1. 忍耐的女人，男人很少看在眼里，还有可能要轻视。忍耐的男人，女人又说他没有用，一样看不起。

1. Women who endure are often overlooked by men, and there's a chance they might be belittled. Men who endure are said to be useless by women, and they are also looked down upon.

2. 如果有可能，尽量留长发。短发确实打理起来容易一些，但始终少了些女人味。

2. If possible, try to keep your hair long. Short hair is indeed easier to manage, but it always lacks a certain feminine charm.

3. 一个女人就是一朵花。有的女人像水仙花，这样的女人是最适合娶回来放在家里的，她不张扬，也不娇贵；她很安心于小小的环境，并愿意为此开出一片风景。

3. A woman is like a flower. Some women resemble narcissus flowers, and these women are the most suitable to be brought home and cherished. They are not showy, nor are they overrefined; they are content with a small environment, and are willing to create a beautiful scene for it.

4. 你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？

4. You can love a man, but don't sacrifice all of yourself in the process. No man is worth pleasing at the cost of your life. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

5. 偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。

5. Occasionally, I sing to myself. Whether it's good or bad doesn't matter, as long as I feel cheerful.

6. 如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。

6. If a man starts to treat you indifferently, please leave him. Don't be hesitant for a man who doesn't cherish you, and there's no need to continue to pour out your affection and love.

7. 不要在路上无所顾忌的吃东西，有失淑女风范。

7. Do not eat carelessly on the road, as it is unbecoming of a lady.

8. 没有太阳，花朵不会开放；没有爱便没有幸福；没有妇女也就没有爱，没有母亲，既不会有诗人，也不会有英雄。

8. Without the sun, flowers will not bloom; without love, there is no happiness; without women, there is no love, and without mothers, neither poets nor heroes will exist.

9. 一个女子最能使人心醉的迷人之处，莫过于在一个男子汉大丈夫的胸怀前表现出来的娇弱。

9. The most charming and intoxicating quality of a woman is her display of fragility before the broad chest of a manly, strong man.

10. 做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。

10. Be a wise woman. Learn to face life with composure. Approach life positively, and it will surely turn out as you wish, just like tomorrow morning, the sun will still rise on time.

11. 如果很不幸遇上了一个以上床为目的，对你始乱终弃的男人，请先微笑，然后鄙视他：你是我这辈子遇见的最龌龊最无能的男人。然后用最美的方式头也不要回的离开。

11. If you unfortunately encounter a man who has the purpose of bedding you and then abandons you, please first smile, then look down upon him: You are the most despicable and incompetent man I have ever met in my life. Then leave with the most graceful manner, without even turning your head.

12. 平和的女人，要求不是那么多，不会给自己很多压力，当然，也不会给男人很多压力，所以，平和的女人，总是让男人很轻松，能够成为男人心灵休憩的港口。

12. A peaceful woman has modest expectations and does not place excessive pressure on herself. Of course, she also does not put too much pressure on men, so a peaceful woman always makes men feel at ease, becoming a harbor where men can rest their souls.

13. 一个有情趣的女人，往往是一个快乐的女人，至少也是一个能够创造快乐的女人，这样女人，男人乐而往之，怎能不留恋？

13. A woman with a taste for the finer things in life is often a happy woman, at least one who can create happiness. Such a woman is delightful to men, how could one not be reluctant to part with her?

14. 购买物件可以讨价还价，但如果对方不小心多找了你钱，要退回去。不要因贪小失去了做人的意义。

14. Items for purchase can be negotiated, but if the other party mistakenly gives you more money, you should return it. Don't lose the meaning of being a person just because of small gains.

15. 平和的女人，要求不是那么多，不会动不动就嫉妒别人的富贵和幸运。

15. A peaceful woman, with fewer demands, is not prone to jealousy over others' wealth and good fortune.

16. 温柔的女人，总是微笑着去唱生活的歌谣，从不抱怨生活给予的磨难。把每一次的失败都归结为一次尝试，不去自卑；把每一次的成功都想象成一种幸运，不去自傲。

16. The gentle woman always sings the ballads of life with a smile, never complaining about the hardships life has given. She considers each failure as a trial, never feeling inferior; she imagines each success as a stroke of luck, never feeling proud.

17. 女人是水，不同的水质能泡出不同口感的茶；男人是茶，不同质地却能让水拥有不同的味道。

17. Women are like water, different qualities of water can brew different-tasting tea; men are like tea, different textures can give water different flavors.

18. 善良的女人，才不会让男人担心害怕，男人对她才会念念不忘。在这样的女人面前，男人才不会有戒心，才能够觉得安全。

18. A kind woman will not cause a man to worry or fear, and he will remember her deeply. In the presence of such a woman, a man will not feel on guard and will feel secure.

19. 无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻，两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。

19. No matter how luxurious a wedding may be, it does not guarantee a happy marriage. Whether two people can live together harmoniously throughout their lives has nothing to do with the scale of the banquet or the amount of jewelry they have.

20. 真正的好女人，应该是爱的使者，温柔的化身。也只有是温柔的女人，才是最让人心动、最美丽的女人，暗香长留，清美幽远！

20. A truly good woman should be an ambassador of love, the embodiment of gentleness. It is only the gentle woman who is the most heartwarming and the most beautiful, leaving a lingering fragrance, exuding a serene and distant charm!

21. 任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。

21. In any case, do not speak ill of others behind their backs. If you must say something, speak well of them.

22. 女人们不断为了爱情而自寻短见，但是一般说来她们总是做得很小心，不让**成为事实。通常这只是为了引起她们情人的怜悯或者**而作的一个姿态。

22. Women keep attempting suicide for love, but generally, they are very careful not to let it actually happen. Usually, it is just a gesture made to elicit the pity or concern of their lovers.

23. 买适合自己的衣服、饰物。适合你的就是最好的，所以不必羡慕别人的行头。

23. Buy clothes and accessories that suit yourself. What suits you is the best, so there's no need to envy others' attire.

24. 没有丑女人，只有懒女人。不愿意用时间来装扮自己的女人，请不要对其他的美丽女人心生嫉妒不满。

24. There are no ugly women, only lazy ones. Women who are unwilling to spend time on their appearance, please do not harbor jealousy and discontent towards other beautiful women.

25. 家里备常用药，判断不了病情的时候，赶快去医院。

25. Keep a stock of common medicines at home, and if you can't determine the illness, hurry to the hospital.

26. 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

26. No matter what, it is never excusable for a person to deliberately fall into decline. The more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself.

27. 善良的女人，才懂得为自己留一条后路，不把事情做绝。

27. A kind woman knows to leave herself a way out and does not push things to their extreme.

28. 你们不见美貌的青年穿戴过分反而折损了他们的美么？你不见山村妇女，穿着朴实无华的衣服反比盛装的妇女要美得多么。

28. Have you not seen that young men with excessive adornment actually detract from their beauty? And have you not noticed that the women in the mountains, dressed in simple and unadorned clothes, are far more beautiful than those dressed in finery?

29. 不要24小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。

29. Do not think of the same person for 24 hours straight. Share some of your thoughts with your family and friends.

30. 女人的自然本质有多少不如我们男人的地方，就有多少优越于我们的地方。?>

30. To what extent a woman's natural essence is inferior to that of men, to that same extent she is superior to us.

31. 如果女人像散文一样，那么她一定是安详和美丽的。即使她没有雍容华丽的外表，但是眉宇之间流淌的气质一定会淡雅，简约，给人一种非常愉悦的视觉享受。

31. If a woman is like a prose, she must be serene and beautiful. Even if she doesn't have a dignified and luxurious appearance, the temperament that flows from her eyebrows is sure to be elegant, simple, and offer a very pleasant visual enjoyment.

32. 如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔。

32. If you like someone, tell them as long as it is allowed. You might not get an answer, but at least you have made an effort, and won't have regrets in the future.

33. 要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐，一不抱怨，二不解释，绝对是个人才。

33. To live beautifully requires great patience; neither complain nor explain — that's truly a talent.

34. 如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。

34. If you decide to leave someone, act quickly and cut off the tangled mess; if you decide to fall in love with someone, take a bit more time to see if it is suitable for you.

35. 已经错失的好男人不要去后悔，他们不属于你，于是你要睁大眼睛再找一个。

35. Don't regret missing out on good men who have already slipped away; they don't belong to you, so you should open your eyes wide and find another one.

36. 穿有质感的衣服，找有质量的男朋友。他不一定很有钱，但是一定要能让你有安全感和开心。

36. Wear clothes with texture, and find a boyfriend of quality. He doesn't have to be very wealthy, but he must be able to provide you with a sense of security and happiness.

37. 万一脆弱的不行了，请选好哭泣的对象，不要随便借肩膀和胸膛。

37. In case the fragile one becomes too much to bear, please choose the right person to cry on, and do not just lend your shoulder or chest carelessly.

38. 如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。

38. If any man has said something embarrassing to you, forgive him. A man who is forgiven will eventually regret losing a girlfriend as宽容 as you.

39. 相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。

39. Believe in love at first sight, believe that there is always someone waiting for you silently at the corner of time. Just remember to keep your eyes bright and look carefully.

40. 要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。

40. Believe in yourself, treat yourself kindly, and let your life be colorful and vibrant. Do not misinterpret this as a means to make someone regret, but rather to make your own life more extraordinary.

41. 认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。

41. Take your work seriously. Work may not bring you the same excitement as love, but at least it can ensure that you have food to eat and a place to live. Uncertain love cannot provide these things, so work diligently and earnestly.

42. 平和的女人，总能让男人感觉到安宁、放松，让男人在伤心的时候、疲倦的时候甚至太过激动的时候，都想要和她在一起。

42. A peaceful woman always makes men feel at ease and relaxed. She is the one men want to be with when they are heartbroken, tired, or even overly excited.

43. 有一个最少两年内需要达成的目标。有目标的人生不会太无聊。

43. There is a goal that needs to be achieved within at least two years. A life with goals will not be too boring.

44. 居室要有鲜花，记得换水。如果要出差，清理之后再出门，不要回来面对一屋子的蚊子和虫子。

44. The room should have flowers, and remember to change the water. If you need to go on a business trip, clean up before leaving and don't come back to face a room full of mosquitoes and insects.

45. 想吃就吃。为了保持身材让自己饿着，那是世界上最愚蠢的美丽。

45. Eat when you feel like it. Starving yourself to maintain your figure is the most foolish kind of beauty in the world.

46. 不必为某个人选择销毁ID或者失踪。爱和不爱都将继续生活，结束就好好结束，何必苦了自己？

46. There's no need to destroy an ID or disappear for someone. Whether you love or don't love, life will go on; if it ends, end it well. Why put yourself through the pain?

47. 一个女人就是一朵花。有的女人如牡丹，牡丹气度高雅，牡丹之美，美在霸气。她天生是花之王，她只存在于彼岸，旁人永远无法到达。

47. A woman is a flower. Some women are like peonies, with an elegant and dignified demeanor. The beauty of the peony lies in its domineering charm. She is naturally the queen of flowers, existing only on the other shore, unreachable by others.

48. 女人吸引男人的地方，首先是赏心悦目，而不是美丽。因为有些女人过于注重自己的美丽，反而总是与环境不那么协调。

48. The places where a woman attracts a man are first and foremost pleasing to the eye, rather than beauty. Because some women place too much emphasis on their beauty, which反而 often results in them not being well-coordinated with the environment.

49. 一个懂得矜持的女人，往往最能够激发男人呵护女人的英雄情节，能够体现男人的风度，能够让男人有强烈的疼爱这个女人的欲望。

49. A woman who knows how to be reserved often inspires men's protective heroism the most, demonstrates a man's demeanor, and creates a strong desire in men to fiercely love this woman.

50. 一个女人，如果对于自己得形象懈怠了、放松了，邋遢了，那么她得魅力也就减弱了。

50. A woman, if she becomes lazy, relaxed, and untidy about her appearance, then her charm will also diminish.

51. 女人的世界是丰富多彩的世界，没有女人的世界是缺乏活力的世界。

51. The world of women is a colorful and vibrant world; a world without women is a world lacking in vitality.

52. 有一些保养，有一些气质，有一点内涵，有一点智慧，有一片爱心，有博大的胸怀和女性本能的慈爱心。这样的女人永远不老，永远美丽！

52. With some maintenance, some temperament, a bit of内涵, a touch of wisdom, a heart full of love, a vast compassion, and the innate maternal instinct of a woman. Such a woman will never age, will always be beautiful!

53. 对于一个决不肯随便失身于人的妇女，**是骄傲的，**比思想更不容易消除怨愤。

53. For a woman who would never casually give herself to anyone, **proud** is a feeling that is harder to erase than resentment.

54. 心血来潮时，可以帮他洗衣服，买袜子，但是不要自作多情帮他买内裤。他爱穿什么就让他穿什么。

54. When you feel like it, you can help him wash his clothes and buy socks, but don't overdo it by buying his underwear. Let him wear whatever he likes.

55. 女人跟男人一样的也是人，也是独立的人。女人有拒绝大男人沙文主义的权利，有拒绝当男人附件的权利，有拒绝被男人骑到头上吆五喝六的权利，有主动提出离婚的权利。

55. Women are also human beings like men, and they are independent individuals. Women have the right to refuse patriarchal chauvinism, the right to refuse to be an appendage to men, the right to refuse to be bossed around by men, and the right to initiate a divorce.

56. 两个人的适配是一种内心感觉，而不是一种视觉，千万不要因满足视觉而忽视感觉。

56. Compatibility between two people is a feeling within the heart, not a visual aspect; never ignore the feeling for the sake of satisfying the visual.

57. 常常去运动。做个安静的林妹妹固然很好，但是身体健康更重要。

57. Often go for a workout. It's nice to be a quiet and reserved Lin sister, but physical health is more important.

58. 对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关你的事。

58. Firmly say no or refuse the goodwill and concern from a suitor you don't like. Even if he says: It's none of your business.

59. 宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞就随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。

59. Better to be without than to have too much. Don't casually grab a man just because you're lonely; it's unfair to both of you and too lacking in responsibility.

60. 女人如花，花一样的美丽；女人如花，花一样的坚强；女人如花，花一样的智慧；女人如花，花一样的胸怀；女人如花，花一样的人生。

60. Women are like flowers, as beautiful as flowers; women are as strong as flowers; women are as wise as flowers; women are as broad-minded as flowers; women are as life-like as flowers.

61. 做一个女人要做得像一副画，不要做一件衣裳，被男人试完了又试，却没人买，试残了旧了，五折抛售还有困难。

61. To be a woman is to be like a painting, not a dress that men try on and try on, yet no one wants to buy, and when it's worn out and old, even selling it at half price is difficult.

62. 女人，最怕的莫过于衰老。残酷的是，红颜不可能永驻女人的脸上。岁月易逝，青春会老。朝如雾暮成云，女人不能永远年青，但可以越来越美丽。

62. Women fear aging the most. The cruel fact is that beauty cannot forever remain on a woman's face. Time flies, youth grows old. The morning mist turns into clouds by evening, women cannot stay young forever, but they can become more beautiful with each passing day.

63. 这个社会变化太多，我们不要让自己的心也荒来荒去，懂得保持内心平和的女人，就象闹市中的一间静谧的茶馆，让人忍不住想歇足休息。

63. This society undergoes too many changes; we should not let our hearts wander aimlessly. A woman who knows how to maintain inner peace is like a serene teahouse in the midst of a bustling city, making people want to take a break and rest.

64. 学会承受痛苦。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你己说，别人会看得到。

64. Learn to endure pain. Some words are meant to be kept buried deep within, and some suffering is best forgotten quietly. Once you've experienced it, you grow, and that's enough for you to know. Many changes do not require you to speak them, others will see them.

65. 找专人做色彩搭配建议。不要整天灰头灰脸，让自己灿烂点，别浪费青春和娇美身材。

65. Seek professional advice for color matching. Don't spend your days looking gloomy; let yourself shine, don't waste your youth and youthful figure.

66. 出门前，记得照镜子，检查一下着装是否协调。如果时间太紧，建议睡觉前就选好第二天要穿的衣服。

66. Before leaving the house, remember to check the mirror and ensure your attire is coordinated. If you're in a hurry, it's recommended to choose the clothes you'll wear the next day before going to bed.