1. 物要能被利用，才是贵重之物；人要能被利用，才是有用之人。做事一定要使尽本事，做人一定要尽到本分！

1. An object is valuable when it can be utilized; a person is useful when they can be utilized. One must exert all their abilities in doing things, and must fulfill their responsibilities in being a person!

2. 生命的意义在于付出，在于给予，而不是在于接受，也不是在于争取。

2. The meaning of life lies in giving and in offering, not in receiving or in striving to obtain.

3. 9眼前多少难甘事，自古男儿当自强。李咸用《送人》

3.9 How many things are hard to bear at the moment? Since ancient times, a man should strive for self-improvement. (From "Saying Farewell to a Friend" by Li Xianyong)

4. 利已的人最先灭亡。他自己活着，并且为自己而生活。如果他的这个"我"被损坏了，那他就无法生存了。

4. The self-centered individual is the first to perish. He lives and lives for himself. If this 'I' of his is damaged, he cannot survive.

5. 与其做一个有价钱的人，不如做一个有价值的人；与其做一个忙碌的人，不如做一个有效率的人。人不能只生活在过去，更要快乐地生活在未来。

5. It's better to be a person of value than a person of price; better to be an efficient person than a busy person. People cannot live only in the past; they should also live happily in the future.

6. 积德为产业，强胜于美宅良田。

6. Accumulating virtue is a better industry than owning fine houses and fertile fields.

7. 做人要讲是非，但不要太计较利害；做事要讲利害，但不要太害怕是非。对人，要往好处想，往长处看；对事，要往远处想，往大处看。

7. In dealing with people, one should differentiate between right and wrong, but should not overly concern oneself with gains and losses; in handling matters, one should consider gains and losses, but should not be overly afraid of rumors and slander. Towards people, one should think positively and look at the long-term perspective; towards matters, one should think about the distant future and the broader perspective.

8. 19非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。诸葛亮《诫子书》

8. Without being indifferent to the world, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve great things. — From Zhuge Liang's "Exhortation to His Son"

9. 12修辞立其诚。《周易乾文言》言语应该建立在诚信的基础上。

9. 12 The 12th rule of rhetoric is to establish sincerity. The words in the "Yi Jing: Language of Qian" should be based on sincerity.

10. 夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非澹泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。

10. The conduct of a gentleman is to cultivate oneself in stillness, to foster virtue through frugality. Without indifference and simplicity, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant goals.

11. 社会犹如一条船，每个人都要有掌舵的准备。

11. Society is like a ship, and everyone should be prepared to steer the helm.

12. 嫉妒别人，仇视异己，就等于把生命交给别人。

12. To be jealous of others and to hate those who are different from you is like handing your life over to others.

13. 做人处事六原则：一要守本分。二要守规矩。三要守时限。四要守承诺。五要重方法。六要重效果！

13. Six Principles for Dealing with People and Things: 1. To adhere to one's duties. 2. To observe rules and regulations. 3. To meet deadlines. 4. To keep promises. 5. To value methods. 6. To prioritize results!

14. 谁若想在困厄时得到援助，就应在平日待人以宽。

14. Whoever wishes to receive assistance in times of adversity should show leniency in their dealings with others on ordinary days.

15. 踏踏实实做人，实实在在办事。任何一个双手插在口袋里的人，都爬不上成功的梯子。给人留下一个实在的形象，给自己的成功增添一份夯实的基础，从实际出发，对自己负责。

15. Be honest and earnest in your actions and business dealings. Anyone who keeps their hands in their pockets will never climb the ladder of success. Leave a genuine impression on others, lay a solid foundation for your success, start from the actual situation, and take responsibility for yourself.

16. 别人光鲜的背后或者有着太多不为人知的痛苦。

16. Behind others' shiny appearances, there may be too much pain that is not known to others.

17. 太岁头上动土，老虎嘴里拔牙是万万不可能的。但如果太岁和老虎要你的命的话，你还动不动？拔不拔？

17. It's absolutely impossible to dig on the Tai Sui's head or pull a tooth from a tiger's mouth. But if the Tai Sui or the tiger wants to take your life, would you still hesitate? Would you pull or not?

18. 做事宁可慢些，不要太急而错误；做人宁可笨些，不要太巧而败事。做事可失败，做人不能失败；过去可失败，未来不能失败！

18. It's better to do things more slowly rather than make mistakes due to haste; it's better to be a bit clumsy in life rather than fail due to cunning. You can fail in doing things, but you cannot fail in being a person; you can fail in the past, but you cannot fail in the future!

19. 别吃过头的饭，别讲过头的话，别走过头的路，别做过头的事。本分，照顾当下，过头，失去未来。

19. Don't overeat, don't say too much, don't walk too far, and don't do too much. Be honest, take care of the present, and don't overdo it, or you will lose your future.

20. 做人要如镜，时刻自我观照；做人要如箱，随时提放自如；做人要如本，不断记录功过；做人要如烛，永远照亮别人；做人要如钟，分秒珍惜生命。

20. A person should be like a mirror, constantly reflecting upon oneself; a person should be like a box, always able to pick up and put down freely; a person should be like a book, continuously recording one's virtues and faults; a person should be like a candle, forever lighting the way for others; a person should be like a clock, valuing every second of life.

21. 8富贵不能*，贫不能移，威武不能屈。《孟子滕文公下》

21. Wealth cannot corrupt, poverty cannot move, and power cannot bend. — From Mencius, Chapter on Teng Wen Gong.

22. 惟仁者能好人，能恶人。

22. Only the benevolent can be good to people, and can be bad to people.

23. 人以待已为是非，我以待人为对错；人以利已为恩怨，我以利人为取舍；人以得失为得失，我以善恶为善恶；人以地位升浮为亲疏，我以感情真假为远近。

23. People judge right and wrong based on how they treat others, while I judge right and wrong based on how I treat others; people see gratitude and resentment in terms of their own interests, while I see choices in terms of benefiting others; people view gains and losses as gains and losses, while I view good and evil as good and evil; people measure closeness and distance by social status, while I measure them by the truth and falsity of emotions.

24. 做人贵在清白，做事贵在认真，做学问贵在好高骛远。做人要有志、有识、有恒、有自信。做事要不图虚名，多干实事！

24. The essence of being a person lies in integrity, the essence of doing things lies in seriousness, and the essence of pursuing knowledge lies in aspiring for the highest. A person should have ambition, insight, perseverance, and self-confidence. In doing things, one should not seek empty fame and should focus on doing practical work!

25. 清贫，洁白，朴素的生活，正是我们**者能够战胜许多困难的地方！

25. Living in poverty, with purity and simplicity, is exactly where **we** can overcome many difficulties!

26. 忍得了就忍，忍不了就改变，改变不了就认了吧。

26. Endure if you can, change if you can't, and accept if you can't change.

27. 2天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为。 《孟子告子下》

27. In two days, great responsibilities will be bestowed upon this person. First, he must endure the suffering of his mind and will, exhaust his muscles and bones, starve his body, and impoverish his life. He will be disturbed in his actions. — From "Mencius, Gaozi (Down)"

28. 讲话要含蓄，切忌太露；态度要委婉，切忌太直；处事要圆融，切忌太真；做人要深厚，切忌太苛。

28. Speech should be implicit, avoiding being too explicit; attitude should be subtle, avoiding being too direct; dealing with affairs should be harmonious, avoiding being too sincere; and in personal conduct, depth should be preferred, avoiding being too stringent.

29. 待人要平和而有原则，待事要明确而且果断，待理要正直简练通达。心中没有成见则处事公平，心中没有自我则光明正大。

29. Treat people with peace and principle, handle affairs with clarity and decisiveness, and deal with principles with integrity, conciseness, and penetration. With no preconceived notions in one's heart, one can deal with affairs fairly; without self-importance, one can be upright and open.

30. 活泼不放荡，热情不冲动，开放不疯狂，好学不嫉妒，好强不逞强，聪明不傲慢，出色不张扬！

30. Playful but not dissolute, passionate but not impulsive, open but not fanatical, studious but not envious, ambitious but not boastful, clever but not proud, excellent but not boastful!

31. 做人的属下要如土，能谦卑低下；做人的主管要如海，能不拣粗细。与朋友相交要如林，善含藏万象；与大众相处要如水，能屈伸自如。

31. As a subordinate, one should be like the earth, humble and lowly; as a supervisor, one should be like the sea, able to embrace both the great and the small. In friendship, one should be like a forest, good at containing all things; in dealing with the public, one should be like water, able to bend and stretch freely.

32. 做人要低调谦虚，做事要高调有信心，事情做好了，低调做人水平就又上了一个台阶。

32. In life, one should be modest and humble in demeanor, but confident and proactive in actions. When things are done well, the level of modesty in one's demeanor also rises to a new level.

33. 做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自扰。

33. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and practical. Do not indulge in daydreams. Do not worry unnecessarily.

34. 做人：一要严于律己，宽以待人。二要谦和为美，多让少争。三要与人为善，切忌骄横。四要仗义疏财，扶危济贫。五要诚信待人，远离是非。

34. Being a person: 1. One must be strict with oneself and lenient with others. 2. Modesty and amiability are beautiful; give more and argue less. 3. Be kind to others, and avoid arrogance. 4. Be generous and help those in need; support the poor and alleviate their hardships. 5. Treat others with honesty and integrity; stay away from controversies.

35. 紧急的时候得到帮助昌宝贵的，然而并不是人人都会给予及时的帮助；但愿老天爷让我们别交上愚蠢的朋友，因为殷勤过分的蠢才比任何敌人还要危险。

35. It is invaluable to receive help in emergencies, but not everyone is willing to offer timely assistance; may we not be cursed with foolish friends, for a overly eager fool is more dangerous than any enemy.

36. 做人要内外一如，处事要知行合一；说话要言行一致，行为要表里如一；做人要前后一致，做事要老少无欺。

36. One should be consistent in their actions and words, blend knowledge with practice; speak with unity between words and actions, and behave with integrity; be consistent in one's demeanor, and do things without deception to the young and the old.

37. 原谅别人过失，改进自己缺点，留驻真挚爱心，追求美好人生。原谅别人就是善待自己，谴责别人就是亏待自己！

37. Forgive others' faults, improve one's own shortcomings, cherish genuine love, and pursue a beautiful life. Forgiving others is being kind to oneself, and blaming others is being unkind to oneself!

38. 原谅敌人要比原谅朋友容易。

38. It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend.

39. 人生不等不靠，没错。天上不会掉馅饼，守株待兔饿死人，但一点不靠也不行，亲戚朋友、同学、老乡，这是一种人力资源，谁人没个三灾六难，能靠则靠，靠不上创造条件也要靠。

39. Life is not about waiting for others to provide for you, that's right. Man does not fall from the sky with a pie in hand, waiting for a rabbit to come out of the tree will starve to death, but not relying on anyone at all is also not feasible. Relatives, friends, classmates, and fellow compatriots are a form of human resource. Who doesn't encounter three disasters and six troubles in life? If you can rely on them, do so; if you can't, create conditions to rely on them as well.

40. 4三军可夺帅也，匹夫不可夺志也。《论语子罕》

40. The leader of an army may be changed, but a common man's will cannot be taken away. - From the Analects of Confucius, Chapter Ziran.

41. 1关于为人处事的格言或诗句

42. 关于为人处事的名言关于为人处事的名言1、做人要讲是非，但不要太计较利害；做事要讲利害，但不要太害怕是非。对人，要往好处想，往长处看；对事，要往远处想，往大处看。

41. 1 Sayings or Poems about How to Conduct Oneself 42. Famous Sayings about How to Conduct Oneself Famous Sayings about How to Conduct Oneself: 1. In dealing with people, one should speak of right and wrong, but not overly concern oneself with gains and losses; in doing things, one should consider gains and losses, but not be overly afraid of right and wrong. In dealing with people, one should think positively and look at the long-term perspective; in dealing with matters, one should think broadly and look at the big picture.

43. 做事先做人，这是处事原则；立业先立德，这是做人原则。做事不做人，永远做不成事；做人不立德，永远做不成人！

43. To do things first, be a person; this is the principle of dealing with matters. To establish a career first by cultivating virtues, this is the principle of being a person. If you don't be a person while doing things, you will never be able to accomplish anything; if you don't cultivate virtues while being a person, you will never be able to become a true person!

44. 如果你在表演或者是讲演的时候，如果只要有一个人在听也要用心讲下去，即使没有人喝采也要演，因为这是你成功的道路，是你成功的摇篮，你不要看的人成功，而是要你成功。

44. Whether you are performing or giving a speech, if there is even one person listening, you should put your heart into it. Even if no one cheers, you should perform. Because this is the path to your success, the cradle of your success. Don't look to others' success; look to your own.

45. 不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都有恶的一面。

45. Don't rely too heavily on friends, as the basic nature of humans tends to have an evil side.

46. 为人处事学问深，这潭深水，让人畏惧。如何与人交往，该掌握哪方面的知识，此文一一作了回答。要有一颗平常心，要心胸宽广，要会说好听话，同时还要学会八面玲珑等等，如若学会文中所言的观点，就会在商场与职场中取得好成绩，消除许多烦恼。

46. Proficient in the art of dealing with people, this deep pool of knowledge is intimidating. This article answers all the questions about how to interact with others and what kind of knowledge should be mastered. One should have a calm and open-minded attitude, be able to speak well and listen well, and also learn to be versatile in all directions. If one learns the viewpoints expressed in this article, they will achieve good results in the business world and the workplace, and eliminate many troubles.

47. 比赛，有胜有负；地位，有上有下；际遇，有好有坏；人生，有得有失。做人要尽力而为，处事要随遇而安！

47. In competitions, there are winners and losers; in status, there are those who rise and those who fall; in fortune, there are good times and bad times; in life, there are gains and losses. One should strive to do one's best in life and adapt to circumstances as they come!

48. 世上有四种人：人渣，人手，人才，人物。我们要蔑视人渣，不甘人手，羡慕人才，争当人物！

48. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, hands, talents, and figures. We should look down upon scum, be unwilling to be just hands, envy talents, and strive to become figures!

49. 心如果松散，则凡事做不成；心如果疏忽，则凡事不能专心；心如果固执，则万事不得真谛。凡事都要在心，拥有责任感是做人最高贵的情操！

49. If the heart is loose, nothing can be accomplished; if the heart is negligent, nothing can be focused on; if the heart is stubborn, the true essence of all things cannot be understood. Everything must be rooted in the heart; possessing a sense of responsibility is the most noble virtue of being a person!

50. 事繁勿慌、时闲勿荒、有言必信、无欲则刚、和若春风、肃若秋霜、取象于钱、外圆内方。

50. When busy, do not be anxious; when idle, do not waste time; always keep your word; without desires, you will be strong; be harmonious like the spring breeze, strict like autumn frost; take the image from coins, round outside and square inside.

51. 为人处事，必须能屈能伸，可方可圆，外表大度圆融，内心见棱见角，二者相辅相成，缺一不可。

51. In dealing with people and things, one must be able to bend and stretch, to be both firm and flexible. On the outside, one should be magnanimous and harmonious, while on the inside, one should have sharp edges and corners. Both are complementary to each other, and neither can be missing.

52. 14士志于道，而耻恶衣恶食者，未足与议也。 《论语里仁》

52. Those who aspire to the Way yet are ashamed of coarse clothing and food are not worthy of discussing with. — From the Analects, Chapter 6, Verse 14.

53. 对自我要有约束力，对他人要有亲和力，对处世要有宽容力，对求知要有精进力，对困境要有忍耐力，对成功要有推动力！

53. Be self-disciplined, be approachable to others, be tolerant in dealing with the world, be diligent in seeking knowledge, be patient in the face of adversity, and be driven towards success!

54. 方圆做人，八面玲珑；圆满做事，事事顺心。做事不要太绝，凡事都要给自己留条后路。在已获胜的情况下，放对手一马，对手也许会心怀感激，在你不得志时，拉你一把。

54. Be round in character, skillful in all directions; do things to perfection, and everything will go smoothly. Do not be too absolute in your actions; leave a way out for yourself in everything. In the case of having already won, give your opponent a break, and they might be grateful to you. When you are down on your luck, they might pull you up.

55. 别人说的记在脑袋里，而自己的，则放在心里。

55. Remember what others say in your head, but keep your own thoughts in your heart.

56. 贫不足羞，可羞是贫而无志。

56. It is not shameful to be poor, but what is truly shameful is to be poor and have no ambition.

57. 人无礼则不生，事无礼则不成，国无礼则不宁。做人要懂礼仪，懂得尊重人，懂得鄙人者人恒鄙之，敬人者人恒敬之！

57. Without propriety, a person cannot thrive; without propriety, a matter cannot be accomplished; without propriety, a country cannot be peaceful. As people, one must understand propriety, respect others, and those who are disrespectful to others will always be held in disdain, while those who show respect will always be respected!

58. 最好不是在夕阳西下的时候幻想什么，而要在旭日东升的时候即投入工作。

58. It's better not to indulge in daydreams when the sun is setting, but to dive into work as the sun rises.

59. 选择朋友一定要谨慎！地道的自私自利，会戴上友谊的假面具，却又设好陷阱来坑你。

59. Choose your friends carefully! Genuine selfishness can put on the mask of friendship, yet it sets traps to坑害 you.

60. 永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。

60. Always be hopeful about life, and face difficulties and hardships with a smile.

61. 人好刚，我以柔胜之；人用术，我以诚感之；人使气，我以理屈之。

61. When people are stubborn, I use gentleness to overcome them; when people employ cunning tactics, I move them with sincerity; when people vent their temper, I defeat them with reason.

62. 人生漫长，又短暂，关键的就几步。人性丛林，职场事业，利益多多、多多。老成不怕多，凡事应多三思，不怕一万，就怕万一。一旦伸错手，入错行，做错事，于名誉，于事业，于形象皆有不救之危。所以，必须慎之。

62. Life is long yet short, and the key is just a few steps. In the jungle of human nature and in the workplace, there are many benefits. The experienced are not afraid of too much, and one should think about everything three times. One is not afraid of ten thousand, but one is afraid of one. Once you take a wrong step, enter the wrong field, or do something wrong, it poses an irreparable danger to one's reputation, career, and image. Therefore, one must be cautious.

63. 收敛自己的脾气，偶尔要刻意沉默，因为冲动会做下让自己无法挽回的事情。

63. Temper your temper, and occasionally be deliberate in your silence, as impulsive actions can lead to things you cannot undo.

64. 棋逢对手，胜利才更光荣。

64. A match made in heaven, victory is all the more glorious.

65. 亲仁善邻，国之宝也。

65. Treating people with kindness and being amicable with one's neighbors is a treasure for the country.

66. 甜言慰语三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。喜时之言多失信，怒时之言多失礼。知者不博，博者不说，妙语精言，不多为贵！

66. Sweet words warm the heart in the coldest winter, and harsh words chill the bones in the height of summer. Words of joy are often untrustworthy, and words of anger are often improper. The wise are not necessarily learned, and the learned are not necessarily eloquent. Exquisite and profound words are not valued for their abundance!

67. 13疾风知劲草，板荡识诚臣。李世民《赐萧瑀》

67. "In a storm, the sturdy grass is known; during turbulent times, loyal ministers are recognized." (From李世民's "Presenting to Xiao Yu")

68. 灵魂需要原谅，但绝不意味可无原则的畏缩；心灵需要宽容，但不意味着可以任意放弃。做人首先得承担责任！

68. The soul needs forgiveness, but it does not mean that one can shrink away without principles; the heart needs tolerance, but it does not mean one can give up arbitrarily. As human beings, taking responsibility comes first!

69. 生命的全部的意义在于无穷地探索尚未知道的东西。

69. The whole meaning of life lies in endlessly exploring the unknown.

70. 你若要喜爱你自己的价值，你就得给世界创造价值。

70. If you wish to love your own value, you must create value for the world.

71. 急事，慢慢地说；大事，清楚地说；小事，幽默地说；没把握的事，谨慎地说；没发生的事，不要胡说；做不到的事，别乱说。

71. In urgent matters, speak slowly; in major matters, speak clearly; in trivial matters, speak humorously; in uncertain matters, speak cautiously; don't make wild remarks about things that haven't happened; and don't speak lightly of things you can't accomplish.