1. 想象你自己对困难作出的反应，不是逃避或绕开它们，而是面对它们，同它们打交道，以一种进取的和明智的方式同它们奋斗。

1. Imagine how you would respond to difficulties, not by avoiding or sidestepping them, but by confronting them, dealing with them, and struggling against them in an enterprising and intelligent manner.

2. 如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，学会自己欣赏风景。

2. If possible, hold the hand of your loved one and stroll together. Until you find them, learn to appreciate the scenery on your own.

3. 个性迥异的两个人相安无事，其中之一必定有积极的心。

3. Two individuals with vastly different personalities get along peacefully, which must mean one of them has a positive heart.

4. 闲情时候自己煮花茶喝或者做茶点吃，放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。

4. In leisure moments, brew some flower tea for yourself or make some tea snacks to eat, play some soft music, read a few pages of a good book, and then take a long nap. It's so delightful.

5. 女人最喜欢听男人说另一个女人难看，男人最喜欢听女人说另一个男人失败。

5. Women like to hear men say that another woman is ugly, and men like to hear women say that another man has failed.

6. 对你不情愿做的事情要大声说不。比如酒席上，轮到你喝酒，而你不善饮酒，可以以茶代酒，而非含恨饮醉。

6. Boldly say no to things you are reluctant to do. For example, at a dinner party, when it's your turn to drink, and you are not good at drinking, you can substitute tea for wine instead of drinking to the point of intoxication and resentment.

7. 再愁闷也不要往泡酒吧。一个孤单的女子手握高脚杯或者吸烟，会更添寂寞感与忧伤。

7. Don't go to a bar to relieve your gloom. A lonely woman holding a stemmed glass or smoking will only add to her sense of loneliness and sadness.

8. 相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。

8. Believe in love at first sight, believe that there is always someone waiting for you quietly at the corner of time. Just be sure to keep your eyes open and look carefully.

9. 善良不是软弱更不是退让，而是从不主动伤害别人，不会纠缠不休，懂得适可而止。

9. Kindness is not weakness, nor is it retreat; it is never to initiate harm to others, not to be persistent to the point of annoyance, and to know when to stop.

10. 爱那个爱你的人。如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你。趁早分开。女子不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。

10. Love the person who loves you. If it's only you who love him, or only he who loves you, separate as soon as possible. A woman does not need someone to pretend to care for her, and you don't need to pretend to care for someone else.

11. 为了不损及莫大的成功，神不能不渗近一滴苦涩的味儿。

11. In order not to mar the greatest success, God cannot but add a drop of bitterness.

12. 我认为克服恐惧最好的办法理应是：面对内心所恐惧的事情，勇往直前地去做，直到成功为止。

12. I believe that the best way to overcome fear should be to face the things that you fear with courage and determination, until you achieve success.

13. 人生的快乐在于自己对生活的态度，快乐是自己的事情，只要愿意，你可以随时调换手中的遥控器，将心灵的视窗调整到快乐频道。学会快乐，即使难过，也要微笑着面对。

13. The happiness of life lies in one's attitude towards life. Happiness is a personal matter. As long as you are willing, you can always change the remote control in your hand, adjusting the window of your soul to the channel of happiness. Learn to be happy, even when sad, always face it with a smile.

14. 无论做什么，记得为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。

14. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, and you will have no complaints.

15. 做一个女人要做得像一副画，不要做一件衣裳，被男人试完了又试，却没人买，试残了旧了，五折抛售还有困难。

15. A woman should be like a painting, not a dress that men try on repeatedly but no one wants to buy, worn out and old, and even at a 50% discount, it's difficult to sell.

16. 每天我都不断地刷新一项世界纪录，那就是我在世界上已经生活的天数。

16. Every day, I continuously break a world record, which is the number of days I have lived in the world.

17. 对生活抱持全面性的好奇，仍是伟大创意人员成功的秘诀。

17. Maintaining a comprehensive curiosity about life remains the secret to success for great creative personnel.

18. 有空时给自己点一袭喜欢的香薰，让香味充盈房间。愉悦。

18. When you have some free time, light a favorite incense for yourself, allowing the fragrance to fill the room. Joyful.

19. 相信信念能够战胜一切，这本身就是一个最伟大的信念。

19. To believe that faith can overcome everything is itself the greatest belief.

20. 在别人肆意说你的时候，问问自己，到底怕不怕，输不输的起。不必害怕，不要后退，不须犹豫，难过的时候就一个人去看看这世界。多问问自己，你是不是已经为了梦想而竭尽全力了？

20. When others are freely speaking ill of you, ask yourself, are you afraid, are you afraid of losing? There is no need to be afraid, do not retreat, and there is no need to hesitate. When you feel sad, go out alone to see this world. Ask yourself more often, have you given your all for your dreams?

21. 偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。

21. Sometimes I sing to myself, and it doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, as long as I feel cheerful.

22. 别让任何人毁灭了你的灵魂，你要让自己坚强，只为自己坚强。

22. Do not let anyone destroy your soul; let yourself be strong, strong for yourself alone.

23. 戏演给不爱你的人看，再热闹，也跟他无关了，从此你冷暖，是根本不关他的痛痒的，而受累受伤的，却是自己。

23. Performing a play for someone who doesn't love you, no matter how lively it is, it no longer matters to them. From then on, whether you are cold or warm has nothing to do with their feelings. But the one who suffers and gets hurt is yourself.

24. 聪明男生，常有女生在等，女生的爱，他会动心，但不会痴心。

24. Smart boys often have girls waiting for them. When a girl falls in love with him, he will be touched, but not obsessed.

25. 学者须先立志。今日所以悠悠者，只是把学问不曾做一件事看，遇事则且胡乱恁地打过了，此只是志不立。

25. Scholars must first set their aspirations. The reason why many scholars today are indecisive is because they do not treat learning as a matter of importance, but rather deal with things in a haphazard manner, as if they are just going through the motions. This is simply a lack of determination.

26. 志向要远些，目标要近些，与其躺在原地做梦，不如逐步靠近梦想。

26. Aim higher and set more immediate goals; it's better to gradually move towards your dreams than to lie idle dreaming.

27. 一个女人的努力，不是为了成为一个女强人，而是既可以安心的小鸟依人，又可以精彩的自力更生！让自己的人生变得独立而精彩，踮起脚尖，放平双脚，你比谁都安稳！

27. A woman's efforts are not to become a strong woman, but to be able to be a cozy little bird in someone's arms, and also to be self-reliant and wonderful! Let your life become independent and wonderful, stand on tiptoe, flatten your feet, and you will be more stable than anyone else!

28. 为梦想，千里行。因为心中怀有梦想，才要努力追求，创造美好来。筑梦前行，人生精彩。

28. For dreams, a journey of a thousand miles. It is because of the dreams in our hearts that we strive to pursue and create beauty. Dream and move forward, life is wonderful.

29. 任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。

29. In any case, do not speak ill of others behind their backs. If you must say something, say something good.

30. 当那个人和你的生命在某天交汇，你一定会恍然，真爱就是如此值得期待。

30. When that person intersects with your life on some day, you will undoubtedly realize that true love is truly something worth looking forward to.

31. 自己的路自己走，无论是苦是累，甚至是失败，都要去承担，只要是自己的选择，就无怨无悔。

31. Walk your own path, no matter how bitter or weary, even if it leads to failure. As long as it's a choice you've made, there should be no complaints or regrets.

32. 成功就是当洋溢的生命力突然冲决堤坝而汇入一条合适的渠道。

32. Success is when the overflowing vitality suddenly breaks through the dykes and merges into a suitable channel.

33. 每天都冒出很多念头，那些不死的才叫做梦想。

33. Many ideas pop up every day, and those that never die are called dreams.

34. 人们可以为一个陌路人的点滴帮助而感激不尽，却无视朝夕相处老板的种种恩惠，将其视之为理所当然。

34. People can be endlessly grateful for the smallest bit of help from a stranger, yet they may ignore the numerous favors from their boss who they live with every day, taking them for granted.

35. 有一种计划叫蓄谋已久，有一种打击叫一击致命。

35. There is a plan called long-term plotting, and there is a strike called a one-stroke fatal blow.

36. 这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就会放下。

36. There is nothing in this world that cannot be let go of. When you hurt, you will naturally let it go.

37. 偶然做美女私房菜给他或者老友吃。但不要天天做，你生来不是为了某个人天天下厨房。

37. Occasionally cook private recipes for him or for old friends. But don't do it every day, you were not born to spend every day in the kitchen for someone.

38. 爱一个人，不是一辈子的事。爱一个人，是一个阶段的事。

38. Loving someone is not a lifelong thing. Loving someone is a matter of a certain stage.

39. 要想改变我们的人生，第一步就是要改变我们的心态。只要心态是正确的，我们的世界就会的光明的。

39. To change our lives, the first step is to change our mindset. As long as our mindset is correct, our world will be bright.

40. 灰姑娘是因为有了公主般的打扮、穿上了公主裙、穿上了水晶鞋，才吸引到了王子，所以女人的美丽是生产力。

40. Cinderella was able to attract the prince because of her princess-like attire, wearing a princess dress, and stepping into glass slippers, thus proving that a woman's beauty is a productive force.

41. 没有人会为你的痛苦买单，心情是自己的，时刻提醒自己：我爱你。

41. No one will pay for your pain, your mood is your own, always remind yourself: I love you.

42. 人生重来没有等来的幸运，只有努力才是硬道理！一个成熟女人的标志是从她开始放下面子，去努力工作赚钱，并学会独立，学会坚强，学会自己督促自己成长，让自己变得优秀开始的！

42. There is no such thing as luck that just waits for life to come; only hard work is the ultimate truth! A mature woman's sign is when she starts to put her pride aside, to work hard and earn money, and to learn to be independent, to be strong, to self-motivate her own growth, and to become outstanding!

43. 不要接收你不爱好的男子送的任何礼物。

43. Do not accept any gifts from a man you do not like.

44. 大事小事，都会过去；好事坏事，终成往事。余生很贵，请别浪费，做个精致女人。

44. Big things and small things will all pass; good things and bad things will eventually become past. Life is precious, please don't waste it, and be a refined woman.

45. 没有丑女人，只有懒女人。不愿意用时间来装扮自己的女人，请不要对其他的美丽女人心生嫉妒不满。

45. There are no ugly women, only lazy ones. Women who are unwilling to spend time on themselves should not feel jealous and discontent with other beautiful women.

46. 穿有质感的衣服，找有质量的男朋友。他不一定很漂亮，但是一定要能让你有安全感和开心。

46. Wear clothes with texture, and find a boyfriend of quality. He doesn't have to be very handsome, but he must be someone who can give you a sense of security and happiness.

47. 每天都要打扮得能怎么漂亮就怎么漂亮才出门，因为你永远不知道今天会遇见谁。漂亮如果有秘诀，那就是：狠狠宠爱自己！

47. You should dress up beautifully every day before you go out, because you never know who you might meet today. If there's a secret to beauty, it is: pamper yourself fiercely!

48. 记住你是个女孩，努力是你的象征，自信是你的资本，微笑是你的标志。你要奋斗的不是在一个男人面前委曲求全让他看到你的努力，而是好好努力，并且等待数年后那个单膝跪地给你无名指戴上戒指的男人。

48. Remember, you are a girl. Effort is your symbol, confidence is your capital, and a smile is your mark. What you should strive for is not to compromise and bend before a man just to show him your efforts, but to work hard and wait for the man who will one day kneel down and put a ring on your ring finger many years later.

49. 爱一个人，也许有绵长的痛苦，但他给的快乐，也是世界上最大的快乐。

49. To love someone may bring enduring pain, but the happiness they give is also the greatest happiness in the world.

50. 如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。

50. If a man tells you he likes you, believe him. If he says he no longer loves you, believe him too. At any time, remind yourself that the departure of someone who does not love you is a blessing.

51. 不要24小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。

51. Don't think about the same person for 24 hours. Share some of your thoughts with your family and friends.

52. 不要努力成为一个成功者，要努力成为一个有价值的人。

52. Don't strive to become a success, strive to become a valuable person.

53. 顺境的美德是节制，逆境的美德是坚韧，这后一种是较为伟大的德性。

53. The virtue in prosperity is moderation, while the virtue in adversity is perseverance, and the latter is a greater virtue.