在喧嚣的都市中，有一个名为“朋友圈”的宁静角落，它如同心灵的港湾，屏蔽着无感者的喧嚣。

In the hustle and bustle of the city, there is a tranquil corner called "Friends Circle," which is like a harbor for the soul, shielding the noise from those who feel indifferent.

1. 胸襟的宽窄，决定命运的格局，你能包容多少，就能拥有多少。凡事看得开、想得透、拿得起、放得下，学会隐忍性情，懂得克制欲望，退却时理智，谦让时大度，你的天地才会壮阔辽远；唯有万事先修德，养性必制怒，删除旁枝末节，除却杂念私心,多些随缘自适，少些攀比计较，人生方可行云流水，成大风景。

1. The breadth of one's mind determines the pattern of one's destiny. The more you can tolerate, the more you can possess. If you can see things clearly, think deeply, hold on to what is important, and let go of what is not, learn to endure your temperament, and understand how to control your desires, be rational in retreat, and magnanimous in yielding, then your realm will be vast and distant. Only by cultivating virtue in all things, controlling anger in the cultivation of character, eliminating trivial matters and personal desires, and having more serenity and adaptability, and less comparison and calculation, can life flow smoothly and become a grand scene.

2. 希望你所有的努力，都有回报，能过自己想要的生活，一生平安喜乐，但愿你知道，没有几人真心希望你好，但我是。晚安！

2. I hope all your efforts are rewarded, and you can live the life you want, enjoy peace and happiness throughout your life. May you know that not many people truly wish you well, but I do. Good night!

3. 外界可以变动或者影响我们，自己的心要能够应付。心不能受限于它们的影响，心要超越那些。

3. The external world can change or influence us, but our own mind must be able to cope with it. The mind should not be confined by their influence, and it should transcend those influences.

4. ❶早安地球人！今日份的云朵拿铁已就位，谁还没被生活苦到需要加点糖？☕️

4. ❶Good morning, Earthlings! Today's cloud latte is ready, who hasn't been bitternessed by life enough to need a sprinkle of sugar? ☕️

5. 你曾经让我怦然心动是真的，现在让我惊不起一丝波澜也是真的。晚安！

5. It's true that you once made my heart race, and it's also true that now you don't stir even a ripple in me. Good night!

6. ❹天气预报说今天宜摸鱼，忌焦虑，多云转晴的不止是天空，还有打工人的心态⛅️

6. The weather forecast says today is suitable for loafing around, and it's best to avoid anxiety. Not only is the sky overcast turning sunny, but so is the mindset of the working class⛅️.

7. 不是除了你，我就没人要了。只是除了你，我谁都不想要。晚安！

7. It's not that I have no one else to choose from; it's just that, besides you, I don't want anyone else. Good night!

8. ❿周六的闹钟是生物钟的叛逆期，被子说它和床垫签了永久合作协议，建议躺平执行

8. The alarm clock on Saturday is in the rebellious phase of the body clock. The blanket claims it has signed a permanent cooperative agreement with the mattress, and suggests lying flat to execute.

9. 爱你的人东西南北都顺路，想你的人白天黑夜都不忙。晚安！

9. If someone loves you, the directions of north, south, east, and west are all convenient for them. If someone is thinking of you, they are never busy day or night. Good night!

10. 生活的悲剧不在于一个人输了，而在于他差一点赢了。

10. The tragedy of life does not lie in one's defeat, but in almost winning.

11. 人生路上常有风雨，凡事需要坚强不屈。当你在内心找到一种可以忍受一切痛苦的坚强力量时，成长历程就出现了飞跃。简单，是内心里的从容和淡定，人生苦短，没必要和生活过于计较，也没必要过于看重利弊得失。你越在乎，就会在得失之间徘徊越久；如果你看淡了，心宽了，那些所谓的得失也不过如此。

11. Life is often fraught with storms and trials, and one must be resolute and unyielding in all things. When you find within yourself a strong force that can endure any kind of suffering, your journey of growth will take a leap. Simplicity is the composure and calmness within, and since life is short, there is no need to be overly concerned with life's minutiae, nor is there a need to overly value gains and losses. The more you care, the longer you will徘徊 between gains and losses; but if you take things lightly and have a broader mind, those so-called gains and losses are nothing but trivial.

12. 真正的好朋友是把许多美好的事物说给你听，并且希望你也能够拥有，而不是拿这些东西来反讥你的现状，且认为你不配拥有这些东西。

12. A true good friend is someone who shares many wonderful things with you and wishes for you to also have them, rather than using these things to mock your current situation and believe that you are not worthy of possessing such things.

13. 人生就是一次次欢笑与流泪的过程，走遍高山流水，历尽春夏秋冬，我们才能慢慢的长大，慢慢的成熟，直至老去。阴晴圆缺乃是人生必不可少的经历，不敢经历风雨的洗礼，又怎能见到彩虹的绚丽？眼因流多泪水而愈益清明，心因饱经忧患而愈益温厚。晚安！

13. Life is a process of laughter and tears, traversing mountains and rivers, experiencing the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Only then can we grow up and mature slowly, until we grow old. The changes of yin and yang, full and waning, are indispensable experiences in life. How can one see the brilliance of the rainbow without undergoing the baptism of storms and rains? The eyes become clearer with the tears shed, and the heart becomes warmer with the suffering endured. Good night!

14. 有些女孩子从小到大都太懂事了。什么是懂事呢，就是想要什么都不敢说，怕看到父母不悦的眼神；也不敢开口求帮忙，怕麻烦别人。所以现在总处处为别人考虑，谁对自己好都感激涕零。为什么要把这种定义成善解人意呢，我反倒希望你找到一个能记住你喜好的男孩子。不求最好，只愿最温柔。--桌肚君。晚安！

14. Some girls have been too mature from a young age. What does it mean to be mature? It means not daring to say what they want, afraid of seeing their parents' displeased expressions; not daring to ask for help, afraid of troubling others. So now they always consider others first, and they are extremely grateful to anyone who is good to them. Why define this as being understanding? I would rather you find a boy who can remember your likes. Not the best, just the gentlest. -- Table Drawer Lord. Good night!

15. 选择只是短短几秒钟的事然后用余下的时间来还债。晚安！

15. The choice takes just a few seconds, and then the rest of the time is spent paying off the debt. Good night!

16. 愿你最爱的人，也最爱你。愿你确定爱着的人，也确定爱着你。愿你珍惜爱你的人，也愿他们的爱，值得你珍惜。愿每个人生命中最爱的人，会最早出现。愿每个人生命中最早出现的人，会是最爱的人。愿你的爱情，只有喜悦与幸福，没有悲伤与愧疚。

16. May the one you love the most also love you the most. May the one you are sure in love with also be sure in loving you. May you cherish the ones who love you, and may their love be worth cherishing. May the person most loved in everyone's life appear first. May the one who appears first in everyone's life be the most loved. May your love be filled only with joy and happiness, without sadness and guilt.

17. 暗恋最迷人的地方就是没有说出口，而暗恋最美好的，就是我暗恋你的时候正好你也喜欢我。

17. The most charming thing about having a secret crush is that it remains unsaid, and the best part of having a secret crush is when I have a crush on you, and you also like me at that time.

18. 其实这个世界上，并没有什么可以伤害到你的事情，只要你足够的冷漠，足够的漠然，足够的一切事情都变得不再在乎，只要你慢慢地把自己的心，打磨成一粒光滑坚硬的石头，就再也没有东西可以伤害你了！晚安！

18. In fact, in this world, there is nothing that can harm you, as long as you are sufficiently indifferent, sufficiently indifferent to everything, and stop caring about anything. As long as you gradually grind your heart into a smooth and hard stone, nothing can hurt you anymore! Good night!

19. 青春就像是火一样，燃烧殆尽之后或许什么也没有留下。晚安！

19. Youth is like fire, and after it burns out, perhaps nothing is left behind. Good night!

20. 有一种强大叫简单，强大到谁都无法破坏内心的纯粹。

20. There is a strength in simplicity, so powerful that no one can disrupt the purity of the inner self.

21. 人最软弱的地方是舍不得。舍不得一段不再精彩的感情，舍不得一份虚荣，舍不得掌声。生命是一场无法回放的绝版**，再好的东西都有失去的一天，再深的记忆也有淡忘的一天，再爱的人也有远走的一天，再美的梦也有苏醒的一天。生命不止，红尘无尽。仅以一程换一种懂得，仅以一途悟一场经历，如此而已。

21. The weakest point of a person is the reluctance to let go. Reluctant to let go of a relationship that is no longer exciting, reluctant to let go of a sense of vanity, and reluctant to let go of applause. Life is a once-in-a-lifetime exclusive edition that cannot be replayed. Even the best things will one day be lost, the deepest memories will one day fade, the most beloved will one day leave, and the most beautiful dreams will one day wake up. Life goes on, and the world is endless. It's just a journey for a kind of understanding, just a path for a kind of experience, that's all.

22. 朋友圈发自拍不要太过分，大家都是见过面的！晚安！

22. Don't overdo it with self-portraits on your social circle! We've all met each other! Good night!

23. 不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。

23. Do not anticipate, do not assume, do not force, let it be natural. If it is meant to happen, it will certainly come to pass. Inner peace is the most beautiful state of being alive.

24. ❸生物钟比上班打卡还准时的养生派：晨光+八段锦=今日功德+1 需要广播体操跟练教程的请扣1

24. 🌟 The health-conscious group that is even more punctual than clocking in for work: Morning sunlight + Ba Duan Jin = +1 merit for today. Those who need a broadcast physical exercise tutorial, please press 1.

25. 当他们活着的时候，从来没有想过自己会死去。他们死去的时候，如同从来没有活过。

25. When they were alive, they never thought they would die. When they died, it was as if they had never lived.

26. 把时间花在疼爱你的人身上，把精力放在更重要的事情上。晚安！

26. Spend your time with the people who love you and focus your energy on more important matters. Good night!

27. 幸福五大原则：心中无恨；脑中无忧；生活简单；多些付出；少些期待。

27. The Five Principles of Happiness: No resentment in the heart; no worries in the mind; simple living; more giving; less expecting.

28. 这个世界，不是为任何人设计的。要学会把握可以改变的事，学会接纳无法选择的事。

28. This world is not designed for anyone. Learn to grasp what can be changed, and learn to accept what cannot be chosen.

29. 此刻，我在这里等你，我是夜里一双白色的羽翼，分享你的喜悦，安慰你的伤心。晚安！

29. At this moment, I am here waiting for you, a pair of white wings in the night, sharing your joy and comforting your sorrow. Good night!

30. 人生知止而乐。“乐不可极，乐极生悲；欲不可纵，纵欲成灾；酒饮微醉处，花看半开时。”天道忌盈，业不求满。若业必求满，功必求盈，不生内变，必招外忧。人生在世，做人不必苛求，做事不必完美，乐不可享尽。为人做事懂得适可而止，对别人是一种宽容，对自己是一种余地。

30. Life finds joy in knowing when to stop. "Excessive joy leads to sorrow; unrestrained desires lead to disasters; drink to the point of slight intoxication, admire flowers when they are half-bloomed." The Tao Te Ching warns against overabundance, and one should not seek to fulfill all desires. If one must seek fulfillment and perfection, internal changes will not occur, but external worries will surely arise. In life, one need not be overly demanding of oneself in terms of character, nor strive for perfection in one's actions, nor seek to exhaust all sources of joy. In dealing with others and oneself, one should know when to stop, which is a form of tolerance towards others and a form of leeway towards oneself.

31. 我的所有伤痛在意和难受在你眼里都只是轻描淡写的八个字莫名其妙无理取闹。晚安！

31. All my pain and discomfort in your eyes are just eight trivial words that sound absurd and unreasonable. Good night!

32. 以前以为坚持就是永不动摇，现在才明白，坚持是犹豫着、退缩着、心猿意马着，但还在继续往前走。晚安！

32. I used to think that perseverance meant never wavering, but now I understand that it's about hesitating, retreating, and being easily distracted, yet still continuing to move forward. Goodnight!

33. 你必须先宽恕才能理解。在你能宽恕之前，你挡住了自己获得理解的可能性。---玛里琳。鲁宾逊

33. You must forgive first in order to understand. Before you can forgive, you block the possibility of gaining understanding. --- Marilyn Robinson

34. 幸福、情绪、感受要依赖于自己的身体，身体本身是不自由的。问题都是自己的，它只是给你一面镜子，是你自己在解释。因缘也是自己的欲望招来的。

34. Happiness, emotions, and feelings depend on one's own body, which itself is not free. The problems are all your own, and it is only a mirror reflecting back to you, it is you who are interpreting them. The causes and conditions are also brought about by your own desires.

35. 对一个人一次次的失望，最后结果应该不是厌恶而是无感，就是关我什么事的意思，你做什么都与我无所谓了。晚安！

35. After being disappointed by someone repeatedly, the final result should not be resentment but indifference, which means "what does it matter to me," meaning that whatever you do is of no concern to me. Good night!

36. 喜欢像星火，落在我眼角眉梢，落在我躲闪的目光，偏偏燎不到你。晚安！

36. Like sparks, you fall in the corners of my eyes and eyebrows, in the gaze I dodge, yet you are the one you can't ignite. Good night!

37. 男人要记住，与女人吵架的要领是，要像在安装软件或注册网站时阅读“服务条款”那样，直接忽略所有的内容，到最后面勾选：”我同意“，然后点击“我确定”。

37. Men should remember that the key to arguing with a woman is to ignore all the content as if you were reading the "Terms of Service" while installing software or registering on a website, and just scroll to the end, tick the box: "I agree," and then click "I confirm."

38. 在一回首间，才忽然发现，原来，我一生的种种努力，不过只为了周遭的人对我满意而已。为了博得他人的称许与微笑

38. In a moment of reflection, I suddenly realized that all the efforts I have made in my life were merely to win the satisfaction of those around me. In order to earn others' praise and smiles.

39. 引导语：我如履薄冰地前行着。现如今的生活不易，实在不想再次经历低谷，尽管低谷本身就是生活的一部分。我所说的低谷那不过是个时代的牺牲品。我无愧于心。我指的是人没有方向的那种状态。

39. Introduction: I am proceeding with great caution, as if walking on thin ice. Life is not easy nowadays, and I really don't want to go through the valley again, although the valley itself is a part of life. The valley I am referring to is nothing more than a victim of the times. I have no regrets in my heart. What I mean is the state where a person lacks direction.

40. 每一个在你生命里出现的人，都有原因。喜欢你的人给予你温暖和勇气。你喜欢的人让你学会爱和自持。你不喜欢的人教会你宽容与尊重。不喜欢你的人，让你自省与成长。每一个人的出现都有原因，都值得感激。

40. Everyone who appears in your life has a reason. Those who like you give you warmth and courage. Those you like teach you to love and maintain yourself. Those you don't like teach you tolerance and respect. Those who don't like you help you reflect and grow. There is a reason for everyone's appearance, and everyone is worthy of gratitude.

41. ❻晨间冷知识：人类大脑在起床后需要90分钟完全开机，所以此刻发呆属于科学行为，理直气壮.jpg

41. 🌅 Morning Cold Knowledge: The human brain needs 90 minutes to fully boot up after waking up, so daydreaming at this moment is a scientific behavior, no shame.jpg

42. 温柔要有，但不是妥协，我们要在安静中，不慌不忙的坚强。

42. There should be gentleness, but not compromise; we need to be strong, not in a hurry, in the quiet.

43. 爱是我爱你，而你也正好爱着我；爱是相互依偎又不失自我；爱是坦白与真诚……爱，正是因为如此美好并且难求，所以才如此被赞颂。

43. Love is about you loving me and me loving you back; love is about being dependent on each other while still retaining one's self; love is about openness and sincerity... Love, precisely because it is so beautiful and hard to come by, is so highly praised.

44. 我不炫耀，因为我不自卑。我不花心，因为我不缺爱。人性就是这样，自卑才炫耀，缺爱才花心。你的招摇，除了证明内心虚弱，说明不了任何东西！

44. I don't boast because I don't feel inferior. I'm not unfaithful because I'm not lacking in love. That's the nature of humanity; it's the inferiority that leads to boasting, and the lack of love that leads to infidelity. Your showiness doesn't prove anything other than the weakness within you!

45. 慢慢发现，喜欢一个人就是毁了原来的自己。早安晚安，你不知道没有你的问候我很不安。我不会对谁都善良，人心换人心，是人都懂得道理，属于我的，会一直记着，不属于我的，我只能学着若无其事。就算没有倾国倾城的美貌，也要有摧毁一座城的骄傲，撕心裂肺的哭，比不上没心没肺的笑。晚安！

45. Slowly I've realized that loving someone is like destroying the original version of myself. Good morning and good night, I don't know how uncomfortable I feel without your greetings. I won't be kind to everyone; people exchanging hearts, it's a truth everyone understands. What belongs to me, I'll always remember; what doesn't belong to me, I can only learn to act as if it's nothing. Even if I don't have the stunning beauty that can conquer a country, I should have the pride to destroy a city, and a heart-wrenching cry is not as good as a heartless laugh. Good night!

46. 你值得睡上一个好觉，不要再为了那个睡得很香的人而失眠。晚安！

46. You deserve a good night's sleep, and don't let the person who sleeps soundly keep you awake. Good night!

47. 看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。活着，总有你看不惯的人，也有看不惯你的人。你的成熟不是因为你活了多少年走了多少路经历过多少失败，而是因为你懂得了放弃，学会了宽容，知道了不争。

47. Understanding a person without exposing them is the meaning of forgiveness; disliking someone without confronting them is the ultimate form of respect. In life, there will always be people you cannot stand, and there will be people who cannot stand you. Your maturity is not because you have lived for a certain number of years, walked a certain distance, or experienced a certain number of failures. It is because you have learned to let go, have acquired tolerance, and know not to compete.

48. 是我太愚蠢了，虽然只有一瞬间，我竟然想和你厮守一生。晚安！

48. It's just that I'm too foolish, though it was just for a moment, I actually thought of spending my entire life with you. Good night!

49. 我们很少信任比我们好的人，宁肯避免与他们来往。相反，我们常对与我们相似，和我们有着共同弱点的人吐露心迹。我们并不希望改掉弱点，只希望收到怜悯与鼓励。

49. We rarely trust people who are better than us and would rather avoid interacting with them. On the contrary, we often confide in those who are similar to us, sharing common weaknesses. We don't hope to eliminate our weaknesses; we just wish to receive compassion and encouragement.

50. 男孩重在培养其坚强的意志、品格和责任感；女孩则需要塑造良好的气质，开阔视野，增减阅历和见识。

50. For boys, the focus is on cultivating their strong will, character, and sense of responsibility; for girls, it is about shaping a good temperament, broadening their horizons, and enriching their experiences and knowledge.

51. 不要轻言你是在为谁付出和牺牲，其实所有的付出和牺牲最终的受益人都是自己。人生是一场与任何人无关的独自的修行，这是一条悲欣交集的道路，路的尽头一定有礼物，就看你配不配得到。

51. Do not lightly speak of who you are sacrificing for, for in the end, the ultimate beneficiary of all the sacrifices is yourself. Life is a solitary practice that has nothing to do with anyone else, a path filled with both sorrow and joy. At the end of the road, there is always a gift, but it depends on whether you are worthy of receiving it.

52. 回到真我，想哭就哭，想笑就笑，做一个洒脱的人。晚安！

52. Return to your true self, cry when you want to, laugh when you want to, be a carefree person. Good night!

53. 万物各按其时，成为美好，绽放后枯萎，凋零再复生。当我回想，才明白每段时光都有它的尽头，每个角色都有它的期限；而我所能做的，就是尽本份并享受，享受每一段时光、每一次相遇。不必害怕悲伤是永远，也无须感叹欢乐稍纵即逝。晚安！

53. All things in their season become beautiful, bloom and then wither, and wither again only to regenerate. When I look back, I realize that each period of time has its end, and each role has its expiration date; what I can do is to fulfill my duties and enjoy, to enjoy every moment, every encounter. There is no need to fear that sadness is forever, nor to sigh over the fleeting nature of joy. Good night!

54. 一个人的美，即使无所衬托也静静地胜出，大概这就是所谓的绝色了。——林青霞

54. A person's beauty can stand out quietly even without any accompaniment, which is probably what is meant by the term 'beyond compare.' — Brigitte Lin

55. 容易走的是下坡路，你现在辛苦，证明你在走上坡路。

55. The easy path is the downhill one; your current hardship proves that you are on the uphill road.

56. 人不应该是插在花瓶里供人观赏的静物，而是蔓延在草原上随风起舞的韵律。生命不是安排，而是追求，人生的意义也许永远没有答案，但也要尽情感受这种没有答案的人生。早安！晚安！

56. Humans should not be still lifes placed in vases for others to admire, but rhythms that spread across the grasslands, dancing with the wind. Life is not about arrangement, but about pursuit. Perhaps the meaning of life will never have an answer, but one should fully immerse oneself in the experience of this life without an answer. Good morning! Good night!

57. ❾两脚兽已被本喵踩醒，现征集今日罐头赞助商，支持云投喂业务

57. The bipedal creature has been awakened by meow, and we are now recruiting today's canned food sponsor to support the cloud feeding business.

58. 不要执著于令自己痛苦的事物，不要去惦记再也回不去的曾经。过去既然那么让人绝望，人总是要往前走的，有些事，放弃得越早，未来就会越好。晚安！

58. Do not cling to things that bring you pain, and do not dwell on the past that can never return. Since the past was so despairing, people always need to move forward. The sooner one lets go of certain things, the better the future will be. Good night!

59. 一段美好的关系就关乎两件事：首先，找出双方的共同爱好，第二，尊重彼此的不同。晚安！

59. A good relationship boils down to two things: first, finding common interests between both parties, and second, respecting each other's differences. Good night!

60. 品德是无法伪造的，也无法像衣服一样随兴地穿上，或脱下来丢在一旁。就像木头的纹路，源自树木的中心，品德的成长与发育也需要时间和滋养。也因此，我们日复一日地写下自身的命运，因为我们的所为毫不留情地决定我们的命运。我相信这就是人生的最高逻辑和法则。

60. Morality cannot be forged, nor can it be put on or taken off at will like clothes, and thrown aside. Just as the grain of wood comes from the center of the tree, the growth and development of morality also require time and nourishment. Therefore, we write our own destiny day by day, because what we do decides our destiny without mercy. I believe this is the highest logic and law of life.

61. 做一个淡然女子，飘忽人际中，置身世相外，拒万般诱惑，赢一人之心；做一个静默女子，浅笑去千愁，轻语醉春秋，虽不善言辞，亦自成风景；做一个浓情女子，寂时似禅定，情开如烈火，爱就梦一场，别恨只道无；做一个寒梅女子，只为暖冬，无意争春，惟愿走过，不求来过。

61. Be a serene woman, drifting among people, detached from the world's affairs, rejecting all kinds of temptations, and winning the heart of one person; be a silent woman, smiling away a thousand worries, softly murmuring through the seasons, though not skilled in speech, she is still a picturesque sight; be a passionate woman, serene in solitude as if meditating, her emotions as fierce as flames, loving as a dream, and parting grievances as if they never existed; be a plum blossom woman, seeking warmth in winter, not vying for spring, only hoping to pass through, not caring about coming.

62. 不是你必须说全部密码给我知道， 而是即使全部都不知道我都确定你不会犯错。安全感不是吵架时候你拉着我搂着我， 而是即使冷战我都清楚知道你不会放走我。安全感就是我心甘情愿地全心信任你，同时你能毫无保留忠诚地珍惜我的信任。

62. It's not that you have to tell me all the passwords so I know, but rather, even if I don't know all of them, I am certain that you wouldn't make a mistake. Security is not about holding me close during an argument, but rather, even during a cold war, I am clear that you wouldn't let me go. Security is about me freely choosing to wholeheartedly trust you, while you treasure my trust with unwavering loyalty and without reserve.

63. 也许，这就是爱情。思念，牵挂，期待，相见，微笑，然后哭泣。perhaps this is love Miss, care, looking forward to, meet, a smile, then cry。

63. Perhaps, this is love. Longing, concern, anticipation, meeting, a smile, and then tears.

64. 事实上，酒只是喝醉了人，而心却不会醉，醉的是一个人的自尊心。

64. In fact, it is only the alcohol that intoxicates a person, but the heart does not become drunk; what gets drunk is a person's self-esteem.

65. 编后语：那时候你还年轻，以为你对别人好，别人就一定对你好，以为只要努力，就一定有收获，以为只要牵手就是永远，就是因为太年轻，所以所有的悲伤和快乐都显得那么深刻，轻轻一碰就惊天动地。时间让你成长的同时，也让你看开了许多，没什么非你不可，也没什么不可失去，尽管艰难，依然坚强。

Postscript: Back then, you were young and thought that if you were good to others, they would definitely be good to you. You believed that as long as you worked hard, there would always be rewards, and that holding hands would mean forever. It was because of your youth that all your sadness and happiness seemed so profound, capable of causing great upheaval with just a light touch. As time made you grow, it also taught you to see things more clearly. There's nothing that absolutely depends on you, and nothing that you can't afford to lose. Despite the difficulties, you remain strong.

66. 把别人的缺点装进心里，就好比把别人丢掉的垃圾捡起来堆在家里。

66. Carrying others' shortcomings in your heart is like picking up the garbage others have discarded and piling it up in your home.

67. 落寞、寞落，皆是寞，都已落。过错、错过，皆是错，都已过。

67. Solitude, desolation, both are desolate, and they have all fallen. Mistake, miss, both are mistakes, and they have all passed.

68. 你走了以后好像任何事都有蹲下来大哭一场的理由。晚安！

68. It seems like there's a reason to crouch down and cry my eyes out for anything after you left. Good night!

69. 中年人能承受多大压力，检验的是他的韧性；年轻人能够承受多大的压力，焕发的是他的潜能。

69. The degree of pressure that middle-aged people can withstand tests their resilience; the amount of pressure that young people can endure brings out their potential.

70. 执着其实是一种负担，甚至是一种苦楚，计较得太多就成了一种羁绊，迷失太久便成了一种痛苦。晚安！

70. Persistence, in fact, can be a burden, even a kind of suffering. Overthinking it can become an obstacle, and getting lost for too long can turn into pain. Good night!

71. 不必去假装过得很好，其实没多少人在乎你好还是不好。

71. There's no need to pretend you're doing well; in reality, not many people care whether you're doing well or not.

72. 与其诅咒黑暗，不如燃起蜡烛。没有人能给你光明，除了你自己。

72. It's better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. No one can give you light but yourself.

73. 时光带走了你我的青春，却是带不走回忆。你依然是我内心的殇。晚安！

73. Time has taken away our youth, but it cannot take away the memories. You still remain a wound in my heart. Good night!

74. 两个人最初走在一起的时候，对方为自己做一件很小的事，我们也会感动，后来，他要做更多的事情，我们才会感动。再后来，他要付出更多更多，我们才肯感动。人是多么贪婪的动物？

74. When two people first start walking together, if the other person does something very small for us, we can be moved. Later, they have to do more things for us before we feel moved. Even later, they have to give even more before we are willing to be moved. How greedy are humans?

75. 我们只是用自己的高冷来阻挡冰冷世界里的人和事，以趋于达到自身的平衡。高冷是假，和谐才是真。面部毫无波澜该是如此。晚安！

75. We use our coldness as a shield against the cold people and things in the cold world, striving to achieve our own balance. Coldness is fake, harmony is true. A face without any fluctuations should be like this. Good night!

76. 记住你是个女孩，努力是你的象征，自信是你的资本，微笑是你的标志，你要奋斗的不是在一个男人面前委曲求全让他看到你的努力，而是好好努力并且等待数年后那个单膝跪地给你无名指戴上戒指的男人。想要别人爱你，前提是先好好爱自己。

76. Remember, you are a girl. Effort is your symbol, confidence is your capital, and a smile is your mark. What you should strive for is not to compromise and bend to the will of a man to show your efforts, but to work hard and wait for the man who will one knee down years later and place a ring on your ring finger. If you want others to love you, the premise is to first love yourself well.

77. 什么都不用去想，只听从自己心中的想法，而我永远在你一回头就见到的地方。

77. Don't think of anything, just follow your heart's desires, and I will always be there, right where you turn back to see.

78. 喜欢读书，就等于把成活中寂寞的时光换成巨大享受的时刻。

78. To love reading is to turn the lonely moments of life into periods of immense enjoyment.

79. 光阴蹉跎，世界喧嚣，我自己要警惕，在人生旅途上保持一份童趣和闲心是不容易的。如果哪一天我只是埋头于人生中的种种事务，不再有兴致扒在车窗旁看沿途的风光，倾听内心的音乐，那时候我就真正老了俗了，那样便辜负了人生这一趟美好的旅行。——周国平

79. Time slips away, the world is noisy, and I must be vigilant. It is not easy to maintain a sense of childlike wonder and leisure in the journey of life. If one day I am only buried in the various affairs of life, no longer interested in gazing out of the window to watch the scenery along the way, or listening to the music within my heart, then I will truly have grown old and ordinary. That would be a waste of the beautiful journey of life. — Zhou Guoping