在浩瀚的知识海洋中，正能量如同一束璀璨的阳光，照亮着我们的心灵。今天，让我们共同走进的世界，探寻那些温暖心灵、激励前行的故事。

In the vast ocean of knowledge, positive energy is like a radiant sunbeam, illuminating our souls. Today, let us all embark on a journey together to explore those heartwarming stories that warm our souls and inspire us to move forward.

1. 从现在开始，聪明点，不要问别人是想你还是爱你。如果我想你或者爱你，我自然会告诉你，但是如果我从你嘴里说出来，别人会骄傲，不会在乎你。不要太在意一些人，太在意一些事，顺其自然，用最好的心态去处理，因为这就是世界:在最重要的事情面前，我们往往是最没有价值的。

1. From now on, be smart, don't ask others if they miss you or love you. If I miss you or love you, I will naturally tell you. But if I hear it from your mouth, others may feel proud and not care about you. Don't take too much to heart some people and things, just go with the flow, and handle them with the best attitude you can. Because that's the world: in the face of the most important things, we are often the most valueless.

2. ☆、其实成熟稳重只是有的人给自己披上的一个外衣，他也希望能遇见一个人，然后脱下自己厚厚的伪装，可以真实的做自己。

2. ☆ In fact, maturity and stability are just a mask that some people wear for themselves, and they also hope to meet someone who will help them remove their thick disguise, so they can truly be themselves.

3. 53醉生，醉死，醉红尘，花开，花落，花无心。

3. Drunk in life, drunk in death, drunk in the world of passion, flowers bloom, flowers fall, flowers have no heart.

4. 41你应该明白的是，气质比年龄重要，微笑比颜值重要，开心比爱情重要。"不要贪恋没意义的人或事，拎着垃圾的手怎么腾得出来接礼物"。

4. What you should understand is that temperament matters more than age, a smile matters more than looks, and happiness matters more than love. "Don't be obsessed with people or things that have no meaning; how can you have your hands free to receive gifts if you're holding onto garbage?"

5. 突然觉得喜羊羊和西游记很像，毎集都被抓住了，然后肯定不会被吃掉…

5. Suddenly felt that Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf resembles Journey to the West, where every episode the characters are captured, but they are definitely not eaten...

6. 5而今仿佛是站在一个青黄不接的尴尬路口，失去的是招摇撞骗的痛快诉说，未曾获得的是笔走天涯的洗练淡定。

6. 5 Now it seems like we are standing at an awkward crossroads between green and yellow, losing the joy of flamboyant boasting, and yet to gain the refined composure of wandering the world with a brush in hand.

7. 40鸳鸯也会羡慕我们的恩爱，蜂蜜也会妒忌我们的甜蜜，双飞蝶也会为我们的缠绵而感动，亲爱的，有你真好!我要爱你一辈子!

7. Even the mandarin ducks would envy our love, the honey would be jealous of our sweetness, and the flying butterflies would be moved by our tender moments. Darling, having you is truly wonderful! I will love you for a lifetime!

8. 42我爱你，已爱了一世之久，而你是我唯一想吐露心事的人。

8. I love you, for a lifetime already, and you are the only person I want to confide in.

9. 11能够说出的委屈，便宜不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。——玄漪说

9. The grievances that can be expressed are not considered grievances; the lover who can be taken away is not considered a true lover. — Yuan Yi said.

10. 你不能决定生命的长度，但你可以控制它的质量；你不能控制天气，但你可以改变心情；你不能改变自己的外貌，但你可以露出笑容；你不能控制别人，但你可以控制自己；你无法预测明天，但你可以掌握今天；你不能赢得一切，但你可以用心去做一切。

10. You cannot decide the length of life, but you can control its quality; you cannot control the weather, but you can change your mood; you cannot change your appearance, but you can show a smile; you cannot control others, but you can control yourself; you cannot predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you cannot win everything, but you can do everything with heart.

11. 17不是每个人都能令自己变得开心快乐，只有爱自己的和自己爱的人才有资格令一切美好起来。也许这个人就在你身边，或者这个人在天涯海角。然而不管是在身边在天涯，缘分来了，真爱有了，她就能变成你生命的全部，也能让你心甘情愿的为他倾注一生的感情。因为爱，所以不会顾忌其他；因为快乐，所以才会永远相随……

11. Not everyone can make themselves happy and joyful. Only those who love themselves and those they love are qualified to make everything beautiful. Perhaps this person is right beside you, or they are somewhere at the ends of the earth. However, whether they are nearby or far away, when fate brings them together and true love is found, she can become the whole of your life, and you will be willing to pour your entire life into her. Because of love, one does not hesitate over other things; because of happiness, one will always be by each other's side...

12. 当困难来临的时候，请你举起你的左手，左手代表着方向，它不会向困难低头；当遇见挫折的时候，请你举起你的右手，右手代表着希望，它不会为挫折发愁。当左手拍响右手，我们的步伐就有节奏，当右手拍响左手，我们的力量、就有源头！

12. When difficulties come, please raise your left hand. The left hand represents direction, and it will not bow down to difficulties. When you encounter setbacks, please raise your right hand. The right hand represents hope, and it will not worry about setbacks. When the left hand claps the right hand, our steps have rhythm. When the right hand claps the left hand, our strength has a source!

13. 一个能从别人的想法看事情，能理解别人的精神活动的人，永远不用担心自己的未来。

13. A person who can view things from others' perspectives and understand others' mental activities will never have to worry about their own future.

14. 人最大的困难是认识自己，最容易的也是认识自己。很多时候，我们认不清自己，只因为我们把自己放在了一个错误的位置，给了自己一个错觉。所以，不怕前路坎坷，只怕从一开始就走错了方向。

14. The greatest difficulty for humans is to know themselves, and it is also the easiest. Many times, we cannot see ourselves clearly because we have placed ourselves in the wrong position, giving ourselves a misconception. Therefore, there is no need to fear the difficulties ahead, but rather to fear that we have taken the wrong direction from the very beginning.

15. 别一个劲的记住自己生日，那只是上帝在告诉你，恭喜你，离死亡又更近了一步。

15. Stop constantly thinking about your birthday; it's just a reminder from God that, congratulations, you've moved a step closer to death.

16. 不要总是不停地抱怨自己是一个奴隶，通过培养自己的高尚品格以及得体的举止，使自己超越奴隶的水平吧！在抱怨你是别人的奴隶之前，首先要确定你不是自己的奴隶。

16. Do not always keep complaining that you are a slave; instead, elevate yourself beyond the level of a slave by cultivating your noble character and becoming a person of graceful demeanor. Before you complain about being a slave to others, first make sure you are not a slave to yourself.

17. 35有时发现自已如一颗蒲公英，没有归宿，总是随风摇摆，风一吹，就不知自己将飘落何方，每一次停留，只是记忆的一份美好，总是付出自己的全部想要扎根于此，却不知那篇倪留之地早已开花结果，已没有了自己的一席之地，也许终生的目标只是在寻找一个归宿，但却每次都被满怀的期待扎的遍体鳞伤，也许只是已习惯了那股悲伤，在有风的日子里，让我随风飘扬。

17. Sometimes, I find myself like a dandelion, without a destination, always swaying with the wind. The moment the wind blows, I don't know where I'll drift off to. Each stop is only a beautiful memory. I always give my all to take root here, yet I don't realize that the place I've left behind has already blossomed and yielded fruit, leaving no space for me. Perhaps my lifelong goal is only to find a place to belong, but I am always wounded by the满怀 of expectations. Maybe I've just become accustomed to that sadness, allowing myself to float with the wind on days when there is a breeze.

18. 每人心中都应有两盏灯光，一盏是希望的灯光；一盏是勇气的灯光。有了这两盏灯光，我们就不怕海上的黑暗和风涛的险恶了。

18. Each person should have two lamps in their hearts, one is the light of hope, and the other is the light of courage. With these two lights, we will not fear the darkness of the sea and the dangers of the storms.

19. 10天苍苍，野茫茫，我是你心中的灰太狼；心暖暖，话甜甜，你是我心中的喜羊羊；就让我来保护你（ 闪点），爱你一切没商量！

19. Ten days, the sky is vast, the wild is vast, I am the grey wolf in your heart; Heart is warm, words are sweet, you are the happy goat in my heart; Let me protect you (Spark), love everything about you without a second thought!

20. 13总会有适合你的人，在对的时刻，对的地点等着你。愿咱们都能找到最合适自己的人相伴终身。在最美的年华遇到你，是我的走运。

20. 13 There will always be someone suitable for you, waiting at the right moment and the right place. May we all find the most suitable person to accompany us throughout our lives. Meeting you in the most beautiful years of my life is my good fortune.

21. 4如果有一天你走的太倦，只要一转身，我的祝福就在你身边，不管离多远，不管多少年，化这祝福为蓝星点点，闪在晨曦，闪在日暮，闪在你1我想把自己的呼吸和心跳交给你保管，不知道你是否愿意？

21. 4 If one day you walk too tired, just a turn, my blessings are right by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, transform these blessings into a starry sky, twinkling in the dawn, twinkling at dusk, twinkling in my thoughts. I want to entrust my breath and heartbeat to you, do not know if you are willing?

22. 15在男人已经下决心出手时，女人只能仔细看着，千万不要阻止男人的决心……

22. When a man has already made up his mind to act, a woman can only watch carefully, and absolutely never hinder a man's resolve...

23. 35他给你的礼物，很多都是你曾经表示过的。

23. Many of the gifts he gave you were things you had expressed interest in before.

24. 学习是我生活的主旋律。校园里轻快而稳定的生活节奏让我感到充实和快乐。伴着黎明温暖的阳光，听着校园演播厅的广播，捧着一本书，静静地坐在校园的一个角落里，一边看书一边感受清晨清新空气的清新。

24. Learning is the main theme of my life. The light and stable rhythm of life on campus fills me with fulfillment and happiness. Accompanied by the warm sunshine of dawn, listening to the broadcast from the campus broadcasting studio, holding a book, I sit quietly in a corner of the campus, reading while feeling the freshness of the morning's crisp air.

25. 10我眷恋与你那么一瞬间，那么近距离的呼吸。

25. 10 I cherish that moment of affection with you, so close, breathing together.

26. 21原来爱情七步曲，初识—甜蜜—无趣—腻烦—厌倦—逃避—再见。

26. 21 The original love ballad consists of seven steps: initial acquaintance — sweetness — boredom — annoyance — fatigue — avoidance — goodbye.

27. 48你是谁朝思暮想的笔尖少年、在绝城的荒途里辗转成歌。

27. 48 You are the boy with the pen that I think of day and night, turning into a song as you wander through the desolate roads of a city without hope.

28. 所谓成长，就是逼着你一个人，踉踉跄跄的受伤，跌跌撞撞的坚强 。

28. So called growth is forcing you to get hurt alone, limping with injuries, and stumbling into strength.

29. 31真正的爱情不是她怎么对你好，而是不管你有多少缺点，她都不会离开你，爱是不离不弃的，不管发生什么都不会说出分手，永不言弃……

29. 31 True love is not how she treats you, but how she never leaves you regardless of your flaws. Love is about staying together and never giving up, no matter what happens, never saying goodbye, never giving up...

30. 32我们像曾经的曾经一样寒暄点头，却不能像曾经一样牵手拥抱。

30. 32 We greet each other with the same casual nods as before, but we can't hold hands or embrace as we used to.

31. 2垃圾是放错位置的宝藏，懂得利用便是最好。

31. 2 Waste is treasure mislaid; knowing how to utilize it is the best.

32. 27曾经只是一场骗局，他让我们都伤的很深。

32. 27 was once just a scam, and it deeply hurt us all.

33. 看你的网名一次次改变，就连换个英文的我也要去翻译下。

33. Seeing your online name change repeatedly, even changing it to English, I have to translate it.

34. 20看着世间的流逝，我们也在慢慢的变得成熟。

34. As we watch the world's passage, we are also slowly maturing.

35. 毅力可以征服世界上任何一座高峰。

35. Perseverance can conquer any peak in the world.

36. 曾经被定义为坎坷:它常常穿越人生的道路，考验人的意志。坎坷会把弱者打倒，但对强者来说，是攀登理想高峰的一步。应对成长，勇敢理解，不要无所事事是空虚和自我衰老，包括叹息一生。

36. Once defined as rugged: it often crosses the paths of life, testing one's willpower. Rough patches can knock down the weak, but for the strong, they are a step towards climbing the peak of ideals. To face growth, be brave in understanding, and do not be idle, for idleness is emptiness and self-aging, including sighing through a lifetime.

37. ☆、其实那个人他不是不爱你，只是以为你不会离开所以恃宠而骄，当你表现出一点想要离开的念头，他就会害怕了。

37. ☆ In fact, that person does not not love you; he just thought you wouldn't leave, so he became complacent and took advantage of your affection. When you show even a hint of wanting to leave, he becomes afraid.

38. 人生的路，就像胃里的肠子，转千回，终于走到尽头。

38. The path of life is like the intestines in the stomach, winding through a thousand turns, eventually reaching its end.

39. 54有时候我真的想找一个和你说再见的机会。

39. 54 Sometimes I really wish I had an opportunity to say goodbye to you.

40. 44爱像一阵风，吹完它就走。你唱着，我却想说，爱是一阵风，伴着歌吹来了，悄无声息。爱是什么，一丝好感。一种无所谓的，没有开始，没有结局的旅程吗？

40. 44 Love is like a breeze, blowing away and leaving nothing behind. You are singing, but I want to say, love is a breeze, it comes with the song, silently and without a sound. What is love? A mere sensation of liking. A journey that is aimless, without a beginning or an end?

41. 顺境中的好运,为人们所希冀;逆境中的好运,则为人们所惊奇。---培根

41. Good fortune in prosperous times is what people wish for; good fortune in adverse times is what surprises people. --- Bacon

42. 33最感动时刻，来自被朋友想起；最美时刻，源于想起朋友。没有约定，却有默契。一线网络，流淌着我们的心情；一段心情，飘飞着心絮的痕迹；一份友情，彼此永远珍藏在心底！

42. The most touching moment is when remembered by friends; the most beautiful moment comes from remembering friends. There was no prior agreement, yet there was an unspoken understanding. A thread of the internet flows with our emotions; a piece of emotion carries the traces of heartstrings; a friendship, forever treasured in the hearts of both!

43. ☆、其实男人也像女人一样，也想寻找一个温暖的港湾，所以在爱人面前才表现出比较真实的一面。

43. ☆ In fact, men are also like women, they also want to find a warm harbor, that's why they show a more genuine side in front of their loved ones.

44. 52爱和不爱其实没有什么关系。一个人带给你的是伤害，还是改变，还是你的奇迹，或是你的真实。或许都不是，有时候带给你的仅仅是救赎般的简单的爱。那些爱，却是用另一种最小的伤害来相互快乐和救赎彼此。墨说：有一种快乐，我并不贪婪。但同时因为那些伤害，也只好让自己远离。

44. 52 Whether one loves or not is actually irrelevant. What a person brings to you is either harm, change, a miracle, or your truth. Perhaps it's none of these; sometimes what they bring you is just a simple love like a redemption. Such love, however, is exchanged with another form of the smallest harm, bringing joy and redemption to each other. Mo says: There is a kind of happiness, I am not greedy. But at the same time, because of those harms, I can only keep myself away.

45. 41那天、你信誓旦旦地说爱我。今天、任凭我怎么挽留，你都无动于衷。你转身离开的那一刻，所有海誓山盟，你通通抛在了脑后。你有想过我吗？有想过你的承诺吗？

45. On that 41st day, you solemnly declared your love for me. Today, no matter how hard I try to hold on to you, you remain unmoved. In that moment when you turned to leave, you discarded all your promises of love. Have you ever thought of me? Have you ever thought about your promises?

46. ☆、爱你的人都体现在细节里，那些刀子嘴豆腐心的人，其实比他表现的还要多爱你一百倍。

46. ☆ Those who love you show it in the details. People with sharp tongues and soft hearts actually love you a hundred times more than they show.

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48. 发布时间：2020-06-04

47. Your 48. Release Time: June 4, 2020

49. ☆、我愿在你面前卸下所有伪装、卸下所有防备，只因为我爱你！当一个毫无保留的在你面前展示软肋，那他肯定心里有你，不然他怎么放心让你知道他需要你

49. ☆ I am willing to strip away all my masks and defenses in front of you, simply because I love you! When someone shows their vulnerabilities without reservation in front of you, it's definitely because they have you in their heart. Otherwise, how could they trust you to know that they need you?

50. 花蕾有点苦，直到花香四溢。

50. The bud is a bit bitter, until the fragrance spreads widely.

51. 32有时发现自已如一颗蒲公英，没有归宿，总是随风摇摆，风一吹，就不知自己将飘落何方，每一次停留，只是记忆的一份美好，总是付出自己的全部想要扎根于此，却不知那篇倪留之地早已开花结果，已没有了自己的一席之地，也许终生的目标只是在寻找一个归宿，但却每次都被满怀的期待扎的遍体鳞伤，也许只是已习惯了那股悲伤，在有风的日子里，让我随风飘扬。

51. Sometimes I find myself like a dandelion, without a place to call home, always swaying with the wind. When the wind blows, I have no idea where I will drift. Each stop is just a beautiful memory. I always give my all to take root here, but I don't know that the land I left behind has already bloomed and borne fruit, leaving no space for me. Perhaps my lifelong goal is just to find a place to belong, but each time I am pierced with expectations, leaving me wounded all over. Perhaps I have just grown accustomed to that sadness, and on windy days, let me float with the wind.

52. 通往胜利的道路是曲折的。就像山间的小路，这条路有时会回头，然后向前延伸；就像山丘间的小路，走这条路的人需要耐心和毅力。累了就在路边休息的人不会赢。

52. The path to victory is winding. Just like the paths in the mountains, this road sometimes turns back before extending forward; just like the paths between hills, those who walk this road need patience and perseverance. Those who rest by the roadside when they are tired will not win.

53. 当你老到哪里都去不了的时候，坐在摇椅上，看着秋天落叶一片一片飘落，铺满了金黄和忧伤的美丽。慢慢品味这世上独一无二的属于自己的酒，然后，当你心平气和地回首往事时，你会有一种真正的平静和慰藉。

53. When you have grown old and cannot go anywhere, sit in the rocking chair, watching the autumn leaves falling one by one, covering the beautiful ground with gold and melancholy. Savor this unique wine that belongs only to you in the world, and then, when you calmly look back at the past, you will have a true sense of peace and solace.

54. 59后来，我还是怀念当初在你身边那个傻傻的自己。后来，我学会了保护和疼惜自己，却觉得曾经那个不管不顾的我才最可爱。后来，我们在感情中越来越收放自如，却再回不去那年的怦然心动。

54. 59 Later, I still miss the foolish version of myself back then by your side. Later, I learned to protect and cherish myself, but I found that the carefree me of the past was the most adorable. Later, in our relationship, we became more and more skilled at controlling our emotions, but we could never return to that year of heart-pounding love.

55. 痛不痛只有自己知道，变没变只有自己才懂得……

55. Whether it hurts or not is known only to oneself, whether it has changed or not is understood only by oneself...

56. 26爱的默契和灵魂，彼此信任，愿意把自己交给能保护好的他。

56. 26 The默契 of love and the soul, trusting each other, willing to entrust oneself to him who can protect well.

57. 人应该趁着年轻去疯狂 只是不要忘了回家的路

57. People should go wild while they are young, but don't forget the way home.

58. 原来，曾经亲密无间的两个人，会连路人都不如。

58. It turns out that two people who were once close and intimate can be less than even strangers.

59. ☆、那个对我说我一直在的那个我人，从来就没有在过；那个说要带我去属于我们的无人的海边的人也早已经离开了；那个说我生日时带我去厦门鼓浪屿的人也早已离开了；那个说不管有何种困难终究会跟我走到底的人现在也不在了！！！

59. ☆, The person who told me that I was always there never actually was; the person who said they would take me to the deserted seaside that belongs to us has long since left; the person who said they would bring me to Xiamen's Gulangyu Island for my birthday has also long since left; the person who said they would walk with me through any difficulties to the end is no longer here either!!!

60. 我们都有自己的沙漠。我们都是黄金和淘金者。我们既是种子，也是播种者。很多时候，我们不能成为闪耀的金子，但我们可以成为希望的种子。承担风险需要勇气，播种阴影需要毅力。黄金在被动等待，或许永远与沙砾互动；种子是用心活动的，随时可以从土里出来，迎着风雨。

60. We all have our own deserts. We are both gold and gold prospectors. We are both seeds and sowers. Many times, we cannot become shining gold, but we can be seeds of hope. Risk-taking requires courage, and sowing shadows requires perseverance. Gold waits passively, perhaps forever interacting with sand and gravel; seeds are actively nurtured, always ready to emerge from the soil, facing the storms and rain.

61. 如果你想匆忙得到你需要的东西，如果你一时冲动轻举妄动，你会很不幸。当事情发生的时候，你要开动脑筋，多思考，才能成功。

61. If you want to get what you need in a hurry, and if you act impulsively without thinking, you will be very unfortunate. When things happen, you need to use your brain, think more, and only then can you succeed.

62. 潇洒与欢笑，在这个天真无邪的年代，每个人都渴望拥有，生活的乐趣，必须在痛苦中打磨，酝酿出辉煌的人生。因为，潇洒和欢笑不是生活的全部，痛苦成了我生命中一道亮丽的风景！

62. Grace and laughter, in this innocent era, everyone yearns to possess. The joy of life must be honed through pain and fermentation to create a brilliant life. For, grace and laughter are not all there is to life; pain has become a bright and beautiful scenery in my life!

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63. Editor: Goldfish Under the Sea Clicks: [Number of clicks]

64. 尊重自己高于别人，尊重自己低于别人。

64. Respect oneself more than others, and respect oneself less than others.

65. 夜深人静的时候，我总是喜欢听欧阳菲菲的歌。有了那颗心，我害怕一切，害怕生活。落叶多情，云有意，人生苦短。为什么你拿着仇恨的剑和愤怒的刀在世界上狂舞？学会放下，学会尊重，学会爱。

65. When the night is deep and quiet, I always like to listen to the songs of Feifei Ouyang. With that heart, I fear everything, I fear life. Leaves are affectionate, clouds have intention, and life is short. Why do you swing the sword of hatred and the knife of anger around the world? Learn to let go, learn to respect, and learn to love.

66. 18谋局自当如是，如果我们把成功的机会，都押在对手的选择上，那便是下下之法；做出何种选择，我们都有应对之道，那才能算掌控住大局。——海晏《琅琊榜》

66. 18. The strategy should be as follows: if we place all our success on the opponent's choices, that would be the worst approach; if we have a way to respond to any choice made, then we can truly say we have a grip on the overall situation. — Hai Yan, "The Legend of Zhen Huan"

67. 5不过是为了一个希望，何必把自己弄得遍体鳞伤。

67. 5 It's just for a hope, why trouble yourself to be all beat up?

68. 挫折是人生不可避免的事，一次次挫折来到你面前，你不应该退缩而是要想办法战胜它。只有在战胜挫折的过程中，你才会总结经验，这样经验才会越来越丰富。

68. Adversity is an inevitable part of life. When one setback after another comes your way, you should not retreat but rather find ways to overcome it. It is only through the process of overcoming adversity that you will be able to sum up experiences, and such experiences will become increasingly rich.

69. 花开若相惜，花落莫相离。人生最困难的不是努力，也不是奋斗，而是做出正确的抉择。生活原不苦，苦的是欲望过多；人生就是一条路，走一步有一步的景观。上帝不会眷顾谁，你有勇气放弃，才有机会得到。华丽的跌倒，胜过无谓的徘徊；哪怕败得彻底，就当赶上了命运的另一盛宴。

69. If flowers bloom, cherish them; if they fall, do not part. The greatest difficulty in life is not hard work or struggle, but making the right choices. Life itself is not bitter; it's the excessive desires that make it so. Life is a journey, each step revealing a new landscape. God does not favor anyone; only if you have the courage to let go, will you have a chance to gain. A splendid fall is better than aimless wandering; even if you are defeated thoroughly, treat it as if you have arrived at another feast of fate.

70. ☆、每个人都有幼稚的一面，但是不能成为一个男人不成熟，没担当的借口。

70. ☆ Each person has a childish side, but it cannot be an excuse for a man to be immature and irresponsible.

71. 21两个人吵架，先说对不起的人并不是认输了，并不是原谅了。他只是比对方，更珍惜这份感情。爱，不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学习并领悟用完美的眼光，欣赏一个不完美的人。专一不是一辈子只喜欢一个人，是喜欢一个人的时候一心一意。

71. When two people are arguing, the one who says "I'm sorry" first is not admitting defeat or forgiving the other. They are simply showing that they value the relationship more. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but about learning and understanding how to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect perspective. Loyalty is not about loving only one person for a lifetime, but about being fully committed when you love someone.