1. 放弃一个很爱你的人，并不痛苦。放弃一个你很爱的人，那才痛苦。爱上一个不爱你的人，那是更痛苦。

1. It's not painful to give up a person who deeply loves you. It's painful to give up a person you deeply love. It's even more painful to fall in love with a person who doesn't love you.

2. 窗外下着雪，泡一杯咖啡，握到它凉了，才知道又想起了你。我的期待你如何才能明白！

2. Snow is falling outside the window. I brewed a cup of coffee, holding it until it cooled down, and then I remembered you. How can you ever understand my expectations!

3. 分手后，不可以做朋友，因为彼此伤害过，不可以做敌人，因为彼此深爱过，所以我们变成了最熟悉的陌生人。

3. After breaking up, we cannot be friends because we have hurt each other, and we cannot be enemies because we have deeply loved each other, so we have become the most familiar strangers.

4. 没有人可以回到过去重新开始，但谁都可以从今日开始，书写一个全然不同的结局。

4. No one can go back to the past to start over, but everyone can start from today to write a completely different ending.

5. 骏马能历险，力田不如牛；坚车能载重，渡河不如舟；舍长以求短，谋者难为全。?>

5. A spirited horse can undertake adventures, but it is not as strong as an ox in farming; a sturdy cart can carry heavy loads, but it is not as good as a boat for crossing rivers; to abandon one's strengths in pursuit of weaknesses, it is difficult for a planner to achieve perfection.

6. 如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧；如果，舍不得、放不下，那就痛苦吧。

6. If you are not happy, if you are not joyful, then let go; if you can't bear to let go, then endure the pain.

7. 爱一个人不是要拥有他，只要在远方默默地注视他，也就心满意足。

7. To love someone is not to possess them, but to silently watch them from afar, and that is enough to satisfy the heart.

8. 真正的爱情，是在能爱的时候，懂得珍惜。真正的爱情，是在无法爱的时候，懂得放手。

8. True love is knowing to cherish when one is able to love. True love is knowing to let go when one is unable to love.

9. 简单安静的生活其实不幸福，所以我只拥抱刹那，绵延持久的感觉根本不快乐，所以我只信仰瞬间。

9. A simple and quiet life is not actually happy, so I only embrace the fleeting moment. The feeling of continuity and perseverance is not joyful, so I only believe in the instant.

10. 没有尊重，爱会走掉。没有在乎，爱会无聊。没有诚实，爱会不爽。没有信任，爱会不牢。

10. Without respect, love will wander away. Without care, love will become boring. Without honesty, love will be unpleasant. Without trust, love will be unstable.

11. 爱到分才显珍贵，很多人都不懂珍惜拥有只到失去才看到，其实那最熟悉的才是最珍贵的。

11. Love is only precious when it is divided; many people do not understand the value of what they have until they lose it. In fact, the most familiar is the most precious.

12. 不敢说出口，因为我胆小，因为如果你拒绝，我以后就不能够再见到你了，宁愿默默的爱着你，不能让你知道，直到，直到你投进别人的环抱。

12. I dare not say it out loud because I am timid; because if you refuse, I won't be able to see you again in the future. I would rather silently love you, not letting you know, until, until you fall into someone else's embrace.

13. 有谁不曾为那暗恋而受苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重、很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，募然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻、很轻的。

13. Who has not suffered for the unspoken love? We always think that that infatuation is very heavy, very heavy, the heaviest weight in the world. One day, when we look back suddenly, we realize that it has always been very light, very light.

14. 人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地坚持了不该坚持的。

14. The greatest regret in life is to easily give up what should not be given up, and to stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in.

15. 找准自己的位置，你就会焕发出你应有的美丽。有了一个清新的头脑，你就可以认真构想你的前景，你一定会达到你想要达到的目的。

15. Find your own position and you will radiate the beauty that is due to you. With a fresh mind, you can seriously envision your future, and you will definitely achieve the goals you desire.

16. 我不会放弃，我只是爱，如果失去了这份爱，我不知道我会成为一个什么样的人。

16. I will not give up, for I only love. If I lose this love, I do not know who I will become.

17. 有一种爱，明明是深爱，却说不出来；有一种爱，明明想放弃，却无法放弃；有一种爱，明知是煎熬，却又躲不开。

17. There is a kind of love that is deeply felt but cannot be expressed; there is a kind of love that you want to give up but cannot; there is a kind of love that you know is torturous yet you cannot avoid it.

18. 如果真诚是一种伤害，我选择谎言；如果谎言是一种伤害，我选则沉默；如果沉默是一种伤害，我选择离开。

18. If sincerity is an injury, I choose lies; if lies are an injury, I choose silence; if silence is an injury, I choose to leave.

19. 我们的生活有太多无奈，我们无法改变，也无力去改变，更糟的是，我们失去了改变的想法。

19. Our lives are filled with too many无奈, and we are unable to change them, nor do we have the strength to do so. Worst of all, we have lost the will to change.

20. 人生是一场电影，痛苦是一个开端，挣扎是一种过程，死亡是一种结局。

20. Life is a movie, pain is a beginning, struggle is a process, and death is an ending.

21. 有时，爱也是种伤害残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。

21. Sometimes, love can also be a cruel form of harm; those who are cruel choose to harm others, while kind-hearted people choose to harm themselves.

22. 岁之前，请记得，感情通常是假的，或者不是你所想象的那样纯洁和永远。如果你过了岁，那么你就应懂得这个道理。

Before the age of 22, remember that emotions are often false, or not as pure and eternal as you imagine. If you are past the age of 22, then you should understand this principle.

23. 不要因为一点瑕疵而放弃一段爱情，毕竟在爱情里，需要的是真情，而不是完美。

23. Do not give up on a love story over a minor flaw, for in love, what is needed is sincerity, not perfection.

24. 有些缘分是注定要失去的，有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的，爱一个人不一定要拥有，但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱他。

24. Some relationships are destined to be lost, and some relationships will never have a good outcome. To love someone doesn't necessarily mean you have to possess them, but to possess someone, you must love them well.

25. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

25. Time will gradually settle, and some people will slowly fade in your heart. Learn to let go, as your happiness needs your own fulfillment.

26. 放弃该放弃的，变会得到该得到的。放弃并不是放弃你本追求的理想而是为了你的理想暂时放弃。

26. Give up what needs to be given up, and you will obtain what you should have. Giving up is not about giving up the ideals you originally pursued, but rather temporarily setting them aside for the sake of your ideals.

27. 某一天，有一天。但不是今天，也不是明天，更不是后天。我会好起来。

27. Someday, one day. But not today, not tomorrow, nor the day after tomorrow. I will get better.

28. 人生最难的不是如何去拥有而是该怎样学会放弃，这不一定是结束，新的开始将来临。

28. The hardest part of life is not how to acquire, but how to learn to let go. This is not necessarily an end; a new beginning will come in the future.

29. 要想采一束清新的山花，就得放弃城市的舒适；要想做一名登山健儿，就得放弃娇嫩白净的肤色。你不可能什么都得到，所以你应该学会放弃。

29. To gather a bouquet of fresh mountain flowers, one must forsake the comfort of the city; to become a mountaineering athlete, one must give up a delicate, fair complexion. You cannot have everything, so you should learn to let go.

30. 有的人甚至在取舍间渡过了一生。有时要学会放弃，是为了更好的实现你的理想，如烟往事俱忘却，放弃不是舍弃，学会放弃。

30. Some people even spend their entire lives making choices. Sometimes, learning to let go is necessary to better realize your ideals. Like the smoke of past events, forget it all; giving up is not about abandonment, but learning to let go.

31. 当必须放弃时，就果断地放弃吧。放得下，才能走得远！有所放弃，才能有所追求。什么也不愿放弃的人，反而会失去最珍贵的东西。

31. When it is necessary to give up, do so resolutely. Only by letting go can you go far! There must be something to give up in order to pursue something. Those who are unwilling to give up anything will actually lose the most precious things.

32. 船舶放弃安全的港湾，才能在深海中收获满船鱼虾。

32. A ship must abandon a safe harbor to reap a full cargo of fish and shrimp in the deep sea.

33. 没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。

33. A life that has not experienced love is incomplete, and love that has not experienced pain is not profound. Love enriches life, and pain elevates love.

34. 当一切尘埃落定，当一切归于平静，我才会真正懂得放弃其实也是一种美丽的收获。

34. Only when all the dust has settled and everything returns to calmness, will I truly understand that giving up can also be a beautiful gain.

35. 学会放弃，放弃是一种智慧的美丽。懂得放弃，才更懂得拥有，懂得珍惜。

35. Learn to let go; giving up is a beautiful aspect of wisdom. Understanding how to let go makes one more aware of possession and the value of cherishing.

36. 在人生的大风浪中，我们常常学船长的样子，在狂风暴雨之下把笨重的货物扔掉，以减轻船的重量。

36. In the great storms of life, we often imitate the appearance of a ship's captain, throwing away the heavy cargo in the midst of gales and storms to lighten the ship's weight.

37. 有些东西放得下的，又何必执着。有些东西放不下的，就不要勉强。

37. There are some things that can be let go of, so why be obsessed? There are some things that cannot be let go of, so don't force it.

38. 我们微笑着说：我们停留在时光的原处，其实早已被洪流无声地卷走。

38. We smile as we say: We stay at the original place of time, yet we have been silently swept away by the flood.

39. 我真的爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。

39. I really love you, and when I close my eyes, I thought I could forget, but the tears that fell did not deceive myself.

40. 有的东西你再喜欢也不会属於你的，有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的，人生中有许多种爱，但别让爱成为一种伤害。

40. There are some things you may like, but they will never belong to you. There are some things you may cherish, but they are destined to be let go. There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a source of harm.

41. 有些时候，正是为了爱才悄悄躲开，躲开的是身影，躲不开的却是那份默默的情怀。

41. Sometimes, it is precisely for love that one quietly retreats, the body may hide, but the silent affection cannot be concealed.

42. 在完美的彼岸刚刚上演了一场悲剧，所有的血与泪在枯萎的荆棘孕育出一个花蕾，它将经历轮回的七场雷雨，然后绽放在潮湿的空气中。

42. A tragedy has just unfolded on the shore of perfection, where all the blood and tears have孕育出一个花蕾 among withered thorns, which will undergo seven cycles of thunderstorms before blooming in the damp air.

43. 有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的！

43. Some people are etched in memory forever, even if we forget their voice, forget their smile, forget their face, but the feeling we have whenever we remember them will never change!

44. 这世界上有一个人是永远等着你的，不管是什么时候，不管你是在什么地方，反正你知道，总有这样一个人。

44. There is someone in this world who is always waiting for you, no matter what time it is, no matter where you are. You know that there is always such a person.

45. 不要说我不够爱你，我只是不知道该如何表达我对你的爱而已。

45. Don't say that I don't love you enough; I just don't know how to express my love for you.

46. 你当我是个风筝，要不把我放了，要不然收好带回家，别用一条看不见的情思拴着我，让我心伤。

46. Treat me as a kite, either let me go or keep me safe to take home. Don't tie me down with invisible strings of affection, causing me heartache.

47. 原来只要分开了的人、无论原来多么熟悉、也会慢慢变得疏远。

47. It turns out that even those who were once close, after separation, will gradually become distant.

48. 去见你想见的人吧。趁阳光正好。趁微风不噪。趁你还年轻。趁他还未老。

48. Go see the people you want to see. While the sun is shining brightly. While the breeze is not too noisy. While you are still young. While he has not yet grown old.

49. 人的一生有许多难以取舍，困惑不已的琐事所纠缠著，这时所需的就是断然的舍弃与明智的抉择，唯一会限制我们的，就只有决心。

49. Life is filled with numerous trivial matters that are difficult to choose between and cause endless confusion, and what is needed at such times is decisive abandonment and wise choice. The only thing that can limit us is our determination.

50. 在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

50. In this complicated secular world, being able to learn to treat everything around us with a calm and ordinary heart is also a kind of realm.

51. 放弃，是一种境界，是自然界发展的一种必由之路。

51. Abandonment is a realm, a necessary path for the development of nature.

52. 人要成功一定要有永不放弃的精神，当你学会放弃的时候，你才开始进步。

52. In order to succeed, one must have the spirit of never giving up. It is when you learn to let go that you begin to progress.

53. 好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

53. Good love is when you see the whole world through one person, and bad love is when you abandon the world for one person.

54. 在爱情上、人总是这样的、最美好的永远是得不到的和已经失去的。

54. In love, people always tend to be like this: the most beautiful things are always the ones that can't be obtained or have already been lost.

55. 不要指望，麻雀会飞得很高。高处的天空，那是鹰的领地。麻雀如果摆正了自己的位置，它照样会过得很幸福！

55. Don't expect the sparrow to fly very high. The high skies are the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow sets its place correctly, it will still live a happy life!

56. 不管昨天拥有晴朗，还是阴霾，学会放弃，你将从自己的明天，获得更新的一轮太阳，获得任你驰骋的更大的一片蓝天！

56. Whether yesterday was clear and sunny or cloudy and overcast, learn to let go, and you will obtain an entirely new sunrise from your own tomorrow, and a wider sky for you to gallop freely!

57. 当你学会放弃，你才可以承受一切的失望和谎言。

57. When you learn to let go, you can bear all the disappointments and lies.

58. 于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧遇上了。

58. Among the myriad of people, you meet the one you meet; in the boundless expanse of time's endless wilderness, neither too early nor too late, just coincidentally coming across each other.