心碎瞬间，情感共鸣，触角及灵魂深处。

A moment of heartbreak, emotional resonance, reaching the depths of the soul.

1. 好像每次都是这样、没有例外；在我们最需要有一个人去依靠的时候、往往到最后都是自己一个人挺过去！

1. It seems like this always happens, with no exceptions; when we most need someone to rely on, we often end up getting through it all on our own!

2. ❿我们终究是路人，遇见是缘分，错过，是宿命。

2. We are ultimately strangers; meeting is fate, and missing each other is destiny.

3. 在瞬间瓦解了，在瞬间扑灭了，感觉自己要崩溃了，感觉自己承受不下去了，几度走上了不归路，试图和外界失去所有的联系，试图不出门见任何人，就是这样，颓废到了极限，伤心欲绝到了极限，在我最失意的时候，在我最颓废的时候。似乎没有一个朋友来安慰我，没有一个朋友来扶我一把。

3. In a moment, everything collapsed, in an instant, it was extinguished. I felt like I was about to break down, feeling that I could no longer bear it. Several times, I had stepped onto the path of no return, trying to lose all contact with the outside world, trying not to go out and see anyone. That's how it was, degenerating to the extreme, heartbroken to the extreme, during my most despondent times, during my most desolate times. It seemed as if not a single friend came to comfort me, not a single friend reached out to help me.

4. 5在一开始，我们就应该学会好好爱自己。而不是等到最后，发现没有人可以爱了，才决定要好好爱自己。

4.5 Initially, we should learn to love ourselves properly. Instead of waiting until the end, when we realize that there is no one left to love, then deciding to start loving ourselves properly.

5. 有时候我们抱怨世界愈来愈丑了，现代文明的噪音太多了；其实在一滩浊流之中，何尝没有一潭清泉？在机器声交织的音图里，也有所谓的天籁。我们只是太忙罢了，忙得与美的事物擦身而过都不知不觉。---简《水问》

5. Sometimes we complain that the world is becoming increasingly ugly, that the noise of modern civilization is too great. In fact, even amidst a pool of turbid water, there is not also a spring of clear water? In the auditory map interwoven with the sounds of machines, there are also what is called celestial music. We are just too busy, so busy that we pass by beautiful things without even realizing it. --- From "Water Questions" by Jian.

6. 正因心累了，因此想让心休息一下，最好永远不好醒过来，永远沉睡没有太多理由，没有太多解释，只正因累了，不是人累，而是心累，真的好累。

6. Just because the heart is tired, I want it to rest, preferably never to wake up again. There are no many reasons, no many explanations, just because I am tired. It's not just physical exhaustion, but emotional weariness. It's truly very tired.

7. 如果你越来越冷漠，你以为你成长了，但其实没有。长大应该是变温柔，对全世界都温柔。成熟，是对很多事物都能放下，都能慈悲，愿以善眼望世界。

7. If you become increasingly indifferent, you might think you're growing up, but in fact, you are not. Growing up should be about becoming gentler, being gentle with the whole world. Maturity is about being able to let go of many things, to be compassionate, and to view the world with a benevolent eye.

8. 思念别人是一种温馨，被别人思念是一种幸福，当然好的前提是彼此思念。否则，单相思是一种哀愁，只被别人思念是一种负担。

8. Missing someone is a warm feeling, and being missed by someone is a form of happiness, of course, on the premise that both parties miss each other. Otherwise, unrequited love is a form of sorrow, and being merely missed by someone is a burden.

9. 世界上有许多无可奈何的事，当我们面对它时，我们应保有豁达的心情，既已无可奈何，就任它去好了。

9. There are many unavoidable things in the world. When we face them, we should maintain a tolerant attitude, and if there's nothing we can do about it, let it be as it is.

10. 26我很想知道，当我的名字滑过你耳朵，你脑海中会闪现些什么。

10. 26 I'm very curious to know what will flash through your mind when my name slides over your ears.

11. 时光的岸，旖旎无限。回首，那年匆匆。我们来不及说再见，便各奔东西。翻阅泛黄的照片，亦清晰亦模糊。泪光笑影中，时光依旧，我依旧，青梅的你去了哪里？亲爱的你可知？这些年，一直在等待你的不期而至，却只是一次又一次的独自转身。

11. The shore of time, endlessly charming. Looking back, that year passed so quickly. We didn't have time to say goodbye, and we went our separate ways. Flipping through the yellowed photos, they are both clear and blurred. In the tears and laughter, time remains the same, I remain the same, but where has the you of my youth gone? Do you, my dear, know? Over these years, I have been waiting for your unexpected arrival, but it has only been a series of solitary turns.

12. 每一次的容忍，都是一次爱的消耗。请珍惜我的每一次容忍与退让，因为那是我对你爱的信用额度，但再高的额度也终有透支的一天。

12. Every act of tolerance is a consumption of love. Please cherish each of my acts of tolerance and yielding, for that is the credit limit of my love for you, but even the highest limit will eventually be overdrawn.

13. 24只有不随意讨好他人，才能吸引喜欢你的人

13. Only by not ingratiating yourself to others can you attract people who like you.

14. 这段感情你辜负了我，那以后的日子我都会想方设法让你跪在地下哭，你说我不择手段也好，瑕疵必报也罢，我就是这样一个人，我还不止这样。

14. You have betrayed this love and from now on, I will think of every means to make you kneel on the ground and cry. Whether you say I am ruthless or that I seek revenge for every flaw, that's just who I am, and I am not just like that.

15. 如果一个人没有能力帮助他所爱的人，最好不要随便谈什么爱与不爱。当然，帮助不等于爱情，但爱情不能不包括帮助。

15. If a person is unable to help the one they love, it is best not to talk lightly about love or not loving. Of course, helping does not equal love, but love cannot exclude helping.

16. 21真实，是人生的最高境界。什么是真实？就是不撒谎、不做作、不违背良心，纯乎心性而行。不作假，本身的优点缺点一目了然，所以能不自负也不自卑。不作非分之想，所以能安贫于道，知足常乐。不违背良心，所以心无挂碍，日日安好。依心性而行，该作则作，不该作则止；所以，没有妄想和烦恼。

16. 21 Truth is the highest境界 in life. What is truth? It means not lying, not acting insincerely, not going against one's conscience, and acting purely according to one's nature. Without deception, one's strengths and weaknesses are clear at a glance, thus one can neither be self-righteous nor self-deprecating. Without having ungranted desires, one can live a simple life according to the Tao, finding joy in contentment. Not going against one's conscience, one's mind is free from hindrance, and every day is peaceful. Acting according to one's nature, one acts when it is appropriate and stops when it is not; therefore, there are no delusions or worries.

17. 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完。当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。

17. Life is a train heading towards the tomb, with many stations along the way, and it is rare for anyone to accompany you from start to finish. When the person accompanying you is ready to get off, even though you may be reluctant, you should be grateful in your heart, and then wave goodbye.

18. 被伤害的人体会着伤与痛的结果，而伤害的制造者确可以大摇大摆的穿梭。爱情里有一种拥有，我们没有真正在一起，确得到了对方的心，有一种失去，我从未真正拥有你，确好像失去了你千万遍。

18. The injured person experiences the consequences of the hurt and pain, while the perpetrator can stroll about with impunity. In love, there is a kind of possession – we have never truly been together, yet we have won each other's hearts. There is also a kind of loss – I have never truly possessed you, yet it feels like I have lost you a thousand times.

19. 生活坏到一定程度就会好起来，因为它无法更坏。努力过后，才知道许多事情，坚持坚持，就过来了。

19. Life will get better once it has reached a certain point of badness, because it cannot get any worse. Only after making an effort will you realize many things, and by persevering, you will get through it.

20. 喜欢在雨中漫步，享受雨的洗礼，看着行走过的脚印在雨中慢慢沉淀，犹如岁月蹉跎，留下的又岂止那满满回忆。

20. Enjoying a leisurely stroll in the rain, embracing the baptism of the rain, watching the footprints left behind slowly settle in the rain, as if the passage of time, it leaves behind not just a wealth of memories.

21. 18在犹豫要不要放弃时，就别放弃，因为你要是真的不想再坚持就不会犹豫，犹豫就是舍不得。

21. 18 When you are hesitating whether to give up or not, don't give up, because if you really don't want to keep going, you wouldn't hesitate. Hesitation is because you can't let go.

22. 只有在你最落魄时，才会知道谁才是时刻担心你的笨蛋，谁是形同陌路的混蛋。所谓爱，就是当感觉、热情、浪漫统统拿掉之后，你仍然珍惜对方。孤单，是你心里面没有人。寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。

22. It is only when you are at your lowest that you will know who is the dummy always worrying about you, and who is the asshole that seems like a stranger. Love, in essence, is about valuing the other person even after all the feelings, passion, and romance have faded. Solitude is when there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when someone is in your heart but not by your side.

23. 我不够优秀倒也干净，总是在笑却快乐很少，没有故事没有爱人，没有期待，偶尔吹风会流泪，喝酒也会醉。

23. I'm not outstanding, but I'm clean. I'm always smiling but rarely happy. I have no stories, no loved one, no expectations. Occasionally, when the wind blows, I'll shed tears; when I drink, I'll get drunk.

24. 15这个世界里美好总要多过阴暗，欢乐总要多过苦难，还有很多事，值得你一如既往的相信。

24. In this world, the beautiful things are always more than the dark, joy more than suffering, and there are many things that are worth you continuing to believe in.

25. ❺我守着空荡荡的执念，连孤独都成了惯性执念。

25. ❺ I cling to the empty obsession, even loneliness has become a habitual obsession.

26. 一段爱情，是不需要别人理解的。真情的说痴情的真矫情，感性的说理性的没人性，坚强的说勉强的不自强。你不知道它的道理，可人人都有自己的爱情。其实想说，它能够发生，已经很了不起了。

26. A love story does not require understanding from others. To say it sincerely is to say that the deeply affectionate are overly sentimental; to say it sensationally is to say that the rational lack humanity; to say it in terms of strength is to say that the勉强 are not self-reliant. You may not know its logic, but everyone has their own love story. In fact, what I want to say is, that it can happen at all is already quite remarkable.

27. 想离开的人有千万种理由，想陪伴你的赶不走。

27. There are a thousand and one reasons for those who want to leave, but those who want to accompany you cannot be driven away.

28. 没有距离，便没有思念。当轮船的汽笛拉响，当火车汽笛长鸣，当汽车的轮子开始转动，当飞机冲出跑道腾空而起，思念便开始了。

28. Without distance, there is no longing. When the steam whistle of the ship sounds, when the train's whistle blows long, when the wheels of the car begin to turn, and when the plane takes off from the runway and rises into the sky, longing begins.

29. 人看人无常，心看心无常，是一座荒城，也是一份忧伤，生命的黯淡无光，人生的回忆凄凉，断送世界的微风，人海迷茫，只是人受伤，心彷徨，生命的动荡。

29. People see others as ever-changing, hearts see hearts as ever-changing, it is a desolate city, and also a piece of sorrow. Life is dim and without luster, the memories of life are desolate, the gentle breeze of the world is lost, the sea of people is confused, it is only that people are hurt, hearts are lost, and life is turbulent.

30. 思念是对昨日悠长的沉湎和对美好未来的向往。正是在不尽的思念中，人的感情得到了净化和升华。

30. Longing is a deep immersion in yesterday's tranquility and a yearning for a beautiful future. It is precisely in the endless longing that a person's emotions are purified and elevated.

31. ❽夜里的情绪最诚实，它会把白天伪装的坚强，撕得粉碎。

31. The emotions at night are the most honest; they will tear apart the坚强 that was masked during the day.

32. 有人说，爱上一座城，是因为城中住着某个喜欢的人。其实不然，爱上一座城，也许是为城里的一道生动风景，为一段青梅往事，为一座熟悉老宅。或许，仅仅为的只是这座城。就像爱上一个人，有时候不需要任何理由，没有前因，无关风月，只是爱了。

32. Some say that falling in love with a city is because someone you like lives there. But actually, it might be for the vivid scenery in the city, for a past memory of childhood, for an old house that is familiar. Perhaps, it's just for the city itself. Just like falling in love with a person, sometimes it doesn't require any reason, no prior cause, unrelated to romance, it's just that you love.

33. 风再大，雨再大，总有一条狭缝让我们穿过，哪怕泥泞，哪怕划伤脚，相信总会见到阳光，相信自己闭上眼睛的那一刻，在心里告诉自己不曾后悔在世间走过。

33. No matter how strong the wind or how heavy the rain, there is always a narrow gap for us to pass through, even if it's muddy or if it scratches our feet. Believe that we will always see the sunlight, and believe in that moment when you close your eyes, tell yourself in your heart that you have no regrets for having walked through the world.

34. 不被人在意的角落，独自泪流。暗自疗伤。位置。忧伤

34. In a corner unnoticed by others, I weep alone. Healing myself in secret. Location. Sadness.

35. 人生在世，幼时认为什么都不懂，大学时以为什么都懂，毕业后才知道什么都不懂，中年又以为什么都懂，到晚年才觉悟一切都不懂。

35. In life, in our youth we think we know nothing, in college we believe we know everything, after graduation we realize we know nothing, in middle age we think we know everything again, and only in our old age do we come to the realization that we know nothing at all.

36. 人生的旅程深邃幽长，我们对未来一无所知，亦未尝是什么坏事。如果我们一早确知结局，还有多少人敢去赴那茫茫的前路？

36. The journey of life is profound and long, and our ignorance of the future is not necessarily a bad thing. If we knew the outcome from the very beginning, how many people would dare to venture into the vast unknown path ahead?

37. 曾经深深爱过一个人，又怎么可以真正忘记。如果说忘记，只是对爱轻描淡写罢了，不愿意让人知道，心中依旧记得很清楚的事实。

37. Having deeply loved someone once, how can one truly forget? If to forget means to downplay the love, it is merely because one does not want others to know, but the fact that one still remembers it very clearly in one's heart.

38. 人生短短数十载，最要紧的是满足自己，不是讨好他人。---亦舒《美丽新世界》

38. Life is but a short span of a few decades, the most important thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others. --- Eileen Chang, "The Beautiful New World"

39. 我怎么也想不到，自己付出这么多，对他抱有这么的期望，可到头来，只留冰冷的背影在凄惨的月光下刺痛的闪烁。

39. I could never have imagined that after putting in so much effort and having such high expectations, in the end, only a cold silhouette remains, piercingly twinkling under the desolate moonlight.

40. 眼睛为他下着雨，心却为他打着伞，这就是爱情。有些烦恼，丢掉了，才有云淡风轻的机会。真正重要的不是生命里的岁月，而是岁月中的生活。有时候你必须跳出窗外，然后在坠落的过程中长出翅膀。

40. His eyes are weeping for him, but his heart is sheltering him with an umbrella, which is what love is. Some troubles, once discarded, pave the way for a serene and breezy opportunity. What's truly important is not the years in life, but the life in the years. Sometimes, you have to jump out of the window, and then grow wings during the fall.

41. 说不在乎过去，只在乎现在将来，喜欢一个人什么都不会在乎，只会在乎她开不开心，这是对喜欢的理解，说你喜欢我好喜欢我

41. Saying that one doesn't care about the past, only the present and future, and that one wouldn't care about anything else for someone one likes, only whether she is happy or not, this is an understanding of liking, saying you like me very much.

42. 当一个人不爱你的时候。你撒娇就是作，你吃醋就是小心眼，你想念就是打扰，你关心就是闲的慌。总之你这个人开始出现各种各样的问题，而这些问题，在相遇的时候他曾爱不释手。

42. When someone does not love you, your coquetry is considered acting up, your jealousy is seen as being petty, your longing is seen as interference, and your concern is viewed as being bored. In short, you start to have all sorts of problems, while these problems were once the very things he couldn't get enough of when you first met.

43. 爱无缘，人无缘，孤独的伤感，秋月三分泪，人在江湖，只是一个逗留，只是一个思念的风筝，无缘的想起。

43. Love is without cause, people are without cause, the sorrow of loneliness, autumn moon shedding three tears, a person in the world, it's just a stay, just a kite of longing, thinking of the unconnected.

44. 假如有一天你想哭，打电话给我，不能保证逗你笑，但我能陪着你一起哭；假如有一天你想逃跑，打电话给我，不能说服你留下，但我会陪着你一起跑；假如有一天你不想听任何人说话，打电话给我，我保证在你身边，并且保持沉默。假如有一天我没有接电话，请快来见我，因为我可能需要你。

44. If one day you feel like crying, give me a call. I can't promise to make you laugh, but I can be with you while you cry; if one day you feel like running away, give me a call. I can't persuade you to stay, but I will run with you; if one day you don't want to talk to anyone, give me a call. I guarantee to be by your side, and to be silent. If one day I don't answer the call, please come to see me quickly, because I might need you.

45. 如果可以哭，谁愿意不出声的忍住；如果可以热闹，谁愿意一个人去孤独；如果能够脆弱，谁非要强撑着不服输；如果能够休息，谁非要拼了命的赶路。

45. If one can cry, who would choose to suppress their tears silently; if one can be lively, who would prefer to be alone in solitude; if one can be vulnerable, why must one stubbornly hold on and not admit defeat; if one can rest, why must one拼命赶路.

46. ❶ 我把温柔熬成了荒芜，连遗憾都变得小心翼翼。

46. ❶ I have boiled tenderness into barrenness, even regret has become cautious.

47. 20也许别人给得了你安慰，也给的了劝慰告诫，却永远不知道你心底是多么的万箭穿心。所以不论有多少的委屈，多么的难受，记得最终能治愈自己的还是自己。

47. 20 Perhaps others can comfort you and offer you advice, but they will never know how deeply pierced your heart is at the core. So no matter how much injustice you suffer or how much pain you endure, remember that ultimately, the one who can heal yourself is you.

48. 喧嚣不过是衬托散场的荒凉，再旺盛的火也有熄灭的时候，再繁华的花事也会开到荼靡，再美丽的烟花也只是刹那芳华，再热闹写得戏剧也会最终拉下帷幕，待到曲终人散，更添一段愁情。

48. The noise is just a backdrop to the desolation of the dispersal. No matter how fierce the flame, there will come a time when it will be extinguished. No matter how flourishing the flowers, they will eventually bloom to their fullest. Even the most beautiful fireworks are just a fleeting moment of beauty. And even the most lively drama will eventually draw the curtain. When the music ends and people disperse, it adds another layer of sorrow.

49. ❻ 有些告别没有仪式感，一转身，就是半生遗憾。

49. ③ Some goodbyes lack a sense of ceremony, and with a turn of the back, it becomes half a lifetime of regret.

50. 你只有在最后的时候，才是找得到真正的归宿，在这世上的其余的时间里，充当的永远都只是过客。

50. You can only find your true destination at the very end; for the rest of your time in this world, you will always be just a passerby.

51. 某一天，你的人生中不再有我。你叹气的时候我不会再去安慰你，你难过的时候我不会再陪你一起难过，你心碎的时候我不会再去陪你一起心碎。虽然我是一个喜欢嫉妒，有点霸道，不能容忍我喜欢的人爱着别人的人。但我依然希望你过的比我好，希望看到你幸福的过着每一天。

51. One day, there will no longer be me in your life. When you sigh, I will no longer go to comfort you; when you are sad, I will no longer share your sorrow with you; when your heart is broken, I will no longer accompany you in the shattering. Although I am a person who likes to be jealous, a bit domineering, and cannot tolerate the one I like loving someone else. But I still wish for you to live better than me, and I hope to see you happily living each day.

52. 也正是因为有了思念，才有了久别重逢的欢畅，才有了意外邂逅的惊喜，才有了亲友相聚时的举杯庆贺。

52. It is precisely because of the longing that there is joy in the reunion after a long separation, the surprise of unexpected encounters, and the celebration with a toast among friends and relatives.

53. 喜欢你大概就是，心里装了台爆米花机，你路过我的时候它开始咕噜咕噜，而当你轻轻看我一眼的时候，我的世界嘭地一声炸开，然后心里满满的都是甜甜香香的爆米花了。

53. Liking you is like having a popcorn machine in my heart; it starts to rattle and rumble whenever you pass by me. And when you gently glance at me, my world explodes with a bang, and then it's filled with sweet and fragrant popcorns in my heart.

54. 时间，争吵，分，歧距离，等待，每个人都要放进去榨一遍，翻来覆去，死去活来，思索无助，坚持过后最后滤出来的才是爱。

54. Time, quarrels, separation, differences, waiting - everyone must squeeze them through, turn them over and over, come close to life and death, ponder in vain, and only after persistence is the last filtered out substance love.

55. 9有时候我可以看得很淡然、有时候我又执着得有些不堪。

55. Sometimes I can look at it with a calm indifference, and sometimes I am so obsessed that it's almost unbearable.