1. 相爱是艺术，相处是技术，发酵好了婚姻就是一坛美酒，时间越长就越醇正，如果发酵不好的话，婚姻就像一坛发了酸的泡菜。

1. Love is an art, cohabitation is a skill; a well-fermented marriage is like a jar of fine wine, the longer it ages, the purer it becomes. If it's not fermented properly, a marriage is like a jar of sour pickles.

2. 她可以把整个生命交给爱情，但是却不能把婚姻交给自己。

2. She can surrender her entire life to love, but she cannot surrender her marriage to herself.

3. 婚姻就是一场男人和女人争夺话语权、经济权、掌控权的**。

3. Marriage is a struggle between men and women for the power of words, economic power, and control.

4. 草率的结了婚已经是个错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行在离也不迟。

4. Marriage that was rushed in haste is already a mistake; do not rush into divorce as well. Try first, and if it really doesn't work out, it's not too late to separate then.

5. 有的男人拼死欲做男人堆里的领导者，也有男人宁愿只当女人堆里的追随者。

5. Some men are willing to die to become leaders among men, while others would rather only be followers among women.

6. 就婚姻而言：结婚往往并不像人想像的那么好，离婚则常常比人想像的还要糟。

6. Regarding marriage: Marriage often turns out not to be as good as people imagine, while divorce is often much worse than people expect.

7. 结了婚你就算戴上枷锁镣铐了，跳舞都得戴着！想绝对自由干脆别结婚。

7. Once you're married, you're chained and shackled. Even when dancing, you have to wear them! If you want absolute freedom, then just don't get married.

8. 结婚这是一种社会团体，由一个老板一个老板娘和两个奴隶组成，四者合而为二。?>

8. Marriage is a social group consisting of a boss, a bossess, and two slaves, with the four merging into two. ?>

9. 婚姻是一碗牛肉面。浮在上面的寥寥几片牛肉，不过是为了使寡面下咽而已。

9. Marriage is a bowl of beef noodles. The few slices of beef floating on the surface are merely to make the bland noodles easier to swallow.

10. 婚姻如同一架双轭将双方和谐地一起共赴人生的责任。

10. Marriage is like a double yoke that harmoniously binds both parties together in the responsibility of life.

11. 承担义务是幸福而长久的婚姻关系的基础。

11. Undertaking obligations is the foundation of a happy and lasting marriage relationship.

12. 婚姻的定义是：得到一个人，失去全世界。我愿意因为你放弃这个世界。

12. The definition of marriage is: to gain one person, and to lose the whole world. I am willing to give up this world for you.

13. 婚姻的本质是伦理关系，是具有法律意义的伦理上的爱。

13. The essence of marriage is an ethical relationship, an ethical love with legal significance.

14. 筌有一些表面富丽堂皇的婚宴，实质是在表明一种交易拍板成交了；倒是那些朴素的婚礼，往往更能证明爱情的果实成熟了。

14. There are some marriage banquets that appear grand and luxurious on the surface, but in essence, they are indicating that a deal has been sealed; it is often the simple weddings that prove more conclusively that the fruit of love has ripened.

15. 与一个好女人结婚，你是在暴风雨中找到了避风港；和一个坏女人结婚，你是在港中遇到了暴风雨。

15. To marry a good woman, you are finding a haven in the midst of a storm; to marry a bad woman, you are facing a storm in the harbor.

16. 家人和朋友都不看好的人不能嫁。

16. One should not marry someone who is not well-liked by family and friends.

17. 蜜月时吸引对方的是身体，而婚姻要想长久的话，依靠的是两颗心的相吸。

17. During the honeymoon, what attracts each other is the body, but for a marriage to last, it relies on the mutual attraction of two hearts.

18. 在父母的眼中，孩子常是自我的一部分，子女是他理想自我再来一次的机会。

18. In the eyes of parents, children often represent a part of themselves, and the offspring are an opportunity for the parent to relive their ideal self again.

19. 不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。

19. No matter how young or old you are, and no matter how much your family and friends urge you, do not treat marriage lightly. Marriage is not a card game; reshuffling the cards comes at a great cost.

20. 有时候，婚姻的缘起，除了爱情，或许还有最现实不过的相依为命。

20. Sometimes, the origin of marriage, besides love, may also involve the most realistic form of depending on each other for life.

21. 当一个人了解女人时，他会同情男人；但当一个人研究男人时，他会原谅女人。

21. When a person understands women, he will empathize with men; but when a person studies men, he will forgive women.

22. 围在城里的人想逃出来，站在城外的人想冲进去，婚姻也罢、事业也罢，人生的欲望大都如此。

22. Those surrounded by the city walls want to escape, and those standing outside the city walls want to break in. Whether it's marriage or a career, most desires in life are like this.

23. 老掉牙的话，爱情是一回事，婚姻是另外一回事！完美的爱情是自我想象而已。

23. The cliché goes that love is one thing, and marriage is another! Perfect love is just an illusion of self-imagination.

24. 爱情会折磨每一个人，惟一报复的方法就是结婚，婚姻会加倍摧残爱情。

24. Love tortures everyone, and the only revenge is to get married; marriage will doubly destroy love.

25. 女人结不成婚不是男人的错，有时是另一个女人的错。

25. It's not a man's fault if a woman can't get married; sometimes it's another woman's fault.

26. 他好歹该知道他想说什么，否则，若你一向喜欢沉默而强壮的男人，很容易遇上**狂。喜欢沉默而不强壮的男人，则容易患忧郁症。

26. He should at least know what he wants to say, otherwise, if you've always preferred silent and strong men, it's easy to encounter a "maniac." For those who like silent but not strong men, it's easy to suffer from depression.

27. 如果他有自卑感，即使你故意掩饰自己的优秀，也无法提升他的自尊。

27. If he has a sense of inferiority, no amount of deliberate掩饰（covering up）of your own excellence will boost his self-esteem.

28. 婚姻的幸福并非完全建筑在显赫的身份和财产上，却建筑在互相崇敬上。这种幸福的本质是谦逊和朴实的。

28. The happiness of marriage is not entirely built on distinguished status and wealth, but on mutual admiration. The essence of this happiness is modesty and simplicity.

29. 为何高级主管大都在五十岁以上？因为他们已在婚姻生活里磨炼到足够的经验。

29. Why are most senior executives over fifty years old? Because they have gained sufficient experience through their marital life.

30. 两性**之所以绵延不绝，就是因为男人太硬女人太软，如果大家都互换一点，互补一点，矛盾就会缓和一点，家庭也肯定比现在更可爱一点。

30. The reason why the genders continue to exist is because men are too rigid and women are too soft. If everyone could be a bit more flexible and complementary to each other, the contradictions would be a bit more mitigated, and the family would definitely be a bit more charming than it is now.

31. 男人通常都伪装坚强，女人一般都假装娇弱。

31. Men usually pretend to be strong, and women generally pretend to be weak.

32. 如果你的婚姻不幸福，那就回来找我吧，哪怕我已经老得走不动了，我也会带你一起私奔的。

32. If your marriage is unhappy, come back to me, even if I'm too old to walk. I will still take you away in secret.

33. 有追求才有快乐，有目标才有动力，有爱好才有寄托，有思想才有明天。

33. Pursuit brings happiness, goals bring motivation, hobbies provide solace, and thoughts shape the future.

34. 婚姻是爱情的坟墓，如果没有婚姻，你会死无葬身之地。

34. Marriage is the grave of love; without marriage, you would have no place to be buried.

35. 沟通是解决婚姻问题的第一把钥匙，也是最重要的钥匙之一，沟通可以解决大多数婚姻问题。

35. Communication is the first and one of the most important keys to resolving marriage issues, as it can solve the majority of marriage problems.

36. 爱情不能证明什么，只能证明一种感觉。世上只有两样东西能证明爱情，一样是生死，再一样就是时间。

36. Love cannot prove anything; it can only prove a feeling. There are only two things in the world that can prove love: one is life and death, and the other is time.

37. 婚姻经营好了就是个蜜罐儿，经营不好，顶多也就是个火坑，只要烤得舒舒服服的，火坑有什么不好，暖和。

37. If a marriage is well-managed, it's like a honey pot; if not, it's at most a fire pit. As long as you are comfortably roasted, what's wrong with a fire pit? It's warm.

38. 婚姻，若非天堂，即是地狱。

38. Marriage, if not heaven, is hell.

39. 爱情总是轻巧的来，但帐单会很严重的来。

39. Love always comes lightly, but the bills come heavily.

40. 幸福的前提与基础当然是爱与忠诚，而最终能否真正获得幸福则取决于夫妻之间良好的情感习惯。所以说，好习惯成就幸福婚姻。

40. The premise and foundation of happiness is certainly love and loyalty, and whether one can truly achieve happiness ultimately depends on the good emotional habits between the couple. Therefore, good habits lead to a happy marriage.

41. 婚姻，对于不愿付出的人来说是坟墓，对于懂得爱的含义的人来说是爱的乐园。

41. Marriage is a graveyard for those unwilling to give, and a paradise of love for those who understand the meaning of love.

42. 你爱他吗？爱就告诉他，何必把思念之苦藏在心底深处。怕样子，地位，身份不相配？别怕，爱一个人是美好的。

42. Do you love him? If you do, tell him. Why keep the pain of longing deep within your heart? Are you worried about not matching in appearance, status, or identity? Don't be afraid, loving someone is beautiful.

43. 婚姻破裂的两大终极原因：相拥却并不相爱。相爱却不懂相处。婚姻里，夫妻间的相处比相爱还更重要。

43. The two ultimate reasons for the breakdown of marriage: embracing but not loving. Loving but not understanding how to coexist. In marriage, the way couples interact is even more important than loving each other.

44. 没有爱情的婚姻不会得到幸福，而爱情不能用金钱和物质换取。

44. Marriage without love will not bring happiness, and love cannot be purchased with money and material things.

45. 婚姻的幸福并不完全建筑在显赫的身份和财产上，却建筑在互相尊敬上。这种幸福的本质是谦逊和朴实的。

45. The happiness of marriage is not entirely built on prominent status and wealth, but on mutual respect. The essence of this happiness is modesty and simplicity.

46. 婚姻是一座坟墓不假，但能够入土为安，总比暴尸街头强一些。

46. Marriage is indeed a tomb, but being able to be buried and at peace is always better than lying exposed in the street.

47. 婚姻如同一张洁白的纸，双方可以在上面写出美丽的词句或是不美的文字。

47. Marriage is like a clean white paper, on which both parties can write beautiful words or unpleasant texts.

48. 婚姻是一台冰箱。它的目的是为爱保鲜，但结果是把爱情放凉了。

48. Marriage is like a refrigerator. Its purpose is to keep love fresh, but the result is that it cools the love down.

49. 离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趁向人性化，不在封建思想而禁捆自己，坏的一点是对与婚姻的轻率，没想好结什么婚？

49. The high divorce rate reflects at least two points, one good and one bad: the good point is that people's ideas have been moving towards humanization, no longer bound by feudal thoughts, and the bad point is the casual attitude towards marriage, not thinking about what kind of marriage to enter?

50. 要热是火口子，要亲是两口子。

50. To be hot is to have a "fire mouth," and to be close is to have a "couple's mouth."

51. 魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女人我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。

51. What is charm? Charm is not beauty; beautiful women do not necessarily attract me. I prefer elegant and dignified women. So, you don't need to worry about not being beautiful enough.

52. 婚姻变成了大探险，不停地发觉全新的自我和配偶，婚姻成为让人每天拓宽眼界，重新认识生命、认识人类、认识神的大好良机。

52. Marriage has become a great adventure, continually discovering new aspects of oneself and one's partner. Marriage has become a wonderful opportunity to broaden one's horizons every day, to re-understand life, humanity, and God.

53. 一个女人决定嫁给一个男人的时候，她只需一时的勇气就可以了；但是想要守护好一场婚姻，却需要一辈子倾尽全力。

53. When a woman decides to marry a man, she only needs a moment of courage; however, to safeguard a marriage, it requires a lifetime of wholehearted effort.

54. 老婆切着生日蛋糕心在许愿，老公在旁看着蛋糕心在诅咒。

54. The wife was slicing the birthday cake, her heart filled with wishes, while the husband stood by watching, his heart filled with curses.

55. 谁不希望自己吻过的人都是自己所爱，也爱自己的？只是，有些事情，并不是尽如人意的。

55. Who doesn't hope that the people they have kissed are those they love and who also love them back? However, there are some things that don't always turn out as one wishes.

56. 婚姻是一座建筑，以爱情为原料的婚姻是一幢漂亮的别墅；以金钱为原料的婚姻是一间用钞票砌成的纸房子，经不起风吹雨打。

56. Marriage is a building, and a marriage made of love is a beautiful villa; a marriage made of money is a paper house constructed with banknotes, which cannot withstand the wind and rain.

57. 妻子不贞，丈夫有一半责任。丈夫不贞，太太也有一半责任。如果把对方逼得落落荒而逃，责任更大。

57. If a wife is unfaithful, the husband has half the responsibility. If the husband is unfaithful, the wife also has half the responsibility. If one forces the other to flee in despair, the responsibility is even greater.

58. 婚姻的好处，是你永远有个属于自己的去处，问题是你也永远只能有这个去处了。

58. The benefit of marriage is that you always have a place of your own, the problem is that you will only ever have this place.

59. 女人结婚靠直觉，男人结婚靠自觉。

59. Women get married based on intuition, while men get married based on self-awareness.

60. 所谓家，是有一个温暖的怀抱在等待着归来的人。

60. What is called home is a warm embrace waiting for the return of those who seek it.

61. 婚姻不是独木桥，不是人人非过不可。

61. Marriage is not a solitary bridge that everyone must cross.

62. 婚姻的源头是爱情，但婚姻却不等于爱情。

62. The origin of marriage is love, but marriage is not equal to love.

63. 新人从门入，故人从阁去。

63. Newcomers enter through the gate, while old friends depart from the pavilion.

64. 我又没本事像你一样自己挣家业，只好分享男人的成功了。不过这也没什么，女人天生就该分享男人的胜利果实嘛！

64. I'm not capable of building a career like you do, so I can only share in the success of men. However, there's nothing wrong with that; women are naturally supposed to share in the fruits of men's victories!

65. 你们男人是不是觉得女人的成功，会对男人构成威胁呀？可以理解，毕竟这地球上资源有限机会不多。

65. Do men think that women's success poses a threat to men? It's understandable, after all, the resources on this planet are limited and opportunities are scarce.

66. 不该说话的时候说话，那是爱情；该说话的时候不说话，那就是婚姻。

66. Speaking when one should not speak is love; not speaking when one should is marriage.

67. 女人对婚姻的看法只有一种；男人对婚姻的看法却有一千零一种。

67. Women have only one view of marriage, but men have a thousand and one views of marriage.

68. 你所结婚的对象是你在最脆弱时觉得最适合于你的人。

68. The person you marry is the one who seems most suitable to you at your most vulnerable.

69. 女人坚持独身，人们会认为她有毛病；男人坚持独身，人们会认为他有事业心。而实际情况是：女人坚持独身是因为找不到好对象；男人坚持独身是因为找不到对象！

69. If a woman chooses to remain single, people might think she has something wrong with her; if a man chooses to remain single, people might think he has a strong sense of career. However, the reality is: a woman remains single because she can't find a suitable partner; a man remains single because he can't find a partner at all!