1. 三根蜡烛就好比是三个女人，其中一根就是你现在所爱的那个女人，芸芸众生，女人何止千百万万，你连这三根蜡烛那根最亮都不知道，都不能把你现在爱的人找出来，你为什么又能确定你现在爱的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人呢

1. Three candles are like three women, one of which is the woman you love now. Among the countless women in the world, how can you not even recognize the brightest among these three candles, and yet you cannot find the woman you love now. Then how can you be so certain that the woman you love now is the only and last woman in your life?

2. 爱情不是做买卖，失意了就要倾家荡产;爱情也不是下赌注，输掉了就变成穷光蛋。爱情是两颗心的碰橦和相许，如同和谐的乐谱的音符，谱写人间的圣洁，相随一生。

2. Love is not a business transaction; when disappointed, one might lose everything; nor is it a gamble; if lost, one becomes destitute. Love is the collision and commitment of two hearts, like the notes of a harmonious melody, composing the purity of the world, accompanying each other through life.

3. 拥有美丽的容颜的女人，总是会获得众多的青睐!可是再美丽的女人，依然会有苍老的一天!当你老去以后，曾经的一切是否依然原来当美丽凋谢的时候，一切才回归本来面目!一切的风光与繁华，甜言与蜜语也只是过眼云烟。

3. A woman with a beautiful appearance will always attract numerous admirers! However, even the most beautiful woman will eventually age! When you grow old, will everything from your past still be as it was? When beauty fades, everything returns to its true nature! All the splendor and prosperity, sweet words and honeyed talk are merely fleeting clouds.

4. 烟火缭绕的梦境，只是因为爱情，因为刻骨铭心的爱恋;四大皆空不过过眼云烟，就算前世五百次的回眸，也只换回今生一次擦肩。

4. The dream shrouded in fireworks is all because of love, because of an unforgettable love; the emptiness of the four great elements is just a fleeting cloud, even if there were five hundred glances in a past life, they can only bring about one chance of a passing encounter in this life.

5. 问佛：如果遇到了可以爱的人，却又怕不能把握怎么办佛曰∶留人间多少爱，迎浮世千重变;和有情人，做快乐事，别问是劫是缘。

5. Asking the Buddha: If I meet someone I can love, but am afraid I can't hold on to them, what should I do? The Buddha says: Keep as much love in the world as possible, welcome the myriad changes of the floating world; with the beloved, do joyful things, don't ask whether it's a disaster or a cause.

6. 由爱故生忧，由爱故生怖，若离于爱者，无忧亦无怖。

6. Because of love, there arises sorrow; because of love, there arises fear. If one is separated from love, there is neither sorrow nor fear.

7. 当爱情离开请别在留恋当爱情走近请你珍惜我说爱与不爱还不都一样，匆忙一生闭上眼，无所谓谁还未眠。

7. When love departs, don't linger in longing; when love approaches, cherish it. I say love and not loving are all the same, in the hurry of life, closing our eyes, it matters not who hasn't slept yet.

8. 恋爱不是慈善事业，不能随便施舍的。感情是没有公式，没有原则，没有道理可循的。

8. Love is not a charitable cause, it cannot be given out arbitrarily. Emotions have no formula, no principles, and no logic to follow.

9. 通常我们以为“唯一”的东西其实都不是真的，只是我们没有用心的去寻找而已。真正的爱情源于彼此发自内心的倾慕，建立在两情相悦的基础上。任何只顾疯狂的去爱别人而不顾自己有否被爱，或着只顾索取而不知真心付出的人都不会有好的结局。

9. Usually, we think of something as "unique," but in reality, it's not truly unique; it's just that we haven't put our heart into seeking it. True love arises from mutual admiration that comes from the bottom of one's heart, and is built on the foundation of mutual affection. Anyone who is only obsessed with loving others without considering whether they are loved in return, or who is only focused on taking without truly giving, will not have a good ending.

10. 若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离;若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。

10. If there is a connection, time and space are not barriers; if there is no connection, even being together all day cannot convey understanding.

11. 笑着面对，不去埋怨，悠然，随心，随性，随缘。百年前离别的那一天，我们没能留住时间，只好封在心田，期待来世再相恋。就算世界都忘记了永远，我们的心不变，就无论生命轮回多少圈。如果还有来生，你依然是我唯一的选择!茫茫的天空下依旧回荡着我们的誓言。

11. Face life with a smile, do not complain, be relaxed, follow your heart, follow your nature, and follow fate. On the day of parting a hundred years ago, we couldn't hold on to time, so we had to seal it in our hearts, hoping to fall in love again in our next life. Even if the world forgets about forever, our hearts remain unchanged, no matter how many cycles of life we go through. If there is a next life, you will still be my only choice! Our vows still resonate under the boundless sky.

12. 她不是这世间最美的，甚至在你那么爱她的时候，你都清楚的知道这个事实。但你还那么的爱着她，因为你爱的不只是她的青春靓丽，因为韶华易逝，红颜易老;但是你对她的爱恋已经超越了这些表面的东西，也就是超越了岁月。你爱的是她整个的人，主要的是她的独一无二的内心。

12. She is not the most beautiful in the world, and even when you love her so much, you are acutely aware of this fact. But you still love her so deeply, because what you love is not just her youthful beauty, for youth fades and beauty withers; but your love for her has transcended these superficial things, that is, it has transcended time. What you love is her whole person, mainly her unique inner self.

13. 爱是种责任，而不是感觉，请不要轻易言爱!承诺，对未来的诺言，如果没有把握，那么，请不要承诺快乐与伤悲成正比每一个爱情都创造着一种神话，爱情就是神话一般的。

13. Love is a responsibility, not just a feeling, please do not say "I love you" lightly! A promise, a promise to the future. If you are not sure, then please do not promise that happiness and sadness are proportional. Every love creates a myth, and love itself is like a myth.

14. 当爱情到了一定程度的时候，是会在不知不觉中转变为亲情的。你会逐渐将她看作你生命中的一部分，这样你就会多一些宽容和谅解，也只有亲情才是你从诞生伊始上天就安排好的，也是你别无选择的;所以你活来做的，只能始去适应你的亲情，无论你出生多么高贵，你都要不讲任何条件地接受你地亲人们，并且对他们负责对他们好。

14. When love reaches a certain degree, it can unconsciously transform into亲情. You will gradually regard her as a part of your life, and thus you will have more tolerance and understanding. Only亲情 is the one that heaven has arranged for you from the moment of your birth, and it is the only choice you have; therefore, what you can do is to adapt to your亲情 from the beginning to the end. No matter how noble your birth may be, you must accept your relatives without any conditions and be responsible and good to them.

15. 你来过一下子，我却要想念一辈子。不要认为他爱你便不会离开你。在你的一再伤害下，他也是会离开，那因为你不懂得珍惜，不值得他去爱。你要懂得珍惜，才能够懂得爱情。

15. You may have come for a moment, but I will miss you for a lifetime. Don't think that if he loves you, he will never leave you. Under your repeated hurt, he will also leave, because you do not know how to cherish, and he does not deserve your love. You need to learn to cherish in order to understand love.

16. 我问佛：如何让人们的心不再感到孤单佛曰：每一颗心生来就是孤单而残缺的，多数带着这种残缺度过一生，只因与能使它圆满的另一半相遇时，不是疏忽错过就是已失去拥有它的资格。

16. I asked the Buddha: How can people's hearts no longer feel lonely? The Buddha replied: Every heart is born lonely and incomplete. Most people live their lives with this incompleteness, because when the time comes for them to meet the other half that can complete them, either they neglect and miss it or they have already lost the qualification to possess it.

17. 我只爱爱我的人，因为我不懂怎样去爱一个不爱我的人。他爱你，什么都容易，他会来感动你。他不爱你，你多么努力去感动他，也是徒劳的。我爱不起不爱我的人，我的青春也爱不起。我的微笑，我的眼泪，我的深情，我年轻的日子只为我爱也爱我的那个人挥掷。

17. I only love those who love me, because I don't know how to love someone who doesn't love me. If he loves you, everything is easy, he will come to move you. If he doesn't love you, no matter how hard you try to move him, it's in vain. I can't love someone who doesn't love me, and neither can I afford my youth. My smile, my tears, my deep affection, my young days are all spent for that one who loves me and is loved by me.

18. 缘为冰。我将冰拥在怀中，冰化了，我才发现缘没了。

18. The cause is ice. I held the ice in my arms, and when the ice melted, I realized that the cause was gone.

19. 看的淡一点，伤的就会少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就散了。时间，让深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅。缘是一块冰，要度五百年。佛问苦吗我说不苦。佛于是许我一段缘，得之我幸，不得我命。如此而已，前世的500次回眸才换来今生的一次擦肩而过。

19. Take things lightly and you will suffer less. When time passes, love becomes faint, and it will fade away. Time makes the profound things deeper and the shallow things shallower. Fate is a piece of ice that takes five hundred years to melt. The Buddha asked if I was suffering, and I said no. The Buddha then granted me a piece of fate, which I am blessed to have, or not, it's my destiny. That's all. It takes five hundred lifetimes of glances in a past life to be granted just one fleeting encounter in this life.

20. 有时候，爱情需要在对的时间和对的地方才能遇见对的人，有相对的'开始，与相对的人在一起，一辈子才有最大的幸福。

20. Sometimes, love needs to meet the right person at the right time and place, to be with a compatible person, for one to experience the greatest happiness in a lifetime.

21. 得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。

21. We always think that things we can't get are beautiful, because we know so little about them and haven't had enough time to be with them. When one day you get to know them deeply, you will find that they are not as beautiful as you imagined.

22. “强扭的瓜不甜。”人生中，遇事莫强求，冥冥中自有定数，是你的，终会是你的，不是你的，苦苦地追寻，却并不一定能得到你想要的爱情，不可过于强求，因为它们有的是永远遥不可及的，有的也许一生都不属于你，过于执着往往只会受到伤害。很多事情是我们无法掌控的，也许我们可以选择自己的生活方式，但还是逃脱不了上帝的安排，那就是命运!缘起，缘灭，一切皆是定数!

22. "A melon that is forcibly twisted is not sweet." In life, do not force things to happen, for there is a predetermined order in the universe. What is yours will eventually be yours, and what is not yours, no matter how hard you pursue, may not necessarily be the love you desire. Do not overreach, for some things may remain out of reach forever, and some may never belong to you in your lifetime. Over-attachment often only leads to hurt. Many things are beyond our control, and perhaps we can choose our way of life, but we cannot escape God's arrangement, which is destiny! Everything is predetermined by fate! Causes and effects, everything is predestined!

23. 感情的事基本上没有谁对谁错，他(她)要离开你，总是你有什么地方不能令他满足，回头想想过去在一起的日子，总是美好的。当然，卑劣的感情骗子也有，他们的花言巧语完全是为了骗取对方和自己上床，这样的人还是极少数。

23. In matters of emotions, there is generally no right or wrong. If someone chooses to leave you, it's usually because there are certain aspects of you that don't satisfy them. When looking back at the good times you shared together, they are always beautiful. Of course, there are also cunning emotional swindlers who use their sweet talk solely to deceive others into sleeping with them, but such people are still a small minority.

24. 沉默只因爱恨一朵朵，荡起的涟漪旋转爱情的执着;即使修百世方可同船渡，转读三寸经纶，终究曲终人散，往事落魄。

24. The silence is only because of the love and hate for a hundred flowers, stirring ripples that rotate the persistence of love; even if it takes a hundred lifetimes to cross the same boat, turning through three inches of sacred scriptures, in the end, the music ends and people scatter, the past falls into ruins.

25. 关于爱情，佛语也有经典的语录讲述。我收集了佛语经典语录爱情。欢迎阅读。

25. Regarding love, there are also classic sayings in the Buddhist teachings. I have compiled classic sayings about love from the Buddhist teachings. Welcome to read.

26. 缘来天注定，缘去人自夺。种如是因，收如是果，一切唯心造。笑着面对，不去埋怨。悠然，随心，随性，随缘。注定让一生改变的，只在百年后，那一朵花开的时间。

26. Fate is predetermined by the heavens, and one's own efforts determine the end of destiny. Sow such a cause, reap such a result; everything is created by the mind. Face it with a smile, without complaining. Leisurely, following one's heart, nature, and destiny. The only thing that is destined to change one's entire life is the time it takes for a single flower to bloom in a century.

27. 和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。

27. It's fine to date someone with a lot of differences in daily habits, but marriage should be approached with caution. Think about whether you can endure each other's differences for a long time.

28. 爱情是一种遇见…遇见是一种缘分…佛又说五百年的修行才换来今生的擦肩而过…

28. Love is a meeting... A meeting is a destiny... The Buddha also said that it takes five hundred years of cultivation to earn a fleeting encounter in this life...

29. 真正的爱情要双方你情我愿，有因有缘才能成就，不是自己想要就要。

29. True love requires both parties to be willing, and it can only be achieved through cause and condition; it is not simply what one wants on their own.

30. 我说：我情愿做红尘路上一颗忧郁的石子。水湄，绿堤，枫桥。一潋柔波，撩了风动，软了尘心。你说，前世我们约定，在紫藤花铺香的月晚，我们相见。紫藤花……地老天荒!长相守，意悠然，纤指冰弦，琴瑟永合。愿十年渡，百年枕，千年缘。佛曰：缘起即灭，缘生已空。你们只有思之苦，无姻之缘，未看破红尘方为上岸。

30. I said: I would rather be a melancholic pebble on the path of the world. By the water's edge, the green embankment, and the Maple Bridge. A gentle ripple, stirring the wind, softening the dust of the heart. You said, in a previous life we had an appointment, to meet under the moonlit night where the wisteria flowers are fragrant. Wisteria flowers... through the ages of earth and heaven! To be together forever, with a lingering sentiment, delicate fingers plucking ice strings, the zither and lute forever harmonizing. May there be a decade of crossing, a century of resting, and a millennium of缘分. The Buddha said: When a cause arises, it will cease; when a cause is born, it is already empty. You only have the bitterness of thought, the缘分 of marriage, and you have not seen through the dust of the world to reach the shore.

31. 不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办

31. Don't fall in love out of loneliness; time is a devil. Day after day, if you are a sentimental person, even if you don't love the other person, you will eventually develop feelings for them. What will you do in the end?

32. 菩提树下的轮回，是几世遗留的姻缘，等你来度我;石桥下等你来过，岁月的蹉跎让我犯了错，回首前尘，只愿涅盘成佛。

32. The cycle under the bodhi tree, a legacy of love spanning several lifetimes, awaits your salvation to release me; beneath the stone bridge, I wait for you to cross over. The passage of time has led me astray, but looking back on my past, I only wish to transcend and become a Buddha.

33. 如今的恋爱，多数只是为了缓解寂寞。只是想找一个人伴在身边，即便找到了爱情的感觉，也容易迅即地失去。爱久了，人依旧会寂寞。为纾解寂寞而相爱的男女，没有长久坚守在寂寞里的能力。

33. Nowadays, most love is just a way to alleviate loneliness. People just want someone to accompany them, and even if they find the feeling of love, it's easy to lose it quickly. After loving for a long time, people will still feel lonely. Couples who love each other to relieve loneliness do not have the ability to persevere through loneliness for a long time.

34. 因为他是你最爱的人，让她生活的幸福和快乐被你视作是一生中最大的幸福，所以你还会为了她生活的更加幸福和快乐而不断努力。幸福和快乐是没有极限的。所以你的努力也将没有极限，绝不会停止。

34. Because she is the most beloved person in your life, you regard her happiness and joy as the greatest happiness in your life, so you will continue to strive for her to live an even happier and more joyful life. Happiness and joy have no limits. Therefore, your efforts will also have no limits, and will never cease.

35. 霓虹灯下的幻影，是因为思念的脚步轻轻踏出红尘万丈;千丝万缕的情意，直到遇见了你，才划过一道忧郁的泪痕。

35. The phantoms under the neon lights are because the steps of longing gently step out of the dust of a thousand miles; the countless threads of affection only left a melancholic tear痕 when I met you.

36. 只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要的时候去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人只是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书。这样你会发现生活更加美好。

36. A woman who only knows how to read is like a dictionary; people will only flip through it when they need it, even if it's good. A woman who only knows how to dress up is like a vase; after looking at it for a while, it's just like that. Dress and beauty are necessary conditions for being a good woman, but not sufficient conditions. You also need to read more. In this way, you will find life to be more beautiful.

37. 承诺只怕锦书难托，一念执着，换三生迷离烟火;一生多情愁，来回多紧锁，燃烧的福祸，忘记你我。

37. Fearing that the promise is hard to entrust in a scroll, an obsession with a single thought, in exchange for three lives of elusive fireworks; a lifetime of affectionate sorrow, tightly locked back and forth, the burning of blessings and misfortunes, forgetting you and me.

38. 短短今生一面遇，前世多少香火缘。牵手是有一种缘，回眸是一种缘;生命是有一种缘，爱情是一种缘;假如还有来生，来生也是一种缘。组成人生的，就是那无数个缘;让你去结，去解。惜缘，随缘，才能以佛心看缘起缘落。

38. In this brief life, a meeting is a moment of past karma's fruit. Holding hands is a kind of destiny, a glance back is a kind of destiny; life is a kind of destiny, love is a kind of destiny; if there is a next life, the next life is also a kind of destiny. What makes up life is the countless connections; it is for you to form, to unravel. Cherish the connections, follow the connections, and only then can you view the rise and fall of karma with a Buddha's heart.