1. 男人在最失意的时候是最容易出轨的，因为在这个时候他非常的迷惘，他非常需要一个坚定地能支持他、帮助他的女人出现，这个女人他爱不爱不重要，关键是这个女人能认可他的价值。

1. Men are most prone to infidelity during their lowest points, as they are very confused at this time. They desperately need a woman who can firmly support and help them, and it doesn't matter whether they love her or not; the key is that she can recognize his value.

2. 任何一种衣食住行的背后，都透射出他对生活事物的看法，都透射出他对于生活事物的看法和他的品德。

2. Behind any aspect of clothing, food, shelter, and transportation lies his perspective on life's matters, reflecting both his views on life's matters and his character.

3. 有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沉默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候，你被最爱的人误解，你难过到不想争辩，也只有选择沉默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他应该懂，若他竟然不能懂，还有什么话可说生命中往往有连舒伯特都无言以对的时刻，毕竟不是所有的是非都能条列清楚，甚至可能根本没有真正的是与非。那么，不想说话，就不说吧，在多说无益的时候，也许沉默就是最好的解释。

3. Sometimes, you are misunderstood by others, and you don't want to argue, so you choose silence. Not everyone needs to understand you, so you think it's unnecessary to shout to the whole world. But there are also times when you are misunderstood by the ones you love the most, and you feel so sad that you don't want to argue, and you can only choose silence. The whole world may not understand you, but he should. If he can't understand, what else can you say? Life often has moments that even Schubert would be at a loss for words. After all, not all right and wrong can be clearly listed, and there may not even be a true distinction between right and wrong. Then, if you don't want to talk, don't say anything. When more words are of no benefit, perhaps silence is the best explanation.

4. 如果婚姻在一开始就是悲观的，就是为了预防将来的离婚而做的保障，那么这个婚姻肯定走不长远。

4. If a marriage begins with pessimism, and is only a safeguard against future divorce, then such a marriage is certainly not destined to last long.

5. 人生最大的幸福就是刚好发现自己所爱的人也正爱着自己，并且简简单单在一起。为了这个，付出一切都值得。

5. The greatest happiness in life is to just find out that the person you love also loves you back, and to be together simply. For this, to give everything is worth it.

6. 私奔失败的原因：①被现实的残酷所打败;②被外界的诱惑而打败;③冲破了层层的阻碍之后才发现我们俩并没有那么爱对方;④对家人的牵挂，始终需要家人的祝福。

6. Reasons for the failure of the elopement: ① Defeated by the cruelty of reality; ② Defeated by the allure of the outside world; ③ After breaking through all layers of obstacles, we discovered that we were not as in love with each other as we thought; ④ The care for family members, which always requires the blessings of family.

7. 男人一潦倒，心眼就变小。这也不顺眼，那也不上道。媳妇扮得美，是出轨的前兆。媳妇要挣得多，那一定是走歪门邪道。

7. When a man falls on hard times, his mind becomes narrow. He finds fault with everything, and everything is not to his liking. If his wife looks beautiful, it's a sign of infidelity. If his wife earns too much, it's definitely through wrong or deceitful means.

8. 很多男人都有一个错误的观念：男人的事业是为了家庭，为了爱人。错误！男人的事业就是为自己。

8. Many men hold a wrong notion: that a man's career is for the family, for the beloved. Wrong! A man's career is for himself.

9. 在你跌入人生谷底的时候，你身旁所有的人都告诉你：要坚强，而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的，但是快乐在这种情形下，恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟，谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴但是至少可以做到平静。平静地看待这件事，平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静，没有快乐，也没有不快乐。

9. When you are at the lowest point in your life, everyone around you tells you to be strong and happy. Strength is absolutely necessary, but happiness in this situation may be too difficult for you. After all, who can be happy when they are bleeding from head to toe? But at least you can maintain calm. View this matter calmly and handle other matters that need to be dealt with calmly. Calmness has neither joy nor sadness.

10. 你以为责任是什么？你以为责任就是终身相守，扔几个钱在家里。真正的责任是要在乎你所爱的人的每一分每一秒的感受。

10. What do you think responsibility is? Do you think responsibility is about lifelong commitment and throwing a few coins at home? True responsibility is about caring for the every moment and feeling of the person you love.

11. 人生最痛苦的是永远没有一盏灯为你点亮，永远没有一扇门为你敞开，永远没有一个人为你守侯。

11. The greatest pain in life is to never have a light turned on for you, never have a door opened for you, and never have someone waiting for you.

12. 没有那么笃定就不要跨入往年之恋，没有那么坚强就不要老是说别人在质疑你。

12. If you're not so confident, don't step into the love of last year. If you're not so strong, don't always say that others are questioning you.

13. 我们总是善于去伤害那些爱我们的人，因为我们根本伤害不了那些不爱我们的人；我们总是甘愿被那些我们爱的人伤害，那是因为我爱他们。

13. We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us; we are always willing to be hurt by those we love, because I love them.

14. 当有些人一出生就有的东西，我们要为止奋斗几十年才拥有。但有一样东西，你一辈子都不会有，那就是我们曾经一无所有。

14. There are things that some people are born with, and we have to struggle for decades to possess them. But there is one thing that you will never have in your lifetime, and that is the fact that we were once nothing.

15. 婚姻当中美丑可以不匹配，贫富可以不平均，但忠诚一定是对等的。

15. In marriage, beauty and ugliness can be mismatched, wealth and poverty can be uneven, but loyalty must be equal.

16. 全心全意的付出，可以换来感动，但未必换得来心动。、朝夕相处的陪伴，可能产生感情，但未必产生了爱情。别把自己给爱丢了。

16. Devotion with all one's heart can bring about a sense of awe, but it may not necessarily evoke a romantic stir. Accompaniment day and night may foster affection, but it may not necessarily lead to love. Don't lose yourself in love.

17. 男人在婚姻的过程当中，通过他对于犯错的三种不同的认识，可以体现出他对于这个女人到底是一种什么样的感情。第一，刚刚有了出轨的念头，马上戛然而止，那说明这个男人是爱这个女人的。第二，当这个男人已经出轨，事实认定了，他还想回来，他对这个女人叫留恋。第三，在外面碰了壁了，事实发生了，被对方甩了，这个时候才想到你。这不叫爱也不叫留恋，而是回家。

17. In the process of marriage, a man's feelings towards a woman can be reflected through his three different understandings of making mistakes. First, if he stops thinking about infidelity immediately, it indicates that this man loves this woman. Second, if the man has already committed infidelity and the fact is confirmed, yet he still wants to return, it shows that he is nostalgic for this woman. Third, if he encounters difficulties outside and the fact has occurred, being discarded by the other party, only then does he think of you. This is not love or nostalgia, but a desire to return home.

18. 爱情是自私的，但恰恰是因为爱情有自私的一面，所以它更有无私的一面。

18. Love is selfish, but precisely because love has a selfish aspect, it has an even more selfless one.

19. 人的生存空间是两条线：一条是你的能力，一条是你的忍耐力。你要是能人之所不能，忍人所不忍，你的生活空间就比别人大。

19. The living space of a person consists of two lines: one is your ability, and the other is your endurance. If you can do what others cannot and endure what others cannot bear, your living space will be larger than that of others.

20. 全心全意的付出，可以换来感动，但未必换得来心动。朝夕相处的陪伴，可能产生感情，但未必产生了爱情。别把自己给爱丢了。

20. Wholehearted dedication can win admiration, but it may not necessarily win affection. The companionship through every moment may foster feelings, but it may not necessarily lead to love. Don't lose yourself in love.

21. 感情是可以培养的，爱情是不可培养的。好人是可以培养的，爱人是不可培养的。

21. Emotions can be cultivated, but love cannot. Goodness can be cultivated, but a lover cannot.

22. 一个人真正地能够出人头地，一定要能人所不能，忍人所不能忍。

22. A person truly able to stand out must be able to do what others cannot, and endure what others cannot bear.

23. 如果人生是一场短跑，起跑很重要；但是很可惜，人生是一个没有长短的马拉松，你有能力跑多远，你就跑多远。在这个过程中，你的生存技能是行走或者是跑步，而你的生活是看沿途的风景。所以，有些人选择了走走跑跑，跑跑再爬一爬，而有些人选择了急色匆匆的跑到终点，结果半途就挂了。

23. If life is a sprint, the starting line is crucial; however, unfortunately, life is a marathon without a set distance, and as far as you are capable of running, that is how far you will run. In this process, your survival skills are walking or running, and your life is about appreciating the scenery along the way. So, some people choose to walk and run, run and then climb, while others choose to rush to the finish line, only to collapse halfway.

24. 人的聪明劲不能用在自己的爱人身上，因为爱情不是双输就是双赢。

24. One should not use one's intelligence on their beloved, because love is either a win-win situation or a lose-lose one.

25. 没有选择就是最好的选择，人生的艺术在于放弃，放弃是为了更好的拥有。

25. Not having a choice is the best choice. The art of life lies in letting go, and letting go is for the sake of better possession.

26. 作为女人，要么就谈恋爱结婚，要么就高傲的单身，不要用自己的青春去调教未来别人的老公，还那么认真。

26. As a woman, either fall in love and get married, or proudly remain single. Don't waste your youth on nurturing someone else's future husband, and do it so seriously.

27. 任何一个魔鬼的背后，都有一个纵容的天使，任何一个受害者都有他可恨一面。

27. Behind every devil, there is a lenient angel; behind every victim, there is a detestable aspect of him.

28. 生活的法则是：一颗阴暗的心，永远托不起一张灿烂的笑脸;爱情的法则：就是一个花心的人，永远得不到一份永恒的爱。

28. The law of life is: A dark heart can never support a radiant smile; the law of love is: A heart that is fickle can never find eternal love.

29. 现在又一种风气以丑为美，把无知当有趣，把无耻当光荣，对付这种方式最好的办法，就是不要搭理它，不要评论它，这样他就会自生自灭。

29. Now there is a trend where ugliness is considered beautiful, ignorance is taken as amusing, and shamelessness is glorified. The best way to deal with this kind of attitude is to ignore it, not to comment on it, so that it will fade away on its own.

30. 一个男人最关键是要让自己的女人，让自己的家庭，过上安稳的日子，之后再去谈惬意的生活。

30. The most crucial thing for a man is to ensure that his woman and his family live a stable life, and then he can talk about enjoying a comfortable life.

31. 漫步林间，你看见一株藤蔓附着树干，柔软与坚实相互交缠，你感动于这静美的一幕。让幸福与归属就此驻足吧。你想。不知未来会有怎样一番风雨摧折？也许藤将断、树会倒，也许天会荒，地将老。你又想。那么，请时光停格在此刻吧。停格即是永恒。永恒里若有这静美的一刻，未来可能遭遇的种种劫难，便已得到了安慰与报偿。

31. Strolling through the woods, you see a vine wrapped around the trunk of a tree, the softness intertwined with the firmness, moved by this serene and beautiful scene. Let happiness and belonging stop here, you think. Who knows what kind of storms and trials the future may bring? Perhaps the vine will break, the tree may fall, perhaps the heavens will become barren, the earth will age. You ponder. Then, please let time stand still at this moment. To freeze time is to achieve eternity. If there is this moment of serene beauty in eternity, then all the various ordeals that may await in the future will have received comfort and compensation.

32. 和别人发生意见上的纷歧，甚造成言语上的冲突，所以你闷闷不乐，因为你觉得都是别人恶意。别再耿耿于怀了，回家去擦地板吧。拎一块抹布，弯下腰，双膝着地，把你面前这张地板的每个角落来回擦拭干净。然后重新省思自己在那场冲突，所说过的每一句话。现在，你发现自己其实也有不对的地方了，是不是你渐渐心平气和了，是不是有时候你必须学习弯腰，因为这个动作可以让你谦卑。劳动身体的同时，你也擦亮了自己的心绪。而且，你还拥有了一张光洁的地板呢。这是你的第二个收获。

32. You have disagreements with others, which have even led to verbal conflicts, causing you to be unhappy. You think it's all because of others' malice. Stop being fixated on it. Go home and clean the floor. Grab a rag, bend down, get on your knees, and clean every corner of the floor in front of you. Then, reconsider the conflict and every word you said. Now, you find that you were also at fault. Maybe you're gradually calming down, maybe sometimes you have to learn to bend, because this action can make you humble. While working your body, you also brighten up your mind. Moreover, you even have a shiny floor. This is your second gain.

33. 参杂了金钱的爱情，就像馊了的米饭一样，表面上看没有什么区别，其实已经难以下咽。

33. Love mixed with money is like rotten rice, which, on the surface, seems to have no difference, but in reality, it is hard to swallow.

34. 有时候分手是一把刀，你说一次就等于割别人一次，跟凌迟处死没有什么区别。

34. Sometimes, breaking up is like a knife; saying it once is like cutting someone once, which is not much different from slow death by slicing.

35. 人生变迁，似水流年，爱的图腾，情的蔓延。爱情是逐步的渗透，而不是灌入。

35. Life's changes flow like water, the years slip by, love's totem, the spread of affection. Love is a gradual infiltration, not an infusion.

36. 相爱的时光长短不重要，关键在于是否：耐住了寂寞，挡住了**，挨过了贫穷，经历了富贵，走过了病痛，禁得了猜忌！若是没有以上任意两种，别轻易说我们相爱无比，那无非是热恋，又或是欺骗！经历了风雨后的恋人，只剩下眼神的默契，同舟共济。

36. The duration of the time spent in love is not important; what matters is whether one has: endured loneliness, withstood **(possibly a typo or a culturally specific term that doesn't have a direct translation), endured poverty, experienced wealth and riches, gone through illness and pain, and tolerated suspicion! If one has not experienced any of the above two, don't easily say that we are incredibly in love; that is merely infatuation, or perhaps deception! Lovers who have weathered storms together are left with only the默契 in their eyes, and they help each other through tough times.

37. 我们总是善于去伤害那些爱我们的人，、因为我们根本伤害不了那些不爱我们的人;我们总是甘愿被那些我们爱的人伤害，那是因为我爱他们。

37. We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us; we are willing to be hurt by those we love, because I love them.

38. 如果说人性中的善事来源于无私，人性中的恶是来源于自私，那么人生当中大概只有一样，自私是最美好的，那就是对于爱情的忠诚，没有任何一个人可以对爱情的背叛说我很无私。

38. If good in human nature comes from selflessness and evil comes from selfishness, then perhaps there is only one thing in life where selfishness is the most beautiful, and that is the loyalty to love. No one can claim to be selfless when it comes to betrayal of love.

39. 最可恶的人是把自己曾经受到的伤害再转嫁给别人，这种行为很可恶。

39. The most despicable person is someone who transfers the hurt they have suffered onto others; this behavior is extremely detestable.

40. 你曾经买了一件很喜欢的衣裳却舍不得穿，郑重地供奉在衣柜里;许久之后，当你再看见它的时候，却发现它已经过时了。所以，你就这样与它错过了。你也曾经买了一块漂亮的蛋糕却舍不得吃，郑重地供奉在冰箱里;许久之后，当你再看见它的时候，却发现它已经过期了。所以，你也这样与它错过了。没有在最喜欢的时候上身的衣裳，没有在最可口的时候品尝的蛋糕，就像没有在最想做的时候去做的事情，都是遗憾。生命也有保存期限，想做的事该趁早去做。如果你只是把你的心愿郑重地供奉在心里，却未曾去实行，那么唯一的结果，就是与它错过，一如那件过时的衣裳，一如那块过期的蛋糕。

40. You once bought a very liked dress but couldn't bear to wear it, solemnly placing it in the closet; after a long time, when you saw it again, you found it had gone out of style. So, you missed it this way. You also once bought a beautiful cake but couldn't bear to eat it, solemnly placing it in the refrigerator; after a long time, when you saw it again, you found it had expired. So, you missed it in this way too. There are regrets in not wearing the dress at your favorite time, not tasting the cake at its most delicious moment, just like not doing things at the most willing moment. Life also has an expiration date, and things you want to do should be done as soon as possible. If you only solemnly put your wishes in your heart without ever acting on them, then the only result is to miss them, just like that out-of-style dress, just like that expired cake.

41. 只有爱不爱，没有合不合！没有人天生为你准备，磨合的过程固然痛苦，但过后的水乳交融却更有意义！中途退出的人，无非是不够爱，却偏偏说不适合，有缘无分之说更是扯淡的借口！真爱，就坚持，没有炼狱般的彼此磨合，哪来心有灵犀的一生浪漫！

41. It's all about love or not, not about compatibility! No one is born to be perfect for you. The process of adjustment may be painful, but the profound unity that follows is even more meaningful! Those who quit halfway, they merely lack love, yet they claim it's not suitable. The talk of fate and缘分 being too superficial as an excuse! True love means perseverance, and without the grinding like in purgatory, how can there be a life of romantic默契?

42. 你也擦亮了自己的心绪。而且，你还拥有了一张光洁的地板呢。这是你的第二个收获。

42. You have also polished your mood. Moreover, you now have a shiny floor to boot. This is your second gain.

43. 对于男人来说，穷困潦倒的臣服、妥协不足信，春风得意时是否一如既往才最珍贵。

43. For men, the subservience and compromise in times of poverty are not to be trusted; whether they remain consistent as the spring breeze flourishes is the most precious.

44. 对于自己所爱人的伤害，一次是无心，两次是有意，第三次是无耻；对于自己所爱的人的包容，一次是大度，两次是宽容，第三次是犯贱。

44. The injury to the one you love: once is unintentional, twice is deliberate, and the third time is shameless; the tolerance of the one you love: once is magnanimous, twice is forgiving, and the third time is贱 (a pejorative term for being too forgiving or subservient).

45. 女人引以为傲的不是你的身体，而是你善解人意的心。

45. What a woman takes pride in is not your body, but your understanding and kind-heartedness.

46. 婆媳之间的相处之道：视如己出的关爱，相敬如宾的对待。视如己出的关爱所指的是将心比心，自己的妈是妈，别人的妈也是妈；自己的女儿是女儿，别人的女儿也是女儿。相敬如宾的对待所指的的是，儿媳妇再亲毕竟不是家里人，不可能像跟自己的亲生女儿一样那么的亲密。?>

46. The way to get along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: to show care as if they were your own children, and to treat each other with respect as guests. The "care as if they were your own children" refers to treating others with empathy, recognizing that your own mother is a mother, and so is others'; your own daughter is a daughter, and so is others'. The "treat each other with respect as guests" refers to the fact that a daughter-in-law, no matter how close, is not truly a family member and cannot be as intimate as one would with their own biological daughter.

47. 把钱当命的人这辈子过的就会不快乐;把钱当幸福的人可能很善于的去运用它。

47. Those who treat money as life will not be happy in this life; those who treat money as happiness may be very skilled at using it.

48. 一个男人娶什么样的女人，决定他将来的生活品质。一个女人嫁什么样的男人，决定她将来生活的希望。

48. The kind of woman a man marries determines the quality of his future life. The kind of man a woman marries determines the hopes for her future life.

49. 不要剥夺一个男人做男人的权力，不要履行一个男人做男人的义务。取而代之，只会让对方感觉羞愧和逃避，感觉不到自我。只有激励和引导，才能让对方在成长的过程当中感觉到幸福。

49. Do not剥夺 a man's right to be a man, and do not fulfill a man's responsibilities as a man. Instead, it will only make the other person feel ashamed and want to escape, and not feel their own self. Only through encouragement and guidance can the other person feel happiness in the process of growth.

50. 我总是在想一个问题，认识更需要被认同呢，还是更需要被理解？这两者是不一样的，被认同可以给你带来一种存在感和自豪感；被理解会给你带来一种幸福感。

50. I always ponder a question: Do I need recognition more, or do I need to be understood more? These two are different. Being recognized can bring you a sense of existence and pride; being understood can bring you a sense of happiness.

51. 我们应该见义勇为，不应该见义乱为；我们可以义薄云天但不能意气用事；我们应该有勇有谋，但不能有勇无谋；我们应该有所为之，但不能为之不法。

51. We should act bravely when we see justice, but not recklessly; we may be as just as the sky, but we should not let emotions guide us; we should be brave and wise, but not merely brave without wisdom; we should do what is right, but not at the expense of legality.

52. 但凡年龄差距很大的情侣之间，最基础的是用两样东西：第一是感恩；第二是欣赏。

52. For couples with a significant age gap, the most fundamental things are two: the first is gratitude; the second is appreciation.

53. 复杂的人对简单的东西有特殊的癖求，简单的人需要复杂的人来进行装备。

53. Complex individuals have a special penchant for simple things, while simple individuals require complex individuals to equip them.

54. 家庭暴-力为什么会循环？那是因为家暴起了作用。男人觉得动手能够解决问题，因为女方在拳头下面退缩了，觉得在某种情况下**是有效果的。

54. Why does domestic violence tend to repeat itself? It's because domestic violence has an effect. Men feel that resorting to violence can solve problems, because the woman retreats under the拳头, feeling that it is effective in some situations.