高情商自己爱自己，每一句都是爱。

High emotional intelligence loves oneself, every word is love.

1. 比这世上任何一个人都更加热切的渴望他能愉悦，只是，想起这分愉悦不我的份，还是会十分的难过。

1. He yearns for the pleasure more passionately than anyone else in this world, yet, when I think that that pleasure is not meant for me, I still feel an immense sadness.

2. 痛过之后就不会觉得痛了，有的只会是一颗冷漠的心。

2. After the pain, one won't feel pain anymore; all that remains is a cold heart.

3. 青天上月儿明，纱窗外花枝俏，佳人儿如此娇，只看着短信笑，早不早，晚不晚，你可是，正等着我的真情到，我地个心肝儿，天色晚，快睡觉！宝贝，晚安！

3. The moon is bright in the sky, the flowers outside the silk window are lovely, and the beauty is so delicate. She is laughing at the text message, not too early, not too late. Are you waiting for my true feelings to arrive? My dear heart, it's getting late, time to go to sleep! Baby, good night!

4. 电灯下的甜美微笑，都不在微笑，钢琴键上，灰尘飞腾，古老手指交织按响，写下古典为你送行。

4. The sweet smile under the lamp is no longer smiling. On the piano keys, dust is flying, the ancient fingers interlace and play, writing a classical piece to bid you farewell.

5. 太耀眼的城市不适合看星星，就像你的心，不适合谈安定

5. Cities that are too bright are not suitable for stargazing, just as your heart is not suitable for discussing stability.

6. 我没有停止爱你，只是不再表现出来。因为无论我多么努力，你都不会明了。

6. I have not stopped loving you, I just no longer show it. Because no matter how hard I try, you will never understand.

7. 我们的玩笑中，到底藏了多少真心话，谁能听得懂，谁能看得透。

7. How many sincere words are hidden in our jokes, and who can understand them, who can see through them?

8. 当我决定要离开你，如果那时你还爱我，请你不要告诉我，因为我不想再次被伤害，如果那时你已不再爱我，也请你不要告诉我，因为我不想哭着离开。

8. When I decide to leave you, if you still love me at that time, please don't tell me, because I don't want to be hurt again. And if you no longer love me by then, please don't tell me either, because I don't want to leave with tears in my eyes.

9. 世界上最远的距离不是生与死，而是，星期一上午到星期五下午。

9. The greatest distance in the world is not between life and death, but from Monday morning to Friday afternoon.

10. 白头到老的意思是、认识了天，相爱了个月，吵了年架，忍了年。

10. The meaning of "white hair to old age" is that we have known each other since the beginning of the world, loved each other for a month, argued for a year, and endured for a year.

11. 我心里有个坎 一直过不去 我总觉得我和他还没彻底结束 说不定哪一天 他还会回来。

11. There's a barrier in my heart that I've been unable to cross. I always feel that I haven't completely ended things with him, and maybe one day, he might come back.

12. 一个人在房间里思绪失落到了极点，泪脏了脸，还是回不到从前。

12. A person lost themselves in thought to the extreme in the room, tears staining their face, yet they could not return to the past.

13. 多谢你，赠我空欢喜。原来咱们都没有长大，原来咱们都还是小孩子。原来,我只在午睡时做了一场梦，经历了成长，经历了许多不可弥补的错误与忧伤。

13. Thank you for giving me false joy. It turns out that neither of us has grown up, that we are still children. It turns out that, all I did was have a dream during my nap, experiencing growth and many irreparable mistakes and sadness.

14. 将心情放开，将烦恼放走，将身体放松，将快乐放入，将睡眠放沉。睡个好觉，晚安，亲爱的。

14. Let go of your worries, let the troubles drift away, relax your body, fill your heart with joy, and let your sleep be deep. Have a good night's sleep, goodnight, my dear.

15. 什么叫愉悦？就是掩饰自我的悲伤，对每个人微笑。

15. What is joy? It is to mask one's own sadness and smile at everyone.

16. 夜已深，工作退去，睡意涌来；压力退去，惬意涌来；烦恼退去，温馨涌来；忧愁退去，快乐涌来。请安然入睡！

16. It's late at night, work has faded away, sleepiness is overwhelming; stress has receded, comfort is flooding in; worries have vanished, warmth is overflowing; sorrow has given way to happiness. Please rest peacefully!

17. 每天早上醒来第一个想起的人还是你，我要多久才能忘记你

17. The first person I think of every morning is still you, how long will it take me to forget you?

18. 当我决定要离开你，如果那时你还爱我，请你不好告诉我，正因我不想再次被伤害，如果那时你已不再爱我，也请你不好告诉我，正因我不想哭着离开。

18. When I decide to leave you, if you still love me at that time, please don't tell me, because I don't want to be hurt again. And if you no longer love me by then, please don't tell me either, because I don't want to leave with tears in my eyes.

19. 你若一声不吭离去，那么抱歉，我也会悄无声息把你忘记。

19. If you leave without a word, then I'm sorry, I will also forget you in silence.

20. 任何时候都要相信自己，因为我们是这个世界上唯一真正对自己好的人，所以要爱自己！

20. Always believe in yourself, because we are the only ones who truly take care of ourselves in this world, so love yourself!

21. 如果回忆能够像内存卡就好了，格式化后，就不再记得。

21. If memories could be like memory cards, after formatting, they would no longer be remembered.

22. 时间像个贼，它偷走了我们曾经的天真，也偷走了我们骄傲的青春。

22. Time is like a thief, stealing away our innocent youth and our proud youth as well.

23. 那些你努力想要忘记的人 偏偏在你的潜意识里徘徊留恋 只是理性让你明白 留念便是深渊。

23. The people you strive to forget linger in your subconscious, lingering with nostalgia. It is only reason that makes you understand that nostalgia is a chasm.

24. 身边没有了那个能够依靠的肩膀，破碎的情架终藏不住眼泪。

24. Without the shoulder to lean on nearby, the broken love frame can no longer hide the tears.

25. 是苍天见我孤单，把你送到了我的世界；是生命给了我希望，让你滋润了我的灵魂；这辈子有你，我很幸福，晚安！

25. It was the heavens that saw me alone and sent you to my world; it was life that gave me hope, watering my soul; having you in this lifetime, I am truly blessed. Good night!

26. 我们都太倔强 总是为爱逞强。

26. We are all too stubborn, always trying too hard for love.

27. 为了那个人，你愿赌服输。青春里遇到那个你愿意为她赌，她愿意在你最懵懂最青涩的时候陪伴你的人，你是有多么幸运能够遇到那个人哪，那为什么还要正因害怕失去而去放下拥有的权利

27. For that person, you're willing to lose on the bet. How lucky you are to meet someone in your youth who is willing to bet for you and someone who is willing to accompany you at your most naive and awkward, at the peak of your youth. Why would you still let go of the right to possess due to the fear of losing?

28. 1有时候，我们等的不是什么人、什么事，我们等的是时间，等时间，让自己改变。

28. 1 Sometimes, what we are waiting for is not a person or an event, what we are waiting for is time, waiting for time, to change ourselves.

29. 一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原来费尽心机想要忘记的事情就这样忘记了。

29. A person always has to walk on unfamiliar paths, see unfamiliar scenery, and listen to unfamiliar songs. Then, in some unexpected moment, you will find that the things you have been trying so hard to forget have just slipped away.

30. 你明白那种感受的吧 想好好开始 却没办法喜欢别人。

30. Do you understand that feeling? Wanting to start fresh but unable to like anyone else.

31. 为什么我们总是在最不适合的时候爱上最爱的人

31. Why do we always fall in love with our most beloved ones at the most unsuitable times?

32. 用整颗心去维护一段感情的结果，得到的却是受伤和失去。

32. Devoting the whole heart to maintain a relationship results in injury and loss.

33. 怪街上太热闹 车辆太闪烁 人行太拥挤 天气太冷清 耳机里的情歌太深情。

33. The street is too bustling, the vehicles too twinkling, the sidewalks too crowded, the weather too desolate, and the love songs in the headphones too deeply heartfelt.

34. 当我说出，你忙吧，你睡吧，你走吧，你玩吧，这些话中含有多少个失望？你知道么。

34. When I say, "You're busy, you can sleep, you can go, you can play," how many bits of disappointment are contained in these words? Do you know?

35. 失望，有时候也是一种愉悦，正因有所期盼因此才会失望。正因有爱，才会有期盼，因此纵使失望，也是一种愉悦，虽然这种愉悦有点痛。

35. Disappointment, sometimes, can also be a form of pleasure; it is because of expectations that one can feel disappointed. It is because of love that there are expectations, so even though there is disappointment, it is also a form of pleasure, albeit a bit painful.

36. 没有了纷繁嘈杂，只剩安宁与祥和；没有了烦恼压力，只剩轻松与愉悦；离开繁重的工作环境，回归温馨的家园，道一声晚安，望你一切安好！

36. Without the hustle and bustle, there's only tranquility and harmony; without worries and pressure, there's only relaxation and joy; leaving the heavy work environment, returning to the warm home, say goodnight, and wish you all well!

37. 我多害怕习惯了谁的好，然后又被无情的抛弃。

37. How afraid I am of getting used to someone's kindness and then being mercilessly abandoned.

38. 为何有些人或事冒犯了您时，您有必要做出回应？如果您把那些令人不快或恼人的事情”收入囊中“，却一声不吭，您就等于在释放这样的讯息：”我没有你们重要！清继续吧，我不值得 你们重视！“然而，若您决定说出是什么冒犯了您，您就在告诉他人，您是有底线的，您也是一个值得尊敬的人。您的自信也就会得到提升。 ----弗雷德里克·方热《医治受伤的自信》

38. Why do you feel the need to respond when someone or something offends you? If you "swallow" those unpleasant or irritating things without a word, you are essentially sending the message: "I'm not as important to you! Go ahead, I'm not worth your attention!" However, if you decide to express what offends you, you are telling others that you have boundaries and that you are a person worthy of respect. Your self-confidence will also be enhanced. -- Frederick Fangai, "Healing the Wounded Confidence"

39. 我把你的备注改成了你的名字，连名带姓最初的样子。

39. I changed your note to your full name, as it was originally spelled with both given name and surname.

40. 我上线然后你上线，然后你隐身然后我隐身，然后你上线我懂了。

40. I log on and then you log on, then you go invisible and then I go invisible, then you log on and I understand.

41. 一直以为幸福在远方，在可以追逐的未来。后来才发现，那些拥抱过的人，握过的手、唱过的歌、流过的泪、爱过的人、所谓的曾经，就是幸福。在无数的夜里，说过的话、打过的电话，思念过的人、流过的眼泪看见的或看不见的感动，我们都曾经过，然后在时间的穿梭中，一切成为了永恒！

41. I always thought happiness was somewhere far away, in a future that could be chased. Later on, I realized that the people I've embraced, the hands I've held, the songs I've sung, the tears I've shed, the ones I've loved, and the so-called past, are all happiness. In countless nights, the words spoken, the calls made, the people I've missed, the tears shed, the visible or invisible emotions, we have all experienced them. And then, in the穿梭 of time, everything has become eternal!

42. 无意沾了些别人的热闹，却更衬得自己形单影只

42. Without intending to, I got caught up in others' excitement, yet it only highlighted my loneliness even more.

43. 工作是做不完的，身体可是累得垮的，健康是生命的本钱。好好照顾自己！晚安！

43. There is always more work to be done, but the body can collapse from exhaustion. Health is the capital of life. Take good care of yourself! Good night!

44. 我承认、当别人接近你跟你说话时、我会吃醋。因为我怕失去你

44. I admit, when others come close to you and talk to you, I get jealous. Because I'm afraid of losing you.

45. 或许，你已经习惯了我的悲伤，所以，不屑一顾，不闻不问。

45. Perhaps, you have grown accustomed to my sorrow, so you disregard it with disdain, and turn a deaf ear to it.

46. 距离能够增加思念，燃烧激情，但是当最初的迷恋渐渐消退，距离成了彼此进一步沟通的最大障碍。两个人的性格差异，需要亲密的相处来了解和适应，由浓转淡的感情，更需要透过分享情绪

46. Distance can enhance yearning and ignite passion, but as the initial infatuation gradually fades, distance becomes the biggest obstacle to further communication between the two. Personality differences between the two individuals require intimate interaction to understand and adapt to, and feelings that evolve from intense to faint require even more sharing of emotions.

47. 不要因为寂寞爱错人，更不要因为爱错人而寂寞一生，尝试信任才能得到幸福。

47. Do not love the wrong person out of loneliness, and even more so, do not spend a lifetime lonely because you chose the wrong person to love. Try to trust in order to find happiness.

48. 时间可以治愈一切也怕它慢慢把关于你的都消磨掉怕想不起来

48. Time can heal everything, yet I fear it may slowly erode everything about you, afraid of forgetting.

49. 淡淡的哀伤当面，藏有漂亮的止境，甜甜的笑颜背地遗留悲哀的片子。

49. A faint sadness is before the eyes, hiding a beautiful endpoint; a sweet smile left behind in the heart, leaving behind a piece of sorrow.

50. 也许我们没有活成自己想要的样子，但我们应该更爱自己，因为那份独一无二！

50. Maybe we haven't lived up to the image we wanted to be, but we should love ourselves more, because of that unique quality!

51. 身边没有了那个可以依靠的肩膀，破碎的情架终藏不住眼泪。

51. Without the shoulder to rely on, the shattered love can no longer hide the tears.

52. 有的人，分开了就再也触摸不到。时刻在咱们性命中画下一个定式，珍惜的总要经过漫长的回忆才能明了。真期望能遇见，在一个有温暖阳光的午后。但是，如果没有温暖的阳光，能遇见，就很好。

52. Some people, once separated, can never be touched again. They leave a permanent mark in our lives, and what we cherish often becomes clear only after a long period of reflection. I truly hope to meet them on a warm, sunny afternoon. But if there's no warm sunshine, meeting them is still wonderful.

53. 我知道我很普通，但是你不会遇见第二个我。最可笑的事，我已经知道了真相，你却还在那里撒谎。

53. I know I'm ordinary, but you won't meet another me. The most可笑 thing is that I already know the truth, but you're still lying there.

54. 目前状态：我在浪费时间，我在挥霍时光，我在模糊现在，我在恐惧未来。

54. Current State: I am wasting time, I am squandering moments, I am blurring the present, and I am afraid of the future.

55. 受了伤，你不在身边，只能自己装坚强，强颜欢笑。

55. Hurt, you're not around, I can only put on a strong face and smile through my pain.

56. 现在才懂原来一个人可以难过到：没有情绪没有语言没有表情。

56. Now I understand that a person can be so sad that they have no emotions, no words, and no expressions.

57. 泪再一次崩溃，无能为力地坠落，除了任由它坠下，我还能说什么？我还能做什么？

57. Tears once again break down, powerlessly falling, what else can I say but let them fall? What else can I do?

58. 因为喜欢你，所以能原宥你给的伤害。因为爱你，所以一直放任给你伤害。

58. Because I like you, I can forgive the harm you have caused. Because I love you, I have always allowed you to harm me.

59. 情断了，绑不住，试着放手，走与不走，留与不留，我不想懂。

59. The emotions have broken, and they can't be tied together. Try to let go. Whether to go or stay, I don't want to understand.

60. 27人生中出现的一切，都无法占有，我们只能经历。有缘，不推;无缘，不求。来的，欢迎，去的，目送。

60. All that happens in a person's life cannot be possessed; we can only experience it. If there is a connection, we do not push it away; if there is no connection, we do not seek it. Welcome those who come, and bid farewell to those who leave.

61. 什么叫快乐？就是掩饰自己的悲伤，对每个人微笑。

What is happiness? It is to conceal one's sadness and smile at everyone.

62. 朋友如藕，虽然彼此分离了但仍然藕断丝连；朋友如酒，虽然年代久了但味更香浓；朋友如树，虽然年龄老了但根更深蒂更固！好朋友，一辈子！

62. Friends are like lotus roots, though we may be separated, the threads still connect us; friends are like wine, though the years have passed, the flavor becomes even richer; friends are like trees, though they may be old, their roots grow deeper and their foundations stronger! Good friends, for a lifetime!

63. 如果没人管，那就在忽冷忽热的季节好好照顾自己，冷的时候多穿点衣服，热的时候注意夏天，好好爱自己。

63. If no one is taking care of you, then take good care of yourself during the season of temperature fluctuations. Wear more clothes when it's cold and pay attention to summer when it's hot. Love yourself well.

64. 都淡了吧，都走远了吧，都不要我了吧。心酸了吧，都是自作多情。

64. Everyone has become indifferent, everyone has distanced themselves, and everyone has abandoned me. Do you feel heartbroken now? It's all self-inflicted affection.

65. 在下—个夏天，这个教室里又坐满了人，可惜，不再是我们了、

65. Next summer, this classroom will be filled with people again, but unfortunately, it won't be us anymore.

66. 缴手机话费时，才知道，原来我的话这么值钱。

66. It was only when I paid my phone bill that I realized my words were so valuable.

67. 异地恋真的好辛苦，可是为了我们的爱，我会坚持的。

67. Long-distance relationships are really tough, but for the sake of our love, I will persevere.

68. 每个人心中都有道伤，那是天曾经塌下的地方，

68. Everyone has a scar in their heart, where the sky once collapsed.

69. 爱你没有原因,只需要有你一颗永远不变的心！

69. There's no reason for loving you, just the need for a heart that remains forever unchanged!

70. 那些看上去对每个人都好的人 其实是最孤独的。

70. Those who seem to be good to everyone are actually the most lonely.

71. 我总是想得到你的爱，哪怕一点点，可是我忘了，你根本就不爱，哪怕一点点。

71. I always wanted to receive your love, even just a little bit, but I forgot that you don't love me at all, not even a little.

72. 爱情其实是一种习惯，你习惯生活里有他，他习惯生活里有你，拥有的时候不觉得什么，一旦失去，便觉得失去了所有。

72. Love is actually a habit; you get used to having him in your life, and he gets used to having you. When you have it, you don't think much of it, but once you lose it, you feel like you've lost everything.