在爱的海洋里，直抵心灵的最深处，是一份纯粹而深沉的情感。它如同一缕阳光，穿透岁月的尘埃，照亮彼此的灵魂。让我们一同踏上这段旅程，探寻直抵心灵的爱情感悟。

In the ocean of love, reaching the deepest recesses of the heart, is a pure and profound emotion. It is like a ray of sunshine, piercing through the dust of time, illuminating each other's souls. Let us embark on this journey together, to explore the insights of love that touch the heart.

1. 三你把性格交给星座，把努力交给鸡汤，把运气交给锦鲤。然后对自己说：听过许多道理，依然过不好这一生，那么，活该你过不好。

1. You entrust your personality to the zodiac signs, your efforts to self-help books, and your luck to good luck charms. Then you tell yourself: Having heard many truths, you still can't live a good life. Well, that's just your destiny to live a bad life.

2. 18你若爱，生活哪里都可爱。你若恨，生活哪里都可恨。你若感恩，处处可感恩。你若成长，事事可成长。不是世界选择了你，是你选择了这个世界。既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。

2. 18 If you love, there is love everywhere. If you hate, there is hate everywhere. If you are grateful, there is gratitude everywhere. If you grow, there is growth in everything. It's not the world that chooses you, but you that choose the world. Since there is nowhere to escape, why not be joyful. Since there is no pure land, why not calm your mind. Since things do not turn out as you wish, why not let go.

3. 21社会，是一个大染缸。改变了我们最初的模样。你不愿改变，也得改变，你不改变，无法适应社会。现实，是一个大熔炉。锤炼了我们最终的坚强。你不想坚强，也得坚强，你不坚强，就得向现实投降。

3. The 21st-century society is a great dye pot, which changes our original appearance. Whether you want to change or not, you have to change; if you don't change, you cannot adapt to society. Reality is a great smelting furnace that forges our ultimate strength. Whether you want to be strong or not, you have to be strong; if you are not strong, you must surrender to reality.

4. 不管你爱过多少人，爱过多少苦，爱过多少乐。当你真正理解爱情的那一天，你会知道，这一切不是在教你如何恋爱，而是在教你如何爱自己。

4. No matter how many people you have loved, how much bitterness and joy you have experienced in love. On the day when you truly understand love, you will know that all this is not teaching you how to love others, but how to love yourself.

5. 十五不是社交恐惧也没有交流障碍，就是懒得认识一些不想认识的人，懒得应付一些不想应付的事，因为明白世界上没几个人对自己真心好的人，所以只把时间用在值得的感情上。

5. The reason I'm not shy in social settings or have any communication barriers is simply because I'm lazy to get to know people I don't want to know and lazy to deal with things I don't want to deal with. This is because I understand that there aren't many people in the world who truly care about me, so I only spend my time on relationships that are worth it.

6. 22躲在温暖的被窝更舒服，但你还是得早早起床忙碌；什么也不做轻松惬意，但你还是得想尽办法找活儿干，这就是芸芸众生的生活。

6. It's more comfortable to hide in the warm blankets, but you still have to get up early and be busy; it's relaxing to do nothing, but you still have to find ways to keep busy. This is the life of the common people.

7. 15生活有两大误区：一是生活给人看，二是看别人生活。只要自己觉得幸福就行，用不着向别人证明什么。千万不要光顾着看别人，而走错了自己脚下的路。

7. There are two major misconceptions about life: one is showing off one's life to others, and the other is watching others' lives. As long as you feel happy, there's no need to prove anything to others. Never be so preoccupied with watching others that you end up walking the wrong path beneath your feet.

8. 不能埋葬的日日夜夜，令人心碎。谁说爱，谁总能原谅。如果一个人到最后累了，不要让她走。

8. The days and nights that cannot be buried are heart-wrenching. Who says love always forgives? If a person is tired at the end, don't let her leave.

9. 我现在爱你，比市场上的大白菜还便宜，随处可见。

9. I love you now more cheaply than the cabbage on the market, and it's everywhere to be seen.

10. 二十二先过好自己的日子，把自己变得更好，才能让相同频率的人看到。即使将就，也要让自己拥有过得更好的资本。

10. First, live your own life well and become better. Only then can people of the same frequency see you. Even if you have to make do, make sure you have the capital to live a better life.

11. 13努力经营自己生活中的点滴美好，并且借由着这些美好，告诉自己不要低头，即使人生多艰，世事无常。

11. 13 Strive to cultivate the little bits of beauty in your life, and use these beauties to tell yourself not to bow your head, even though life may be tough and the world is ever-changing.

12. 一曲《莫非》，声声断肠，字字泣血，你将何去何从，唱出人间所有的恨不如意。

12. A song titled "Mo Fei," with each note breaking the heart, each character weeping with blood, where will you go and what will you do? It sings all the hatred and dissatisfaction in the world.

13. 不是所有人都能懂得时间的意义，不是所有人都懂得珍惜。这个世界上没有分离和衰老的命运，只有一颗愿意爱的心和不愿意爱的心。

13. Not everyone understands the meaning of time, and not everyone knows how to cherish it. In this world, there is no fate of separation and aging; there are only hearts that are willing to love and hearts that are not willing to love.

14. 我的眼睛是悲伤的，没有人能看到我心中的泪水。曾经以为什么都可以忘记，结果却是什么都不能忘记。

14. My eyes are filled with sadness, and no one can see the tears in my heart. I used to think that I could forget anything, but in the end, I seem to forget nothing.

15. 吵架，男人吵架，女人吵架。最后，男人觉得女人不讲道理，女人觉得男人不爱自己。

15. Arguments, men arguing, women arguing. In the end, the man feels that the woman is unreasonable, and the woman feels that the man does not love her.

16. 19百分之九19的丧都是闲出来的，又闲又没钱，没有目标，整天焦虑到不行还觉得很累。

16. Nineteen percent of deaths are caused by idleness; being idle and poor, without any goals, feeling extremely anxious all day long, yet still feeling exhausted.

17. 二十三好好珍惜对你好的人，别等心碎了拿歉意拼凑，弄丢了，上哪也找不回来。离开了，互联网也联系不上。别等人都不在了，才知道对方的好，有个令人尴尬的词，叫做“为时已晚”。

17. Cherish those who are good to you, don't wait until your heart is broken and try to patch it up with apologies. Once you lose them, you can't find them back no matter where you go. And even the internet can't reach them once they've left. Don't wait until the person is no longer there to realize their good. There's an embarrassing phrase for that, called "too late."

18. 世界上有两种感情:一种是互相关心，却又厌倦死亡；另一种是忘了江湖，却怀念哭泣。

18. There are two kinds of emotions in the world: one is the mutual concern, yet tired of death; the other is the forgetfulness of the world, yet yearning for the tears.

19. 站在雨中仔细聆听，我依然能听到你的呼吸，你的心跳；我能听到你的想法，你从心底呼唤的名字。

19. Standing in the rain and listening carefully, I can still hear your breathing, your heartbeat; I can hear your thoughts, the name you call from the depths of your heart.

20. 女生的策略应该是:偶尔主动，偶尔被动，不要冲动，尽量等待动起来的机会，即使急着动，也要装作不动，这样男人才会心碎。

20. The strategy for girls should be: occasionally proactive, occasionally passive, don't act impulsively, try to wait for opportunities to get moving, and even if you're eager to move, pretend to stay still. This way, the man will be heartbroken.

21. 看到你的名字，我的眼泪控制不住地流了出来，心如痉挛般疼痛。

21. Seeing your name, my tears flowed uncontrollably, and my heart ached as if it were in a spasm.

22. 10日出东海落西山，富也一天，穷也一天；忧也一年，喜也一年；痛也一天，乐也一天，何不快快乐乐过一天；生活不钻牛角尖，人也舒服，心也舒坦。

22. The sun rises in the East and sets in the West on the 10th day, and whether rich or poor, it's just one day; whether worried or joyful, it's just one year; whether in pain or in happiness, it's just one day. Why not enjoy each day happily? Don't be overly concerned with trivial matters in life, and both the body and mind will feel comfortable and at ease.

23. 我眼中的泪水散落在雨中，似乎还有人在我耳边轻轻呼唤。我的心在颤抖，我的心在恋爱。

23. The tears in my eyes scattered in the rain, as if someone was whispering softly in my ears. My heart trembles, my heart is in love.

24. 世界上最好的缘分就是有一个聊天的伙伴。不介意你说的太多，不会厌倦也不会厌倦很久，会一直陪着你，想着你的温暖，理解你的喜怒哀乐。

24. The best kind of fate in the world is to have a conversational partner. They won't mind if you talk too much, and they won't get tired or bored for a long time. They will always be by your side, cherishing your warmth, and understanding your joys and sorrows.

25. 我们的恋情是一个悲伤的词吗？你对我的伤害是一个不好的词吗？

25. Is our romance a sad word? Is the hurt you've caused me an unwelcome word?

26. 23幸福不是得到你想要的一切，而是享受你所拥有的一切。

26. 23 Happiness is not getting everything you want, but enjoying everything you have.

27. 恋爱容易，因为五官，相处不易，因为三观。

27. Falling in love is easy because of the five senses, but getting along is not because of the three views (worldview, life view, and value view).

28. 二十小时候刮奖刮出“谢”字还不扔，非要把“谢谢惠顾”都刮得干干净净才舍得放手，和后来太多事都一模一样。

28. After twenty hours, when scratching the lottery ticket and finding the word "Thank," I didn't throw it away. Instead, I had to scratch off "Thank you for your patronage" completely before I was willing to let go. It was just like so many other things that happened later.

29. 1哪有什么选择恐惧症，还不是因为穷；哪有什么优柔寡断，还不是因为怂。

29.1 What is there to be afraid of choosing, it's all because of poverty; what is there to be indecisive about, it's all because of being chicken-hearted.

30. 微风拂过脸颊，细雨落在窗台，思念的泪水肆意流淌。

30. A gentle breeze swept across the cheek, fine rain dripped onto the window sill, and the tears of longing flowed freely.

31. 痛可以忘记，伤却不能忘记。

31. Pain can be forgotten, but injuries cannot be forgotten.

32. 爱过的人和流过的泪是生命的珍贵象征。

32. The people loved and the tears shed are precious symbols of life.

33. 仰望孤独的天空，一张曾经的笑脸，恍惚的神情，满脸的笑容，把我拉回来了。

33. Gazing up at the solitary sky, a once smiling face, a dazed expression, and a full face of smiles drew me back.

34. 3最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。不能强迫别人来爱自己，只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人，其余的事情则靠缘分。

34. The most precious things are not the material possessions you own, but the people who accompany you. You cannot force others to love you, but you can strive to become someone worth loving. The rest depends on fate.

35. 不坚强的泪水依然顺着我的鼻子滑落。我送你上车，留给自己的只有这颗痛苦的心。

35. The weak tears still slid down my nose. I sent you off on the bus, leaving behind only this heart of pain.

36. 二十一别犹豫了，如果不合适就分手吧，你总不能把最好的年纪浪费在别人的另一半身上。这个世界上有更好的路值得你去走，有更好的歌等着你去听，也有更好的人等着你去爱。

36. Don't hesitate any longer, if it's not suitable, then break up. You can't waste the best years of your life on someone else's other half. There are better paths in this world worth walking, better songs waiting to be heard, and better people waiting to be loved.

37. 十四一段关系很难维持的话那就放弃吧，越强求，越卑微，你这么好，这么善良，这么勇敢，总会有真正值得的人把你捧在心尖。

37. If it's hard to maintain a relationship in the fourteenth segment, then give up. The more you force it, the more humble you become. You are so good, so kind, and so brave. There will always be someone truly worthy who cherishes you at the tip of their heart.

38. 四你的抑郁症是矫情，你的拖延症是懒，你的强迫症是闲得蛋疼，你的夜里失眠是因为清晨从未早起。

38. Your depression is sniveling, your procrastination is laziness, your obsession is boredom, and your insomnia at night is because you never wake up early in the morning.

39. 5我们大可以活成我们自己，活得更本色一点更真实一些，反正还是会有人喜欢你有人不喜欢你。但至少你会更喜欢你自己。

39.5 We can certainly live as ourselves, a bit more genuinely and authentically. After all, some people will like you and some won't. But at least you will like yourself more.

40. 那份悲伤留在心里，无论怎么填充，都会留下痛苦的痕迹。

40. That sadness remains in the heart, and no matter how it is filled, it will leave traces of pain.

41. 即使你任性，敏感，挑剔，他还是告诉你，做自己，爱你才是最好的爱。

41. Even if you are capricious, sensitive, and picky, he still tells you that being yourself and loving yourself is the best form of love.