生活之羞涩源于关系缱绻，学会随缘自喜，活在缘分里。

The shyness in life comes from the entanglement of relationships. Learn to be content with what comes naturally, and live within the realm of destiny.

1. 我渴望有那么一天，你悄悄地出现在我的面前，紧紧地抱着我说，你不会再离开了。

1. I long for the day when you quietly appear in front of me, tightly hold me in your arms, and say, "You will never leave again."

2. 86给人金钱是下策，给人能力是中策，给人观念是上策。财富买不来好观念，好观念能换来亿万财富。世界上最大的市场，是在人的脑海里！

2. Giving money to people is the least effective strategy, giving them abilities is a moderate strategy, and giving them ideas is the most effective strategy. Wealth cannot buy good ideas, but good ideas can bring in billions of wealth. The largest market in the world is in people's minds!

3. 如果有一天，你功成名就时，千万不要让金钱名利控制你的行动，而忽视了对家人的关爱。因为家是温暖的港湾，有你所爱、有你所想、有你所念的亲人；有一家人其乐融融的笑声；而陪伴才是最长情的告白！

3. If one day you achieve success and recognition, never let money and fame control your actions and neglect the love for your family. Because home is a warm harbor, filled with loved ones, with people you cherish, with your thoughts, and with your concerns; it is the laughter of a happy family that makes it all worthwhile, for companionship is the longest declaration of love!

4. 真心等你的人，他总会真心等下去，不愿意等你的人，总是一转身就牵了别人的手。你必须内心丰富，才能够摆脱那些和别人生活表面的相似。人有两条路要走，一条是必须走的，一条是想走的，你必须把必须走的路走漂亮，才可以走想走的路。

4. A person who truly waits for you will always wait with sincerity, while a person who is unwilling to wait for you will always turn around and hold someone else's hand. You must be rich in spirit to differentiate yourself from the superficial similarities in others' lives. People have two paths to walk: one that they must walk and one that they want to walk. You must walk the path that you must walk beautifully before you can walk the path that you want to walk.

5. 不是每个人，都适合和你白头到老。有的人，是拿来成长的；有的人，是拿来一起生活的；有的人，是拿来一辈子怀念的。

5. Not everyone is suited to grow old with you. Some people are meant for growth; some are meant for living together; and some are meant for lifelong remembrance.

6. 67生活遇到困难，你抱怨了，说苦；工作遇到挫折，你退缩了，说难；总是怨天尤人，整日的唉声叹气，羡慕别人的成就，悲观了自己的路。其实人生不如意，可以慢慢来，因为经验需要积累；生活不开心，别着急，生活本就是大杂烩。别人今天成功，是他的过去所成就的，你今天虽不如意，但是你年轻，你还有未来。

6. When life throws you difficulties, you complain and say it's bitter; when work meets setbacks, you retreat and say it's hard. You always blame others and sigh all day long, envying others' achievements and being pessimistic about your own path. In fact, life is not always smooth sailing, and you can take your time because experience needs to be accumulated. If life isn't making you happy, don't rush, as life itself is a hodgepodge. Others' success today is the result of their past efforts. Although you may not be successful today, you are young and have a future ahead of you.

7. 人生路不可能永远坦途，必然遇到令人无奈的困境，甚至是人生的绝境。

7. The path of life cannot always be smooth, and it is inevitable to encounter frustrating predicaments, even reaching the dead end of life.

8. 真正的爱，从来无关热闹。最爱你的人，是陪你一起耐守平淡。

8. True love has nothing to do with the hustle and bustle. The person who loves you the most is the one who accompanies you through the mundane.

9. 爱情应该是一个磁场，而不应该是一条绳子，捆着他，不如吸引他。一条绳子会让男人有挣脱的欲望，而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假相，和一个永恒的诱惑。

9. Love should be a magnetic field, not a rope that ties him down; it is better to attract him. A rope can make a man want to break free, while a magnetic field can give a man the illusion of freedom and an eternal allure.

10. 人生没有完美，幸福没有一百分，知道自己没有能力一次拥有那么多，又何苦要求那么多。有朝一日，你所祈求的一切都会以某种方式实现，或许不会完全如你所愿，但不会离开因果循环的法则，只要你努力了，上苍不会亏待你的。耐心点，坚强点，总有一天，你承受过的疼痛会有助于你。

10. Life is not perfect, happiness does not have a hundred points. Knowing that you don't have the ability to possess so much at once, why seek so much? One day, everything you pray for will be realized in some way, perhaps not exactly as you wish, but it will not deviate from the laws of cause and effect. As long as you make an effort, the heavens will not be unkind to you. Be patient, be strong, and one day, the pain you have endured will help you.

11. 真的不明白，也不懂，为什么还是走不出去，难道是自己真的放不下吗这么长时间了不联系，却一点儿也没有忘记你的样子。

11. I really don't understand, nor do I comprehend, why I still can't move on. Could it be that I truly haven't let go? It's been such a long time since we've been in contact, yet I haven't forgotten your appearance at all.

12. 请不要接近我，了解我，心疼我，然后离开我。

12. Please do not come close to me, understand me, care for me, and then leave me.

13. 看的是书，读的却是世界；沏的是茶，尝的却是生活；斟的是酒，品的却是艰辛。

13. What is seen is a book, but what is read is the world; what is brewed is tea, but what is tasted is life; what is poured is wine, but what is savored is hardship.

14. 生命中平淡如水的日子，因为爱而博大，因为感动而温馨，因为信任而厚重。

14. The days of life flowing like still water are vast because of love, warm because of touch, and profound because of trust.

15. 1有时候，你需要做的就是放下所谓的自尊，承认自己的错误。这不叫放弃，而叫成长。不管做什么，都不要急于回报，因为播种和收获不在同一个季节，中间隔着的一段时间，我们叫它为：坚持。

15.1 Sometimes, all you need to do is put aside so-called self-respect and admit your mistakes. This is not called giving up, but growth. No matter what you do, don't be in a hurry for a return, because sowing and reaping are not in the same season; the time in between, we call it: perseverance.

16. 所谓长大，就是把原本看重的东西看轻一点，原本看轻的东西看重一点。

16. So-called growth is to take what was once valued a bit less seriously, and to take what was once overlooked a bit more seriously.

17. 12心里装着天下，手上拿着奋斗，脚下走着属于自己的路，眼睛望着成功，耳朵听着警惕得声音，查着失败的过去的人得经历，嘴巴说着必要说的话，一路走去，一路披荆斩棘，一路属于自己的轨迹========你怕啥!!!

17. 12. With the world in mind, holding the sword of struggle in hand, walking the path that belongs to oneself, gazing at success, listening to the alerting voice, examining the experiences of those who have searched the past for failure, speaking the necessary words, walking through, overcoming obstacles, carving out one's own path = What are you afraid of!!!

18. 85决定今天的不是今天，而是昨天对人生的态度；决定明天的不是明天，而是今天对事业的作为。我们的今天由过去决定，我们的明天由今天决定！

18. What determines today is not today itself, but yesterday's attitude towards life; what determines tomorrow is not tomorrow, but today's actions in pursuit of one's career. Our today is determined by the past, and our tomorrow is determined by today!

19. 跟自己说声对不起，这些年一直没学会爱自己。

19. Say sorry to yourself, for not learning to love yourself all these years.

20. 38真正重要的不是生命里的岁月，而是岁月中的生活。

20. What is truly important is not the years in life, but the life in the years.

21. 走在容颜渐老的路上，有欢乐，有忧伤；有希望，有失望。因为不是所有的付出，都有回报；不是所有的憧憬，都能实现；不是所有的失去，都会重来；所以要学会释然。不乱于心，不困于情；不念过往，不惧将来。如此，安好。

21. Walking on the path where one's appearance grows older, there is joy and sorrow; there is hope and disappointment. Because not all efforts are rewarded; not all dreams can be realized; not all losses can be redone; therefore, one must learn to let go. Not be troubled in the heart, not be confined by emotions; not dwell on the past, not fear the future. In this way, everything will be peaceful.

22. 终于明白，有些路，只能一个人走。那些邀约好同行的人，一起相伴雨季，走过年华，但有一天终究会在某个渡口离散。红尘陌上，独自行走，绿萝拂过衣襟，青云打湿诺言。山和水可以两两相忘，日与月可以毫无瓜葛。那时候，只一个人的浮世清欢，一个人的细水长流。

22. Finally realized, there are some paths that can only be walked alone. Those who have promised to walk together may accompany each other through the rainy season and the years, but one day they will inevitably part at some ferry crossing. Amidst the dust and cobblestone of the world, walking alone, the green vines brush against the collar, and the blue clouds moisten the promises. Mountains and rivers can forget each other, and days and months can have no connection. At that time, there is only one person's fleeting joy in the world, and one person's gentle and long-running stream.

23. 30人生如烟花，不可能永远悬挂天际，只要曾经绚烂过，便不枉此生。

23. Life is like fireworks, it can't hang in the sky forever. As long as it has been splendid, it is not in vain.

24. 77不要过分的去批评别人，了解了一切，就会宽恕一切。

24. Do not overly criticize others; once you understand everything, you will forgive everything.

25. 41世上最糟糕的感受，就是不得不怀疑先前深信不疑的东西。

25. The worst feeling in the world is to have to doubt what you once believed deeply and without question.

26. 人生在世，还不是有事笑笑人家，有时给人家笑笑。

26. In life, isn't it about sometimes making others laugh and sometimes being the one to be laughed at?

27. 有时候觉得自己善良如天使，有时候觉得自己心里住着一个恶魔。每个人，大抵如此。

27. Sometimes I feel as kind as an angel, and sometimes I feel like a devil resides within me. Everyone is probably like this to some extent.

28. 不想难过,不想流泪,就不要去好奇那些不该看的东西。

28. Don't want to be sad, don't want to cry, then don't be curious about things that shouldn't be seen.

29. 过年前一天心情不好穿睡衣和顶着三天未洗的大油头出门吃烧烤嘴皮烫肿了一小快但是还是很爽

29. On the day before the Chinese New Year, I was feeling down, so I wore pajamas and stepped out with a greasy hairdo that hadn't been washed for three days to eat barbecue. My lips were slightly swollen from the heat, but I still had a great time.

30. 十年的昨天，没有自信，没有能力，没有钱，但是有快乐，有朋友，不用担心，不用害怕。十年后的今天，懂的多了，也累了，学会哭了，笑的真了，但是付出无奈了，学会了敷衍，才知道疲惫。

30. Ten years ago yesterday, I had no confidence, no ability, no money, but I had happiness, friends, no worries, and no fears. Ten years later today, I have learned more, but I am also tired. I have learned to cry, to laugh sincerely, but I have also learned helplessness. I have learned to feign, only then did I realize fatigue.

31. 那些曾经以为念念不忘的事情就在我们念念不忘的过程里，被我们遗忘了。郭敬明

31. Those things that we once thought we could never forget are actually forgotten in the very process of us holding on to them. - Guo Jingming

32. 人生，太精明是一种累，太糊涂是一种罪，智慧的人生，是该醒则醒，该醉则醉。人这一辈子，怎么都是过，与其皱眉头，不如偷着乐。

32. Life, being too cunning is tiring, being too foolish is a sin. A wise life is about being awake when you should be and drunk when you should be. In this life, no matter how you look at it, it's all about passing through. Why not enjoy it secretly instead of frowning?

33. 或许，我们终会有那么一天，牵着别人的手，遗忘彼此！

33. Perhaps, there will be a day when we hold each other's hands and forget each other!

34. 很多时候，我们说放下了，其实并没有真的放下，我们只是假装很幸福，然后在寂静的角落里孤独地抚摸伤痕。

34. Often, when we say we have let go, it's not really the case. We just pretend to be very happy, and then in the quiet corners, we孤独ly caress the scars.

35. 曾经以为天长地久的情事，在青春里一发酵，却成了兵荒马乱的年少悲歌。

35. What was once thought to be an eternal love story, once fermented in youth, turned into a tragic song of youthful chaos and turmoil.

36. 敏感的人易缺乏安全感和过分自卑，生怕自己言行举止惹得他人不愉快，后来往往不愉快的人都是自己。

36. Sensitive people tend to lack a sense of security and have excessive self-doubt, fearing that their words and actions may make others unhappy. Later on, it often turns out that the unhappy person is themselves.

37. 勇敢的人不是不害怕，而是怕也要向前走；闪亮的人生不是未经黑暗，而是在黑暗中也努力燃起一道光。学着在跌倒中忍痛，学会把哭调成静音。深秋的枯叶，忍过寒冬就能成为孕育春天的养分。新的一年即将到来，用努力去迎接更好的自己，更美的未来。

37. Brave people are not those who are not afraid, but those who continue to move forward even when they are afraid; a shining life is not one that has not experienced darkness, but one that also strives to ignite a light in the darkness. Learn to endure pain in the fall, and learn to turn crying into silence. The withered leaves in the late autumn, once they endure the winter, can become nutrients for the spring. A new year is about to arrive, use effort to embrace a better version of yourself, and a more beautiful future.

38. 那华丽的语言戏弄了青春，什么海枯石烂，什么至死不移，那都是锦上添花的借口而以，不要对我说谎，我很傻会认真的，请不要把我对你的喜欢，来当作伤害我的筹码，，有时我也是个孩子，伤了，就会哭的孩子。

38. The splendid language mocked youth, what about the sea drying up and the mountains crumbling, or being unyielding until death—those were merely excuses to adorn the situation. Don't lie to me; I'm naive and can take things seriously. Please don't use my affection for you as a pawn to hurt me. Sometimes, I am also a child; when I'm hurt, I will cry.

39. 52活得糊涂的人，容易幸福；活得清醒的人，容易烦恼。这是因为，清醒的人看得太真切，一较真，生活中便烦恼遍地；而糊涂的人，计较得少，虽然活得简单粗糙，却因此觅得了人生的大滋味。

39. 52 People who live in a state of confusion are more likely to be happy; those who live with clarity are more prone to烦恼. This is because clear-minded people see things too clearly, and when they take things too seriously,烦恼 are scattered all over their lives; while confused people, by concerning themselves less, may live a simple and rough life, but thereby discover the great flavors of life.

40. 28回忆中，总有一些瞬间，能温暖整个远去的曾经。

40. In memories, there are always some moments that can warm up the entire distant past.

41. 83观念比能力重要，策划比实施重要，行动比承诺重要，选择比努力重要，感知比告知重要，创造比证明重要，尊重生命比别人看法重要！

41. Ideas are more important than abilities, planning is more important than execution, action is more important than promises, choice is more important than effort, perception is more important than informing, creation is more important than proof, and respecting life is more important than others' opinions!

42. 只有一种成功，那就是能够用自己的方式度过自己的一生。

42. There is only one success, and that is to be able to live one's life in one's own way.

43. 6在漆黑围绕的时候，你要用信念的明灯照亮前程;在荆棘铺路的时候，你要用理想的利刃披荆斩棘;在风雨狂作的时候，你要用坚强的大伞撑起晴空。

43.6 When surrounded by darkness, use the beacon of faith to illuminate your path; when thorny paths are laid out, use the sharp blade of ideals to clear the way; when fierce winds and rains rage, use a strong umbrella to uphold the clear sky.

44. 胡话，左边是有人躲避，右边有人说闲话，别让说闲话的人开始，最好控制自己的胡话。不说狂话，是为了保持自己的安静，防备别人的算计，毕竟活的好，不如安静的微笑。

44. Nonsense, on the left there's someone avoiding, on the right people are gossiping. It's best not to let the gossiper start, and to control your own nonsense. Not to speak grandiloquent words is to maintain one's tranquility, to guard against others' schemes. After all, living well is better than a noisy smile.

45. 人生，最难得的，是好心态；最难放的，是真感情；最难忘的，是入心人；最难求的，是被人懂。人的一生，与爱恨纠缠，与得失相伴，与是非周旋。生活中，每个人都会有烦恼，工作中，每个人都会有难题，人生中，每个人都有难事。

45. What is most difficult in life is to maintain a good attitude; what is most difficult to let go is true emotions; what is most unforgettable are those who have reached the heart; what is most difficult to seek is to be understood by others. Throughout one's life, one is entangled with love and hate, accompanied by gains and losses, and engaged in right and wrong. In life, everyone will have troubles, in work, everyone will face difficulties, and in life, everyone has their own hardships.

46. 64愚痴的人，一直想要别人了解他。有智慧的人，却努力的了解自己。

46. 64 The foolish person always wants others to understand him, while the wise person strives to understand himself.

47. 不管有多么放不下，每段感情到最后都会是一地沧桑。

47. No matter how hard it is to let go, every relationship will eventually turn into a scene of sorrow and experience.

48. 喜欢一个人走，因为想知道自己究竟还能忍受多久。当初都是一群人上路，后来都需要一个人独处。都曾希望任何人给自己发短信，拿起手机却又不知道应该打给谁。但只有经过了这段，才有回忆的笑谈。

48. I like to walk alone because I want to know how much longer I can endure. Initially, we all set out together, but later we all needed some solitude. We all once hoped that someone would send us a text message, but when we picked up the phone, we didn't know who to call. But it's only after this period that we can laugh about the memories.

49. 每个人都渴望，哭了，有人慰。累了，有人依。每个人都想，苦了，有人疼。久了，有人忆。远了，有人牵。但现实告诉我们，生活，要自己忙。苦累，要自己扛。

49. Everyone yearns for someone to comfort them when they cry, to rely on when they are tired. Everyone wants someone to cherish them when they are in pain, to remember them when the time passes, to hold on to them when they are far away. But reality tells us that we need to manage our own lives. We need to bear our own hardships and burdens.

50. 当你有一个赶不走的爱人和一段坚不可摧的爱情时，你就会变得无所畏惧。

50. When you have an unshakable lover and an indestructible love, you will become fearless.

51. 夜，轻轻敲打着心门，慢慢释放干枯的浅墨，缓缓吞噬着苍白的心。想哭，却找不到眼泪的堤岸，想爱，那些誓言的纸笺泛黄，想呐喊，却找不到生命的尽头。

51. At night, it gently taps at the heart's door, slowly releasing withered pale ink, slowly consuming the pale heart. Wanting to cry, yet unable to find the embankment of tears; wanting to love, but the yellowed pages of those promises; wanting to shout, yet unable to find the end of life.

52. 相信，每个人都有一种花会开在心底。纵使白驹过隙，岁月老去，依然会花香满衣。

52. Believe that everyone has a flower that will bloom in the heart. Even as time slips away and years pass, the scent of the flowers will still fill one's clothes.

53. 不管什么时候，给心留一点空间。千金易散，人缘难求，富贵也好，贫穷也罢，多结良缘，终有善报。登顶为峰固好，但要勤养生命之气，方能长盛不衰；烦恼前糊涂些，失去后潇洒点，没输掉人生的快乐，你就是大赢家。

53. No matter when, leave a little space in your heart. Wealth can be easily scattered, but good relationships are hard to seek. Whether rich or poor, more good relationships will eventually bring good fortune. It's good to reach the peak, but you must cultivate the energy of life diligently to ensure long-term prosperity; be a bit confused before烦恼, be a bit carefree after losing, and if you haven't lost the joy of life, you are the big winner.

54. 我最爱的她也走了，还有什么值得我留恋的，真的好痛我的心。从来没有这么伤心过，既然要这样当初为什么要答应我，就为了耍我玩吗

54. The one I love the most has also left, and what else is there for me to cherish? It really hurts my heart so much. I have never been this heartbroken before. Why did you agree to me if you were just going to play me like this?

55. 生命本没有意义，你要能给他什么意义，他就有什么意义。与其终日冥想人生有何意义，不如试用此生做点有意义的事。

55. Life itself has no meaning; whatever meaning you can give it, that is its meaning. It's better to spend this life doing something meaningful than to spend it in constant contemplation of the meaning of life.

56. 永远不要弄破四样东西：信任、关系、诺言和心，因为当它们破了，是不会发出任何声响，但却异常的痛苦。

56. Never break four things: trust, relationships, promises, and the heart, because when they are broken, they make no sound, yet they cause immense pain.

57. 人的一生很像是在雾中行走，远远望去，只是迷蒙中一片，辨不出方向和吉凶。可是，当你鼓起勇气，放下忧惧和怀疑，一步一步向前走去的时候，你就会发现，每走一步之后，你都能把下一步路看得清楚一点。

57. The journey of a person's life is very much like walking through a fog. From a distance, it appears as a blurred mass, indistinguishable in terms of direction and fortune. However, when you gather courage, put aside fear and doubt, and step forward one step at a time, you will find that after each step, you can see the next path a little more clearly.

58. 幸福是一种感觉。不依赖慑人的权势，不依赖过人的财富，不依赖超人的才华，依赖的是一颗平常心。常怀一颗笑对人生冷暖的平常心，就有圆融丰满的喜悦常相伴随。幸福似穿鞋，松紧自明；幸福如喝水，冷暖自知。如果说快乐是生理的，那么幸福是精神的。幸福就是用生活的苦涩，酿造人生的甜酒。

58. Happiness is a feeling. It does not depend on intimidating power, excessive wealth, or superhuman talent; it depends on a common mind. To always hold a common mind that can smile at the ups and downs of life, there will be a harmonious and full joy that always accompanies you. Happiness is like wearing shoes, the tightness and looseness are self-evident; happiness is like drinking water, the warmth and coldness are known to oneself. If joy is a physiological state, then happiness is a spiritual state. Happiness is to brew sweet wine for life with the bitterness of life.

59. 每个爱情里的女人，不仅要为两人的幸福努力经营，同时也要为自己留一条退路，这条退路不是别的，正是保持自我，保持清醒。任何一段正常的感情，都不会没有退路，除非是你自愿截断。

59. Every woman in love not only needs to strive for the happiness of the two, but also needs to leave a way out for herself. This way out is not something else, but to maintain her own self, to remain clear-headed. Any normal relationship will not be without a way out, unless you choose to cut it off yourself.

60. 2人最怕：深交后的陌生;认真后的痛苦;信任后的利用;温柔后的冷漠;爱有天意，是否会眷顾自己;心有灵犀，为何总让人无语。有声的，亦累;有形的，也苦;有伤的，还痛。原来，看不见的伤痕最疼，流不出的眼泪最冷。

60. The two things that people fear most: the unfamiliarity after deep friendship; the pain after taking things seriously; being taken advantage of after trusting someone; the coldness after gentleness; love has a purpose, but will it favor oneself; when hearts are in harmony, why does it always leave people speechless. The audible is also tiring; the tangible is also bitter; the hurtful is also painful. It turns out that the invisible scars are the most painful, and the tears that cannot be shed are the coldest.

61. 人啊，有时候可以看得很淡然，有时候又执着得有些不堪。

61. Humans, sometimes we can be quite indifferent, and sometimes we can be so persistent that it becomes somewhat unbearable.

62. 你的眼圈越发的黑，白开水喝出了酒的味，你没有泪，只是想起了谁。

62. Your eye circles are getting darker, the plain water tastes like wine, you have no tears, just remembered someone.

63. 没有人可怜自己的时候，告诉自己还有一个影子，哪怕遍地鳞伤，它也一辈子不抛弃自己。没人问自己的时候，想想年少的时候，一个人哭，一个人笑，一个人的经历，握紧手，告诉自己我可以。

63. When no one feels sorry for themselves, remind yourself that you still have a shadow, even if it's all cut up and bruised, it will never abandon you for the rest of your life. When no one is asking about you, think about when you were young, crying and laughing alone, with one's own experiences, hold tight, and tell yourself that I can do it.

64. 53有人说，生活是一种享受；有人说，生活是一种无奈。其实，生活有享受也有无奈，有欣慰也有困惑。生活就象一枚青果，你含在嘴里慢慢品，细细嚼，便有诸多滋味在你舌尖蔓延，也甜，也酸，也苦，也涩。

64. Some say that life is a form of enjoyment; others argue that it is a sense of helplessness. In reality, life encompasses both enjoyment and helplessness, as well as satisfaction and confusion. Life is like a green fruit; when you hold it in your mouth and slowly savor it, chew it meticulously, various flavors spread across your tongue – sweet, sour, bitter, and astringent.

65. 我在等一个人，一个愿意走进我的生命，分享我的喜怒哀乐的人，一个知道我曾经无尽的等待，因而更加珍惜我的人，一个也许没能参与我的昨天，却愿意和我携手走过每一个明天的人，一个知道我不完美却依然喜欢我，甚至连我得不完美也一并欣赏的人。

65. I am waiting for someone, someone who is willing to step into my life, sharing my joys and sorrows, someone who knows I have been endlessly waiting and therefore values me even more, someone who may not have been part of my yesterday but is willing to walk through every tomorrow with me, someone who knows I am not perfect yet still likes me, and even appreciates my imperfections.

66. 背个小包，装上我们小小的梦想，牵起爱人温暖的手，坐着那哐当哐当的火车，去旅行。

66. Carry a small backpack, filled with our little dreams, hold the warm hand of your beloved, and sit on the clattering train, to embark on a journey.

67. 怨气多了，让人躲着，怨话多了，让别人防备，抱怨是因为自己修养不好，埋怨是因为自己能力太差，说了怨话，就是降低了自己的本事，改变了别人的看法。

67. Holding a grudge too much makes people avoid you, and too many complaints make others be on guard. Complaining is a result of one's own lack of修养, and grumbling is due to one's own insufficient abilities. When you speak complaints, it is equivalent to lowering your own abilities and altering others' opinions of you.

68. 我藏不住秘密，也藏不住忧伤，正如我藏不住爱你的喜悦，藏不住分离时的彷徨。我就是这样坦然，你舍得伤，就伤。

68. I can't hide secrets, nor can I hide my sorrow, just as I can't hide the joy of loving you, or the uncertainty at the time of separation. That's how I am, so open. If you're willing to hurt, then go ahead and hurt.