1. 于是从隋朝开始，正式有了科举制度。从此，中国就进入了一个上千年来选官相对公平的阶段。今天那么多人说高考不好，其实你也想不出比高考更好的制度，总不能退回到“举孝廉”，谁孝顺谁上大学，也不能退回到九品中正制，谁家世好，谁上大学。所以高考还算基本公平，科举也是。

1. Thus, starting from the Sui Dynasty, the official imperial examination system was established. From then on, China entered a relatively fair stage of selecting officials that lasted for over a thousand years. Today, so many people say that the college entrance examination is not good, but actually, you can't think of a better system than the college entrance examination. It can't go back to the "recommendation of filial piety and integrity," where those who are filial get to go to university, nor can it go back to the "Nine Ranks Official Selection System," where those from good families get to go to university. Therefore, the college entrance examination is relatively fair, and so is the imperial examination system.

2. 选爱人的时候，选能力很重要，选态度更重要。但千万不要因为对方有态度能让你感动，就放弃了能力的选择。因为一个无能的人，可以感动你一时，却很难让你爱上一辈子。爱人不需要强大到让你崇拜，但至少也要有保护你的能力。

2. When choosing a partner, the ability is important, but the attitude is even more crucial. However, never give up the choice of ability just because the other person has an attitude that can move you. Because a person without ability can move you temporarily, but it's hard to make you fall in love for a lifetime. A partner doesn't need to be so strong as to make you admire them, but at least they should have the ability to protect you.

3. 如果你还认为自己还年轻，还可以蹉跎岁月的话，你终将一事无成，老来叹息。

3. If you still think you are young and have the luxury to waste time, you will ultimately achieve nothing and regret in your old age.

4. 有时候分手不是不爱，而是太爱，放弃只因为爱的太深，爱太深才对自己没把握，要用放弃作赌注，输了，只因为对方不够爱你。

4. Sometimes, breaking up is not because of a lack of love, but because of too much love. Giving up is only because of the depth of love; the deeper the love, the less confident one is about oneself. It uses giving up as a bet, and loses because the other person does not love you enough.

5. 付出，不一定会有回报。但没有回报，你也可以转身离开。所以谈恋爱的时候，可以傻傻的付出，也可以一心一意的去爱，这都不是问题，但唯一的前提是，你能够离开。拥有转身离去的勇气，你就可以去爱任何人。

5. Not all effort guarantees a return. But even without a return, you can turn around and leave. So when dating, you can foolishly give, or wholeheartedly love, and that's not an issue. The only prerequisite is that you must be able to leave. With the courage to turn and leave, you can love anyone.

6. 世界上最大的爱情是忍让。有些人爱着你，却不愿意让着你。因为忍让需要对方付出改变的代价，或者生生把脾气给吞回去。给钱花是容易的，陪着你也并不难，但真的可以默默改变和忍让是最难的。看一个人对你好不好，是要看他为你改变了多少。

6. The greatest love in the world is tolerance. Some people love you but are unwilling to accommodate you. Because tolerance requires the other person to pay the price of change, or to swallow their temper whole. It's easy to spend money, and it's not difficult to accompany you, but truly silently changing and tolerating is the most challenging. To see how someone treats you well, you should look at how much they have changed for you.

7. 放弃该放弃的是无奈，放弃不该放弃的是无能，不放弃该放弃的是无知，不放弃不该放弃的是执著！

7. Giving up what should be given up is无奈 (helplessness), giving up what should not be given up is incompetence, not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, and not giving up what should not be given up is obsession!

8. 抱最大的希望，为最大的努力，做最坏的打算。

8. Hold the greatest hope, exert the greatest effort, and prepare for the worst.

9. 虽然我们无法改变人生，但可以改变人生观。虽然我们无法改变环境，但我们可以改变心境。

9. Although we cannot change life, we can change our outlook on life. Although we cannot change the environment, we can change our mindset.

10. 眼睛对于爱的萌芽起着极其重要的心理作用。真正的爱是在双方审美观和道德观逐渐统一的过程中发展起来的。

10. The eyes play an extremely important psychological role in the germination of love. True love develops through the gradual unification of the aesthetic and moral perceptions of both parties.

11. 李益： 嫁女莫望高，女心愿所宜。

11. Li Yi: Do not set high expectations when giving your daughter in marriage; let her marry according to her wishes.

12. 恋爱从来都不是一种关系，而是一种感觉，一种心理状态。唯有时刻想要看到对方，想要闻到TA身上的味道，TA在身边就安心，这才是恋爱。而除此之外，再多的承诺，再多的话语，也毫无意义。爱是依恋，是想念，不是语言。

12. Love has never been a relationship, but a feeling, a psychological state. Only when one constantly wants to see the other, wants to smell the scent on them, feels at ease when they are around, that is true love. And beyond that, no matter how many promises or words there are, they mean nothing. Love is attachment, it is longing, not language.

13. 都说宁可等待，也不要将就。可实际上，有些人爱了一辈子才明白，其实别人从没有爱过她。有些人将就了一辈子才明白，原来可以将就下去就已经是爱了。从来没有一个人让你觉得完美，能让你愿意忍耐缺点的那个人，就是爱人。

13. It's often said that one should wait rather than settle. However, in reality, some people realize after a lifetime of love that they were never truly loved by others. Some people realize after a lifetime of settling that merely being able to settle has been a form of love. There is never anyone who is perfect enough to make you willing to tolerate their flaws; that person is your beloved.

14. 今生我什么都放弃了，惟独没有放弃你、今生你什么都没放弃，惟独放弃了我。

14. In this life, I have given up everything, but not you; in this life, you have given up nothing, but only me.

15. 拿着爱情当饭吃的女人，总会觉得这世界的美丽，并且十分容易满足，这说明，有时候，精神世界的富有远远比物质世界更吸引人。

15. Women who live on love will always find the world beautiful and be very easy to satisfy. This indicates that sometimes, the richness of the spiritual world is far more attractive than the material world.

16. 冯梦龙： 夫妻本是同林鸟。

16. Feng Menglong: A husband and wife are originally birds of the same wood.

17. 《增广贤文》： 妻贤夫祸少，子孝父心宽。

17. "The Expanded Collection of Virtuous Sayings": A virtuous wife brings fewer troubles to her husband, and a filial son brings peace to his father's heart.

18. 跟女人打交道，最终总是这个结局：应该把爱献给她；对所有的女人，都应该给予特有的爱。

18. When dealing with women, the ultimate outcome is always this: love should be offered to her; a unique kind of love should be given to all women.

19. 21爱情是发生在两个人之间的一种共同的经验。——卡森·麦卡勒斯

19. 21 Love is a shared experience that occurs between two people. - Carson McCullers

20. 在实现理想的路途中，必须排除一切干扰，特别是要看清那些美丽的诱惑。

20. On the path to realizing ideals, it is necessary to eliminate all distractions, especially to see through those beautiful temptations.

21. 如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦，如果我能够不爱你，那该多好！

21. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you, I wouldn't be envious of the opposite genders around you, I wouldn't lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn't suffer. How wonderful it would be if I could stop loving you!

22. 虽然知道遥远的相思很苦很苦，我还是选择了相思；虽然知道梦里的相逢很短很短，我还是选择了做梦；虽然知道等你的心很痛很痛，我还是选择了永远等待。

22. Although I know that longing from afar is very, very bitter, I still choose to long; although I know that the meetings in dreams are very, very short, I still choose to dream; although I know that waiting for you is very, very painful, I still choose to wait forever.

23. 突然有些心酸。我们都熬过了那段最苦的日子。 后来就不在一起了。 苦难总会终结，坚强之人永存。 坏日子总是会结束的。 但是很多我们以为是最坏的日子，回头来看也许反而是最好的日子。只是坏日子里面的苦难消磨了很多可贵的温柔，轻松的好日子来临时，我们却没有多余的勇气了。

23. Suddenly, a bit of sadness comes over me. We all got through the worst days together. Then we were no longer together. Suffering always comes to an end, and the strong live on. Bad times will always pass. But many of the days we thought were the worst, in hindsight, might have been the best. It's just that the hardship in those bad days wore away a lot of the precious gentleness, and when the easy good days arrive, we no longer have the courage to spare.

24. 暗恋最伟大的行为，是成全。你不爱我，但是我成全你。真正的暗恋，是一生的事业，不因他远离你而放弃。没有这种情操，不要轻言暗恋。

24. The greatest act of unrequited love is to be considerate. You don't love me, but I make you happy. True unrequited love is a lifelong endeavor, not to be abandoned because he moves away from you. Without this virtue, do not lightly speak of unrequited love.

25. 我们也许可以同时爱两个人，又被两个人所爱。遗憾的是，我们只能跟其中一个厮守到老。

25. We may be able to love two people at the same time and be loved by two people. Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until the end.

26. 那年高考，炽热的阳光伴着蝉鸣。你买来两套一模一样的衣服，白色的t恤，蓝色的短裤，你说，我们要穿着它们一起高考，就好像彼此就在身边，紧张和不安一下子缓解了好多。你没说过一句加油，但是我却感受到了满满的鼓励。

26. That year, during the college entrance examination, the scorching sun was accompanied by the sound of cicadas. You bought two identical sets of clothes, white T-shirts and blue shorts, and you said, "We should wear them together during the exam, as if we were right next to each other, which immediately alleviated our tension and unease. You never said a word of encouragement, but I felt a sense of encouragement that was full to the brim.

27. 热恋中的人要彼此敞开心扉，如通常所说，互表衷肠，吐露自己的全部思想。在这里的隐讳、不坦率的行为，是自私的一种表现。

27. Those in a passionate love affair should open their hearts to each other, as it is commonly said, to express their innermost feelings and reveal all their thoughts. The reserve and lack of frankness here are a manifestation of selfishness.

28. 16爱情是一位伟大的导师, 教我们重新做人。—— 莫里哀

28. Love is a great teacher, teaching us to be reborn as human beings. — Molière

29. 只有你学会把自己已有的成绩都归零，才能腾出空间去接纳更多的新东西，如此才能使自己不断的超越自己。

29. Only when you learn to reset all the achievements you have already made can you make room to accept more new things, and only in this way can you continuously surpass yourself.

30. 18心灵不在它生活的地方，但在它所爱的地方。——英国谚语

30. The soul is not where it lives, but where it loves. — British Proverb

31. 培根(英国)：人不能绝灭爱情，亦不可迷恋爱情。

31. Bacon (British): One cannot extinguish love, nor can one become obsessed with love.

32. 你不能左右天气，但可以改变心情。你不能改变容貌，但可以掌握自己。你不能预见明天，但可以珍惜今天。

32. You cannot control the weather, but you can change your mood. You cannot alter your appearance, but you can master yourself. You cannot foresee tomorrow, but you can cherish today.

33. 在各种各样的谨慎中，恋爱时也许是最有碍得到真正的幸福的。

33. Among various kinds of precautions, being in love may be the most detrimental to achieving true happiness.

34. 你爱我吗？爱。有多爱？很爱很爱。很爱很爱是多爱？他想了一下说，就是可以，到死。

34. Do you love me? Yes. How much? Very much. Very much. How much is 'very much'? He thought for a moment and said, just enough to live until death.

35. 命运掌握在自己手中。要么你驾驭生命，要么生命驾驭你，你的心态决定你是坐骑还是骑手。

35. Destiny is in one's own hands. Either you ride life, or life rides you; your mindset determines whether you are the mount or the rider.

36. 世界上最遥远的距离，不是生与死的距离，不是天各一方，而是我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你！

36. The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, not the distance between different places, but that I am standing in front of you, and you don't know that I love you!

37. 你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子，因为只有你不在我身边的时候，我才最寂寞。

37. You will never see the most lonely version of me, because it is only when you are not by my side that I feel the most lonely.

38. 高考从不相信运气，只青睐实力，为此，我们别无选择，只能马不停蹄。

38. The Gaokao (Chinese college entrance examination) never believes in luck; it only favors strength. For this reason, we have no choice but to keep going at a steady pace.

39. 纳兰性德：一往深情深几许，深山夕朝深秋语。

39. Nalan Xingde: How deep is the deep affection, as deep as the language in the mountains at dusk and dawn, and in the late autumn.

40. 爱情不是可以随手采摘，随手抛去的花朵，而是一种深厚的，珍贵的，严肃的感情。

40. Love is not a flower that can be picked and discarded at will, but a profound, precious, and serious sentiment.

41. 大多数人想要改造这个世界，但却罕有人想改造自己。

41. Most people want to transform this world, but few want to transform themselves.

42. 男人是有侵略性的动物，是兽，越是得不到的便越是喜欢。

42. Men are aggressive animals, beasts; the more they cannot obtain, the more they like it.

43. 有一种缘分叫钟情，有一种感觉叫曾经拥有，有一种结局叫命中注定，有一种心痛叫绵绵无期。

43. There is a kind of fate called infatuation, a kind of feeling called having once possessed, a kind of ending called predestined, and a kind of heartache that lasts endlessly.

44. 爱一个人并不是一定要得到她，而是要让她幸福，这就是你对她最好的爱。

44. To love someone is not necessarily about possessing them, but about making them happy. This is the best love you can give to them.

45. 元稹： 不为旁人羞不起，为郎憔悴却羞郎。

45. Yuan Zhen: Not ashamed for others, but for my beloved, I wither and yet am ashamed of him.

46. 爱情不公不能买卖，而且金钱是必然会扼杀爱情的。

46. Love cannot be bought with injustice, and money will inevitably kill love.

47. 人生总会遇到一些选择，要用智慧和胆魄做决定。

47. Life will always present some choices, and decisions should be made with wisdom and courage.

48. 忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处，忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。

48. Being envious of others will not bring any benefits to yourself, and it is also impossible to reduce others' achievements through envy.

49. 17金钱搅在爱情一块儿， 不是太丑恶了吗—— 巴尔扎克

49. To mix money with love is not too ugly, is it? — Balzac

50. 不要浪费你的生命，在你一定会后悔的地方上。

50. Do not waste your life on things you will surely regret.

51. 果把爱情和婚姻分开的话，人生会变的很有意思。你可以无拘无束的去谈几次恋爱，好好的享受爱情，尝试各种不同口味的人，然后在爱情枯萎的时候抽身而去。然后在历尽沧桑后，再选择一生的灵魂伴侣结婚，从此共度余生。你以为这是天方夜谭，但当你去尝试，做到并不难。

51. If you separate love and marriage, life can become very interesting. You can freely indulge in several love affairs, fully enjoy love, try various people with different tastes, and then withdraw when love withers. After experiencing the vicissitudes of life, you can then choose to marry your lifelong soulmate and live the rest of your life together. You might think this is an impossibility, but when you try, it's not as difficult as you imagine.

52. 大部分人往往对已经失去的机遇捶胸顿足，却对眼前的机遇熟视无睹。

52. Most people tend to beat their breasts in remorse over the opportunities they have lost, yet they overlook the opportunities right in front of them.

53. 恩格斯： 性爱按其本性来说就是排他的。

53. Engels: Sexuality, by its nature, is inherently exclusive.

54. 有时候你可以预料到某段感情的结果，于是努力拖延它的到来。可你拖延的再久，该发生的依然会发生，而且会伤你更深。当你经历过足够多的事，会明白，一切坏结局最好尽快来临。只有已经发生了的坏事情，才不够坏。只有还没来的好事情，才足够的好。否极泰来就是这个道理。

54. Sometimes, you can predict the outcome of a certain relationship and try to delay its arrival. But no matter how long you delay, what's meant to happen will still happen, and it will hurt you even more. After experiencing enough things, you will realize that the worst outcomes are best to come as soon as possible. Only the bad things that have already happened are not that bad. Only the good things that have yet to come are truly good. This is the logic behind the saying "from adversity comes prosperity."

55. 总有一种感动，叫做只有你懂。总有一种爱情，叫做只对你好。总有一种思念，叫做来到你身边。人生里会遇到许多人，有时候你会想将就一下算了，但将就意味错失你真正想要的。所以，你到底是想要尽快，还是想要美好。是想要立刻拥有，还是长长久久。没有等待，怎么有未来。

55. There is always a kind of touching, called "only you understand." There is always a kind of love, called "only being good to you." There is always a kind of longing, called "being by your side." In life, you will meet many people, and sometimes you might think of just settling for less. However, settling means missing out on what you truly desire. So, do you want to move quickly, or do you want something beautiful? Do you want to possess it immediately, or do you want it to last for a long time? Without waiting, how can there be a future?

56. 虽同处一城，然心隔万里！你还是你，我还是我，我们多的只是一点点的回忆。而忘却又是幸福的良方，不如忘却！亦或我的生命中不曾有你！

56. Although we are in the same city, our hearts are separated by a thousand miles! You are still you, and I am still me; what we have in common is only a little bit of memories. And forgetting is a good medicine for happiness, so why not forget? Or perhaps there has never been you in my life!

57. 高考的时候以为高考就是天，等过了高考，才知道人生的考验远比高考要复杂得多。有那么多时刻，能让人比高考失败还要痛彻心扉。

57. When taking the college entrance examination, I thought it was the sky. But after passing the exam, I realized that the challenges of life are much more complex than the college entrance examination. There are so many moments that can hurt people more than the failure of the college entrance examination.

58. 顾况： 女萝附青松，贵在相依投。

58. Gu Kuang: The female ivy clings to the green pine, its value lies in their interdependence and mutual support.

59. 必须要两个人同演的剧情。你突然说要放弃，是默契不够，还是本不该同台。

59. This is a plot that requires two people to act together. Why did you suddenly say you want to give up? Is it because there isn't enough chemistry between you, or is it because you shouldn't have been on the same stage to begin with?

60. 背负着过去的痛苦，夹杂着现实的烦恼，这对于人的心灵而言是无任何益处。

60. Carrying the pain of the past and mixed with the troubles of the present, this does no good to the human spirit.

61. 假如你问我该不该结婚，我会回答你：无论如何，你都会后悔的。

61. If you ask me whether you should get married or not, I would reply to you: No matter what, you will regret it.

62. 人一生下就会哭，笑是后来才学会的。所以忧伤是一种低级的本能，而快乐是一种更高级的能力。

62. People are born to cry, and laughing is something they learn later. Therefore, sadness is a primitive instinct, while happiness is a more advanced ability.

63. “然后当这一段日子过去，还怀念得不得了。”

63. "Then, when those days are over, one will miss them immensely."

64. 爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙，它渴望得到一切，却几乎对一切都感到不满。

64. Love is a fickle creature, longing for everything yet almost dissatisfied with everything.

65. 对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。

65. To the world, you are just one person; but to someone, you are their entire world.

66. 有些人是一直会刻在生命里的，哪怕忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，可是每次想起他，那种感觉，却永远不会变。

66. Some people are forever etched into one's life, even if you forget their voice, forget their smile, forget their face. Yet, every time you think of them, the feeling remains unchanged.

67. 要是有人追求，世界上没有一个女人不是飘飘然的。正因为这样，女人才会那么迷死人。

67. If a woman is pursued, there is not a single woman in the world who wouldn't feel elated. It is precisely because of this that women can be so charming and captivating.

68. 行动是治愈恐惧的良药，而犹豫、拖延将不断滋养恐惧。

68. Action is the best medicine to cure fear, while hesitation and procrastination will continuously nourish fear.

69. 人生就像钟表，可以回到起点，却已不是昨天！

69. Life is like a clock, it can return to the starting point, but it is no longer yesterday!

70. 爱情的欢乐虽然是甜美无比，但只有在光荣与美德存在的地方才能生存。

70. The joy of love is incredibly sweet, but it can only survive where honor and virtue exist.

71. 《诗经》： 夫妻好合，如鼓琴瑟。

71. "The Book of Songs": A harmonious marriage is like playing the zither and the lute together.

72. 对待生活中的每一天若都像生命中的最后一天去对待，人生定会更精彩。

72. If we treat every day of our lives as if it were our last, our lives will surely be more colorful.

73. 当你真心爱一个人时，那人除了有崇高的才能外，他还有一些可爱的弱点这也是你爱他的重要关键。

73. When you truly love someone, in addition to their noble talents, they also have some charming flaws, which are an important key to why you love them.

74. 痛苦跟欢乐一样，会创造一种气氛的。走进人家的屋子，你第一眼就可以知道它的基调是什么，是爱情还是绝望。

74. Pain, like joy, creates an atmosphere. When you enter someone's house, you can tell at first glance what the tone is, whether it's love or despair.