2025年，追求快乐生活，警醒：依赖何方？

In 2025, pursuing a happy life, be vigilant: depend on what?

1. 人与人相处，最佳的状态莫过于和谐且自在。

1. The best state of being in relationships between people is harmony and ease.

2. 仅依赖他人的情绪价值来满足自身情感需求，这是对他人情感的过度榨取。

2. Relying solely on others' emotional value to satisfy one's own emotional needs is an excessive exploitation of others' emotions.

3. 我真心待你，却不执拗于你，活在缘分里，而非关系的枷锁中。

3. I sincerely treat you, but I am not stubborn with you. I live in the realm of destiny rather than the shackles of relationships.

4. 当期待与现实有偏差时，人就容易陷入失望和痛苦的泥沼。

4. When expectations deviate from reality, it is easy for people to sink into the quagmire of disappointment and pain.

5. 愿我们都能在这些关系里寻得平衡，不在关系中亏待自己。

5. May we all find balance in these relationships and not mistreat ourselves in them.

6. 学会看淡各类关系，不抱期待时，内心会有一种释然的惬意。

6. Learn to take all kinds of relationships lightly, and when you don't have expectations, you will feel a sense of release and comfort in your heart.

7. 缘至则惜，缘灭则放。

7. Hold on to what you have when it's there, let go when it's gone.

8. 过度黏附与无尽索求，会变成关系的负担，令人心生厌烦。

8. Over-adherence and endless demands can become a burden on a relationship, causing it to be annoying.

9. 恰如其分的疏离，好似适时后退的微风，比不合时宜的热情更令人舒适； 适可而止的关怀，是温柔且有分寸的守护，远强于无休止的叨扰。

9. Just the right amount of distance, like a timely retreat of a gentle breeze, is more comfortable than inappropriate enthusiasm; adequate concern is a gentle and measured guardianship, far superior to endless pestering.