一段失败的婚姻，如同一曲未完的乐章，在人生的舞台上留下了一段难以抹去的痕迹。在这篇短文中，我们将一同探寻这段婚姻的感悟，揭开它背后的故事。

A failed marriage is like an incomplete musical piece, leaving an indelible mark on the stage of life. In this short article, we will together explore the insights of this marriage and uncover the story behind it.

1. 10不想让自己后悔，只不过顾住自己的感受而麻烦其他人。

1. Not wanting to regret it, but just caring about my own feelings and causing trouble for others.

2. 9人不是坏的，只是习气罢了，每个人都有习气，只是深浅不同罢了。只要他有向善的心，能原谅的就原谅他，不要把他看做是坏人。

2. The nine people are not bad; they just have bad habits. Everyone has bad habits, but they vary in depth. As long as they have a heart for goodness, forgive them for what they can be forgiven. Don't view them as bad people.

3. 永远不要对任何事感到后悔，因为它曾经一度就是你想要的。

3. Never regret anything, for it once was what you wanted.

4. 在我心底深处，有你意想不到的痛，到底还能撑多久，依旧保持我最坚强的微笑。

4. Deep in my heart, there's an unexpected pain, and I wonder how long I can still maintain the strongest smile of mine.

5. 爱一个人有多苦只有自己最清楚，负出了全部青春以荒误原来只是一个错误，我也不想装糊涂却又不得不认输，错过的情人还有谁能够留住，我也只能够装糊涂假装自己很幸福，伤在心里头眼泪再也留不住。

5. The bitterness of loving someone is only known to oneself. Devoting one's entire youth to a mistake is only realized too late. I don't want to pretend to be naive but I have to admit defeat. Who else can keep the lover I missed? I can only pretend to be naive, pretending to be very happy. The pain is in my heart, and the tears can no longer be held back.

6. 爱情里并没有谁对谁错，只是我们都忘了付出真心。

6. In love, there is no right or wrong between any two people; it's just that we all forgot to give our whole hearts.

7. 12人生最珍贵的是时间，最重要的是减少遗憾。时间没了，无论多伟大的抱负，多美好的构想，多深刻的忏悔，多庞大的财富一切都将成空。若懂得珍惜时间，你会尽力安排好每个当下，该奋斗时奋斗，该享受时享受，该爱时爱，该放时放每走一步，不会有撕心裂肺的遗憾牵痛每一个回忆。这就是最实在的幸福。

7. The most precious thing in life is time, and the most important thing is to minimize regrets. Once time is gone, no matter how great the ambitions, how beautiful the ideas, how profound the repentance, or how vast the wealth, everything will be in vain. If you understand how to cherish time, you will strive to arrange each moment well, fight when it's time to fight, enjoy when it's time to enjoy, love when it's time to love, and let go when it's time to let go. With each step you take, there will be no heart-wrenching regrets haunting every memory. This is the most real kind of happiness.

8. 曾经的梦碎了一地，捡起，努力拼凑，而后又碎，再捡起，拼凑，直到有一天再也拼凑不来。

8. Once the dreams were shattered into pieces, picked them up, tried to piece them together, and then they shattered again, picked them up once more, tried to piece them together, until one day, they could no longer be put together.

9. 天真的我以为他就是我的全部，是一辈子相守的人，他家里比较穷，第一次带他回家见父母他就问我爸妈借钱建房子，我爸妈拒绝了也不同意我们在一起，居然不孝的跟爸妈闹僵跟他私奔，最后爸妈还说妥协了。

9. I naively thought that he was my whole world, the person I would spend my life with. His family was relatively poor, and when I first brought him home to meet my parents, he asked my parents for a loan to build a house. My parents refused and did not agree for us to be together. I even fought with my parents and ran away with him in defiance. In the end, my parents said they had compromised.

10. 再见了，我那么那么爱你，虽然笨拙，但也努力做了好多，所以我不遗憾了。现在，我把爱情还给你，你把我仅有的一点点骄傲还给我好不好？

10. Goodbye, I love you so much, so much. Although clumsy, I have also tried my best, so I have no regrets. Now, I return the love to you, would you please return to me the little bit of pride I have left?

11. 12你看不见你自己，你所看见的只是你的影子。

11. 12 You cannot see yourself; what you see is only your shadow.

12. 后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误所以不要后悔。

12. Regret is an emotionally taxing feeling. Regret is a greater loss than the actual loss, and a greater mistake than the mistake itself, so don't regret.

13. 26当他让你失望时，也秒杀了你对他的所有希望。

13. 26 When he lets you down, he also kills all your hopes for him in an instant.

14. 现在终于到了要分别的时候，他比我先走，我反而觉得有点欣慰。这样的悲伤，迟早会让我们其中一个人单独体会，就让我来承担好了。

14. Now, finally, it is time to part ways, and he is leaving before me, yet I feel a bit relieved. Such sorrow will sooner or later be experienced by one of us alone, let it be me who bears it.

15. 多希望死亡只是身上的一个按钮，一按即去，不痛不痒。

15. How I wish death were just a button on the body, a simple press away, without any pain or discomfort.

16. 当看破一切的时候，才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。

16. Only when one sees through everything can one realize that losing is actually more solid than possessing.

17. 5所谓情话，就是你说了一些连自己都不相信的话，却希望对方相信。

17.5 So-called love talk refers to the words you say that you don't even believe yourself, yet you hope the other person will believe them.

18. 总要等到过了很久，总要等退无可退，才知道我们曾亲手舍弃的东西，在后来的日子里，再也遇不到了。

18. It is always after a long time, always when there is no room left to retreat, that we realize the things we once discarded with our own hands are something we will never encounter in the days that follow.

19. 爱情失败我就只能再去为金钱而奋斗，但我从来不后悔我做过的一切，失败虽然是错误，这种错误我没后悔，我只会，可你连弥补的机会都没给我！让我一个人在那天天想着怎么来改变自己，来弥补自己的错误。

19. If love fails, I can only strive for money again, but I never regret everything I've done. Failure is a mistake, and I don't regret this mistake. I would only... But you didn't even give me a chance to make up for it! Let me be alone, thinking day and night about how to change myself and make up for my mistakes.

20. 有些路很远，走下去会很累。可是，不走，会后悔。

20. Some roads are far, and walking them will be tiring. However, not walking them will bring regret.

21. 我十九岁怀了他的孩子，他包括他的家人都坚持要这个孩子,而我觉得自己还小不想要，最后还是妥协了，就在我生孩子的时候他出轨了，认识了一个十七岁的女孩，那个女孩还怀了他的孩子，当我发现的时候那个女孩已经怀孕五个月了，而我的孩子才三个月，因为我和他要上班我的婆婆也要上班，所以孩子生下来就给我妈妈带了。

21. I was 19 when I was pregnant with his child. He and his family all insisted on keeping the baby, but I felt too young and didn't want it. In the end, I gave in. However, when I was giving birth, he cheated on me and met a 17-year-old girl who was also pregnant with his child. By the time I found out, the girl was already five months pregnant, while my baby was only three months. Since both of us had to work and my mother-in-law also had to work, the baby was brought up by my mother from birth.

22. 分手后才发现自己对你的感情，我离不开你，我们不要再分开了，好吗？

22. It was only after breaking up that I realized my feelings for you, I can't live without you, let's not separate again, okay?

23. 46不是每个人都可以在你后悔后还站在原地等你。

23. Not everyone can stand still and wait for you after you regret it.

24. 或许，最美的事不是留住时光，而是留住记忆。如最初相识的感觉一样，哪怕一个不经意的笑容，便是我们最怀念的故事。但愿，时光，如初见。

24. Perhaps, the most beautiful thing is not to retain time, but to retain memories. Just like the feeling of first meeting, even an unintentional smile is the story we cherish the most. May it be, that time, is as it was at first sight.

25. 9我生命里的温暖就那么多，我全部给了你，但是你离开了我，你叫我以后怎么再对别人笑。

25. The warmth in my life is limited, and I've given it all to you. But now that you've left me, how am I supposed to smile at others again in the future?

26. 22这么多年，我一直在学习一件事情，就是不回头，只为自己没有做过的事情后悔，不为自己做过的事情后悔。人生每一步行来，都是需要付出代价的。我得到了我想要的一些，失去了我不想失去的一些。可这世上的芸芸众生，谁又不是这样呢。

26. For 22 years, I have been learning one thing, that is, not to regret the things I haven't done, but to regret the things I have done. Every step in life comes with a price. I have gained some of what I wanted and lost some of what I didn't want to lose. But in this world, who isn't like that?

27. 孩子我没有舍得给他，在我的眼里，他那样子的人不配做一个父亲，遍体鳞伤的我已经恨透了他，他的一切我都不想有任何瓜葛，走出这段失败的婚姻我用的五年时间，爸妈看着这样的我也着急，总催着我相亲，可我一个也没心思看，一个也不愿意见。

27. I couldn't bear to give him a child. In my eyes, he is not worthy of being a father. The battered and bruised me have恨透了他, and I don't want to have anything to do with everything about him. It took me five years to get out of this failed marriage. My parents were anxious to see me like this, always urging me to go on blind dates, but I had no interest in looking at any of them, nor did I want to meet any of them.

28. 主动久了会很累，在乎久了会崩溃，沉默久了会受罪，想念久了会流泪。

28. Being proactive for a long time can be tiring, caring for a long time can lead to collapse, being silent for a long time can be a form of suffering, and missing someone for a long time can cause tears.

29. 因为爱你，所以我愿意带着微笑祝福你，看着你离去得背影，伤心的泪会流心会痛，我多么希望你可以回头看看我，让我们再拥抱在一起好吗？

29. Because I love you, I am willing to wish you a smile, watching you leave with your back turned, my tears of sadness will flow and my heart will ache. How much I wish you could turn back and look at me, let's embrace each other again, shall we?

30. 50希望并不是每一个都可以实现，信心也不会随时都慷慨激动昂，但至少不要让自己后悔。

30. 50 Hope is not always within reach for everyone, and confidence doesn't always surge with generosity and excitement, but at least don't let yourself regret it.

31. 27你接受比抱怨还要好，对于不可改变的事实，你除了接受以外，没有更好的办法了。

31. 27 It is better to accept than to complain. For facts that cannot be changed, there is no better way than to accept them.

32. 有人说：如果你还记得你们第一次见面的场景，那么说明你们的缘分还没有尽。

32. Some say: If you still remember the scene of your first meeting, it means that your fate has not yet ended.

33. 有些东西，想起来总是很美好的，于是在你的想当然中，荒废了一场本来可以很开心的现实。

33. There are some things that always seem so wonderful when remembered, that in your assumption, you let slip a reality that could have been very joyful.

34. 24过错只是一时的遗憾，但错过却是一生的遗憾。莽撞，可能使你后悔一时，怯弱，却可能让你后悔一辈子。

34. 24 A mistake is just a temporary regret, but a missed opportunity is a regret for a lifetime. Rashness may make you regret for a moment, but timidity may make you regret for a lifetime.

35. 原谅我吧，知道吗，每天我都如同生活在暴风雨的袭击中。求你许我一个阳光灿烂天吧！

35. Forgive me, you know, every day I live as if under the assault of a storm. Please grant me a day with a radiant sun!

36. 恋爱中最忌讳的就是两个人都幻想着对方的未来，却总是怀念对方的过去。

36. The most taboo in a relationship is when both individuals are daydreaming about each other's future while always reminiscing about the past.

37. 如果我们的爱是错的，愿你我不要白白受苦。

37. If our love is wrong, may neither of us suffer in vain.

38. 我不断让自己变得优秀，是因为我想让迩后悔，迩失去了这么一个我。

38. I constantly strive to be excellent because I want you to regret losing such a person like me.

39. 42时光流转，岁月腐蚀了爱的痕迹，生活变的平平淡淡，而当你年过花甲的时候，你是否还会为爱人说出那三个字吗

39. As time flows and years erode the痕迹 of love, life becomes plain and ordinary. And when you reach your sixties, will you still be able to say those three words to your loved one?

40. 两个人分手后，一个是装开心，一个是真痛心。

40. After the two people break up, one pretends to be happy while the other truly feels heartbroken.

41. 让我们为过去干杯，但请不要回头。

41. Let's drink to the past, but please don't look back.

42. 25我每天都在纠结这三件事：晚上不想睡早上起不来后悔昨天睡太晚

42. 25 Every day, I am纠结 over these three things: I don't want to go to sleep at night, I can't wake up in the morning, and I regret sleeping too late last night.

43. 当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。

43. It is only when the tears flow that one realizes that separation is also a kind of clarity.

44. 15如果敌人让你生气,那说明你没有胜他的把握

44. 15 If the enemy makes you angry, it means you are not confident in defeating them.

45. 52如果爱上，就不要轻易说放弃。闹别扭了，可能你后悔一阵子;但是你放弃了，可能使你后悔一辈子。经历过爱情的人生才是美好，经不起考验的爱情是不深刻的。美好的爱情使人生丰富，经的起考验的爱情才是完美的。

45. 52 If you fall in love, don't easily give up. When you're quarreling, you might regret it for a while; but if you give up, you might regret it for a lifetime. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot withstand tests is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that can withstand tests is perfect.

46. 24能冲刷一切的除了眼泪,就是时间以时间来推移感情,时间越长,冲突越淡,仿佛不断稀释的茶

46. The only things that can wash away everything are tears and time. Time helps to erode feelings, and the longer it goes by, the less intense the conflict seems, like a continuously diluted tea.

47. 25记忆像是掌心里的水，不论你摊开还是紧握，终究还是会从指缝中一滴一滴流淌干净。

47. 25 Memory is like water in the palm of your hand, whether you spread it out or clasp it tightly, it will eventually drip away, one drop at a time, until it's all gone.

48. 但愿锁住黄河，但愿锁住长江，你就在我身旁！但愿没有离别，但愿没有思量，但愿点亮满天星光，和你一起到地老天荒！

48. May the Yellow River be locked, may the Yangtze River be locked, and you will be by my side! May there be no parting, may there be no contemplation, may the stars in the sky be lit up, and together we will reach the ends of the earth and the ends of time!

49. 我很高兴这种生活结束了。你也保重。

49. I'm glad this kind of life is over. Take care of yourself too.

50. 如果石头也会流泪的话，我想做一颗顽石靠在你心里哭泣，至少，还可以感受到你的温度。

50. If stones could weep, I would like to be a stubborn stone weeping in your heart, at least, I could still feel the warmth of you.

51. 不是我后悔，是我不能面对没有你的结局残忍是不断要提起那些已过的幸福。伤逝的感觉。

51. It's not that I regret, but I cannot face the cruel ending without you. The pain of loss is constantly reminding me of the happiness that has passed. The feeling of grief.

52. 31现在我们长大了，我们奔三了，我们告别青春年月了，我们挣钱养活自己了，我们开始供房供车了。我们一路走，一路丢失，一路得到。却再也找不回那些最纯粹的东西，这就是我们所怀念的，再深刻的伤痕都会随着时间淡忘愈合，只有曾有过的真挚快乐会永存在记忆中，愈久愈诱人。

52. 31 Now we have grown up, we are approaching our thirties, we have said goodbye to our youthful years, we have started earning a living for ourselves, and we have begun to pay for our homes and cars. As we walk along, we lose and gain along the way. However, we can no longer find those most pure things, which is what we miss. Even the deepest wounds will fade and heal with time, but the genuine happiness that once existed will always remain in our memories, becoming more tempting over time.

53. 生活把我们磨得团团转，让我们滚得更远。

53. Life keeps us busy, pushing us further away.

54. 我此时此刻不知道该做什么，看不到你的信息，听不到你的声音。如此的宁静！我的心快碎了！你快回来，我的爱！

54. At this moment, I don't know what to do, I can't see your messages, and I can't hear your voice. Such tranquility! My heart is almost shattered! Come back quickly, my love!

55. 14方向不对，努力白费，方向大于方法，动力大于能力，做人大于做事，凡事都说这都是我们的错。

55. 14. Wrong direction, all efforts are in vain; direction is greater than method, motivation is greater than ability, being a person is greater than doing things, and everything said is all our fault.

56. 对不起，不是我不在爱你，而是你从来没给过我爱你的机会。

56. Sorry, it's not that I'm not in love with you anymore, but it's that you never gave me a chance to love you.

57. 41当你感觉不在后悔的时候，不迷茫不粗心的时候，勇敢的往前走吧，因为前方的路还在等着你!

57. 41 When you feel that you are not regretting, not lost, and not careless, bravely move forward, for the road ahead is still waiting for you!

58. 14总有人问我对现在的状况你后悔吗我不能说后悔，也不会说后悔，因为既然当初走了这一步，就要义无反顾的走下去，就不能去想后悔两字。

58. 14. There are always people who ask me if I regret the current situation. I can't say I regret, nor would I say I regret, because since I took this step at the beginning, I must go all the way without hesitation, and I cannot think about the word "regret."

59. 错过了日出可以等待，错过了美景可以再来，错过了流星可以等待，错过了爱情却不会回来！珍惜身边的人，特别是你爱的和爱你的人。

59. If you miss the sunrise, you can wait for it; if you miss the beautiful scenery, you can come back; if you miss the shooting stars, you can wait; but if you miss love, it will never return! Cherish the people around you, especially those you love and those who love you.

60. 回来行么？亲爱的，我知道我错了，对不起，我不能失去你。

60. Can you come back? Dear, I know I was wrong, sorry, I can't lose you.

61. 53有些的时候，正是为了爱才悄悄躲开躲开的是身影，躲不开的却是那份默默的情怀。

61. Sometimes, it is precisely out of love that one悄悄ly retreats; what retreats is the silhouette, but what cannot be avoided is that silent sentiment.

62. 我们都太容易让一首歌带自己对号入座，听见一首歌的时候，好像自己就行走在歌词里。

62. We are all too prone to let a song resonate with our own experiences, as if we were walking through the lyrics when we hear a song.

63. 57魄力就是敢想敢做，有一套想法去做了，成不成功都不后悔，前怕狼后怕虎的永远也做不了大事。消除贫穷是容易的，但要消除心头的贫穷感却难。消极的态度就像是癌症，一旦体内有了癌症，其他器官就会被感染。把意志沉潜得下，何理不可得;把志气奋发得起，何事不可做。

63. 57. Courage is about daring to think and dare to act. Once you have an idea and act on it, you won't regret it whether it succeeds or not. Those who are always afraid of wolves and tigers behind them will never be able to accomplish great things. It is easy to eliminate poverty, but it is difficult to eliminate the feeling of poverty in one's heart. A negative attitude is like cancer; once cancer exists within the body, other organs will be infected. If you can immerse your will deeply, what principle can you not obtain? If you can stir up your ambition, what can you not achieve?

64. 我很后悔，越了解实情就越是后悔。我真的不应该赌气，不应该对于这段感情就此放弃。

64. I deeply regret it, and the more I understand the truth, the more I regret. I really shouldn't have let my temper get the better of me and should not have given up on this relationship.

65. 在人海中相识，回归人海，惜千。

65. Meeting someone in the sea of people, and returning to the sea, one feels a thousand regrets.

66. 我再也不会奋不顾身的去爱一个人了，哪怕是你。

66. I will never love someone recklessly again, even if it's you.

67. 谁不想爱很多年，但是时间难得。

Who wouldn't want to love for many years, but time is rare.

68. 29不管风雨再不再来，让我的爱伴着你直到永远。无需言证的承诺，我的心早已给了。今生今世只想和你在一起。没有什么可后悔的!

68. 29 Whether the storms come again or not, let my love accompany you until eternity. The promise without a word of evidence, my heart has given long ago. In this life and the next, I only want to be with you. There's nothing to regret!

69. 其实吧他是一个很好面子的人，其实他是真没钱，结婚一年后他突然想要孩子了，好吧！要孩子我们就生一个吧！都结婚了要个孩子或许不是坏事吧？可偏偏老天也就给我开玩笑第一个孩子怀上了两个月的时候掉了，第二年又怀上了三个月又掉了真是没话可说了，叫他去检查他说如果他有问题我怎么会怀孕呢？

69. Well, actually, he is a very face-conscious person. In reality, he really doesn't have any money. After getting married for a year, he suddenly wanted a child. Alright! If we want a child, let's have one. Having a child after getting married may not be a bad thing, right? But unfortunately, fate seemed to be playing a joke on me. The first child I was pregnant with miscarried at two months. The second year, I miscarried at three months. There's really nothing to say anymore. When I suggested he go for a check-up, he said, "If I had a problem, how would I have gotten pregnant?"

70. 这辈子，夫妻缘分到此。我很好。也请多保重。

70. The couple's destiny has reached its end in this lifetime. I'm fine. Also, please take good care of yourself.