1. 59人生选择什么就必须承受什么，得到多少就会失去多少。你的人生，不在乎你和谁在交往，而在乎你和谁有交集。

1. In life, whatever choices you make, you must bear the consequences, and whatever you gain, you will also lose. Your life is not about who you interact with, but about who you have intersections with.

2. 22爱情是很美好的东西，有些人很容易就得到它，有些人很容易就失去它。

2. 22 Love is a wonderful thing; some people easily attain it, while others easily lose it.

3. 如果你要成功，就要珍惜时间，必须的，必须的。

3. If you want to succeed, you must cherish time, it is essential, essential.

4. 6得到跟失去不停的在交战，可得到了什么失去了什么。

4. Gain and loss are constantly in conflict, yet what has been gained and what has been lost.

5. 21得到和失去是一种偶然也是一种必然。只是我们不懂得而已。

5. Gaining and losing is both an accident and a necessity. It's just that we don't understand it yet.

6. 2得到你未必能得到一切，失去你却是失去了所有。

6.2 You may not get everything you want, but if you lose it, you lose everything.

7. 昨天是一张废弃了的支票，明天是一笔尚未到期的存款，只有今天是你可以支配的现金。

7. Yesterday is a canceled check, tomorrow is an unclaimed deposit, only today is the cash you can dispose of.

8. 沃尔森法则 —— 你能得到多少，取决于你能知道多少（随机应变，及时捕捉市场信息；在竞争中立于不败之地的秘诀就是：知道得更早，知道得更多，知道得更具体）

8. The Law of Wilson – How much you can get depends on how much you know (be adaptable, timely in capturing market information; the secret to staying unbeaten in competition is: know earlier, know more, know more specifically).

9. 生活累，一小半源于生存，一大半源于攀比。

9. Life is tiring, half of it comes from survival, and the other half comes from comparison.

10. 冰淇淋哲学 —— 如果能在逆境中胜出，就不会害怕任何挑战（河水顺流而下，生活逆水行舟；学会在冬天卖冰淇淋，夏天就会干得更棒）

10. Ice Cream Philosophy - If you can triumph in adversity, you will not fear any challenge (the river flows with the current, life rows against the current; if you learn to sell ice cream in winter, you will do better in summer).

11. 彼得原理 —— 好汉不提当年勇：过去的成就不能代表未来的发展（量体裁衣，量“材”而用，用人必要知人；有雄心不代表能胜任）

11. Peter Principle - Don't Brag About Your Past Triumphs: Past achievements do not represent future development (tailor-made, tailor-made for use, use people must know people; having ambition does not mean you can be competent).

12. 人不要等明天，因为没有人知道自己有没有明天。

12. People should not wait for tomorrow, because no one knows whether they will have a tomorrow.

13. 蜕皮效应 —— 超越自己，才能不断成长 （满足现状、不思进取是落后的先兆；不断提高期望，打破自我设限）

13. Exoskeleton Effect - Overcoming oneself is the key to continuous growth (Being satisfied with the status quo and not striving for progress is a sign of backwardness; constantly raising expectations and breaking through self-imposed limitations)

14. 一切的烦恼都是自找的，因此也只能自己解决，不要找朋友哭诉，找他们去打球。

14. All the troubles are self-inflicted, so they can only be solved by oneself. Don't vent to friends by crying, instead, invite them to play some sports.

15. 人不怕给自己定位，就怕找不到最合适的位置。

15. People are not afraid of positioning themselves, but afraid of not finding the most suitable position.

16. 22咱们确实不知道咱们拥有的是什么，直到咱们失去它；咱们也确实不知道咱们想念什么，直到咱们得到它。

16. 22 We indeed do not know what we possess until we lose it; we also do not know what we miss until we obtain it.

17. 学历代表过去，财力代表现在，学习力代表将来。

17. Academic background represents the past, financial resources represent the present, and learning ability represents the future.

18. 当你的错误显露时，可不要发脾气，别以为任性或吵闹，可以隐藏或克服你的缺点。

18. When your mistakes are exposed, do not lose your temper. Do not think that being stubborn or loud can hide or overcome your shortcomings.

19. 旁观者效应 —— 别让其他人的表现束缚了自己的脚步（别怕枪打出头鸟，要敢作敢为；经营企业应打破常规，走差异化经营的道路）

19. Bystander Effect – Don't let others' actions tie your own feet down (Don't fear that the bird will be shot for being the first to fly; be brave and bold; in business, it's essential to break away from conventions and pursue a differentiated business approach).

20. 跳蚤效应 —— 志在高远：心有多宽，舞台就有多广 （尽量提高目标，释放你与生俱来的潜能）

20. Flea Effect - Aim High: The Bigger Your Heart, the Larger the Stage (Strive to raise your goals and unleash your innate potential)

21. 杜根定律 —— 信心决定成败：胜利只属于有信心的人 （如果别人都不相信你，你更要相信自己）

21. Duggan's Law – Confidence determines success: Victory belongs only to those who are confident (if no one else believes in you, you must believe in yourself even more).

22. 9生活其实也很简单，喜欢的就争取，得到的就珍惜，失去了就忘记，可是很多事情，真不像自己想的那么简单。生活平平淡淡才是真。

22. Life is actually quite simple: go for what you like, cherish what you get, forget what you lose. However, many things are not as simple as one might think. It is the plain and ordinary life that is the true one.

23. 创作出“心有猛虎，细嗅蔷薇”这句诗句的，是英国的著名反战诗人萨松，他同时也是一位小说家，而他能写出《于我，过去，现在以及未来》这样富含哲理的诗句，与他在上流社会受到良好教育的经历，以及他曾是一战军人有莫大的关系。

23. The poet Sassoon, a famous British anti-war poet, is the creator of the famous line "Within me, there is a tiger, and I carefully smell the rose." He is also a novelist. The ability to write such philosophical lines as "For Me, Past, Present, and Future" is greatly related to his well-rounded education in high society and his experience as a soldier in World War I.

24. 只有脚踏实地的人，才能够说：路，就在我的脚下。

24. Only those who walk on solid ground can say: The path is beneath my feet.

25. 14回忆终究是过去，失去的我不想拾起，得到了我会去珍惜。

25. 14 Memory is ultimately of the past; the lost ones I don't want to pick up, and the ones I've gained, I will cherish.

26. 华盛顿合作定律 —— 明确任务：避免三个和尚的尴尬 （制度创新，让“三个和尚水多得喝不完”）

26. Washington's Law of Collaboration — Clarify Tasks: Avoid the Embarrassment of the Three Monks (Institutional Innovation, Let the "Three Monks Have an Endless Supply of Water to Drink")

27. 罗伯特定理 —— 放弃什么，都不能放弃希望（希望是克服千难万险的动力；自己不打倒自己，就没有人能打倒你；有希望在的地方，痛苦也成欢乐）

27. Robert's Theorem — Never give up hope, no matter what you give up (Hope is the driving force to overcome all difficulties and hardships; no one can defeat you if you don't defeat yourself; where there is hope, pain also becomes joy).

28. 45当你再没什么可失去时就是你开始得到的时候。

28. When you have nothing more to lose, that's when you start to gain.

29. 有一只兔子很懒，总是在自己的窝边吃草，最后被猎人逮住了。

29. There was a lazy rabbit that always ate grass near its burrow, and eventually it was caught by the hunter.

30. 马蝇法则 —— 感谢对手，正是他们催化了你的成功

30. The Horsefly Rule — Thank your competitors, as they are the ones who catalyze your success.

31. 如果足够被理解，我会把破文字抛却，心满意足地过生活。

31. If I am sufficiently understood, I would discard the broken words and live happily ever after.

32. 53原本在得到之前我就应该学会失去过后怎么接受。

32. 53 I should have learned how to accept after losing, before I ever gained it.

33. 34无所谓得到，亦无所谓失去，这世上没有什么东西真正属于你。得到了，终会失去的；失去了，便是得到过。

33. 34. It matters not whether you gain or lose; there is nothing in this world that truly belongs to you. What you gain will eventually be lost; what you lose, you have once had.

34. 托利得定理 —— 一心二用，全面分析，正确决策（一心二用可以防止目光狭窄；充分考虑不同意见，深思熟虑）

34. Torry's Theorem - Multitasking, comprehensive analysis, and correct decision-making (multitasking can prevent narrow-mindedness; fully consider different opinions, and think deeply).

35. 22得到了想要的，却失去了最珍贵的，学会珍惜，因为最好的你总是留不住。

35. 22 obtained what was desired, but lost what was most precious. Learn to cherish, because the best version of you is always impossible to hold on to.

36. 7真实的世界不是一部温婉的童话，或许这些往事会化成最美的那朵云，停泊在记忆里，得到与失去会在这同一源头回响。

36. The real world is not a gentle fairy tale. Perhaps these past events will transform into the most beautiful of clouds, mooring in memory, with gains and losses echoing from the same source.

37. 8抓住失去的不放，得到的就会失去意义。时间一直让所有的生命体在失去中得到，在得到中失去。

37.8 Holding onto what is lost makes what is gained lose its significance. Time has always allowed all living beings to gain in the process of losing, and to lose in the process of gaining.

38. 9在茫然间悄声失去，又在伤害中洒脱永生。失去了你，我得到了整个世界。

38. 9悄悄地在迷茫中失落，又在伤痛中洒脱地永生。失去了你，我得到了整个世界.

39. 昨天已经过去，明天还是个未知数，把握今天，努力奋斗吧！

39. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is still a mystery, grasp today, strive hard!

40. 幸福递减定律 —— 不要让感官味蕾失去对幸福的敏感

40. The Law of Diminishing Happiness - Don't let your taste buds lose their sensitivity to happiness.

41. 1永远别以为敷衍很简单，它会让你把得到的变成失去的。

41. 1 Never think that being perfunctory is simple, as it can turn what you have into what you lose.

42. 50追求得到之日即其终止之时，寻觅的过程亦即失去的过程。

42. The day one seeks to obtain what one pursues is the day of its termination, and the process of seeking is also the process of losing.

43. 9成熟不一定会得到什么，却一定会失去什么。

43. Maturity does not necessarily guarantee gain, but it always guarantees loss.

44. 没有人可以限制你成功，除非是你不想成功。

44. No one can limit your success unless you don't want to succeed.

45. 所以，让我们注重细节，感受责任吧！细节决定成败，责任铸就辉煌，让我们抓住机遇，细致扎实地走好成功路上的每一步！

45. Therefore, let's pay attention to the details and feel the responsibility! Details determine success or failure, and responsibility forges brilliance. Let's seize the opportunities and take each step on the path to success with meticulousness and solidness!

46. 人生是短暂的，这句话应当提醒每一个人去从事他要做的一切事情。

46. Life is short, this should remind everyone to do everything they need to do.

47. 要克服生活的焦虑和沮丧，得先学会做自己的主人。

47. To overcome the anxiety and depression of life, one must first learn to be the master of oneself.

48. 王永庆法则 —— 节省一元钱等于净赚一元钱（钱要用在刀刃上；勤俭是持家和经营的真谛；赚钱是能力的体现，而花钱则是一种智慧）

48. Wang Yongqing's Rule —— Saving one yuan is equivalent to earning one yuan net (money should be used where it counts; frugality is the essence of managing a household and running a business; making money is a manifestation of ability, while spending money is a form of wisdom).

49. 30得到过失去过，只不过是给你上一课，对自己负责才是最重要。

49. Gained and lost 30 times, it's just to teach you a lesson: taking responsibility for yourself is the most important.