平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。

7. Treat your love with him and her equally and justly; if you脚踏多船, you will eventually capsize.

8. 我只有在工作得很久而还不停歇的时候，才觉得自己的精神轻快，也觉得自己找到了活着的理由。——契诃夫

8. I only feel light-hearted and find the reason for living when I work tirelessly for a long time. - Chekhov

9. 偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。

9. Occasionally sing to myself, and it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, as long as I feel cheerful.

10. 如果你浪费了自己的年龄，那是挺可悲的。因为你的青春只能持续一点儿时间很短的一点儿时间。王尔德

10. It is rather sad if you waste your own age, because your youth can only last a very short time. Oscar Wilde

11. 时间是一位可爱的恋人，对你是多么的爱慕倾心，每分每秒都在叮嘱；劳动、创造、别虚度了一生。于沙

11. Time is a lovely lover, deeply in love with you, constantly reminding you; labor, creation, don't waste your life. - Yu Sha

12. 我想你把你藏在心里，爱你到天长地久，从来没有那么幸福，真爱那么难得，幸福那么给我。不管有什么障碍，有你我都会有整个天堂。

12. I want you to keep you hidden in your heart, loving you forever and ever, never so happy, true love so rare, happiness so given to me. No matter what obstacles there may be, with you I will have the whole heaven.

13. 穷则独善其身，达则兼善天下。《孟子尽心上》

13. When one is poor, one should cultivate oneself; when one is successful, one should benefit the whole world. — From the "Moral Emotions" chapter of Mencius.

14. 妻子，当你来的时候，我的心在颤抖，当你离开的时候，我的眼泪掩盖了我的脸。进入不是撤退，爱你是如此的困难。我很兴奋你的到来，焦急地等待；我伤心你不来，悄悄地徘徊，多么无助。

14. Wife, when you come, my heart trembles; when you leave, my tears veil my face. Entering is not withdrawal; loving you is so difficult. I am excited for your arrival, anxiously waiting; I am heartbroken when you don't come, wandering quietly, so helpless.

15. 如果要去逛街，记得穿舒适的鞋子。善待自己是表现在细节上的。

15. If you're going to go shopping, remember to wear comfortable shoes. Treating yourself well is reflected in the details.

16. 如果一个女人毫无虚荣心，丝毫不因自己的吸引力而欣喜，那她就将因此而失去吸引力。

16. If a woman has no vanity and does not take any delight in her attractiveness, she will lose her appeal because of that.

17. 20以下，你相信偶像剧，那就算了。20以上，你还相信偶像剧，那就完了。

17. Under 20, you believe in idol dramas, that's fine. Over 20, and you still believe in idol dramas, then it's all over for you.

18. 生活就是这样，脚长在自己身上，往前走就对了，直到向往的风景，变成走过的地方。人生本来就是一场即兴演出，踩着别人的脚印，开辟出自己的领土。

18. Life is like this, the feet are on your own body, just keep moving forward until the desired scenery becomes a place you've passed through. Life itself is an improvisational performance, stepping on others' footprints while carving out your own territory.

19. 如果这个社会男女平等，就不会有人强调男女平等。如果这个世界男女平等，女权运动就不会引人注目。

19. If this society were truly equal between men and women, no one would emphasize the need for gender equality. If this world were genuinely equal between men and women, the women's movement would not be noticeable.

20. 不是因为有了希望才坚持，而是因为坚持才有了希望;不是因为有了机会才争取，而是因为争取了才有机会;不是因为会了才去做，而是因为做了才能会。

20. It is not because of hope that we persevere, but because of perseverance that we have hope; it is not because of opportunities that we strive, but because of striving that we have opportunities; it is not because we know how to do it that we act, but because we act that we can learn how to do it.

21. 疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越千山万水的去看望一个人。

21. It's enough to experience something crazy once, like crossing mountains and rivers to visit someone.

22. 天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为。 《孟子告子下》

22. If heaven is to confer a great responsibility upon a person, it must first distress their mind and will, weary their muscles and bones, starve their body, impoverish their circumstances, and disrupt their actions. — From "Mencius: Gaozi Xia"

23. 知己不在于相处，在于懂得;人生不在于顺逆，在于追求;梦想不在于伟大，在于坚持;生命不在于长短，在于精彩!

23. True friends are not about being together, but about understanding; life is not about smoothness or adversity, but about pursuit; dreams are not about greatness, but about perseverance; life is not about its length, but about its brilliance!

24. 女人最使人留恋的，并不一定在于感官的享受，主要还在于生活在她们身边的某种情趣。

24. What women leave most people longing for is not necessarily the sensory pleasure, but mainly some kind of taste that exists in their presence.

25. 太阳不会因为你的失意，明天不再升起；月亮不会因为你的抱怨，今晚不再降落。蒙住自己的眼睛，不等于世界就漆黑一团，蒙住别人的眼睛，不等于光明就属于自己。

25. The sun will not cease to rise tomorrow because of your disappointment; the moon will not stop descending tonight because of your complaints. Covering your own eyes does not mean the world becomes pitch-black; covering others' eyes does not mean the light belongs to you.

26. 只要有爱，就像鱼在水中游泳，鸟在天空中飞翔，夜晚透明；失去爱，就像断弦的钢琴，没有油灯，夏天也很冷。我的心跳很快，那是因为你的出现。

26. As long as there is love, it's like fish swimming in the water, birds flying in the sky, and the night being transparent; losing love is like a piano with broken strings, without oil lamps, it's also cold in summer. My heart beats fast, because of your presence.

27. 春风过后，坐在湖的倒影中，我充满了思念，浮浮沉沉，透过月光的美，思念的灯光穿过宁静的花香，在不变的誓言中，你是我一生的爱人。

27. After the spring breeze, sitting in the reflection of the lake, I am filled with longing, floating and sinking. Through the beauty of the moonlight, the light of longing pierces the tranquility of the floral scent, in the unchanging vows, you are the love of my life.

28. 女人能成为女人价值，不在于是**还是非**。

28. A woman's worth as a woman does not lie in whether she is considered a "she" or a "he."

29. 不要对小事情斤斤计较，连他迟一点点回你的电话都大发雷霆，他会觉得你不懂得体谅他人，不通情达理，没法跟你生活一辈子。

29. Don't be too picky about trivial matters, even if he calls you back a little late and you lose your temper, he will feel that you don't understand others and lack common sense, and it will be impossible for you to live with him for a lifetime.

30. 一个漂亮的女人是一颗宝石，但一个好的女人是一座宝库。

30. A beautiful woman is a gem, but a good woman is a treasure trove.

31. 曾经难忘的往事早已风轻云淡，就像黄昏的钟声突然停止，没有时间叹息，也没有必要叹息

31. The unforgettable past has long become a light breeze and scattered clouds, just like the bell of dusk suddenly stopping, with no time for sighs and no need for sighs.

32. 无法改变风向，可以调整风帆，无法左右天气，可以调整心情，如果事情无法改变，那就去改变观念。

32. You cannot change the wind direction, but you can adjust the sails. You cannot control the weather, but you can adjust your mood. If things cannot be changed, then change your perspective.

33. 女人如烟，烧尽如灰，不会再生，不依附男人自强自立。

33. Women are like smoke, once burned to ashes, they will never regenerate, and they do not rely on men to be self-reliant and independent.