火焰跳跃在生命的边缘，每一颗跳动的心都镌刻着最炽热的感悟。让我们共同探寻，那最火的人生哲理。

The flames leap at the edge of life, with every heartbeat etching the most intense insights. Let us jointly explore the most fiery life philosophy.

1. 秘密不能太大，太大了收不到，容易暴露目标；不能太小。太小了，藏不住。最好的尺寸，刚好够别人忽略，也刚好够自己微笑。

1. Secrets should not be too large; if they are too large, they cannot be received and are prone to exposing the target; nor should they be too small. If they are too small, they cannot be concealed. The best size is just enough for others to ignore, and just enough for oneself to smile.

2. 成熟就是以前屁大点多愁善感，现在就算在钱山也能自己处理。有些路只能一个人走。这不是孤独，而是选择。

2. Maturity is the transition from being overly sensitive and melancholic in the past to being able to handle things even when surrounded by mountains of money. Some paths can only be walked alone. This is not loneliness, but a choice.

3. 没有谁比谁活得更轻松。只是有人为土地哭泣，痛苦不堪；而有些人，却默默咬牙，强迫自己学会坚强。

3. No one lives a life that is easier than another. Some may cry over the land, enduring great suffering; while others silently grind their teeth, forcing themselves to learn to be strong.

4. 茶凉了就不要继续了，也不是原来的味道了；人走了就不要留下，留下来也不是原来的感觉。

4. Don't continue if the tea has cooled, as it's not the original taste anymore; don't keep someone if they've left, as staying won't be the same feeling either.

5. 不要接受所有的委屈，不要总是在黑暗中咬牙一个人逞强，不要害怕拒绝别人，不要害怕麻烦人，不要让自己的善良伤害到自己。

5. Do not accept all the grievances, do not always bite your teeth in the dark and try to be strong alone, do not be afraid to refuse others, do not be afraid to trouble others, and do not let your kindness hurt yourself.

6. 这个世界上有两种人，一种是爱我们的人，一种是恨我们的人。我们应该为爱我们的人活得丰富多彩，而不是为恨我们的人。

6. There are two kinds of people in this world: those who love us and those who hate us. We should live a colorful life for those who love us, rather than for those who hate us.

7. 每一次崩溃的原因，在别人眼里可能都是小题大做，只有你自己心里清楚这根稻草压了多少。这个世界上没有感同身受，只有冷暖自知。

7. The reasons for each collapse may seem trivial to others, but only you know how much weight this straw has been carrying in your heart. In this world, there is no empathy, only knowing the cold and warmth for oneself.

8. 希望自己的方向是去自己想去的地方，而不是所谓的对的地方；我希望我的力量来自内心，而不是来自别人的赞美。

8. I hope my direction is to go to the place I want to go, rather than the so-called right place; I hope my strength comes from within, rather than from others' praise.

9. 饿了要吃饭，困了要睡觉，疼了要看病，你忍着疼，自己走，自己抹眼泪，请不要到处传播，因为没人关心你。

9. When you're hungry, you need to eat; when you're tired, you need to sleep; when you're in pain, you need to see a doctor. Endure the pain, walk by yourself, wipe away your own tears, and please don't spread it around, because no one cares about you.

10. 没有人真的很忙。每个人都有24小时的一天。所谓的忙和闲，只是在我心里哪个更重要。

10. No one is really too busy. Everyone has 24 hours in a day. The perception of being busy or idle is just a matter of what I consider more important in my heart.

11. 长大后，现实冲淡了我所有童年的梦想，也冲淡了我的天真与幼稚。

11. As I grew up, reality dulled all the dreams of my childhood, as well as my innocence and naivety.

12. 新鲜感总是暂时的。当你和别人相处的时候，你会发现其实都差不多，真心待你，愿意理解你的人更值得珍惜。

12. Novelty is always temporary. When you interact with others, you'll find that they are actually quite similar. People who are sincerely kind to you and willing to understand you are more worth cherishing.

13. 走自己的路，按照自己的原则过好自己的生活。即使有人亏待你，时间也不会亏待你，生活也不会亏待你。

13. Walk your own path and live your life according to your principles. Even if someone treats you unfairly, time will not be unfair to you, nor will life.

14. 真正在乎你的人，没事的时候很挑剔，有事的时候会握着你的手一言不发。顺境时监督你，逆境时支持你，人生有三两个人就够了。韩涵

14. The people who truly care about you are picky when there's nothing going on, and they hold your hand in silence when there are problems. They supervise you when you're doing well and support you when you're facing difficulties. In life, just a couple of people like that are enough. Han Han

15. 现在我相信顺其自然。别说我不在乎，就算我在乎又能怎么样？我只是更广泛地看待一切。

15. Now I believe in going with the flow. Don't say I don't care, what can I do even if I do? I just view everything more broadly.

16. 在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子。这些日子可能会很长，也可能我们刚刚醒来，所以要有耐心，给好运一些时间。

16. Before everything gets better, we always have to go through some unhappy days. These days may be long, and we might just be waking up, so we need to be patient and give fortune some time.

17. 现在，恐惧和担心都是能力小，经验少；十年后，一切都只是我们应该有的一种零食。

17. Now, fear and worry are due to limited abilities and lack of experience; ten years from now, all of this will just be a snack we should have had.

18. 也许他骨子里就是个冷漠的人。他没有特别的爱，没有一定要得到的人，没有一定要做的事。

18. Perhaps he is inherently cold-hearted. He doesn't have any particular love, no one he absolutely must have, no one thing he absolutely must do.

19. 希望你遇到一个好男人，不是一个垃圾，不是一个假装好男人的垃圾。

19. I hope you meet a good man, not a loser, not a loser who pretends to be a good man.

20. 到了这个年纪，谁也不想再讨好谁了。和任何舒服的人呆在一起，包括朋友。累了就远离。取悦别人远不如快乐自己。我宁愿孤独，也不愿违心。我宁愿后悔也不愿将就。

20. At this age, no one wants to curry favor with anyone else anymore. Spend time with anyone who is comfortable, including friends. Take a break when you're tired. Pleasing others is far less important than being happy yourself. I'd rather be alone than go against my will. I'd rather regret than compromise.

21. 如果你想快乐，就像太阳花一样，面对太阳，努力成长，保持本色，不卑不亢。

21. If you want to be happy, be like the sunflower, facing the sun, striving to grow, staying true to yourself, neither humble nor proud.

22. 以前喝酒唱歌叫等级。现在低调一点，努力赚钱，多陪陪家人。那是可靠的。不管你混得多好，多有钱，做与年龄相符的事情，这叫责任！

22. In the past, drinking and singing were called levels. Now, be a bit低调, work hard to make money, and spend more time with your family. That is reliable. No matter how well you do or how much money you have, doing things that match your age is called responsibility!