当亲人离去，生命如同一叶扁舟，在波涛汹涌的悲痛之海中，独自飘荡。此刻，我们拿起笔，记录下那些关于亲人去世的感伤与哀愁，以此缅怀，以此祭奠。

When our loved ones depart, life becomes like a small boat adrift in the turbulent sea of grief. At this moment, we pick up our pens to record the sorrow and sadness of their passing, in remembrance and in honor of their memory.

1. 有时候我为一个人做了一切，却比不上其他人无所事事。

1. Sometimes I do everything for a person, yet it's not as good as when others do nothing.

2. 和你在一起的那些时光就像一个黑洞。我掉进去了，再也没出来。

2. The time I spent with you was like a black hole. I fell into it and never came out.

3. 想走就走，想留就留。就算我爱你很深，我也会有这一点点自尊。我的心又小又挤。你对我好，我就对你好。如果你消失了，我不会去找你。请允许我理智地去爱。

3. Feel free to come and go as you please. Even though I have deep love for you, I still have a bit of self-respect. My heart is small and crowded. If you treat me well, I will treat you well. If you disappear, I won't go looking for you. Please allow me to love you with reason.

4. 爱情在敌意中结束，爱情在烟火中结束。无论你用一生还是几代去谈恋爱，你爱上的其实只是红尘中的一朵烟花。烟花很耀眼，但只是一瞬间。

4. Love ends in hostility, love ends in fireworks. Whether you fall in love for a lifetime or for several generations, what you truly fall in love with is just a single firework in the whirl of life. Fireworks are dazzling, yet they last only for a moment.

5. 因为不敢正视现实，人们总能回忆起一些悲伤的旧事。总会有一个人一辈子藏在每个人的心里。也许这个人永远不会知道。尽管如此，这个人永远不会被任何人取代。-而那个人就像一个永远不会愈合的伤疤。——每当被轻轻提起或触碰，都会隐隐作痛。

5. Because they dare not face reality, people can always recall some sad old memories. There will always be one person who is hidden in everyone's heart for a lifetime. Perhaps this person will never know. Despite this, this person can never be replaced by anyone. - That person is like a never-healing scar. - Whenever it is gently mentioned or touched, it will ache subtly.

6. 醉了红尘，今夜谁与我同醉？问你的心为什么悲伤，你的心是忧郁的，你的眼泪像是困窘。你为什么难过？尘埃落定？人是醉了，红尘满泪，风是去了，一缕轻愁，深夜看千泪，魂是去了千年，心是闲了，只求一醉卧红尘。

6. Drunk with the world's dust, who will join me in this night of intoxication? Ask your heart why it is sad, for it is melancholic, and your tears seem like a sign of distress. Why are you feeling down? Has the dust settled? People are drunk, the world full of tears, the wind has gone, leaving a trace of light melancholy. In the deep of the night, I see a thousand tears, my soul has traveled for a thousand years, my heart is idle, longing only for a moment of intoxication in the midst of the world's dust.

7. 一个人最脆弱的地方就是不情愿。缘起缘灭是我们无法控制的，缘厚缘淡。我们能做的，就是珍惜因果报应相遇的那短暂时光。现在终于到了该走的时候了，他比我先走，我也有点放心了。这样的悲伤迟早会让我们中的一个人感到孤独，那就让我来承受吧。

7. The most vulnerable part of a person is their reluctance. The arising and ceasing of causes and conditions are beyond our control, with some being thick and others thin. What we can do is cherish the fleeting moments when causes and effects meet. Now, it is finally time to go, and he leaves before me, which gives me some peace of mind. Such sorrow will eventually make one of us feel lonely, so let me bear it.

8. 谁在听，颇为挑剔的美女？思念，像秋天的落叶，落在地上，很痛。一切都像我们手指间的沙子。不要试图抓住它。所有的行动只能加速它的流失，就像我们手指间的沙子。沙子终于走了，留下我们的手，独自停在空中；所有的手都不见了。闪现的不是手，留下的也不是手，而是指间的沙子。

8. Who is listening, a rather picky beauty? Longing, like autumn leaves, falls to the ground, causing much pain. Everything seems like the sand between our fingers. Don't try to grasp it. All actions can only accelerate its loss, just like the sand between our fingers. The sand finally departs, leaving our hands, alone suspended in the air; all hands have disappeared. What flashes before us are not hands, and what remains are not hands, but the sand between our fingers.

9. 我不小心把你下载到了我的心里。现在，它告诉我这个文件不能删除。

9. I accidentally downloaded you into my heart. Now, it tells me that this file cannot be deleted.

10. 我渐渐知道，太在乎别人，往往会伤害到自己；渐渐知道对自己好的人会随着时间的推移越来越少；渐渐知道很多东西可遇而不可求，很多东西只能拥有一次；我渐渐知道，对一个人真诚，不一定会有回报，但你忽略的那个人，可能最重视你；我渐渐意识到现实是如此的无奈，我长大了。

10. Gradually, I realize that being overly concerned about others often ends up hurting myself; gradually, I know that those who are good to me will become fewer and fewer over time; gradually, I know that there are many things that can't be pursued as desired, and many things can only be owned once; I gradually realize that being sincere to someone doesn't necessarily guarantee a return, but the person you neglect may hold you in the highest regard; I gradually become aware of the helplessness of reality, and I am growing up.

11. 有时候把别人看得太重，结果在别人眼里我什么都不是。

11. Sometimes I put too much importance on others, only to find that in their eyes, I am nothing.

12. 永远坚信这一点:一切都会改变，无论多么创伤和沉重，无论多么贫穷，都要坚持下去。分手后，我还认识你，但我不想再见到你。你过得好，我不会祝福你，你过得不好，我不会嘲笑你。因为从今以后我们就是陌生人了。你的世界不再有我，我的世界也不再有你。我不能再珍惜你了。对不起，我失去的就是你失去的。

12. Always believe this: Everything will change, no matter how traumatic and heavy it is, no matter how poor you are, you must persevere. After the breakup, I still know you, but I don't want to see you again. If you are doing well, I won't wish you well, and if you are not doing well, I won't mock you. Because from now on, we are strangers. Your world no longer has me, and my world no longer has you. I can no longer cherish you. Sorry, what I have lost is what you have lost.

13. 我习惯了这里朋友们的温暖关怀和简单问候。是朋友们的热情让我没有离开。怎么最近太多朋友离开这里，我只能选择默默面对。

13. I am accustomed to the warm care and simple greetings from my friends here. It is their enthusiasm that has kept me from leaving. Why is it that so many friends are leaving recently? I can only choose to face it silently.

14. 有时候，早上最坚强的人，是晚上哭着睡着的人。

14. Sometimes, the strongest person in the morning is the one who cries themselves to sleep at night.

15. 我终于成了你最喜欢的那种人，但也成了我最讨厌的那种人。

15. I have finally become the kind of person you like the most, but also the kind of person I dislike the most.

16. 我把你的纸条改成了你的名字，用了名和姓。

16. I changed your note to include your full name, using both first and last names.

17. 分手后只是曾经同住一个屋檐下的客人。失恋是每个人的必经之路。

17. After the breakup, we are just guests who once lived under the same roof. Losing love is a necessary path for everyone.

18. 你要我恨你，如果可以，忘记你。我也想忘记，但是那些过往很固执，不肯过去。

18. You want me to hate you, and if possible, forget about you. I also want to forget, but those past memories are stubborn, refusing to let go.

19. 暧昧的人很委屈，找不到爱的证据。我连拥抱的勇气都没有。

19. Ambiguous people feel very aggrieved, unable to find evidence of love. I don't even have the courage to embrace.

20. 累不是一种无能，而是一种责任。累，因为你懂。要知道，只要你退后，甚至完全放弃，你就不会再累了。但是你不想也不能。所有的责任都是为了明天比今天更好。既然选择了追求，就不要哭。坚持住，坚持今天，幸福就更近一步。真正让人疲惫的，是内心的绝望。

20. Being tired is not a sign of inability, but a sign of responsibility. You are tired because you understand. You should know that as long as you step back, or even completely give up, you will no longer be tired. But you don't want to and you can't. All responsibilities are for making tomorrow better than today. Since you have chosen to pursue, don't cry. Hold on, hold on to today, and happiness will be one step closer. What truly exhausts people is the despair within.

21. 已经离开的人，请一辈子不要回头，不要记得我。错过就是错过，总不能再犯错了。

21. Those who have left, please never turn back for the rest of your life and never remember me. Missing is missing; it can't be a mistake to do it again.

22. 我不知道一个人一生能给另一个人多少个十年。

22. I don't know how many tens a person can give to another person in a lifetime.

23. 我的世界，无数的红色，到处都是悲伤，看着凋零的花朵，心，一次又一次的痛。红玫瑰已经在风中凋谢，在荒芜的岁月里留下了一道道明亮的伤痕。

23. My world, filled with countless red hues, is brimming with sorrow. Everywhere, I see withering flowers, and my heart aches once again. The red roses have withered in the wind, leaving behind a trail of bright scars in the desolate years.

24. 那一年，我们觉得世界很小。现在，我们不知道，直到我们分道扬镳。也许一别就是一辈子。

24. That year, we felt the world was so small. Now, we don't know until we part ways. Perhaps it's a lifetime apart.

25. 世界上最痛苦的不是永恒的孤独，而是明明看到温暖和生机，却无能为力。世界上最痛苦的事不是我无能为力，而是当一切都触手可及的时候，我却不想伸手。

25. The greatest pain in the world is not eternal loneliness, but seeing warmth and vitality and being unable to do anything about it. The greatest pain is not that I am unable to do anything, but that when everything is within reach, I don't want to reach out.

26. 总有一天我会从你身边无声无息的走掉。

26. Someday, I will leave you without a sound or trace.

27. 不喜欢就不要选。喜欢就要坚持。在一起是一种缘分。不要轻易让喜欢你的人哭出来伤心。珍惜在一起的每一分钟。美好的回忆应该留给幸福和欢笑。不管发生什么，不要轻易说不喜欢我，也不要轻易放弃我的关系，因为下一个人不一定比我好！

27. If you don't like it, don't choose it. If you like it, stick to it. Being together is a kind of fate. Don't easily let the person who likes you cry and be heartbroken. Treasure every minute together. Beautiful memories should be left to happiness and laughter. No matter what happens, don't easily say you don't like me, and don't easily give up my relationship, because the next person may not be better than me!

28. 让我们擦干眼泪，大胆前行。不要害怕，不要放弃。在你的背后，永远有我的支持，我不会害怕，不会放弃，因为在我的背后，也有你！

28. Let us wipe away our tears and bravely move forward. Do not be afraid, do not give up. Behind you, there is always my support, and I will not be afraid, I will not give up, because behind me, there is also you!

29. 淡淡的日子，淡淡的心情，淡淡的阳光，淡淡的风，一切都是淡淡的，刚刚好。试图在时间的轨迹上深深地刻上自己的痕迹。痛苦，然后静静地让眼泪不可抑制地溢出，直到你睡着。假装记忆中的一切只是一个模糊的梦，告诉自己其实我很好。我什么都不记得了，我从来没有难过过，我从来没有痛苦过，也没有流过泪。

29. Days are faint, with faint hearts, faint sunshine, faint wind; everything is faint, just right. Trying to deeply etch one's own mark on the轨迹 of time. Suffering, then let tears overflow silently, until you fall asleep. Pretend that everything in memory is just a blurred dream, and tell myself that I'm actually doing well. I don't remember anything, I have never been sad, I have never suffered, and I have never shed tears.

30. 好男人不是难找，而是被魅力吸引。也许你的美丽曾经让一个男人驻足观望，从此让他留下，但这要看实力。能力是女人另一种意义上的性感和独立，让你不可替代！

30. Good men are not hard to find; they are just attracted by charm. Perhaps your beauty once made a man pause and observe, and from then on he was captivated by it, but that depends on your strength. Ability is a sense of allure and independence for women in another sense, making you indispensable!

31. 风吹空了。一年就这样过去了。明年还会这样下去。我不知道稳定的背后是不是有抑郁，或者抑郁中到底有没有稳定。只是我们找不到而已。

31. The wind has cleared the air. Another year has passed like that. It will continue like this next year as well. I don't know if there's depression behind the stability, or if there's stability amidst the depression. It's just that we can't find it.

32. 有一段无法跨越的距离；有一种无法抹去的向往。疲惫的头脑中幻想着他的身影，最后一片空白。我什么都没有，一只空表。我以为爱情是对的，却得到了那么久的孤独。

32. There is a distance that cannot be bridged; there is a longing that cannot be erased. In a weary mind, his silhouette is envisioned, followed by a final blankness. I have nothing but an empty watch. I believed love was right, yet I have experienced so much loneliness for so long.

33. 世界上最遥远的距离不是爱，不是恨，而是一个熟悉的人，渐渐变得陌生。虽然最好的时光总是很短暂，但我们都会记得曾经有过的感情。

33. The greatest distance in the world is not love, not hate, but a familiar person, who gradually becomes strange. Although the best times are always short-lived, we will all remember the feelings we once had.

34. 所谓孤独，就是你面对的人。他的情绪和你自己的情绪不在一个频率上。

34. What is called loneliness is the person you are facing. Their emotions are not on the same frequency as your own emotions.

35. 我总是喜欢下午的阳光。它让我相信这个世界上的一切都会有转机，我相信命运是慷慨而美好的。我们终究会长大，带着一种无怨无悔的心情，静静地长大。归根结底，成长是一种幸福。

35. I always like the afternoon sun. It makes me believe that everything in this world will turn around, and I believe that fate is generous and beautiful. We will eventually grow up, with a heart that is free from complaints and regrets, growing up quietly. In the end, growth is a form of happiness.

36. 因为有爱，才会有期待，所以即使失望，也是一种幸福，虽然这种幸福有点痛苦。

36. Because of love, there is anticipation, so even disappointment is a kind of happiness, although this happiness is a bit painful.

37. 我向上帝许愿:愿你永远幸福。上帝说没有，只有四天，我说春夏秋冬；上帝惊呆了:两天。我笑:黑暗的一天；神惊:有一天！我笑:我生命中的每一天！

37. I made a vow to God: May you always be happy. God said no, only four days, I said spring, summer, autumn, and winter; God was startled: two days. I laughed: the day of darkness; God was startled: one day! I laughed: every single day of my life!

38. 那些我们曾经以为永远无法忘记的事情，在我们执念的过程中被遗忘了。

38. Those things we once thought we could never forget were forgotten in the process of our obsession.

39. 我知道我不坚强，但我需要伪装，因为你不在我身边。

39. I know I'm not strong, but I need to pretend, because you're not by my side.

40. 有些问题没有答案就是最终答案，有些事情没有结果就是最好的结果。

40. Some questions have no answer which is the ultimate answer, and some things have no result which is the best result.

41. 事实上，自从你不在我身边，我的生活没有改变。然而，少了一个人听我诉苦；然而，少了一个人让我放肆；最严重的是少一个人让我开心。

41. In fact, my life has not changed since you are not around. However, there is one less person to listen to me complain; there is one less person to let me be reckless; and most seriously, there is one less person to make me happy.

42. 眼看着离开的日子越来越近，心里不仅洒脱，更难过。我以为我可以释怀了，但是当我真正面对的时候，我觉得很愧疚，很舍不得！

42. As the day of departure draws closer, I feel not only at ease but also deeply sad. I thought I could let go, but when I actually face it, I feel very guilty and reluctant!

43. 有些人永远忘不了，就像有些人永远记不住；有些话永远说不出口，就像有些话永远守不住一样；有一份爱，总是放不下，就像有些爱，总是受不了。

43. Some people can never forget, just as some people can never remember; some words can never be spoken, just as some words can never be kept; there is a kind of love that one can never let go of, just as there is a kind of love that one can never bear.

44. 有些话，适合烂在心里；有些痛，适合默默遗忘！

44. Some words are meant to be kept hidden in the heart; some pains are meant to be silently forgotten!

45. 很多时候，我们无法理解别人的感受。即使我们做了，我们也无能为力。心情只能靠自己解决。每个人的灵魂都在自己的世界里，独自过冬。

45. Many times, we cannot understand others' feelings. Even if we do, we are powerless. One's mood can only be resolved by oneself. Each soul is in its own world, alone enduring the winter.

46. 两颗伤痕累累的心彼此纠缠，直到路的尽头。这种重复的结局令人恐惧。看着身边那些所谓的滴滴，很心痛。重拾散落已久的心情，还有未来，不只是今天。

46. Two hearts scarred by life entangle with each other until the end of the road. This recurring ending is terrifying. It's heartbreaking to watch those so-called "drops" around me. To pick up the scattered feelings for a long time and look forward to the future, not just today.

47. 当爱情不完美的时候，我宁愿选择无怨无悔，无论来世有多美好，我都不想在今生失去对你的记忆，我不要永恒的美好，我只想在一代又一代的轮回中拥有你！

47. When love is imperfect, I would rather choose to be无悔无怨, no matter how beautiful the next life may be, I do not want to lose the memory of you in this life. I do not want eternal beauty, I just want to have you in the cycle of generations and reincarnations!

48. 天空中的鸟儿，是你比我更孤独，还是我比你更悲伤？剩下的时间都陪着我，好吗，这样你就不孤单，我也不会难过。

48. Birds in the sky, are you more lonely than I, or am I more sorrowful than you? Will you stay with me for the remaining time, please? This way, you won't be alone, and I won't feel sad.

49. 感受生活就是感受自己。这个世界太吵了，重口味你受不了。最好是什么事都少关心，少争论。能往宽的地方走，就不要往窄的地方挤。有些事，有些情宁愿低头，吃咸的，做一个淡泊恬静优雅的人。但是，不要平淡无奇，也就是对什么都失去兴趣和追求。

49. Experiencing life is about experiencing oneself. This world is too noisy, and you can't stand the extreme flavors. It's best to care less about things and argue less. If there's a wider path, don't squeeze through the narrow one. There are some things and some emotions where it's better to bow your head, endure the bitterness, and be a tranquil and elegant person with a simple demeanor. However, don't let your life become monotonous and lackluster, which means losing interest and pursuit in everything.

50. 我没有主动找你，不是因为你不重要，而是我不知道自己重要不重要。

50. I didn't主动 find you not because you are not important, but because I was unsure of my own importance.