在历史的长河中，洗涤着社会的尘埃，终将现出人生真谛。一缕晨光，透过岁月的缝隙，唤醒了沉睡的智慧，引领我们踏上探寻生命奥秘的征程。

In the long river of history, it washes away the dust of society and will eventually reveal the true meaning of life. A ray of morning light, piercing through the gaps of time, awakens the slumbering wisdom and leads us on a journey to explore the mysteries of life.

1. 面对形形色色情的孩子，千万个孩子有千万种教育方法，我一定要从容淡定，这样才能更好地工作，更好地创造，更好地提高自己，修炼自己。

1. In the face of children of all sorts, there are a myriad of educational methods for a myriad of children. I must remain calm and composed, for only in this way can I work better, create better, and better elevate and cultivate myself.

2. 真正的朋友，不会因为落魄而看轻你；真正的感情，不会因为平淡而离弃你。人心就那么一颗，有心能装你，是你的福；感情到底有多重，有人对你好，你要珍惜如命！

2. True friends will not look down on you because of your downfall; true love will not abandon you because of its simplicity. The heart is just one, and if it has room for you, it's a blessing for you; the weight of love is as heavy as it can be, and if someone is good to you, you should cherish it as if your life depends on it!

3. 不为模糊不清的未来担忧，只为清清楚楚的现在努力。

3. Do not worry about the blurred future, only strive for the clear present.

4. 05、与不熟悉之人微信交流，少发语音而多打字。

4. 05, When communicating with unfamiliar people via WeChat, it's better to send fewer voice messages and more text messages.

5. 多一点微笑，少一点忧愁； 多一点爱，少一点恨； 多一点阅读，少一点嘀咕； 多一点运动，少一点美容。生活本来平淡如水，放一点盐它就会是咸的，放一点糖它就会是甜的，放一点咖啡它就会是苦的，放一点茶它就会是香的，想调成什么味道，全凭你自己。安静一点，淡然一点，沉稳一点，随意一点。

5. More smiles, fewer worries; more love, less恨; more reading, fewer murmurs; more exercise, less beautification. Life is naturally as bland as water, add some salt and it will be salty, add some sugar and it will be sweet, add some coffee and it will be bitter, add some tea and it will be fragrant. What taste you want to adjust, it depends entirely on yourself. Be quieter, more indifferent, more stable, and more carefree.

6. 《淡定的人生不寂寞》是一本讲述爱与智慧的书，是身与心灵的修炼之作。全书记载了100多个爱情、亲情和哲理故事，在这淡淡的讲述与平淡的生活小事却使读者情不自禁地被打动，进而思索人生的真谛。

6. "The Life of Calmness Is Never Alone" is a book that tells the story of love and wisdom, a work of cultivation for both body and soul. The book contains more than 100 love, family, and philosophical stories. In the gentle narration and everyday mundane events, the readers are irresistibly moved, prompting them to ponder the true meaning of life.

7. 能够爱一个人爱到问他拿零用钱的程度，都是严格的考验

7. To love someone to the extent of asking them for pocket money is a strict test.

8. 如果你给我的，也同样给了别人，那我宁愿不要。得不到不可怕，守不住才是个笑话。

8. If you give it to others as well as to me, then I'd rather not have it. It's not可怕 not to get it, but to not be able to keep it is a joke.

9. 生活中，我们总有太多的抱怨，太多的不平衡，太多的不满足，犹如一个被宠坏的孩子，总是向生活不断索取着。越是拥有，越是担心失去。生活中的很多东西一旦失去，便不容我们找寻。

9. In life, we always have too many complaints, too much imbalance, and too much dissatisfaction, as if we are spoilt children, constantly demanding more from life. The more we have, the more we fear losing. Once certain things in life are lost, there is no room for us to look for them.

10. 我们必须学会面对人生中所遇到的一切困难和挑战，除了勇敢地接受命运，还要努力改变现状，争取让生活走向美好的道路。在这个过程中，我们会很痛苦，会有一个承担或奋斗的过程，在这个过程中，最重要的一点就是要有一颗平常心，看淡得失，只有这样才能在生活上、工作中处之泰然、荣辱不惊、不以物喜、不以己悲。

10. We must learn to face all the difficulties and challenges we encounter in life. Besides bravely accepting fate, we should also strive to change the current situation and strive to lead life towards a beautiful path. In this process, we will experience pain and have a process of bearing or struggling. The most important point in this process is to maintain a calm and composed mind, detach ourselves from gains and losses, and only in this way can we remain serene and unflappable in life and work, not being overjoyed by material things or despondent by personal misfortunes.

11. 什么是夫妻？就是每晚相互取暖，每天一起打拼。什么是家人？就是同喜悦，同流泪。什么是爱人？就是看不见时思念，看见时沉默。我们身边最重要人，并不会做惊天动地的大事，无非是陪着你，看着你，守护着你，走过花团锦簇，行过惊涛骇浪，从开始到结束，也不分离。

11. What is a couple? It is about warming each other every night and working together every day. What is a family? It is about sharing joy and tears together. What is a loved one? It is about missing them when they are not seen and being silent when they are. The most important people around us don't do anything earth-shattering, they are just there to accompany you, watch over you, and protect you. They walk through beautiful blossoms and tumultuous waves with you, from the beginning to the end, never separating.

12. 为了自己，我必须饶恕你。一个人，不能永远在胸中养着一条毒蛇；不能夜夜起身，在灵魂的园子里栽种荆棘。

12. For myself, I must forgive you. A person cannot forever harbor a venomous snake within their chest; one cannot rise every night to plant thorns in the garden of their soul.

13. 我，作为一名幼儿园教师，面对的孩子有时那么特殊、天真活泼的小精灵们，时而调皮的让你生气、时而可爱的让你喜欢，当孩子不遵守规则，当孩子攻击别人，当孩子不吃饭，不喜欢午睡时，你怎么做了，你是如何做的，你能淡定的处理这些现状吗？很多时候我会控制不住情绪容易发脾气，批评孩子，急躁惯了，其实你换位思考下，如果这是你的孩子，你还会这样做吗？

13. As a kindergarten teacher, I face children who are sometimes so special, innocent, and lively little sprites. They can be mischievous and make you angry, or cute and win your affection. When children don't follow the rules, when they attack others, when they don't want to eat or dislike taking naps, what do you do? How do you handle these situations? Can you remain calm and composed? Often, I find it hard to control my emotions and easily lose my temper, scolding the children. I'm used to being impatient. But, if I put myself in their shoes, would I still act in the same way if these were my own children?

14. 如果你拿我不当回事，我会以同样的方式对你。我可以装傻，但别以为我真傻。我可以容忍，但别超过我的底线。我不是没脾气，只是不轻易对朋友发脾气。任何的真话，我都能接受。对我真心的，我会双倍回报。用单纯的心对待朋友。开心时要想起我，难受时要记得还有我。

14. If you don't take me seriously, I'll treat you the same way. I can play dumb, but don't think I'm truly foolish. I can tolerate things, but don't cross my limits. I'm not without my temper, I just don't lose my patience with friends easily. I can accept any truth. If someone is sincere with me, I'll give back twice as much. Treat your friends with a pure heart. Remember me when you're happy, and think of me when you're upset.

15. 时间会告诉你一切真相。有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，才明白它是个错。

15. Time will tell you all the truth. Some things, you only realize it was a mistake as you gradually become清醒.

16. 就算孤独，也不能一个人哭泣，无论走在哪，都要高傲地挺立;就算高压，也不能情愿地趴下，只有仰视生活，膝盖才不至于卑微;就算挫败，也不能窝囊地依靠，无论在何时，都要倔强地站起。前面的路过于平坦，惬意久了难以找到方向;唯有脚下布满荆棘，前方或许才是生机。女人要给自己找到海阔天空。

16. Even in solitude, one should not cry alone; no matter where you walk, stand proudly; even under pressure, one should not bow down willingly; only by looking up at life can one's knees not become卑贱. Even in defeat, one should not rely on despondency; at any time, stand up stubbornly. The road ahead is too smooth, and it's easy to lose direction after feeling comfortable for a long time; only when the path is full of thorns, might there be vitality ahead. Women must find the vastness of the sky and the openness of the sea for themselves.

17. 这本书从爱情、亲情、友情都诠释着淡定的重要性。印象最深刻的便是《源氏物语》笔下的花散里，虽然我不曾读过这本书，可是从作者的介绍中，却可以感受到这位女子的淡然与脱俗，同样身处在尔虞我诈的大环境中，试问有多少女子可以做到如此的不问世事，只求内心的宁静。总之我是知道自己不能的。

17. This book interprets the importance of composure from love, family, and friendship. The most impressive is the character Hana no Chiri from "The Tale of Genji," although I have never read this book, from the author's introduction, I could feel this woman's composure and transcendence. Similarly, in a big environment where everyone is deceitful and cunning, how many women can achieve such a state of indifference to the world and seek only inner peace? In short, I know that I cannot.

18. 必须重新站起来，告诉自己，继续走吧，路途尚未结束。即使重新捡起的东西已被别人踩得粉碎。包括你蹲下去的时候，散落一地的尊严。---七堇年《给这个世界上另一个我》

18. You must stand up again, tell yourself to keep going, for the journey is not over yet. Even if the things you have picked up have been trampled into pieces by others. This includes the dignity that scattered on the ground when you crouched down. --- Qi Jinian, "To the Other Me in This World"

19. 放下了，天天看到也没感觉。太在乎了，看不到都会心疼。

19. Let it go, and even seeing it every day doesn't feel anything. If you care too much, it will hurt even if you can't see it.

20. 你曾是锦瑟，我曾为流年，只因这场无声的风雨，让未了的故事匆匆擦肩。

20. You were a stringed instrument, and I was the fleeting years, only because this silent storm caused our unfinished story to pass by in haste.

21. 太在意别人的看法，最后会有两种结局：要么自己累死，要么让别人整死。

21. Being overly concerned about others' opinions can lead to two outcomes: either you exhaust yourself, or you get manipulated and destroyed by others.

22. 幸福，不是金山银山，不是大鱼大肉，不是前呼后拥。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有的吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。幸福其实就在你的身边，你的家人身体健康，你的孩子成绩优良，今天衣食无忧，晚上能够平安回到家中，这就是幸福。有时幸福只是一种感觉，只要用心感觉，它时刻萦绕在我们身边。因为孤独，所以远离了喧嚣，以至心灵得到安宁；因为寂寞，所以守着内心的恬淡，在这里孤独寂寞化为一片淡定与从容，而这淡定与从容正是幸福。

22. Happiness is not about mountains of gold and silver, not about abundant fish and meat, not about being surrounded by people. Happiness is the fulfillment of every small life wish. When you feel like eating, there's something to eat; when you want to be loved, there's someone to love you. Happiness is actually right beside you; your family members are healthy, your children have good grades, you have no worries about food and clothing today, and you can safely return home at night – this is happiness. Sometimes, happiness is just a feeling, as long as you take the time to feel it, it is always around us. Because of loneliness, we have distanced ourselves from the hustle and bustle, thus finding peace in our souls; because of solitude, we maintain the tranquility within, where loneliness and solitude transform into composure and ease, and this composure and ease is happiness.

23. 幸福，就是当激情退去、容颜衰老，牵你的还是那双不怨悔的手;陪你的还是那颗不回头的心;暖你的还是那份不冷却的情。

23. Happiness is when passion fades and beauty fades, yet it's still that pair of hands that never holds back; still that heart that never turns back; and still that affection that never cools down.

24. 班里调皮的孩子也很多，一件事处理不好，往往造成的结果不是伤害就是纵容。在理论上，每个教师都懂得，当孩子犯错误的时候，我们应该耐心说服教育，帮助孩子提高认识，但在实践中，事情往往并非那么简单。孩子是千变万化的，不仅性格不同，生活环境不同，对事情的看法也不相同，因而造成孩子犯错误的原因也不相同，有的孩子从小在溺爱的环境中长大，凡事以自我为中心，缺乏是非观念，道德意识，因而从不认为自己的行为有什么不妥，所以，他的许多行为是一些任意妄为的行为，并且在观念上从不认为自己是错的，对待这种孩子，我们应引导幼儿进行换位思考，帮助孩子提高是非观念。还有的孩子是因为缺乏良好习惯造成的犯错，如我班的阿宝小朋友，做事比较粗心，有几次在无意中不小心碰到别人，使别的孩子受到伤害，对这样的孩子应提醒孩，做事细致，帮助他养成细心的习惯，减小他在莽撞中伤害到别人；还有一些孩子，平时喜欢跑，总是不小心把别人撞倒或是将东西碰坏，等等……

24. There are also many mischievous children in the class, and poor handling of a situation often results in either harm or indulgence. In theory, every teacher understands that when children make mistakes, we should patiently persuade and educate them, helping them to improve their awareness. However, in practice, things are often not that simple. Children are diverse, with not only different personalities but also different living environments and different perspectives on things. Therefore, the reasons for children's mistakes are also varied. Some children grow up in an environment of overindulgence, taking themselves as the center of everything, lacking a sense of right and wrong and moral consciousness, so they never think their actions are inappropriate. Therefore, many of their behaviors are arbitrary and capricious, and they never consider themselves to be wrong. For such children, we should guide them to think from others' perspectives and help them improve their sense of right and wrong. There are also children who make mistakes due to the lack of good habits, such as the Abao friend in my class, who is somewhat careless and has accidentally bumped into others a few times, causing harm to other children. For such children, we should remind them to be meticulous in their actions and help them develop a careful habit to reduce the chances of unintentionally hurting others. There are also some children who like to run around and are often not careful enough to knock over others or damage things, etc.

25. 然而，就是那样一种巧合，无意中翻到了这本书。翻开它，忽略那些琐碎的简介，映入眼帘的是那些再熟悉不过的话语：“死生契阔，与子相阅，执子之手，与子偕老”——这是对爱情的淡定；“我能想到最烂漫的事，就是和你一起慢慢变老，收藏起点点滴滴的心事，留到以后和你慢慢聊”——这是对婚姻的淡定；“我是一只修行千年的狐，千年修行，千年孤独，夜深人静时可有人听见我在哭，灯火阑珊处可有人看见我跳舞？”——这是对失恋后的淡定；“春有百花秋有月，夏有凉风冬有雪，若无闲事挂心头，便是人间好时节”——这是对世事的淡定；“宠辱不惊，看前庭花开花落，去留无意，望空中云卷云舒”——这是对生活的淡定；“手把青秧插稻田，抬头便见水中天，心底清凉方为道，退步原来是向前”——这是为人的淡定；这些都是淡定，都是哲理。

25. However, it was just such a coincidence that I accidentally flipped through this book. Opening it, I ignored the trivial introductions, and what caught my eye were those words that are as familiar as they come: "Through life and death, together we read, holding your hand, we grow old together"—this is the calmness of love; "The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old with you, collecting all the little things in our hearts, to chat with you slowly in the future"—this is the calmness of marriage; "I am a fox that has practiced for a thousand years, a thousand years of practice, a thousand years of loneliness, can anyone hear me crying in the quiet of the night, can anyone see me dancing at the dimly lit corner?"—this is the calmness after a broken love; "In spring there are blooming flowers, in autumn there is the moon, in summer there is a cool breeze, in winter there is snow, if there are no trivial matters hanging in your heart, it is a good season in the world"—this is the calmness towards worldly affairs; "Unmoved by favor or disfavor, watching the flowers bloom and fall in the front courtyard, with no intention of coming or going, watching the clouds roll in and out in the sky"—this is the calmness towards life; "Holding the green rice seedlings and planting them in the rice field, looking up, I see the sky in the water, the heart is cool, that is the way, stepping back is actually moving forward"—this is the calmness towards being a person; all these are calmness, all are philosophy.

26. 做自己想做的事儿，看自己喜欢的风景，就会读懂风儿的迅捷，就会明白阳光的炙烈，感动雨的潇洒，无遮无拦

26. Do what you want to do, see the scenery you like, and you will understand the swift of the wind, realize the scorching of the sun, be moved by the elegance of the rain, and embrace it without any hindrance.

27. 淡定的人会坦然地对待生活，在面对梦想与现实的差异时，不是抱怨老天对自己的不公平，不是找各种理由为自己开脱，寻求他人的怜悯，而是用平淡平和的心态看待周围的一切，“不以物喜，不以己悲”，其实人生最重要的不是得到和失去，而是珍惜现在所拥有的。

27. A composed person will calmly face life. When confronted with the differences between dreams and reality, they do not complain about the unfairness of fate towards themselves, nor do they find various excuses to absolve themselves, seeking others' sympathy. Instead, they view everything around them with a calm and peaceful attitude, "neither being joyful at the acquisition of things, nor being sorrowful at the loss of them." In fact, the most important thing in life is not to gain or lose, but to cherish what one currently possesses.

28. 忧伤是嵌在心里不可名状的灼热，不可言说。能说出来的就不叫忧伤了。

28. Sadness is an unnameable burning that is embedded in the heart, unspeakable. What can be expressed is not called sadness.

29. 我们所说过的永远、最终成为他们口中的笑话。

29. What we once said about forever has ultimately become a joke in their mouths.

30. 生活中，我们每个人都会遇到这样或那样的不悦、寂寞、挫折和苦难。我们也总是有太多的抱怨，太多的不平衡，太多的不满足，犹如一个被宠坏的孩子，总是向生活不断的索取着。越是拥有，越是担心失去。我们追求淡定的生活，淡定的心态，但是淡定不是平庸，它是一种生活态度，一种人生境界，是智慧的不争，是宠辱不惊，是对简单生活的一种追求。

30. In life, each of us will encounter various kinds of displeasure, loneliness, setbacks, and suffering. We also tend to have too many complaints, too much dissatisfaction, and too much imbalance, like a spoiled child who constantly demands more from life. The more we have, the more we fear losing. We strive for a life of composure and a composed mindset, but composure is not mediocrity; it is a lifestyle, a level of life, the non-contention of wisdom, the indifference to fame and fortune, and a pursuit of simple living.

31. 02、已婚异性相约用餐，永远抽不出空暇。

31.02, Married heterosexual couples always find it difficult to find time for a dinner date.

32. 无论生活如何的变化，结果如何，我们都要踏着风霜雪月的潇洒，英勇向前。只要我们用心的做过，努力过，便无枉此生，更无愧于父母赠赐予我们的生命。

32. No matter how life changes and what the outcome may be, we should march forward with the elegance of braving the winds, frost, snow, and moon, bravely and valiantly. As long as we have made efforts with our hearts, we have not wasted our lives, and we are not ungrateful for the life bestowed upon us by our parents.

33. 当一扇幸福之门关闭时，就会有另一扇就会打开。但我们经常盯着那扇关闭的门，而对新开启的门却熟视无睹。

33. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.

34. 窗外的雨丝飘落进了房间，在棕红色的地板上细细的铺洒开来。伴随而来的风吹动了那垂落的紫色窗帘，也带着丝丝冷气进入了被窝，终于，我长呼一口气 ，看完了那最后一行字，心中的落寞也是荡然无存了。只因为这本书叫——《淡定的人生不寂寞 》。

34. The rain droplets outside drifted into the room, delicately spreading across the brownish floor. The wind that followed moved the purple curtains hanging down, bringing with it a chill that seeped into the quilt. Finally, I took a deep breath, finished reading the last line, and the melancholy in my heart was vanished. Just because this book is titled "A Calm Life Without Loneliness."

35. 时间带走了我们的青春和纯真，同时也会让我们在失去这些的时候，更加明白了我们自己想要什么样的生活和什么样的自己，也就找到了我们的人生方向。随着时间的流逝，我们失去了自己的青春，但同时我们也收获了目标和方向。青春和纯真是很多人想要拥有的，但是我们不会让时间停留等待我们，所以好好享受青春，但也要饱含热情迎接自己未来每一天的生活。

35. Time takes away our youth and innocence, but at the same time, it also makes us more aware of the kind of life and the kind of self we want, thus finding our life direction. As time goes by, we lose our youth, but we also gain goals and direction. Youth and innocence are what many people desire to have, but we won't let time stand still waiting for us. So, enjoy your youth to the fullest, but also welcome with passion each day of your future life.

36. 淡定的人会热情地对待工作，珍惜自己的岗位，热爱自己的工作，不会因为工作的压力儿愤恨不已，也不会因为职务的高低而怀才不遇，更不会因为待遇的多少而牢骚满腹。他们努力地学习，勤奋地工作，他们爱岗敬业，在工作中寻找快乐，在劳动中获取幸福。

36. Calm people approach their work with enthusiasm, cherish their positions, and love their jobs. They do not become bitter because of work pressure, nor do they feel frustrated because of the level of their position, nor do they complain endlessly due to the amount of remuneration. They strive to learn and work diligently. They are passionate about their jobs and find joy in their work, as well as happiness in labor.

37. 你觉得时间一天天溜走的同时，留给你了什么呢？

37. As you feel time slipping away day by day, what does it leave behind for you?

38. 看你出糗之人，永远多于在乎你的人。

38. The people who watch you make a fool of yourself are always more numerous than those who care about you.

39. 诈骗电话多以 95 开头，推销电话一般是 400 开头，小心 1069 开头的。

39. Fraudulent calls usually start with the number 95, while telemarketing calls often start with 400. Be cautious of those starting with 1069.

40. 适当的悲衰可以表示感情的深切，过度的伤心却可以证明智慧的完善。莎士比亚

40. Appropriate sorrow can express the depth of feelings, while excessive sadness can prove the perfection of wisdom. - Shakespeare

41. 感情的世界也有四季，逃不过时令变更。树叶落下，世界变凉，霜降过后立冬。

41. The world of emotions also has seasons, which cannot escape the changes of the times. As the leaves fall, the world grows cooler, and after the frost, it marks the beginning of winter.

42. 人生是本耐读的书，不时翻翻，偶尔合上，极尽精美，也不胜唏嘘。以为红尘清浅，原来世道深远。

42. Life is a book that is ever-readable, occasionally flipped through, sometimes closed, exquisitely beautiful, yet it also brings forth sighs. I thought the world was shallow, but in fact, the ways of the world are profound.

43. 原来理科班的娃们成天研究生不生跟生什么的问题，太深奥了

43. Originally, the kids in the science class were always talking about whether to have a postgraduate degree or not, and what to study, which is too profound.

44. 一个人若已到了没有任何东西可以依赖的时候，往往会变得坚强起来。

44. When a person reaches a point where there is nothing left to rely on, they often become stronger.

45. 我一直站在原地，呆呆的在原地等你：而你的脚步，却不曾为我停留过。

45. I have stood still in place, foolishly waiting for you there: yet your footsteps never paused for me.

46. 酒，少喝一点，对肝有好处； 烟，少抽一点，对肺有好处； 运动，多做一点，对身体有好处； 钱，多赚一点，对生活有好处； 夫妻，多想一点，对家庭有好处； 情侣，多黏一点，对爱情有好处； 心灵，洁净一点，对心智思维有好处； 心情，放开一点，对情绪有好处。

46. Drinking alcohol in moderation is good for the liver; smoking less is good for the lungs; exercising more is good for the body; earning more money is good for living; thinking more about one's spouse is good for the family; being more attached to a partner is good for love; keeping the mind clean is good for mental thinking; and being more open-minded is good for emotions.

47. 我们说好不掉泪离别那天却笑着流泪爱了才了解爱过的情节根本不须剪接多余的虚伪残缺的笑脸不需了解。

47. We promised not to shed tears on the day of our parting, but we laughed and cried. Only after loving did we understand that the story of love doesn't need to be edited; no unnecessary falsity, no incomplete smiles need to be understood.

48. 偶尔会想，如果人生真如一场电子游戏，玩坏了可以选择重来，生活会变成什么样子？正因为时光流逝一去不复返，每一天都不可追回，所以更要珍惜每一寸光阴，孝敬父母、疼爱孩子、体贴爱人、善待朋友！

48. Sometimes I ponder, if life were truly like a video game, where you could restart if you failed, what would life be like? It is precisely because time passes by and never returns, and each day cannot be reclaimed, that we should cherish every moment even more, honor our parents, cherish our children, be considerate of our loved ones, and treat our friends kindly!

49. 幸福不是意味着凡事都完美，人生就是一场经历，一场历练。人生就是这样，难免有痛，难免有伤，当生活一帆风顺时，喜笑颜开是易事，而身处逆境还能微笑的人，才是真正的乐观。这世界上有许多事，并没你想象的那么好，也没你想象的那么糟。

49. Happiness does not mean that everything is perfect; life is a series of experiences and trials. Life is like that; it is inevitable to have pain and injury. When life goes smoothly, it is easy to be joyful and smiling, but the ones who can still smile when facing adversity are truly optimistic. There are many things in this world that are not as good as you imagine, nor as bad as you imagine.

50. 小利面前小人众多，大利面前恶人不少。

50. There are many small-minded people in the face of small gains, and quite a few evil people in the face of big gains.

51. 耐得住寂寞才能守得住繁华，该奋斗的年龄不要选择了安逸。

51. One must bear the solitude to keep the prosperity, and at the age for struggle, do not choose comfort.

52. 日子一天天的溜走，但是会把那些生活中的美好留在我们的记忆里面。无论是一瞬间的心动，还是一瞬间的幸福，无论是一时的痛苦，还是暂时的伤心这一切都会在我们的人生中留下痕迹。无论是什么的回忆，但最终随着我们的成长，我们会发现这些记忆都是美好的。因为这些记忆成就了我们的人生，成就了我们的成长。

52. Days slip away one by one, but they leave the beautiful moments of life in our memories. Whether it's a moment of heartwarming, a moment of happiness, or a moment of temporary pain, or a temporary sadness, all these will leave marks in our lives. Regardless of what kind of memories, in the end, as we grow up, we will find that these memories are all beautiful. Because these memories shape our lives, shape our growth.

53. 《淡定的人生不寂寞》是一部风靡全国滋润亿万心灵的暖心之作!《淡定的人生不寂寞》的故事曾经激励和抚慰了全球亿万心灵，被誉为“华人世界第一心灵抚慰书”。《淡定的人生不寂寞》是身心灵修炼之作。寂寞的心灵需要温暖!仁者乐山山如画，智者乐水水无涯。从从容容一杯酒，平平淡淡一杯茶。时间不经意地溜走，一天24小时，你有多少留给自己停下来，品味寂寞，享受淡定!一盏灯，一片昏黄;一简书， 一杯淡茶。守着那一份淡定，品读属于自己的寂寞。保持淡定，才能欣赏到最美丽的风景!保持淡定，人生从此不再寂寞。

53. "A Life of Composure Is Never Lonely" is a popular nationwide work that warms the hearts of hundreds of millions! The story of "A Life of Composure Is Never Lonely" has inspired and comforted the hearts of billions around the world, and is hailed as "The First Chinese World-Famous Book of Soul Comfort." "A Life of Composure Is Never Lonely" is a work for the cultivation of the body, mind, and spirit. Lonely hearts need warmth! Benevolent people find joy in mountains as if they were paintings, wise people find joy in water as if it were boundless. Drink a glass of wine with composure, sip a cup of tea with simplicity. Time slips away unintentionally; in 24 hours a day, how much time do you give yourself to pause, savor loneliness, and enjoy composure? A lamp, a dim glow; a scroll, a cup of light tea. Hold on to that composure and savor the loneliness that is yours. Maintain composure, and you will be able to appreciate the most beautiful scenery! Maintain composure, and your life will no longer be lonely.

54. 即使你只是我生命拼图的一小块，但是没有你，我的生命便不会完整。

54. Even if you are just a small piece of the puzzle in my life, without you, my life would not be complete.

55. 04、保安，难以护佑任何人。

55. 04, Security guards find it difficult to protect anyone.

56. 一个人的降生意味着痛苦的开始，而一个人生命的结束，则是痛苦的终结。人的一生，就是不断地与痛苦抗争的过程，人生的意义，就在于从与痛苦的抗争中寻找少许的快乐。人只要生活在这个世界上，就有很多烦恼，痛苦或是快乐，取决于你的内心。

56. The birth of a person signifies the beginning of suffering, and the end of a person's life is the end of suffering. A person's entire life is a continuous struggle against suffering, and the meaning of life lies in seeking a little happiness amidst this struggle. As long as a person lives in this world, there are many troubles, and whether it is suffering or happiness depends on your inner self.

57. 总会在听到某一首歌的时候泪流满面；总会在看到某个似曾相识的背影的时候惆怅莫名，总会在嗅到某种香味的时候默默发呆，总会在经过某个地方的时候频频回首。生命有限，不要把它浪费在重复别人的生活上。不要被任何说教羁绊，否则你将被笼罩在他人思考的阴影之下

57. I always shed tears when I hear a certain song; I always feel melancholic for no apparent reason when I see a back that seems familiar; I always lose myself in thought when I smell a certain fragrance; and I always turn back frequently when I pass by a certain place. Life is limited, don't waste it living a life that imitates others. Don't be bound by any sermon, otherwise you will be shrouded in the shadow of others' thoughts.

58. 在我们的一生中，会遇到无数的人，有和你长相厮守的恋人，有和你擦肩而过的路人，有和你仅有一面之缘的朋友。无论你遇到什么人，友善或是不友善的，都是一种缘分。今天遇上了，今生可能再也不会遇到；今生遇见了，来世也不一定遇到。佛法所说的四大皆空，只是告诉人们一个道理，要学会放下，用淡定、平和的心态看待周围的一切。不囚禁于过去，不迷失于未来，你拥有最真实的财富，就是当下。守住属于自己的一份平淡的生活，你就是一个幸福的人。从从容容一杯酒，平平淡淡一杯茶。时间不经意地溜走，一天24小时，你有多少留给自己，停下来品味寂寞，享受淡定？一盏灯，一片昏黄，一本书，一杯茶，守住那一份淡定，品读属于自己的寂寞。保持淡定，才能欣赏到最美丽的风景；保持淡定，人生从此不再寂寞。

58. Throughout our lives, we encounter countless people: some are our lifelong companions, some are passersby with whom we cross paths, and some are friends we've only met once. No matter who we meet, friendly or unfriendly, it is all a form of destiny. Today, if we meet someone, we may never encounter them again in this lifetime; and even if we meet them in this life, we may not meet them in the next. The Four Great Elements taught in Buddhism simply convey a truth to people: we need to learn to let go and view everything around us with a calm and peaceful mindset. Do not be confined by the past, nor be lost in the future. The most real wealth you possess is the present moment. Holding onto a simple and uneventful life is to be a happy person. Savor a drink with ease, enjoy a cup of tea in simplicity. Time slips away inadvertently, 24 hours a day; how much of it do you leave for yourself, to pause and savor solitude, to enjoy calmness? A lamp, a dim yellow glow, a book, a cup of tea; hold onto that calmness, savor the solitude that belongs to you. Maintain calmness, and you can appreciate the most beautiful scenery; maintain calmness, and your life will no longer be lonely.

59. 很多人事的变迁，你无法左右，只能随缘。活得快乐，要学会清醒地做事，糊涂地做人。

59. Many changes in personnel are beyond your control, you can only go with the flow. To live a happy life, you need to do things with clarity and be a bit confused in your interactions with others.

60. 王府原头芳草芊，却怜杜宇自年年。停杯试向窗前看，飞尽杨花几树绵。

60. The fragrant grass at the original Wangfu is lush, yet I pity the杜鹃鸟自年年。Putting down the cup, I look out the window, and see the willow catkins have flown away, leaving only a few trees still draped in fluff.

61. 人生总要有梦想，岁月总要有追求；珍惜一份情，怀揣一份梦，勇敢前行。

61. Life must have dreams, and years must have pursuits; cherish a piece of affection, hold a dream in your heart, and bravely move forward.

62. 喜欢安定，也不怕漂泊，喜欢结伴，也不怕独行。

62. Enjoy stability, yet are not afraid of wandering; prefer companionship, yet are not afraid of solitude.

63. 时光的列车，在徐徐前行。而我们每天每时、每分每秒都在随着光阴的脚步匆匆奔跑。跑过年头月尾，越过春夏秋冬，年龄在悄悄增长，容颜在慢慢变老，步伐在渐渐凌乱。

63. The train of time is advancing slowly. And we are running hurriedly with each passing day, each hour, each minute, each second. We run through the end of the year and the end of the month, over the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Age is quietly increasing, faces are slowly aging, and steps are becoming more and more disordered.

64. 记录，是怕记忆太脆弱而被现实所遗忘。不记录，却是害怕将来有一天要流着泪删除。

64. Recording is because one fears that memory is too fragile and may be forgotten by reality. Not recording, however, is the fear of having to delete with tears in the future.