初夏的晨光透过窗帘，映照在清新的底色上，仿佛能嗅到泥土的芬芳，感受到清晨的清新与宁静。

The morning light of early summer filters through the curtains, casting a fresh glow on the background, as if one could smell the fragrance of the earth and feel the freshness and tranquility of the morning.

1. 13受挫一次，对工作和生活的理解加深一层。

1. Suffering a setback once deepens one's understanding of work and life.

2. 当你遇到对的那个人不是强烈的动心而是长久的安心

2. When you meet the right person, it's not a strong attraction, but a long-lasting peace of mind.

3. 爱情就像一台摄像机，有时要快进，有时要暂停，有时要倒带，而我的摄像机却是关机。

3. Love is like a camera, sometimes you need to fast forward, sometimes you need to pause, sometimes you need to rewind, but my camera is turned off.

4. 单身并不难，难的是应付那些千方百计想让你结束单身的人。

4. Being single is not hard, the difficulty lies in dealing with those who try every means to get you to end your singlehood.

5. 永远也不要高估你在别人心中的地位，其实你什么都不是，多你一个也不多，少你一个也不少。

5. Never overestimate your position in others' hearts. In reality, you are nothing. One more of you doesn't make a difference, and one less of you doesn't make a difference either.

6. ❷接纳所有遗憾，释怀所有过往，余生慢慢来，一切都来得及。

6. ❷ Embrace all regrets, let go of all the past, take your time for the rest of your life, everything is in time.

7. 梦的最深处，只有微笑不累。没有滋味的人生是会苦，没有趣味的人生是会累，没有余味的人生就会悲。即使失意，也无所谓得失，坦坦荡荡，真真切切，平平静静，快快乐乐。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。

7. In the deepest part of a dream, only a smile does not tire. A life without taste is bitter, a life without fun is tiring, and a life without aftertaste is filled with sadness. Even if one is disappointed, there is no gain or loss to worry about. Be straightforward, genuine, calm, and happy. Inner peace is the most beautiful state of being alive.

8. 曾经以为只要用心去爱，就会有结果，可是我错了。我没有能力使自己静下心来好好地再爱另一个人，我只好放弃与爱在一起，但我并没有放弃爱你。

8. Once I thought that as long as I loved with all my heart, there would be a result, but I was wrong. I don't have the ability to calm myself down and love someone else well, so I had to give up being with love, but I have not given up loving you.

9. 19人生有三样东西不可挽回：时间，机遇，以及说出去的话。

9. In life, there are three things that cannot be regained: time, opportunity, and words spoken.

10. 你心情不好的时候一定要跟我说，我可不想让别人安慰你。

10. You must let me know when you're feeling down, I wouldn't want someone else to comfort you.

11. 别人都以为在我低头沉思，其实我是在看着地上这一毛钱该不该捡。

11. Everyone thinks I'm deep in thought when I bow my head, but actually, I'm contemplating whether I should pick up this one cent on the ground.

12. 不被爱是常态被爱是中**很多人不明白这点

12. Not being loved is the norm, being loved is the exception - many people do not understand this.

13. 人生是一场大梦，个个都睡得很深，没有失眠。

13. Life is a great dream, everyone sleeps deeply, without insomnia.

14. 世上没有一件工作不辛苦，没有一处人事不复杂。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。学会低调，取舍间必有得失，不用太计较。学着踏实而务实，越努力越幸运。当一个人有了足够的内涵和物质做后盾，人生就会变得底气十足。若是美好，叫做精彩，若是糟糕，叫做经历。

14. There is no job in the world that is not hard, and there is no place where human affairs are not complicated. Do not lose your temper arbitrarily; no one owes you anything. Learn to be modest; there must be gains and losses in making choices, and do not overthink. Learn to be down-to-earth and pragmatic; the harder you work, the luckier you get. When a person has enough substance and material as a support, their life will be full of confidence. If it is beautiful, it is called wonderful; if it is terrible, it is called experience.

15. 繁花美景，不过缕缕云烟，是非黑白，莫过人海茫茫。红尘中，缘来缘去，何其短，相知相守，何其难。

15. The beautiful scenery of abundant flowers is just a wisp of mist, and right and wrong are no more than the vast sea of people. In the dust of the world, the coming and going of fate is so short, and to know and cherish someone is so difficult.

16. 我在你眼里找不到出路，我倒在回忆里脱不开身。

16. I cannot find a way out in your eyes, and I am unable to extricate myself from the embrace of memories.

17. ❸不攀附、不迎合，守住本心，做自己的偏爱与救赎。

17. (8) Do not flatter or pander; hold onto your true self and pursue your own preferences and salvation.

18. 也许我已开始想念你 可是我才刚刚遇见你

18. Perhaps I've already started to miss you, but I've just met you.

19. 你越是问心无愧其实你欠别人的也就越多

19. The more innocent you feel in your heart, the more debts you owe others.

20. 以前我一直觉得对爱情还是不要太认真的好，不然会伤的太重，但是遇见你之后，什么伤的重不重都不管，我只想所有来爱你。

20. I used to think it's better not to take love too seriously, otherwise it might hurt too much. But after meeting you, I don't care about the weight of the hurt, I just want to love you with all my heart.

21. 当发现跟一个人相处越相处越觉得彼此没劲甚至最后怀疑自己是个无趣且没有意思的人

21. The more I spend time with someone, the less interesting I find them, and eventually, I start to doubt whether I am an uninteresting and meaningless person myself.

22. 倘若把握不了自己，由着性子，小事生烟，大事冒火，喧嚣鼓噪，弄得自己坐卧不宁，别人见之唯恐避之不及，结果只能是累了别人害了自己。庸人的缺点就在于不能控制自己的感情，轻易失往理智，而成功者则善于把握这个标准，谨慎处事。善于发现，善于思考，处处都有成功气力的源泉。

22. If one cannot control oneself, acting on impulse, trivial matters may escalate into smoke, and major issues may ignite into flames, causing a commotion and disturbance, leading to restlessness both in sitting and lying down. Others would dread to be around such a person, and the result can only be that one ends up exhausting others and harming oneself. The weakness of the common folk lies in their inability to control their emotions, easily losing their composure, whereas successful individuals are adept at maintaining this standard and act cautiously. They are good at discovering and thinking, and there is a source of success power everywhere.

23. 不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。那我们要做的就是：怀揣希望去努力，静待美好的出现。

23. Don't rush, the best things always appear at the most unexpected moments. What we need to do is: to strive with hope in our hearts, and calmly wait for the arrival of beauty.

24. 雨后的城市寂寞又狼狈，路边的座位空着在等谁。

24. After the rain, the city is lonely and disheveled, with the seats by the roadside empty and waiting for someone.

25. 爱情是本没有扉页，没有目录，甚至没有封皮儿的书。突然意识到自己在看这本书时，却早已翻过了好多页。

25. Love is a book that has no front page, no table of contents, not even a cover. Suddenly realizing that I am reading this book, I have already flipped through many pages.

26. 走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。

26. As the path walked grows longer and the number of people encountered increases, one inadvertently discovers that the most charming scenery in life is the calmness and composure of the heart, as well as the wisdom and clarity of the mind.

27. 栀子香著人生中这种事潦潦无几。有时一个不起眼的事就证明了一个人的爱。不是只有用死才能证明爱一个人的。

27. There are not many such things in life as this. Sometimes, it is the most trivial matter that proves a person's love. It is not only through death that one can prove one's love for another.

28. 生气是因为我在乎你，发呆是因为我想你，伤心只是因为我不想失你。

28. Getting angry is because I care about you, daydreaming is because I miss you, and sadness is just because I don't want to lose you.

29. 曾经的你，和我一起的爱情，也只是个童话，凄美，忧伤。

29. The love you once shared with me was only a fairy tale, melancholic and sorrowful.

30. 深情到敷衍 热情到冷淡 重视到忽略 难忘到遗忘 抱歉我不需要

30. From deep affection to disinterest, from enthusiasm to indifference, from importance to neglect, from unforgettable to forgotten, I'm sorry, I don't need any of that.

31. 不必委曲求全，不要给自己留下遗憾，以自己喜欢的方式生活，做自己喜欢做的事，宠爱自己，做一个独特的自己才是最重要的。

31. Do not compromise for the sake of others, do not leave yourself with regrets. Live in a way that you like, do the things you enjoy, pamper yourself, and be a unique individual — that is the most important thing.

32. 最闹心的烦躁是你根本不知道自己究竟在烦什么，无缘无故就全身负能量爆棚。

32. The most frustrating and unsettling烦躁 is when you have no idea what you're actually bothered by, and you feel an overwhelming surge of negative energy for no apparent reason.

33. 在有些人前，不必一而再的容忍，不能让别人践踏了你的底线。

33. In front of some people, there is no need to tolerate repeatedly; you cannot let others trample on your bottom line.

34. 时光就像是一波一波连续不断的涟漪，从我们的脸庞上流过，雕刻出风雪发亮的轮廓来。

34. Time is like a series of continuous ripples, flowing over our faces and carving out the gleaming outlines of the wind and snow.

35. 想得太多会毁了你。若无其事，才是最好的报复。何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，是为了自己。

35. Overthinking will destroy you. Pretending to be unaffected is the best revenge. Why bother proving anything to someone who doesn't deserve it? Living a better life is for yourself.

36. 我有男朋友，可是，平安夜我一个人过，圣诞节我一个人过，跨年夜我一个人过，元旦我还是一个人

36. I have a boyfriend, but on Christmas Eve, I spend it alone; on Christmas, I'm alone; on New Year's Eve, I'm alone too; and on New Year's Day, I'm still alone.

37. 坚持自己该做的事情，是一种勇气。不要因别人的经历，而对爱情失去信心。甚至不要因自己从前的厄运，而不再相信爱情。因为对每个人而言，别人过的怎样，其实毫无借鉴意义。生活最终还是靠自己一点点过出来的。

37. Upholding what you should do is a form of courage. Do not lose faith in love due to others' experiences. Even don't stop believing in love because of your own past misfortunes. Because for everyone, how others live has no reference value. In the end, life is still lived one step at a time by oneself.

38. 对勇气的最大考验，就是看一个人能否做到败而不馁。英格索尔

38. The greatest test of courage is to see if a person can be defeated without being discouraged. - Ingersoll

39. ❿ 余生很贵，拒绝内耗，好好爱自己，比什么都重要。

39. The rest of one's life is precious; refusing to waste energy on internal consumption and loving oneself well is more important than anything else.

40. 我并不害怕我们暂时分开，如果好的爱情需要绕一大圈后再回来，到那时我也可以笑着拥抱你说：你看，兜兜转转，到最后你还是我的。

40. I am not afraid of our temporary separation. If good love requires a big detour before coming back, by then I can laugh and embrace you and say: Look, after all the twists and turns, you are still mine.

41. ❽不讨好世界，只取悦自己，往后，平安顺遂，喜乐无忧。

41. Do not please the world, only satisfy yourself. In the future, live in peace and prosperity, with joy and without worries.

42. 有些话只能说给自己听，有些事只有自己懂了才能真的释怀。

42. Some words can only be heard by oneself, and some things can only be truly let go of when one truly understands them.

43. 站在熙熙攘攘的人群中，你也许不是那么起眼，拥有的不是那么多，但这不要紧。要紧的是：你始终循着自己的脚步，在不慌不忙中日渐优秀，当别人赶超你的时候，提醒自己，只要不曾后退，慢一点也无妨。

43. Standing amidst the bustling crowd, you may not be as noticeable, and may not possess as much, but that is not the point. What matters is: you always follow your own pace, gradually becoming outstanding without hurrying. When others surpass you, remind yourself that as long as you have not retreated, it is fine to go a bit slower.

44. 幸福原本就很少，所以请不要肆意挥霍。不要把最重要的人伤害过才去追悔莫及。不要任性去做出以为很对的行为，亲手将幸福毁得面目全非。因为有些决定，只需要一分钟，可是，却会用一辈子，去后悔那一分钟。幸福不是每天都有，错过了就要等很久。

44. Happiness is originally rare, so please do not squander it freely. Do not wait until you have hurt the most important people in your life to regret it too late. Do not act arbitrarily, thinking that you are doing the right thing, only to destroy happiness into an unrecognizable form with your own hands. Because some decisions only take a minute to make, but they can haunt you for a lifetime with regret for that single minute. Happiness is not every day, and once missed, it takes a long time to wait for it again.

45. 祈求天地放过一双恋人，怕发生的永远别发生。

45. Pray for the heavens to spare a pair of lovers, and may what is feared never come to pass.

46. 长风破浪会有时你也能有光辉日

47. 以后就不说心事给你听了我要自己一个人长大了

46. There will be times when one will break through the stormy waves; you too will have bright days. 47. From now on, I won't share my innermost thoughts with you; I want to grow up on my own.

48. 简单生活才是幸福生活，人要懂得知足常乐，没有什么东西是不能放手的，所有的哀伤、痛楚，所有不能放弃的事情，不过是生命里的一个过渡，你跳过了，就可以变得更精彩。

48. Simple living is the happy life, and people should understand that being content is the key to joy. There is nothing that cannot be let go of. All sorrows, pain, and things that cannot be given up are merely transitions in life. If you leap over them, you can become even more wonderful.

49. 你要接受这世上总有突如其来的失去。洒了的牛奶，遗失的钱包，走散的爱人，断掉的友情等等，当你做什么都于事无补时，唯一能做的，就是努力让自己好过一点。丢都丢了，就别再哭了。

49. You must accept that there will always be unexpected losses in this world. Spilled milk, lost wallets, lost lovers, broken friendships, and so on. When nothing you do can help, the only thing you can do is to try to make yourself feel a bit better. Since it's already lost, don't cry anymore.

50. 在生活中，分明有一种爱，叫做微笑。人，只有变得简单才会快乐，但快乐的人寥寥无几;一复杂就痛苦，可痛苦的人却熙熙攘攘。这反映出的现实问题是更多的人，要活出简单不容易，要活出复杂很简单。

50. In life, there is a kind of love called a smile. People only become happy when they become simple, but there are very few happy people; once they become complex, they suffer, yet there are many people in pain. This reflects a real-life issue: it is not easy for more people to live a simple life, but it is very easy for them to live a complex one.

51. 愿你自己有充分的忍耐去担当。有充分单纯的心去信仰。生活是种律动，须有光有影。请你相信：无论如何，生活是合理的。

51. May you have sufficient patience to bear the burden. Have a pure and simple heart to believe. Life is a rhythm, it needs both light and shadow. Please believe: no matter what, life is reasonable.

52. 一旦陷入了爱的这片森林，就再也找不到回家的路。

52. Once lost in this forest of love, the path back home can never be found.

53. 温柔要有，但不是妥协，我们要在安静中，不慌不忙地坚强。

53. We must have gentleness, but not at the cost of compromise. We should be strong, calmly and without haste, amidst tranquility.

54. 要长大可是不要变成那些奇奇怪怪不可爱的人

54. To grow up is fine, but don't become those strange and unlovable people.

55. 心累的时候，换个角度看世界。在最内在的精神生活中，我们每个人都是孤独的，爱并不能消除这种孤独，但正因为由己及人地领悟到了别人的孤独，我们内心才会对别人充满最诚挚的爱。

55. When you feel mentally exhausted, change your perspective to view the world. In the most profound spiritual life, each of us is lonely. Love cannot eliminate this loneliness, but it is precisely because we have realized the loneliness of others through empathy that we develop the most sincere love for others in our hearts.

56. 获得，不一定是生命的最终结果，最美的，或许正是茫茫人海中的潮起潮落。

56. Acquisition is not necessarily the ultimate result of life; perhaps the most beautiful aspect is the rise and fall of the tides in the vast sea of humanity.

57. 谎言与誓言的区别在于：一个是听的人当真了，一个是说的人当真了。

57. The difference between a lie and an oath lies in: one is when the listener believes it, and the other is when the speaker believes it.

58. 3自己眼中的自己其实要比别人眼中的自己更重要。

58. 3 The self-image one has of oneself is actually more important than what others see in you.

59. 在人生的路上，有一条路每个人都非走不可，那就是年轻时候的弯路。不摔跟头，不碰壁，不碰个头破血流，怎能练出钢筋铁骨，又怎能长大呢

59. On the journey of life, there is a path that everyone must take, and that is the detour in their youth. How can one develop a strong and resilient character without stumbling, hitting a dead end, or getting a head injury? How can one grow up without it?

60. 年轻时，做一天人撞一天工作。年老时，做一天人撞一天日落。

60. In youth, every day is a collision with work. In old age, every day is a collision with the sunset.

61. 如今的我们，似乎长大了，然后去学着承担;似乎懂事了，因而学着拼搏;似乎现实了，从而学着虚伪;似乎世故了，进而学会寡言。可是又有几个人能够真正的独栋他们自己的内心。

61. Today's us, it seems, have grown up and learned to bear responsibilities; seem to have matured, thus learning to strive; seem to be realistic, thereby learning to be insincere; seem to be worldly, further learning to be reserved. Yet, how many people can truly be independent within their own hearts.

62. 原来有些你自以为很重要的人，你不联系他，他就真的永远不会联系你。

62. Originally, there are some people you thought were very important, and if you don't contact them, they really will never contact you.

63. 能做的只有站在自己的位置，扮演好各自的角色。

63. The only thing we can do is stand in our own positions and play our respective roles well.

64. 不努力的女人只有两种结果：穿不完的地摊货和逛不完的菜市场。

64. Women who do not strive will only have two outcomes: endless piles of street market goods and endless visits to the vegetable market.

65. 是非窝里，人用口，我用耳;热闹场中，人向前，我落后。

65. Among the world of right and wrong, others use their mouths, while I use my ears; in the midst of bustling scenes, others rush forward, but I lag behind.

66. 这世上，无论你怎么活，都有人说长道短，无论你怎么做，都有人指手画脚。无论你做的多好，总有人说你不好，不管你有多对，总有人说你不对。没有不被评说的事，也没有不被议论的人。做人难，难称千人心，难调众人口。所以，怎么开心，怎么活。

66. In this world, no matter how you live, there will always be people talking about your faults; no matter what you do, there will always be others pointing fingers at you. No matter how well you do, there will always be someone saying you are not good; no matter how right you are, there will always be someone saying you are wrong. There is no event that is not commented on, and there is no person that is not discussed. It's difficult to be a person, difficult to satisfy the hearts of a thousand people, and difficult to cater to the mouths of the multitude. Therefore, find joy in how you choose to live.

67. 所谓成熟就是原本你该哭该闹的时候你选择了不言不语的微笑

67. What is called maturity is that when you should cry and fuss, you choose to smile silently instead.

68. 辛苦一阵子，幸福一辈子；快活一阵子，辛苦一辈子。

68. Hard work for a while, happiness for a lifetime; live a carefree life for a while, hard work for a lifetime.

69. 我相信在大多数人的认知里，女生一般都是属于依附性的存在。未独立时，依靠父母。有男朋友时，依赖男朋友。结婚后，依附老公。到老了，又有孩子可以依存。女孩的这一生，好像就是菟丝花，身边必须有棵大树，才可以安全的平稳的度过这一生。仅我个人而言，我不喜欢甚至极其害怕自己会变成这个样子。那我们究竟想要成长为一个什么样的女生呢？

69. I believe that in the minds of most people, girls are generally considered to be dependent beings. When they are not independent, they rely on their parents. When they have a boyfriend, they depend on him. After marriage, they depend on their husband. As they get older, they once again have children to depend on. It seems that a girl's whole life is like a dodder plant, which must have a big tree around to safely and smoothly navigate through life. Speaking for myself, I don't like it, and I am even extremely afraid of becoming this kind of person. So, what kind of girl do we want to grow up to be?

70. 人生的三大悲：和憎恨的人生活在一起无法摆脱；你深爱的人离开了你；你很想得到的东西一直无法得到。拿得起；放得下；不强求，才能活出人生精彩。

70. The three great sorrows of life: living together with someone you hate and cannot escape; the person you deeply love leaves you; the thing you very much want to get but always cannot obtain. To be able to hold on and let go; not to be overly demanding, is the way to live a wonderful life.

71. 曾为一个人，上课走神写写画画全是这个人的名字。

71. Once, for a person, the act of daydreaming in class and doodling was all about writing that person's name.

72. 你总是猜忌别人说的话又怎么能交到知心朋友

72. If you always suspect what others say, how can you make close friends?

73. 愿有人不忘跟你道声晚安独闯的日子里不觉得孤单

73. May someone remember to say good night to you on the days you venture alone, not feeling lonely.

74. 有梦就勇敢去追，一腔孤勇你别怕单枪匹马又如何，这一路你可以哭但你不能怂。

74. Chase your dreams bravely, don't be afraid of going solo with all your courage. On this journey, you may cry, but you cannot give up.

75. 时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。

75. Time is always a bystander; all processes and outcomes need to be undertaken by ourselves.

76. 女孩，一定要有别人无法拿走的东西，独立的思想，独立的经济，独立的人格。不要让单一的某件事或者某个人成为自己生活的全部，不要迷失自我，不要丢掉梦想，更不要在生活的进行中与本心渐行渐远。我们要做一个内心强大的人，就像沙漠中的仙人掌，无惧烈日，无惧酷暑，无惧干旱，依旧顽强的奋力的向着太阳生长。

76. Girls, you must have something that no one else can take away from you: independent thoughts, independent economy, and an independent personality. Do not let a single thing or person become the whole of your life, do not lose yourself, do not abandon your dreams, and even more so, do not gradually drift away from your true self as life progresses. We should be people of strong inner strength, like cacti in the desert, fearless of the scorching sun, extreme heat, and drought, and still struggling tirelessly towards the sun.

77. 想你的画面勾勒出你的容颜，却老是感觉那么远。

77. The images of you make a sketch of your face, yet I always feel so distant.

78. 无论经历过怎样的不幸，都别忘了要哄自己开心。

78. No matter how much misfortune you have experienced, don't forget to make yourself happy.

79. 有毒的草开出迷人的花爱你的人说出好听的话

79. Poisonous grass blooms with charming flowers; the person who loves you speaks pleasant words.

80. 总有一天，你会明白：你的委屈要自己消化，你的故事不用逢人就讲起；真正理解你的没有几个，大多人只会站在他们自己的立场，偷看你的笑话；你能做的就是-把秘密藏起来，然后一步一步变得越来越强大！

80. One day, you will understand: your grievances need to be digested by yourself, and you don't have to tell your story to everyone; there are only a few who truly understand you, most people will only stand in their own position and sneak a peek at your jokes; what you can do is - hide your secrets, and then step by step become stronger!

81. 提醒自己，如果你自己都不相信自己，还有谁会呢。

81. Remind yourself that if you don't believe in yourself, who else will?

82. ❶好好生活，慢慢沉淀，不慌不忙，不负自己。

82. ❶ Live well, let things slowly settle, don't be in a hurry, and don't let yourself down.