在这个瞬息万变的时代，每个人心中都藏着一个独特的情感世界。它们如同一颗颗闪烁的星，照亮了生活的每一个角落。让我们一起翻开这本书，探寻那些触动人心的话语，感受文字与情感交融的奇妙旅程。

In this era of rapid changes, everyone harbors a unique emotional world within their hearts. These emotions are like twinkling stars that illuminate every corner of life. Let us open this book together and explore those heart-touching words, experiencing the wonderful journey of the fusion of words and emotions.

1. 年轻的时候不要吃得最胖，活得最懒，爱得最蠢。你生命中最美好的青春转瞬即逝。愿你用心享受。

1. Don't be the fattest when you are young, the laziest, and the most foolish in love. The most beautiful youth in your life passes in a flash. May you enjoy it with all your heart.

2. 1我们总是把陌生人给的一些小恩小惠，当做是情感的大恩大德，却把身边那些死心塌地对你好的爱，当做理所当然。

2.1 We always treat the small favors from strangers as great kindness and gratitude, while taking the unconditional love from those around us for granted.

3. 孝顺父母，不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的。

3. To be filial to one's parents is not just about talking about it; even making a few more phone calls is a good thing.

4. 永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，正如没人能切身体会你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。

4. Never blame others for not helping you, nor should you ever blame them for not caring about you. In life, we are all independent individuals, and we must bear our own sorrows and discomforts. No one can truly understand you, just as no one can experience your pain firsthand; if a stone hasn't fallen on their feet, they will never know how painful it is. On the journey of life, we are all solitary travelers; the only one who can truly help you is yourself.

5. 不要指望一个人能无条件的爱你的全部坏脾气。

5. Don't expect someone to unconditionally love all your bad temper.

6. 7和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，足矣。

6. Engage in conversations with intelligent people, fall in love with trustworthy individuals, work with positive individuals, and travel with humorous companions. If life could be like this, it would be more than enough.

7. 当一个女人变得安静，很多时候意味着她在逼着自己放下。

7. When a woman becomes quiet, it often means she is forcing herself to let go.

8. 你迷茫的原因往往只有一个，就是在应该努力的年纪，想的太多，做的太少。无论任何时候，人类最大的幸福就是致力于新的发现。

8. The reason for your confusion is often just one: in the age when you should strive, you think too much and do too little. At any time, the greatest happiness for humans is to be dedicated to new discoveries.

9. 一个人有生就有死，但只要你活着，就要以最好的方式活下去。

9. Everyone is born and will die, but as long as you are alive, you should live in the best possible way.

10. 于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了

10. Among the tens of millions of people, to meet the person you meet; in the boundless expanse of time over tens of millions of years, neither a step too soon nor a step too late, just in time.

11. 生活也许并不总是美好的，但那些奋斗可以让你变得更强大，那些改变可以让你变得更明智。

11. Life may not always be beautiful, but the struggles can make you stronger, and the changes can make you wiser.

12. 曾经有一份真诚的爱情摆在我的面前，但是我没有珍惜，等到了失去的时候才后悔莫及，尘世间最痛苦的事莫过于此。如果上天能够给我一个再来一次的机会，我会对那个女孩子说三个字：我爱你。如果非要在这份爱上加个期限，我希望是一万年！

12. Once there was a sincere love placed before me, but I did not cherish it, and only regretted it when I lost it, which is one of the most painful things in the world. If heaven could give me another chance, I would tell that girl three words: I love you. If I had to put a time limit on this love, I hope it's for ten thousand years!

13. 自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，因为你的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。

13. For those you don't like, you can respond with a silent smile; for those you do like, it doesn't matter how you act, because your affection will overflow and cannot be concealed.

14. 在对的时间遇见对的人是童话,在错的时间遇见对的人是青春。

14. Meeting the right person at the right time is a fairy tale, while meeting the right person at the wrong time is youth.

15. 能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。

15. Besides tears, it is time that can wash away everything. Time is used to erode emotions, and the longer the time, the less intense the conflict becomes, as if the tea is continuously being diluted.

16. 注定在一起的人，不管绕多大一圈依然会回到彼此的身边。只要结局是喜剧，过程让人怎么哭都行。幸福可以来的慢一些，只要它是真的，如果最后能在一起，晚点也真的无所谓！

16. People destined to be together will eventually return to each other's sides, no matter how big the circle they go around. As long as the ending is a comedy, the process can be as tearful as one wants. Happiness can come a bit slower, as long as it's real. If we can be together in the end, it really doesn't matter if it's a bit late!

17. 9不是我变了，而是我懂得了，别人怎么对我，我怎么对别人。

17. 9 It's not that I have changed, but rather that I have come to understand how others treat me is how I treat others.

18. 15别傻了，好聚好散只是你最后安慰自己的借口，他是怎么对你的，没有人能比你更清楚，你难过的时候，他没有陪着你，你挽留的时候，他没有珍惜你，说白了，他就是不爱你。

18. Stop being silly, the idea of 'good relationships and good endings' is just an excuse you comfort yourself with. How he treated you, no one can be clearer than you, when you were sad, he was not there with you, when you tried to hold on, he did not cherish you. To put it simply, he just doesn't love you.

19. 活在当下，别在怀念过去或者憧憬未来中浪费掉你现在的生活。

19. Live in the present moment, don't waste your current life by reminiscing about the past or dreaming about the future.

20. 有那么一种人她放火他就不会点灯我知道那是他把她当作爱人。

20. There's a type of person who, if she lights a fire, he won't light a lamp. I know that's because he considers her his lover.

21. 结束了 时间不是很长 忘的可以很快

21. It's over, it didn't last very long, and it can be forgotten quickly.

22. 真正的牛逼不是你认识多少人，而是你患难的时候还有多少人认识你。

22. The real牛逼 isn't about how many people you know, but how many people still recognize you when you're in trouble.

23. 14间回不到开始的地方，对于已经错过的一些东西，或许不用再试着去挽留，错了就错了。

23. 14 times back to the starting point, for some things that have been missed, perhaps it is not necessary to try to hold on to them anymore. If it's wrong, then it's wrong.

24. 17这次没有争吵，没有拉黑，但我们都懂，从此再无交集，这应该可以算是最好的离开方式。

24. This time, there was no argument, no blocking, but we all understood that there would be no more交集 from now on. This should be considered the best way to part.

25. 5你，善良，但要有个度。因为总有人，利用你的善良，伤害你。

25. 5 You, be kind, but know your limits. Because there will always be someone who takes advantage of your kindness to harm you.

26. 16爱的最高境界是——疼惜。当你心疼一个人的时候，爱已经住进了你心里。

26. The highest form of love is compassion. When you feel pain for someone, love has already taken root in your heart.

27. 生活很现实。靠的话可以慢慢走。如果你不依靠它，你必须跑。靠自己，才能成长的更快。当你咬紧牙关，努力前行的时候，上帝会为你开路。

27. Life is realistic. If you rely on it, you can move slowly. If you don't rely on it, you must run. Relying on yourself is the way to grow faster. When you bite the bullet and strive forward, God will clear the path for you.

28. 15以前总认为自己年轻，父母还不老，要多打拼，将来好好孝顺父母，后来才渐渐发现每过一秒，你的父母都在不断地老去，你和他们多相聚一天，就是少相聚一天，行孝要趁早，从你懂事就要开始。珍惜你和父母相处的每一天，不管爱与不爱，你们下辈子都不会再见。

28. Before the age of 15, I always thought that I was young, and my parents were not old yet, so I needed to work hard and strive for a better future, so that I could take good care of them. Later, I gradually realized that with every passing second, your parents are getting older and older. Every day you spend with them is a day less you will have with them in the future. It's important to show filial piety as soon as possible, starting from when you are able to understand. Cherish every single day you spend with your parents, whether you love them or not. You will never see them again in your next life.

29. 希望你常对自己说，闻到了佛法，我是最幸福的人，除了这幸福外，再没有别的了。

29. May you often tell yourself, "I am the happiest person who has smelled the Dharma, and there is nothing else except this happiness."

30. 7余生没那么长，不用一味的付出，去惯得寸进尺的人，请忠于自己，活得像最初的模样。

30. 7 Life isn't that long, so don't always be the one to give without expecting anything in return, indulging those who always ask for more. Be true to yourself and live as you were in the beginning.

31. 因为别人的评价，我们磨掉了多少棱角，丢掉了多少独一无二的性格；在乎的时间愈久，我们就会分不清生命究竟是活给自己看，还是活给别人看。

31. Because of others' evaluations, how many sharp edges have we worn down and how much unique personality have we lost; the longer we care about it, the more we may not be able to tell whether we are living for ourselves or for others.

32. 一见钟情都是见色起义，日久生情都是权衡利弊。

32. Love at first sight is often a reaction to physical attraction, while love that grows over time is a weighing of pros and cons.

33. 人来人往，真正和你与共的有几人；浮世变迁，能够不离不弃的情有几许。真爱的心，不是随处可见的鹅卵石，而是藏在草里的珍珠，你不来，不发现，你不懂，它不亮。

33. Amidst the constant flow of people, how many truly stand with you; in the ever-changing world, how much enduring love can there be. The heart of true love is not like the common pebbles easily seen, but rather like pearls hidden in the grass; it shines not until you come, discover, and understand it.

34. 人生，你要学着去忍耐，总会有不期而遇的温暖，和生生不息的希望。生活中有很多好的选择，不是凑合，不是马马虎虎，更不是指令。

34. Life, you need to learn to endure, for there will always be unexpected warmth and endless hope. There are many good choices in life, not just settling, not being casual, and certainly not orders.

35. 16年龄越大，越学会了顺其自然，不想再挽留什么，相信该在的不会走。得之坦然，失之淡然，争取必然，顺其自然。

35. As people grow older at 16, they learn to go with the flow more, not wanting to cling to anything anymore, believing that what is meant to stay will not leave. Take what comes with ease, let go of what is lost with calmness, strive for what is inevitable, and go with the flow.

36. 那些骗我的日子，你有没有想过，我是真的爱你了

36. Have you ever thought about those days when you deceived me, whether I truly loved you?

37. 5人就像寒冬里的刺猬，互相靠得太近，会觉得刺痛；彼此离得太远，又觉得寒冷；人必须保持适当的距离才能过活。

37. Five people are like hedgehogs in winter, feeling pricked if they get too close to each other, and feeling cold if they are too far apart; people must maintain an appropriate distance to survive.

38. 你可能不是第一个也不是最后一个更不是他最爱的那一个。

38. You may not be the first, nor the last, and definitely not the one he loves the most.

39. 假若不去逼自己，可能永远都不会看到以后那个成功的你。

39. If you don't push yourself, you might never see the successful version of yourself in the future.

40. 人生是一场**，痛苦是一个开端，挣扎是一种过程，死亡是一种结局。

40. Life is a **journey**, suffering is a beginning, struggle is a process, and death is an end.

41. 当一个人熬过了最艰难的时候，就不再想去寻找依靠，任何人都是负累，但愿，在坚强中学会了成长。

41. When a person gets through the most difficult times, they no longer want to seek support. Anyone becomes a burden. May they have learned to grow strong.

42. 婚姻里，谁也不是谁的救世主，谁也改变不了谁，只有精神上的完全信任和理解，这段婚姻才能维持下去，在这个社会里，不光是男人，女人也要有所担当。 《离婚前规则》

42. In marriage, no one is the savior of the other, and no one can change the other. Only with complete spiritual trust and understanding can this marriage endure. In this society, it's not just men who should take on responsibilities; women should too. "Rules Before Divorce"

43. 人是可以快乐地生活的，只是我们自己选择了复杂，选择了叹息！

43. People can live happily, but it's only ourselves who have chosen complexity and sighs!

44. 10人最大的困难是认识自己，最容易的也是认识自己。很多时候，我们认不清自己，只因为我们把自己放在了一个错误的位置，给了自己一个错觉。所以，不怕前路坎坷，只怕从一开始就走错了方向。

44. The greatest difficulty for ten people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is also to know themselves. Many times, we cannot see ourselves clearly because we place ourselves in the wrong position, giving ourselves a misconception. Therefore, it is not the rugged path ahead that we should fear, but rather that we might have already gone in the wrong direction from the very beginning.

45. 3一个人的成熟与否，不是出口成章，说出许多深刻的道理，或者是思想境界达到很高。而是待人接物让人舒适，并且不卑不亢，保留自我的棱角又有接纳他人的圆润而活着。成熟的人不需要辩解，仅仅一个微笑就足够了。

45. Whether a person is mature or not is not determined by being able to speak eloquently, expressing many profound truths, or reaching a very high level of thought. It is about treating others comfortably, maintaining a balance between humility and self-respect, living with the sharp edges of oneself while embracing the roundness of others. A mature person does not need to defend themselves; a simple smile is enough.

46. 我梦见你变心了，吓醒了才发现你的心从来不在我这里

46. I dreamed that you changed your mind, and I was scared awake only to find out that your heart has never been with me.

47. 我常常告诉自己，受委屈时、泪水要往肚子里咽，泪水是流给自己的、不是流给别人看的。

47. I often tell myself that when I am wronged, I should keep my tears inside, for tears are shed for myself, not for others to see.

48. 他的礼貌妥帖温柔绅士很可能是以前的女朋友教会他的。

48. His politeness, gentleness, and gentlemanly demeanor are likely something his ex-girlfriend taught him.

49. 我的选择是爱你或更爱你,你的选择是爱我或不爱我

49. My choice is to love you or to love you even more, and your choice is to love me or not to love me.

50. 9真正的爱情要懂得珍惜，没有谁和谁是天生注定就在一起的，一辈子其实不长，能遇到心爱的人是多么幸运，为何不握紧她的手。

50. True love should be cherished. No one is destined to be with another from birth. In fact, a lifetime is not very long, and it is incredibly lucky to meet the one you love. Why not hold her hand tightly?

51. 人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻

51. The biggest mistake people make in their daily lives is being overly polite to strangers and too harsh on their close ones.

52. 4眼看前面，活在当下。生活从未变得容易，只不过是我们变得更加坚强。人们总说时间能改变一切，但事实上我们必须靠自己去改变。

52. Look forward with four eyes and live in the present. Life has never become easier; it's just that we have become stronger. People always say that time can change everything, but in fact, we must change ourselves.

53. 抱怨对方前先看看自己，没有人可以无条件喜欢你，除了亲人。

53. Before complaining about others, take a look at yourself first. No one can love you unconditionally except family members.

54. 不要做刺猬能不与人结仇就不与人结仇，谁也不跟谁一辈子，有些事情没必要记在心上。

54. Don't be a hedgehog; avoid making enemies if possible. No one stays with anyone forever, and some things are not necessary to hold onto in one's heart.

55. 永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。

55. Always be hopeful in life, and smile in the face of difficulties and hardships.

56. 滞留在空中许久的手，终究还是抓不住随风过往的云烟。

56. The hand that lingered in the air for so long in the end could not grasp the clouds that drifted away with the wind.

57. 走自己的路，常听听别人怎么说，尤其是长者的建议。有些人说的未必对，也未必跟自身的情况相符，但是参考一下过来人的意见，有益无害。

57. Go your own way, but always listen to what others have to say, especially the advice of the elderly. What some people say may not be right, and it may not necessarily correspond to your own situation, but it does no harm to consider the opinions of those who have gone through similar experiences.

58. 不拖泥带水的分手会更酷一些，摇尾乞怜只会让对方看轻你。

58. A clean break-up would be cooler, and begging for mercy will only make the other person look down on you.

59. 8如果我用你待我的方式来待你，恐怕你早已离去。所以说，不管亲情，友情，还是爱情，凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度！

59. 8 If I treated you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you would have left long ago. That's why, whether it's family ties, friendship, or love, everything should be looked at from a different perspective. If you were me, you might not be as generous as I am!

60. 在朋友基础上做生意，那朋友就会失去。在生意的基础上交朋友，那就不会没有生意做。

60. Doing business on the basis of friendship will lose friends. Making friends on the basis of business will not leave you without business to do.

61. 进步和成长的过程总是有许多的困难与坎坷的。有时我们是由于志向不明，没有明确的目的而碌碌无为。但是还有另外一种情况，是由于我们自己的退缩，与自己亲密的妥协没有坚持到底的意志，才使得机会逝去，颗粒无收。

61. The process of progress and growth is always fraught with many difficulties and setbacks. Sometimes we are aimless and futile due to unclear ambitions and a lack of a definite purpose. However, there is another situation where it is our own retreat and the lack of persistence in our close compromises that cause opportunities to slip away and result in no gains.

62. 在某个时刻，你不得不意识到，有的人可以留在你的心里，却不会出现在你的生活中了。

62. At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but will not appear in your life anymore.

63. 不闻不问不一定是忘记了，但一定是疏远了，彼此沉默太久就连主动都需要勇气。

63. Not hearing or asking does not necessarily mean forgetting, but it definitely indicates a distance, and after too much silence between us, even the initiative requires courage.

64. 2世上最好的缘，便是有个聊得来的伴，永远不嫌你的话多，不厌其烦且久处不厌，永远会陪在身边，念你冷暖，且懂你悲欢。

64.2 The best relationship in the world is having a companion you can talk to comfortably. They will never tire of your words, always be patient, and will not get bored even after a long time. They will always be by your side, caring for your warmth and coldness, and understanding your joys and sorrows.

65. 生活中我们总会碰到一些“垃圾人”，他们身上充满了愤怒、傲慢、报复、嫉妒等负面的东西，一旦遇到这样的人，最正确的做法，就是挥挥手迅速远离他们，然后继续走自己的路。千万别将他们的负面垃圾进行接收再扩散给我们身边无辜的人。人生短暂，绝不要和垃圾一般见识，生活中遇到这样的人，请一笑而过。

65. In life, we will inevitably encounter some "garbage people" who are filled with anger, arrogance, revenge, jealousy, and other negative things. When encountering such individuals, the most correct approach is to wave goodbye and quickly distance yourself from them, then continue on your own path. Never receive and spread their negative garbage to the innocent people around you. Life is short, never lower yourself to the level of garbage. When encountering such people in life, please just smile and let it go.

66. 生物的本能是趋利避害。人看到不好的东西就想躲，看到好的东西就只想靠近；心情不好的时候不要听悲伤的歌。饿了就自己做饭，赚钱买自己想要的衣服。即使生活对你不温柔，也不要把自己的不幸告诉别人，因为生活就是这么现实，你又何必装无辜。

66. The instinct of life is to seek pleasure and avoid harm. People tend to avoid bad things and only want to get close to good things; don't listen to sad songs when you're feeling down. Cook for yourself when you're hungry, and earn money to buy the clothes you want. Even if life is not kind to you, don't share your misfortunes with others, because life is just that realistic, and why should you pretend to be innocent?

67. 在我们的人生中，经历了无数的风雨，经历了无数的起起落落，经历了担心考不上，经历了初恋时的不婚，经历了出去社会上做事时的犯错但是它不是还活着吗？昨天的压力今天已经是笑话了，他摇摇头说:太愚蠢了。人，只要活下来，就会一直活下去。

67. In our lives, we have experienced countless storms and trials, countless ups and downs, worried about not passing exams, experienced not getting married during our first love, and made mistakes when we went out into society to work, but isn't it still alive? The pressures of yesterday are now just a joke, he shook his head and said: Too foolish. As long as humans survive, they will continue to live.

68. 1谁都会有过去，但过去毕竟是过去了，该看开的还是要看开，该放下的还是要放下，一味揪着过去不放，那未来呢？

68. 1 Everyone has a past, but the past is indeed in the past. There are things that need to be let go of and things that need to be let go of, too. If one keeps holding on to the past, what about the future?

69. 我们常常向往别人那种读万卷书，万里路的生活状态，但无论是读万卷书，还是万里路，都需要积累。要想真正达到目的，最重要的是练习，消化，沉淀。没有试错，就没有后续的积累。

69. We often yearn for the lifestyle of others who have read ten thousand books and traveled ten thousand miles, but whether it's reading ten thousand books or traveling ten thousand miles, it requires accumulation. To truly achieve the goal, the most important thing is practice, digestion, and sedimentation. Without trial and error, there can be no subsequent accumulation.

70. 幸福不是拥有多少，而是心态如何。笑看得失才会海阔天空；心有透明才会春暖花开。人生如此而已。

70. Happiness is not about how much one has, but about one's mindset. Only by laughing at gains and losses can one see the vastness of the sky; only with a transparent heart can one experience the warmth of spring flowers. Life is just like that.