岁月悠悠，人生如梦。当人们步入“感怀岁月”的月份，心中泛起的是无尽的感慨与温馨。岁月的沉淀，如同老酒般醇厚，让人在回忆中品味生活的酸甜苦辣。在这个特殊的月份里，让我们一同感受那份久违的安宁与温馨，共话人生感悟。

The years drift by, life is like a dream. As people step into the month of "nostalgic memories," endless sentiments and warmth arise in their hearts. The sedimentation of the years is as mellow as aged wine, allowing one to savor the bitterness, sweetness, sourness, and spiciness of life in memories. In this special month, let us together experience that long-lost tranquility and warmth, and share our insights on life.

1. 生活中的每一次经历都会让我们变得更加坚强，更加成熟。

1. Every experience in life will make us stronger and more mature.

2. 生存的压力，生活的苦难，每一个人都须面对。一开始就选择逃避的人，一开始就选择了失败。成功路上最心酸的是要耐得住寂寞、熬得住孤独，总有那么一段路是你一个人在走，一个人坚强和勇敢。人的一生没有过不去的坎，跨坎的源动力在自已。

2. The pressure to survive, the hardships of life, everyone must face them. Those who choose to avoid from the beginning have already chosen failure. The most painful part of the path to success is to endure loneliness and bear solitude; there will always be a stretch of road that you have to walk alone, showing strength and bravery. There are no insurmountable obstacles in one's life; the driving force to overcome them lies within oneself.

3. 有些人很幸福，一眨眼，就一起过了一整个永远。有些人很幸运，手一牵，就一起走过了百年。有些人明明很努力了，却还是什么都改变不了。

3. Some people are very happy, and in a blink of an eye, they have lived through an entire eternity together. Some people are very lucky, and just by holding hands, they have walked through a century together. Some people have worked very hard, yet they still cannot change anything.

4. 1人生苦短，别去赶时间。人生快不快乐看心情，幸不幸福看心态。生活的路，不通时，学会拐弯。人生的终点，不是在山水踏尽时，亦不是在生命结束后，而是于放下包袱的那一刻。当你真的放下，纵算一生云水漂泊，亦可淡若清风，自在安宁。

4. Life is short, so don't rush to catch time. Whether life is happy or not depends on your mood, and whether you are fortunate or not depends on your mindset. When the path of life is blocked, learn to take a detour. The end of life is not when you have seen all the mountains and rivers, nor is it when life comes to an end, but rather at the moment you put down your burdens. When you truly let go, even if you have wandered through life like a cloud or water, you can be as serene as a gentle breeze, enjoying peace and tranquility.

5. 人生的路漫长而多彩，就像在天边的大海上航行，有时会风平浪静，行驶顺利;而有时却会是惊涛骇浪，行驶艰难。但只要我们心中的灯塔不熄灭，就能沿着自己的航线继续航行。人生的路漫长而多彩：在阳光中我学会欢笑，在阴云中我学会坚强;在狂风中我抓紧希看，在暴雨中我抓紧理想;当我站在中点回看，我走出了一条属于我的生之路。

5. The path of life is long and colorful, like navigating on the vast sea at the horizon; sometimes it is calm and smooth, and the journey goes smoothly; but sometimes it is fraught with tumultuous waves and the journey is arduous. But as long as the lighthouse in our hearts remains lit, we can continue to sail along our own course. The path of life is long and colorful: in the sunshine, I learn to laugh; in the gloom, I learn to be strong; in the fierce winds, I grasp onto hope; in the heavy rain, I hold onto ideals; as I stand at the midpoint and look back, I have carved out a path of life that is uniquely mine.

6. 看着凋谢的芍药，忽然心头疼痛，痴痴的呆立了许久，想它花期最短也是一周， 许是昨晚不该心急要它花开，反而适得其反，只愿寂寞花开的将离，决绝的纷飞落幕。

6. Looking at the withering peonies, a sudden pang of pain surged through my heart, and I stood motionless, lost in thought for a while. I thought to myself, its blooming period is the shortest of all, just one week. Perhaps it was not right for me to be so eager for it to bloom last night; instead, it might have worked against me. I wish only for the lonely flowers to bloom, and for the resolute and scattered petals to gracefully come to an end.

7. Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well

7. Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.

8. 小时候，谁都觉得自己的未来闪闪发光，不是吗？但是一旦长大，没有一件事会遂自己心愿。 《被嫌弃的松子的一生》

8. When we were children, didn't everyone think their future was shining bright? But as we grow up, nothing goes according to our wishes. "The Life of the Trashed Pine Tree"

9. 再计较的事，多年后看来也不过是个不足挂齿的玩笑，再悲伤的事，多年后想起也不过是段可供回忆的往事，再困难的事，多年后怎么都觉得轻而易举，不快的总会过去，心脏只有那么小，总会让开心占据多一点空间，把不开心统统扫到一边，毕竟它们不过是细小的尘埃而已。

9. Matters that were once counted as important will, years later, seem like trivial jokes; things that once caused great sorrow will, upon reflection, merely be memories worth cherishing; difficulties that seemed daunting at the time will, in hindsight, seem quite manageable. Unhappy moments will pass, and the heart, being so small, will always find room for happiness to occupy more space, pushing all the unhappiness aside, for after all, they are but trivial dust.

10. 有些欢乐，别人未必能理解;有些悲伤，别人未必能感受。欢乐也好，悲伤也罢，都是一种自我的感受，乐是自己的，悲也是自己的，外人是无从知晓，很难感受的。痛了，就自己理疗，伤了，就自己复原，不要期望别人会给你最大的关怀，谁也有自己的事情。开心了，悄悄微笑，悲伤了，暗暗努力，生活就是这样。

10. There are some joys that others may not understand; there are some sorrows that others may not feel. Whether it is joy or sorrow, they are all a matter of personal feeling. Joy is one's own, and sorrow is one's own. Outsiders have no way of knowing or feeling it. When it hurts, one must self-heal; when it's wounded, one must self-recover. Do not expect others to give you the greatest care, as everyone has their own things to deal with. When happy, smile silently; when sad, strive in secret. Life is just like that.

11. 有两种人本应该最值得珍惜，一种是能控制好情绪的女人，一种是有耐心哄你的男人。然而现实中，这两种人最容易被辜负。

11. There are two types of people who should be cherished the most: one is a woman who can control her emotions well, and the other is a man who has patience to soothe you. However, in reality, these two types of people are the most likely to be disappointed.

12. 并不是所有的痛，都可以呐喊，不是所有的爱，都可以表白。体验了失误，才会更好的选择，体验了失败，才会更好的把握。体验了失去，才会更好的珍惜，只有体验过了，你才真正懂得，没有什么不可以割舍，不可以放下。人生就是这样，遵循简单就不累，适度知足才不悔!

12. Not all pain can be shouted out, and not all love can be openly declared. Only after experiencing mistakes can you make better choices, and only after experiencing failure can you better grasp opportunities. Only after experiencing loss can you better cherish what you have. Only after experiencing them, will you truly understand that there is nothing that cannot be let go of or let down. Life is like this: follow simplicity and you won't be tired, be moderately content and you won't regret!

13. 只有感性的思考，才能让我们看到生活中最明亮的色彩。

13. Only through感性 thinking can we see the brightest colors in life.

14. 烦恼和忧愁就像戒不掉的烟，你越是纠缠就越是痛苦。许多烦恼和忧愁都是自己绑上去的绳索，是对心力的无端耗费，是自己设置的精神牢笼。昨天已经过 去，明天还是未知，只要好好把握今天，什么事情都可能出现转机。所以，在人生的储蓄卡上，你可以预支幸福和快乐，但请不要预支烦恼和忧愁!

14. Troubles and worries are like a habit you can't quit, the more you entangle yourself, the more painful it becomes. Many troubles and worries are self-imposed bonds, an unnecessary waste of mental energy, and self-imposed spiritual prisons. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow is unknown. As long as you make good use of today, any situation can turn around. Therefore, on the savings account of life, you can prepay happiness and joy, but please do not prepay troubles and worries!

15. 当一个人把可以寂寞当作人生预约的美丽，就怀着淡定从容的心态去面对，也就是没有了真正意义上的寂寞了。

15. When one regards the possibility of solitude as a beautiful appointment in life, and faces it with a composed and calm attitude, it is no longer true solitude in the real sense.

16. 在很多时候，我们都需要一种斩断自己退路的勇气。因为身后有退路，我们就会心存侥幸和安逸，前行的脚步也会放慢;如果身后无退路，我们才能集中全部精力，勇往直前，为自己赢得出路。一辈子有耐心去做一件事，这个世界诱惑太多，这也想做那也想做，多路出击，最后一事无成。

16. In many cases, we all need the courage to cut off our own retreat. Because there is a retreat behind us, we tend to have a sense of complacency and comfort, and our pace of progress will slow down; but if there is no retreat behind us, we can concentrate all our energy, forge ahead bravely, and win a way out for ourselves. In a lifetime, having the patience to do one thing is difficult, as there are too many temptations in this world, and one wants to do this, and another wants to do that. By taking multiple approaches, one ends up achieving nothing.

17. 说过不会比你先走，说过就算走也决不回头，说过不再用手试泪，说过就算你走也不在原地逗留，说过的不在也再，说过的一切已不算，你的臂弯已不再是我心灵的港湾，而那些承诺不过是无稽之谈。

17. Promised not to leave before you, promised that even if I do leave, I will never turn back, promised not to reach out with my hand to wipe away tears, promised that even if you leave, I will not linger in place, promises that are no longer there are never to return, everything that was said no longer counts, your embrace is no longer the safe haven of my soul, and those promises were all just idle talk.

18. I'll think of you every step of the way

18. I'll think of you at every step along the way.

19. 人总想找一个能读懂自己的人，却从未想过只要调整下自己的表达方式，就会有更多人能读懂自己;人总想有一份让自己感觉温暖的爱，但若爱你的人没有按照 你所希望的方式来爱你，那并不代表他没有全心全意去爱,所以很多时候,我们责怪，我们埋怨，甚至我们遗憾，却总不愿意去承认有问题的其实是我们自己!

19. People always want to find someone who can understand them, yet they never think that by adjusting their way of expressing themselves, more people could understand them. People always want to have a love that makes them feel warm, but if the person who loves you does not love you in the way you hope, it doesn't mean that they are not loving you wholeheartedly. So often, we blame, we complain, and even we regret, but we are always unwilling to admit that the problem is actually ourselves!

20. 有一种生活，你没有经历过，就不知其中的艰辛，有一种艰辛，你没有体会过，就不知其中的快乐，有一种快乐，你没有拥有过，就不知其中的真谛。

20. There is a kind of life that you cannot understand its hardship if you have not experienced it; there is a kind of hardship that you cannot comprehend its joy if you have not felt it; there is a kind of joy that you cannot grasp its essence if you have not possessed it.

21. 不想放弃的信念，是每个人走过人生的最大动力。

21. The belief that one does not want to give up is the greatest motivation for everyone to navigate through life.

22. 一生中打动自己的，往往只有几个瞬间，好像，你活着，就是在等待这些瞬间，就是在等待把他们变成永恒。人们寻找不同的风景，最终，是为了寻找让自己眼睛一亮的身影，让自己耳目一新的心灵，当我们找不到，会失落，不能寻找，会想挣脱。

22. In one's lifetime, there are often only a few moments that touch one deeply, as if living is just about waiting for these moments, waiting to turn them into eternity. People seek out different landscapes, ultimately, in search of a silhouette that brightens their eyes, a soul that refreshes their senses. When we cannot find it, we feel lost; when we cannot seek it, we want to break free.

23. 只有开阔视野，多思考，才能真正理解生活。

23. Only by broadening one's horizons and thinking deeply can one truly understand life.

24. 想念，凝结了泪水。唯有在夜阑人静时，独自默默遥望，任凭相思泛起，月色依旧如斯，轻叹这红尘如梦，却只愿一如既往地相随，执着地，只愿为你倾付一生，再次相逢时，你已陌路。快乐在于过程，幸福在于认真品味。过去的事，交给岁月去处理；将来的事，留给时间去证明。

24. Yearning, condensed into tears. Only in the silent night when people are alone, can one silently gaze into the distance, allowing the longing to surge forth. The moonlight remains as it is, softly sighing over the fleeting human world, yet I wish to follow as always, steadfastly, to dedicate my life to you. When we meet again, you will be a stranger to me. Happiness lies in the journey, and joy lies in the thoughtful savoring. Let the past be handled by time; the future, left for time to prove.

25. 人生如路，要有耐心。我们始终要走着走着，那么便是会出现繁华的风景。

25. Life is like a road, one must be patient. As long as we keep walking, there will always be prosperous landscapes to be encountered.

26. 我坚持，无论有多绝望，无论有多悲哀，每天早上起来，都要对自己说，这个世界很好。每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分，再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，不要埋怨自己。玫瑰有刺，因为是玫瑰。

26. I insist, no matter how desperate or sad it may be, every morning when you wake up, you should tell yourself that this world is good. In everyone's character, there are certain parts that others cannot accept, and even the most beautiful people are the same. So don't be too demanding of others, and don't blame yourself. Roses have thorns because they are roses.

27. 先变成更喜欢的自己，然后遇到一个不需要取悦的人。

27. First become the person you like more, and then meet someone who doesn't need to be pleased.

28. 心最累的不是坚持什么，而是放弃什么；情最烦的不是记住什么，而是遗弃什么。追寻的路上，我们坚持了许多；奔波的途中，我们记住了好多。遗憾的心灵中总不知舍弃什么，放弃什么；杂乱的情绪中总是不知忘记什么，割舍什么。生命中的许多我们都想保留，都想记忆，因为，我们就是从昨天走来的。

28. The most tiredness of the heart is not about what we persist in, but what we abandon; the most烦恼 of feelings is not about what we remember, but what we forsake. On the journey of pursuit, we have persisted in many things; on the way of toil, we have remembered many. In the regretful heart, we always don't know what to abandon, what to give up; in the chaotic emotions, we are always unsure of what to forget, what to renounce. Many things in life, we all want to keep, all want to remember, because, that's where we come from, from yesterday.

29. 其实我一直在等着你的一个回头，只是你连最后的这个机会都不肯给我。

29. In fact, I have been waiting for a turn back from you, but you even refused to give me this last chance.

30. 人生像一首曲子，离不开灵动的音符;生活上，有一颗随缘心，你会更洒脱;太讲究理智，容易与人产生磨擦;太顺从情感，则会被情绪左右;太坚持己见，终将走入穷途末路。

30. Life is like a melody, which cannot be separated from the lively notes; in life, if you have a heart that goes with the flow, you will be more carefree. Being overly rational often leads to friction with others; being too emotional can be swayed by your emotions; being too stubborn in your own views will eventually lead you to a dead end.

31. 小的时候，觉得这世界很大，一切都很大;长大了，就觉得世界在变小，小的让人透不过气。所以我们怀念童年,认为现在的自己再也无法快乐起来地球虽 大,可仍在我们的脚下!路是我们自己走的,快乐与否也是我们自己选择的,重要的是自己的心,有心就能留下每一个精彩的脚印,有心就能留守住那份永驻的快乐。

31. When we were young, we thought the world was vast, everything seemed immense; as we grew up, we felt the world shrinking, so small that it felt suffocating. That's why we cherish our childhood, thinking that we can no longer be happy. The earth may be vast, but it is still beneath our feet! The path is the one we walk ourselves, and whether we are happy or not is also a choice we make. What's important is our heart. With a heart, we can leave behind every memorable footprint, and with a heart, we can hold onto that eternal happiness.

32. 不要在意别人在背后怎么看你说你，因为这些言语改变不了事实，却可能搅乱你的心。心如果乱了，一切就都乱了。理解你的人，不需要解释；不理解你的人，不配你解释。请相信，真正懂你的人，绝不会因为那些有的、没有的而否定你。

32. Don't worry about what others say about you behind your back, because those words can't change the facts, but they might disturb your peace of mind. If your heart is disturbed, everything will be chaotic. Those who understand you don't need an explanation; those who don't understand you aren't worthy of your explanation. Believe that those who truly understand you will never deny you because of things that are or aren't.

33. 生活中的事情无非分为已经发生的和尚未发生的两种。对于已经发生的事情，我们无法改变，也就无须执着。而尚未发生的事情又分为两种情况：一种是用当下的行动能改变的;一种是无从改变的。我们不要浪费时间和精力去追悔过去，或焦灼于未来，而是要努力做好当下。佛曰：心系当下，由此安详!

33. Matters in life can be divided into two categories: those that have already happened and those that have not yet happened. As for what has already happened, we cannot change it, so there is no need to be fixated on it. The things that have not yet happened can also be divided into two types: one that can be changed by our current actions, and one that cannot be changed. We should not waste our time and energy in regretting the past or being anxious about the future. Instead, we should strive to do well in the present. The Buddha said: Focus on the present, and thus find tranquility!

34. 别人赖床是有钱，想睡多晚就睡多晚~我赖床是缺钱，能省一顿就省一顿

34. Others can oversleep because they're rich, wanting to sleep late, they can. I oversleep because I'm short on money, wherever I can save a meal, I will.

35. 自己的伤痛自己清楚，自己的哀怨自己明白，自己的快乐自己感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的天堂;也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生活就是这般的滑稽，不要总怀疑春色在人家，关键在于自己心态的调整。不攀不比，过好自己的生活，才是最重要的。

35. One knows one's own pain, one understands one's own grievances, and one feels one's own happiness. Perhaps what one sees as hell is what others see as paradise; perhaps what one sees as paradise is what others see as hell. Life is just like this, comical in its nature. Don't always suspect that the spring is in others' gardens; the key is to adjust one's own mindset. Don't compete or compare, live your own life well, which is the most important.

36. 人生的高峰和低谷也是人生的宝贵财富。

36. The peaks and valleys in life are also valuable assets of life.

37. 当我流着泪向你说再见，你只是冷漠的向我告别，不感看你的冷漠的眼，心已碎成千片。

37. When I said goodbye to you with tears in my eyes, you merely bid me farewell with a cold demeanor, unwilling to look into the coldness in your eyes, my heart has been shattered into a thousand pieces.

38. 1人生，就是磨难在枝头，最终被晾晒成了的坚强。逆境时忍耐，顺境时收敛，得意时看淡，失意时随缘。每天都有希望，每天都很充实，每天就会很快乐，每天就会很幸福。生命是有限的，但是希望那是无限的，只要我们不忘每天给自己一个希望，我们就一定能够拥有一个丰富多彩的人生。早安！

38. Life is like hardships on the branches, eventually being dried into strength. Endure during adversity, be modest in prosperity, be indifferent in success, and be easygoing in failure. Every day holds hope, every day is full, every day is joyful, and every day is happy. Life is finite, but hope is infinite. As long as we remember to give ourselves a hope every day, we will definitely have a colorful and fulfilling life. Good morning!

39. 人生有巅峰也有谷底，不可能处处是谷底。因为顺境或巅峰而趾高气扬，因逆境或低谷而垂头丧气，都是浅薄的人生。面对挫折，如果一味地抱怨，那你注定永远是个弱者。有一种痛很痛，痛到左心房，之后便是绝望。不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。

39. Life has both peaks and valleys; it is impossible for it to be consistently in the valleys. To be boastful because of prosperity or peaks, or to be despondent because of adversity or valleys, are both shallow attitudes towards life. In the face of setbacks, if you continue to complain, you are destined to remain a weakling. There is a kind of pain that is very intense, piercing to the left atrium, and after that comes despair. Do not expect, do not imagine, do not force, just go with the flow. If it is meant to be, it will definitely happen.

40. 距离，产生的不是美，而是诠释了不堪一击的爱情。面对失败和挫折，一笑而过，人生是场历练，磨砺你的意志。世界上最富有的人，是跌倒最多的人。世界上最勇敢的人，是每次跌倒都能站起来的人。而世界上最牛逼的人，是那些站起来还能够坚持走下去的人。

40. Distance does not produce beauty, but rather embodies the fragile nature of love. In the face of failure and setbacks, one should laugh it off. Life is a journey of trials and tribulations, honing your willpower. The wealthiest person in the world is the one who has fallen the most. The bravest person in the world is the one who can stand up every time they fall. And the most extraordinary person in the world is those who can stand up and keep going despite the challenges.

41. 记忆想是倒在掌心的水，不论你摊开还是紧握，终究还是会从指缝中一滴一滴流淌干净。

41. Memory, it seems, is like water poured into the palm, no matter whether you spread it out or clasp it tightly, it will eventually seep out drop by drop from between your fingers, running dry.

42. 我谈过最长的恋爱，就是自恋，我爱自己，没有情敌。

42. The longest love affair I've had is narcissism; I love myself, and there are no rivals.

43. 同一件事，不同的人会有不同的感受和理解。

43. Different people will have different feelings and understandings of the same thing.

44. 当人们还在寻找答案的时候，其实答案总是藏在心里。

44. While people are still searching for the answers, the truth is that the answers are always hidden in their hearts.

45. 6总觉得自己还小，还能贪婪地享受所有美好。后来惊讶地发现自己不知从何时开始，看得清糖衣里的炮弹，读得出微笑后的杀机，也懂得应付敷衍逢场作戏，去面对自己不曾想过要面对的事。表面上人畜无害，防身的刀却一直攥在身后从未离手。那一刻，终于承认了成长这回事，只是不知是好是坏。早安！

45. 6 always felt like he was still young, able to greedily enjoy all the good things. Later, he was surprised to find that he didn't know when he started to be able to see the bomb inside the candy shell, to read the danger behind a smile, and to understand how to deal with superficial interactions and face things he had never imagined he would have to face. On the surface, he seemed harmless, but the knife for self-defense was always clutched behind him, never let go. At that moment, he finally admitted the existence of growth, but he wasn't sure if it was good or bad. Good morning!

46. 最该忘掉的事往往是最容易记住的事。记忆总是公然背叛我们的意志，该记住的记不住，不该记住的反而忘不了。许多痛苦产生的根源，就在于把不该记住的事情记得太牢。学会如何遗忘，也就拥有了一把开启快乐之门的钥匙。

46. The things we should forget the most are often the easiest to remember. Memory always openly betrays our will, failing to remember what we should and recalling what we shouldn't. Many sources of pain lie in the firm memory of things that should not have been remembered. Learning how to forget is like possessing a key to open the door to happiness.

47. 沉默是一种成长的标志，无论社会怎样浮躁，我们自己也不可以浮躁。学会将过去的错误、失误通通忘记，不要沉湎于懊恼、悔恨之中，要一直往前看;时光一去就不复返，明天又是新的一天，不要使过去的错误、失误成为明天的包袱。

47. Silence is a sign of growth, and no matter how restless society may be, we ourselves must not be restless. Learn to forget all the past mistakes and shortcomings, and do not wallow in regret and remorse. Keep looking forward; time once gone cannot be recaptured, and tomorrow is a new day. Do not let the past mistakes and shortcomings become a burden for tomorrow.

48. 知道想要什么，一半在于知道得到它之前必须放弃什么。

48. Knowing what one wants is half about knowing what one must give up before obtaining it.

49. 有些事，明明知道无果，却依然不悔;有些情，明明知道无缘，却依旧不舍。也许，生命中，有一种情愫，在意的并不是结果;或许，心灵上，有一种慰藉，渴求的就是过程。我们常常看重于结果，忽视了追逐的过程;每每欣赏于结局，淡忘了事实的经过。生活就是一个过程，苦过甜过，爱过恨过，其实，也是结果。

49. There are some things, even though we know they will lead to no result, we still don't regret; there are some feelings, even though we know there is no destiny, we still can't let go. Perhaps, in life, there is a kind of affection that cares not for the outcome; perhaps, in the soul, there is a kind of comfort that craves the process. We often value the result, neglecting the pursuit of the process; we often admire the ending, forgetting the actual course of events. Life is a process, through bitter and sweet, through love and hate, it is, in fact, also a result.

50. 人的一生很像是在雾中行走;远远望去，只是迷蒙一片，辨不出方向和吉凶。可是，当你鼓起勇气，放下忧惧和怀疑，一步一步向前走去的时候，你就会发现，每走一步，你都能把下一步路看得清楚一点。往前走，别站在远远的地方观望!你就可以找到你的方向。

50. The journey of a person's life is much like walking through the mist; from a distance, it looks hazy and indistinguishable, without any discernment of direction or fortune. However, when you gather courage, put aside worries and doubts, and take one step after another forward, you will discover that with each step you take, you can see the next step a little more clearly. Move forward, don't stand far off watching! That's when you can find your direction.

51. 欲成大器，先要大气。大气之人，语气不惊不惧，性格不骄不躁，气势不张不扬，举止不猥不琐，静得优雅，动得从容，行得洒脱。大气之人，如一朵花，花香淡雅而悠长;如一棵树，枝叶茂盛而常青。大气之人，能安安心心做好本分的角色，认认真真干好手头的事情，不为名利而争斗，不为钱财而纠葛。

51. To become great, one must first cultivate greatness. A person of great demeanor speaks without alarm or fear, maintains a character that is neither proud nor restless, and exudes a demeanor that is neither boastful nor ostentatious. Their demeanor is neither clumsy nor trivial; they are serene and elegant in stillness, and graceful and composed in movement. A person of great demeanor is like a flower, whose fragrance is subtle and long-lasting; like a tree, whose branches and leaves are lush and evergreen. A person of great demeanor can settle down comfortably in their role, diligently perform their duties, and not engage in disputes for fame or wealth, nor be entangled by money matters.

52. 你之所以觉得时间一年比一年过得快，是因为时间对你一年比一年重要。

52. The reason you feel that time goes by faster each year is because time becomes more important to you year by year.

53. Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people hoeone you're not happy to be eone

53. Time goes by so quickly, people come and go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how unhappy you are to be someone they no longer value.

54. 有些事情，你以为明天还要继续;有些人，你以为分开了还会再见面。你以为昨天、今天、明天，应该是没有什么不同的。然而，就是那么一次，在你不经意的 一放手或一转身的瞬间，有些事情就完完全全的改变了。太阳落下去，在它重新升起之前，有些人，就从此和你永别了!所以，把握现在的，才是最真实的。

54. There are some things you think will continue tomorrow; some people, you think you will meet again after separation. You think yesterday, today, and tomorrow should be no different. However, it is just in that moment of your inattention, when you let go or turn your back, that some things change completely. The sun sets, and before it rises again, some people may bid you farewell forever! Therefore, embracing the present is the most real.

55. 许多人都在刻意追求所谓的幸福，有的虽然得到了，却付出了很大的代价。智者说：幸福是种感觉，就如同佛在你我心中。幸福的感觉随满足程度而递减，与人的心境、心态相关。得之愈艰、爱之愈深，拥有幸福，常思艰难。一个人总是感觉不到幸福，是自己最大的悲哀。幸福是种感觉，不知足，永不会幸福!

55. Many people are deliberately pursuing what they call happiness, and some may have achieved it, but at a great cost. The wise say: Happiness is a feeling, just like the Buddha in our hearts. The feeling of happiness diminishes with the degree of satisfaction, and is related to one's state of mind and mindset. The harder one gains it, the deeper one loves it, and the more one possesses happiness, the more one often thinks of difficulties. If a person always feels unable to find happiness, it is their greatest sorrow. Happiness is a feeling; if one is never satisfied, they will never be happy!

56. 8有些事想多了头疼，想通了心疼。所以，想不开就别想，得不到就别要，干嘛要委屈自己。再多说无益的时候，也许沉默就是最好的解释。伤过痛过哭过，然后笑笑，跟自己说，不要委屈，不要难过，这就是生活。不管遇到了什么烦心事，都不要自己为难自己，该吃吃，该睡睡，过了今天，明天自然会来。早安！

56. Sometimes thinking too much gives you a headache, but when you understand, it's heart-wrenching. So, don't think if you can't figure it out, and don't seek what you can't have. Why should you suffer in silence? When there's nothing more to say, maybe silence is the best explanation. After being hurt, suffering, and crying, then just smile, tell yourself, don't suffer, don't feel sad, this is life. No matter what troubles you may encounter, don't be hard on yourself. Eat when you're hungry, sleep when you're tired. Tomorrow will come naturally after today. Good morning!

57. 7人生如路，要有耐心。走着走着，说不定就会在凄凉中走出繁华的风景。人生是需要用苦难浸泡的，没有了伤痛，生命就少了炫彩和厚重。只有在伤口中盛开的花朵，才是陪伴我们默默前行的风景。不必去在意小小的委屈。该铭记的，就把它雕刻在心灵的石碑上；该淡忘的，就将它融入宣泄的泪水中。早安！

57. Life is like a journey, one must have patience. As you walk along, you might just find prosperity amidst desolation. Life needs to be seasoned with hardships; without pain, life loses its brilliance and depth. Only the flowers that bloom in the wounds are the scenery that silently accompanies us on our journey. Do not worry about the little grievances. The things that should be remembered, carve them into the stone monument of your soul; the things that should be forgotten, let them blend into the tears of venting. Good morning!

58. 每个人都会有技不如人、折戟沉沙、寄人篱下的时候。不要自惭，也不必自卑，我们都是凡人，夹杂在人流中，过的是平凡的生活。当被别人忽略、笑话、非 议、陷害的时候，要学会把握自己的节奏，只要内心不乱，外界就很难改变你什么。不要艳羡他人，谁都有苦痛;不要输掉自己，振作比一切都强。

58. Everyone will have times when they are outmatched, when they fail and sink into despair, and when they are living under someone else's roof. Do not feel ashamed or humble; we are all ordinary people, blended into the crowd, leading ordinary lives. When you are ignored, mocked, talked about, or framed by others, learn to maintain your own pace. As long as your heart remains steady, the outside world will find it hard to shake you. Do not envy others, as everyone has their own sorrows; do not lose yourself. Determination is stronger than anything else.

59. 如果你不快乐，那就出去走走，世界这么大。学会低调，取舍间，必有得失。人生的终点，不是在山水踏尽时，亦不是在生命结束后，而是于放下包袱的那一刻。当你真的放下，纵算一生云水漂泊，亦可淡若清风，自在安宁。

59. If you are not happy, go out for a walk, for the world is so vast. Learn to be modest, and there will be gains and losses in the process of choosing and rejecting. The end of life is not when you have traversed all the landscapes, nor is it when life comes to an end. It is at the moment when you let go of your burdens. When you truly let go, even if you have wandered through life like a cloud or a water droplet, you can be as serene and tranquil as a gentle breeze.

60. 我在徘徊，我们和爱情擦肩而过。爱那么短遗忘却那么长。无所谓了。我将你放在我心里最柔软的地方，这是我对你最后的承诺。再见过去，再见我和你。再见时光，再也不见。让我们各自的生活更加的美好与幸福。此生不长，有些精彩只能经历一次，有些景色只能路过一回。

60. I was wandering, and we missed love by a whisker. Love is so short-lived, yet forgetting is so long. Never mind. I have placed you in the softest spot in my heart, which is my last promise to you. Goodbye, past; goodbye, me and you. Goodbye, time, and never to be seen again. May each of our lives become more beautiful and happier. Life is short, some wonderful experiences can only happen once, and some beautiful scenes can only be passed by once.

61. 对生活要善待，不管遭遇什么，看不懂、想不通、看不惯的，都要理解，不应该回避，都是对人生的丰富，给那些误解和成见一点点时间，快乐欢喜去应对，用现在网络上的话说就是，喜大普奔。

61. Treat life with kindness, no matter what you encounter. Understand what you cannot understand, what you cannot comprehend, and what you cannot stand. Do not avoid them; they are all enrichments of life. Give a little time to misunderstandings and prejudices, and face them with joy and happiness. In the words of the internet today, it's a big celebration for everyone.

62. 一般来说，我们为众生和世间万物所贴上的好坏美丑标签，根据的都是一己的欲望而已。我们喜欢的就说好，不喜欢的就说坏，这都是自己的心发明出来的。如果美能够客观地存在，那么我们所有的人一定会不由自主地受到同样众生和同样事物的吸引。

62. Generally speaking, the good and bad, beautiful and ugly labels we attach to all sentient beings and things in the world are based on our own desires. What we like, we say is good; what we dislike, we say is bad; all of these are emanations from our own minds. If beauty can exist objectively, then all of us would inevitably be drawn to the same sentient beings and the same things without any conscious effort.

63. 走到途中才忽然发现，我只剩下一副模糊的面目，和一条不能回头的路。

63. It was only on the way that I suddenly realized I was left with a vague face and a road that I could not turn back from.

64. 生活，不会因你抱怨而改变;人生，不会因你惆怅而变化。你怨或不怨，生活一样;你愁或不愁，人生不变。抱怨多了，愁的是自己，惆怅多了，苦的还是自己。既然如此，何不微笑既然这样，何必惆怅人生在世，快乐是一生，忧愁也一世，何不看开，愉快一点。

64. Life will not change because you complain; life will not alter because you are melancholic. Whether you complain or not, life remains the same; whether you are sad or not, life stays unaltered. If you complain too much, you are the one who suffers; if you are melancholic too often, it is still yourself who bears the pain. So, why not smile? Since things are this way, why be melancholic? Life is short, happiness is for a lifetime, and sadness is also for a lifetime. Why not let go and be a bit happier?

65. 历经了风吹雨打，只盼在坎坷路上，能有一颗心相随;历经了百转千回，只盼在困难的堤岸上，能与知己举杯，消除一切疲惫。友谊就是幸福的蓓蕾。

65. Having endured the wind and rain, I only hope that on the bumpy road, there will be a heart to accompany me; having gone through countless twists and turns, I only hope that on the shore of difficulties, I can raise a cup with my知己 to alleviate all the fatigue. Friendship is the bud of happiness.

66. 每一天都应该拥抱感恩和感动，这是人生的背景和开始。

66. Every day should embrace gratitude and emotion, which are the backdrop and beginning of life.

67. 4什么是幸福，幸福就是自己的一种愉快的心理状态和感受。时时事事都能使自己快乐的人才是最幸福的人。最快乐的人，就是最幸福的人。笑口常开的人，是最幸福的。

67.4 What is happiness? Happiness is a pleasant psychological state and feeling of oneself. The person who can be happy at all times and in all things is the happiest person. The happiest person is the most joyful person. A person with a smile on their face at all times is the happiest person.