1. 婚姻是夫妻一辈子的事业，要付出努力去经营，婚姻正是在夫妻携手跨越一次又一次的难坎之后才越发丰富有内涵，才越发显现白头到老的弥足珍贵，婚姻也才散发出她真正的魅力。

1. Marriage is a lifelong endeavor for husband and wife, requiring effort to cultivate. It is only after husband and wife join hands and cross one hurdle after another that the marriage becomes richer and more profound in content, and it is only then that the value of growing old together becomes even more precious. It is also then that the true charm of marriage is revealed.

2. 如果不是每个丈夫都觉得他的妻子美，至少是每个未婚夫都觉得他的未婚妻是美的。

2. If not every husband thinks his wife is beautiful, at least every fiancé thinks his fiancée is beautiful.

3. 青年人无法无天，玩弄爱情；中年人食髓知味，追求爱情；老年人寂寞无聊，回忆爱情。

3. Young people are rebellious and toy with love; middle-aged people, having tasted the essence, pursue love; the elderly are lonely and bored, recalling love.

4. 信任是婚姻关系中两个人所共享的最重要的特质也是建立愉快的、成长的关系所不可短缺的。

4. Trust is the most important trait shared by two people in a marital relationship, and it is indispensable for establishing a happy and growing relationship.

5. 当谎言战胜真理时，你得到爱情；当真理战胜谎言时，你得到婚姻。

5. When lies overcome truth, you gain love; when truth overcomes lies, you gain marriage.

6. 男人最大的魅力并不是要长的有多帅，而是要幽默，有时候幽默也是智慧的一种体现。

6. The greatest charm of a man is not about how handsome he is, but about his humor; sometimes, humor is also a manifestation of wisdom.

7. 一个姑娘爱上一个男子的时候，决不会看出他的缺点来。

7. When a girl falls in love with a man, she will never see his flaws.

8. 完美的婚姻，就是忠实的女人配老实的男人。

8. A perfect marriage is one where a faithful woman is matched with an honest man.

9. 花惯老婆钱的男人，他的责任感像大年初一赌的咒一样虚无渺茫。

9. A man accustomed to spending his wife's money has a sense of responsibility as vague and intangible as the curses he swears on the first day of the Chinese New Year.

10. 男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。

10. Men get bad when they have money, yes, many men are like that. However, even if men who get bad when they have money don't have money, they are not much better off.

11. 举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

11. The ability to lift something and put it down is called weightlifting, while the ability to lift something but not put it down is called carrying a burden. Unfortunately, most people's love is a burden.

12. 爱情不必亲密无间，婚姻无须夜夜春宵。爱情必须不断添温，婚姻需要持续保鲜。没有爱情的婚姻是错误，没有婚姻的爱情是缺憾。

12. Love does not need to be intimate at all times, and marriage does not require intimacy every night. Love must be continuously warmed up, and marriage needs to be kept fresh. A marriage without love is a mistake, and love without marriage is a defect.

13. 要想男人不变心，女人首先不变“脸”。要想男人不外跑，女人别做祥林嫂。结婚决不是女人变“黄脸婆”和“唠叨婆”的分水岭。

13. If a woman wants to keep a man from straying, she must first not change her "face". If she wants to prevent a man from having affairs, she should not act like Xiang Linsu. Marriage is by no means the dividing line between a woman becoming a "yellow-faced spinster" and a "nagging wife".

14. 魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。

14. What is charm? Charm is not beauty; beautiful women do not necessarily attract me. I only like dignified and elegant women. So, you don't need to worry about not being beautiful enough.

15. 夫妻矛盾在所难免，只是已经在婚姻里了，谁拿谁也没辙，就看谁比谁精神经济更独立。

15. It is inevitable to have conflicts between couples. However, since we are already in marriage, neither can do much about it to each other. It all depends on who is more independent in terms of spirit and economy.

16. 爱情，只有爱情，可以使人敢于为所爱的人献出生命；这一点，不但男人能做到，而且女人也能做到。

16. Love, and only love, can make a person dare to sacrifice their life for the one they love; this is something that not only men can do, but women can do as well.

17. 在要求对方必须是**的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，不是的你凭什么？

17. When demanding that the other person must be **, think about whether you are a virgin. If you are, you can, but if you're not, what qualifies you?

18. 婚姻是一种责任，没有承担的勇气，就没有资格谈婚论嫁。

18. Marriage is a responsibility; without the courage to undertake it, one is not qualified to discuss marriage.

19. 有一些人，这一辈子都不会在一起，但是有一种感觉却可以藏在心里守一辈子。

19. There are some people who will never be together in this lifetime, but there is a feeling that can be cherished and kept in the heart for a lifetime.

20. 婚姻不是独木桥，不是人人非过不可。

20. Marriage is not a solitary bridge, not something that everyone has to cross.

21. 在幸福的婚姻中，每个人应尊重对方的趣味与爱好。以为两个人可有同样的思想，同样的判断，现样的欲愿，是最荒唐的念头。

21. In a happy marriage, everyone should respect each other's tastes and hobbies. The notion that two people can have the same thoughts, the same judgments, and the same desires is the most absurd idea.

22. 围在城里的人想逃出来，站在城外的人想冲进去，婚姻也罢、事业也罢，人生的欲望大都如此。

22. People surrounded by the city want to escape, and those standing outside want to rush in. This is true for marriage, career, and most desires in life.

23. 恋爱总比婚姻更令人愉快，恰似小说总比历史更令人愉快。

23. Love is always more delightful than marriage, just as novels are always more delightful than history.

24. 婚姻生活者，半睁眼半闭眼地生活也，天下没有十全十美的男女，如果眼睛睁得太久，或用照妖镜照得太久，恐怕连上帝身上都能挑出毛病。

24. Those who are married live with half-opened and half-closed eyes; there is no perfect man or woman in the world. If one keeps their eyes wide open for too long, or uses a magic mirror to scrutinize for too long, they might even find faults with God himself.

25. 当我们爱一个人，会记得一些和他有关的画面，失去他以后，只要一想起，他就会发现，他会出现在那些画面里。

25. When we love someone, we remember certain images associated with them. After losing them, whenever we recall these images, they seem to appear within them.

26. 因为已经有过一刹那，感受到的深情和宠爱，就可以用一辈子的时间，当你离开。别离总是黯然。

26. Because for that moment, the deep affection and favor felt can be cherished for a lifetime, when you leave. Parting is always melancholic.

27. 喜欢一个人，是不会有痛苦的。爱一个人，也许有绵长的痛苦，但他给我的快乐，也是世上最大的快乐。

27. Liking someone does not bring pain. Loving someone may bring long-lasting pain, but the joy they give me is also the greatest joy in the world.

28. 18等待是苦的；是辛酸的；是委屈的；是无怨无悔的，在等待中，人们学会坚强学会乐观，而这一切，是因为爱。

28. 18 Waiting is bitter; it is poignant; it is unjust; it is without resentment or regret. In the waiting, people learn to be strong and optimistic, and all of this is because of love.

29. 婚姻是可以找到的，每个人都能找到。婚姻作为一种人性的社会要求，会出现在每个人一生中的某个地点。

29. Marriage can be found, and everyone can find it. As a social requirement of human nature, marriage will appear at some point in everyone's life.

30. 婚姻之门，不要盲目跟进。婚姻是有责任的，随便进出必然会让你进退两难痛不欲生。

30. Do not blindly follow the path to marriage. Marriage comes with responsibilities, and casual entry and exit will inevitably leave you in a difficult position, both physically and emotionally.

31. 爱情是一种理想，婚姻是一种现实，两者兼而得之的人，必定是优良的搅拌专家。

31. Love is an ideal, marriage is a reality, and those who manage to have both are undoubtedly excellent mixologists.

32. 经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是一种什么味道，女味人又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女味人就是温柔体贴。

32. I often hear about "manly flavor" and "feminine charm." Do you know what the "manly flavor" is, and what the "feminine charm" is? The "manly flavor" is an aura of generosity and bravery, while the "feminine charm" is one of gentleness and consideration.

33. 女人啊，在婚姻中一定要抓住实实在在的东西！

33. Oh women, always hold onto something tangible in marriage!

34. 婚姻的唯一伟大之处，在于唯一的爱情，两颗心的互相忠实。

34. The only greatness of marriage lies in the unique love and the mutual fidelity of two hearts.

35. 男人就像一个贝壳，女人就像一粒沙子，固然有棱角，有了男人义无反顾的包容，也会幻化成珍珠。

35. Men are like shells, and women are like grains of sand; although they have edges and corners, with the unreserved tolerance of a man, they can also transform into pearls.

36. 人世间所有的东西都是可遇不可求的，我真的有这种感觉。好的婚姻、好的亲子关系、好的丈夫、好的朋友、好的爱人，一切都是可遇不可求的。

36. Everything in the world is something that can be encountered but not sought for; I really have this feeling. A good marriage, good parent-child relationships, a good husband, good friends, a good lover – all are things that can be encountered but not sought for.

37. 婚姻产生人生，爱情只产生快乐，快乐消失了，婚姻依旧存在，且更诞生了此男妇结合更可贵的价值。

37. Marriage brings forth life, love only brings happiness; when happiness fades, marriage still exists, and it also gives rise to the even more precious value of this union of the man and woman.

38. 婚姻是一种非常高的思想，它的解决需要我们做出许多的努力和创造活动，不是身心健康的人是很难负起这个重担的。

38. Marriage is a very high ideal, and its realization requires us to make many efforts and engage in creative activities. It is difficult for someone who is not physically and mentally healthy to bear this burden.

39. 婚姻好比鸟笼，外面的鸟想进进不去；里面的鸟儿想出出不来。

39. Marriage is like a birdcage, the birds outside want to get in but can't; the birds inside want to get out but can't.

40. 感动你的执着，心动你的牵挂，在流浪的封闭小屋，只有你的名字，光亮透明。

40. Moved by your persistence, touched by your concern, in the secluded cabin of wandering, only your name shines brightly and transparently.

41. 获得爱情你可以随便用什么办法，而保持爱情却需要智慧。

41. You can use any method to win love, but maintaining love requires wisdom.

42. 婚配就是两个相爱的强者同舟共济，以便一道战胜岁月征途上的风风雨雨。

42. Marriage is about two strong lovers rowing together in the same boat, overcoming the storms and trials of life's journey side by side.

43. 老掉牙的话，爱情是一回事，婚姻是另外一回事！完美的爱情是自我想象而已。

43. The cliche goes that love is one thing, marriage is another! Perfect love is merely a self-imagination.

44. 男人要是爱上一个女人，不管她如何待他，他都爱。温顺也是好，泼辣也是好，不爱了，一切都是错。

44. If a man falls in love with a woman, no matter how she treats him, he will love her. Whether she is gentle or spicy, it's all good. If he no longer loves her, everything is wrong.

45. 婚姻是不可捉摸在于：一个乐观的男人加上一个乐观的女人，有时等于两个悲观主义者。

45. The elusive nature of marriage lies in this: sometimes, the combination of an optimistic man and an optimistic woman equals two pessimists.

46. 人有时候也许就是这样，明明是自己最不愿意伤害的人，却偏偏会伤得越深。

46. Sometimes people are like that, even though it's the person they least want to hurt, they end up hurting them even more deeply.

47. 要有承受力，要忍受夫妻关系有些脏，婚姻都不是干净的，不是这里脏就是那里脏。

47. Be resilient and endure that marriage is not clean; there's always some dirtiness in the relationship between husband and wife, whether it's here or there.

48. 眼泪是女人最原始的武器，也是男人唯一无法抵抗的最厉害的武器。

48. Tears are the most primitive weapon of women, and also the most formidable weapon that men can never resist.

49. 就看他怎么做，别听他怎么说，也别去猜他怎么想，他的真实想法都在他的行动里。

49. Just watch what he does, don't listen to what he says, and don't guess what he thinks; his true intentions are all in his actions.

50. 有时婚姻也会使一个女性迷失自己不然，世界上杰出的女性原应多得多。

50. Sometimes marriage can make a woman lose herself; otherwise, there should be many more outstanding women in the world.

51. 同行最不宜结婚，因为彼此事行家，谁也哄不倒谁，丈夫不会莫测高深地崇拜太太，抬头也不会盲目地崇拜丈夫，婚姻的基础就不牢固。

51. The most unsuitable option for colleagues is to get married, as they are both experts in their respective fields, and neither can be deceived by the other. The husband will not blindly worship his wife with a mysterious admiration, nor will the wife blindly worship her husband, making the foundation of the marriage unstable.

52. 当心变得坚硬的时候，温柔的手就难以触摸上去，一些纯粹的观念，就无情而疼痛地摧毁了。

52. When the heart becomes hard, a gentle hand finds it difficult to touch, and some pure ideas are mercilessly and painfully destroyed.

53. 在每个人的心里，其实是有爱情的，一直都有。我想它不是婚姻，不是诺言，不是家庭。它是一种气味。引导人盲目前行却无从触摸。

53. In everyone's heart, there is actually love, always has been. I think it's not marriage, not promises, not family. It's a smell. It guides people to move forward blindly, yet it can't be touched.

54. 忠诚的爱情充溢在我的心里，我无法估计自己享有的财富。

54. The loyal love is brimming in my heart, and I am unable to estimate the wealth I possess.

55. 爱情有吸引力，婚姻有约束力。想要逃离两者只会白费力。

55. Love has its allure, and marriage has its binding power. Trying to escape both will only be in vain.

56. 婚姻破裂的两大终极原因：相拥却并不相爱。相爱却不懂相处。婚姻里，夫妻间的相处比相爱还更重要。

56. The two ultimate reasons for the breakdown of marriage: embracing but not loving. Loving but not knowing how to coexist. In marriage, the way the couple interacts is more important than their love.

57. 维系婚姻不只靠忍，还得消化所有的不愉快，彼此互相成长。

57. Maintaining a marriage is not just about tolerance; it also involves digesting all the unpleasantness and growing together with each other.

58. 没有爱情的婚姻不会得到幸福，而爱情不能用金钱和物质换取。

58. Marriage without love will not bring happiness, and love cannot be bought with money and material things.

59. 幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。

59. There's no problem with naive people being with other naive people, and there's no problem with mature people being with other mature people. However, there are many problems when mature people are with naive people.

60. 有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？

60. Some say that in a relationship, one should date someone they like, and for marriage, one should find someone who likes them, but both are one-sided. What's there to love about a lover who doesn't like you? How can you live a lifetime with a wife you don't like yourself?

61. 当你仍想继续，永远不要说再见；当你还能承受，永远不要说放弃；当你舍不得一个人，永远永远不要说你不再爱他。

61. When you still want to go on, never say goodbye; when you can still bear it, never say give up; when you can't bear to let someone go, never, ever say you no longer love him.

62. 婚姻如同一部了无新意却又一再重播的老旧电视影集。

62. Marriage is like an old, worn-out TV series that lacks originality yet is repeatedly rebroadcast.

63. 不曾爱过我而抛弃了我的男人救了我，使我免于一场比恋爱分手更难堪的婚姻劫难。

63. The man who never loved me and abandoned me saved me, sparing me from a marriage disaster that was more embarrassing than a breakup.

64. 我不仅把婚姻描写为一切结合之中最甜蜜的结合，而且还描写为一切契约之中最神圣不可侵犯的契约。

64. I not only describe marriage as the sweetest of all unions, but also as the most sacred and inviolable of all contracts.

65. 婚姻首先出于依恋之情，如果您愿意，也可以说是出于爱情；有了这种感情，婚姻可以说是神圣的。

65. Marriage is primarily based on attachment, and if you like, it can also be said to be based on love; with this kind of feeling, marriage can be considered sacred.

66. 爱情是一种脑力劳动，婚姻是一种体力劳动。爱情彷打桥牌，全靠算计；婚姻彷打麻将，全靠运气。

66. Love is a mental labor, while marriage is a physical labor. Love is like playing bridge, all depends on calculation; marriage is like playing Mahjong, all depends on luck.

67. 草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行再离也不迟。

67. Marrying in haste is already a mistake; do not rush into divorce as well. Try first, and if it really doesn't work out, it's not too late to separate then.

68. 爱情总是患得患失的时候最美好，如果不去开始的话，也永远不会消逝，可是，谁又会按捺住不去开始呢？

68. Love is always at its most beautiful when it is fraught with anxiety and uncertainty. If one does not dare to start, it will never fade away, but who could possibly hold back from starting?

69. 只有当你认识到婚姻的残酷，你才能说自己懂得了婚姻，只有懂得婚姻的人，才能拥有和谐的婚姻。

69. Only when you recognize the harshness of marriage can you say that you understand it, and only those who understand marriage can have a harmonious marriage.

70. 在婚姻生活中，若要爱情持续不断，需要使它小说化。换句话说，就是要使当初的哀艳动人的情节，加上了血和肉。

70. In the course of marriage, to keep love continuous and ever-lasting, it needs to be fictionalized. In other words, it is to add blood and flesh to the original touching and moving story.

71. 情人间的危机就是婚姻，夫妻间的转机就是外遇。

71. The crisis in a romantic relationship is marriage, and the turning point in a marriage is infidelity.

72. 婚姻的幸福并不完全建筑在显赫的身份和财产上，却建筑在互相尊敬上。这种幸福的本质是谦逊和朴实的。

72. The happiness of marriage is not entirely built on prominent status and wealth, but on mutual respect. The essence of this happiness is humility and simplicity.

73. 原来，真的没有什么东西，完美得值得我们用生命去坚持。

73. In fact, there really isn't anything so perfect that it's worth our life to persist in it.

74. 婚姻是很简单的一回事。婚姻是蚌和珍珠。一粒砂无意中走进蚌的身体，蚌不断付出它的底心血减少痛苦。终于，便产生了一颗完美的珍珠了。

74. Marriage is a simple thing. Marriage is like a clam and a pearl. A grain of sand accidentally enters the clam's body, and the clam continuously pays its inner blood to reduce the pain. Finally, a perfect pearl is produced.

75. 婚姻就像一把剪刀，两片刀锋不可分离，虽然使用的方向相反，但是对介入其中的东西总是联合起来对付。

75. Marriage is like a pair of scissors, where the two blades are inseparable, although they are used in opposite directions, they always unite against whatever comes between them.

76. 婚姻作为一种人性的社会需求，会出现在每个人一生中的某个地点。

76. Marriage, as a social need of human nature, will appear at some point in everyone's life.

77. 婚姻必须首先出于依恋之情，如果您愿意，也可以说是出于爱情，如果有了这种感情，只有在这种情况下，婚姻才可能说是神圣的。

77. Marriage must first arise from a sense of attachment, and if you like, you could also say it is out of love. Only in this case can marriage be considered sacred.

78. 对待婚姻问题，必须严肃，不要饥不择食，不问，只看外表，结果弄出很多纠纷，或者生活不到头。

78. In dealing with marriage issues, one must be serious and not be greedy for anything, not just looking at appearances. Otherwise, many disputes may arise, or the marriage may not reach its end.

79. 爱情不能勉强，婚姻也无须强求，无论男人女人，对待爱情与婚姻都应慎重，情感婚姻都不能是随意的行为。

79. Love cannot be forced, and marriage does not need to be pursued forcefully. Regardless of whether one is a man or a woman, one should treat love and marriage with seriousness; emotional and marital relations should not be随意 (random or arbitrary) acts.

80. 没有冲突的婚姻，几乎同没有危机的国家一样难以相像。

80. A marriage without conflict is almost as unimaginable as a country without crises.

81. 女人啊，当你不再爱自己的老公，千万别再随意对他发脾气，这样做是在制造定时。

81. Oh woman, when you no longer love your husband, never lose your temper with him at will. Doing so is like setting a time bomb.

82. 离开之后，我想你不要忘记一件事：不要忘记想念我。想念我的时候，不要忘记我也在想念你。

82. After leaving, I want you to remember one thing: don't forget to miss me. When you miss me, don't forget that I am also missing you.

83. 在婚姻中，每个人都要付出代价，同时也要收回点什么，这是供求规律。

83. In marriage, everyone has to pay a price and also gain something in return, which follows the law of supply and demand.

84. 相亲最大的好处在于：如果日后婚姻出问题，你可以怪罪给媒人。

84. The biggest benefit of blind dating is that if there are problems with your marriage in the future, you can blame the matchmaker.

85. 也许曾经爱过，只是我们的爱搭错了车，就在那一瞬间擦肩而过了。

85. Maybe we loved once, but our love was on the wrong train, and we just passed each other by in that moment.