“致亲爱的自己，在这个崭新的篇章里，愿你的每一天都充满阳光与希望，勇敢地追寻梦想，成为更好的自己。”

"To my dear self, in this new chapter, may each of your days be filled with sunshine and hope, courageously pursuing your dreams, and becoming the better version of yourself."

1. 总会有人打招呼，也会有人说你不好，但只要问心无愧，就不必执着于别人的评判。不需要看别人的眼光，也不需要一味的讨好别人，这样会活的更累。

1. There will always be people who greet you and others who say bad things about you, but as long as you have no regrets in your heart, you should not be fixated on others' judgments. You don't need to look at others' eyes and you don't need to constantly please others; this will only make your life more exhausting.

2. 依赖别人是世界上最没有安全感的事情。

2. Relying on others is the most insecure thing in the world.

3. 他无视你。可能是喝水烫伤了，吃药磕到桌角了，送医院救护车的时候出了车祸。别想了，他怎么可能在和别人聊天呢？

3. He ignored you. It might be because he got scalded while drinking water, hit his head on the table corner while taking medicine, or had a traffic accident when he was being sent to the hospital by an ambulance. Don't think about it, how could he be chatting with someone else?

4. 你这么讲道理，一定是因为没人爱你，没人纵容你，没人爱你的委屈和难过。

4. You're so reasonable; it must be because no one loves you, no one indulges you, and no one loves your hurt and sadness.

5. 我们现在唯一的默契，就是静静的躺在对方的好友列表里，互不理睬，各自生活。

5. The only默契 we have now is to quietly lie in each other's friend list, ignoring each other, living our own lives.

6. 成长过程中最痛苦的一课，就是你从来不为之辩护的人，对你出手最凶。

6. The most painful lesson in the process of growth is that the person who never stands up for you will be the one who hits you the hardest.

7. 你我的区别在于，你宠我的方式，以后还是会用来讨好别人；而我给你的，不能给第二个人。

7. The difference between you and me is that the way you pamper me will still be used to flatter others in the future; but what I give to you, I cannot give to a second person.

8. 我怕我还是会因为日复一日的陪伴和付出而输，输给一种叫新鲜感的东西。

8. I'm afraid that I might still lose, day after day, to the companionship and dedication, to something called the novelty.

9. 可以善良，但不能懦弱；不一定要捅人，但一定要有刺。

9. You can be kind, but not weak; you don't have to stab people, but you must have thorns.

10. 你的幸福大家都知道，我的乱七八糟无处可藏。

10. Everyone knows about your happiness, but my chaos has nowhere to hide.

11. 之前提到你的时候，满满的都是骄傲和满足，后来想到你，都是难过和遗憾。

11. When I mentioned you before, it was filled with pride and satisfaction, but now, when I think of you, it's all sadness and regret.

12. 不要忽视那个爱你，关心你，时刻想着你的人。因为有一天你可能从沉睡中醒来，发现自己在数星星的时候失去了月亮。

12. Do not ignore the one who loves you, cares for you, and thinks of you all the time. Because one day, you might wake up from a deep sleep to find that while you were counting the stars, you had lost the moon.

13. 如果你想离开我，请选择一个雨天，这样你就不会看到我的眼泪哗哗的流下来。

13. If you choose to leave me, please pick a rainy day, so you won't see my tears streaming down.

14. 照顾一个人的成本太高了。大概就是赔钱又怕热情，失望又费时间和精神的问题吧。

14. The cost of taking care of one person is too high. It's about the issue of incurring losses while fearing losing enthusiasm, and being disappointed while spending time and energy.

15. 最难过的是，你失去的人，是你曾经在乎过的人。留到心里，毫无保留，然后输掉比赛。

15. The hardest part is losing someone you once cared about deeply. Keep them in your heart without reservation, and then lose the game.

16. 爱上一个不该爱的人是什么感觉？很可能，如果你没有资格再进一步，你会舍不得退一步，甚至对方的喜怒哀乐都会从人口中听出来。

16. What is it like to fall in love with someone you shouldn't? It's likely that if you're not qualified to take it further, you would be reluctant to take a step back, and even the joys and sorrows of the other person would be discernible from their tone of voice.

17. 后来再遇到喜欢的人，我笑着摇头，因为你走了，同时也带走了我的付出。

17. When I encounter someone I like again later, I smile and shake my head, because you left, and you also took away my efforts.

18. 偶尔会想起他，心里有些牵挂。有些爱必须解决。

18. Occasionally, I think of him and there's a sense of concern in my heart. Some love needs to be resolved.

19. 错了记得回头，错了爱一个人就放手。假装刀枪不入，就要做好被千箭穿心的准备。

19. Remember to turn back when you're wrong, and let go of someone you love when you're wrong. If you pretend to be invulnerable, you must be prepared to be pierced by a thousand arrows in the heart.

20. 每个人都是王者，在自己的世界里，你不听我的，但你也不让我听你的。

20. Everyone is a king in their own world; you don't listen to me, and I don't let you listen to me either.

21. 有时候，爱也是一种伤害。残忍的人选择伤害别人；好人选择伤害自己。

21. Sometimes, love can also be a form of harm. Cruel people choose to harm others; good people choose to harm themselves.

22. 我们最终会成长，最终成为我们讨厌的那种人。

22. We will eventually grow up and become the kind of person we hate.

23. 世界上有两个我，一个假装快乐，一个真的悲伤。

23. There are two of me in the world, one pretending to be happy, and the other truly sad.

24. 如果你给我的也是给别人的，那我宁愿不要。得不到不可怕，留不住才是笑话。

24. If what you give me is also given to others, then I would rather not have it. Not getting it is not scary; it's the keeping it that's laughable.

25. 其实这个世界并没有满足每个人的梦想，只是有人学会了遗忘，有人一直在坚持。

25. In fact, this world does not satisfy everyone's dreams; some have learned to forget, while others have been persistent.

26. 人生总是左右为难，再怎么执着，再怎么不甘心，也不得不学会接受那些渐渐不再纯粹的。从哭泣和抱怨到微笑，说到底，这只是无忧无虑的的情况。

26. Life is always caught between two extremes, no matter how strongly we cling to things or how unwilling we are, we cannot help but learn to accept that which is gradually losing its purity. From crying and complaining to smiling, at the end of the day, this is just the state of carefree existence.

27. 30天的理想:10天输给青春和轻浮的理想；二十岁败给年少无知的爱情；三十年败给了沧桑和孤独。

27. Ideal of 30 days: For 10 days, I am defeated by the ideals of youth and levity; at 20, I am defeated by the love of youthful ignorance; at 30, I am defeated by the vicissitudes and loneliness.

28. 感情上，我们不是好演员。我不能隐藏我的爱，你也不能表现出热情。

28. Emotionally, we're not good actors. I can't hide my love, and neither can you show enthusiasm.

29. 我一直被迫给你东西，我的时间，我的爱，我的胡搅蛮缠，我的狰狞可爱，我从来没有问过你要不要，我只知道我永远不会给别人。

29. I have always been forced to give you things, my time, my love, my capriciousness, my fierce cuteness, and I have never asked if you wanted them. I only know that I will never give to anyone else.

30. 不停的想念，容易辜负，不知不觉陌生，这大概是人生不可回避的困境。

30. Constant longing, prone to disappointment, and gradually feeling alienated without realizing it—this is perhaps an unavoidable predicament in life.