“一招让他秒回，轻松掌握聊天技巧！”

"One move to make him reply instantly, effortlessly master the art of chatting!"

1. 当你和喜欢的女生聊天时，聊着聊着她就不回信息了，这个时候你就要进行反思了，看看自己的行为是否在骚扰对方，或者聊天的话题是否是女生不感兴趣懂得，如果是的话，就要立马进行调整，女生都是感性的动物，在很多的时候她们都只会相信自己的直觉，在跟你聊天时，你给她的感觉是美好的，舒适的，那么她就会对你的好感直线上升，但如果你经常跟女生尬聊，或者她觉得你是在骚扰她的时候，不管你对她有多好，话题有多吸引，多搞笑，她都不会觉得很开心，反而觉得你是另有所图，而一般在这种情况，高情商的男生就会立马反省自己，然后换种方式去逗女生开心。

1. When you are chatting with a girl you like, and she stops replying to your messages, it's time for you to reflect on your behavior. Consider whether you are bothering her or if the topics of conversation are not of interest to her. If so, you should make adjustments immediately. Girls are emotional creatures, and often they only trust their intuition. When chatting with you, if the feeling you give her is beautiful and comfortable, she will have a straight increase in her fondness for you. However, if you frequently engage in awkward conversations with girls or she feels you are bothering her, regardless of how good you are to her or how attractive and funny the topics are, she will not feel happy. Instead, she may think you have other intentions. In such cases, a high EQ male would immediately reflect on himself and then change his approach to make the girl happy.

2. ❽路过我们上次去的那家店，它居然……

2. Passed by the shop we went to last time, and to my surprise...

3. 其实聊天也是一门学问，很多男人看到自己女神给自己回消息了，就忙不迭的贴上去，对方回一两个字，他这边拿着手机就噼里啪啦的回了一大堆，然后聊着聊着就会发现对方突然就不见了。

3. In fact, chatting is also a form of art. Many men rush to respond when they see their goddess replying to their messages. When she sends just a few words, he immediately fires back with a barrage of responses on his phone. Then, as they chat on, they suddenly realize that the other person has disappeared.

4. 网聊是网络聊天的简称，是指通过个人计算机、手机等平台，通过网络聊天软件（如QQ、飞信等）进行的聊天，一般以文字为主、也有图象、视频等。

4. Net chat is an abbreviation for online chatting, which refers to the act of communicating through platforms such as personal computers, smartphones, etc., using online chat software (such as QQ, Feixin, etc.). It is mainly text-based, but also includes images, videos, and other forms.

5. 当你和喜欢的女生聊着聊着对方就不会信息的时候，千万不要一个劲的给女生发信息问怎么啦，你要做的应该先是确认对方是否确实有急事，或者确实要忙一会了，如果是的话就约她下次聊，直接回复：“好的，晚上聊”即可，而很多直男经常犯的一个小错误就是女生突然不回信息的时候，继续一个人在屏幕那边对女生寻根问底的，哪怕女生对你有好感，但当她忙完回来，看到你一连串的追问信息，瞬间对你的印象也就会大打折扣了，因此想要女生对你的印象完好如初，想要轻松“破解”女生突然不回信息的尴尬，老实人记得不要着急，也不要乱想，先了解情况再做打算哦。

5. When you're chatting with a girl you like and she stops responding, don't keep bombarding her with messages asking what's wrong. What you should do first is to confirm whether she really has an urgent matter or needs to be busy for a while. If so, make an appointment to chat next time and simply reply, "Alright, let's chat tonight." A common mistake many straight men make is to continue bombarding the girl with questions on the screen even when she stops responding, even if she has a crush on you. When she comes back after being busy, seeing a series of persistent questions from you can instantly diminish her impression of you. Therefore, if you want to keep her impression of you intact, and want to easily "solve" the awkwardness of her suddenly not responding, honest people should remember not to rush or overthink, but to first understand the situation and then make plans.

6. 就算你们聊了通宵，那以后这样的机会也少了，因为太累了！所以在适当的时候主动喊停，不是把话题终止，而是留到下一次，对你会更有帮助。

6. Even if you talk all night, there will be fewer opportunities like that in the future because it's too tiring! So, it's better to主动 call it a day at an appropriate time, not to end the topic, but to save it for the next time, which will be more helpful to you.

7. 现在跟异性接触的第一步就是通过手机聊天了，但是刚开始的时候，如果女人对你没有什么感觉，那她自己对你的消息也不过是礼貌性的应一下！时间久了就变成爱回不回了，没事就回一下，有事就当没有看见。

7. The first step of contact with the opposite sex now is through chatting on the phone, but at the beginning, if a woman doesn't have any feelings for you, she will only respond to your messages in a polite manner! Over time, it may turn into a situation where she doesn't feel like replying at all, just casually responding when there's nothing to do, and ignoring when there's something important.

8. 一般聊嗨了，女人就会忍不住继续聊下去，就算是很累了，需要休息了，她一方面自己感兴趣，另一方面也会觉得打断你不好，然后就强撑着跟你聊。

8. Generally, when women get really into a conversation, they can't help but continue chatting even if they are tired and need a rest. On one hand, they are interested themselves, and on the other hand, they feel it's not good to interrupt you, so they force themselves to keep chatting with you.

9. 俗话说“事出必有因”，和喜欢的女生聊天，她突然就不回信息了，很多的时候肯定是我们不小心踩到她的雷区，或者说错话了，但是没关系，只要你学会用高情商的这三个技巧去撩她，就能轻松“破解”尴尬，老实人一定要学会哦。

9. As the saying goes, "Every event has its cause." If you're chatting with a girl you like and she suddenly stops replying, it's often because we accidentally stepped on her minefield, or said something wrong. But that's fine, as long as you learn to use these three high-emotional intelligence tricks to charm her, you can easily "solve" the awkwardness. It's something that honest people should definitely learn.

10. ❾我搞到了两张你超喜欢的那个乐队的票。

10. I got two tickets to that band you really like.

11. 爱情毕竟不是一个人强求就可以得到的，所以在遇到自己喜欢的异性的时候，不要太急躁，慢慢来，先试探一下对方对你的感觉，如果一开始就失去了优先权，那你在这段感情里，就只能被动接收了。

11. Love is not something that can be forcefully obtained by one person, so when encountering the opposite sex you like, do not be too anxious, take it slow, first test the feelings the other person has for you. If you lose the initiative from the beginning, then in this relationship, you can only passively receive.

12. ❻嘿，失踪人口，出来冒个泡！

12. Hey, missing person, come out and make a splash!

13. 很多时候，和喜欢的女生聊天，总是聊着聊着就没有下文的大有人在，只是很多兄弟都不明白，别人也是跟女生聊天，自己也是这样跟女生聊天，但看着别人仅仅只是通过聊天就能身边美女如云，而自己到头来却是竹篮打水一场空，为啥区别就那么大？我只能说你还没有掌握和女生聊天的技巧，你要知道爱情本来就是感性的，女生更是感性的。你只有能给对方带来情绪波动，她才会对你产生所谓的感觉。所以别的男生能够通过聊天就轻松脱单，那是他们是语言上就让女生尝遍了爱情的酸甜苦辣，而你却没办法在聊天中去吸引喜欢的她，那自然也就聊不好了，所以当你和喜欢的女生聊天，对方突然不回信息了应该怎么办？接下来我就给大家分享一下，用高手的这三招去“破解”，让你轻松撩到她。

13. Many times, when chatting with a girl you like, it often happens that there's no further discussion, and it's not uncommon. However, many brothers don't understand why this is the case. They chat with girls just like everyone else, but while others seem to effortlessly attract beautiful women around them through chatting, they themselves end up with nothing, feeling the difference is so great. I can only say that you haven't mastered the art of chatting with girls. You need to know that love is inherently emotional, and girls are especially emotional. You only need to bring about emotional fluctuations in her for her to have what you call "feelings" for you. So, it's no surprise that other guys can easily find a partner through chatting because they've made the girls experience the sweetness, sourness, bitterness, and spiciness of love through their words. But you can't attract the girl you like in the conversation, so naturally, the chat doesn't go well. So what should you do when the girl you like suddenly stops replying to your messages? Next, I'll share with you three moves from the pros to "crack the code," allowing you to easily charm her.

14. ❷刚看到一样东西，瞬间就想到你了。

14. ❷ As soon as I saw something, I instantly thought of you.

15. ❼不忙的时候，回我一下哦。

15. Feel free to text me back when you're not busy.

16. ❸快！急需你这个‘专家’给点建议！

16. ❸Hurry! Urgently need your advice as an 'expert'!

17. 如果女人觉得你很闲，她会去怀疑自己是不是只是你闲暇时的消遣，但如果你在百忙之中还回她消息，她就会觉得你很看重她，是用了真心！其实在感情方面，女人跟男人有的时候是一样的，男人不喜欢贴上来的女人，同样的你粘的太紧， 女人也会没那么喜欢。太过主动的男人，很容易就变成了她的备胎，成为了她最坏的打算。

17. If a woman feels that you are idle, she may suspect that she is just a pastime for you in your leisure time, but if you reply to her messages even amidst your busy schedule, she will feel that you highly value her, and it's with sincerity! In terms of romance, women can sometimes be the same as men; men don't like women who come on too strong, and the same goes for you if you are too clingy. A man who is too proactive can easily become a backup plan for her, turning into her worst-case scenario.

18. ❿【对方昵称】收到请回答，over！

18. ❿[Nickname of the Other Party] Receive, please respond, over!

19. ❹你上次说的那个太对了，果然……

19. ❹ That's exactly what you said last time, indeed...

20. ❺关于那件事，我有个小秘密要告诉你。

20. ❺ About that matter, I have a little secret to tell you.

21. 聊天一般都会是在下班以后，辛苦了一天，没有什么事情的时候，就会想要找个人聊聊天，这个时候你给她发消息她多半会回，但是你也不要一直死追着她聊。

21. Chatting usually happens after work. After a hard day, when there's nothing much to do, you would want to chat with someone. At that time, if you send her a message, she is more likely to reply. But you shouldn't keep pestering her to chat all the time.

22. 所以与其在一开始，就把自己的底牌都露出来，还不如委婉一点，学学这些技巧，让自己的追爱之路更加顺畅。

22. So it's better to be a bit more subtle at the beginning, learn these techniques, and make the path of pursuing love smoother for yourself.

23. ❶你绝对猜不到我今天看到什么了……

23. ❶ You can't possibly guess what I saw today...

24. 当你和喜欢的女生聊着聊着，她就突然不回信息了，多半是你不小心踩中女生的雷区了，她才会对你如此的冷漠，不然女生是不会这样的，毕竟该有的矜持和礼貌女生还是有的，除非是实在到了忍无可忍的地步，可想而知你的这个小错误对女生的伤害是有多大，这个时候很多直男会急得像个热锅上的蚂蚁团团转，不知道应该怎么办，其实想要化解这样的尴尬也很简单，高情商一般都会先让女生冷静冷静，因为你越是在女生气头上去撩她，越会容易被女生拉黑，正确的做法应该是找机会发些搞笑的表情去逗女生开心，或者找机会去给她发个红包临时救场等等，反正你觉得能让女生开心的小动作都尽量去试一下，说不定会起到意想不到的效果哦。

24. When you're chatting with a girl you like and suddenly she stops replying to your messages, it's mostly because you accidentally stepped on a girl's pet peeve, which is why she's being so cold to you. Otherwise, girls wouldn't behave like that, as they still have their own sense of modesty and politeness. Unless it's truly reached a point of no return, you can imagine how much damage your little mistake has caused her. At this moment, many straight men would be anxious like ants on a hot griddle, not knowing what to do. In fact, resolving such an awkward situation is quite simple. High emotional intelligence would generally let the girl cool down first, because the more you try to flirt with her when she's angry, the more likely she is to block you. The correct approach should be to find an opportunity to send some funny emojis to make her laugh, or find a chance to send her a red packet to temporarily save the situation, etc. In short, try any little action that you think might make her happy. You never know, it might have an unexpected effect.

25. 可以说这样对男人来说，追求的道理从一开始就不平坦，但是又不想这么快放弃的男人可以试一下这三个技巧，一撩一个准，让对方主动回你消息。

25. It can be said that for men, the pursuit from the very beginning is not smooth, but those who do not want to give up so quickly can try these three techniques. They are sure to work, making the other person主动 reply to your messages.

26. 一个有自己的事情，有事业忙的男人，最吸引女人，不管你再怎么喜欢对方，再怎么想跟她聊个不停，想秒回，也克制一下自己，让自己忙起来，不要让对方觉得你很闲。

26. A man who has his own things to do and is busy with his career is most attractive to women. No matter how much you like the person or how much you want to chat with them non-stop and get immediate responses, try to control yourself. Keep yourself busy so that the other person doesn't feel that you are idle.