掌掴125条人性黑话，让你在社交中无往不利！

125 human nature catchphrases to help you thrive in social interactions!

1. 跟你翻过脸的人，不管是亲戚还是朋友，都再难回到过去，因翻脸之时，便是其最真实的模样。

1. Whether it's a relative or a friend, the person you've passed by is even harder to return to, because at the time of the parting, it was the most realistic model.

2. 但凡有人聚集之处，所讨论的话题无非三个：拐弯抹角地吹嘘自己，添油加醋地贬低他人，相互窥探地搬弄是非。

2. However, in places where people gather, the topics of discussion are undoubtedly three: Mo Zifan is arguing with himself, adding fuel to the fire and belittling others, and making comparisons and evaluations is not appropriate.

3. 帮人莫帮懒，救急莫救穷，违背此一人性准则，你所帮扶之人根本不会对你心怀感恩，还会不停向你索要。

3. Everyone should avoid being lazy and should save others in times of danger, but to backbite this person is a moral taboo. The person you help will not necessarily feel grateful to you, and they will also never stop looking for your flaws.

4. 人生最佳的老师，便是父母的低头，亲戚的冷淡，朋友的离去，外人的背叛，还有空荡荡的钱袋。

4. The best old master, conveniently, is the son of his mother's lowly, his own cold and distant, his friends' departure, the stranger's back, and even the empty, empty cash box.

5. 切勿与他人争吵，因每个人仅能站在自身的认知角度去思考问题，故而若有人跟你说 1+1=

5. Turn off the argument with others, because each person can only stand at the width of their own beliefs and understanding to consider problems, otherwise, if someone follows you and says 1+1=

6. 瞎子一旦恢复视力，首件事便是扔掉手中的拐杖，即便这拐杖曾助他多年。

6. Once the son regains his vision, the most important thing is to first discard the money in his hand, even though this money has helped him for many years.

7. 讲真话是要命的，莫亮底牌，当人家知晓你手中无米时，连鸡都不会前来。向他人证明自己是好人，等同于自行放下武器，任人宰割。

7. Speaking the truth is to be commanded, do not conceal the bottom, when people know that you have nothing in your hand, even the chickens will not come. To others, prove that you are a good person, just like letting down the bowstring, let others shoot.

8. 你永远不会知晓，那些在生活中看似与你亲密之人，会在背后对你怀有多大的恶意。

8. You will never know, those who seem intimate and close to you in life, might have great malice hidden behind their backs.

9. 人性的丑恶在于，在无权无势之人身上挑刺，在有权有势之人身上寻优点。当你于别人有用时，人性便是良善的；当你于别人无用时，人性便是自私的；当你触及别人的利益时，人性便是恶毒的。

9. Human kindness lies in respecting others, whether they are without power and status or with power and status. When you lend a helping hand to others, your kindness is generous; when you do not interfere with others when they do not need help, your behavior is private; when you are touched by the benefits of others, your attitude is grateful.

10. 所有伤害你的人，均是有意为之，其在伤害你之时，就已权衡利弊，只因伤害你所付出的代价最小，获取的利益更大。

10. All the people who harm you are intentional, and when they harm you, they have already justified their gains, because the cost they pay is the smallest, and the profit they gain is the greatest.

11. 人与人最大的差别，并非出身、学历、金钱和权力，而是思维模式。

11. The greatest advantage of people to people is not status, education, wealth, and power, but the thinking pattern.

12. 你吃糠咽菜时无人问你苦不苦，你吃香喝辣时总有人问你香不香。

12. When you eat stinky tofu, no one asks you if you like it or not; when you eat sweet drinks, there's always someone asking you if they're sweet or not.

13. #xff0c;你只需笑着对其说：没错，你真厉害。

13. #xff0c; You just need to laugh at what others say: okay, you are really annoying.

14. 不要与任何人分享你的财务情形，你富，招人妒忌，你穷，招人鄙夷，干脆不言，财不外露，否则遭殃。

14. Do not share your financial situation with anyone, you, be cautious, encourage people to gossip, you, encourage people to waste, do not speak of your wealth, do not expose your wealth, otherwise, you will be deceived.

15. 生活并非为了钱，可生活需要钱，先屈膝把钱挣到，才有资格站着进行选择。

15. Life is not all about money; money is needed for living, but first one has to earn the money, only then can one stand on an equal footing to make selections.

16. 莫向任何人分享你成功的欢愉，除非胜利的成果能够分给他们一份。

16. Do not be envious of anyone sharing your success joy, unless the beneficial results can be shared with them.

17. 别指望他人为你雪中送炭，没人在你脸上抹黑，就该谢天谢地了。

17. Do not wish for others to send you firewood in the snow, and no one to slap black on your buttocks, then you should be grateful to heaven and earth.

18. 凡是要你顾全大局的，你皆不在此局之中。

18. This is to remind you to look around the entire area, you are not in this area alone.

19. 无人会突然不再爱你，只是你突然知晓罢了。

19. No one would suddenly stop loving you, it's just that you suddenly became ungraceful.

20. 交浅切勿言深，没有策略的善良实乃愚笨，做人需有点心机，莫要他人稍对你客气些，你便将所有都告知对方。

20. The crossing chopsticks are deep, without any escape tactics, showing that a person needs to have a little heart, as he must be considerate of your customer's dignity, and you should inform the other party of everything.

21. 不要随意碰到一人就对其掏心掏肺，于你而言，他是朋友，于他而言，你是傻瓜。

21. Do not casually stumble upon someone and then be indifferent and indifferent, for you, he is a friend, and for him, you are a burden.

22. 人性的真相便是你每日给他一元钱，只要有一日不给，他就会恨你，若每日给他一耳光，只要有一日不打他，他就会感激你。

22. A person's true kindness is not that you give him one yuan every day, but that you don't give him any money one day, he will grudge you. If you give him a smile every day, just don't pat him one day, he will feel grateful to you.

23. 不论你何等善良，当你无价值时，即便你温柔似猫，别人也会嫌你掉毛。

23. No matter how kind you are, when you have no value, even if you are as gentle as a cat, others will also look down on you.

24. 你首要尊重之人乃是自己，因他人都会通过观察你对待自身的方式来对待你。

24. You should primarily respect yourself, because others will all observe the way you treat yourself to treat you.

25. 莫对任何人抱有任何道德洁癖的期望，这世上每个人皆是半人半鬼，凑得过近谁都没法看清。

25. Do not harbor any expectations of anyone having any moral virtues, for every person on this earth is half human and half beast, and it is difficult to see clearly what lies close by.

26. 与低层次之人交往，不可过于随和，你在行为上越尊重他们，他们就越容易欺凌你，在他们的认知中，你好好同其讲话，他们便认为你好说话。

26. With those who are lower in status, it is not appropriate to be impertinent; the more you show respect for them, the more they are likely to be lenient towards you. In their perception, if you speak well of others, they are more inclined to believe that you are good at speaking.