1. 我挨得住多深的诋毁，就经得住多大的赞美，我的所有努力都只是为了让自己掌握主动，别人说好不好不重要，我喜欢就好，我从来就不是为了别人而活，万箭穿心，习惯就好。

1. I can endure as much defamation as I can endure praise. All my efforts are only to make myself the master of the situation. Whether others think it's good or not doesn't matter to me; I like it. I have never lived for others, and getting shot by arrows is just something I've gotten used to.

2. 我喜欢深存感恩之心又独自远行的女人，知道谢父母，却不盲从，知道谢天地，却不自恋，知道谢朋友，却不依赖，知道谢每一粒种子、每一缕清风，也知道要早起播种和御风而行。

2. I like women who deeply cherish gratitude and travel alone, those who know to be thankful to their parents but do not blindly follow, who know to be thankful to the heavens and the earth but do not become self-obsessed, who know to be thankful to friends but do not depend on them, and who also know to be thankful for every single seed and every breath of fresh wind. They also understand the importance of getting up early to plant seeds and to ride the winds.

3. 始终还记得一句话，一切依靠自己，他人的前座再好，也比但是自身把握汽车方向盘。

3. Always remember a saying: everything relies on oneself. No matter how good the seat of others may be, it is still better to hold the steering wheel of the car yourself.

4. 凡事靠自己的语录可以是为自己加油打气的，比如：未来还是要靠自己，不依赖别人，不抱怨现状。也可以是发牢骚吐槽的，比如：我只想告诉自己一句话，谁都不要靠，凡事只能靠自己，自己的辛酸只有自己知道，没人会懂你，理解你。

4. The saying "Everything depends on myself" can be used to boost one's morale, such as: The future still has to rely on myself, not depend on others, and not complain about the current situation. It can also be used to vent frustrations and complaints, such as: I just want to tell myself one thing, don't rely on anyone, everything has to rely on myself, and only I know my own bitterness, no one will understand you or empathize with you.

5. 每日像无头苍蝇一般在寻找快乐的人，最终一直一无所获。缘由是开心并不是无处不在，只是要依靠自己去生产制造。

5. Those who flail about each day in search of happiness will eventually come up empty-handed. The reason is that happiness is not omnipresent; it must be produced and manufactured by oneself.

6. 活了二十几年懂了一个刻骨铭心的大道理，全都要依靠自己，靠每个人会跑，靠山山会倒。

6. After living for more than twenty years, I've learned a heart-wrenching truth: everything depends on oneself, as each person has the ability to run, and mountains can collapse.

7. 这一切的一切全是自己的错，没有人能帮你的，一切依靠自己，太累了你就要靠会墙，仅有它不容易倒，会倾听你内心的一切憋屈。

7. All of this is entirely your own fault, no one can help you. Everything depends on yourself. If you feel too tired, you should lean on the wall, as it is not easy to fall, and it will listen to all the frustrations in your heart.

8. 一个女子最能使人心醉的迷人之处，莫过于在一个男子汉大丈夫的胸怀前表现出来的娇弱。

8. The most charming allure that can captivate a person is the display of weakness by a woman before the broad chest of a manly man.

9. 这年代哪些也不可靠，仅有自身依靠自己，通称：我…靠！

9. In this era, nothing is reliable; one can only rely on oneself. In common parlance: I... hell!

10. 上天决定了谁是你的亲戚，幸运的是在选择朋友方面它给你留了余地。

10. Heaven determines who are your relatives, fortunately, it leaves room for you to choose your friends.

11. 一切依靠自己去加倍努力，应是你的便是你的，不是你的就不要去奢求，否者你能过得挺累？

11. Relying solely on yourself to double your efforts, what is yours should be yours, and what is not should not be sought after. Otherwise, won't you find life quite burdensome?

12. 一切也要依靠自己，不可以奢求他人对你多认真，之后多给自己考虑到？

12. Rely on yourself in everything, don't expect others to be overly serious about you, and then give yourself more consideration?

13. 一个人要做出点成就，最终得靠自己。朋友关系再好，也不能替代自己的努力。

13. To achieve something, one ultimately has to rely on oneself. No matter how good the friendship, it cannot replace one's own efforts.

14. 起初，我们揣着糊涂装明白。后来，我们揣着明白装糊涂。--并不是我们愿意活得不明不白。只是，好多事情，一用力，就会拆穿，一拆穿，就会失去。成人的世界，总是这么脆弱。

14. Initially, we pretend to be clear while actually confused. Later, we pretend to be confused while actually clear. -- It's not that we want to live in a state of uncertainty. It's just that many things, once you exert force, will be exposed, and once exposed, they will be lost. The adult world is always so fragile.

15. 新的一天，日常生活渐渐地拥有规律性，一切确实要依靠自己，两月了，该学好的自身都是了，以便之后的每一天奋斗吧，以便大家。

15. On the new day, the daily life gradually gains a routine, and everything truly depends on oneself. After two months, all that needed to be learned about oneself has been achieved, so let's strive every day from now on for the sake of everyone.

16. 我每日冲着夜空虔心祷告，可方知全都要依靠自己争得，许过心愿，仅仅对幸福的想像。

16. Every day, I sincerely pray to the night sky, only to realize that everything depends on my own struggle to achieve it, and the promises I have made are merely the imagination of happiness.

17. 类型: 女人独立

17. Type: Independent Women

18. 作者: 全部

18. Author: All

19. 该来的总会来，该过去的总会过去。不能强求，毕竟凡事靠自己。

19. What is to come will come, and what is to pass will pass. One cannot force it, as in the end, everything depends on oneself.

20. 把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书，漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮，丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。

20. Spend the money you would use to buy cosmetics on two good books instead. While a beautiful appearance can certainly brighten someone's day, rich内涵 can leave a lasting impression.

21. 男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。

21. Men are not as good as you imagine; they can have true love, but don't fall deeply in love. Keep a way out for yourself in love, otherwise, you will be caught off guard when you get hurt.

22. 日常生活原是淡淡无味，本要要想更改那样的日常生活务必依靠自己的勤奋，给自己的日常生活去更改去造就、这就是人的一生！

22. Everyday life is originally tasteless and bland. To change such everyday life, one must rely on their own diligence, giving their own everyday life a change and a creation, which is the whole of a person's life!

23. 不必活在他人眼中，也不必活著他人口中，运势要依靠自己把握在手上。

23. Do not live for others' eyes or for others' tongues; the fate should be grasped in one's own hands.

24. 我只想告诉自己一句话，谁都不要靠，凡事只能靠自己，自己的辛酸只有自己知道，没人会懂你，理解你。

24. I just want to remind myself of one thing: don't rely on anyone else, and depend on yourself for everything. Only you know the bitterness you have gone through, and no one will understand or comprehend you.

25. 人生就像一本书，出生是封面，归去是封底，内容要靠自己填。

25. Life is like a book, birth is the cover, and death is the back cover; the content is something you have to fill in yourself.

26. 凡事还要靠自己，不能奢望别人对你多用心，以后多为自己考虑!

26. Depend on yourself for everything, don't expect others to invest much effort in you, think more about yourself in the future!

27. 人生的路那是要靠自己行走，无论如何选择，只要是自己的选择，就不存在对错更无须后悔。

27. The path of life must be walked by oneself. No matter what choices are made, as long as they are your own choices, there is no right or wrong, and there is no need for regret.

28. 今天不一样往惜，不容易再有些人协助你的，一切依靠自己，多想一想怎么解决吧。

28. Today is different; it's not easy to find some people to assist you. Rely on yourself more and think more about how to solve the problem.

29. 一个人要作出点造就，最后得依靠自己。同学关系再好，也不可以取代自身的勤奋。

29. To achieve something remarkable, one ultimately has to rely on oneself. No matter how good the relationship with classmates is, it cannot replace one's own diligence.

30. 这一全世界没人“应当”给你干什么，就连爸爸妈妈也没有责任对你广结善缘。你长大以后，许多事，要依靠自己。

30. No one in the whole world "should" do anything for you, not even your parents have the responsibility to foster good relationships for you. When you grow up, many things will depend on yourself.

31. 我宁愿靠自己的力量，打开我的前途，而不愿求有力者的垂青。

31. I would rather open my own future with my own strength than seek the favor of the powerful.

32. 并不是任何人都和你一样会去热情的去帮助他人，汲取教训了，确实是啥必须依靠自己，不必对他人期待过多。

32. Not everyone will be as enthusiastic about helping others as you are. Take this as a lesson learned. It's indeed necessary to rely on oneself and not expect too much from others.

33. 人生之路那就是要依靠自己走动，不管怎样挑选，要是是自身的挑选，就不会有对与错更不必后悔莫及。

33. The path of life is one that must be trodden on one's own, regardless of how one chooses. If the choice is one's own, there won't be any right or wrong, let alone regret.

34. 人比较多不能依靠，要存活仅有依靠自己当牛仔裤子丧失传动带，才明白什么叫做依靠。

34. There are too many people around, and one cannot rely on them. It is only when the cowboy pants lose their transmission belt that one understands what it means to rely on oneself.

35. 没有人有义务逗我开心，想活得开心就要靠自己。

35. No one has an obligation to make me happy; if I want to live happily, I have to rely on myself.

36. 自身能做的事不追求他人，没人有义务有责任协助你，人活一辈子，早晚是要还的；靠人比不上依靠自己。

36. Do not seek others for things you can do yourself; no one has an obligation or responsibility to assist you. In a lifetime, everyone will eventually have to pay back what they owe; relying on others is not as good as relying on oneself.

37. 千万别把自己的狼狈不堪讲诉给他人听！由于一切都依靠自己、由于压根没人会觉的你很可伶！由于没人会帮你？

37. Under no circumstances should you share your pitiful plight with others! Because everything depends on yourself, because no one will ever think you're可怜 (pitiful), and because no one will help you?

38. 不开心睡一觉，就让它过去吧，伤心还好，伤胃就不好了。

38. If you're not happy, just have a good sleep and let it pass. Feeling sad is okay, but being upset is not good for your stomach.

39. 太累了一天，一天沒有用餐不久进家，干什么都不易，全都要依靠自己，苦尽甘来，给油！

39. After a tiring day, not having eaten all day and just arriving home, everything seems difficult. I have to rely on myself completely. After enduring hardships, sweet things come. Give me some oil!

40. 幸福快乐并不是与生俱来的，只是要依靠自己才可以有着；孤单并不是没人疼你，只是你谁也不爱。

40. Happiness and joy are not innate; they can only be achieved by relying on oneself. Loneliness is not because no one cares for you, but because you don't love anyone.

41. 你也就会发觉。你都能够好好活下去！离了谁。要是一切都依靠自己就能拿下得话；很不起作用？

41. You will also find that. You can all live well! Without anyone. If everything could be achieved by relying on oneself, would it not be very ineffective?

42. 依靠男人的女人最后都会丧失自己，依靠自己的女人最后都会赢得天下。

42. Women who rely on men will eventually lose themselves, while women who rely on themselves will ultimately win the world.

43. 未来还是要靠自己，不依赖别人，不抱怨现状。

43. The future still depends on oneself, not relying on others, and not complaining about the current situation.

44. 嫉妒是一把刀，最后不是插在别人身上，就是插进自己心里。

44. Jealousy is a knife, which ultimately either ends up being inserted into someone else's body or into one's own heart.

45. 每天像无头苍蝇一般在找寻快乐的人，最后总是一无所获。原因是快乐并非无所不在，而是要靠自己去制造。?>

45. People who flit about every day in search of happiness always end up with nothing. The reason is that happiness is not ubiquitous, but something that needs to be created by oneself.

46. 不必活在他人眼中，也不必活著他人口中，运势要依靠自己把握在手上。有理想，就胆大去追，依靠自己来改变现状的运势。

46. Do not live for others' eyes or for others' words. The fate should be grasped in your own hands. If you have ideals, be brave in pursuing them and rely on yourself to change the fate of your current situation.

47. 凡事靠自己，有难关尽量自己度，没有人会雪中送炭！

47. Rely on oneself in all things, try to overcome difficulties on one's own, and no one will provide a helping hand in one's time of need!

48. 为您找到 “ 女人靠自己经典名言 ”

48. Found "Classic Sayings by Women on Self-Reliance"

49. 如果一个女人在最重要的几年中，投资的是一个男人，那么之后的几十年里，你将不断求着这个男人不要离开你。如果你投资的是自己，那么你会很顺利的收获真正属于你的爱情，爱情是以物质为基础的奢侈的精神享受。认准一句话：只有当自己处于一个最好的姿态，才会有好男人来爱你。

49. If a woman invests in a man during the most crucial years of her life, she will keep on begging this man not to leave her for the next few decades. If she invests in herself, she will smoothly reap the true love that belongs to her. Love is an extravagant spiritual enjoyment based on material foundations. Remember this saying: only when you are in the best position for yourself will good men come to love you.

50. 答一般吸引男人的是这类冷淡，可是男生总算娶的是敬仰你的女人，没才能的女性靠出嫁过日子，有本事的女人靠自己过日子。

50. Generally speaking, what attracts men is this kind of indifference, but after all, the men marry women who admire you. Women without talent rely on marriage to live, while women with talent rely on themselves to live.