——探寻语言与现实的交织

—— Exploring the Interweaving of Language and Reality

1. 男人，请你相信，总会有那么一个陪你共风共雨的女人，为你守候、逗留、等待。

1. Man, believe me, there will always be a woman who will accompany you through storms and rain, waiting and lingering for you.

2. 从此以后不谈地久天长，单刀赴会做气质流氓。

2. From now on, no more talk of eternal love; instead, I will be a气质流氓, single-handedly attending meetings.

3. 你还在网吧狂按鼠标、敲着键盘，紧盯着屏幕，对着英雄联盟、穿越火线比对着你爹妈媳妇还亲吗你还在觉得你混的很牛逼，圈子很广，自我感觉特别牛逼，叱咤风云，没人敢弄你，还在羡慕电视里那打打杀杀的古惑仔吗你还在半夜看着日本的AV陪你度过寂寞无助的夜晚吗先生，请带上你做为男人的担当和责任，去努力成为你亲人、爱人、朋友的骄傲。

3. Are you still frantically clicking the mouse,敲ing the keyboard in the Internet cafe, staring at the screen, and treating League of Legends and Cross Fire as more intimate than your parents or spouse? Do you still think you're doing great, that your circle is vast, and that you feel especially awesome, dominating the world, with no one daring to mess with you? Are you still envying those gangsters in the TV shows who fight and kill? Are you still watching Japanese AVs at midnight to accompany you through your lonely and helpless nights? Sir, please take on the responsibility and担当 of a man, and strive to become the pride of your family, loved ones, and friends.

4. 我这辈子只相信三种人，一种是和我同甘共苦的人，一种是在我跌倒的时候扶我起来的恩人，第三种是在我一无所有的时候还在我身边坚持的人。

4. In my lifetime, I have only trusted three types of people: those who share both joys and sorrows with me, those who lift me up when I fall, and those who stick by me even when I have nothing left.

5. 在这个现实的社会，男人别在骂女人现实了，聪明的男人知道女人现实了都去他妈的奋斗了。

5. In this realistic society, men should stop cursing women for being realistic. Smart men know that realistic women are all fighting their way through life.

6. 有守门员球不照样进么。谁是谁老公，都他妈临时工 ！ 哥不尊贵、但不是每个女人都有机会、男人有实力、自然有魅力、哥不差钱、差的只是心情 请 女士们都抓紧了袄 、 月经来了有卫生巾默默陪着流血。

6. Even with a goalkeeper, the ball can still go in. Who's whose husband, they're all temporary workers! I'm not noble, but not every woman has a chance. Men have strength and naturally have charm. I'm not short on money, what I lack is just the mood. Please, all the ladies, grab it while you can. When your period comes, there's always a sanitary pad silently accompanying the bleeding.

7. 现在我们变得成熟，现在我们学会了放弃，现在我们变得稳健，我们懂得坚强。

7. Now we have matured, now we have learned to let go, now we have become stable, and we have learned to be strong.

8. 男人要做的，是没事不惹事，有事不怕事，不怕你忍辱负重，但你不能一忍在忍。

8. What men should do is to not cause trouble when there is no trouble, and not fear trouble when there is trouble. You should not bear the burden of dishonor and endure it indefinitely.

9. 那年，我们哥们几个走在大街上，叼着烟是那么的牛逼，现在我们知道，钱比他妈的什么都牛逼。

9. That year, a few of us哥们 were walking on the street, puffing on cigarettes with such attitude, now we know money is way more牛逼 than anything else.

10. 没等到的一手遮天，只有拼出来的。

10. The ones who haven't received anything can only rely on their own efforts to make a difference.

11. 陈浩南：你说陈浩南是你偶像，你见过陈浩南没有？

11. Chen Haonan: You say Chen Haonan is your idol, have you ever met Chen Haonan?

12. 一见钟情，钟不是爱情，钟是面子，是钱。

12. Love at first sight is not about love, it's about face and money.

13. 人生就像淋浴，方向不对，热水。

13. Life is like a shower, if the direction is wrong, even hot water is useless.

14. 时间在变，人也在变。人生就是一团欲望，得不到满足就痛苦。期望越大，失望越大。

14. Time changes, and people change too. Life is a bundle of desires, and the pain arises from unfulfilled desires. The greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

15. 一个人最大的幸福是有人可以依靠，一个人最大的不幸是太依赖一个人。

15. The greatest happiness for a person is to have someone to rely on, and the greatest misfortune is to be too dependent on one person.

16. 以后只会对两种人好，一种是对我好，一种是对我好，一个人的温暖是有限的，一点都不能浪费。

16. In the future, I will only be good to two kinds of people: those who are good to me and those who are good to me. A person's warmth is limited; not even a little bit should be wasted.

17. 触动你的从来不是别人的故事，而是别人的故事让你想起自己的。

17. What touches you is never someone else's story, but rather, someone else's story reminds you of your own.

18. 我很现实，谁对我好，我就对谁好，谁对我使坏，我就跟她玩到底！

18. I'm very realistic; whoever is good to me, I'll be good to them, and whoever tries to harm me, I'll play along with them to the end!

19. 现在我们伤心但不诉哭，不代表没有期待，现在的我们难过却不流泪，不代表没有伤痕，现在我们愤怒但不说话，不代表没有心声。

19. Now we are saddened but do not shed tears, it doesn't mean we have no expectations. Now we are upset but do not shed tears, it doesn't mean we have no wounds. Now we are angry but do not speak, it doesn't mean we have no inner voice.

20. 你心软，你总是害怕伤害别人，所以被伤害的人永远是你。

20. You are soft-hearted, always afraid of hurting others, so you are the one who is always being hurt.

21. 只有努力，没有辉煌。

21. Only effort, no brilliance.

22. 来生，想做一朵蒲公英，无牵无挂，无欲无求，起风而行，风静而安。

22. In my next life, I wish to be a dandelion, carefree and unburdened, with no desires or demands, moving with the wind when it blows, and finding peace when the wind is still.

23. 情商最低的人，就是要用最讨厌的方式把自己能说清楚的话表达出来的人。

23. The person with the lowest emotional intelligence is the one who expresses themselves in the most disliked way, despite being able to make their point clearly.

24. 做一个简单的人，踏实，务实。不要沉溺于幻想。不要无事生非。

24. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and practical. Do not indulge in daydreams. Do not cause trouble for no reason.

25. 我只想带着这与任何人任何事无关的爱情，走去一个人的天荒地老。

25. I only want to walk into the eternal old age of one person, carrying this love that has nothing to do with anyone or anything.

26. 小时候我们把爹妈伤的那么深，而我们却感觉是那么的快乐。

26. When we were young, we deeply hurt our parents, yet we felt so happy.

27. 对我有什么不满、直接当面说就好、不要通过别人的嘴巴穿到我耳中。

27. If you have any complaints about me, just say them to my face; don't let them get to my ears through someone else's mouth.

28. 姑娘们，世界上没有那么多的白马王子，找个爱你的骡子嫁了吧，到时候骡子都没了，就剩一堆驴了。

28. Girls, there are not that many白马 knights in the world. Find a donkey that loves you and marry it. By then, the donkeys will be gone, and all that will be left are a bunch of mules.

29. 谢谢恋人的离开，谢谢看得起我的人，谢谢给我鼓励的人，若不是你们我怎么知道人太单纯会变得笑话，若不是你们我怎么会知道勾心斗角是生存之道。

29. Thank you for my lover's departure, thank you to those who value me, thank you to those who encourage me. If it were not for you, how would I know that a person's simplicity can turn into a joke? If it were not for you, how would I know that cunning and intrigue are the ways of survival.

30. 谢谢 不要拿你一个月的工资来挑战哥的零花钱 人的一生就好像拉粑粑，有时候即便你很努力了。最后它只是一个 ——“屁” 为什么呢？ 大起大悲看清自己、大起大落看清朋友 、所以要以这扯淡的态度来面对这操蛋的人生 ！ 人生就像卫生纸，没事尽量少扯 现在姑娘真伟大，独自一人闯天下，不知不觉肚子大，可怜最后没有爸 一个小拯救了多少招待所、在这个的年代，对象不断的换、小货不断的侩、爱情让你们糟蹋 ！ 你们都想成为鹏宇，可你们知道鹏宇背后付出多少汗水么？ 哥玩的并不时尚、但你绝对跟不上、 虽然我不在江湖，可江湖有我的传说 、 鹏宇现在的努力，只为实现小时候吹过的牛逼 没能耐的看人装比，有能耐的跟人装比。

30. Thank you, don't use your one-month salary to challenge my pocket money. Life is like shitting, sometimes you work hard, but in the end, it's just a "fart." Why? Because you can see yourself through great joy and sorrow, and you can see your friends through ups and downs, so you should face this shitty life with this bullshit attitude! Life is like toilet paper, try to use less when there's nothing to do. Now, girls are truly great, they闯 the world alone, and unknowingly, their bellies get big,可怜 they end up without a dad. A small person has saved so many hotels, in this era, partners keep changing, sluts keep coming, and love is being wasted! You all want to be like Pengyu, but do you know how much sweat Pengyu has poured? I don't play by the latest trends, but you definitely can't keep up. Although I'm not in the江湖, there are legends about me in the江湖. Pengyu's current efforts are just to fulfill the牛逼 I吹过. Those without ability watch others showing off, and those with ability show off to others.

31. 我只娶自己养的起的女人，扛自己扛的起的梦，挣自己有把握的未来。

31. I will only marry a woman I can afford, carry the dreams I can bear, and earn a future I am confident in.

32. 有的男人，他羡慕的不是你的美丽，你的妖娆，你丰满的大腚，而是羡慕你的老公，因为他的身边有一个你。

32. Some men envy not your beauty, your allure, your full buttocks, but envy your husband, because by his side is someone like you.

33. 年轻时我们放弃，以为那只是一段感情，后来才知道，那其实是1生。

33. When we were young, we gave up, thinking it was just a phase of romance. Later on, we realized that it was actually a lifetime.

34. 失望、委屈之类的事情，不需要解释。越解释越乱。真实社会经典语录全集。

34. Matters such as disappointment and injustice do not require explanation. The more you explain, the more confused it gets. Classic sayings from the real world.

35. 人生就是不断地放下，但令人痛心的是，没来得及好好与他们道别。

35. Life is about constantly letting go, but what is painful is that there hasn't been enough time to say a proper goodbye to them.

36. 我珍惜我跌倒时扶我的朋友，我会踩死我跌倒时踩我一脚的狗。

36. I cherish the friends who helped me when I fell, and I would trample to death the dog that stepped on me when I fell.

37. 你可以忘记你所受的伤害，但不要忘记它给你的教训。

37. You can forget the injuries you have suffered, but do not forget the lessons it has given you.

38. 走自己的道路，过自己的生活。人生，需要努力，更需要学会选择。

38. Go your own way and live your own life. In life, effort is necessary, but even more importantly, one needs to learn to make choices.

39. 做为一个纯爷们，一个堂堂正正的七尺男儿，你要顶天立地，人活一生你不能光溜溜的来，光溜溜的走，兄弟记住，什么财富、什么金钱，什么乱七八遭，我告诉你男人活着就得有面子，面子是什么，面子还是他妈的面子。当民工可能没有面子，但是当你挣了钱，回了家，那就是有面子。

39. As a pure man, a dignified seven-foot man, you should stand tall and firm. You can't come to this world and leave it naked. Remember, my brother, it doesn't matter what wealth, what money, or what chaos; I tell you that a man must have dignity in life. What is dignity? It's still dignity. Maybe being a construction worker doesn't have much dignity, but when you earn money and go home, that's dignity.

40. 我饿了。你有一条面包。给我一半。这是一个朋友。全都给我。这就是爱。你把面包藏起来，说你饿了。这就是社会。

40. I'm hungry. You have a loaf of bread. Give me half. That's a friend. Give it all to me. That's love. You hide the bread and say you're hungry. That's society.

41. 我不去多想是否能够成功，既然选择了那块绿洲，便不再瞻前顾后！

41. I do not overthink whether I can succeed. Since I have chosen that oasis, I will no longer look back or forward!

42. 其实很多事情从一开始就已经预料到了结局，以后所有的折腾都只是为了拖延被辞退的时间。

42. In fact, many things were predictable from the very beginning, and all the subsequent struggles were just attempts to delay the time of being fired.

43. 有的女孩，她在乎的不是你有没有钱，她在乎的是你会不会发奋努力，改变现状，遇见了就好好珍惜呀哥们!

43. Some girls, what they care about isn't whether you're rich or not, but whether you're willing to strive hard and change your situation. Treasure them well, guys, when you meet them!

44. 生活不会因为你软弱而对你微笑。

44. Life will not smile at you just because you are weak.

45. 如果你表现得不像你自己，人们不知道你的手在哪里，如果他们想帮助你。

45. If you act unlike yourself, people don't know where your hands are, if they want to help you.

46. 只要面对现实，就能超越。

46. As long as one faces reality, one can transcend.