人生已过半，回首过往，自问何为。

Life has passed halfway; looking back, I ask myself what it all means.

1. 遇到事情，先处理情绪，再处理事情。情绪处理不好，事情会变得更糟。

1. When encountering things, deal with emotions first, then deal with the matters. If emotions are not handled well, the situation will become worse.

2. 在感情中，总会有分与分；人生，总会有来有往。学会:爱得轻，爱得静，想得深，放得轻。

2. In emotions, there are always separations; in life, there are always comings and goings. Learn to: love lightly, love quietly, think deeply, and let go easily.

3. 半生已过，真的没有人能够替代你承受这些，所以，你更要坚强，更要熬过去，只有这样，你才能把生活过得好。

3. Half of your life has passed, and truly no one can take your place to bear these burdens. Therefore, you must be even stronger and endure even more. Only in this way can you live a good life.

4. 不到最后一刻绝不放弃。最后能得到好东西不是运气。有时候，你要在前面努力，才能在后面偶遇。

4. Never give up until the very last moment. Getting something good in the end is not just luck. Sometimes, you have to work hard in the beginning to be able to meet with serendipity later.

5. 相见不如怀念，缘分不如攀缘。人生只是一场旅行，你从我身边经过，我从你身边经过，然后，各自修行，前行。

5. Meeting is not as good as remembering, fate is not as good as climbing. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, and I pass by you, and then, we each practice and move forward.

6. 不要总是说顺其自然:我们总是喜欢顺其自然顺其自然去敷衍人生道路上的荆棘坎坷，却很少承认真正的顺其自然其实是在尽力之后不再强求，而不是无为。如果你什么都不做，不要说你什么都不想要。

6. Don't always say "let things take their course": We are always fond of taking things as they come and sweeping the thorns and difficulties on the path of life under the rug, yet rarely do we admit that the true "let things take their course" actually means not striving further after we have made our best efforts, rather than doing nothing. If you do nothing, don't say you don't want anything at all.

7. 时间真的是世界上最好的跨度，让痛苦变得苍白，让执着的人选择离开，然后人来人往，历经沧桑，你会明白，一切都是命，没有什么是人能帮得了的。

7. Time is truly the best span in the world, making pain pale, and causing the persistent to choose to leave. With the coming and going of people, and after experiencing all kinds of hardships, you will realize that everything is fate, and there is nothing that anyone can help.

8. 身处这个 社会 ，

8. Being in this society,

9. 半生已过，身不由己，却依然要为生活坚持着，尽管很难，也依然要自己撑下去，自己挺住，因为自己背后还有一个家庭，兜里没钱的滋味，真的不好受，有什么活也愿意去接来干，只要能够赚到钱，辛苦也觉得无所谓了。

9. Half of my life has passed, and I am not in control of myself anymore. However, I still have to persist in life, despite the difficulty. I must keep going and stay strong, because behind me is a family. The feeling of having no money in your pocket really isn't pleasant. I would be willing to take on any kind of work, as long as I can make some money, and the辛苦 (hard work) seems negligible to me.

10. 人，到了一定年纪，每天都活得很开心，带着一点点烦恼和说不出的痛苦。十、这辈子，要走自己的路，要自己吃。没有人能完全依靠，以为我们走不了路，穿越过去后回头看。

10. As people reach a certain age, they live each day with joy, carrying a bit of trouble and an unexpressed pain. In this lifetime, one must walk one's own path and take care of oneself. No one can fully rely on others; we must look back after traversing the path on our own.

11. 我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有自己不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走的路都有自己要选择的方向。

11. I finally believe that every path one walks up has its own reasons for why one has to trudge along that way. Every path one is about to take has its own chosen direction.

12. 你的好应该留给懂得感恩的人，而不是那种把你的好当成理所当然，会在不知足中得寸进尺的贱人。

12. Your kindness should be reserved for those who appreciate it, not for the ungrateful贱人 who take your goodness for granted and always seek more, never satisfied.

13. 不要因为太在乎别人的看法而让自己害怕。不管你做得多好，总会有人告诉你该怎么做。

13. Don't let yourself be afraid because you care too much about others' opinions. No matter how well you do, there will always be someone to tell you what to do.

14. 忘记一个人，并不是不再想，只是偶尔会想，只是心里不再有波澜。真正的遗忘不需要努力。

14. Forgetting someone is not about not thinking of them anymore, but just that one occasionally does, and it no longer causes ripples in one's heart. True forgetting does not require effort.

15. 用心做事，不如用心。只有做到最好，才容易。抱怨是没有用的，因为这个世界永远是用实力说话的。

15. It's better to put your heart into it than to do things half-heartedly. Only by doing the best can it be easy. Complaining is useless because this world always speaks with strength.

16. 半生已过，也明白沉默的好处。人生需要一些沉默，不是懦弱，而是明白，是懒得搭理，是不想计较那么多，不想掺和那么多，只想在自己的节奏里过好自己的生活就够了。

16. Half of my life has passed, and I also understand the benefits of silence. Life needs some silence, not out of weakness, but because I realize, because I am too lazy to get involved, because I don't want to be so meticulous, because I don't want to interfere so much, and it's enough for me to live my own life according to my own pace.

17. 刘备折腾， 成了人物，

17. Liu Bei struggled and became a prominent figure.

18. 世界上所有不如意的事都靠努力。接受成长，接受所有不好的事情。十六、心本身不大，不要背负太多。昨天的纠结只会禁锢你的今天和明天。生活中，我们必须学会释放。

18. All the unsatisfactory things in the world depend on effort. Embrace growth and accept all the bad things. Sixteen, the heart itself is not big, don't carry too much. Yesterday's entanglement will only bind your today and tomorrow. In life, we must learn to let go.

19. 有些事，你或许藏在心里更好，等久了，回头看看，那些当初你以为无法跨越的意外，都成了故事。

19. There are some things that it might be better to keep hidden in your heart. After a long wait, looking back, those unexpected events that you once thought were insurmountable have all become stories.

20. 朱元璋折腾， 做了皇帝，

20. Zhu Yuanzhang was restless, and eventually became an emperor.

21. 为了过上自己想要的生活，你必须有勇气放弃一些东西。这个世界上没有绝对的正义，你也永远不会两全其美。

21. In order to live the life you desire, you must have the courage to give up some things. There is no absolute justice in this world, and you will never be able to have everything you want.

22. 所有的动力都来自内心的沸腾。如果你做不到某件事，不管是建立良好的关系、找爱人还是减肥，那是因为你还没有真正想去做。

22. All the power comes from the inner沸腾. If you can't do something, whether it's building good relationships, finding a lover, or losing weight, it's because you haven't truly wanted to do it yet.

23. 每天给自己一个希望，努力做好自己，不要为明天担忧，不要为昨天叹息。当梦想还在的时候，告诉自己:努力，总会遇到更好的自己！

23. Give yourself a hope every day, strive to be the best you can be, do not worry about tomorrow, and do not sigh over yesterday. When your dreams are still alive, remind yourself: Keep striving, you will definitely meet a better version of yourself!

24. 耐心点。每一片阴影的不远处，必有一片阳光。如果你是光明的，世界就不会黑暗，如果你有希望，世界就不会完全绝望。如果你从不屈服，这个世界能把你怎么样？

24. Be patient. Nearby every shadow, there is a ray of sunshine. If you are the light, the world will not be dark; if you have hope, the world will not be completely desperate. If you never yield, what can this world do to you?

25. 半生已过，明白了人生不易，也体会到了生活艰苦的滋味。

25. Half of my life has passed, and I have realized the difficulty of life and also tasted the bitterness of hardship.

26. 一个人至少有一个梦想和一个坚强的理由。如果心没有地方住，它就到处流浪。

26. A person should at least have one dream and a strong reason. If the heart has no place to stay, it will wander around everywhere.

27. 半生已过，学会了清理自己的圈子，有些人其实不必深交，甚至用不着来往，有些应酬其实根本就不需要去，与其去参加一些无用的社交，不如把时间留给自己和家人，便多了几分幸福。

27. Half of my life has passed, and I have learned to clean up my own circle. Some people are actually not necessary to be deeply connected with, and even don't need to have contact. Some social engagements are actually not necessary to attend. It's better to spend time with myself and my family than to participate in useless social activities, which adds more happiness.

28. 梦想注定是孤独的，一路上没有怀疑和嘲讽，但那又怎样，哪怕遍体鳞伤，也要活得漂亮。不管现在有多艰难，我们都应该成为生活的舞者。

28. Dreams are destined to be solitary, without any doubts or mockery along the way, but what of it? Even if I'm bruised all over, I still want to live beautifully. No matter how difficult it is now, we should all be dancers of life.

29. 不知不觉，半生已过，这半辈子以来，走过了很多坎坷，也走经历过了很多事情，尝遍了酸甜苦辣，见过了各种各样的风景，遇到了各种各样的人，渐渐地从幼稚走向成熟，从冲动到淡定，从翩翩少年到沧桑中年。

29. Unconsciously, half of my life has passed. Over this half of my life, I have walked through many hardships and experienced many things, tasted the bitterness and sweetness of life, seen various kinds of scenery, met various kinds of people, and gradually moved from innocence to maturity, from impetuousness to composure, from a youthful and elegant boy to an experienced middle-aged man.

30. 有些事情，不是不在乎，而是在乎又能怎么样。人生没有如果，只有后果和结果。成熟就是微笑着面对所有的小事。

30. There are some things that it's not about not caring, but rather about what can you do even if you do care. Life has no 'ifs', only consequences and results. Maturity is about smiling at all the little things.

31. 半生已过，学会了断舍离，学会了做取舍，有些东西该清理就清理，堆在一起便是垃圾。有些事情，该忘记就忘记，该放下就放下，才能轻松做自己。

31. Half of my life is over, and I have learned to discard and let go. I have learned to make choices and decide what to keep and what to discard. Some things should be cleared away; piling them up is just clutter. Some things should be forgotten, some should be let go of, in order to be able to live a carefree life.

32. 时间是个好东西。让我们知道，长久看人心，留到最后才是好的。也让我们学会自知，懂得自足。

32. Time is a good thing. Let us know that in the long run, the people who remain till the end are the ones who are truly good. And let us also learn to know ourselves and be content.

33. 半生已过，明白了很多，致自己一段话，往后余生，活出自己的精彩，活出自己的快乐，不为往事扰，只为余生笑。

33. Half of my life is over, and I have realized many things. A message to myself: in the remaining years of my life, live out my own brilliance and joy, not troubled by the past, but only smiling for the rest of my days.

34. 人生，走过一些路，经历过一些事情，也看透了生活，看清了一些人。一路所遇，一路成长，没有谁可以靠得住，唯有靠自己。

34. Life, having walked some roads, experienced some things, and seeing through life, has also made some people clear. Along the way, one grows, and no one can rely on but oneself.

35. 有人帮助你，你很幸运。没人帮你是正义的命运。没有人应该为你做什么，因为生活是你自己的，你要对自己负责。

35. It's lucky if someone helps you; it's the just fate if no one does. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own, and you are responsible for yourself.

36. 有负面情绪的时候，不要说，管好自己的嘴，有时候装傻，是一种境界。

36. When you have negative emotions, don't let them out. Control your tongue, and sometimes pretending to be dumb is a level of wisdom.

37. 人生是一场自己和自己的较量:让积极战胜消极，让快乐战胜忧郁，让勤奋战胜懒惰，让坚强战胜脆弱。在每个充满希望的早晨，告诉自己:努力，总会遇到更好的自己！

37. Life is a battle between oneself and oneself: let positivity overcome negativity, let happiness overcome melancholy, let diligence overcome laziness, and let strength overcome fragility. With every hopeful morning, tell yourself: Strive, for you will always meet a better version of yourself!

38. 刘邦折腾， 有了江山，

38. Liu Bang was restless, and he gained the empire.

39. 人到中年，才感觉到特别难，特别是自己还一事无成的时候，对生活多了一份怀疑和绝望，而在外面还依然受尽了委屈和无奈。

39. It's only in middle age that one feels particularly difficult, especially when one has achieved nothing, adding a sense of doubt and despair to life, while still enduring grievances and helplessness in the outside world.

40. 水的清澈不是因为它不含杂质，而是因为它懂得沉淀；心的通透不是因为没有杂念，而是因为你明白了选择。

40. The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to settle; the transparency of the heart is not because it does not have杂 thoughts, but because you understand the choice.