人生感悟，珍藏一生的智慧，在岁月的长河中熠熠生辉。

Life insights, the wisdom treasured throughout a lifetime, shines brightly in the long river of time.

1. 15所以，相信一见钟情。相信你爱的那个人。如果他反复地说“我爱你”，相信他的爱，用心呵护他的真情。

1. 15 Therefore, believe in love at first sight. Believe in the person you love. If he repeatedly says "I love you," believe in his love and nurture his sincere affection with all your heart.

2. 5人若把自己框在必定的范畴内，就轻易限制了自己的思维和格式。

2. If five people confine themselves within a certain scope, they easily limit their own thinking and patterns.

3. 8有些人自以为什么事都口无遮拦是在做自己，是活得率性，其实这样的人最招人讨厌。而往往正是这种所谓“真性情”的人最开不起玩笑，最容易因被开玩笑而动怒，因为低情商往往伴随着低肚量，因为他们很难消化别人的玩笑，而自己却依然像个孩子一样，觉得别人处处都得让着他们。

3.8 Some people think that being unfiltered in their speech is being true to themselves and living freely, but in fact, such people are the most disliked. Often, it is precisely those who claim to be "true to their nature" who can't take a joke, and are most likely to get angry when they are made fun of. This is because low emotional intelligence often goes hand in hand with a lack of tolerance. They find it hard to digest others' jokes, yet still behave like children, thinking that everyone should always accommodate them.

4. "没有了朋友，世界不过是荒原雨已。与朋友分享快乐，快乐会加倍；向朋友诉说苦痛，苦痛会减半。"

4. "Without friends, the world is just a barren land where the rain falls. Sharing joy with friends doubles the happiness; sharing pain with friends halves the suffering."

5. 58人生要懂2件事：感恩，报恩；人生要晓2件事：金钱粪，女白骨；人生要做2件事，孝父母，传代主。人生那么多2，只要能做到这些2就足够你开心快乐了。

5. There are two things one should understand in life: gratitude and repaying kindness; there are two things one should know in life: money is dirt, and women are white bones; there are two things one should do in life: be filial to one's parents, and become the master of one's descendants. With so many 'twos' in life, as long as you can do these 'twos,' you will be sufficiently happy and contented.

6. 知世故而不世故，才是最善良的成熟。时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

6. To understand the world's complexities but not be corrupted by them is the most kind-hearted form of maturity. Time will gradually settle things, and some people will slowly fade into obscurity in your heart. Learn to let go, as your happiness needs to be realized by yourself.

7. 善待那些善待你的人。如果不能在一起，别阻止他寻找另外的幸福；善待你在心中默默挂念的人。如果可以做到，别苛求他。如果他已经心有所属，真心祝福他，别冷嘲热讽。

7. Treat those who treat you well. If you cannot be together, don't prevent them from seeking another happiness; be kind to those you silently cherish in your heart. If you can, don't be overly demanding. If they have someone else in their hearts, sincerely wish them well, and don't mock or belittle them.

8. 邂逅一个人，眼波流转，微笑蔓延，黯然心动。——安意如《人生若只如初见》

8. Meeting someone, eyes gliding with a smile spreading, the heart stirs silently. — An Yiru, "If Life Were Only as at First Sight"

9. 18成功不会向我们走来，我们必须走向胜利；智慧不会向我们走来，我们必须勤奋思索；快乐不会向我们走来，我们必须用心体验。

9. Success will not come to us; we must go towards victory. Wisdom will not come to us; we must diligently ponder. Happiness will not come to us; we must experience it with our hearts.

10. 48如果咱们两个以后知道能在一起，我不光不浪费你的钱，还要给你省钱

10. 48 If we two know that we can be together in the future, I won't only not waste your money, but I will also save money for you.

11. 52一个有坚强心志的人，财产可以被人掠夺，勇气却不会被人剥夺的。

11. A person of strong will can have their property seized, but their courage will never be taken away.

12. 7不要过分在乎身边的人，也不要刻意去在意他人的事。在这世上，总会有人让你悲伤、嫉妒、咬牙切齿。并不是他们有多坏，而是因为你很在乎。所以想心安，首先就要不在乎。你对事不在乎，它就伤害不到你；你对人不在乎，他就不会令你生气。学会随缘接受一切，包容一切，心不随境转，才是自在人生。

12. 7 Do not over-care about the people around you, nor deliberately pay attention to others' affairs. In this world, there will always be people who make you sad, envious, or grind your teeth. It's not because they are so bad, but because you care too much. So if you want to feel at ease, you first need to stop caring. If you don't care about things, they can't hurt you; if you don't care about people, they won't make you angry. Learn to accept everything as it comes, to embrace everything, to not let your mind be swayed by external circumstances, and that is the true freedom of life.

13. 43青春是有限的，智慧是无穷的，趁短的青春，去学习无穷的智慧。

13. Youth is limited, wisdom is infinite; make use of the short span of youth to acquire infinite wisdom.

14. 人生，当有所为，有所不为。时间的长河滚滚向前，生命的时钟悄然指向终点！哭过、笑过；痛苦过、欢乐过，失去过，收获过。一路走来，生活的积淀使你明白人生不过是个品位生命百态的过程。

14. Life should have its pursuits and its abstentions. The river of time rolls forward ceaselessly, and the clock of life quietly points to the end! We have cried, laughed; suffered, rejoiced; lost, and gained. As we walk through life, the accumulation of experiences teaches us that life is merely a process of appreciating the various facets of life.

15. 女人爱一个男人，男人常会成为她的全部；男人爱一个女人，女人只是他生命里的火花。所以，聪明的女人不轻易涉足爱，聪明的女人因明了不常抱怨，聪明的女人除了爱，还有寄托。

15. When a woman loves a man, he often becomes her entire world; when a man loves a woman, she is just a spark in his life. Therefore, a wise woman does not venture into love lightly, a wise woman seldom complains, and a wise woman has more than just love to rely on.

16. 打圆场是一件十分需要说话艺术的事情，虽然需要打圆场的场合都是偶然产生的，但正是这样的场合，才更体现出一个人说话的能力。因此，在交际中要学会打圆场。

16. Making peace is a matter that requires great speaking skills, although the occasions that call for making peace are all accidental. It is precisely in such occasions that one's ability to speak is more fully demonstrated. Therefore, one should learn to make peace in social interactions.

17. 前生五百次的回眸，才换来今生一次的擦肩而过，所以相遇便是缘，是上天的恩赐。

17. It took five hundred lifetimes of looking back to be granted one moment of passing by in this life. Therefore, a meeting is a destiny, a divine gift.

18. 5每个人都有很艰难的时候，熬过去后，你会觉得那些当时快要了你的命的事情，那么多你觉得快要撑不过去的境地，都会慢慢的好起来。就算再慢，只要你愿意坚守，它也愿意成为过去。而那些你暂时不能战胜的，不能克服的，不能容忍的，不能宽容的，就告诉自己，凡是不能杀死你的，最终都会让你更强。

18. 5 Everyone has tough times. After enduring them, you'll find that those things that seemed like they were going to kill you at the time, and all those situations where you felt like you couldn't make it, will gradually get better. Even if it takes time, as long as you are willing to hold on, it is willing to become a thing of the past. And for those things you can't conquer, overcome, tolerate, or forgive at the moment, remind yourself that anything that doesn't kill you will ultimately make you stronger.

19. 在正式场合，咖啡匙的作用主要是加入牛奶或奶油后，用来轻轻搅动，使牛奶或奶油与咖啡相互碰合。加入小糖块后，可用咖啡匙略加搅拌。以促使其迅速溶化。如果咖啡太烫，也可以用咖啡匙稍作抗动。咖啡匙的使用，我们要特别注意两条禁忌。一是不要用咖啡匙去舀咖啡来喝。二是不用咖啡匙的时候，应将其平放在咖啡碟里，不要立在咖啡杯里。

19. At formal occasions, the main function of the coffee spoon is to stir milk or cream gently after adding it, to blend the milk or cream with the coffee. After adding small sugar cubes, the coffee spoon can be used to stir slightly to promote quick dissolution. If the coffee is too hot, the coffee spoon can also be used to stir slightly. When using the coffee spoon, we need to pay special attention to two taboos. One is not to use the coffee spoon to scoop coffee for drinking. The other is that when not in use, the spoon should be placed flat on the coffee saucer, not standing in the coffee cup.

20. 33高山，立地顶天；流水，明明朗朗。为人，坦坦荡荡；处事，胸怀宽广。少些私心私欲，多些感激感恩。淡定从容，步步为营。人间正道沧桑，积极乐观向上！

20. The 33 High Mountain stands at the top of the earth, touching the sky; flowing water is clear and bright. As a person, be straightforward and generous; in dealing with matters, have a broad mind. Have less ego and desires, and more gratitude and thankfulness. Stay calm and composed, advancing step by step. The path of righteousness in the world is long and arduous, yet be positive, optimistic, and upward-looking!

21. 几乎每个人都有一定的习气，习气跟自己时间久了就习以为常了，不觉得它是毛病，也不易被察觉。很多事情没去做时，觉得没什么难的，当去坚持完成时，你会发现内心的毛病、习气都会浮现出来。经常把自己的内心拿出来晒一晒，战胜那些妄念和执着，无所求地去做人处事，这就是修行。

21. Virtually everyone has certain habits, which, after being accustomed to them over time, become so ordinary that people don't consider them as flaws and they are not easily noticed. Many things seem not difficult when not yet attempted, but when one persists in completing them, one will find that their inner flaws and habits surface. Regularly exposing one's inner self to the light, overcoming those delusions and attachments, and dealing with people and things without seeking anything in return, this is what is known as cultivation.

22. "心情愉悦"是一种快感，而不是"心获得满足"的幸福感。欲望和需求是两个东西，而我们的不幸福却是因为不小心把快感当成了幸福感，把欲望当成了需求。

22. "Feeling joyful" is a form of pleasure, not the happiness of "the heart being satisfied." Desire and need are two different things, and our unhappiness comes from mistakenly taking pleasure for happiness and desire for need.

23. 青春都是如此，带着疼痛，却又义无反顾。往事再美好，都已经尘封，人要拿得起，也要放得下。拿得起是生存，放得下是生活;拿得起是能力，放得下是智慧。有的人拿不起，也就无所谓放下;有的人拿得起，却放不下。拿不起，就会一事无成;放不下，就会疲惫不堪。

23. Youth is always like this, fraught with pain yet going all out without a second thought. No matter how beautiful the past is, it has all been archived. One must be able to carry, and also let go. Carrying means survival, while letting go means living; carrying is about capability, and letting go is about wisdom. Some cannot carry, so there is no need for letting go; while some can carry but cannot let go. If one cannot carry, they will accomplish nothing; if one cannot let go, they will be exhausted.

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The text "24. 09" translates to "September 24th" in English. This is typically how dates are written in the United States and some other English-speaking countries, where the month comes before the day.

25. 心境可以归于平和，但不能趋于死寂，唯一的区别在于对于生活的坚持。

25. The state of mind can be attributed to peace, but it should not tend towards stillness, the only difference being the perseverance for life.

26. 面临不公，别愤慨，别发泄。一来愤慨伤身体，二来愤慨不解决问题。“有饭量去忍受那些不能改动的事，有勇气去改动那些也许改动的事，有智能去差异上述两类事。”这是成功者要具有的三个本质。发型对了，怎样穿都美！

26. When faced with injustice, don't be indignant or vent. First, being indignant is harmful to your health, and second, it doesn't solve the problem. "Have the capacity to endure what cannot be changed, the courage to change what can be changed, and the wisdom to differentiate between the two types of things." These are the three essential qualities that successful people should possess. If your hairstyle is right, you'll look beautiful in any outfit!

27. 如果你确信，是相似的灵魂把你们牵引在一起，如果你确信，20年后他依然以拥有你为荣，接受他，别介意俗世的眼光。

27. If you are certain that it is a similar soul that has drawn you together, and if you are certain that in 20 years he will still be proud to have you, accept him, and do not mind the world's gaze.

28. 4人生中许多出现的一切，都无法拥有，只能经历。深知这一点的人，就会懂得：无所谓失去，而只是经过而已；亦无所谓失败，而只是经验而已。用一颗浏览的心，去看待人生，一切的得与失、隐与显，都是风景与风情。

28. In the course of our lives, many things that arise cannot be possessed, but only experienced. Those who truly understand this will know: there is no loss, only a passage; there is no failure, only experience. With a heart that views life as a journey, all gains and losses, all hidden and visible aspects, are but scenery and charm.

29. 爱你的他如果背叛你，不要用糟踏自已作为报复。轻易投进另一个人的怀抱也许会让他难过，但真正受伤的还是自已。洁身自好、有尊严地活下去才会让他后悔当初离开你。

29. If the one who loves you betrays you, don't degrade yourself as revenge. Easily throwing yourself into another person's arms might make him feel sad, but the one who truly gets hurt is yourself. Maintaining your dignity and living a virtuous life will make him regret leaving you in the end.

30. 不用强迫自己合群，无效社交不是指那些对你无用的社交，而是那些让你不开心的社交。去跟让自己觉得舒服的圈子相处，这世上人很多，你不是唯一的一颗星。

30. Don't force yourself to fit in, invalid socializing doesn't refer to social interactions that are useless to you, but rather those that make you unhappy. Spend time with circles that make you feel comfortable. There are many people in this world, and you are not the only star.

31. 36雄鹰，不需鼓掌，也在飞翔；小草，没人心疼，也在成长；野花，没人欣赏，也在芬芳；做事不需人人都理解，只需尽心尽力；做人不需人人都喜欢，只需坦坦荡荡。

31. 36 eagles, without needing applause, are soaring; little grass, without care, is growing; wild flowers, without appreciation, are blooming; doing things doesn't require everyone to understand, just to do one's best; being a person doesn't require everyone to like, just to be straightforward and honest.

32. 有些事，你真别看清，看清，心痛;有些人，你真别看懂，看懂，伤情。人生，就是一种糊涂，一份模糊，说懂不懂，说清不清，糊里糊涂，含含糊糊。有的人本来很幸福，看起来却很烦恼;有的人本来该烦恼，看起来却很幸福。

32. There are some things you really shouldn't see too clearly, for when you do, it will hurt your heart. There are some people you really shouldn't understand too well, for when you do, it will wound your feelings. Life is just a kind of confusion, a sense of ambiguity, neither fully understood nor clearly explained, muddled and vague. Some people are truly happy, yet they seem to be troubled; others should be troubled, yet they appear to be happy.

33. 一个人未必孤单，两个人不见得不寂寞。感情的事，让感情成为决定因素。你可以接受帮助，但万万不可依附。

33. One person is not necessarily lonely, and two people may not necessarily feel lonely. In matters of love, let love be the deciding factor. You can accept help, but you should never rely on others.

34. 同一时期内只爱一个人。否则你有被分裂的危险。

34. Love only one person within the same period. Otherwise, you risk being divided.

35. 走完了父母设定的路线，你要学会自己做决定。或对或错，都得一步步走下去。哪怕人生过的不精彩。至少你清楚的记得每一个精彩的瞬间，这就足够了！

35. After completing the path set by your parents, you will learn to make decisions on your own. Whether right or wrong, you have to walk step by step. Even if life is not exciting, at least you will clearly remember every moment that is exciting, and that is enough!

36. 一辈子很短，来不及太多悲伤，如果不是终点，请微笑向前。

36. Life is short, there's no time for too much sorrow. If it's not the end, please smile and move forward.

37. 告诉他你同样有自已的`思想、见解、智慧和追求。在可能的情况下，争取他的理解、认同和支持。

37. Tell him that you also have your own thoughts, opinions, wisdom, and aspirations. In the possible cases, strive for his understanding, agreement, and support.

38. 60用爱生活，你会使自己幸福!用爱工作，你会使很多人幸福!

38. Live with love, and you will make yourself happy! Work with love, and you will make many people happy!

39. 或许生命本身即是一次孤旅，很多的道路，只能自个一个人去行走；而很多的工作，也只能一个人去面临；很多的景色，也只便一个人去赏识；许自个一段静美韶光，带着闲情去闻花香扑鼻、去赏溪水婉转、去听雨滴纠缠，在韶光的充盈里，去享用当下满足的美好。

39. Perhaps life itself is a solitary journey, with many paths to be traversed alone; many tasks to face alone; many landscapes to appreciate alone; and perhaps to spend a moment of serene beauty, with leisure to enjoy the fragrance of flowers, to admire the meandering stream, and to listen to the entwined drops of rain, basking in the abundance of time, to savor the present satisfaction and beauty.

40. 3成熟的人，不仅被生活打磨成了适合生存的样子，而且对世态炎凉人情冷暖也都具有了免疫力。

40.3 A mature person is not only shaped by life into a form suitable for survival, but also has developed immunity to the vicissitudes of life and the coldness or warmth of human feelings.