夜幕低垂，星光熠熠，晚安心语，温暖如昔。在这静谧的夜晚，让我们一同走进友谊的港湾，感受那份真挚的善意。

As night falls and stars twinkle, the evening's soothing words, as warm as ever. In this tranquil night, let us all sail into the harbor of friendship and feel that genuine kindness.

1. 不要沉迷于过去，不要幻想未来，集中精力，过好当下的每一分钟。

1. Do not dwell on the past, do not daydream about the future, focus your energy, and make the most of every minute in the present.

2. 做有用的事，说积极的话，想美好的事，睡个好觉。把时间花在进步上，而不是抱怨。

2. Do useful things, say positive words, think of good things, and have a good night's sleep. Spend your time on progress rather than complaining.

3. 人生不苦，苦的是欲望太多；头脑不累，但抓太多就累了。你有善念，阳光就会照耀你；如果你很美，温暖会围绕着你；有了大爱，崇高就跟随着你；体谅别人，真情才会回报给你；心存感激，高尚的人才会青睐你。

3. Life is not bitter, it is the desire that makes it so; the mind is not tired, but it gets tired when it grasps too much. If you have good intentions, the sun will shine upon you; if you are beautiful, warmth will surround you; with great love, nobility will follow you; show compassion to others, and true feelings will be returned to you; be grateful, and noble people will favor you.

4. 《初恋的小事》:想起他，会有一点心痛，但还是愿意把他放在心里。直到今天，我也不知道他在哪里，在做什么，但至少，他让我知道了什么是初恋的小事。

4. "Small Matters of First Love": When I think of him, there's a bit of pain in my heart, but I'm still willing to keep him in my heart. Up to this day, I still don't know where he is or what he's doing, but at least, he has taught me what are the small matters of first love.

5. 我讨厌你长时间不理我，然后突然开始若无其事的跟我说话！

5. I hate it when you ignore me for a long time and then suddenly start talking to me as if nothing happened!

6. 最烦的烦，就是你根本不知道自己在烦什么，全身莫名其妙的负能量爆棚。

6. The most annoying frustration is when you have no idea what you're frustrated about, and you're overwhelmed by an inexplicable negative energy throughout your body.

7. 如果你不太在意，你就输了。如果你太在意，你会受伤。

7. If you don't care enough, you lose. If you care too much, you get hurt.

8. 吴欣怡《记忆中的我在等你》:有的女人能得到的很少，不在乎他一无所有，不在乎为了和他在一起要克服多少困难；但她也想要很多。她想要那个男人所有的真诚。如果没有，她宁愿放弃。

8. Wu Xin yi's "The Me in My Memory is Waiting for You": Some women can get very little, they don't care if he has nothing, and they don't care about how many difficulties they have to overcome to be with him; but she wants a lot too. She wants all the sincerity from that man. If it's not there, she would rather give up.

9. 女人不一定要漂亮，只要有人深爱；女人不必太有钱，只要开心就好；女人不必太强，只要过着高贵的生活就好。

9. A woman doesn't have to be beautiful as long as someone deeply loves her; she doesn't have to be rich as long as she is happy; she doesn't have to be too strong as long as she lives a noble life.

10. 现在比任何时候都清楚自己想要什么~ ~跟着自己的心走，一直追。

10. It is now clearer than ever what I want. ~ ~Follow my heart and keep pursuing it.

11. 再小的地方，也是温暖的家，是心灵的港湾。

11. Even in the smallest place, it's a warm home, a haven for the soul.

12. 不随意要求别人，不盲目要求自己，要善良，要真诚，要宽容别人，要严格要求自己，有得有失，有成有败，有聚有散，这是一种人生体验。

12. Do not arbitrarily demand from others, do not blindly demand from yourself, be kind, be sincere, be tolerant of others, be strict with yourself, there are gains and losses, successes and failures, gatherings and scatterings, which is a kind of life experience.

13. 睡觉:你会做一个梦，梦见我扮成鬼，穿着白衣服。你看不到我的脚，但你只能看到我白色衣服上的红色。我直直地看着你，对你说:下次你喂我酒的时候注意你的嘴巴。

13. Dreaming: You will dream that I am dressed as a ghost, wearing white clothes. You can't see my feet, but you can only see the red on my white clothes. I look straight at you and say: Next time when you give me wine, pay attention to your mouth.

14. 每天多做一点努力，不为别的，只为以后有更多的选择，选择云卷云舒的小生活，选择自己喜欢的人。

14. Put in a little more effort every day, not for any other reason, just so that in the future, you have more choices, to choose a simple life with clouds rolling in and out, to choose the people you like.

15. 一朵薄薄的荷花，孤独而不快乐，在干净的清水池塘里打坐，不与八卦，不与雨水，不与锦鲤鱼，不与污垢。婷婷挺立，不是为了博取风骚，而是得天独厚，得天独厚，一生耐得住寂寞，才会让人为之动容。

15. A thin lotus flower, lonely and unhappy, sits in a clean, clear pond, not mingling with the eight trigrams, not mingling with the rainwater, not mingling with the goldfish, not mingling with filth. It stands tall and proud, not for the sake of attracting attention, but because of its inherent grace, its inherent grace. It endures loneliness throughout its life, which is why it moves people to tears.

16. 人生是一系列的选择，关键是要懂得承担选择的结果。

16. Life is a series of choices, the key is to understand the consequences of the choices made.

17. 我是尘土中的一朵花。没有你的爱，我如何绽放？

17. I am a flower in the dust. Without your love, how can I bloom?

18. 善良的人总会痛苦，悲伤的负担似乎是与生俱来的，所以只有忍耐。

18. Kind-hearted people always suffer, and the burden of sadness seems to be innate, thus only endurance.

19. 你不会发现自己有多强，直到有一天你发现身边所有的支点都倒了，你还没倒。

19. You won't realize how strong you are until the day you find that all the fulcrums around you have fallen, and you haven't.

20. 不要贪图无意义的人和事，提着垃圾的手怎么可能有空收礼物。

20. Don't be obsessed with meaningless people and things; how can you have room to receive gifts when you are holding a bag of trash?

21. 不要指望对方为你付出一切。你认为你的体重真的或者应该比你的父母和朋友更重要吗？如果你重要，也只是比其中的一个或几个重要，但也许她会在必要的时候为你献出自己的生命！

21. Don't expect the other person to give everything for you. Do you really think your weight is more important or should be more important than your parents and friends? If you are important, it's only more important than one or a few of them, but she might even sacrifice her life for you when necessary!

22. 我应该利用所有等待的时间让自己变得更好。直到遇见你的那一天，我可以自信地说你很好，但我不坏。

22. I should use all the waiting time to become better myself. Until the day I meet you, I can confidently say you are good, but not that bad.

23. 回忆，美好，却很受伤；回忆，就是回不到过去的回忆。

23. Memories are beautiful, yet they cause deep wounds; memories are the recollection of the past that cannot be returned to.

24. 我在左边，给你天使的浪漫；你在右边，承诺给我一个温暖的未来。

24. I am on the left, giving you the romance of an angel; you are on the right, promising me a warm future.

25. 那个季风里的花香，这个季节你活在了谁的心里？

25. The fragrance of flowers in the monsoon, who has you living in their heart this season?

26. 在我心里，牢牢抓住你的心，不想让你的心离开我的世界；在我心里，你就像是拯救我的天使，魔鬼；在我心里，你永远不会离开我，因为我不想你离开我。

26. In my heart, I hold onto your heart tightly, not wanting to let your heart leave my world; in my heart, you are like an angel, a devil, who saves me; in my heart, you will never leave me, because I don't want you to leave me.

27. 感情方面，柔弱的女生有时候要狠一点。苏秦说，我宁愿孤独，也不愿违心。我宁愿后悔也不愿将就。——我会等待那个能进入我内心的国王。我不在乎那些不进入我内心的人。不管生活有多诱惑，我就是这么坚定。

27. In terms of emotions, sometimes weak girls need to be a bit ruthless. Su Qin said, "I would rather be alone than betray my own heart. I would rather regret than compromise." — I will wait for that king who can enter my innermost self. I don't care about those who cannot enter my heart. No matter how tempting life may be, I am this resolute.

28. 所谓生命可贵，爱情更贵；有空的话，两个都可以扔。其实这就是有情有义，大爱大悲，所以一个人可以失去一切，但不能没有悲天悯人。

28. As they say, life is precious, love even more so; if you have the time, you can discard both. In fact, this is what it means to have both love and righteousness, great love and great compassion. Therefore, a person can lose everything, but cannot do without compassion for the sufferings of others.

29. 幸福就像奈何桥上的一碗孟婆汤。寒温咸淡，饮者自知。青春本该快乐，我们本可以快乐。

29. Happiness is like a bowl of孟婆汤 (Mengpo's medicine) at the bridge of no return. Its temperature and flavor are known to the drinker. Youth should be joyful, and we can be joyful.

30. 人生，顺其自然，上天自有安排。把悲伤留给昨天，把希望留给明天。你总能找到任何事情的答案。与其担心，不如顺其自然。

30. Life should be lived according to its own course, and the heavens have their own arrangements. Leave the sorrows of yesterday behind and the hopes for tomorrow. You will always find the answers to any matter. It is better to go with the flow than to worry.

31. 你这么善解人意，一定遇到过很多不讲道理的人。

31. You are so understanding and considerate, you must have encountered many unreasonable people.

32. 安静不寂寞。依赖也是一种温暖。空虚的心灵总会被幸福填满。简单的快乐，满满的美好时光。

32. Quiet is not lonely. Dependence is also a warmth. The empty soul will always be filled with happiness. Simple joy, abundant good times.

33. 这个世界上坏人和好人一样多，我不敢敞开心扉，因为我不确定你面具下的脸在我痛苦的时候是哭还是笑。

33. Bad people and good people are equally numerous in this world, and I dare not open my heart because I'm unsure whether the face behind your mask will cry or smile when I am in pain.

34. 不要太善良。毕竟有些人真的不是人。没必要什么都争论。教白痴做人不是我的任务。况且有嘴的人不一定有脑子！

34. Don't be too kind. After all, some people are truly not human. There's no need to argue about everything. Teaching idiots how to be human is not my responsibility. Moreover, not everyone who has a mouth also has a brain!

35. 一个人的冷漠，最终会让另一个人沉默。心再热，也会渐渐凉下来；再怎么执着，也要慢慢退缩。

35. A person's indifference will eventually silence another. No matter how warm the heart, it will gradually cool down; no matter how persistent, one must gradually retreat.

36. 每个人的人生都是自己的。走什么样的路，只能由他自己决定。没有圣人或专家能帮助你。善于发现和认识自己比什么都重要。

36. Each person's life is their own. The path one chooses to take can only be decided by themselves. No sage or expert can help you. Being good at discovering and understanding yourself is more important than anything else.

37. 缘分不是人海中两个人的一次擦肩而过。缘分是不可能遇见的。比如我是天上的鸟，你是林中的豹。我们碰巧相爱。

37. Fate is not just a chance encounter between two people in the sea of humanity. Fate is something that cannot be met by chance. For example, if I am a bird in the sky and you are a leopard in the forest, we happen to fall in love.

38. 我们总是试图像智者一样安慰别人，却像傻瓜一样折磨自己。很多时候，和自己相处不好的总是自己。

38. We always try to comfort others like a wise person, but torture ourselves like an idiot. Often, the one who gets along poorly with ourselves is always ourselves.

39. 赚钱是生活的动力。你要吃，要穿，要买房，要买车，要生活，你就要挣钱，因为只有钱才能做到这一点。有人说我做这个生意或者工作是因为爱。那么我想问:你现在还做你以前做的工作，不给你工资吗？。

39. Making money is the driving force of life. You need to eat, to wear clothes, to buy a house, to buy a car, and to live. You have to make money, because only money can accomplish this. Some people say I do this business or job because I love it. Then I want to ask: Do you still do the job you used to do, and not pay you a salary for it?

40. 世界不会因为你的疲惫而停止。今天不努力走，明天就得跑。如果分离不可避免，我们能做的就是让自己变得越来越强大，足以应对下一次的分离。

40. The world will not stop for your fatigue. If you don't work hard to walk today, you'll have to run tomorrow. If separation is inevitable, the only thing we can do is to become stronger and stronger, enough to cope with the next separation.

41. 我们曾渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现，人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容;我们曾期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道，世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系;我们曾计较付出的回报，到最后才懂得，一切得到终将失去的，只能空留一抹浮名。走好选择的路，别选择好走的路，你才能拥有真正的自己。

41. We had longed for the vicissitudes of fate, only to find out in the end that the most enchanting scenery in life is the calmness and composure of the mind; we had anticipated recognition from the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others; we had counted the return on our investments, only to understand in the end that everything gained will eventually be lost, leaving behind only a faint fame. Walk the path of your choice, not the easy path, and you will truly possess yourself.

42. 人生，从自己的哭声开始，在别人的泪水里结束，这中间的时光，就叫做幸福。

42. Life begins with one's own cries and ends in others' tears; the time in between is what we call happiness.

43. 在这个光怪陆离的人间，没有谁可以将日子过得行云流水。但我始终相信，走过平湖烟雨，岁月山河，那些历尽劫数、尝遍百味的人，会更加生动而干净。时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。

43. In this fantastical and surreal world, no one can live their days as smoothly as flowing clouds. But I always believe that those who have endured hardships, tasted a myriad of flavors, and traversed both tranquil lakes and misty rivers of time, will become more vivid and pure. Time is always a bystander, and all processes and outcomes require us to bear the responsibility ourselves.

44. 当你爱一个人的时候你就应该说出来。生命只是时间中的一个停顿，一切的意义都只在它发生的那一时刻。不要等。不要在以后讲这个故事。

44. When you love someone, you should say it. Life is just a pause in time, and all meaning is only in the moment it happens. Don't wait. Don't tell this story later.

45. 善良从来都不是随地乱射的烂好心，也不是舍身喂狼的蠢货，更不是对谁都好的没底线。善良像钻石，在对方相应的角度上，才能绽放光芒。

45. Kindness is never aimless generosity, nor is it foolishness in feeding wolves at one's own expense, nor is it having no底线 when being nice to everyone. Kindness is like a diamond, which can only shine in the right angle corresponding to the other person.

46. 在这个世界上，没有人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事，别人也许会同情，也许会嗟叹，但永远不会清楚你伤口究竟溃烂到何种境地。所以，无所谓把血痂撕开让人参观。

46. In this world, no one can truly empathize with another person's pain. When you are pierced by thousands of arrows, and feel like you can't bear the pain, it is only your own matter. Others may sympathize or sigh, but they will never truly understand how rotten your wounds have become. Therefore, it doesn't matter whether you rip open the scabs for others to see.

47. 当我对所有的事情都厌倦的时候，我就会想到你，想到你在世界的某个地方生活着，存在着，我就愿意忍受一切。你的存在对我很重要。

47. When I am tired of everything, I think of you, thinking that you are living and existing somewhere in the world. In that thought, I am willing to endure everything. Your existence is very important to me.

48. 你的勇气是你最大的贵人。它未必可以帮你搞定一切难题，却能让你在风雨路上笑着狂奔!我欣赏那些不管不顾的任性，只有青春年少，才无惧摔疼的人生!所以，永远不要怯懦。软弱你就真输了!

48. Your courage is your greatest benefactor. It may not help you solve all the difficulties, but it can let you run laughing through the storms and trials! I admire that kind of任性 that dares to go against all odds, for only in youth can one be fearless of life's pain and falls! So, never be timid. If you are weak, you have truly lost!

49. 如此情深，却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人，内心酸涩，反而会说不出话来，甜言蜜语，多数说给不相干的人听。

49. Such deep love, yet hard to express. It turns out that if you truly love someone, the heart's bitterness is so profound that you can't find words to say. Sweet nothings are often said to those who are not involved.

50. 以后一定要对男朋友好一点，毕竟他是这个世界上眼光最好的人。

50. You must take better care of your boyfriend in the future, after all, he is the best-looking person in the world.

51. 人为什么要努力，因为这世界我们第一次来，也是最后一次。

51. Why should people strive? Because this world is our first visit and also our last.

52. 当一个女人变得安静，那就意味着她在逼着自己放下。

52. When a woman becomes quiet, it means she is forcing herself to let go.

53. 多年后，再回想年少时的迷茫和执著，或许原因都记不得了。青春就是让你张扬的笑，也给你莫名的痛。

53. Years later, when reminiscing about the confusion and persistence of one's youth, perhaps the reasons are all forgotten. Youth is about letting yourself laugh out loud, yet it also gives you an inexplicable pain.

54. 越成长越觉得很多东西不必看得太重，比如外界对你的期望，比如无关紧要的人对你喜欢与否。过分看重就会迷失自我，仅仅是活出了他人帮你定义的成功。为了讨好别人，踮着脚尖改来改去，而被别人绑架了人生。一路走下来，才明白真正的魅力不是你应该变成谁，而是你本身是谁。

54. As I grow older, I find that many things don't need to be taken too seriously, such as the expectations of others towards you, or the likes and dislikes of insignificant people. Overvaluing these things can lead to losing oneself, merely living up to the success that others have defined for you. To please others, one treads on tiptoe and constantly changes, being held captive by others' definition of life. It is only after going through it all that one realizes that the true charm is not about who you should become, but who you actually are.

55. 有些东西一直在变，但有些东西却从未变过，只不过一直坚持的不再需要别人知道罢了。

55. Some things have always been changing, but some things have never changed at all; it's just that the things we have always insisted on no longer need others to know.

56. 脾气坏的人往往把天气和风向当作一个借口来掩饰他们那又暴躁又阴郁的脾气。

56. People with bad tempers often use the weather and wind direction as an excuse to hide their temper, which is both fiery and gloomy.

57. 所谓暖男的定义，他只温暖你一个人，对别人冷若冰霜，这才是暖男，暖一堆人的那叫中央空调。

57. The definition of a "暖男" (a warm-hearted man) is that he warms only one person, treating others as cold as ice. That's what a "暖男" is. Warming a group of people is like being a "central air conditioner."

58. 你从最初的年少轻狂，到如今内敛静默;从独自生活的凌乱，到如今能把自己照顾得很好;从最初的恋恋不舍，到如今的彻底遗忘;从爱得奋不顾身，爱到如今小心翼翼。时间是一剂药，在疗程里，我们都会慢慢变成另一个人。只愿痊愈后，我们没有变成最初自己鄙视的那个模样。

58. You have evolved from the youthful recklessness of your early years to the reserved and silent you are now; from the chaotic life of solitude to the ability to take care of yourself well today; from the initial reluctance to let go to the complete forgetting of the past; from love that was reckless and selfless to the cautious love of today. Time is a medicine, and during the course of treatment, we all gradually transform into someone else. I only wish that after recovery, we have not become the person we once despised.

59. 得不到回报的付出，要懂得适可而止。否则，打扰了别人伤了自己。

59. When your efforts are not appreciated, you should know when to stop. Otherwise, you may disturb others and harm yourself.

60. 为了未来美一点，现在必须苦一点 。低头不算认输，放弃才是懦夫。

60. In order to make the future a bit better, we must endure some hardship now. Bowing down does not mean admitting defeat; giving up is the act of a coward.

61. 多年以后，我们都长大了。经过谎言，承受欺骗，习惯敷衍，忘记誓言，放下了一切。世界惩罚了我们的天真，磨损了我们的梦。但内心还是不断地闭合，勇敢地开放，一往无前地爱。既然无法得到，索性就放手成长吧。年少的忧伤是人生必经的花园。

61. Many years later, we have all grown up. We've endured lies, deception, complacency, forgotten promises, and let go of everything. The world has punished our innocence, worn down our dreams. But within us, there is a constant closing, a brave opening, and an unwavering love. Since we cannot obtain it, let us simply let go and grow. The sorrow of youth is a garden that everyone must pass through in life.

62. 别把所有的委屈都照单全收，别总在暗里咬着牙独自逞强，别怕拒绝别人，别怕麻烦到人，别让你的善良伤到了自己。

62. Don't take all the grievances on board, don't always bite your teeth in the dark and struggle alone, don't be afraid to reject others, don't be afraid to trouble people, and don't let your kindness hurt yourself.

63. 有些人，因为新鲜感而爱你。而有些人，是因为看懂了你的灵魂。前者会在热情消退后离开，而后者可以陪你一辈子。所以爱的再热烈，也不如爱的有理由。长长的爱，需要一个深深的缘由。

63. Some people love you for the thrill of newness, while others love you for understanding your soul. The former will leave once the passion fades, but the latter can accompany you for a lifetime. Therefore, no matter how intense the love may be, it's not as good as love with a reason. A long-lasting love requires a profound reason.

64. 有时候想想，人生真是太艰难了。小时候觉得只要有一根棒棒糖就满足了，长大一点觉得考试考到满分天就亮了，再大些觉得能跟喜欢的姑娘一起吹吹风就是整个世界了。再后来，就变的很难高兴起来了，愿望越来越大，日子也越来越难过。回头想想，已经买得起很多棒棒糖了，但棒棒糖再也不是我们高兴的理由了。

64. Sometimes I think, life is just too tough. When I was little, I thought having a lollipop would make me happy. As I grew older, I believed that scoring full marks on exams would bring the dawn. Then, I thought that being able to blow the breeze with the girl I liked was the whole world. Later on, it became increasingly difficult to be cheerful. My desires grew larger, and my days became harder. Looking back, I've been able to afford many lollipops, but they are no longer a reason for us to be happy.

65. 一直没有做一件事的勇气，却又不甘心，时间就在自己跟自己赌气中耗尽了。

65. There was always a lack of courage to do something, yet there was also a reluctance to give up, and time was wasted in a quarrel with oneself.

66. 情商高呢，主要是让别人高兴;智商高呢，主要是让自己高兴;智商不高情商也不高呢，主要就是自己不高兴了还不让别人高兴。

66. High emotional intelligence mainly makes others happy; high intelligence mainly makes oneself happy; if neither emotional intelligence nor intelligence is high, then mainly it's oneself who is not happy and doesn't make others happy either.

67. 我负责：生我的人，我生的人，我挂念：相濡以沫的爱人，肝胆相照的朋友。我谢绝：做事不道义的人，处事无诚义的人。我珍惜：敢借给我钱的人，真心牵挂我的人。我远离：遇到好事就伸手的人，碰到难处就躲闪的人。我敬佩：年轻时陪男人过苦日子的女人，富裕时陪女人过好日子的男人。

67. I am responsible for: the person who gave me life, the one I gave life to. I cherish: the loving partner who stands by me in life's struggles, the friend who is loyal to the core. I decline: those who act immorally, those who lack sincerity in their dealings. I value: those who lend me money with confidence, those who truly care for me. I keep at a distance: those who reach out for help when things are good, those who躲闪 when faced with difficulties. I admire: the woman who stands by a man in hard times, the man who supports a woman when times are prosperous.

68. 为了未来美一点，现在必须苦一点。低头不算认输，放弃才是懦夫。

68. To make the future look a bit better, we must endure some hardships now. Bowing down does not mean giving in; giving up is the act of a coward.

69. 你一定有过这样的时候吧，想要倾诉，却发现身边无人。所以，你习惯了孤独，学会了坚强。

69. You must have had such a time when you wanted to vent your feelings but found no one around. So, you got used to solitude and learned to be strong.

70. 长大后才发现，有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。

70. It's only when I grow up that I realize that sometimes, even if you speak the truth, you still have to apologize, because you've exposed the truth. So, to live smoothly, always carry your brain with you.

71. 永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。人生路上，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。

71. Never blame others for not helping you, nor ever blame others for not caring about you. On the journey of life, the only one who can truly help you is always yourself.

72. 任何事都讲求一个过程，你永远都不知道未来自己能走到哪，但能确定今天可以走多久。迷茫有时，低谷有时，彷徨有时，浮躁有时，其实你知道怎么做，有时候只是懒了一点而已。

72. Everything follows a process, and you can never know how far you will go in the future, but you can be sure of how long you can go today. Sometimes you may feel confused, at a low point, lost, or restless, but actually, you know what to do; sometimes it's just that you're a bit lazy.

73. 有的鞋丢了心疼穿着脚疼，把脚磨出了泡还舍不得丢掉，说明你喜欢!你觉得会有好的一天，有一天这个泡让你日夜疼痛，才发现，这样的坚持是多么的不值得。因这双鞋从没心疼过你。疼痛中才知道脚上的泡是自己走的!有时候我们付出了全部却没得到自己想要的!鞋子漂亮与否不重要，重要的是合脚。

73. Some shoes are lost and you feel heartbroken, and your feet hurt while wearing them. Even after your feet are worn raw and blisters form, you're reluctant to discard them, which shows that you like them! You think there will be a good day, but one day you realize that the blister is causing you pain day and night, and then you discover that such perseverance is not worth it. Because this pair of shoes has never cared for you. It's only in the pain that you realize the blister on your foot is a result of your own walking! Sometimes we give everything and still don't get what we want. Whether the shoes are beautiful or not is not important; what matters is whether they fit well.

74. 如果事与愿违，就相信上天一定另有安排;所有失去的，都会以另外一种方式归来。相信自己，相信时间不会亏待你。

74. If things do not turn out as planned, believe that heaven has another arrangement in store; all that is lost will return in another form. Trust in yourself, and believe that time will not be unkind to you.

75. 我永远不够好，我也不完美，可这又有什么呢 ，这就是我，有时欢喜，有时伤感，有时奋进，有时懒散，有时坚强，有时脆弱，有时包容，有时不屑，但我一直走在更好的路上。

75. I am never good enough, and I am not perfect, but what of it? This is who I am. Sometimes I am joyful, sometimes I am sad, sometimes I am determined, sometimes I am lazy, sometimes I am strong, sometimes I am fragile, sometimes I am accommodating, sometimes I am indifferent, but I have always been walking on the path to becoming better.

76. 不要为别人委屈自己，改变自己。你是唯一的你，珍贵的你，骄傲的你，美丽的你。一定要好好爱自己。

76. Do not委屈 yourself for others, or change yourself. You are the only you, the precious you, the proud you, and the beautiful you. You must love yourself well.

77. 不要自认为你在玩弄女人的感情，很多的女人玩男人比男人玩女人的招数要高得多。

77. Don't assume you are playing with a woman's feelings; many women are more adept at playing men than men are at playing women.

78. 心灵是个极不稳定的器官，说不准何时会出现一片空白或心神不属，唯在静定时才会冒出思想的火花。

78. The mind is an extremely unstable organ, prone to moments of emptiness or disengagement. Ideas only spark to life during periods of calm and stillness.

79. 人的心底，都有两方区域：一方善良区域，遇到真性情，自动会打开;一方戒备区域，遇到假恶丑，即刻拉警报。

79. In the depths of the human heart, there are two areas: one is the kind-hearted area, which automatically opens when encountering genuine nature; the other is the cautious area, which immediately triggers an alarm when encountering falseness, evil, and ugliness.

80. 最容易令人感到温暖和惊喜的是陌生人，因为你对他们没有期望。最容易令人感到心寒和悲哀的是亲人，因为你爱他们。

80. The most likely to bring warmth and surprise are strangers, because you have no expectations of them. The most likely to bring coldness and sadness are loved ones, because you love them.

81. 长大了，总有那么一两次，你会为重视的人奔跑，因为是对的人，走路真的来不及。

81. When you grow up, there will always be one or two times when you will run for the people you value, because it's with the right person that walking simply isn't enough.