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心累又无奈:35句短句,自我慰藉,写给疲惫的灵魂

面书号 2025-01-17 04:13 14


心有所念,念无所依。

Heart has a thought, thought has no place to rely on.

1. 木心:每当欲望来时,人自会有一股贪、谗、倔、拗的怪异大力。既达既成既毕,接着来的是熟、烂、腻、烦,要抛开,非割绝不可,宁愿什么都没有。

1. Mu Xin: Whenever desire arises, people will naturally have a strange, fierce power of greed, envy, stubbornness, and obstinacy. After achieving, accomplishing, and finishing, what follows is familiarity, decay, fatigue, and annoyance. To discard these, one must sever them completely, preferring to have nothing at all.

2. 心小了,小事就大了;心大了,大事都小了;看淡世间沧桑,内心安然无恙。大其心,容天下之物;虚其心,爱天下之善;平其心,论天下之事;定其心,应天下之变。大事难事看担当,逆境顺境看胸襟,有舍有得看智慧,是成是败看坚持。

2. When the heart is small, trivial matters become big; when the heart is big, great matters become small. By taking a light-hearted view of the vicissitudes of the world, the inner self remains unharmed. Expand your heart to embrace the things of the world; empty your heart to love the virtues of the world; keep your heart level to discuss the affairs of the world; and stabilize your heart to respond to the changes of the world. In great and difficult matters, look at the sense of responsibility; in adverse and favorable conditions, look at the breadth of one's mind; in giving and receiving, look at wisdom; and in success or failure, look at perseverance.

3. 只要我们走通向自我的路,冥冥之中总会有一只在帮助你的手。

3. As long as we walk the path to our true self, there will always be a guiding hand helping us, unseen but ever-present.

4. 当繁华落尽时间破碎,我在落败的残花前看见了一地忧伤,所有海誓山盟终不及命运的一夕,转变繁华尽头皆是残缺。谁为谁守望天涯,谁为谁望断归路,又是谁为谁繁锦成花,散落成雨,我轻吟在心中不敢忘。在轮回之前最后许愿,是否有人用一分钟的等待,换得我一生的期许。

4. As the splendor fades and time shatters, in front of the fallen petals in decline, I saw a ground filled with sorrow. All the solemn promises by the sea and mountains are not as powerful as fate's fleeting night. The end of prosperity is all imperfection. Who watches for whom at the ends of the world, who watches until the return path is broken, and who turns the splendor into flowers that scatter like rain. I softly sing these words in my heart, afraid to forget. In the last wish before the cycle, is there someone who, with a minute of waiting, exchanges it for my lifelong expectation.

5. 2一个人,一颗心,一生等待,一个人,一座城,一生心疼,一个人,一条路,一生孤单。

5. 2 One person, one heart, a lifetime of waiting; one person, one city, a lifetime of pain; one person, one road, a lifetime of loneliness.

6. 我想为未来努力奋斗,将来赚大钱,不是因为我爱钱,而是因为我这辈子不想因为钱和任何人在一起,不想因为钱离开任何人。

6. I want to strive hard for the future and earn a lot of money, not because I love money, but because I don't want to be with anyone or leave anyone because of money in my lifetime.

7. 13挤不进去的世界,就不要挤了,碍了别人的眼,累了自己的心。

7. 13 Don't force yourself into a world that won't let you in; it's an obstacle to others' eyes and a burden to your own heart.

8. 年轻的时候,不能想太多。想得太多会毁了你。成功路上最心酸的是要耐得住寂寞、熬得住孤独,总有那么一段路是你一个人在走。也许这个过程要持续很久,但如果你挺过去了,最后的成功就属于你。

8. When you are young, you shouldn't think too much. Overthinking can destroy you. The most painful part of the path to success is to endure loneliness and bear solitude, as there will always be a stretch of the road that you have to walk alone. This process may last for a long time, but if you can make it through, the ultimate success will be yours.

9. 5我是瓶子中的鱼随着长大也只是一个人活在世界里没有人能够接近。

9.5 I am a fish in a bottle, and as I grow up, I am just one person living in the world, with no one able to get close to me.

10. 9你对他念念不忘,他却在为另一个人赴汤蹈火。

10. 9 You can't stop thinking about him, but he's willing to go through fire and water for someone else.

11. 我知道我太敏感,太累,但我是那种把一切都往坏处想的人。毕竟提前失望总比突然失望好。

11. I know I am too sensitive and too tired, but I'm the kind of person who always expects the worst. After all, it's better to be disappointed in advance than to be suddenly disappointed.

12. 认识你愈久,愈觉得你是我人生行路中一处清喜的水泽。几次想忘于世,总在山穷水尽处又悄然相见,算来即是一种不舍。简桢

12. The longer I get to know you, the more I feel that you are a refreshing oasis in the journey of my life. Several times I wanted to forget about the world, but I always encounter you again in the most desolate places, as if it were a form of reluctance. - Jian Zhen

13. 因为不想再被看穿,我学会了隐藏;因为不想再被刺伤,我学会了假装。

13. Because I didn't want to be seen through anymore, I learned to hide; because I didn't want to be hurt anymore, I learned to pretend.

14. 命运往往是这样的:我说我会好好照顾和你共度余生的人,结果却在半夜把你一个人丢下。

14. Fate often turns out to be like this: I said I would take good care of the person I would spend the rest of my life with, but in the end, I left you alone in the middle of the night.

15. 人生的困境,有时是自己编织出来的蜘蛛网。人生的绝境,往往也是你内心创造出来的假象。其实,生命里那些让你过不去的境遇,都是未来让你成长蜕变的养分。当你看清这个真相,你会发现,原来老天从不会让你走投无路;相反的,是你的恐惧和妄想,逼你走入绝境。

15. The predicaments of life are sometimes webs woven by oneself. The absolute plight of life is often an illusion created within your heart. In fact, the circumstances in life that you find hard to overcome are all nutrients for your future growth and transformation. When you see the truth, you will find that heaven will never leave you with no way out; on the contrary, it is your fear and delusion that push you into a dead end.

16. 5来来回回,一个人无助、孤单的行走,一直好想再逃避着什么,现在才发现,一直再逃避自己。

16. 5 Back and forth, walking alone and helpless, one has always wanted to escape something, but now it is realized that all along, one has been avoiding oneself.

17. 我能感受到你的心痛。你有说不出的无奈,却表现得满不在乎。你越是这样,我越觉得不舒服。

17. I can feel the pain in your heart. You have an unexpressed helplessness, yet you act as if you don't care at all. The more you do that, the more uncomfortable I feel.

18. 喜欢面对忧伤,用自己喜欢的方式释放内心的烦恼;喜欢欣赏忧伤,在忧伤里体会那一点点的酸甜苦辣。忧伤,不是刻意的营造哀愁;忧伤,只是一种人生的态度,一种最真实的情感表露。

18. Enjoy facing sadness and releasing inner troubles in one's preferred way; like to appreciate sadness, and experience the little bit of bitterness, sweetness, sourness, and spiciness within it. Sadness is not about deliberately creating sorrow; it is just an attitude towards life, the most genuine expression of emotion.

19. 有些事,我想做,却什么都做不了;有些感情,我想拥有,但心有余而力不足。

19. There are some things I want to do, but I can't do anything; there are some feelings I want to have, but my heart is willing but my strength is not enough.

20. 别将过去抱的太紧,因为那样你就腾不出手来拥抱现在了。

20. Don't hold onto the past too tightly, because that way you won't have a hand left to embrace the present.

21. 4现在的生活用好字来形容:好冷好穷好累好困好纠结好郁闷最最重要的是好无聊,同感有木

21. 4 The current life can be described with good words: it's so cold, poor, tired, sleepy, tangled, depressed, and most importantly, so boring. Do you feel the same way?

22. 3把生活过得这般糟糕,原来都是我自己造成的。我不仅失去最爱的人,也失去了自己。爱情只是一面,生活中的其他方面无一不是如此。过得好累

22. I realize that it's all because of myself that I'm living such a terrible life. I've not only lost the person I love the most but also lost myself. Love is just one side of the coin, and the other aspects of life are no different. It's so tiring to live well.

23. 那些你以为不会散的终究还是散了,那些你以为可以紧紧握在手里的,原来只是过眼云烟。

23. Those you thought would never disperse eventually did; those you thought you could tightly hold in your hand were just ephemeral clouds passing by.

24. 20于是啊,你知道了,从此穿上铠甲,脱掉绣花鞋,成为她唯一的战士。

24. 20 So you know, from then on, she put on armor, took off the embroidered shoes, and became her only warrior.

25. 除了在电影里,没有人会等你四五年。说白了,感情就是不接触就没有的东西。

25. No one would wait for you for four or five years except in a movie. Put simply, love is something that doesn't exist without contact.

26. 喜欢一个人是感觉,不喜欢一个人是事实。事实很好解释,感觉却难以言喻。

26. Liking someone is a feeling, not liking someone is a fact. Facts are easy to explain, but feelings are hard to put into words.

27. 大多数关系的问题,在于我们的感情还没到某个程度,却理所应当要求对方扛起那个程度的责任。不管是友情还是爱情,点个头就得生死之交,牵次手必须地久天长。感情不过是从好感起,你非逼着两人用一点好感赌上坚贞时光。慢慢来,好好聊,别慌。

27. The problem with most relationships lies in the fact that our emotions have not reached a certain level, yet we naturally expect the other person to take on the responsibility of that level. Whether it's friendship or love, a nod can be a matter of life and death, and holding hands must mean eternal love. Emotions merely start from liking, yet you are forcing two people to bet a bit of their fondness on a period of loyalty. Take your time, have a good chat, don't rush.

28. 10每个人的路都得自己走,累不累,脚知道,每个人的泪都得自己擦,苦不苦,心知道,不是所有的伤痛都能说明,忍久了也就习惯了,不是所有的委屈都能倾诉,想通了也就释然了。

28. 10 Everyone has to walk their own path, whether it's tiring or not, the feet know; everyone has to wipe their own tears, whether it's bitter or not, the heart knows. Not all wounds can be explained, and if you endure them long enough, you get used to them. Not all grievances can be vented, and once you understand them, you also let them go.

29. 女人是水做的,所以别对她太冷,一旦过了零度结成冰,最后只会冻伤你。

29. Women are made of water, so don't be too cold to her. Once it goes below freezing and turns into ice, it will only hurt you in the end.

30. 28当一个人处于极度无助的状态时,你只要稍微推一把,他什么都做的出来!

30. 28 When a person is in a state of extreme helplessness, a slight push from you, and they can do anything!

31. 15我从不喜欢迁就 却用最干净的真心为你妥协了很久

31. 15 I have never liked to compromise, but I have been compromising with the purest sincerity for a long time for you.

32. 一个人的孤独不是最孤独的,最孤独的是你明明在一段亲密关系中,那个人却让你觉得孤独。

32. The loneliness of an individual is not the most lonely; the loneliest is when you are in an intimate relationship, yet the person makes you feel lonely.

33. 你不快乐是因为你没有好好爱自己,你经常因为别人而消耗自己。

33. You are not happy because you do not love yourself well, you often exhaust yourself for others.

34. 人,到了一定的年纪,每天都活得很开心,带着一点点的烦恼和说不出的痛苦。

34. When people reach a certain age, they live each day with joy, carrying a bit of烦恼 (troubles) and an unexpressed pain.

35. 17带着伤口回到当初背叛的城市,唯一收容我的却是自己影子。低下头摸摸自己的影子,也只有你对我是不离不弃了。

35. 17 returned to the city where he was once betrayed, and the only place that sheltered me was my own shadow. Bowing my head, I touched my shadow, and only you, it seems, have remained by my side without abandon.

36. 6你对他念念不忘,他却在为另一个人赴汤蹈火。

36.6 You can't stop thinking about him, but he's willing to go through fire and water for someone else.

37. 我以前觉得人在最绝望的时候会痛哭流涕。后来才渐渐明白,眼神空洞的沉默,才是真正的放弃。

37. I used to think that people would sob and weep in their most desperate moments. Later on, I gradually realized that the hollow silence with empty eyes is the true sign of giving up.

38. 8我每天都在数着你的笑,可是你连笑的时候,都好寂寞。他们说你的笑容,又漂亮又落拓。

38. 8 Every day, I count your laughter, yet even when you are laughing, you are so lonely. They say your smile is both beautiful and carefree.

39. 4你的QQ里是不是有个不舍得删,却也不说话的那么一个人。

39. 4 Is there someone in your QQ whom you can't bear to delete, yet also don't talk to?

40. 抽烟的人永远闻不到自己身上的烟味,就像被爱的人永远不知道爱你的人有多难。

40. People who smoke can never smell the smell of smoke on themselves, just as the beloved can never know how hard it is for the person who loves them.

41. 我们都太专注于自己的伤口,忘了要去握住别人伸出的手。

41. We are all too focused on our own wounds, forgetting to grab the hands others extend.

42. 你放一百颗心,我不会纠结,不会念念不忘,不会歇斯底里,不会抑郁,未来,你是你,我是我。

42. Rest assured, I won't be in a tizzy, I won't dwell on it, I won't go into a fit of desperation, I won't be depressed. In the future, you are you, and I am me.

43. 只有事情发生了变化,人才会懂得怀念;总是在我们最不理解的时候,我们错过的才是最真实的。

43. It is only when things change that one learns to cherish; what we miss is always the most real when we are at our most confused.

44. 18心里能装着一些时间带不走的淡淡悲伤,也是一种幸福。

44. To be able to hold onto a faint sadness that time cannot erase is also a form of happiness.

45. 佛曰:缘来天注定,缘去人自夺。种如是因,收如是果,一切唯心造。笑言面对,不去埋怨。悠然,随心,随性,随缘。

45. Buddha said: "Fate is predestined, and缘分 can be seized by oneself. Sow such a cause, reap such a result, everything is created by the mind. Face it with a smile, do not complain. Be carefree, follow your heart, follow your nature, follow fate."

46. 8希望是火失望是烟生活就是一边点火一边冒烟

46. Hope is fire, despair is smoke; life is a constant process of lighting fires and emitting smoke.

47. 有的人不出声,不一定是因为不爱,但一定是被伤害了;有些人沉默,不一定是走了,一定是被冷落了。

47. Some people are silent not necessarily because they don't love, but definitely because they have been hurt; some people are silent not necessarily because they have left, but definitely because they have been neglected.

48. 15要说累,谁人不累,男人累在肩上,女人累在心里,要说苦,谁人不苦,每个人的内心都苦,自己的苦自己最清楚,别人无法感受,也无法理解。

48. If one were to say that everyone is tired, who isn't? Men bear the burden on their shoulders, while women carry it in their hearts. If one were to say that everyone is suffering, who isn't? Everyone has their own inner pain, which they are the most aware of. Others cannot feel it or understand it.

49. 17明明刚好拥有了彼此的默契,你却转头选择了抛弃。

49. 17 Just when we had reached an默契, you turned around and chose to abandon me.

50. 12开始很美,过程很累,结局很悲,清醒很难

50. Starting at 12 was beautiful, the process was tiring, the ending was sad, and staying清醒 is hard.

51. 4城市颓败的霓虹倒映在我灰色的瞳仁里,显得更加颓败。

51. The faded neon of the four cities reflected in my gray pupils, looking even more decrepit.

52. 5糖就是我的生活。它甜的时候生活很幸福。它不甜的时候生活好累。

52. 5 sugars are my life. When it's sweet, life is very happy. When it's not sweet, life is so tiring.

53. 没有任何原因,是我离开的时候了,我静静的从你身边消失,之后不再联络。但我会在内心深处默默为你祝福,为你祈祷,希望你开心快乐时时刻刻。

53. Without any reason, it is time for me to leave. I will quietly disappear from your side and not make contact anymore. But I will silently wish you well and pray for you from the bottom of my heart, hoping you are happy and joyful every moment.

54. 我以为你是上帝给我的补偿。我以为我失去了原则,降低了底线,但后来我发现你是上帝的劫。

54. I thought you were the compensation God gave me. I thought I had lost my principles and lowered my bottom line, but later I realized you were God's test.