当爱情邂逅于色彩斑斓的时光，便是在那一刻，心海泛起了温柔的涟漪。爱情始于色彩，如同初见时的惊艳，从此，生活的画卷在心间缓缓展开。

When love meets in the colorful time, it is at that moment that the heart sea ripples with gentle ripples. Love begins with color, just like the stunning first encounter, and from then on, the scroll of life unfolds slowly in the heart.

1. 女人只有意识到自己的情敌比她瘦，现任男友的前女友比她瘦，前男友的现任女友比她瘦，她讨厌的人比她瘦，她才会真正有减肥的动力。

1. A woman will only have the real motivation to lose weight when she realizes that her rival is thinner, her current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is thinner, her ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend is thinner, and the person she dislikes is thinner.

2. 有些人你躲不开，也挡不住。你不用像伟人一样原谅所有人。如果你爱每一个人，你讨厌它，你喜欢它，所以你才能真正的活着。

2. There are some people you can't avoid or stop. You don't have to forgive everyone like a great person. If you love everyone, you hate them, you like them, that's how you truly live.

3. 很久以后我们才知道，当一个女生说再也不和你说话的时候，她并不是真的讨厌你，而是很在乎你。

3. It was a long time before we realized that when a girl says she will never talk to you again, it's not because she really dislikes you, but because she cares about you deeply.

4. 如果不能在一起，就不要给对方任何希望和暗示。这是最大的责任。分开了，不去打扰对方平安的生活，这是最后的温柔。

4. If you cannot be together, do not give the other person any hope or implication. This is the greatest responsibility. After separating, do not disturb the other person's peaceful life; this is the last act of gentleness.

5. 能用钱解决的事，不要欠人家。

5. If something can be settled with money, don't owe others.

6. 自己做不到，就觉得别人做不到。事实上，这是一个很常见的自己衡量人比如你穷，你觉得别人在装逼，你没有能力。你觉得别人肯定有米歇尔·普拉蒂尼，你买不起，所以觉得贵的东西不值。然后我又回到了自己的小圈子里，觉得这个世界只有我。

6. If I can't do it, I think others can't either. In fact, this is a very common way for people to measure others by themselves. For example, if you're poor, you think others are showing off, that you lack the ability. You think others must have what Michelle Platini has, which you can't afford, so you think expensive things are not worth it. Then I go back to my own little circle, feeling that this world is only about me.

7. 小时候觉得这个世界很不公平。后来发现这个世界是不公平的，但是不公平是好事。这会让你更加努力。

7. When I was young, I thought this world was very unfair. Later, I realized that this world is indeed unfair, but unfairness is a good thing. It will make you work even harder.

8. 你打不过他，因为他不够爱你。

8. You can't defeat him because you don't love him enough.

9. 一个不主动的男人，肯定没有你想象的那么爱你。

9. A man who is not proactive does not love you as much as you imagine.

10. 我真的想和你有很长的未来。很想和你一起得到大家的祝福。真的想陪你走完一生，彼此温暖，彼此不辜负。

10. I really want to have a long future with you. I really want to receive everyone's blessings together with you. I truly want to accompany you through life, keeping each other warm and not disappointing each other.

11. 吴桂君的诗具有一种古典美，善于将古典诗词的韵味完全融入到新诗之中，而且在诗的语言上，比喻形象，精准出新，豪迈大气，将那种爱而不得的情绪表现得真切而洒脱。当今此类作品较少，需要很强的诗词文化底蕴。

11. Wu Guijun's poetry possesses a classical beauty, adept at fully integrating the charm of classical poetry and verses into modern poetry. Moreover, in terms of poetic language, her metaphors are vivid and precise, grand and magnanimous, vividly and freely expressing the emotion of unrequited love. Such works are rare in contemporary times and require a strong cultural foundation in poetry and verses.

12. 不要担心随便遇到的人。在你看来，他是一个朋友。在他看来，你是个直言不讳的傻瓜。

12. Don't worry about the people you meet randomly. To you, he seems like a friend. To him, you are an honest fool.

13. 女孩不一定是爱人的女王，但永远是父亲的小公主。

13. A girl may not always be the queen of her lover, but she is always her father's little princess.

14. 尽力而为，听天由命。问心无愧，不为感情所惑。利用这种情况，并为此感到高兴。知错就改，迷路就回头。关注喜欢你的人，忘记不喜欢你的人。这样活着真好。

14. Do your best and leave the rest to fate. Have no regrets and be not swayed by emotions. Seize this situation and be happy about it. Correct mistakes when you know them, and turn back when you're lost. Focus on those who like you and forget those who don't. Living like this is truly great.

15. 听说如果你这辈子很爱一个人，他不爱你，那是因为他上辈子很爱你，你不爱他。上辈子欠他的，这辈子轮到你还了。

15. It is said that if you deeply love someone in this life but they do not love you back, it's because they deeply loved you in a past life, and you did not love them. You owe them from a past life, and it's your turn to repay it in this life.

16. 有些人走路的时候喜欢看手机。他们不是贪玩，而是想掩盖一个人的尴尬。

16. Some people like to look at their phones while walking. It's not because they are playful, but rather to cover up someone's embarrassment.

17. 我会努力成为一个你以后看到他们会后悔没有珍惜的人。

17. I will strive to become the person you will regret not cherishing in the future when you see them.

18. 不要明目张胆的黑，删了，分手了，再加回来的时候，真的是满满的耻辱。

18. Don't be brazen about being blacklisted. Deleting, breaking up, and then adding them back really fills you with shame.

19. 别傻了。在一起只是你安慰自己的最后一个借口。没有人比你更清楚他是如何对待你的。你难过的时候他没有陪你。你留下来的时候，他不珍惜你。说白了，他就是不爱你。

19. Don't be silly. Being together is just your last excuse to comfort yourself. No one knows better than you how he treats you. He didn't accompany you when you were sad. And when you stayed with him, he didn't cherish you. To put it simply, he just doesn't love you.

20. 喜欢他，始于颜值，困于才华，忠于人品。

20. It all started with his looks, got stuck with his talents, and remains loyal to his character.

21. 喜欢自控力强的人，想早起就能坚持早起，想锻炼就锻炼，想学习就学习。他们不会把自己的时间花在和别人争论上，也不会浪费太多精力去讨好不相干的人。真的觉得自制力强的人不坏，没有自制力的人不配谈理想。

21. Like people with strong self-control, who can consistently wake up early when they want to, exercise when they want to, and study when they want to. They don't spend their time arguing with others, nor do they waste a lot of energy trying to please unrelated people. I really think that people with strong self-control are not bad, and those without self-control are not worthy of talking about ideals.

22. 总有一天，你会回头看自己经历过的人和事；当时不管多大，现在看来也就这么多。你甚至会觉得当时的自己太挑剔太幼稚，没有过不去的事，没有离不开的人。但你不得不承认，正是因为发生的事情，你才变成了现在的样子。

22. One day, you will look back on the people and things you have experienced; at the time, no matter how old you were, now it seems like just this much. You might even find yourself feeling too picky and childish back then, with no insurmountable issues or people you couldn't leave behind. But you have to admit, it is precisely because of what happened that you have become who you are now.

23. 我们常常用最幼稚的方式威胁最爱我们的人，比如在我们难过的时候不回信息不接电话，敲诈勒索，威胁不再需要对方，看着他像疯子一样找你，你得到了前所未有的满足和报复。但是如果有一天你真的失去了这个人，当他不再找你的时候，你会意识到唯一一个愿意被你欺负的人已经不在了。

23. We often threaten the people who love us the most in the most childish ways, such as not replying to messages or picking up calls when we are upset, extorting, threatening to no longer need the other person, watching them chase you like a疯子, and experiencing a previously unmatched sense of satisfaction and revenge. But if one day you truly lose this person, and when they stop looking for you, you will realize that the only person who was willing to be bullied by you is no longer there.

24. 只有努力工作，多挣钱，才能养活自己的胃、心和购物购买的习惯。一个人去，一个人来，也能过得很好。

24. Only through hard work and making more money can one afford to satisfy one's stomach, heart, and the habit of shopping. One can also live well if they go alone and return alone.

25. 有的直男说你不工作我养你。他们希望你在家做饭，洗衣服，做家务，带孩子。他们不希望你每天去美容SPA逛街，喝下午茶，去健身，跳舞，做瑜伽。所以女生一定要看一看对方的“我养你”，不要盲目感动。

25. Some straight men say, "I'll support you if you don't work." They expect you to cook at home, do laundry, manage household chores, and take care of the children. They don't want you to go to beauty salons, SPA, shopping, have afternoon tea, go to the gym, dance, or do yoga every day. So, girls should always take a look at the other person's "I'll support you" and not get blindfolded by the sentiment.

26. 如果找不到对象，不要总是抱怨，多想想自己的原因——也许是因为你对谁都太好了。

26. If you can't find a partner, don't always complain; think more about your own reasons—perhaps it's because you are too good to everyone.

27. 世界上最恶心的事，就是你看到一个人虚伪的一面，别人却看不到。他们觉得他表面上那么好看。

27. The most disgusting thing in the world is when you see someone's insincere side, but others don't. They think he looks so good on the surface.

28. 如果你不确定他喜不喜欢你，你就是不喜欢你。因为他真的喜欢你，你一定感觉得到。

28. If you're not sure whether he likes you or not, it's because you don't like him. Because if he really likes you, you would definitely feel it.

29. 别人给你一点承诺，你就会敞开心扉；如果有人稍微安慰你一下，你就会泪流满面；别人象征性的帮你打抱不平，你恨不得自杀。这也许不是你的单纯率真，也许是你自卑得厉害，或者是孤独得太久了。

29. When others give you a little promise, you will open your heart; if someone comforts you a bit, you will shed tears; if others symbolically stand up for you, you would even wish to commit suicide. This may not be your innocent sincerity, but perhaps it is your deep-seated inferiority, or perhaps you have been too lonely for too long.