1. 欺人不是是，让人不是非。

1. It's not about deceiving others, nor is it about forcing others to do as one wishes.

2. 当一个人是一个真正的人的时候，他就应当与大言不惭和骄揉造作之间保持等距离，既不夸夸其谈，也不扭捏取宠。 ——雨果

2. When a person is truly a human being, they should maintain an equal distance between brazenness and coquetry, neither boasting nor fawning for favor. ——Hugo

3. 为而不矜，作而不恃。

3. To act without arrogance, to create without relying on oneself.

4. 假如自负，虚荣心或愤怒使儿童失去了恐怖，或者使他不听恐怖心的劝告，这种心理便应该采取适当的方法消除掉，应该使他稍稍考虑一下，降低火气，三思而后行，看看眼前的事值不值得冒险。 ——洛克

4. If pride, vanity, or anger cause a child to lose fear, or to disregard the advice of the conscience, this psychology should be eliminated appropriately. It should be made to reflect slightly, cool off its passions, and think things through before acting. It should consider whether what is currently in sight is worth the risk. ——Locke

5. 多下及时雨，少放马后炮。

5. Make more timely rain and fewer post-hoc gunshots.

6. 一切礼仪，都是为了文饰那些虚应故事的行为，言不由衷的欢迎，出尔反尔的殷勤而设立的；如果有真实的友谊，这些虚伪的形式就该一律摈弃。

6. All rituals are established to adorn those insincere actions, insincere welcome, and inconsistent attentiveness; if there is true friendship, these false forms should all be abandoned.

7. 人之所以为贵，以其有信有礼；国之所以能强，亦云惟佳信与义。

7. The reason why humans are precious is that they have faith and etiquette; the reason why a country can become strong is also because of the virtue of faith and righteousness.

8. 让礼一寸，得礼一尺。

8. Give an inch, gain a foot in respect.

9. 我们不应该把自己想得太好，以致把自己的价值估计得高；我们也不可因为自己具有某些长处，别人没有，便以为应在别人面前占优势；我们只应该在我们的本分以内谦逊地接受别人对于我们的给予。 ——洛克

9. We should not overestimate ourselves, leading us to overestimate our value; nor should we think we should have an advantage over others just because we have certain strengths that they do not. We should only modestly accept the favors given to us by others within our own duties. ——Locke

10. 礼貌是一种语言。它的规则与实行，主要要从观察，从那些有教养的人们举止上去学习。 ——洛克

10. Politeness is a language. Its rules and practice should primarily be learned from observation, from the demeanor of those who are well-bred. — Locke

11. 文明就是造就文明人。

11. Civilization is the cultivation of civilized people.

12. 切忌浮夸铺张。与其说得过分，不如说得不全。 ——列夫·托尔欺泰

12. Avoid extravagance and flattery. It's better to say less than to overstate. — Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy

13. 所谓良好教养……它们在几乎所有国家中乃至于一个地区里，都不尽相同；每一个明辨事理的人都会模仿他所在之地的良好教养，并与之看齐。

13. What is referred to as good breeding... is not the same in almost every country, nor even in a particular region; every sensible person imitates and strives to match the good breeding of the place where they reside.

14. 人有拂郁，先用一忍字，后用一忘字，便是调和气汤。 ——陶觉

14. When a person is irritable, first use the word "endure," and then use the word "forget," and that is the soup to harmonize one's temper. ——Tao Jue

15. 贫而无谄，富而无骄。

15. Be humble when poor and without flattery, and be modest when rich and without arrogance.

16. 礼貌是有教养的人的第二个太阳。

16. Politeness is the second sun of a well-bred person.

17. 礼貌对于人性，犹如热力之对于蜡烛。

17. Politeness is to human nature as heat is to a candle.

18. 无礼是无知的私生子。

18. Impertinence is the illegitimate offspring of ignorance.

19. 在男人身上，智慧和教养最要紧，漂亮不漂亮，对他来说倒算不了什么！要是你头脑里没有教养和智慧，那你哪怕是美男子，也还是一钱不值。 ——契珂夫

19. In men, wisdom and breeding are the most important, and whether they are handsome or not is not much of a concern for them! If you lack breeding and wisdom in your mind, then even if you are a handsome man, you are still of no value. ——Chekhov

20. 礼貌使有礼貌的人喜悦，也使那些受到人家礼貌相待的人们喜悦。

20. Politeness brings joy to the polite, as well as to those who are treated with politeness.

21. 生活里最重要的是有礼貌，它比最高的智慧，比一切学识都重要。

21. The most important thing in life is to be polite, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge.

22. 恭近于礼，远耻辱也。恭则不侮。

22. To be respectful is to be close to propriety, and to be distant from shame. Respectfulness avoids insult.

23. 总会发生些情愿与不情愿、知道与不知道、清醒与迷误的那种痛苦与幸福的事儿。但如果心里存在虔诚情感，那么在痛苦中也会得到安宁。否则，便只能在愤怒争吵、妒嫉仇恨、唠唠叨叨中讨活了。 ——泰戈尔

23. It is always the kind of things that happen with some willingness and unwillingness, knowing and not knowing, clarity and confusion, that bring both pain and happiness. But if there is a sincere emotional feeling in the heart, one can find peace in the midst of pain. Otherwise, one can only survive in anger, quarrels, jealousy, hatred, and complaining. — Tagore

24. 千日行善不足，一日作恶有余。

24. It takes more than a thousand days of good deeds to outweigh a single day of evil.

25. 谦谦君子，卑以自牧。

25. A gentleman of modesty, humbly cultivating himself.

26. 美德可贵，缺德可卑。

26. Virtue is precious, while vice is despicable.

27. 礼仪是微妙的东西，它既是人类间交际不可或缺的，也是不可过于计较的。如果把礼仪看得高于一切，结果就会失去人与人真诚的信任。因此在语言交际中要善于找到一种分寸，使之既直爽又不失礼。这是最难又是最好的。

27. Etiquette is a subtle thing; it is indispensable for communication among humans, yet it should not be overemphasized. If etiquette is regarded as more important than anything else, the result would be the loss of sincere trust between people. Therefore, in language communication, one should be skilled at finding a balance, making it straightforward yet still polite. This is the most challenging yet the best approach.

28. 礼，不妄说人，不辞费。

28. Etiquette is about not speaking falsely about others, and not using excessive words.

29. 进退无仪，则政令不行。 ——管仲

29. If there is no decorum in advancing and retreating, then the government's orders will not be enforced. ——Guang Zhong

30. 德必报，怨不仇。

30. What is sown will be reaped; one should not harbor resentment against those who harbor resentment.

31. 一个头脑正常的人，是不会自满的。 ——圣西门

31. A person of normal mind is never self-satisfied. — Saint-Simon

32. 言非礼仪，谓之自暴也，吾身不能属仁由义，谓之自弃也。

32. If one speaks without regard for propriety, it is called self-exposure. If one does not adhere to benevolence through righteousness, it is called self-abandonment.

33. 我深信，再也没有比人的外表（与其说是外表本身，不如说是对外表动人不动人的信念）对于人的发展会有这样惊人的影响。 ——列夫·托尔斯泰

33. I firmly believe that there is nothing more astonishing than the human appearance (not the appearance itself, but rather the belief in whether it is charming or not) has on human development. — Leo Tolstoy

34. 苦海无边，回头是岸。

34. The sea of suffering is boundless; turning back is the shore.

35. 礼貌比法律更强有力。

35. Manners are more powerful than laws.

36. 善必寿长，恶必早亡。

36. Goodness will lead to longevity, while wickedness will lead to an early death.

37. 不要指责别人，多多自责。

37. Do not blame others, but rather blame yourself more.

38. 好言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人三月寒。

38. A kind word can warm three winters, while a harsh word can chill three months.

39. 人不可有傲气，但不可无傲骨。 ——徐悲鸿

39. One should not have pride, but one must have pride in character. —— Xu Beihong

40. 满招损，谦受益，莫伸手，终日乾乾，自强不息。 ——陈毅

40. Pride brings loss, humility brings benefit; do not reach out, be diligent all day long, and never stop self-improvement. ——Chen Yi

41. 礼仪周全能息事宁人。

41. Etiquette and politeness can pacify disputes and calm people.

42. 真诚是玻璃，谨慎是钻石。

42. Sincerity is glass, caution is diamond.

43. 让一得百，争十失九。 ——马克

43. Give one and get a hundred; strive for ten and lose nine. ——Mack

44. 有文化教养的人能在美好的事物中发现美好的含义。这是因为这些美好的事物里蕴藏着希望。 ——王尔德

44. A cultivated person can find beauty in things that are beautiful. This is because these beautiful things contain hope. —— Wilde

45. 慷慨，尤其是还有谦虚，就会使人赢得好感。 ————歌德

45. Generosity, especially combined with modesty, will win people's favor. ————Goethe

46. 善恶到头终有报，只争来早与来迟。

46. In the end, good will be rewarded and evil punished; it's just a matter of when, sooner or later.