1. 把爱情投资在一个人身上，冒险；把爱情投资在很多人身上，危险。

1. Investing love in one person is an adventure; investing love in many people is a danger.

2. 经营自己的优点，能使你人生增值；经营你的短处，能使你人生贬值。

2. Cultivating your strengths can enhance the value of your life; managing your weaknesses can devalue your life.

3. 世界上只有想不通的人，没有走不通的路。

3. There are no roads that cannot be traversed in the world, only people who cannot find a way.

4. 人越是自得的事情，越爱隐躲，越是痛苦的事情越爱小题大作。

4. The more self-satisfied people are about something, the more they tend to hide it; the more painful something is, the more they tend to exaggerate it.

5. ldquo;总要为爱人着想，经得起爱人唠叨，理应对爱人谦让，男人应当总经理。

5. "Always think about the beloved, endure their nagging, and it is reasonable to show humility towards the beloved. Men should act as the general manager."

6. 对那些不成熟的人来说，他们永远都可以找到一些借口，以掩饰他们自身的某些缺点或不幸。?>

6. For those who are not mature, they can always find some excuses to cover up certain shortcomings or misfortunes of their own.

7. 天下最悲哀的人莫过于本身没有足以炫耀的优点，却又将其可怜的自卑感，以令人生厌的自大、自夸来掩饰。

7. The most pitiful people in the world are those who lack any commendable qualities to boast about, yet they cover their可怜 sense of inferiority with annoying arrogance and self-praise.

8. 三流的化妆是脸上的化妆；二流的化妆是精神的化妆；一流的化妆是生命的化妆。

8. Mediocre makeup is makeup on the face; good makeup is makeup of the spirit; first-rate makeup is makeup of life.

9. 努力接近那些了解你，信任你，鼓励你的人，这对于你日后的成功具有莫大的影响。

9. Strive to be close to those who understand you, trust you, and encourage you, as this can have a tremendous impact on your future success.

10. 一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么。

10. What one boasts about reveals what they lack inside.

11. 一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。

11. The more a person cares about a place, the more it becomes the source of their自卑.

12. 假如是棵小草，即使在最好的企业里，你也长不成大树。果真如此，不如历经风雨，把自己培养成名贵花卉。

12. Even if you were a small blade of grass, you couldn't grow into a mighty tree even in the best of enterprises. If that is indeed the case, why not endure the hardships and nurture yourself into a rare and exquisite flower.

13. 我们的疲劳通常不是由于工作本身，而是由于忧虑、紧张和不快。

13. Our fatigue is usually not due to the work itself, but to worries, tension, and unhappiness.

14. 我所学到的最大经验是，我们的思想最重要。如果我能了解你的思想，就能了解你这个人，因为你的思想造就了你这个人，通过改变自己的思想，我们就能改变自己的一生。

14. The greatest lesson I've learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand you as a person, because it is your thoughts that shape who you are. By changing our own thoughts, we can change the course of our entire lives.

15. 通常，当人们说出温和话语的时候，行为必然也会自然地反映出温和的态度，于是平和之心的力量也将从中孕育而生。

15. Generally, when people speak in gentle words, their behavior naturally reflects a gentle attitude, and the power of a peaceful heart will also be nurtured from within.

16. 我没有时间争吵，也没有时间后悔，没人能强迫我恨他们。我想到的是那些给我帮助的，善良的人们我将无以回报！

16. I have no time for arguing or regretting, and no one can force me to hate them. What I think of are those kind people who have helped me, for whom I have no way to repay!

17. 人的本性就是贪婪，但没有贪婪社会就不会进步。

17. Human nature is greedy, but without greed, society would not progress.

18. 能够把心中的烦闷向知心朋友倾吐的人，通常既是能够把握快乐，减少疲劳，精力充沛的人。

18. Those who can vent their inner frustrations to close friends are usually people who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue, and are full of vitality.

19. 思考时，要像一位智者；但讲话时，要像一位普通人。

19. When thinking, act like a wise person; but when speaking, act like an ordinary person.

20. 人有两只眼睛，全是平行的，所以应当同等看人；人的两只耳朵是分在两边的，所以不可偏听一面之词；人虽只有一颗心，然而有左右两个心房，所以做事不但要为自己想，也要为别人想。

20. Humans have two eyes, both parallel, so we should treat people equally; humans have two ears, located on both sides, so we should not only listen to one side's words; although humans only have one heart, there are two atria on the left and right, so when doing things, we should not only think of ourselves but also consider others.

21. 笨男人+笨女人=结婚；笨男人+聪明女人=离婚；聪明男人+笨女人=婚外情；聪明男人+聪明女人=浪漫爱情。

21. Stupid man + Stupid woman = Marriage; Stupid man + Smart woman = Divorce; Smart man + Stupid woman = Extramarital affair; Smart man + Smart woman = Romantic love.

22. 一个女人喜欢一个男人时，她希看听到谎言；当一个女人厌恶一个男人时，她希看听到真理。

22. When a woman likes a man, she hopes to hear lies; when a woman dislikes a man, she hopes to hear the truth.

23. 我们多数人的毛病是，当机会朝我们冲奔而来时，我们犹兀自闭着眼睛；很少人能够去追寻自己的机会，或甚至在绊倒时，还能看得见它。

23. The fault of most of us is that when opportunities come charging towards us, we stubbornly keep our eyes closed; very few people are able to pursue their own opportunities, or even see them when they stumble.

24. 人不是因为没有信念而失败，而是因为不能把信念化成行动，并且坚持到底。

24. People do not fail because they lack beliefs, but because they cannot transform their beliefs into action and persevere to the end.

25. 心理学家斯金纳实验证明："我们采取批评的方法并不能让别人产生永久性的改变，相反，只会引起嫉恨"

25. The psychologist B.F. Skinner has experimentally proven: "Using a critical approach does not lead others to make permanent changes; on the contrary, it only fosters resentment."

26. 要想成功，必须具备的条件就是，用你的欲望提升自己的热忱，用你的毅力磨平高山，同时还要相信自己一定会成功。

26. The necessary conditions for success are to elevate your enthusiasm with your desires, to smooth out mountains with your perseverance, and at the same time, to believe in your own certainty of success.

27. 你如果在别人责备你之前，就承认错误。对方想要说的话，你已替他说了，他就没有话可说，那你有99%的机会获得他的谅解。

27. If you admit your mistake before others start blaming you, you've already said what they were going to say, leaving them with nothing to say. In that case, you have a 99% chance of gaining their forgiveness.

28. 一个人想平庸，阻拦者很少；一个人想出众，阻拦者很多。不少平庸者与四周人关系融洽，不少出众者与四周人关系紧张。

28. It is rarely opposed when someone desires to be ordinary; however, many obstacles are encountered when someone aspires to be exceptional. Many ordinary individuals have harmonious relationships with those around them, while many exceptional ones find their relationships strained with those around them.

29. 人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

29. The meaning of life does not lie in having a good hand of cards, but in playing a bad hand well.

30. 一个人幸运的条件，实在是他有能力改变自己。

30. The real condition for a person's luck is their ability to change themselves.

31. 真诚并不意味着要指责别人的缺点，但意味着一定不恭维别人的缺点。

31. Sincerity does not mean to point out others' shortcomings, but it definitely means not to flatter others' shortcomings.

32. 世界上1%的人是吃小亏而占大便宜，而99%的人是占小便宜吃大亏。大多数成功人士都源于那1%。

32. Only 1% of the world's population gains big benefits by enduring small losses, while 99% of people suffer big losses for small gains. Most successful individuals come from that 1%.

33. 如果你被人批评，那是因为批评你能给他一种满足感。这也说明你是有成就的，而且引人注意。小人常为伟人的缺点或过失而得意。不合理的批评往往是一种掩饰了的赞美。

33. If you are criticized, it is because criticism can give him a sense of satisfaction. This also indicates that you have achieved something and are noticeable. Small-minded people often take delight in the flaws or mistakes of great individuals. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised form of praise.

34. 世界上唯一能影响他人的方法，就是谈论他所要的，而且还要告诉他，如何才能得到他所要的。

34. The only way to influence others in the world is to talk about what they want, and also to tell them how to get what they want.

35. 真正的财富是一种思维方式，而不是一个月收进数字。

35. True wealth is a mindset, not a monthly income number.

36. 钱可以帮穷人解决题目，却帮富人制造题目。

36. Money can help the poor solve problems, but it can also create problems for the rich.