岁月如歌，暮然回首，方觉世间真实，恍若初醒。痛定思痛，方知人生百态。

The years flow like a song, and when I look back suddenly, I realize the truth of the world, as if just waking up. After the pain, I understand the myriad facets of life.

1. 8风可以不懂云的漂泊，沙可以不懂海的辽阔，天可以不懂雨的落魄，不是每段爱都一定有结果。烟可以不懂手的寂寞，酒可以不懂喉的寄托，泪可以不懂眼的脆弱，不是每个人都一定会快乐。你可以不懂我的选择，你可以不懂我的难过，因为我知道，不是每一种痛，都要诉说。

1. The wind may not understand the wandering of the clouds, the sand may not understand the vastness of the sea, the sky may not understand the plight of the rain, not every love story has a happy ending. The smoke may not understand the loneliness of the hand, the wine may not understand the longing of the throat, the tears may not understand the fragility of the eyes, not everyone is guaranteed to be happy. You may not understand my choices, you may not understand my sadness, because I know, not every kind of pain needs to be expressed.

2. 1放下来，张开怀抱。世界是很美，你也会得到更多的快乐！

2.1 Let go, open your arms. The world is beautiful, and you will also gain more happiness!

3. 4婚外情，意味着对婚姻的不忠与背叛，但婚外情的发生并非空穴来风，多少有它发生的内外环境，情感确实是极其复杂的事，无法简单地用好与坏来评判，也许理性的思考有助于更好地处理这个棘手的问题。既给自已和对方机会，也给婚姻家庭以机会，同时又不失做人的基本尊严。理性地去思考和面对，自信和有尊严地去处理。

3. Extramarital affairs imply infidelity and betrayal in marriage, but the occurrence of extramarital affairs is not without cause. There are always internal and external environments that contribute to their happening. Emotions are indeed extremely complex and cannot be simply judged as good or bad. Perhaps rational thinking can help better handle this tricky issue. It is important to give both oneself and the other person a chance, as well as give the marriage and family a chance, while not losing one's basic dignity. Think and face it rationally, and handle it with confidence and dignity.

4. 谢霆锋最喜欢的娱乐就是电玩，除了工作，解除压力缓解精神紧张唯一的方式就是电玩，他不喜欢夜店不喜欢泡吧；而张柏芝婚前就是夜店女王，婚后虽然有所收敛，但还是很向往夜店。

4.谢霆锋's favorite form of entertainment is playing video games. Apart from work, the only way for him to relieve stress and relax is through video games. He doesn't like going to nightclubs or bars; while Zhang Baozi was the queen of nightclubs before marriage, after getting married, although she has toned down, she still yearns for nightclubs.

5. 我等了许久,等你说以后一起走,可等来的是海市蜃楼

5. I waited for a long time, waiting for you to say that we would walk together in the future, but what I got was a mirage.

6. 小时候，爸爸喝酒回来总是打妈妈。那时，他除了哭什么也不能做。长大后，他再也看不下去，他对着可怜的母亲吼：你爱他吗？不爱就和他离婚，别那么没出息！母亲哽咽半晌，流着泪对他说：妈妈不爱他，可是妈妈爱你

6. When I was little, my dad would come home drunk and always beat my mom. Back then, all I could do was cry. As I grew up, I couldn't bear to see it anymore. I shouted at the可怜 mother, "Do you love him? If not, get a divorce with him, don't be so pitiful!" The mother sobbed for a while, and with tears in her eyes, she said to him, "Mom doesn't love him, but Mom loves you."

7. 59因为善良，所以宽容，因为责任，所以承担。因为某种理由，所以愿意妥协。因为看轻，所以快乐，因为看淡，所以幸福。

7. Because of kindness, we are宽容; because of responsibility, we undertake. For some reason, we are willing to compromise. Because we undervalue, we are happy; because we take things lightly, we are blessed.

8. 60散伙本是人生常态，你我也没有例外，只是很遗憾，没能成为你的偏爱，祝你岁月无波澜，敬我余生不悲欢。

8. It's a common occurrence in life for friendships to come to an end, and you and I are no exception. Just very regretfully, I couldn't become your favorite. May you have a life without ups and downs, and may the rest of my life be free from sorrow and joy.

9. 人们常说，当上帝为你关闭一扇门，一定会在其它地方为你打开一扇窗。后来我发现，原来上帝关上那扇门的时候，他顺便也把窗户也关死了——罗鹂《离婚律师》

9. It is often said that when God closes a door for you, He will surely open a window elsewhere. Later on, I found out that when God closed that door, He also inadvertently shut the window tight—Lu Ling, "Divorce Lawyer."

10. 1999年底，徐克挂帅监制的动画真人**《老夫子》开拍。为了让影片吸引年轻观众，选角时徐克特意起用了年轻偶像谢霆锋和张柏芝。无形中竟促成了两人的“第一次亲密接触”。同样刚满18岁他和她，同样是演艺圈冉冉升起的新星，惺惺相惜也罢、互生情愫也罢，总而言之，自此两人之间的恩怨情愁连绵不绝，从未停息。

10. By the end of 1999, the animated live-action movie "The Old Man Hu" directed by Hark Tsui was filmed. In order to attract young audiences, Hark Tsui specifically cast the young idol Eason Chan and Zhang Ziyi. In doing so, it accidentally facilitated their "first intimate encounter." Both were just over 18 years old and were rising stars in the entertainment industry. Whether it was mutual admiration or growing affection, in summary, from then on, the love-hate story between the two never ceased to continue.

11. 我以为男女之间最好的关系是朋友，彼此都能替对方着想。如果离得远了，我们可以往上靠一靠；如果离得近了，我们可以往后退一退——池海东《离婚律师》

11. I believe the best relationship between men and women is friendship, where both can think of each other. If we are too far apart, we can move closer; if we are too close, we can step back a bit — from "Divorce Lawyer" by Chi Haodong.

12. 22从今以后热爱世界，没有偏爱，没有例外。

12. From now on, love the world without favoritism, without exception.

13. 19开心就微笑，能使绷紧的胸膛放松，让人绽放阳光，神采飞扬；悲伤就哭泣，让烦恼忧伤随眼泪流出，神清气爽；生活就是这样，坦然面对，每一天都快乐开心。

13. Smile when you are happy, it can relax a tight chest, make you radiate sunshine, and shine brightly; cry when you are sad, let worries and sorrow flow out with tears, refreshing and clear-minded; life is like this, face it calmly, and every day will be happy and joyful.

14. 2006年7月，张柏芝被追问复合一事，她说：“谢霆锋说的就是我说的。我不想说谎骗大家，希望大家不要这么关注我们的感情关系。”另一边，谢霆锋接受吴君如访问时也预设与张柏芝复合：“不答行不行，不

14. In July 2006, Zhang Baozhi was questioned about the possibility of a reconciliation, and she said, "What谢霆锋 said is what I said. I don't want to lie to deceive everyone, and I hope everyone doesn't pay so much attention to our relationship." On the other hand, when谢霆锋 was interviewed by Wu Junru, he also anticipated a reconciliation with Zhang Baozhi: "Is it okay if I don't answer? Not answering is fine, isn't it?"

15. 8记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

15. 8 Remember what needs to be remembered, forget what needs to be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

16. 57某些男人的可耻之处在于：想找个女人跟妈似的伺候自己，又不肯跟儿子似的听话；想找个姑娘跟女儿似的乖巧粘人，又做不到跟爹似的会疼人。

16.57 The shame of some men lies in this: they want to find a woman who will serve them like a mother, yet they are unwilling to be as听话 as a son; they want to find a girl who is as compliant and attached as a daughter, yet they cannot be as caring as a father.

17. 男人，只要你娶得起我，就得养起我，别一副你不上班就离婚的念想。

17. Man, if you can afford to marry me, you must also support me; don't even think about divorce just because you're not working.

18. 28失恋的人最寂寞，百无聊赖只好专心于琴棋书画**杂志，不知不觉自身修养和小资情调就培养升级了。

18. The lonely heartbroken people are the most desolate, with nothing to do but focus on musical instruments, chess, painting, calligraphy, and magazines. Unconsciously, their self-cultivation and bohemian tastes have been cultivated and upgraded.

19. 10我们终究没有翻过那座山，没能把故事讲完。

19. 10 In the end, we failed to climb over that mountain and couldn't finish the story.

20. 谢霆锋外表冷酷新潮，实际内心细腻温柔、保守传统，锋菲交往时他就说过，他喜欢的女生都是冬天喜欢上的，他不喜欢女生穿着暴露，不喜欢女生穿比基尼、低胸衣服、超短裙；而张柏芝闪瞎眼睛的豪放相信每个看过艳照门都知道。

20.谢霆锋外表冷漠、新潮，but actually his inner self is delicate, gentle, and conservative. During his relationship with Fei, he once said that the girls he likes are those he falls for in winter. He doesn't like girls who dress too暴露, and he dislikes girls wearing bikinis, low-cut tops, or ultra-short skirts. As for Zhang Baozhi, her flamboyant and dazzling personality is something that everyone who has seen the "Naked Photos Incident" is aware of.

21. 婚姻是一声投资，所以我得赶紧赚钱，女人经济越独立，越不需要婚姻。投资男人还不如投资自己——罗鹂《离婚律师》

21. Marriage is an investment, so I need to make money quickly. The more financially independent a woman is, the less she needs marriage. Investing in a man is better than investing in oneself — from Luo Ling's "Divorce Lawyer".

22. 29我可以在，很痛的时候说没关系。我可以在，难过的时候说无所谓。我可以在，寂寞的时候哈哈大笑。我可以在，绝望的时候说世界依然美好。

22. 29 I can say "it's fine" even when it's excruciatingly painful. I can say "I don't care" when I'm feeling sad. I can laugh heartily when I'm lonely. I can say the world is still beautiful when I'm despondent.

23. - 我想和你去爱尔兰，因为它是唯一禁止离婚的国家，一个一百年的约定，只有死亡让我们分开，你敢陪我吗。

23. - I want to go to Ireland with you because it is the only country that bans divorce, a hundred-year-old commitment, only death can separate us. Will you dare to accompany me?

24. 谢霆锋与王菲，这对轰轰烈烈的姐弟恋，我只能祝福。

24.谢霆锋与王菲， this fiery love story between a brother and a sister, I can only offer my blessings.

25. ❸长大后才知道，‘乖’这个字，是给听话的孩子，也是给好欺负的大人。

25. (8) Only after growing up did I realize that the word 'obedient' is for children who listen to their parents, as well as for adults who are easy to be bullied.

26. 58是不是所有放弃的人都能够忘记？是不是所有爱过的人才能够铭记。

26. Can all those who have given up forget? Can all those who have loved remember?

27. 许多不幸的婚姻都只不过是情爱死亡后的漫长挣扎罢了。 奥奔斯瓦尔德施瓦茨

27. Many unhappy marriages are merely long struggles after the death of love. Ouburnswald Schwartz

28. 这则报道的文字介绍称，当晚，王菲和谢霆锋在跑马地的Green Spot酒吧约会，酒兴正浓时，两人开始猜拳，并且旁若无人地表现亲密。这些亲密动作包括两人同分一杯啤酒，谢霆锋经常轻抚王菲的头发，最火热的是猜拳的时候，赢者便获得亲对方脸颊的特许权。

28. The text of the report states that on that night, Fei Fei Wang and谢霆锋 went on a date at the Green Spot bar in San Po Kong. As they were enjoying their drinks, they began to play rock-paper-scissors and showed their intimacy without any concern for others. These intimate actions included the two sharing a beer, Xie Xiongfei often stroking Fei Fei Wang's hair, and the most passionate moment was when the winner of the rock-paper-scissors game was granted the privilege to kiss the loser's cheek.

29. 25如果不开心、不值得、不幸福，分开也不是罪过。

29. 25 If you are unhappy, unappreciated, or not happy, separating is not a sin.

30. 我要和电脑离婚了 都怪学校这个小三儿

30. I'm getting a divorce from the computer, all thanks to the school being this little mistress.

31. 37借人之智，完善自己。学最好的别人，做最好的自己。

31. Borrow others' wisdom to perfect yourself. Learn from the best others, and be the best version of yourself.

32. 40你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子，因为只有你不在我身边的时候，我才最寂寞。

32. 40 You will never see the most lonely version of me, because it is only when you are not by my side that I feel the most lonely.

33. 37人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。

33. 37 people always cherish what they have not yet obtained, while forgetting what they already possess.

34. 11真的有时候，在自己哭的时候，有个人陪着，就这样。

34. 11 Sometimes, it's really nice to have someone by your side when you're crying, just like that.

35. 59如果不开心、不值得、不幸福，分开也不是罪过。

35. 59 If you are unhappy, unappreciated, or not happy, separation is not a sin.

36. 7爱可以是一瞬间的事，也可以是一辈子的事，每个人都可以在不同的时候爱上不同的人，不是谁离开谁就无法生活，遗忘会让我们更坚强。

36. Love can be an instant thing, or a lifetime thing; everyone can fall in love with different people at different times. It's not that one cannot live without the other. Forgetting will make us stronger.

37. 董大海说:包公多周到啊，给秦香莲银子，安排送她回家，可秦香莲不干，非得把陈世美弄死，而陈世美宁可被zha了，也不愿和秦香莲回家，这女人是不是也应该反省一下自己啊？《离婚律师》

37. Dong Dahai said: "Bao Gong is so considerate, giving money to Qin Xianglian and arranging for her to go home, but Qin Xianglian refuses and insists on killing Chen Shimei. Chen Shimei would rather be killed than go home with Qin Xianglian. Shouldn't this woman also reflect on herself a bit?" "Divorce Lawyer"

38. 5男人的法定结婚年龄是22岁，法定当兵年龄是17岁，这说明女人比敌人还难对付。

38. The legal age for men to marry is 22, and the legal age for conscription is 17, which indicates that women are even harder to deal with than enemies.

39. 现在这搞对象啊，哪个不图个经济实力啊，又有爱情，又有经济实力，当然最好了。但是爱情要跟经济实力发生冲突，经济实力占优势。贫贱夫妻，百事悲哀，最后为钱打架，打到底。——《离婚前规则》

39. Nowadays, when it comes to dating, who doesn't want to be with someone who has economic strength? Having both love and economic strength is of course the best. But if love conflicts with economic strength, economic strength prevails. Poor couples have a hundred things to be sad about, and in the end, they fight over money and it turns into a full-blown fight. —— "Rules Before Divorce"

40. 衣服还行，模特太差了，换上我媳妇就更棒了——曹乾坤《离婚律师》

40. The clothes are decent, but the model is too poor; my wife wearing it would be even better—Cao Qiankun in "Divorce Lawyer"

41. 如果说第一次婚姻出现了问题，可以选择离婚，但是好不容易选择了第二次婚姻，却又陷入了不幸当中，我才忽然发现，我真的很可悲，而且还给我的孩子造成了无法弥补的伤害，我现在真的不知道应该如何继续

41. If the first marriage encountered problems, one could choose divorce, but after finally choosing the second marriage, I have fallen into misfortune again. I suddenly realize that I am truly pitiful, and I have also caused irreparable harm to my children. Now, I really don't know how to continue.

42. 工作再重要也没有结婚重要，你看为什么有人把结婚叫做终生大事，没有人把工作叫做终生大事吧？《离婚律师》

42. No matter how important work is, it is never as important as getting married. Why do people call marriage a lifetime event, but no one calls work a lifetime event? "Divorce Lawyer"

43. 活着太累了，每天睡不着想闺女，看不见了，也不愿意让看，我是她妈这点资格都没有了，离婚就代表与世隔绝了吗？压抑，难受，振作不起来，都想死了算了，一切都没有了，内心真的很脆弱，经不起这么这么折磨了，感觉好难

43. Life is too tiring, I can't sleep every day, thinking about my daughter. When I can't see, I don't even want others to see me. I don't even have the qualifications to be her mother anymore. Does getting a divorce mean being cut off from the world? I feel oppressed and uncomfortable, unable to pull myself together. I want to just give up and die. Everything is gone, and my inner self is really fragile, unable to withstand such immense torment. It feels so hard.

44. 龙生龙，凤生凤，老鼠孩子天生会打洞——郑天涯《离婚律师》

44. As the dragon begets dragons, and the phoenix begets phoenixes, the mouse's child is naturally adept at digging holes —— from Zheng Tianya's "Divorce Lawyer".