1. 当一个人的改变起自他本身，他已经不是一个平常人了。

1. When a person's change originates from within themselves, they are no longer an ordinary person.

2. Don't cry because it is too things slightly， to make the best performance。 Complete any one thing， can make people stronger。 Can do small things well， things don't have a problem。

2. Don't cry because things are slightly off, as this can hinder the best performance. Completing any one task can make people stronger. If you can do small things well, there won't be any problems with the big ones.

3. 世界上每个人都在寻找幸福，但只有一个有效的方法，那就是控制你的思想。幸福不在乎外界，而在于内心的情况。-卡内基

3. Everyone in the world is searching for happiness, but there is only one effective method, which is to control your thoughts. Happiness does not lie in the outside world, but in the state of one's inner self. - Carnegie

4. 在必要的时候，我们能够忍受灾难与悲剧，并且战胜它们。我们常以为自己做不到，其实我们内心拥有强大的力量，只要懂得善加利用。因为，我们比自己想象的要强壮得多。——卡耐基·人性的弱点

4. In times of necessity, we are capable of enduring disasters and tragedies and overcoming them. We often think we cannot do it, but in fact, we possess a strong inner power as long as we know how to make good use of it. Because, we are much stronger than we imagine. — Carnegie, The Human Weakness

5. [待人]如果你想说服他人，应该首先从称赞与真诚地欣赏开始。真诚地关心他人。首先想到他人的需求。首先想到他人的快乐。保持微笑。

5. [Dealing with People] If you want to persuade others, you should start with compliments and sincerely appreciate them. Show genuine concern for others. Think first about their needs. Think first about their happiness. Keep a smile on your face.

6. 只要你不认为不可能，你就不会被打败。

6. As long as you don't consider it impossible, you will not be defeated.

7. 不要逃避看似巨大的打击。你会惊讶地发现恐惧正在消退。-卡耐基

7. Do not evade what seems like a huge blow. You will be surprised to find that the fear is fading away. - Carnegie

8. [沟通]做一个善于倾听的人，鼓励别人谈论他们自己。与人沟通的诀窍就是：谈论他人最为愉悦的事情。让他人感到自己重要──而且要真诚而为。待人贵真诚，处处想他人。人格须平等，沟通善倾听。

8. [Communication] Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. The trick to communicating with others is: talk about the things that bring others the most joy. Make others feel important – and do it sincerely. Treat people with sincerity, always thinking of others. Equality of character is essential, and good communication involves being a good listener.

9. 一种简单、明显、最重要的获得好感的方法，那就是记住他人的姓名，使他人感觉对于别人很重要。

9. One simple, evident, and most important method to win favor is to remember other people's names, making them feel important to others.

10. 你担心吗？散步是最好的处方。带着你的烦恼散步，他们很可能会插翅而飞？！——卡耐基

10. Are you worried? A walk is the best prescription. Take your worries for a walk, and they might just fly away on their own wings! - Carnegie

11. 人们在逆境中适应环境的能力是惊人的。人们可以忍受不幸或克服不幸，因为人们有惊人的潜力，只要他们决心发挥它，他们就能克服困难。-卡内基

11. The ability of people to adapt to adverse conditions is astonishing. People can endure or overcome misfortune because they possess incredible potential, and as long as they are determined to tap into it, they can overcome difficulties. - Carnegie

12. To win friendship and one of the most effective way to influence others， is serious about someone else's ideas， let him think he is very important。

12. To win friendship and one of the most effective ways to influence others is to take someone else's ideas seriously, and let them think they are very important.

13. Refreshed businessman， besides has the habit of caution， still have to be agile and not to the same two strengths。

13. A refreshed businessman, besides having the habit of caution, still needs to be agile and not rely on the same two strengths.

14. 习俗总是金钱这句话，所以盗窃别人的小偷，当然，应该受到惩罚，即使是那些兴奋的好人，仍然应该逃避他们。-卡内基

14. The saying that custom is always money, so thieves who steal from others, of course, should be punished; even those excited good people should still avoid them. - Carnegie

15. 我们若已接受最坏的，就再没有什么损失。

15. If we have already accepted the worst, there is nothing more to lose.

16. Try to work in comfortable circumstances。 Remember， the body's nervous would create a shoulder pain and mental fatigue。

16. Try to work in comfortable circumstances. Remember, the body's nerves would create shoulder pain and mental fatigue.

17. Want to cultivate courage， do what you fear more， until the accumulated many successful experiences。 This is the fastest the most effective way to overcome fear。

17. Want to cultivate courage? Do what you fear the most, until you accumulate many successful experiences. This is the fastest and most effective way to overcome fear.

18. 我的座右铭是：第一是诚实，第二是勤勉，第三是专心工作。?>

18. My motto is: first, honesty; second, diligence; third, focus on work.

19. 判断力加上企图心，再以活力作为调味剂，这就是成功的精美食谱。

19. Judgment combined with ambition, seasoned with vitality, this is the gourmet recipe for success.

20. 只要你忘记了自己，你就能自然，不管你会给别人什么印象！-卡耐基

20. As long as you forget yourself, you will be natural, no matter what impression you give to others! - Carnegie

21. 除了你自己的工作，找一个副业作为你的心理和精神补救。-卡耐基

21. In addition to your own work, find a side hustle as a psychological and spiritual remedy. - Carnegie

22. In the face of seemingly huge blow， not to escape。 You will be surprised to find that fear is fading。

22. In the face of what seems like a huge setback, do not retreat. You will be surprised to find that fear is fading.

23. 生活就像一个舞台。如果你只描述一件事，你就不能打动人们。因此，你必须生动地把事实编成喜剧的形式，也就是说，用喜剧的方式来处理你的生活，让你周围充满欢乐的气氛。-卡内基

23. Life is like a stage. If you only describe one thing, you cannot touch people's hearts. Therefore, you must vividly weave facts into the form of comedy, that is, deal with your life in a comedic manner, making the atmosphere around you filled with joy. - Carnegie

24. 冷静分析过去的错误，试图从中受益，然后忘记它，这是过去唯一具有建设性意义的做法。-卡耐基

24. Calmly analyzing past mistakes, trying to benefit from them, and then forgetting about them is the only constructive thing that can be done in the past. - Carnegie

25. 做一个善于倾听的人，鼓励别人谈论自己。-卡耐基

25. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. - Carnegie

26. 你如果在别人责备你之前，就承认错误。对方想要说的话，你已替他说了，他就没有话可说，那你有99％的机会获得他的谅解。——卡耐基·人性的弱点

26. If you admit your mistakes before someone else rebukes you, you have already said what they were going to say, and they will have nothing to say. This gives you a 99% chance of gaining their forgiveness. — Carnegie, The Weaknesses of Human Nature

27. 人类本质里最深层的驱动力就是希望具有的重要性，你要别人怎么对待你，你就先怎样的对待别人。

27. The deepest driving force within human nature is the desire for significance; treat others as you would like to be treated.

28. 今天太宝贵了，不应该被痛苦的担忧和辛酸的遗憾所消蚀。抬起下巴，让你的思想焕发光彩，就像春阳下跳跃的山泉。抓住今天，它不会回来。-卡内基

28. Today is too precious to be eroded by the pain of worry and the bitter regret. Lift your chin, let your thoughts shine brightly, like a spring stream jumping under the spring sun. Seize today, it will not return. - Carnegie

29. 如果你能勇敢地承认自己的错误，你就能从中受益。因为承认错误不仅能赢得别人的尊重，还能增加你的自尊。-卡内基

29. If you can bravely admit your own mistakes, you can benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes not only earns the respect of others, but also enhances your self-esteem. - Carnegie

30. 与人沟通的诀窍就是：谈论别人最为愉悦事情。

30. The knack of communicating with others is to talk about the things that make them most pleased.

31. Tomorrow you encounter， there will be three quarters to sympathy。 To give their sympathy， they will love you。

31. Tomorrow, when you encounter them, there will be three quarters of sympathy. To express their sympathy, they will love you.

32. The trick is to communicate with people： talk about the most cheerful thing to others。

32. The trick is to communicate with people: talk about the most cheerful thing to others.

33. My motto is： the first is honest， the second is diligent， the third is to concentrate on my work。

33. My motto is: The first is honesty, the second is diligence, and the third is to concentrate on my work.

34. 最好在散步时忘记烦恼。你不妨出来试试。所有的烦恼都会像翅膀一样飞走。-卡耐基

34. It's best to forget your troubles while taking a walk. You might as well come out and try it. All your troubles will fly away like wings. - Carnegie

35. 我们大多数人不是为昨天懊恼，就是为了明天担忧，偏偏不肯好好把握今天！

35. Most of us are either regretting yesterday or worrying about tomorrow, but we just refuse to seize the day properly!

36. 总是挑剔的人，甚至是最激烈的批评者，都会在有耐心和同情心的倾听者面前软化。-卡耐基

36. Even the most ardent criticizers will soften in the face of a patient and sympathetic listener. - Carnegie

37. 获得善意的一个简单、明显、最重要的方法就是记住别人的名字，让别人觉得对别人很重要。-卡内基

37. A simple, obvious, and most important way to gain goodwill is to remember people's names and make them feel important to others. - Carnegie

38. Do you worry？ Walking is the best medicine。 Bring your trouble going for a walk， they are probably plug wings and fly！

38. Are you worried? Walking is the best medicine. Take your troubles for a walk, and they are probably just like wings and will fly away!

39. 明天你所遇到的人当中，会有四分之三渴望被人同情。给予他们同情，他们会因此而爱你。

39. Among the people you will meet tomorrow, three quarters of them will be longing for sympathy. Give them sympathy, and they will love you for it.

40. 不要因为嫌事情轻微，而不愿做出最佳表现。完成任何一件事，都能使人更强壮。能把小事做好，大事才不会有问题。

40. Do not hesitate to give your best performance because something seems trivial. Completing any task can make one stronger. If you can do small things well, there will be no problems with big things.

41. 戴尔卡耐基的名言 如果我们接受了最坏的，就没有损失

41. A Dale Carnegie quote: "If we accept the worst, there is no loss."

42. If you want to become a person who is good at conversation， that you say hello first to be a people to listen。

42. If you want to become a person who is good at conversation, start by saying "hello" first to become a person who listens.

43. 在人生的道路上能谦让三分，即能天宽地阔，消除一切困难，解除一切纠葛。

43. On the path of life, if one can give way by three parts, one can achieve a vast sky and earth, eliminate all difficulties, and resolve all entanglements.

44. 一个不注意小事情的人，永远不会成功大事业。

44. A person who does not pay attention to small matters will never succeed in great undertakings.

45. [家庭]家庭内部也应有有礼。无礼是侵蚀爱情的祸水。唯一真实的对我们说出刻薄、侮辱、伤感情的话的人，都是我们自家的人。不要试图改造你的配偶。使许多罗曼之梦撞击离婚礁石的一个原因，就是因为批评──无用的，令人心碎的批评。婚姻幸福的普通人，比幽居的天才快乐得多。常处是家人，最易伤感情。指责是祸根，礼让享安宁。

45. [Family] There should also be civility within the family. Incivility is the poison that erodes love. The only people who truly say harsh, insulting, and hurtful words to us are those from our own household. Do not try to reform your spouse. One of the reasons many romantic dreams crash against the rocks of divorce is because of criticism ─ useless, heart-wrenching criticism. Ordinary people who are happily married are much happier than reclusive geniuses. Being constantly with family members is the easiest way to hurt feelings. Accusation is the root of trouble, while politeness brings peace.

46. Remember people's names， and easily call， equal to give others a clever and effective compliment。

46. Remember people's names and easily call them, which is equal to giving others a clever and effective compliment.

47. Grasp now， don't mourn the past， not to sorrow in the future。

47. Grasp now, don't mourn the past, don't sorrow for the future.

48. 为了成功地生活，少年人必须学习自立，铲除埋伏各处的障碍，在家庭要教养他，使他具有为人所认可的独立人格。

48. In order to live successfully, young people must learn to be self-reliant, eliminate the hidden obstacles everywhere, and be educated at home to develop an independent personality that is recognized by others.

49. We all have their own ability and opportunity， don't understand things may do， do not dream of。

49. We all have our own abilities and opportunities; don't misunderstand what we may do, and don't dream beyond our capabilities.

50. Strange， happiness around the corner， we seldom cherish， wait until it disappeared， only。

50. Strange, happiness is just around the corner, and we seldom cherish it; we only wait until it disappears.

51. 私有财产、财富积累和竞争都是人类经历的最高结果，也是迄今为止社会最好水果的土壤。-卡内基

51. Private property, wealth accumulation, and competition are the highest results of human experience and the soil that has produced the best fruit of society to date. - Carnegie

52. 在脸上放一个大大的、宽大的、诚实的微笑，把肩膀拉直，吸一口气，然后唱一首歌，如果你不能唱歌，吹口哨，如果你不能吹口哨，哼一首歌。-卡内基

52. Put a big, wide, honest smile on your face, straighten your shoulders, take a deep breath, and then sing a song. If you can't sing, whistle, and if you can't whistle, hum a song. - Carnegie

53. 你忧虑吗？散步是最好的药方。带着你的烦恼去散个步，它们极可能插翅而飞呢！

53. Are you worried? A walk is the best medicine. Take your troubles for a walk, and they might just fly away!

54. Personally， I think the important thing is the ability to make friends， in the end， it is the ability to appreciate others strengths。

54. Personally, I think the most important thing is the ability to make friends; in the end, it is the ability to appreciate others' strengths.

55. 我个人认为，重要的是交朋友的能力，归根结底，其实也就是欣赏别人优点的能力。

55. I personally believe that the ability to make friends is important, which, in essence, is actually the ability to appreciate others' merits.

56. 卡耐基学名言 解除一切纠葛

56. Carnegie Famous Sayings: Unravel all entanglements.

57. [忧虑]我们所担心的事情，99％根本就不会发生。如果你有担忧的问题，就应用威利斯·卡瑞尔的奇妙公式，做到下面三件事;:问你自己：可能发生的最坏情况是什么？如果你必须接受的话，就准备接受它。然后镇定地想办法改善最坏的情况。工作──让你忙着──是精神疾病的最好的治疗剂。

57. [Worry] 99% of the things we worry about will never happen. If you have worries, apply Willis Carrill's wonderful formula and do the following three things: Ask yourself: What is the worst possible situation that could occur? If you have to accept it, prepare to accept it. Then calmly think of ways to improve the worst situation. Work - keep yourself busy - is the best treatment for mental illness.

58. A person's success， only because of his technical expertise， while 85% rely on interpersonal relationship and his ability to life。

58. A person's success is not solely due to his technical expertise; instead, 85% of it depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to live.

59. When a person changes from his own， he is not a normal。

59. When a person changes from his own, he is not normal.

60. 如果希望成为一个善于谈话的人，那就先做一个致意倾听的人。

60. If you wish to become a good conversationalist, first become a person who listens attentively with respect.

61. 行为胜于言论，对人微笑就是向人表明："我喜欢你，你使我快乐，我喜欢见到你"。

61. Actions speak louder than words. A smile at a person is a sign that says: "I like you, you make me happy, I enjoy seeing you."

62. [付出]不要期望他人感恩，付出是一种享受施于的快乐。如果我们一直期望别人感恩，多半是自寻烦恼。付出情要真，不图人感恩。受惠知图报，施于也开心。

62. [Sacrifice] Do not expect others to be grateful; sacrifice is a form of enjoyment derived from giving. If we always expect others to be grateful, we are likely to find ourselves in trouble. Be sincere in your sacrifice and do not seek gratitude. Feel obligated to repay those who have benefited you, and it brings joy to give as well.

63. 大多数人的问题是，当机会来临时，他们闭上眼睛，很少有人能追求自己的机会，甚至在绊倒时看不到。-卡内基

63. Most people's problem is that when opportunity comes, they close their eyes, and few are able to pursue their opportunities, even when they stumble and can't see. - Carnegie

64. [金钱]即使我们拥有整个世界，我们一天也只能吃三餐，一次也只能睡一张床──即使一个挖水沟的人也可以做到这一点，也许他们比洛克菲勒吃得更津津有味，睡得更安稳。令多数人感到烦恼的，并不是他们没有足够的钱，而是不知道如何支配手中已有的钱。如果我们无法改变我们的经济情况，不妨宽恕自己。家产千千万，一日只三餐，巨富未必乐，清贫心也宽。

64. [Money] Even if we possess the entire world, we can only have three meals a day and sleep in one bed at a time — even a ditch digger can do that, perhaps even enjoying their meals more and sleeping more soundly than Rockefeller. What troubles most people is not that they don't have enough money, but that they don't know how to manage the money they already have. If we cannot change our economic situation, we might as well forgive ourselves. There may be thousands of properties, but we can only have three meals a day. Being extremely wealthy does not necessarily bring joy, and being poor can also broaden the mind.