在青春的画卷上，五十一岁的人生感悟如同璀璨的星辰，照亮我们前行的道路。翻开这本，让我们一同探寻经典语句，感受岁月的智慧与温暖。

On the canvas of youth, the insights of a 51-year-old life are like brilliant stars, illuminating our path forward. Turning the pages of this book, let us explore classic sentences together and feel the wisdom and warmth of the years.

1. 02、一个人彻悟的程度，恰等于他所受痛苦的深度。林语堂《吾国吾民》

1. 02, The degree of an individual's enlightenment is exactly equal to the depth of the suffering they have endured. From Lin Yutang's "My Country and My People."

2. 03、中国人得意时信儒教，失意时信道教、佛教，而在教义与已相背时，会说，人定胜天。信仰危机在于，经常改变信仰。林语堂

2. 03: When the Chinese are successful, they believe in Confucianism; when they are unsuccessful, they turn to Taoism and Buddhism. When the teachings contradict their beliefs, they will say, "Man prevails over heaven." The crisis of faith lies in the frequent change of beliefs. Lin Yutang.

3. 觉得自己总碰不到美好的人和事，并不是别人眼瞎老天故意整你，恰恰是因为你不够好，他们都在躲你。

3. Feeling that you always can't encounter good people and things is not because others are blind or the heavens are deliberately targeting you; rather, it's precisely because you are not good enough, and they are all avoiding you.

4. 面朝大海，春暖花开。永远不要放弃你真正想要的东西。人生是一种承受，我们要学会支撑自己。快乐，就是在平淡中窥见了神奇;幸福，就是于平淡中尝出了真味。快乐不是生活的赐予，而是心的领悟。幸福，不是别人的馈赠，而是心的淡然。只有甘于平淡，不争，不执着，不计较，才能感受到更多幸福。

4. Facing the sea, spring is warm and flowers are blooming. Never give up on what you truly desire. Life is a matter of endurance, and we must learn to support ourselves. Happiness is found in the extraordinary that we see amidst the ordinary; happiness is the true taste that we experience in the mundane. Happiness is not a gift from life, but an insight from the heart. Happiness is not a gift from others, but a tranquil state of mind. Only by embracing simplicity, not striving, not being attached, and not being overly concerned can one feel more happiness.

5. 当你可以直面自己身体里与生俱来的笨拙与孤独，你便能够彻底谅解过去的自己。大多数人都像我们这样活着，虽不聪明，但诚恳；虽会犯错，但坦然。

5. When you can face the innate awkwardness and loneliness within yourself, you can completely forgive your past self. Most people live like us, not very smart, but sincere; they make mistakes, but are tolerant.

6. 人生在世，短暂不过百年。把握自己，就是时时拥有一颗清澈的心，拥有一片明朗的情怀。看问题尽量站的高一点，看的远一点，处理事情学会多换个角度，设身处地的换位思考。为人，不贪，不妒;处世，不谄，不骄。就是时刻保持平常之心，不好高骛远，不走极端。

6. In life, a century is but a fleeting span. To seize one's life is to always maintain a clear heart and a bright spirit. When facing issues, try to stand higher and look further; when dealing with matters, learn to view them from multiple angles and think from the perspective of others. As a person, do not be greedy or envious; in one's conduct, do not flatter or be proud. It is to always maintain a composed and ordinary heart, not to pursue lofty but unrealistic goals, and not to take extreme positions.

7. 一个人需要隐藏多少秘密，才能巧妙地度过一生。这佛光闪闪的高原，三步两步便是天堂，却仍有那么多人，因心事过重而走不动。

7. How many secrets must one hide to skillfully navigate through life? This plateau shimmers with the Buddha's light, where three steps or two can lead to heaven, yet there are still so many people who can't move forward due to the heavy burden of their inner concerns.

8. 人生没有一帆风顺的，都要经历一些挫折和失败。让自己心情更平和一点，更豁达一点，对身边的过错淡然，让自己更宽容一点，乐观，阳光，幸福不是得到的多，而是要求的少，计较的少!一些人遇见了，一些人失去了，也许生活就是这样，四季流转着，最后又会留下谁，陪伴在身旁。

8. Life is not smooth sailing for anyone, we all have to experience some setbacks and failures. Make yourself more peaceful and open-minded, take things around you more lightly, be more tolerant, optimistic, sunny, and happy. Happiness is not about getting more, but about demanding less and worrying less! Some people meet, some people part, maybe that's just how life is, the seasons change, and in the end, who will stay by your side?

9. 生活需要感动，而感动需要真实！走过一些路，才知道辛苦；登过一些山，才知道艰难；跨过一些坎，才知道超越；经过一些事，才知道经验；阅过一些人，才知道历练；读过一些书，才知道财富；过了一辈子，才知道幸福。多一点快乐，少一点烦恼，累了就睡觉，醒了就微笑，生活怎么样，自己放调料。

9. Life needs to be touched, and touch needs to be real! Only after walking some roads do you know the bitterness; only after climbing some mountains do you know the difficulty; only after crossing some obstacles do you know the meaning of overcoming; only after experiencing some things do you know the value of experience; only after meeting some people do you know the essence of being seasoned; only after reading some books do you know the wealth; only after living a lifetime do you know happiness. Add more joy, less worry, sleep when tired, smile when awake, how life is, it's up to you to add the seasoning.

10. 要真正了解一个人，只要看他怎样利用余暇时光就可以了。林语堂

10. To truly understand a person, just look at how they utilize their leisure time. -- Lin Yutang

11. 每个顺其自然的背后都是想要改变却不得的努力，每个洒脱的背后都藏着不舍，每个放下前都是挣扎，每个人心里都有不可言说的秘密。人生的幸与不幸，关键看你面向哪里。无论做人做事，心胸都不能太狭隘。人间的是非善恶，世道的冷热荣辱，都要放宽肚皮，坦然接受，人生的路才会越走越宽。

11. Behind every act of going with the flow is the effort to change but being unable to, behind every carefree demeanor lies a sense of reluctance, and before every letting go, there is a struggle. Everyone in their heart harbors unspeakable secrets. Whether fortunate or unfortunate in life, the key lies in where you are facing. Whether in life or in doing things, one's breadth of mind cannot be too narrow. The right and wrong, good and evil in this world, and the ups and downs of fate, all should be accepted with an open heart and a serene attitude. Only then will the path of life become wider and wider.

12. 人生一边是永无止境的追求，一边是平淡如水的流年。不是每一次追求都能成功，不是每一次付出都有收获。人生更多的是平淡和寂寞，只有守得住平淡，耐得住寂寞，才能邂逅一次又一次的繁华。人生中的很多失败，往往不是因为自己做错了，而是在等待中夭折了。

12. Life is on one side an endless pursuit, and on the other side a tranquil flow of years. Not every pursuit leads to success, and not every effort yields a harvest. Life is more often than not plain and lonely; only by embracing the plainness and enduring the solitude can one encounter prosperity again and again. Many failures in life are not because one has made a mistake, but because they wither away in the waiting.

13. 人生的旅途中有太多的岔口，一转身也许就是一辈子。错过沿途的风景，错过此时的雪季，错过彼时的花季。

13. In the journey of life, there are too many crossroads, and a turn might be a lifetime. Missing the scenery along the way, missing the snow season at this moment, missing the flower season at that time.

14. 走出去，世界在望；如果你走不出去，世界就在你面前！

14. Go out, and the world is within sight; if you cannot go out, the world is right in front of you!

15. 一个懂你的人，能带来一段彼此舒服的爱。一个不懂你的人，最终会让你懂得一个道理：人生中，懂比爱更重要。真正的爱情，不是一见钟情，而是日久生情；真正的缘份，不是上天的安排，而是你的主动。相爱莫相弃，且行且珍惜。

15. A person who understands you can bring about a comfortable love between you two. A person who doesn't understand you will eventually teach you a lesson: in life, understanding is more important than love. True love is not a case of love at first sight, but love that grows over time; true destiny is not arranged by heaven, but your own initiative. Love without abandonment, cherish each step as you go.

16. 知道没用就去做。明知道宠自己是不对的，还是醉了。明知道翻过去会难过，还是便宜手。很明显，平时自尊心比谁都强，还是卑微的。打你一巴掌骂你傻逼都是需要时间的，才会放下自己。其实我想说，一下子放下很难，但世界上只有一个你，所以对自己好一点。

16. Knowing it's useless, just do it. Even though you know pampering yourself is wrong, you still get drunk. Even though you know it will be sad to turn the page, you still can't resist. It's obvious that you are more self-respecting than anyone else in daily life, yet you are still humble. It takes time to slap you in the face and call you an idiot before you can let go of yourself. Actually, I want to say that it's hard to let go all at once, but there's only one you in the world, so be a bit kinder to yourself.

17. 一个人成功的关键在于他如何对待自己的时间。你和时间的关系形成了你。你让时间更有价值，时间也会让你的人生更有价值。

17. The key to a person's success lies in how they treat their time. Your relationship with time shapes you. The more valuable you make time, the more valuable time will make your life.

18. 与生活相关的人，少消费与生活无关的东西。

18. People related to life should consume less of things unrelated to life.

19. 知足既是一种清醒，更是一种心态。生活没有真正的完美，只有不完美才是最真实的美;生活没有一帆风顺的，只有披荆斩棘才能路路顺;睁开双眼，打开心扉，你就会发现这美好无处不在。学会适应，让你的环境变的明亮;学会调节，让你的心情不再忧伤。

19. Contentment is both a state of clarity and a mindset. Life is not truly perfect; it is the imperfections that are the most authentic beauty; life does not always go smoothly; only by overcoming obstacles can you find ease on your path. Open your eyes, open your heart, and you will find this beauty everywhere. Learn to adapt, and let your environment become bright; learn to regulate, and let your mood no longer be sad.

20. 06、人生在世，还不是有时笑笑人家，有时给人家笑笑。林语堂

20.06, In life, isn't it sometimes about laughing at others, and sometimes about giving others a laugh? — Lin Yutang

21. 没事的时候不要向别人抱怨。世界上能感同身受的人少之又少，大多数人听着听着就烦。少数人会把它宣传成笑柄。

21. Do not complain to others when there is nothing wrong. There are very few people in the world who can empathize with you, and most people will get tired of listening. A few may even turn it into a laughingstock.

22. 愿你执迷不悟时少受点伤，愿你幡然醒悟时物是人是。

22. May you suffer less harm when you are stubborn and not willing to see the truth, and may you find clarity and everything in its proper place when you suddenly wake up to the truth.

23. 人生如河，苦是转弯：思量和抉择，得到和失去，拿得起和放得下，我们需要放弃、割舍和遗忘;人生如叶，苦是漂泊：飘零的心，触碰不到依靠的岸。苦苦追寻和经受，留下凋落而孤寂的情怀;人生如戏，苦是相遇：奇妙的人生旅程，留下感念或者擦肩而过，相濡以沫或者分道扬镳，人生若只如初见。

23. Life is like a river, bitterness is the turn: contemplation and choice, gain and loss, holding on and letting go, we need to let go, cut off, and forget; life is like a leaf, bitterness is wandering: a floating heart, unable to touch the shore of reliance. Endlessly seeking and enduring, leaving behind a withered and lonely sentiment; life is like a play, bitterness is the encounter: a wonderful journey through life, leaving memories or a passing by, supporting each other or parting ways, if life were only as it was at first sight.

24. 心，应该是一颗树，在缄默中伫立，既能接受阳光，也能包容风雨。淡然的心态，是人生的成熟。人活着就是要承受各种经历的，很多心愿无法成就。艰辛之人生，本无完美。留下的遗憾的确很多。一切似乎是命运的安排冥冥之中自有天意。缘分的天空很难预测。

24. The heart should be like a tree, standing silently, able to both accept sunshine and embrace the storms. A serene mindset is the maturity of life. It is in living that one must endure various experiences, and many wishes cannot be fulfilled. Life, filled with toil, is inherently imperfect. There are indeed many regrets left behind. Everything seems to be arranged by destiny, with an underlying purpose in the heavens. The sky of fate is hard to predict.

25. 早上，花开了。每一种香味都有一种关注，关注日出日落，关注新的一天，不管是复杂的还是舒缓的。花总是会开的，不是在春天，而是在落叶的秋天，或者是在寒冷的冬天。错过了季节，这辈子可能就不会再开花了。年年岁岁花相似，岁岁年年总不同。每一年都是新的生活，每一天都是新的开始。

25. In the morning, the flowers bloomed. Each fragrance has its own focus, focusing on the sunrise and sunset, focusing on a new day, whether it's complex or soothing. Flowers always bloom, not in spring, but in the autumn of falling leaves, or in the cold winter. If you miss the season, you may never bloom again in this lifetime. Year after year, the flowers are similar, but year after year, they are always different. Every year is a new life, and every day is a new beginning.

26. 05、我要有能做我自己的自由，和敢做我自己的胆量。林语堂《我的愿望》

26. 05, I want the freedom to be myself and the courage to act as I please. Lin Yutang, "My Wishes"

27. 01、人生不过如此，且行且珍惜。自己永远是自己的主角，不要总在别人的戏剧里充当着配角。林语堂《人生不过如此》

27. 01, Life is just like this, cherish it as you go. You are always the leading character in your own story, don't always play the role of a supporting actor in others' dramas. Lin Yutang, "Life Is Just Like This."

28. 在一个年纪，最能折磨人心灵的就是平庸。我读了很多书，走了很多路，但还是不知道怎样才能让生活变成这样，怎样才是心有余而力不足的时候。感叹青春太快，因为没有回头路。我讨厌生错了时间，因为我不想承认我从来没有真正努力过。

28. At a certain age, the most tormenting thing for the soul is mediocrity. I have read many books and walked many roads, but I still don't know how to make life like this, or when one has more heart than strength. I sigh that youth is too fast, because there is no way back. I hate being born at the wrong time, because I don't want to admit that I have never truly tried my best.

29. 人生的快乐是自己的，怨恨是一杯毒酒，毒杀的是自己的快乐，用别人的错误惩罚自己，是一件非常愚蠢的事情，何不如，原谅他人的错误，一个人的心胸能容得下多少人，就能够赢得多少人心，心胸宽广，才能成就事业，才会有平和愉悦的人生。

29. The happiness of life is one's own, while resentment is a cup of poison that kills one's own happiness. Using others' mistakes to punish oneself is a very foolish thing. Why not, instead, forgive others' mistakes? A person's breadth of mind can accommodate as many people as it can win over. Broad-mindedness is the key to achieving success and leading a peaceful and joyful life.

30. 若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离；若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。

30. If there is a connection, time and space are not distances; if there is no connection, being together all day long still cannot convey understanding.

31. 记忆中的童年被我主观美化了，天永远都是蓝的，不许变成别的颜色；草永远是嫩绿的，不许变黄变干；花永远就是开的，不许败不许谢。童年是我无法企及的乌托邦。

31. The childhood in my memory has been subjectively beautified; the sky is always blue, and it is not allowed to change into any other color; the grass is always tender green, and it is not allowed to turn yellow and dry; the flowers are always blooming, and it is not allowed to wither or fade. Childhood is an unreachable utopia for me.

32. 享受悠闲生活当然比享受奢侈生活便宜得多。要享受悠闲的生活只要一种艺术家的性情，在一种全然悠闲的情绪中，去消遣一个闲暇无事的下午。林语堂《生活的艺术》

32. Enjoying a leisurely life is certainly much cheaper than enjoying a luxurious life. To enjoy a leisurely life only requires an artistic temperament, and in a completely relaxed mood, to while away an idle afternoon. Lin Yutang, "The Art of Living."

33. 人生一场，比的是心态。我像生活在梦里，找不到真实的自己，每每感叹自己的人生不得意，看着别人一点点的进步，我会有一种自卑的感觉，我仿佛生活在别人的光环里，看着那些不属于我的光环，我越是无奈，年少的青春啊，谁会没有遗憾，找不到最后的归宿，然后，一点点沉淀，沉淀，直到覆盖了我的心。

33. In this life, what matters is one's mindset. I feel as if I am living in a dream, unable to find the real me. Often, I sigh over the dissatisfaction with my life, watching others make gradual progress, and I feel a sense of inferiority. It seems like I live under others' radiance, gazing at those glories that do not belong to me. The more I feel helpless, the more my youthful youth is filled with regrets, unable to find the ultimate destination. Then, little by little, there is a沉淀, a沉淀, until it covers my heart.

34. 人会长大三次。第一次是在发现自己不是世界中心的时候。第二次是在发现即使再怎么努力，终究还是有些事令人无能为力的时候。第三次是在，明知道有些事可能会无能为力，但还是会尽力争取的时候。

34. A person grows up three times. The first time is when they realize they are not the center of the world. The second time is when they discover that no matter how hard they try, there are still some things that are beyond their control. The third time is when, knowing that there are things that might be beyond their control, they still strive to make an effort.

35. 如果你对一件事期望过高，你就会失去。如果你为一个人情付出太多，你会很累。等久了，就会受伤。记住，生活中没有困难，生活中没有离不开困难的人。如果你不被珍惜，不被重视，那就学会漂亮的转身。你可以哭，可以心疼，但不能绝望。今天的眼泪，将是你明天的成长；今天的伤痕将是你明天的力量。

35. If you have too high expectations of something, you will lose. If you give too much to a person, you will be tired. Waiting for too long will cause hurt. Remember, there are no difficulties in life, and there are no people who cannot live without difficulties. If you are not cherished or valued, learn to turn around beautifully. You can cry, you can feel pain, but you cannot despair. The tears you shed today will be the growth of your tomorrow; the scars you bear today will be your strength of tomorrow.

36. 没有激情的生活最可怕的是，人会慢慢习惯一切。不再注重外表，不再注重打扮，只有几件衣服被翻来覆去，蓬头垢面的上学和工作也无所谓。最后连孤独都习惯了，你在哭诉今年不想放假。你想的其实是出去约会。

36. The most可怕 about a life without passion is that one slowly gets accustomed to everything. No longer caring about appearance or dressing up, wearing just a few clothes repeatedly, and looking disheveled while going to school or work doesn't matter. Eventually, even loneliness becomes a habit. You complain that you don't want to have a holiday this year, but what you're actually thinking about is going on a date.

37. 人生的大自在，是心无拘绊，身无藩篱。有梦想，就要坚持捍卫它。我不去想身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨，既然目标是地平线，留给世界的只能是背影。我不去想未来是平坦还是泥泞，只要热爱生命，一切都在意料之中。人的一生中，至少应该有两次意气用事：一次奋不顾身的爱情，一次说走就走的旅行。

37. The great freedom of life is having a mind unshackled and a body without barriers. If you have a dream, you must persist in defending it. I do not worry about whether cold wind and rain will come from behind, since the goal is the horizon, what is left for the world is only the silhouette. I do not ponder whether the future will be smooth or muddy, as long as I love life, everything is within expectation. In one's lifetime, there should at least be two impulsive acts: once a love that defies all, and once a journey that can be embarked on at a moment's notice.

38. 这个世界上过得好的人，大部分是该吃吃，该喝喝，该打扮打扮，该读书读书，追求一定基础的物质，再花钱让自己精神愉悦一下的，接地气的，不清新也不脱俗的普通人。

38. Most of the people who are doing well in this world are those who eat when they should, drink when they should, dress up when they should, read when they should, pursue a certain level of material goods, and then spend money to make themselves mentally happy. They are down-to-earth, neither too fresh nor too common, ordinary people.

39. 爱是当你掉了一颗门牙，却还能坦然微笑。因为你知道你的朋友不会因为你的不完整而停止爱你。一个6岁孩子写的作文《什么是爱》

39. Love is when you lose a tooth and can still smile confidently. Because you know that your friend will not stop loving you because of your imperfection. A composition written by a 6-year-old child titled "What is Love."

40. 碰巧今晚上失眠没睡发觉自己又老了一岁，那就祝自己50岁生日快乐吧！

40. By chance, I couldn't sleep tonight and realized I've aged another year. So, let's wish myself a happy 50th birthday!

41. 未经失恋的人不懂爱情，未曾失意的人不懂人生。

41. One who has never been in love does not understand love, and one who has never been disappointed does not understand life.

42. 人生有味，一定是陶，朴素的，丰满的，沉寂的，藏了千年，包不住的古意，给懂它的人赏;一定是宋瓷，轻灵，单薄，素雅，婉约，如一个穿着旗袍的女子，踩着莲步，缓缓地来，忽地，从身边飘过，轻抿着嘴唇，那笑声，在水样的天空，荡漾。

42. Life is flavorful, it must be a jar, simple, full, tranquil, hidden for a thousand years, containing an ancient charm that cannot be contained, to be appreciated by those who understand it; it must be a Song Dynasty porcelain, delicate, thin, elegant, graceful, like a woman in a cheongsam, stepping on lotus petals, coming slowly, suddenly passing by, her lips gently smiling, her laughter rippling in a sky as clear as water.

43. 09、读书使人得到一种优雅和风味，这就是读书的整个目的。读书并不是要改进心智，若是如此，一切读书的乐趣便丧失净尽了。林语堂《生活的艺术》

43. 09, Reading imparts a certain elegance and taste, which is the entire purpose of reading. Reading is not to improve the mind; if so, all the joys of reading would be completely lost. -- Lin Yutang, "The Art of Living"

44. 如果你想说什么，试着说出来。把一切都藏在心里，过了一段时间，你会发现没有说出来的冲动。两个人，不言不语，良久，连说话都需要勇气。感情就是这样渐渐淡去，直到没有痕迹。

44. If there's something you want to say, try to express it. If you keep everything hidden in your heart, after some time, you'll find that the urge to speak out has faded away. Two people, without a word, for a long time, even speaking requires courage. That's how feelings gradually fade away, until there's no trace left.

45. 想做的事总是挤出时间和机会，不想做的事总是找借口。

45. Always make time and seize opportunities to do what you want to do, and always find excuses for what you don't want to do.

46. 当我跨过沉沦的一切，向着永恒开战的时候，你是我的军旗。

46. When I cross over all the sinking into battle towards eternity, you are my military flag.

47. 我应该在那个年龄玩，但是我太专注了。本该放纵的青春，只能听天由命。

47. At that age, I should have been playing around, but I was too focused. The youthful days that were meant to be carefree had to be left up to fate.

48. 人生如梦，突然一切都空了。一个人的生活，平安就好。钱多钱少，刚够吃。丑的人很美，只是顺眼而已。老人少，身体好。家贫家富，善良就好。老公回家晚了，回来就是了。如果你的妻子唠叨，照顾你的家庭是很好的。所有的烦恼都可以解决。世间万物，随缘就好。

48. Life is like a dream, and suddenly everything is empty. For one person, peace is enough. Whether rich or poor, just enough to eat. Ugly people are beautiful, just pleasing to the eye. There are fewer old people, and the body is in good health. Whether the family is poor or rich, kindness is enough. If your husband comes home late, it's okay as long as he comes back. If your wife nags, taking care of the family is a good thing. All troubles can be solved. For all things in the world, just go with the flow.

49. 做从未做的事，叫成长；做不愿做的事，叫改变；做不敢做的事，叫突破。人生，因静而从容，因从容而优雅。淡然于心，自在于世间。

49. Doing things that have never been done is called growth; doing things that one is unwilling to do is called change; doing things that one is afraid to do is called breakthrough. Life is composed of calmness, which brings composure, and composure, which brings elegance. Be indifferent in one's heart, and be free in the world.

50. 一个人记得事情太多真不幸，知道事情太多也不幸，体会到太多事情也不幸。

50. It is truly unfortunate when a person remembers too many things, it is also unfortunate to know too many things, and it is also unfortunate to experience too many things.

51. 世界上的事情，最忌讳的就是个十全十美，你看那天上的月亮，一旦圆满了，马上就要亏厌；树上的果子，一旦熟透了，马上就要坠落。凡事总要稍留欠缺，才能持恒。

51. The most忌讳 thing in the world is to seek perfection, as you see, once the moon in the sky is full, it will soon start to wane; once the fruits on the trees are ripe, they will soon fall off. In all matters, it is necessary to leave a little room for imperfection to ensure sustainability.

52. 生命中所有的挫折与伤痛、所有的经历，都是为了造就你锻炼你。身上事少，自然苦少;口中言少，自然祸少;腹中食少，自然病少;心中欲少，自然忧少!大悲无泪，大悟无言。缘来要惜，缘尽就放。心静，才能听到自己的心声;心清，才能照见万物的本性。死死守护的，不一定是自身拥有的。

52. All the setbacks and pain, all the experiences in life, are meant to shape and train you. If you have fewer things to deal with, naturally there will be less suffering; if you speak less, naturally there will be fewer troubles; if you eat less, naturally there will be fewer diseases; if you desire less, naturally there will be less worry! Great sorrow has no tears, great enlightenment has no words. Cherish the good things when they come, let them go when the time is up. Only a calm mind can hear its own voice; only a clear mind can reflect the true nature of all things. What you desperately guard may not necessarily be what you truly possess.

53. 关键不是别人能给什么，而是自己内心想要什么。---柴静

53. The key is not what others can give, but what one wants in one's own heart. --- Chai Jing

54. 所有的动力都来自内心的沸腾。如果你做不到一件事，无论是搞好关系，还是寻找爱人，还是减肥，都是因为你还没有真正想做。

54. All the power comes from the boiling within. If you can't do something, whether it's nurturing relationships, finding a lover, or losing weight, it's because you haven't truly wanted to do it yet.

55. 17岁时你不漂亮，可以怪罪于母亲没有遗传好的容貌；但是30岁了依然不漂亮，就只能责怪自己，因为在那么漫长的日子里，你没有往生命里注入新的东西。

55. At 17, if you're not beautiful, you can blame it on your mother for not passing on a good-looking appearance; but if you're still not beautiful at 30, you can only blame yourself, because in those long days, you haven't infused anything new into your life.

56. 大事难事，看担当，逆境顺境，看胸襟。是喜是怒，看涵养，有舍有得，看智慧，是成是败，看坚持。结有道之朋，断无义之友，饮清净之茶，戒色花之酒，开方便之门，闭是非之口。找一处荫翳，用心去慢慢品味这变幻、美妙而又艰难的人生，人生之美将在你瞬息的感悟中成为永恒的美！

56. In times of great events and difficult tasks, it's about one's responsibility; in times of adversity and prosperity, it's about one's breadth of mind. Joy or anger reflects one's cultivation; sacrifice or gain, one's wisdom; success or failure, one's perseverance. Make friends with those of virtue, sever ties with those without integrity, drink pure tea, avoid wine of passions, open the door to convenience, and close the mouth of slander. Find a place of shade, and with a careful heart, slowly savor this ever-changing, beautiful yet arduous life. The beauty of life will become eternal in the fleeting insights of your moments!

57. 12最遥远的距离，是你就坐在我身边，我却还是觉得不踏实。生命是由时间所累积的记忆，记忆所产生的经验，经验所组成的情绪所构成。这些都是生命中的老师，而这些老师将会在我们某个年龄时突然让我们对自己生命的价值发问，而在我们心中会被迫毫无掩饰的必须自我回答，因为这是对自己生命的一种负责。

57. The farthest distance is when you are sitting right beside me, yet I still feel unsteady. Life is composed of memories accumulated over time, experiences generated by memories, and emotions formed by experiences. All these are teachers in life, and these teachers will suddenly make us question the value of our own lives at some point in our age. Within our hearts, we will be compelled to answer this question without any pretense, because this is a form of responsibility towards our own life.

58. 一切人或事都是容易被轻易遗忘的。当你想念一个人的时候，尽情去想念吧，也许有一天，你再也不会如此想念他了。当你爱一个人的时候，就尽情去爱吧，让他知道你是如此爱他。也许有一天，你长大了，失望太多，思虑也多了，你再也不会那么炽烈地爱一个人了。

58. Everything and everyone is easily forgotten. When you miss someone, indulge in your memories, for perhaps one day, you will no longer miss them so much. When you love someone, let your love pour out, let them know how deeply you love them. Perhaps one day, as you grow up and face too much disappointment and more contemplation, you will no longer love someone so intensely.

59. 没有必要对生活中的挫折吹毛求疵。一切无非是你的天真遇上了社会的现实。偏见胜于理解，抱怨胜于放下。

59. There is no need to nitpick at the setbacks in life. Everything is merely your innocence encountering the reality of society. Prejudice prevails over understanding, and complaining prevails over letting go.

60. 以后要做到对他人减少依赖，降低期待，并爱自己。自己50岁生日快乐！

60. From now on, strive to reduce dependence on others, lower expectations, and love yourself. Happy 50th birthday to myself!

61. 什么事情都会过去，我们是这样活过来的。人生里面总会有所缺失，你想得到一些，就要失去一些，重要的是你应该知道自己到底要什么。人生几何，总有些坎坷需要跨越，总有些责任需要担当，不断的跌倒，才有不变的顽强与收获;不变的风雨，才有不断的历练与懂得。做生命的强者，且行且歌。

61. Everything will pass, and that's how we live. In life, there will always be something missing. If you want to gain something, you have to lose something. What's important is that you should know exactly what you want. Life is short, and there will always be some hardships to overcome and some responsibilities to bear. Only by constantly falling can you maintain unyielding strength and reap rewards; only by enduring unchanging storms can you continuously gain experience and understanding. Be a strong person in life, and let's walk and sing our way forward.

62. 读书没有合宜的时间和地点。一个人有读书的心境时，随便什么地方都可以读书。林语堂《生活的艺术》

62. There is no suitable time and place for reading. Whenever a person has the inclination to read, they can do so anywhere. -- Lin Yutang, "The Art of Living"

63. 人生在于修行，修行则在于领悟。我们最先衰老的不是容貌，而是不顾一切的闯劲。真的努力后，你会发现自己要比想象的优秀很多。最大的失败就是放弃。今天很残酷，明天更残酷，后天很美好，绝大部分的人死在明天晚上，看不到后天的太阳。

63. Life lies in cultivation, and cultivation lies in realization. The first thing that ages is not our appearance, but our vigor to charge ahead without a thought. After truly striving, you will find yourself much more excellent than you imagined. The greatest failure is to give up. Today is残酷, tomorrow will be even more cruel, and the day after tomorrow will be beautiful. The vast majority of people die at night, not seeing the sun of the day after tomorrow.

64. 一个人的成功除了靠自己的勤奋努力外，谦虚谨慎是不可缺少的品格;自以为是的人永远也找不到成功的门路，庸人的缺点就在于不能控制自己的感情，轻易失往理智，而成功者则善于把握这个标准，谨慎处事;善于发现，善于思考，处处都有成功气力的源泉。

64. A person's success depends not only on their hard work and diligence but also on the indispensable virtue of modesty and caution; those who are self-righteous will never find the path to success. The shortcomings of the average person lie in their inability to control their emotions, easily losing their sense of reason, whereas successful individuals are skilled at maintaining this standard, exercising caution in their actions; they are adept at discovery, thoughtful in their thinking, and everywhere they find the source of success's vitality.

65. 再坚强的人，心里都一定有那么一些弱点，一触就碎，一碰就痛。

65. Even the strongest person has some weaknesses in their heart that can shatter at a touch and ache upon contact.

66. 我快乐，因为我俯视；幸福是因为悲观。我们都是天上地下的过客，很多人事都做不了决定。比如出发的时间，分开的人。心字里有三个点，没有一个点不跳出来。你越想坚持，你离开的越快。一切随缘，深缘聚，浅缘随。在生活中，你低估了多少痛苦，痛苦就会离开你多少。

66. I am happy because I look down; happiness is because of pessimism. We are all transient travelers on earth and in heaven, and many things are beyond our control. For instance, the time of departure, the separation of those who are apart. The character for "heart" contains three dots, and none of them stay still. The more you try to persist, the faster you will leave. Everything depends on fate; deep relationships gather, while shallow ones drift. In life, the less you underestimate pain, the more it will leave you.

67. 很多事确实不是所有年轻人都承受得了的，逼着你往前走的，不是前方梦想的微弱光芒，而是身后现实的深渊万丈。

67. Indeed, many things are too much for all young people to bear. What drives you forward is not the faint glow of the dream ahead, but the bottomless abyss of reality behind you.

68. 07、生活所需的一切不贵豪华，贵简洁;不贵富丽，贵高雅;不贵昂贵，贵合适。林语堂

68.07, All the necessities of life are not expensive in luxury, but in simplicity; not in grandeur, but in elegance; not in cost, but in suitability. Lin Yutang

69. 人生最重要的价值是心灵的幸福，心是应该有一个自然的脱落过程。我不去想身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨，既然目标是地平线，留给世界的只能是背影。我不去想未来是平坦还是泥泞，只要热爱生命，一切都在意料之中。人的一生中，至少应该有两次意气用事：一次奋不顾身的爱情，一次说走就走的旅行。

69. The most important value of life is the happiness of the soul, and the heart should have a natural shedding process. I don't worry about whether cold wind and rain will come after me, since the goal is the horizon, all that can be left to the world is only my back. I don't worry about whether the future will be smooth or muddy, as long as I love life, everything is within expectation. In a person's life, there should be at least two impulsive acts: once a love that is fearless of danger, and once a journey that can be taken at a moment's notice.

70. 一位花农告诉我们，几乎所有的白花都是香的，颜色越鲜艳的花越不香。他的结论是，人都一样，越简单朴素的人越香。

70. A florist told us that almost all white flowers are fragrant, and the brighter the color of the flowers, the less fragrant they are. His conclusion is that people are the same; the simpler and more modest a person is, the more fragrant they are.

71. 世界太大，人生太短。想怎么过就怎么过是对的。

71. The world is too big and life is too short. It's right to live as one wishes.

72. 如果你变成风，我会变成雨。风雨缠绵，风封雨，雨滴破风。一场雨过后，风消失了，但终究达不到虹桥的美。只一瞬间，风雨忘了。只是一瞬间，风雨之爱无痕。

72. If you become the wind, I will become the rain. The wind and rain entwine, the wind seals the rain, and the raindrops pierce through the wind. After a rain, the wind vanishes, yet it can never achieve the beauty of the Rainbow Bridge. Just a moment, the wind and rain are forgotten. Just a moment, the love of wind and rain leaves no trace.

73. 不后悔，就是做好三件事:第一，懂得选择；二是明白如何坚持；第三是懂得珍惜。

73. Not to regret, it is to do three things well: first, to understand how to choose; second, to know how to persevere; third, to know how to cherish.

74. 把所有平凡的事情做好就是不平凡，把所有简单的事情做对就是不简单。

74. Making all ordinary things extraordinary is extraordinary, and doing all simple things correctly is not simple.

75. 人生，看透不如看淡。哭的时候没人哄，学会了坚强;怕的时候没人陪，学会了勇敢;烦的时候没人问，学会了承受;累的时候没人可以依靠，学会了自立!就这样我找到了自己，知道了人是被逼出来的，只有压力才有动力;有超人的聪明者，不见得有超人的抱负。他们常常仗恃自己的智力，放弃平实的奋斗。

75. Life, it's better to take it lightly than to see through it. When you cry, no one comforts you, so you learn to be strong; when you are afraid, no one accompanies you, so you learn to be brave; when you are frustrated, no one asks about you, so you learn to endure; when you are tired, no one you can rely on, so you learn to be self-reliant! That's how I found myself, realized that people are forced to become what they are, and only pressure can drive motivation; a person with super intelligence does not necessarily have super ambitions. They often rely on their intelligence, giving up modest struggle.

76. 与其操之过急，犯错误，不如慢慢来；笨总比太聪明而失败好。

76. It's better to take it slow and avoid making mistakes, rather than rushing ahead and failing; being clumsy is preferable to being overly clever and failing.

77. 平静，随缘，客观，欢喜，坚强与启迪。选择了走开，体会了无奈，选择了离开，感受了明白。有些事，你真别看清，看清，心痛;有些人，你真别看懂，看懂，伤情。淡然的心态，是人生的成熟。简单的事，想深了，就复杂了。用加法的方式去爱人，用减法的方式去怨恨，用乘法的方式去感恩。

77. Peace, serenity, objectivity, joy, strength, and inspiration. Choosing to walk away, I experienced helplessness; choosing to leave, I felt clarity. There are some things you really shouldn't see clearly, for seeing them clearly will hurt your heart; there are some people you really shouldn't understand completely, for understanding them fully will hurt your feelings. A calm and indifferent attitude is the maturity of life. Simple things become complicated when thought about too deeply. Love with the addition method, hate with the subtraction method, and be grateful with the multiplication method.

78. 人生像极了一场大雪，起初飞扬美丽，继而泥泞狼藉遍地污浊，而正是坚忍的跋涉，才成就了人生的高贵与尊严;人生的风景不可能总是芬芳绚丽，鲜花绽放，很多时候，人生的风景是在荒原上兀自摇摆的枯草，在风雨中瑟缩，也在风雨中昂扬。

78. Life is extremely like a heavy snowfall, at first flying and beautiful, then muddy and disorderly, covered with filth. It is precisely the steadfast journey that achieves the nobility and dignity of life; the scenery of life cannot always be fragrant and splendid, with flowers blooming. Often, the scenery of life is the dry grass swaying on the wasteland, shivering in the wind and rain, and also flourishing in the wind and rain.

79. 世界上没有完美，追求完美是一种积极的态度。

79. There is no perfection in the world; pursuing perfection is a positive attitude.

80. 人生注定曲折坎坷，命运不会讨好谁，更不会怜悯谁，你的看不惯，你的想不通，将会伴随着你的生活，那是自己在折磨自己，自己在摧残自己，与别人无关，怨不得任何人，如果你有足够的坚强，走过去，你就会成长。

80. Life is destined to be winding and thorny. Fate will not please anyone, nor will it have any mercy on anyone. Your disapproval and your inability to understand will accompany your life. That is self-torture and self-destruction; it has nothing to do with others, and you cannot blame anyone. If you have enough strength, just go through it, and you will grow.

81. 道德水平不严，不严格要求自己！孝、德、勤、忍、治家，信、仁、勤、廉、建天下的价值观能坚持吗？面对事情能有耐心吗？生活工作中能不能勤快一点？面对不公，你能坚持自己的立天下原则吗？浪费严重，不懂节约，可耻的行为！如果你不坚持道德标准，一味追求财富和荣耀，你会失去你的眼睛，永远无法使用你的才华！

81. Lack of strict moral standards, not demanding oneself rigorously! Can you uphold the values of filial piety, virtue, diligence, patience, and family management, as well as faith, benevolence, diligence, honesty, and building the world? Can you be patient in the face of things? Can you be more diligent in your daily life and work? Can you persist in your principles of establishing the world in the face of injustice? Wastefulness is severe, not understanding the importance of saving, and it is a shameful behavior! If you do not adhere to moral standards and solely pursue wealth and glory, you will lose your eyes and forever be unable to utilize your talents!