35岁后：揭开深刻领悟的人生智慧篇章

After 35: Unveiling the Chapters of Profound Life Wisdom

1. 心善之人觉得拒绝他人难为情，可有些家伙，你帮他七分，他却认为你欠他三分。

1. Kind-hearted people find it embarrassing to refuse others, but some people, even if you help them with seventy percent, they still think you owe them thirty percent.

2. 生活就是如叭，往后里还有许多路要走。用另一种心态去看待生活感受生活中所在的美好，会从中认识到生活中也有真理的存在。去发掘生活那一抹奇妙的面纱去探究那衶奇的奥秘。生活就像一条金丝绳我就如那七彩的珍珠，金丝绳把珍珠串起耒散发出七彩的光芒，而我的生活就像明镜一样看清了自己。

2. Life is like a journey, with many paths still ahead. Adopting a different mindset to view life and feel the beauty within it will help you recognize the existence of truth in life. Go ahead and uncover that patch of the wondrous veil of life and explore its mysterious wonders. Life is like a golden thread, and I am like the colorful pearl. The golden thread strings the pearl together and emits a spectrum of colors. My life, much like a clear mirror, reveals myself to me.

3. 我刚入职的时候，给我分配的师傅交给我，第一个技能就是文件命名和文件归档，其实我没有想到会从这么基础东西学起。在这之前我其实还是一个不能整理的人，也会经常找不到自己的东西。

3. When I first started working, the mentor assigned to me gave me my first skill, which was file naming and file organization. I actually didn't expect to start learning from such basic things. Before that, I was actually someone who couldn't organize things well, and I often couldn't find my own belongings.

4. 坦白说，担任接待官的工作很辛苦，每次会议，我几乎是第一个到达会场，布置完毕后，已经累得直不起腰了，还要马不停蹄地跑到会议室门前欢迎来宾和会员。每当会议曲终人散后，我往往是最后一个离开会议室，在整理完俱乐部道具后，一个人独自走在黝黑、寂静的小路上，看着路边昏暗的灯光，头发被冷风吹得零乱，心里的委屈不由自主地涌上心头。

4. To be honest, the job of a receptionist is quite exhausting. At every meeting, I am almost the first one to arrive at the venue, and by the time I finish setting up, I am so tired that I can barely straighten my back. Then, I have to rush to the door of the conference room to welcome the guests and members. After the meeting ends and everyone leaves, I am often the last one to leave the conference room. After I tidy up the club's props, I walk alone on the dark, quiet path, looking at the dim streetlights along the way. The cold wind ruffles my hair, and the injustice I have endured wells up in my heart involuntarily.

5. 即使是这种八年疯狂的努力，也依然无法解释为什么卡梅隆这么牛——他怎么可能做出那么好的3D特效？他脑子里怎么可能有对整个外星世界的细微想法，这些到底是从哪里来？

5. Even with this eight-year-long疯狂的努力, it still cannot explain why Cameron is so amazing—he how could he create such great 3D effects? How could he have such intricate ideas in his mind about the entire alien world, and where did these ideas come from?

6. 所谓的门槛，能力足够便是门，能力不足则为槛。

6. So-called thresholds: for those with sufficient ability, it is a door; for those with insufficient ability, it is a barrier.

7. 01 要相信努力终会有回报

7. 01 Believe that hard work will eventually pay off.

8. 越是与你关系亲近之人，越难以接受你突然变好的状况。

8. The closer the relationship with you, the harder it is for them to accept your sudden improvement.

9. 02 你现在的成就，都是过往的点滴努力累积而成的

9. 02 All your current achievements are the accumulation of the little efforts you have made in the past.

10. 春去秋来，功夫不负有心人，在我坚持不懈地努力下，我成为了俱乐部的演讲冠军，在那一刻，我感慨万千，流下了复杂的泪水，而那些曾经笑话我的人，也对我肃然起敬了。因此， 我们只要调整好心态，朝着心中的目标，缓慢而坚定地前行，通过时间的复利，我们必定可以见证一个不一样的自己。

10. As spring gives way to autumn, hard work is not in vain. Through my persistent efforts, I have become the speech champion of the club. At that moment, I was filled with emotion, shedding tears of a complex nature. Those who once laughed at me also began to respect me. Therefore, as long as we adjust our mindset, move towards our heart's goal, and advance slowly but firmly, through the compound interest of time, we will undoubtedly witness a different version of ourselves.

11. 后来我学会了“日期加项目加关键词加文件名”的命名方式，以及每天整理文档的习惯，虽然有时候呢会不自觉的偷懒，但是我的文件命名和归档还是很清楚的到后来真的收益无穷，只要我有的资料就能迅速的找到。

11. Later on, I learned the "date + project + keywords + filename" naming method, as well as the habit of organizing documents daily. Although sometimes I might be a bit lazy, my file naming and archiving have remained very clear. In the end, it has been incredibly beneficial. I can quickly find any information I have.

12. 聪慧的人嘴巧，讨嫌的人会演，而实在的人只有受骗，往昔总认为见人说人话，见鬼说鬼话是虚伪，现今才知晓那是本事。

12. Wise people have the gift of the gab, annoying people can act, but honest people are only deceived. In the past, I always thought that speaking humanly when you meet a human and speaking devilishly when you meet a ghost was insincere, but now I realize that it is actually a skill.

13. 2009年,《阿凡达》横空出世。仅仅用了39天，全球票房1859亿美元，打破《泰坦尼克号》保持13年的全球总票房第一的记录。

13. In 2009, "Avatar" emerged and made a splash. It only took 39 days for the film to gross $18.59 billion worldwide, breaking the record of "Titanic" which had held the number one spot for the global total box office for 13 years.

14. 他在世界各地寻找景点——登上张家界的山，潜入深海观海沟（发光的大地、飞翔的神树种子，其实都是他在深海海沟里面的灵感）。最令人记忆深刻的是那场烧掉母树的大火——为了抓住这个画面，这个“老疯子”放火点着了自己在加州的别墅，搬个凳子坐在后院，看火焰慢慢燃尽自己心爱的房子、生活用品和收藏品，并用摄像机记录下来当时的景象和心情——这些记录变成了我们在影片中看到的火焰余烬漫天飘舞的画面。

14. He searches for scenic spots all over the world—climbing the mountains of Zhangjiajie, diving into the deep sea to observe the sea沟（the glowing land, the flying divine tree seeds, all of which were his inspirations from the deep sea沟）。The most memorable is the great fire that burned down the mother tree—to capture this scene, this "old nut" set fire to his villa in California, took a chair and sat in the backyard, watching the flames slowly consume his beloved house, household items, and collections, and recorded the scene and his feelings with a camera—these recordings became the images of the flames and embers dancing in the sky that we see in the film.

15. 综上所述，中年人有职场上的中年危机，一不小心可能就会被职场淘汰，这就是中年人的“年龄恐慌症”。

15. In summary, middle-aged people face a mid-career crisis in the workplace, and they may be eliminated by mistake, which is known as the "age panic syndrome" among middle-aged individuals.

16. 《深渊》+《终结者II》+《真实的谎言》=《泰坦尼克号》

16. "The Abyss" + "Terminator II" + "True Lies" = "Titanic"

17. 当你觉得没有任何人能够依赖之时，便是你要觉悟之际，多数人的觉悟，皆是被痛苦唤醒的。

17. When you feel that no one can be relied upon, it is the time for you to awaken to enlightenment. The enlightenment of most people is awakened by suffering.

18. 其次，中年人精力没有年轻人旺盛，还被家庭占去很多精力，无法在职场和年轻人一起竞争。

18. Secondly, middle-aged people do not have the vitality of the young, and they also spend a lot of energy on family, making it difficult for them to compete in the workplace with the young.

19. 首先，中年人上有老下有小，小孩上学，老人养老，需要自己照顾的人很多，收入无法支撑家庭开销。

19. Firstly, middle-aged people have both the elderly above and the young below, with children going to school and the elderly needing to be taken care of. There are many people who need to be taken care of, and their income is not enough to support the family expenses.

20. 我明白“曲则直”的道理，现在吃的亏，放在整个人生长河中会带给我不一样的风景。 于是，我抱着这样的信念，硬是坚持在俱乐部担任了两年的接待官。期间，也有很多人嘲笑我傻，没有钱，为什么干得那么认真呀？但我知道，世界是自己的，与他人无关，所以依旧任劳任怨地做好自己的工作。

20. I understand the principle of "when curved, it becomes straight." The losses I endure now will bring me different scenery in the long river of my life. Therefore, with this belief in mind, I stubbornly persevered as a receptionist in the club for two years. During that time, many people mocked me for being foolish, without money, and wondered why I was so serious about it? But I knew that the world is my own, and has nothing to do with others, so I continued to do my job with diligence and perseverance.

21. 还有就是工作的节点一定要注意，我这一年听到最多的一个词语就是节点，工作中要有明确的deadline，这其实在任何行业都应该是必须的，在高校强压的地产行业高效反馈真的是体现的淋漓尽致，我们必须要在最快的时间内完成，还要反映到各个板块再进行一轮，二轮的调整。

21. Another thing to pay attention to is the nodes of work. The most frequently heard word I've encountered this year is "nodes." In work, there should be clear deadlines, which should be a necessity in any industry. In the highly pressurized real estate industry in universities, efficient feedback truly manifests itself to the fullest. We must complete the work in the shortest time possible, and then reflect it back to various sections for a round and a second round of adjustments.

22. 不论你年岁几何，只要你太过轻易信任他人，你便拥有了绝对的软肋。

22. No matter how old you are, if you too easily trust others, you have an absolute vulnerability.

23. 《阿凡达》在全球额成功过绝非偶然，卡梅隆自上一部**后沉寂八年，一直在为它做准备。为了让故事真实可信，在拍摄之前，他先带领设计团队描绘出整个潘多拉星球的生态环境：卡梅隆亲自手绘了30多张外星动物的效果图，由动物学家修正不符合科学的细节，然后反复修改定稿。他找来语言学家，专门为这个星球的人创造出一种语言，并要求配音人员学会。

23. The global success of "Avatar" is by no means accidental. Cameron has been silent for eight years since his last film, preparing for it the whole time. To make the story believable, before shooting, he first led his design team to depict the entire ecological environment of the planet Pandora: Cameron personally hand-drew more than 30 concept illustrations of alien animals, with details corrected by zoologists to ensure scientific accuracy, and then the final draft was repeatedly revised. He also hired linguists to create a language specifically for the inhabitants of this planet, and required the voice actors to learn it.

24. 要用“笨功夫”经营好自己的人生，是与曾国藩“结硬寨，打呆仗”的道理是相通的。人生很多的坎坷，学习中的知识阻碍，恰恰需要我们慢下来，去攻坚克难，这样你才能看到不一样的风景，也能在人生成功的道路上走得更远，飞得更高！

24. To manage one's life well by using "dumb hard work" is in line with the principle of "Fortify strong fortresses, fight foolish battles" by Zeng Guofan. Many hardships in life, as well as obstacles in learning, require us to slow down and tackle difficulties head-on. Only in this way can you see a different landscape, and also be able to walk further and fly higher on the road to success in life!

25. 不要与人性较真，不要为糟心事烦扰，人性禁不起琢磨，与人性较劲儿，受伤的只会是自己。

25. Do not argue with human nature, do not be troubled by unpleasant things, human nature cannot withstand scrutiny. Arguing with human nature will only hurt yourself.

26. 一则社交法则：十倍速亲近于你的人，在你遭遇困境时，也会十倍速远离。

26. A social rule: Those who are ten times closer to you will also distance themselves ten times faster when you encounter difficulties.

27. 担任接待官，让我一下子拉近了自己与俱乐部的链接。因为害怕公众演讲，我参加会议经常是三天打鱼两天晒网。而做了接待官后，因为要履行自己的职责，我会坚持参加每一次会议，做好每一次演讲，并利用会议休息时间积极地向身边的高手、大咖请教。

27. Serving as the receptionist immediately strengthened my connection with the club. Due to my fear of public speaking, I often attended meetings sporadically, like fishing for three days and drying the nets for two. However, after becoming a receptionist, I have been committed to attending every meeting, delivering every speech well, and actively seeking advice from experts and influential individuals around me during the breaks.

28. 再次，职场上要不断的学习，才能使自己不被新技术、新工艺、新行业淘汰，中年人已经没有精力去学习，而且学习效果也比不上年轻人。

28. Once again, continuous learning is necessary in the workplace to avoid being淘汰 by new technologies, new processes, and new industries. Middle-aged people no longer have the energy to learn, and their learning effectiveness is also not as good as that of young people.

29. 人生没有白走的路，每一步都算数。你现在的成就，享受的幸福，都是你过往奋斗、忍耐的结果。也许在人生的某个时刻，你回首往事，会发现之所以能看到人生曼妙的风景，都是过去点滴努力的积累而已，功不唐捐就是这个道理。

29. There is no wasted journey in life, every step counts. Your current achievements and the happiness you enjoy are the results of your past struggles and perseverance. Perhaps at some point in life, when you look back, you will realize that the beautiful scenery of life you see is merely the accumulation of all the small efforts you have made in the past, and this is the very essence of "not squandering one's efforts."

30. 将渴望做的事与自己感兴趣的事捆绑，这样会看到不一样的烟火。

30. Tie the desires to do things with what you are interested in, and you will see a different kind of fireworks.

31. 03 要学会用“笨功夫”经营自己的人生

31. 03 Learn to manage your life with "diligent effort" or "hard work."

32. 对一个人极好，时长日久，就成了理所应当，反倒偶尔对人好上一次，人家会惊喜万分。

32. To be extremely good to someone over a long period of time becomes something taken for granted, whereas occasionally being good to someone can bring them great surprise.

33. 最后说一个比较玄学的，一定要对自己培养出策略意识，其实我在求职的时候还是比较迷茫的，我其实不了解地产，也不了解代理，更不了解策划，大家都说进去就能学东西，我就去了。无论是开始的时候的各种培训思路，还是技能到后来的各种提报的参与，我们都借助了大公司的专业平台以及各种优秀案例。所以学习更高层次的东西是对自己有好处的。

33. Lastly, a more metaphysical point: it's crucial to cultivate a strategic awareness within yourself. In fact, when I was job hunting, I was quite confused. I didn't really understand real estate, nor did I know about agency, let alone planning. Everyone said you could learn things once you joined, so I did. Whether it was the various training approaches at the beginning or participating in various reporting submissions later on, we relied on the professional platforms of large companies and all sorts of excellent cases. Therefore, learning at a higher level is beneficial to oneself.

34. 每个人开花的季节不同，有的人年少有为，而有的人大器晚成。无论人生结局如何，无论未来成功与否，我们都要走好人生的每一步，过好人生的每一天、每一分、每一秒，相信你的付出与努力，将来会让你成为漫天星空中那一颗璀璨的星星。

34. Each person has their own time to bloom; some excel in youth, while others achieve greatness later in life. No matter how life's outcome may be, or whether the future brings success or not, we must take each step of life well, live each day, each minute, each second of life to the fullest. Believe in your efforts and dedication, for they will surely make you a radiant star in the endless sky in the future.

35. 虽然很累，但是氛围都还好，我带的团队是非常和谐的工作氛围，很多团队小伙伴都私下发展成了很好的朋友。

35. Although I'm tired, the atmosphere is generally good. The team I lead has a very harmonious work environment, and many team members have privately developed into good friends.

36. 我如一棵小树生活如风，我在微风中飘动着，不管风有多大黄土卷叠起层层沙浪，我会一直乖着风两前行，把风雨化成滋润旳雨滴长成苍天大树。

36. I live like a little tree, my life flowing like the wind. I sway in the breeze, regardless of how strong the wind is, the loess rolls up layer upon layer of sand waves, yet I will always follow the wind and move forward, transforming the storms into nourishing raindrops, growing into a mighty, towering tree.

37. 我如一颗微小的尘埃生活如空气，我在空气中飘浮不定着，不管空气如何的恶劣，我会找到属于自己的归宿适应那恶劣环境以及新环境在那里尘埃落定。

37. I live like a tiny speck of dust, my existence akin to air. I drift in the air, ever-shifting, regardless of how harsh the air may be. I will find my own haven, adapt to the harsh environment, and to the new environment where the dust finally settles.

38. 永远莫要企图去改变任何人，往往你越为他人着想，他人就越厌烦你。

38. Never try to change anyone, for the more you think of others, the more they may find you annoying.

39. 我每天的生活都在一天天的度过，有甜蜜的；有开心的；有快乐的；也有辛酸的；难过的；烦恼的；困扰生活的小事，我的生活酸甜苦辣五味交俱，也让我懂得生活得意义与价值。在生活中面对困难挫折让我内心有了退缩不敢再向前走去。变得怯懦不敢面对，而随着时间生活的推移我才豁然也真正的动了深深体会了它的美好，它的非凡意义从成长到现在大部分的时间都在学习上度过，而在学习方面的生活是最漫长的也是人生中的一部分。从低年级到高年级，从中都要经过磨练累积知识掌握越深越有意义，学习上的烦恼与困难都在逐步增加，但是越是这样就越是不能退缩就要迈开步伐向前方前进，这在生活中出现的太频繁了但这谁也不能改变的，这是生活中的潜规则如果连这小小的问题都要逃避那以后的大风大雨只能把你反噬。在我的成长生活中我懂了不少也从中悟出真理，生活原来如此美妙又如此的有趣在生活中可以实验学习学习做人的道德品质中华民族的传统尊老爱幼的美德。生活处处都存在着语文知识去参透去领悟。学习课本上所没有的知识来丰富我们的知识，在生活中不断去开发自己的智慧去发掘属于自己的金矿，不断去学习会充满无比的满足感和乐趣。在生活中行走有时会遇见拦路石，平坦的路上增加了一些障碍物，因此，不要感到烦恼要以一种乐观的心态去对待，想想一路平添了一些障碍但更显的有趣，路途中一波三折地走过像似是冒险才会感到有成就感才会有特别的意义，所以感谢挫折它磨炼人的毅志，锻炼出强劲坚韧不拨的精神。我的生活也常常会出现障碍，生活啊生活！它原来昰如此的美好让我进一步深刻的了解了生活。

39. I live my daily life one day at a time, with sweet moments, joyful times, happiness, and also with bitterness, sadness, worries, and the trivial things that困扰 life. My life is a blend of all flavors - sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy - which also teaches me the meaning and value of life. Facing difficulties and setbacks in life made me feel hesitant and不敢 move forward, becoming timid and不敢 face them. But as time went by, I suddenly realized and truly experienced the beauty of life, its extraordinary significance. Most of the time from my growth to the present has been spent on studying, and the life in studying is the longest and also a part of life. From lower grades to higher grades, one must go through trials and accumulation of knowledge, the deeper the understanding, the more meaningful. The worries and difficulties in learning are gradually increasing, but the more so, the less one can retreat, and one must take steps forward. This happens too frequently in life, but it is something no one can change; it is a silent rule in life. If even such small problems are avoided, the great storms of life in the future can only engulf you. In my growing life, I have learned a lot and have also realized truths. Life is so wonderful and so interesting. In life, one can experiment and learn, learn moral qualities, and the traditional virtue of respecting the elderly and loving the young of the Chinese nation. There is a wealth of language knowledge everywhere in life to be explored and understood. Learning knowledge not found in textbooks enriches our knowledge, and in life, we constantly develop our wisdom and uncover our own treasure. Continual learning brings immense satisfaction and joy. Sometimes in life, one may encounter obstacles, adding some barriers to the smooth path. Therefore, do not feel bothered; face it with an optimistic attitude. Think of the added obstacles along the way, which make it more interesting. The journey, with its twists and turns, feels like an adventure, giving a sense of achievement and significance. So, I am grateful for setbacks, as they strengthen one's will and exercise a strong, unyielding spirit. My life often faces obstacles too. Life, oh life! It is so beautiful that it has further deepened my understanding of it.

40. 《泰坦尼克号》+之前所有的积累=《阿凡达》

40. "Titanic" + all previous accumulations = "Avatar"

41. 我如一只小船生活如大海，我在大海上航行，不管海浪怎么冲激暴风雨又如何的猛烈，我会一直游到彼岸

41. I live like a small boat on the vast sea, navigating the ocean. No matter how fierce the waves crash or how violent the storms may be, I will keep swimming towards the shore.

42. 人生就像一幅画卷，那些美景，无非是自己一笔一笔地添加上去的，没有任何捷径。在许多年后，当你看到自己美丽的人生作品后，你会感谢过去曾经努力的自己，让自己看到了不一样的烟火。

42. Life is like a scroll of paintings. Those beautiful scenes are nothing but added one stroke at a time, with no shortcuts. Many years later, when you see the beautiful work of your life, you will thank the past self who has worked hard, allowing you to see a different kind of fireworks.

43. 团队中的沟通协作一定要做好，我们公司的主营业务是营销代理，以团队的形式依附到项目上，并且会从不同维度组成不同的团队，你既是代理公司团队的一员，也是项目策划团队的一员，这样不同的角色被赋予了不同的工作职能。

43. Effective communication and collaboration within the team are crucial. Our company's main business is marketing agency, which relies on teams for project involvement. Different teams are formed from various dimensions. You are not only a member of the agency team but also a member of the project planning team. Different roles are assigned different job functions in this way.

44. 目前，我在《小红书》平台推广自己的短视频。我很难想象，原本性格内向，惧怕公众演讲的我，敢于走出自己的第一步。要做到这些，不得不从我当年参加演讲俱乐部，担任接待官的职务开始。

44. Currently, I am promoting my short videos on the Xiaohongshu platform. It's hard for me to imagine that the once introverted me, who was afraid of public speaking, dared to take the first step out of my comfort zone. To achieve this, it all started with my participation in a speech club back then, where I took on the role of a receptionist.

45. 我以前是一名重度口吃患者，经常活在抑郁的心境中，永远不知道“快乐”两字的写法。这种痛苦，没有得过这种心理疾病的人是无法体会的，我也不愿与父母诉说自己的痛苦，毕竟世界上没有真正的感同身受，万般皆苦，唯有自渡。

45. I used to be a severe stammerer, often living in a state of depression, never knowing how to write the words "happiness." This kind of pain is something that those who haven't experienced such mental illness cannot comprehend. I also didn't want to share my suffering with my parents, for there is no true empathy in the world. All is suffering, and only self-help can save oneself.

46. 你需要在团队销售业绩中贡献出自己的力量，也要为整个项目发挥自己的作用，我们要跟开发商对接，也要和团队中的伙伴们进行及时的沟通，有时候还会有无穷尽的各方供应商进行对接，我们需要推广公司，我们公司的活动，媒体以及各种。

46. You need to contribute your efforts to the team's sales performance and also play your part in the overall project. We need to coordinate with developers, communicate with team members in a timely manner, and sometimes deal with endless suppliers from various parties. We also need to promote the company, our company's events, media, and various other aspects.

47. 泰戈尔说过：“你今天受的苦，吃的亏，担的责，忍的痛，到最后都会变成光，照亮你的路。”

47. Tagore once said, "The hardships you endure today, the losses you bear, the responsibilities you shoulder, and the pain you bear with patience will all turn into light in the end, illuminating your path."

48. 答案是他以前的点滴积累。《泰坦尼克号》是史上投资最大，且最成功的**，14项奥斯卡提名，赢得11项大奖，证明了他自己有使用特技与资本的能力，才让《阿凡达》爆出五亿投资。而《泰坦尼克号》的特技效果归功于他10年前拍摄的《真实的谎言》，片中他成立的“数字领域”特技公司第一次在片中小试牛刀。水下拍摄的控制了则来源于他35岁拍摄的一部**《深渊》，这部**讲述了一艘潜水艇遇到外星生物的故事。《深渊》当年虽然一片叫好，却并不叫座。但两年后，《终结者II》红遍全球，揽得视觉效果、音响、化妆、音效剪辑四项奥斯卡大奖。

48. The answer lies in the tiny accumulations of his past. "Titanic" was the most costly and most successful film in history, with 14 Oscar nominations and winning 11 major awards, proving his ability to utilize special effects and capital, which allowed "Avatar" to attract a budget of 500 million. The special effects of "Titanic" were attributed to his 10-year-old film "True Lies," in which the special effects company "Digital Domain" he founded made its debut in the film. The control of underwater shooting came from a film he directed at the age of 35, a "The Abyss," which tells the story of a submarine encountering extraterrestrial beings. Although "The Abyss" was well-received upon its release, it did not achieve commercial success. However, two years later, "Terminator 2" became a global hit, winning four Oscar awards for visual effects, sound, makeup, and sound editing.

49. 一定要对你的工作有足够的了解，有足够的归纳，只要你有的资料就能迅速的找到。

49. You must have a sufficient understanding of your work and be able to make adequate inferences. As long as you have the necessary information, you should be able to find it quickly.

50. 不是所有的鱼能生活在同一片海里，和认知不同的人沟通没有意义；

50. Not all fish can live in the same sea; communicating with people who have different cognition is meaningless.

51. 在当下瞬息万变，日新月异的时代，人们唯恐被时代这列快速行进的列车所抛弃、碾压，常常总是急于求成，渴望一夜成名。但是，他们却忽视了前面的积累。

51. In the current era of rapid change and constant innovation, people are often anxious not to be left behind or crushed by the fast-moving train of the times, and they always hurry to achieve success, desiring to become famous overnight. However, they tend to overlook the accumulation in front of them.

52. 竹子定律告诉我们：任何事情的成功都有一个量变到质变的过程，就像竹子用四年的时间，仅仅长了三厘米，而在四年之后，竹子就会以每天三十厘米的速度疯狂地成长，仅仅只需要六周，就可以长到15米。

52. The Bamboo Law teaches us that the success of anything involves a process of quantitative change leading to qualitative change, just like bamboo, which grows only three centimeters in the first four years, but then grows at a rate of thirty centimeters per day after four years, and can reach a height of 15 meters in just six weeks.

53. 世上没有真正的感同身受，万般皆苦，唯有自渡；

53. There is no real empathy in the world; all things are suffering, and only one can save oneself.

54. 在家庭生活中，我离不开父母，离不开妈妈香喷喷的饭菜，我更离不开爸爸因为我得附依着他生活供我读书。我离不开他们就像鱼儿离不开水，因此，才组建成一个温馨的家庭，从我咿呀咿呀的说话到摇摇晃晃的学走路，这十几中我的父母怎样的付岀我都深知这一切这些锁碎的记忆在我脑海中已经形成一本厚厚的册子，永远也磨灭不了我的记忆，孰不知这份记忆已经形成了我生命中的一部份。我幼时的童年生活是多么的天真烂漫啊！如今想想还真的是很甜蜜，让我回味无穷，在我的生活中妈妈如宽广无边的大地一样容纳着我，爸爸如蔚蓝的天空包容着我，他们给我撑起一片快乐的天和地。光阴似箭、日月如梭、时间转瞬即逝像雷电一般一闪而过，现在的我慢慢从幼稚无知的孩童蜕变一个成熟变得更加稳重的少女。我的生活天天都在继续而我也在慢慢成长，天天都在学习生活在继续，从此我的生活变得有意义有价值。在生活中我还不仅如此，我还要继续努力去实现我的理想，为我每天的生活都规划目标仿打箕，为了我的将耒也为了我的现在我必须去努力奋斗在生活中进行实践。我对生活所带耒的困挠改変了看法，生活不再是枯燥乏味単调无趣而是变得形形色色五彩缤纷，而我也会去珍惜生活不再虗度年华，而在生活中我暗晴决定攺变自己让我变得自信勇敢，让我在生活中重新容光焕发，我旳生活应该由我耒掌握规则，和生活较量做生活的主人，应该让我的生活充满色彩就像春天一样生机勃勃柳色一新春悥盎然，人生百态就像是在生活中上演真实**，让我在人世问轰轰烈烈璀璨地活一场。

54. In family life, I cannot live without my parents, without the delicious food cooked by my mother, and I cannot live without my father because I depend on him for my education and living. I am as indispensable to them as fish are to water. Therefore, we have formed a warm family, from my babbling to learning to walk with a wobble. I am deeply aware of all the efforts my parents have made over these years, and these trivial memories have already formed a thick book in my mind, which can never be erased from my memory. Little did I know that this memory had become a part of my life. My childhood was so innocent and carefree! Thinking about it now, it really is sweet, and it brings endless aftertastes. In my life, my mother is like a vast and boundless land that accommodates me, and my father is like a vast blue sky that encompasses me, giving me a happy sky and land. Time flies, and days and nights pass like a flash of lightning. Slowly, I have transformed from a naive and ignorant child into a mature and more stable young woman. My life continues every day, and I grow up slowly. Every day, I learn and live, and my life becomes meaningful and valuable. In life, I not only do this, but I also continue to strive to realize my ideals, planning goals for my daily life, and working hard to practice in life for both my future and my present. My view of the troubles brought by life has changed; life is no longer monotonous, boring, and monotonous, but has become colorful and varied. I will cherish life and no longer waste my youth. In life, I have decided to change myself, becoming more confident and brave, and shining again in life. My life should be governed by me, and I should compete with life to become the master of my life. My life should be full of colors, just like spring, full of vitality and new green, and the myriad aspects of life are like real dramas performed in life, allowing me to live a brilliant and splendid life in this world.

55. 卡梅隆就是秉承着这样的工作理念：什么都不想，全力把眼前的事情做好，做到更好，做到极致的好，然后剩余的事情交给时间。而他能得到如此的殊荣，与他过往的点滴积累与拼搏息息相关。

55. Cameron adheres to such a work philosophy: don't think about anything, focus all your efforts on doing the current task well, better, and to the utmost perfection, and then leave the rest to time. The great honor he has received is closely related to his past accumulation and struggles.

56. 最后是你一定要掌握一定的办公软件，一天超过12个小时都要与办公软件打交道，在入职之前，我对PPT的使用大概就是输入文字配图，然后加上一些动画，但入职之后，我的PPT水平呈阶梯状状一直在往上提升。

56. Lastly, you must master certain office software, as you will be dealing with office software for more than 12 hours a day. Before joining the company, my use of PowerPoint was mainly about inputting text and adding some images, but after joining, my PowerPoint skills have been steadily improving in a step-by-step manner.

57. 我的工作是主要将项目的营销动作和最新动态传递到销售部那边，我甚至还养成了收到信息之后随手转发多个群的习惯。

57. My job is mainly to pass on the marketing actions and latest developments of the project to the sales department, and I have even developed a habit of forwarding the information to multiple groups after receiving it.