再苦再累，都要把儿子带在身边说说。（再苦再累，都要坚定地说说。）

No matter how hard or tired you are, you must bring your son along and talk to him. (No matter how hard or tired you are, you must firmly talk to him.)

1. 12这两天真的是累到有些烦躁，带孩子的时候脾气特别大，自己也知道不好，但是也确实一肚子的火想发。

1. In the past two days, I've been so exhausted that I'm feeling a bit irritable. When taking care of the kids, I get really impatient, and I know it's not good, but I really have a lot of frustration that I want to vent.

2. 2在我带孩子这几年最累最辛苦的时候不来帮我，不来关心我。以后有什么事情也不必来打扰我，人心换人心，别说我无情

2.2 You didn't come to help me or show concern for me during the years when taking care of my child was the most exhausting and arduous. In the future, there's no need to disturb me with any matters. People's hearts are exchanged for each other's, don't say I'm unfeeling.

3. 17带孩子的心酸，不被人理解，什么都怪当妈的。身体和精神都感觉要崩溃。

3. The bitterness of bringing up a child, not being understood by others, and everything being blamed on the mother. Both physically and mentally, one feels like they are about to collapse.

4. 22没人帮忙带孩子的心酸，谁也不能懂。九个月了才16斤的娃，一定要健康长大。

4. The bitter reality of having no one to help take care of the child, no one can understand that. A child weighing only 16 jin at nine months old must grow up healthy.

5. 一个既要上班又要带娃的女人的生活：下班回家先带孩子小区一通溜达，回家擦完狗叮了咣当做饭，蒸煮炸炒做完了，孩子发起烧来打蔫儿没胃口了，唉，接茬儿哄睡吧，夜里估计得战斗了命也挺好的，起码娃赶上周末生病啊。

5. Life of a woman who has to work and take care of her children: After work, she first takes the kids for a stroll around the community, then comes home to clean up the dog and start cooking. After finishing steaming, boiling, frying, and stir-frying, the child starts to have a fever and looks listless with no appetite. Alas, it's time to comfort and put the child to sleep. It's expected to be a battle at night, but at least the child is sick during the weekend.

6. 20女人四劫；怀孕之难，生子之痛，月子之仇，带娃之苦！尝遍四劫，来日方长！

6. The 20-year hardship for women: the difficulty of pregnancy, the pain of giving birth, the resentment of postpartum, and the toil of child-rearing! Having endured all four hardships, the future is long!

7. 6好烦躁，真的是烦躁，带孩子的人是不是脾气大，男人不争气，小孩不好带，婆家又不肯带，自己一个人天天熬夜熬到半夜，没的脾气才怪，好烦躁

7. 6 So annoying, really annoying. Is it that people who take care of children are bad-tempered? Men are not up to the mark, children are hard to handle, and the in-laws are unwilling to take care of them. All by myself, I stay up all night till midnight every day, not to be annoyed would be strange, so annoying.

8. 10也不知道宝宝会不会想妈妈。带宝宝久了会很烦，休息不够会很累，可是宝宝那么可爱也有好玩的。

8. 10 doesn't know if the baby misses Mommy. Taking care of the baby for a long time can be quite烦人, and not getting enough rest can be tiring, but the baby is so cute and there are also fun things to do with them.

9. 你踏上的路很苦。你可以哭，但不要回头。

9. The path you have chosen is bitter. You can cry, but do not turn back.

10. 35放暑假比不放暑假还累得慌，一个人带俩孩子，分分钟情绪能崩溃，体会到没人带孩子的心酸，也体会到自己为什么会越来越坚强，都是生活所逼。

10. Taking a summer vacation is even more tiring than not taking one. Taking care of two children on my own, I can feel my emotions crumbling at any moment. I understand the heartache of not having anyone to take care of the kids, and also why I am becoming increasingly strong. It's all forced upon me by life.

11. 25独自带娃第二天：累，非常累。不是抱着能减肥的信念恐怕我是坚持不了两个月。越来越好动了。活脱脱的一只猴子。

11. Day 2 of bringing the baby alone: I'm exhausted, incredibly exhausted. Without the belief that carrying the baby can help me lose weight, I probably couldn't last for two months. I'm getting more and more active. I'm a lively monkey.

12. 18这世界上最幸福的感受就是天伦之乐了。即使体验了亲自带孩子的心酸。 能生为什么不多生？所以有机会还是要生的？

12. The happiest feeling in the world is the joy of family life. Even though it's painful to experience the hardships of raising children personally. If one can give birth, why not have more children? So, whenever there's an opportunity, why not have another child?

13. 3独自带娃第二天：累，非常累。不是抱着能减肥的信念恐怕我是坚持不了两个月。越来越好动了。活脱脱的一只猴子。

13. 3rd day of taking care of the baby alone: Exhausting, very tiring. Without the belief that carrying the baby can help me lose weight, I probably couldn't last for two months. I'm getting more and more active. I'm turning into a monkey.

14. 7一个女人拼命努力的结果就是这样的心酸，一个人带孩子，一个人操持着自己所谓的家。没人理解，没人帮你。

14. The hard work of a woman comes to such a heart-wrenching point: raising a child alone, managing what she calls her own home. No one understands, no one helps you.

15. 30一个人带孩子越来越累，随着孩子的长大，问题越来越多，各种不听话，出门带孩子玩，对我来说都是压力。

15. Taking care of a child alone is getting increasingly tiring. As the child grows up, problems are multiplying, and all sorts of disobedience are present. Taking the child out to play is a source of pressure for me.

16. 当你一个人，熬过了所有的磨难，你一定会遇到所有的好。你要相信，在这个世界上，终于有一个人，穿越人海，只为遇见你。

16. When you go through all the hardships alone, you will definitely encounter all the good things. You have to believe that in this world, there is finally someone who has crossed the sea of people just to meet you.

17. 12我害怕的是，即使我用尽生命一直跑一直跑，也到不了你到的地方。

17. 12 What I fear is that even if I run and run until my life is spent, I will never reach the place you have reached.

18. 23带宝宝真的好累好累啊，带得心情烦躁，可是仔细想想，你这样依赖有人抱着，这样天真无邪的样子其实也没多久了。

18. Taking care of the baby is really, really tiring. It makes me feel restless, but when I think about it, this innocent dependence on being held, this innocent look, actually won't last for long.

19. 24每天晚上带宝宝带的心累，有时真的好想发火，但是看到他对我笑，又会觉得都很值得。

19. 24 Take the baby out every night and it's really tiring. Sometimes, I really want to lose my temper, but when I see him smiling at me, I think it's all worth it.

20. 我的天呢，谁能给我找个周六日不上班的工作或在家就能工作的活啊，又想挣钱又要带孩子太难啦啊！

20. Oh my goodness, who can find me a job that doesn't require working on weekends or something I can do from home? It's so hard to earn money and take care of children at the same time!

21. 女人在婚姻里很累，既要工作，又要带孩子，还要承担家务，所以男人在婚姻生活里的责任应该不单单只是赚钱，也需要和女人一起担负起照顾家庭的责任，这样的婚姻才会幸福持久！如果夫妻二人工资水平各5千，男人下了班额外做一点点事，就认为自己是男强人了，在外面打拼回家还帮老婆。殊不知，干那点小活不及女人的五分之一。

21. Women are very tired in marriage, as they have to work, take care of children, and also manage the household chores. Therefore, the responsibility of men in married life should not be solely about earning money, but also about sharing the responsibility of taking care of the family with women, so that such a marriage can be happy and lasting! If both partners earn 5,000 yuan each, and the man thinks he is a strong man because he does a little extra work after work and helps his wife at home, he doesn't realize that doing that small amount of work is not even a fifth of what women do.

22. 13自己带孩子的时候真的只差抱着他上厕所，那种心酸谁懂。

22. When I was taking care of my child by myself, I was just a step away from holding him to go to the bathroom. Who can understand that heartache?

23. 1每次带宝宝出门都会准备很多东西，不带怕宝宝要用到，但每次都用不上把自己累个半死。

23. 1 Every time I take the baby out, I prepare a lot of things, afraid that the baby might need them, but each time, I end up not using them and get myself exhausted.

24. 当妈妈没觉得累，当一个既要上班又要带孩子的妈妈也没觉得多累，但是当一个既要上班带孩子又要照顾脚伤老公的妈妈真的太累了。

24. When the mother doesn't feel tired, when a mother who has to work and take care of children doesn't feel very tired either, but when a mother who has to work, take care of children, and also look after her husband who is injured in his foot, it's really too tiring.

25. 环境和条件都不是学习的决定性因素，只有人的内在因素才是最重要的，你不能因为学习条件差就给自己不努力学习找借口。

25. Neither the environment nor the conditions are determinative factors of learning; only the intrinsic factors of a person are the most important. You cannot use poor learning conditions as an excuse for not studying hard.

26. 3一个女人拼命努力的结果就是这样的心酸，一个人带孩子，一个人操持着自己所谓的家。没人理解，没人帮你。

26. The hard work of a woman comes to this heart-wrenching result: taking care of a child alone and managing what she calls her own home. No one understands, no one helps you.

27. 39翻看以前的照片，不免一阵心酸，带孩子好累总是盼着孩子快快长大，可是她长大了，我已老去真是岁月不饶人，物是人非。

27. 39 Glancing through the old photos, an inevitable pang of sorrow arises. Taking care of a child is so tiring, always hoping for the child to grow up quickly. But as she grows up, I am getting older. It truly is that time flies, and things change while people stay the same.

28. 我宁愿是0对30，也不愿是0对9，因为后者意味着你已经失去了信心。-科比·布莱恩特

28. I would rather be 0 to 30 than 0 to 9, because the latter means you have lost confidence. - Kobe Bryant

29. 38今天带宝宝去了迪士尼小镇，啊，虽然没怎么抱她，也累得不行。拍照水平不行，就拍了三张，后面没有拍了！

29. 38 Today, I took the baby to Disney Town. Oh, although I didn't hold her much, I was exhausted. My photography skills aren't great, so I only took three photos, and didn't take any more after that!

30. 10希望能尽快熬过这最辛苦的时光，带着孩子一路披荆斩棘跋山涉水，抵达最美的风景。

30.10 I hope to get through this most arduous period as soon as possible, braving thorns and boulders with my child, climbing mountains and crossing rivers, to reach the most beautiful scenery.

31. 9草莓宝宝第一次看**，一个半小时的过程还算乖，前半程好好在看，后半程有点多动。全天不知道跑了多少趟厕所，带娃出去玩，真心累！

31. 9. The little strawberry baby saw it for the first time, and the process lasted an hour and a half, which was relatively well-behaved. The first half was fine, but the second half was a bit hyperactive. Throughout the day, I don't know how many times I went to the bathroom, it was really tiring to take the kid out to play!

32. 工作与家庭之间真的很难平衡。上学还好说，大不了起早点送；放学你不能提前下班去接吧。接完了你也不能直接带到上班的地方去吧。找个赚钱的老公还好，有个人养家糊口日子还能过下去；找个不上班游手好闲的老公，又要带孩子又要上班，这日子该怎么过？

32. It's really hard to balance work and family. It's manageable with school, you can just wake up earlier to send them off; but you can't leave work early to pick them up after school. After picking them up, you can't just take them straight to your workplace either. If you have a husband who earns a living, it's still doable, as long as someone is supporting the family; but if you have a husband who doesn't work and is idle, and you have to take care of the children while working, how are you supposed to make ends meet?

33. 23宝妈一个！带宝宝去爬山！累的要命！！但是宝宝很开心！在累也值得。

33. One of the 23 mothers! Taking the baby hiking! So tired it's killing me!! But the baby is really happy! It's worth it even if I'm tired.

34. 28这两天真的是累到有些烦躁，带孩子的时候脾气特别大，自己也知道不好，但是也确实一肚子的火想发。

34. 28 These two days have been really tiring, and I've been quite irritable while taking care of the kids. I know it's not good, but I truly have a lot of frustration that I want to let out.

35. 1每次带娃累到快崩溃的时候，就会对自己说：就辛苦这一年左右，小孩成长得太快了，然后就一直坚持自己带孩子。

35. 1 Every time I'm exhausted to the point of near collapse from taking care of the baby, I tell myself: It's just hard for about a year, and the child grows up so quickly, so I keep on with taking care of the child myself.

36. 16孩子在渐渐长大，感觉终于熬过来了，一切值得，未来可期，带娃的艰辛过程，只有自己知道，余生好好爱自己。

36. The 16-year-old child is growing up, feeling that they have finally made it through, and everything is worth it, the future is promising. The hardships of raising a child are known only to oneself, so let's love ourselves for the rest of our lives.

37. 当你觉得这条路不好走的时候，那一定是上坡。

37. When you feel that this road is not easy to walk on, it must be an uphill climb.

38. 19带孩子就是猫一时狗一时，昨天不吵不闹能吃能睡，今天就能吵得你头疼脾气大

38. Raising a child is like a cat one moment and a dog the next. Yesterday, they were quiet and not causing any trouble, able to eat and sleep well, but today they might be so noisy and irritating that it gives you a headache and makes you lose your temper.

39. 7亲身体验了一下我闺蜜周末在家带孩子的生活，让我有些怕，不羡慕婚姻，只憧憬爱情。

39. I had a firsthand experience of my best friend's life of taking care of her children at home on weekends, which somewhat scared me. I don't envy marriage, but I only long for love.

40. 我虽然辛苦，但还是会选择那种火热的生活。

40. Although I am hardworking, I would still choose that fiery kind of life.

41. 33一个人带孩子的心酸，有的人是不会懂的，所以谈不上什么体谅。

41. The bitterness of taking care of a child alone is something that some people will never understand, so there's no room for any empathy.

42. 31现在我们俩带娃已经游刃有余，妹妹也越来越懂事。从来没有想过自己能一个人带两个孩子，后来发现没什么不可能的。

42. 31 Now, we both handle taking care of the baby with ease, and the younger sister is also growing more responsible. I never thought I could take care of two children on my own, but later on, I found out that there's nothing impossible.

43. 24独自带娃第二天：累，非常累。不是抱着能减肥的信念恐怕我是坚持不了两个月。越来越好动了。活脱脱的一只猴子。

43. Day 2 of taking care of the baby alone: Exhausting, very exhausting. If I didn't have the belief that holding the baby would help me lose weight, I probably couldn't last for two months. I'm getting more and more active. I'm like a lively monkey.

44. 14整天一个人带孩子奶奶一来我是一分钟都不想抱好不容易能轻松一下！带娃太累了！

44. For 14 whole days, I had to take care of the baby alone, and as soon as my grandmother came, I didn't want to hold the baby for a minute. It's finally time for a break! Taking care of a baby is so tiring!

45. 上班，带娃。终于忙碌完一天的任务了，娃哄睡了，家务也干完了，洗完澡躺床上。每天这个时候就是自己一个人的时间了，这个时代的女人真厉害，又要会赚钱，又要带孩子。而且我还是那种根本不让自己停下来的人，难得空闲也会把时间安排得满满的。

45. Work, take care of the child. Finally, I've completed all the tasks for the day. The child has been put to sleep, the housework is done, and I've had a bath, now lying in bed. At this time every day is my own time. Women in this era are truly amazing, having to earn a living and take care of the children. Moreover, I am one of those people who never let myself stop, and even on rare days off, I fill my time to the brim.

46. 4生活所迫不容易啊！要是有点办法妈妈也不会带着孩子上班的，只有当过妈一个人带孩子才能理解背后的心酸。

46. It's not easy being forced by life! If there were any way, Mom wouldn't have to bring the child to work. Only those who have been a mother and taken care of a child alone can understand the heartache behind it.

47. 爱不是慈善，你不能就这样把它给别人。感情没有公式，没有原则，没有遵循的理由。但是人到死都还在坚持和追求。

47. Love is not charity; you cannot just give it away to others like that. Emotions have no formula, no principles, no reasons to follow. But people still hold on to and pursue it until the end of their lives.

48. 太阳有时会升起，但黑夜每天都会来临。

48. The sun sometimes rises, but darkness comes every day.

49. 路是人踩出来的，历史是人写出来的。人类的一举一动都在书写自己的历史。

49. Roads are made by people stepping on them, and history is written by people. Every action of human beings contributes to writing their own history.

50. 15带小孩真的是令人容易脾气变得很暴躁，看来我是在不适合自己带小孩，我实在没有耐心。

50. Taking care of a child is really easy to make one's temper flare up. It seems like I'm not suited for taking care of a child myself; I simply don't have the patience.

51. 34最好的婚姻不是你负责赚钱养家，我负责貌美如花，而是我懂你赚钱不易，你懂我带娃之苦，没有背叛，一起奔赴想要的生活。

51. The best marriage isn't about you being responsible for earning money to support the family while I take care of looking beautiful. Instead, it's about me understanding the difficulties of earning a living and you understanding the hardships of taking care of the child. There's no betrayal, and we together pursue the life we want.

52. 上班时，你努力工作是应该的，同事觉得下班你就可以休息了；下班时，你认真哄娃是应该的，家人觉得你白天并没有带孩子。只有你自己知道，你既要上班又要带娃，强打精神。

52. During working hours, it is appropriate for you to work hard, as your colleagues believe you should rest after work; and after work, it is your duty to diligently take care of the child, as your family thinks you didn't look after the child during the day. Only you know that you have to work and take care of the child simultaneously, and you have to force yourself to stay energetic.

53. 32右侧胸疼，自己心疼自己，大过年买药吃，心心生病，折腾了两天，一个人带两个孩子，心累，着急上火。

53. On the right side of the chest, feeling pain and worrying about myself, bought medicine to take during the Spring Festival. My heart felt sick, and it was a turmoil for two days. Taking care of two children on my own, I was exhausted and anxious, with a fire in my chest.

54. 26生活不止眼前的苟且，还有远方的苟且。还没活成自己想要的样子时，就已经要步入中年，变成30岁的黄脸婆了。也许是给自己的懒找借口，一个人带娃，实在精致不起来。怎么破？

54. Life is not just about the trivialities in front of us, but also about the trivialities in the distance. Before we have lived the life we want, we are already approaching middle age, becoming a 30-year-old woman with a yellowish face. Maybe it's an excuse for my own laziness, taking care of a child alone, I can't be very refined. How to break through this?

55. 2自己带孩子真的很辛苦，不过看到孩子笑脸觉得也值了

55. 2 Raising your own child is really hard, but seeing their smiling faces makes it all worthwhile.

56. 有些事情不是看到希望就坚持，而是看到希望就坚持。

56. Some things are not about holding on because you see hope, but about holding on just because you see hope.

57. 应该指出的是，云志曾经是世界上最好的。

57. It should be pointed out that Yunzhi was once the best in the world.

58. 14我好累，带孩子真的累！回来三天带了三个孩子，每一个都黏着我，陪玩游戏陪看动画片还陪吃饭！也是不知道我为什么突然这么受欢迎了

58. 14 I am so tired; taking care of kids is really exhausting! I've been back for three days and have been taking care of three kids. Each one of them is so attached to me, needing my company for video games, cartoons, and even meals! I'm also puzzled as to why I've suddenly become so popular.

59. 6怀孕之难，生子之痛，月子之仇，带娃之苦，不共戴天！

59. The difficulties of pregnancy, the pain of giving birth, the resentment of the postpartum period, and the hardship of child-rearing are unbearable and cannot be tolerated!

60. 15我一个人带孩子有时难免累的脾气大些，孩子既可以是天使，更会是恶魔，但终归她还是单纯的孩子，教育孩子中犯错并不可怕，要不断自省，及时改过！时刻警醒自己，用爱对待孩子的每一天！

60. 15 Sometimes, when I take care of my child alone, I can't help but get impatient and lose my temper. The child can be an angel, but also a devil. However, she is still a simple child. Making mistakes in educating a child is not可怕, but it is important to constantly reflect on ourselves and correct our mistakes in a timely manner! Always remind myself to treat every day with love towards the child!

61. 17一个人带孩子的辛苦只有自己知道，好像在他看来不就是带个孩子的感觉，心里有点失落的。

61. The hardship of raising a child alone is only known to oneself, as it seems to him that it's just about taking care of a child, with a touch of disappointment in his heart.

62. 我现在真的是焦虑不安，一个是孩子没人带，我一个人又要上班又要带娃，搞不定，二个是请人的话，我就真的是要过的极其寒酸，没有经济保障。

62. I am truly anxious and restless now. One is that there's no one to take care of the child, and I have to work and take care of the baby all by myself, which is overwhelming. The other is that if I hire someone, I would really have to live in extreme poverty with no economic security.

63. 艰难的生活不需要解释。只要你按时到达目的地，很少有人在乎你开的是奔驰还是拖拉机。

63. Hard life does not need explanation. As long as you arrive at your destination on time, few people care whether you're driving a Mercedes-Benz or a tractor.

64. 18带娃的日子虽然很累，但只觉得幸福幸福幸福。

64. The days of taking care of the baby are tiring, but I only feel happiness, happiness, and happiness.

65. 8在家带娃比上班累多了。打扫卫生处理家务，带孩子，吃喝拉撒，都得管，而且必须全情付出没有工资，付出了劳动付出了感情，没有社会地位，家庭地位也不高。不怎么打扮，也很少逛街，不是不想是没时间。

65. Taking care of kids at home is much more tiring than working. Cleaning, managing household chores, taking care of the children, feeding, dressing, and everything else, all need attention, and it must be done wholeheartedly without any pay. You put in labor and emotions, yet have no social status, and your position in the family is also not high. I don't dress up much and rarely go shopping, not because I don't want to but because I simply don't have the time.

66. 5带宝宝出去旅游差点累惨！睡一觉起来，浑身疼！

66. Taking the baby out for a trip almost exhausted me! After a nap, I was in pain all over my body!

67. 控制不住的情绪，大清早的凶孩子，孩子两眼红红地去上学。离开之后就特别特别地懊恼，觉得孩子真的是很可怜。我是个不称职的妈妈，一个又要带孩子做家务又要上班的近乎单身妈妈。

67. Unable to control my emotions, I was fierce with the child early in the morning, and the child went to school with red, teary eyes. After leaving, I felt incredibly regretful, thinking that the child is truly可怜. I am an incompetent mother, an almost single mother who has to take care of the child, do housework, and work.

68. 13休息在家带娃，真的是累的暴躁了，自己吃饭从来没这么下力过，香蕉鸡蛋饼我竟然吃了两个。

68. 13. Taking a break at home to take care of the baby is really exhausting, and I've never eaten as hard as I did with my meals. I even ate two banana and egg pancakes.