离别的钟声敲响，心中所爱渐行渐远。那些曾经熟悉的面容，如今却成了最难忘的背影。

The bell of parting sounds, and the beloved gradually fades away from the heart. Those once familiar faces are now the most unforgettable back.

1. 暗恋，单恋唯一的好处大概就是，自己可以随时随地的决定不爱了。

1. The only good thing about having a secret crush or a one-sided love is that one can decide to stop loving at any time and anywhere.

2. 真正的感情一辈子也许就一次，不爱了就是不爱了，你再伤心难过也无关紧要，没有人能帮到你一分一毫，你要做的就是把那些东西全埋在心里，埋一辈子，也许一辈子都不会烂，但这就是你感情的证明，毕竟真心爱过，那就足够了。尽管再伤心难过，生活还得继续，既然怎么样都做不到真心的快乐，那爱或者不爱了，又怎么样呢？

2. True feelings may only come once in a lifetime. If you no longer love, that's just the way it is. No matter how heartbroken or sad you are, it doesn't matter; no one can help you in the least. What you need to do is to keep those feelings buried deep within you, for a lifetime. Perhaps they will never rot, and that is proof of your love. After all, you have loved sincerely, and that is enough. Despite being heartbroken and sad, life must go on. Since you can't truly be happy no matter what, what difference does it make whether you love or not?

3. 我们的爱经历了风雨，经历了考验，却经不过小三的袭击

3. Our love has weathered storms and passed through trials, yet it couldn't withstand the attack from the third party.

4. 爱一个人，爱她悲伤的过往，爱她混沌的现在，爱她无法确定的将来。人的爱也许就是个不断与之妥协，与自我妥协的过程。我们之所以活得这样狼狈不堪，是因为还没有完全爱到灵魂里面。

4. To love someone is to love her sad past, her chaotic present, and her uncertain future. Human love may just be a continuous process of compromise, both with others and with oneself. The reason why we live in such a disheveled state is because we have not loved deeply enough to reach the soul.

5. 开始的信誓旦旦，轰轰烈烈，想要霸占你的心每寸地方。可当你发现他的眼里心里世界里，都没有你的存在没有你的身影的时候，想要放弃，其实比什么都难。

5. Initially, he made grandiose promises and declarations, wanting to occupy every inch of your heart. But when you realize that there is no trace of you, neither in his eyes nor in his heart nor in his world, the desire to give up becomes harder than anything else.

6. 哪有什么不爱了，无非就是腻了，倦了，权衡利弊之后懒得爱了，想遇见比你更好的人了。

6. What is there to dislike? It's just that one gets tired and bored, after weighing the pros and cons, one is too lazy to continue loving and wants to meet someone better than you.

7. 真是够了！！这么懒！不爱动弹！连散步都不爱了！！下场就是体力不行！！就爱得计算机综合症！坐车也会头晕恶心！！还不锻炼！！不要在家呆着了赶紧给我出去啊！出去啊！！[我感觉我好像复联3的格鲁特]

7. That's it!! Enough is enough!! So lazy! Not willing to move at all!! Not even interested in taking a walk anymore!! The result is that you're out of shape!! You're just developing computer syndrome! Even riding in a car makes you dizzy and queasy!! You don't exercise at all!! Stop staying at home! Get out there, quickly! Go out, already!! [I feel like I'm like Grut from Avengers 3]

8. ▲、说了分手，但始终狠不下心不回头，舍不得，毕竟爱上一个人太难，遇见你把我20年来的好运都用光了

8.▲ After saying goodbye, I have never been able to bear the thought of turning back, feeling reluctant, because loving someone is so difficult, and meeting you has exhausted all the good luck I've had in the past 20 years.

9. 后悔，是我现在唯一能说出的词，所以请不要回头

9. Regret is the only word I can say now, so please don't turn back.

10. 能举起又放下的叫举重，能举起又放下的叫负重。可惜大部分人的爱都是沉重的。

10. Lifting and putting down is called weightlifting, and lifting and putting down is called carrying a load. Unfortunately, most people's love is heavy.

11. 我们孤独了太久，想找个人填补内心的空虚。

11. We have been lonely for too long, wanting to find someone to fill the emptiness in our hearts.

12. 现实中的我们并不寂寞，只是我们想象的太过于寂寞了

12. In reality, we are not lonely; it's just that our imagination of loneliness is too intense.

13. 你夺走了我的心，也夺走了我的爱，现在的我只剩下了一具空壳

13. You have taken my heart and my love, and now all that remains of me is a shell.

14. 没心没肺，还需要先有个心肺，然后被伤的没心没肺，那个过程叫心痛。

14. To be callous and indifferent, one first needs to have a heart and lungs, and then to be hurt to the point of having no heart or lungs. This process is called heartache.

15. ▲、不知什么时候喜欢上了他 可他一直念旧一直不愿往前走 我向前走一步他退后一步。

15.▲, I don't know when I started to like him, but he always clings to the past and is unwilling to move forward. I take a step forward, and he takes a step back.

16. 过去的已经过去，无论我们怎么哀叹，它也不会在改变

16. The past is past, and no matter how we lament, it will not change.

17. 我跟别人发信息你会生气但是反过来我不会生气，因为我爱你，这就是爱

17. I get angry when I send messages to others, but I wouldn't be angry in the reverse situation, because I love you — that's what love is.

18. 从心很痛很痛到不那么痛，从你骗自己他肯定也放不下我到你主动承认他就是不爱我了。有一天，看多了他的无情，再也无法骗自己了，你也就不爱了。生活，有的时候要迎难而上，击破困难；有的时候根本无力面对，只能熬着然后咬牙挺过去。

18. From a heart that is deeply, deeply hurt to a less painful state, from deceiving yourself that he definitely can't let go of me to actively admitting that he just doesn't love me anymore. One day, after seeing too much of his indifference, you can no longer deceive yourself, and the love is gone. In life, sometimes you have to confront difficulties head-on and break through them; sometimes, you are so overwhelmed that you can only endure and grit your teeth to get through.

19. 上九天揽月，下五洋捉鳖。后来什么都有了，就是没有了我们。有些感情不知道怎么就错过了，并不是不爱了，如果没有如果。

19. Reach up to the heavens to pluck the moon, dive down to the five oceans to catch the turtle. Later on, we had everything, but we were no longer there. Some feelings slip away without knowing how, not because we no longer love, but if there were no 'if.'

20. ▲、分手几个月了。但凡触及到他的话题，眼眶还是乏着红！

20.▲ After breaking up for a few months, whenever a topic related to him comes up, my eyes still well up with tears!

21. 金星天蝎确实让人不舒服。本来就是金星的失势位，又个性极端，难以沟通。有人非要说金星天蝎爱得深沉，可爱情不应该是甜甜蜜蜜和和美美吗？金星天蝎偏不，偏要赴汤蹈火要死要活。有一天不爱了不也应该祝福对方过得幸福吗？金星天蝎偏不，偏要诅咒对方不得好死金星天蝎的爱让人受不了

21. Venus in Scorpio really makes people uncomfortable. It's naturally a sign of Venus's weakness, and its personality is extreme, making communication difficult. Some people insist that Venus in Scorpio loves deeply, but shouldn't love be sweet and harmonious? Venus in Scorpio, however, is different, preferring to throw themselves into the fire and the frying pan, loving passionately. When love is no longer there, shouldn't one wish the other happiness? Venus in Scorpio, on the other hand, prefers to curse the other with a bad end. Venus in Scorpio's love is unbearable.

22. 心灵都不能很好的沟通，还谈什么海枯石烂的爱情

22. If we can't even communicate well with each other in our hearts, what's the point of talking about eternal love?

23. 原来喜欢一个人到最后，都是苦的，特别是求而不得的事，爱而不得的人。

23. It turns out that loving someone to the end is always bitter, especially when it comes to things that one seeks but cannot obtain, or people who one loves but cannot have.

24. 我不知道我在难过什么。我希望我能再看你一眼。

24. I don't know what I'm sad about. I wish I could see you one more time.

25. ▲、我不知道还会爱你多久，但我知道我对你的爱我看不到尽头。祝他安好。

25.▲, I don't know how long I will continue to love you, but I know that my love for you has no end in sight. Wishing him well.

26. 为过去的事情郁郁寡欢，那是在浪费自己的青春

26. To be melancholic about past events is to waste one's youth.

27. 不是因为分手才会孤单，只不过是少了一个人陪伴而已

27. It's not because of the breakup that one is lonely; it's just that there's one less person to accompany you.

28. 而另一个人，永远还是另一个人，不爱了，就再重新去爱一个人就是了！

28. And the other person, forever still another person, if love is gone, just go and fall in love with someone else again!

29. 从我离开你的那天起，左心房逐渐停止跳动。

29. Since the day I left you, the left atrium has gradually stopped beating.

30. 最好的报复不是仇恨，而是发自内心的冷漠。何必去讨厌一个不相干的人呢？

30. The best revenge is not hatred, but a coldness that comes from the heart. Why would one want to dislike a person who is irrelevant?

31. 在不断的阳光下，我不断地想你。

31. Under the unceasing sun, I keep thinking of you.

32. ▲、虽然这一年多很难受很艰难，但我现在开始庆幸我忍住了去找找他去见他的冲动。

32.▲ Although this past year has been very painful and difficult, I am now starting to be grateful that I held back from giving in to the urge to look for him and meet him.

33. 真正的爱情，要懂得珍惜：没有谁和谁是天生就注定在一起的。一辈子不长，遇见心爱的人，是多么幸运的事。为何，不紧握着他的手呢。一辈子只爱一个人，并不丢人。心里知道，除了他还会有更优秀的人出现，可是一个人不能这么贪心。一颗心需要去温暖另一颗心，这样才可以幸福。

33. True love requires understanding and appreciation: No one is destined to be with another from birth. A lifetime is not long, and meeting the person you love is a fortunate thing. Why not tightly hold his hand? It is not embarrassing to love only one person in a lifetime. In your heart, you know that there will be even more outstanding people, but a person cannot be so greedy. A heart needs to warm another heart, only then can one be truly happy.

34. 你想要一个人爱你，你想要一个人关心照顾你，你想要每天回家能感受到温暖，你想要一顿即使难吃也可口的家常饭，你想要和一个人一起去旅行，你想要和他生孩子。你想要的那是爱情么？你要的其实不过只是一个归宿。

34. You want someone to love you, someone to care for and look after you, someone to make you feel warmth when you come home every day, a home-cooked meal that may not be delicious but is satisfying, someone to travel with, someone to have children with. Is what you want really love? What you really want is just a place to belong.

35. 爱情并不是只要两个人你爱我，我爱你就可以，那些童话般的爱情都是存活在小说电视剧中，完美的爱情是需要两个人一起创造的，而那些小说和电视剧看多之后只会腐蚀大脑。真正的爱情就像金字塔，最底层是粮食，然后是金钱，能源和感情的付出，只有累积到一定的程度才能有情人终成眷属。

35. Love is not just about the two of you loving each other; it's not that simple. The love depicted in fairy tales only exists in novels and TV dramas. Perfect love needs to be created by both individuals together, and watching too many of these novels and TV dramas will only corrupt the mind. True love is like a pyramid, with food at the bottom, followed by money, energy, and emotional investment. Only when these are accumulated to a certain degree can the lovers finally be together.

36. 爱现在属于你，不等于将来也属于你，现实会改变一段情的本质

36. Love belonging to you now does not mean it will belong to you in the future; reality will change the essence of a relationship.

37. ▲、可以做到不纠缠，不回头。却做不到不恋旧，还是会想起曾经的那些日子，还是会常常梦见对方。很不喜欢这个样子，但是也觉得无能为力。

37.▲, I can manage not to linger or look back, but I can't seem to let go of the past. I still remember those days and often dream about the other person. I really dislike it, but I also feel helpless.

38. 初恋是美好的，也是不完整的，遇到新欢他便不再属于你

38. First love is beautiful, but also incomplete; when he meets a new beloved, he no longer belongs to you.

39. 爱一个人就要信任他，即便那个人还是离你，那你也不会后悔

39. To love someone is to trust them, even if that person is still away from you, you will not regret it.

40. 如果爱是勉强来的，单方的暧昧又有何意义，还不如干脆的分开

40. If love is forced upon someone, what is the meaning of one-sided ambiguity? It might as well be straightforward to separate.

41. 我锁了心，然后用尽力气丢了钥匙。

41. I locked my heart and then threw the key with all my might.

42. 你做饭，我洗碗，分担家务会更有爱。不用一直把人绑在一些家务上。

42. You cook, I wash the dishes; sharing household chores makes love grow. It's not necessary to always tie people down with certain household tasks.

43. 你曾说你会给我永恒的爱，但现在我独自徘徊。

43. You once said you would give me eternal love, but now I wander alone.

44. ▲、我说了所有的谎，他都信了，唯独我喜欢他一件事，他从来不信，我说我把别人当替代品，他信，我说不爱他了，他信，他心疼所有人，唯独不心疼我 我说我要结婚了，他信，我想对自己说，姑娘，别傻了，他从来没有爱过你

44. ▲, I told all the lies, and he believed them, but there is one thing about him that I like, and he never believed me. I said I used others as substitutes, and he believed me; I said I didn't love him anymore, and he believed me; he cares about everyone else, but not about me. I said I was getting married, and he believed me. I want to say to myself, girl, don't be foolish, he never loved you.

45. 如果你没有感觉，就不要给我错觉；若无诚意，勿扰我心。

45. If you feel nothing, don't give me false illusions; if you're not sincere, don't disturb my heart.

46. 如果爱请深爱，不要让我这颗滚烫的心瞬间冰冷

46. If you love, love deeply, don't let my fiery heart instantly turn cold.

47. ▲、什么念念不忘噢，对自己好一点，洒脱一点，你回忆里的人早就放下了。一别两宽，毕竟是你自己的人生，不要让它那么糟

47.▲ What can't you forget? Treat yourself better, be more carefree. The person in your memories has already let go. Separate ways, after all, it's your own life. Don't let it be so bad.

48. 一个人的世界，有病，一个人；无聊，一个人躲着；很疼，一个人挡着。

48. In one's own world, when sick, it's alone; when bored, one hides alone; when in pain, one bears it alone.

49. 想说的话拖着不说，久了自然心事重重；想做的事拖着不做，久了自然压力重重。当拖延成了习惯，疲惫不堪就成了常态。一段感情里，最怕的就是一个人很忙，一个人很闲，一个人的圈子很大，而另一个人只有他，一个人心思敏感，而另一个人又不爱解释。彼此关系逐渐疏远，不是因为不爱了，而是因为差异太大造成的矛盾和误会让彼此都累了。

49. Words that one wants to say are held back, and over time, the heart becomes heavy with secrets; things that one wants to do are delayed, and over time, the pressure becomes overwhelming. When procrastination becomes a habit, exhaustion becomes the norm. In a relationship, the worst thing is when one person is always busy and the other is always idle, when one person has a large circle of friends while the other has only them, when one person is overly sensitive and the other does not like to explain. As the relationship gradually grows distant, it's not because of a lack of love, but because of the conflicts and misunderstandings caused by the great differences, which make both parties tired.

50. ▲、 不念旧，也不回头了，我希望兜兜转转以后，我们能以一个更好的自己再在一起

50.▲ Not dwelling on the past and not looking back either, I hope after all the twists and turns, we can reunite as better versions of ourselves.

51. 如果爱没了，就只剩下了矛盾，情话是化解矛盾最好的利器

51. If love is gone, all that remains is conflict, and sweet nothings are the best tools to resolve it.

52. 既然有离开的可能，干嘛要让我陷进你的爱河让我无法自拔

52. Since there is a possibility of leaving, why make me fall into your love river, making it impossible for me to pull myself out?

53. 我用数年时间去爱一个人，当真正不爱了的时候，那个支撑你的支柱瞬间崩塌，灰烬都显得多余，空落落的，沉寂过后就是左右无人的彷徨感，黑白影片乱序播放，再也记不起有什么珍贵的了。

53. I spent several years loving someone, and when the time comes that I truly no longer do, the pillar that supported you collapses instantly, and even the ashes seem redundant, leaving you empty and desolate. After the silence, there is a sense of helplessness, surrounded by no one on either side. The black and white film plays out of order, and I can no longer recall anything precious.

54. 还记得那个浪漫的约定，你许下了最美的诺言，片刻间不复存在

54. Remember that romantic promise, you made the most beautiful promise, which no longer exists in an instant.

55. 我看得入神，哭了，以为你会为我拭去泪水，可是我转过头，已经没有你的痕迹。

55. I was so engrossed that I cried, thinking you would wipe away my tears, but when I turned my head, there was no trace of you left.

56. 也许我们的缘份已尽，牵上了红线却走不到尽头

56. Perhaps our destiny has run its course; we've tied the red string of fate, but we can't reach the end of it.

57. 既然离开我你能够得到幸福，那么我宁愿放手祝福你的真爱

57. Since leaving me can bring you happiness, I would rather let go and wish for your true love's happiness.

58. ▲、明明你也很爱我，没理由爱不到结果，凭什么我们要错过

58.▲, Even though you also love me deeply, there's no reason we can't reach a happy ending. Why should we miss out on each other?

59. 原来爱情友情都一样，你不联系我，我不联系你，时间久了，真的就散了。你不必强求，也不用挽留。感情就是这样，不行就分坏了就换，不将就，才能好好的过这一生。分手不是因为不爱了，我只是累了，想要过我自己想过的生活了。。

59. Love and friendship are actually the same. If you don't keep in touch with me, and I don't with you, after a long time, it truly fades away. You don't have to force it, nor do you need to cling on. That's how emotions are; if it's not working out, break up and if it's broken, switch it up. Don't settle for less, and only then can you live a good life. The reason for breaking up is not that I no longer love you, but rather I am tired, and I want to live the life I've always wanted.

60. 如果还有下辈子，我依然选择爱你，即便是伤痕累累的爱

60. If there is a next life, I would still choose to love you, even if it is a love that is scarred and bruised.

61. 一瞬间觉得不爱了的感觉太糟糕了人还是一如既往的优秀但就是突然觉得不爱了不会心动了没感觉了

61. For a moment, the feeling of not loving anymore is so terrible. People are still as excellent as ever, but I suddenly feel that I don't love them anymore, I don't feel any affection, and I'm not moved.

62. 所谓的对了对方幸福而分手，其实都是借口，要么不爱了，要么就是不够爱。

62. So-called breakups for the sake of the other person's happiness are actually just excuses; either there's no longer love, or it's not enough love.

63. 有没有这样一个永远不会黑暗的世界？有没有一种永远，永不改变？

63. Is there such a world that is never dark? Is there something that is forever, never changing?

64. 爱走了心碎了，泪干了人没了，一个人只为你停留

64. Love has left, the heart is shattered, tears have dried, and the person has disappeared; a person only stops for you.

65. 你们觉得完全忘掉一个人需要多久？马上一年了，那个人的容颜已经记不清楚了，不爱了，也不恨了，但有些事情就是忘不了，因此也失去了再爱的勇气。

65. How long do you think it takes to completely forget someone? It's already been a year, and I can't remember that person's face clearly anymore. I don't love them anymore, nor do I hate them, but there are some things that I can't forget, and therefore, I've also lost the courage to love again.

66. 爱情就像镇定剂，遇到了便很平静，失去了便会抓狂

66. Love is like a sedative; when you have it, you feel calm, and when you lose it, you go crazy.

67. 曾经有人陪我一起看蜡笔小新，期望着未来的孩子和小新一样可爱。后来的我们走走停停，分分合合，最终还是没能在一起，后来也就不敢看小新了。直到分手以后还是没能知道具体分手的原因，大概，也许，或许，可能，是因为彼此都不是对方想要的那个样子，但是最终的结论就是有一方不爱了，以至于忘记了以前的承诺和以前在一起的美好愿望。生活还在继续，也不会因为一个人停止前进的脚步，你想要的它就在那里，你回忆的也会在那里，不敢面对过去的，是因为一直心里面有一个放不下的情节。未来啊，希望你温柔相待，相伴永远。

67. There was a time when someone watched the anime "Crayon Shin-chan" with me, hoping that our future child would be as adorable as Shin-chan. Later on, we walked and stopped, separated and reunited, but in the end, we couldn't be together. After the breakup, I dared not to watch Shin-chan anymore. Even after the breakup, I still couldn't find out the specific reason for the split. Perhaps, maybe, possibly, it might be because neither of us was the person the other wanted to be. But the ultimate conclusion is that one of us fell out of love, to the extent that we forgot the promises made in the past and the beautiful wishes of being together. Life goes on, and it will not stop moving forward for one person. What you want is right there, and what you recall will also be there. The reason you dare not face the past is because there is a lingering plot in your heart that you can't let go of. Future, I hope you will treat me gently and be with me forever.

68. 所以当对方不爱你的时候，你应该做的就是潇洒的走掉

68. So when the other person does not love you, what you should do is to gracefully walk away.

69. ▲、数不清我流了多少泪。但是一想到眼泪就会飚流。忘不掉我们的欢声笑语在架空层里层层飘荡，忘不掉你站在我身后陪我看海、忘不掉你深情的目光，更忘不掉抱紧是整个世界的感觉。

69.▲, I can't count how many tears I've shed. But just thinking about them brings a flood of tears. I can't forget the laughter and joy that echoed through the mezzanine, I can't forget you standing behind me as we watched the sea, I can't forget your affectionate gaze, and even more, I can't forget the feeling of the whole world embracing me when we held each other tight.

70. 当有一天你发现我不哭不闹不跟你发脾气的时候，就是你失去我的时候。

70. The day you find that I don't cry, make a scene, or lose my temper with you, that is the day you lose me.

71. ▲、哪有什么你真坚强能看得开，其实我也很想他，只是我明白是真的不可能了，就算在真的忍不住的时候找了他，也要告诉自己要有骨气，别回头

71.▲, What's there to be truly strong and unbothered about? In fact, I also miss him a lot. It's just that I understand that it's truly impossible now. Even if I can't help but look for him when I really can't stand it, I have to tell myself to have some backbone, not to turn back.

72. 不是不爱了，只是爱已不存在了，消失的爱情不会再次挽留

72. It's not that I don't love anymore, it's just that the love no longer exists; the love that has vanished cannot be reclaimed.

73. 我会坚强，不会把我的心告诉任何人。

73. I will be strong and will not tell anyone about my heart.

74. 怀念那时光中留下的痕迹，仿佛还像昨天那样的清晰

74. Cherishing the traces left in that time, it seems as clear as yesterday.

75. 关系相处中最难做到的大抵有这些吧：面临背叛时的优雅转身，在一段投入太多精力和情感的爱情中选择放下，在面临欺骗的谎言里选择宽容。不爱了就是不爱了，质问讨伐只会让自己变得丑陋，放过别人何尝又不是放过自己，就算遍体鳞伤只要熬过去，终究可以每晚好梦，经历让我们对待世界更加包罗万象，愿那些迷失在黑夜的人尽快找到希望。

75. The hardest things to achieve in relationships are probably these: to turn gracefully when faced with betrayal, to let go in a love where too much energy and emotion have been invested, and to choose forgiveness in the face of deceitful lies. Not loving someone is simply not loving them, and questioning and attacking only makes oneself ugly. Letting go of others is also letting go of oneself. Even if you are all bruised, as long as you endure, you can eventually have good dreams every night. The experiences make us more inclusive in our attitude towards the world. May those lost in the darkness find hope as soon as possible.

76. 毕竟不管多久的爱情，只要有一方不爱了这份感情真的很难留住

76. After all, no matter how long the love may have lasted, it is truly hard to hold on to the feeling if one party has lost interest in it.

77. 当心里觉得离幸福越近的时候，放眼望去幸福还那么遥远

77. When the heart feels that happiness is getting closer, looking ahead, happiness still seems so distant.

78. 以前我点开QQ最开心的就是一大早上就看到你发的消息

78. In the past, the most joyous thing for me to do with QQ was to see your message first thing in the morning.